Deleting Social Media Changed My Life

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Matt Spear

Matt Spear

Күн бұрын

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@joemanicom3498
@joemanicom3498 9 ай бұрын
I met a girl the other day and she told me that she didn’t have any social media purely because she doesn’t want to have to deal with the pressure of liking everyones posts and trying to be cool by showing what she was. It blew me away and I actually just took a moment to think about it and I was instantly attracted to her. Definitely motivated me to focus on myself 💪
@diceslicethatrice
@diceslicethatrice 9 ай бұрын
Keep going my brother! 💪🏻💪🏻🔥
@Michael-calisthenics98
@Michael-calisthenics98 9 ай бұрын
Probably met a transgender 🤡🤦🏻‍♂️🤣
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 9 ай бұрын
I had dudes tell me I was lying as if it’s something soo unbelievable. Like what?? I get most people are probably on social media but don’t accuse someone of lying when it’s actually a healthy thing to do. It’s like saying “I don’t believe you don’t eat fast food cuz everyone does.” 😂
@linda.yuri999
@linda.yuri999 3 ай бұрын
@@FransceneJK98 😂❤️
@robertpuckettjr8994
@robertpuckettjr8994 3 ай бұрын
July 18th 2024 I officially delete Instagram for good
@elliemichel7560
@elliemichel7560 7 ай бұрын
“You will never hear someone say, my life got worse after I deleted social media.” I’ve learned it’s such a damn black hole honestly.
@ShanKayV
@ShanKayV 3 ай бұрын
So true!!
@Pluty80
@Pluty80 3 ай бұрын
Facts
@editbyaaryann
@editbyaaryann 2 ай бұрын
Bro splitted fact in CAPITAL letters
@chamboyette853
@chamboyette853 Ай бұрын
You're a woman who doesn't do social media? you got a number?
@sarahfoutz
@sarahfoutz Ай бұрын
The day you die, you won’t wish you spent more time on social media. The moment I realized that, the more social media became useless to me.
@stanzin11
@stanzin11 7 ай бұрын
You start living for other people, this line hit hard
@codytrithart6688
@codytrithart6688 3 ай бұрын
Deleted all of it and haven’t looked back since. Life is way better without “friends” and “likes”. When you stop living online, you start living in reality.
@East212
@East212 2 ай бұрын
and thats facts
@bradleyparker9233
@bradleyparker9233 Ай бұрын
You're still on here so you didn't delete all of it
@maxac8162
@maxac8162 20 күн бұрын
KZbin is nothig like IG, Facbook, snap
@matthew-x8r4b
@matthew-x8r4b 5 ай бұрын
Loneliness is the price to pay for improving yourself, and I don’t regret deleting social media one bit.
@tatibynati
@tatibynati 4 ай бұрын
You are so righ. I feel you have to be in the "zone" in order to be included, if not is like you never fit in.
@bradleyparker9233
@bradleyparker9233 Ай бұрын
You do realise youtube is social media
@Feny.Wellness
@Feny.Wellness 14 күн бұрын
​@@bradleyparker9233 KZbin is different because it helps you improve. It's more about educational contents and not everyone post on KZbin. It's not about posting photos, seeking for validation. KZbin is different.
@bradleyparker9233
@bradleyparker9233 14 күн бұрын
@@Feny.Wellness Yeah you keep telling yourself that.
@Zeh______________n
@Zeh______________n 8 ай бұрын
I like mistery, it’s been 7 months now without social media and I’m living my best life offline, happily…..I love this life🥺
@Carol.justina
@Carol.justina 8 ай бұрын
@nathanjohnson4721
@nathanjohnson4721 8 ай бұрын
Same
@stayingfitandfocused
@stayingfitandfocused 6 ай бұрын
Before it was weird to have it now it's weird if you don't have it. Social media is cancer
@linda.yuri999
@linda.yuri999 5 ай бұрын
😀❤
@Pluty80
@Pluty80 3 ай бұрын
Facts
@Gugugagazaaryu
@Gugugagazaaryu 5 ай бұрын
the joy of missing out >>>>>
@mechanichix
@mechanichix 5 ай бұрын
I deleted social media too. Now I am playing keyboard, reading, swimming, gardening
@DopeTechy
@DopeTechy Ай бұрын
Yah me too , same hobbies !
@bradleyparker9233
@bradleyparker9233 Ай бұрын
and spending time on youtube which is social media
@Hardawayfits
@Hardawayfits Ай бұрын
​@@bradleyparker9233 You do realize some people just have youtube for music, movies, shows and how to do stuff.
@bradleyparker9233
@bradleyparker9233 Ай бұрын
@@Hardawayfits All those things you just mentioned are forms of media.
@chocogrlie
@chocogrlie Ай бұрын
@@bradleyparker9233 they are media but it's not social media.
@elliemichel7560
@elliemichel7560 7 ай бұрын
I realized that my REAL friends call me and text me. My fake friends only talk to me through pictures! I literally deleted my instagram yesterday and I deleted my Facebook about two months ago.
@lailak482
@lailak482 4 ай бұрын
Yeah I just deleted it today
@brantfekete7812
@brantfekete7812 3 ай бұрын
You made a great decision and trust me you won’t regret it. I deleted all my social media a long time ago. One of the best decisions I have ever made and I ain’t never going back!
@ynicjay01
@ynicjay01 20 күн бұрын
@@brantfekete7812 just deactivated mine today how long yours been gone
@oldcreekroadpictures
@oldcreekroadpictures 6 ай бұрын
Been saying this for years that social media is destroying the fabric of everything a human being does. Good video
@tatibynati
@tatibynati 4 ай бұрын
An the most horrible part of it all, is that they make tons of money out of it
@Ilovecats4everrx2
@Ilovecats4everrx2 24 күн бұрын
BUT WE ARE SOCIAL ANIMALS
@dj_bubbs-TXQ
@dj_bubbs-TXQ 9 ай бұрын
It’s been 2 years since I left social media. I have no regrets at all. I got sick of people gossiping, drama, negativity & people faking their lives & friendships and sharing everything that should be private or craving attention with provocative pictures & selfies. A number of things I realised: 1. People who added me as “Friends” didn’t really care about me. They were “So called Friends” just to increase their friends list. 2. When people were going through their hardest times of anxiety, trauma and upset, I went out of my way & made an effort by helping & supporting them. But when I was going through my hardest times, including anxiety, trauma and stress. The people who I helped & supported never reached out to me to help or supported me even when I struggled. Everything has become one sided. 3. Certain posts or videos get blown out of proportion or completely taken out of context even if it’s nothing negative. 4. People lie about the amount of friends they REALLY have. Who in the REAL world has 100s or 1000s of friends WHO?? 5. Communication is very one sided. The same person had to make the first move to start a conversation as the other person doesn’t make an effort themselves or just can’t be bothered. 6. People lie about their lives, they only show the positive side of theirs lives which doesn’t show the real truth about the person. You can’t tell and don’t see if someone is REALLY depressed, upset, isolated, lonely, feeling suicidal or what’s actually going on in their actual lives. Even if people post how they really feel, people don’t always care or not interested. 7. It makes people fake and insecure. It’s not just school kids or teenagers in schools, colleges, universities or workplaces doing it, but adults as well are also being fake & insecure, especially managers. 8. People compare themselves to others just to get loads of “Likes” & comments. 9. Social media has increased loneliness, isolation, anxiety and depression which can be severe. 10. Due to social media and the increase in technology, it’s causing destruction & destroying peoples lives in the sense of their is no sense of unity, community, love and nobody wants to help each other. If they see someone doing something constructive and productive and they’re doing well in a community or society, people will laugh at them in an act of ignorance, and cannot wait for them to fall down. Social media is dividing people, not bringing people together. 11. Having a proper conversation or being real is considered not normal and people think it’s creepy. People don’t like having real conversations. 12. It’s made people to be narcissists, self entitlement, ignorant, prejudice and bullies. 13. People can say things or make comments that are abusive, racist, sexist, ignorant, prejudice, misogynist, homophobia, xenophobia, discrimination openly online, rather than to your face. 14. I have seen Boys & Girls take provocative, selfies / pictures to get attention from so called friends / strangers, sometimes in a negative way, for example, woman having their boobs / chests hanging out, body image, men & women showing off muscles, six pack & more. 15. With social media & the young generation with regards to friendships, people feel that if they add someone as friend request and they accept it, or meet someone & they click with them they automatically think that’s “friends for life” people need to realise that’s not how friendship REALLY works. Friendships are & should always be a 2-way street. Real friendships would make the effort to support & be there for each other through the good times, fun times, hard times, sad times, upsetting times & more. Communication & making an effort should be equal on both sides. Not the same person who always makes first contact. The other person should also make an effort too. We need to ALL learn the skill set of when we suffer from stress, anxiety, trauma, facing problems & more, that we should reach out to our friends or professionals for help & support, NOT social media. 16. Our young generation has grown up addicted. They have been addicted to mobile phones, alcohol, drugs, social media & more at a young age It’s very sad. I never had TikTok, Twitter or Instagram. Glad I didn’t sign up to any of them. Facebook was the only social media platform I had and it was recommended to me back when I was in my teens. I only use KZbin as I can look at interesting things like cooking recipes and motivation videos and music videos of festivals & concerts and more fun stuff. I enjoy going out in nature walks, bowling listening to music and learning new hobbies and watching movies. Since leaving it’s been the best decision of my life. I enjoy life more, I can now enjoy doing the things I do or want to try without being judged or told what to do without being made to feel guilty. I feel more happier and a massive weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I think if social media disappeared forever, I can guarantee people will spend REAL quality time with friends and family. People will know who their REAL friends are and that they will do things together and have a good time doing it. I also feel that people will have proper conversations and listen and engage. I do feel sorry for our young generation. The young generation is lost. There is so much talent and ideas in young people and they need to show that in a positive & constructive way. We can make change for the future. The young generation needs real positive role models to look up to, for them to succeed in life & beyond.
@shabanaparveen8918
@shabanaparveen8918 9 ай бұрын
So 👍 true
@joshuabuchanan1141
@joshuabuchanan1141 9 ай бұрын
Facts👏
@chaiaurkitabein
@chaiaurkitabein 8 ай бұрын
FACTS💯🤌🏽
@borntoclimb7116
@borntoclimb7116 8 ай бұрын
Im a guy who use not much social Media. During working and during my time in the nature, there is No Phone, No music. When i releax at home i watch some yt videos or documentarys, have no Twitter, no tiktok and dont play Games.
@nathanjohnson4721
@nathanjohnson4721 8 ай бұрын
Damn fact
@Therynk_
@Therynk_ 7 ай бұрын
Deleted all my accounts last week. Been online since I was 12… at 33 it was time to go.
@tecnikstr0be
@tecnikstr0be 4 ай бұрын
Deleted or deactivated?
@Pluty80
@Pluty80 3 ай бұрын
Damn u was a real social media head bro
@eriktorres8975
@eriktorres8975 Ай бұрын
Me too deleted the apps from my phone at 34. I would find myself opening Instagram mindlessly amd scrolling.
@alandouglasbr1839
@alandouglasbr1839 6 ай бұрын
I just deleted social media. They've been so bad for my mental health, I realized I had to cut it off entirely. I can say I am much more willing now to do other productive activities in my life and I feel much better.
@jdbruiser
@jdbruiser 6 ай бұрын
All you need is discipline or to make social media work for you. Sure deleting it eliminates the problems, but if you had more control then you'd be able to find a balance.
@BrandonWilliams-st8tb
@BrandonWilliams-st8tb 5 ай бұрын
SHUT UP​@@jdbruiser
@Christian_Batista
@Christian_Batista 2 ай бұрын
@@jdbruiser Social media is only useful to promote a product or service, or as a outlet to help people, if it’s not that it’s literally a waste of time and should be deleted, there are more important things in life.
@lukahmad5683
@lukahmad5683 9 ай бұрын
I deleted all my social media last week. It was weird that all my friends were shocked and they're all like "are you okay, do you need help?". Now, it open my eyes, I go out , I saw everyone was on their phone. Eating, walking, at the bus station, train station, even hangout with a lot of friends, all of them are on the phone scrolling, I can even see their thumb pushing up, every each one I saw. So strange. I only have KZbin accounts and I only watch what I searched, I don't use shorts scrolling and recommended videos anymore. Thank you for sharing this, Matt!
@AzeAlter
@AzeAlter 5 ай бұрын
it's a wild world
@Yazzer1844
@Yazzer1844 4 ай бұрын
I had a similar experience last week! 2 days into deleting my accounts - I noticed everyone in transit and walking the streets on their phones. Like no one even looking up. It’s been 8 days and my life feels new.
@brantfekete7812
@brantfekete7812 3 ай бұрын
@@Yazzer1844that’s ok I deleted all my social media as well one of the best decisions I ever made sure our smartphones have made a lot of things easier but they also have robbed our world and society of so much happiness as well and brought so much more stress that many people don’t even realize it!
@fromtheraq3898
@fromtheraq3898 7 ай бұрын
We were never meant to see thousands of peoples thoughts within a span of hours man. That in itself can influence your thoughts
@Haiokbai
@Haiokbai 2 ай бұрын
This!!! That’s very unnatural and unhealthy. Overworking and unnecessary
@gordanagrcic7179
@gordanagrcic7179 Ай бұрын
Spot on!
@Ilovecats4everrx2
@Ilovecats4everrx2 24 күн бұрын
interesting as heck
@ZKTheGreat
@ZKTheGreat 8 ай бұрын
It's been 13 months for me. I became so much happier and I don't miss it at all.
@joeshmoe8952
@joeshmoe8952 7 ай бұрын
I felt such a weight off my shoulders when I deleted my facebook. It was annoying me after a while so I deleted it. It has probably been 8 years now but I will never go back. My privacy is something I actually cherish now, I feel better being a mystery just like you said.
@mjlivetv8065
@mjlivetv8065 7 ай бұрын
I'm 100% ok with deleting Snapchat and Instagram but KZbin is something I don't ever even think about to delete it because of the knownledge you can gain due to high quality videos like your's. Thanks for these advices and the good content🙏.
@brantfekete7812
@brantfekete7812 3 ай бұрын
I agree with not deleting KZbin I also deleted all my other social media about 7-8 years ago but you know I personally don’t consider KZbin social media even if the general public says it is I guess KZbin is social media in a way but it feels so much different than the rest of the social media platforms
@ShanKayV
@ShanKayV 3 ай бұрын
YT also isnt something i watch on my phone, i only watch it on my TV or laptop when id otherwise be watching a TV show or something. 99% of the time im watching videos like this one which align with my values.
@Saygbo
@Saygbo Ай бұрын
No fr
@JaydenReacts81
@JaydenReacts81 4 ай бұрын
I just deleted mines after a mental breakdown 😭 thank you for this video
@DENGYOR
@DENGYOR Ай бұрын
How’s it been?
@whome6081
@whome6081 5 ай бұрын
I haven’t had social media for like 4 years and it’s so great! People are always in complete shock when I say that.
@shalxnda
@shalxnda 6 ай бұрын
I love watching these videos and reading the comments since I like knowing everyone's thoughts on social media.
@shadeismael7460
@shadeismael7460 5 ай бұрын
Its been a month now for me without social media , life feels so much better , now i’m more focused on my studies,my life, family , friends and inner peace
@Pluty80
@Pluty80 3 ай бұрын
Don’t relapse u just got off that devilish platforms
@puhatus
@puhatus 9 ай бұрын
Good point. Absolute most of that information we comsume on social media has zero value. It's just a Distraction.
@ChrisSonTalks
@ChrisSonTalks 9 ай бұрын
Certainly did for me as well. Your story about deleting Instagram inspired me to delete as well-all three of my accounts. Thanks for spreading a great message Matt!
@MattSpear99
@MattSpear99 9 ай бұрын
Let’s go Chris thank YOU
@MarkHeiskell
@MarkHeiskell 9 ай бұрын
@@MattSpear99I certainly enjoyed the way you explained how social media can be very obsessive cool bro. I have just recently commented on how I reach out to anybody that I have known for years. I’m also new here and I’m very happy that I have noticed you on KZbin. Hope to someday physically meet you in person which would be very nice one of these days.
@melisa8049
@melisa8049 2 ай бұрын
I’ve been thinking about quitting all my social media because I feel like I’ve wasted a lot of my time, and suddenly your video appeared on my feed… What I liked the most is that you justified every excuse we make when we don’t want to get rid of them. Honestly, you opened my mind… So it could be a sign to proceed, do it once, and free myself from this trap and start living like the human being I am. It’s unbelievable, but we have to learn to live again.
@LawNerdSoph
@LawNerdSoph 6 ай бұрын
I just deactivated my TikTok, Instagram and Facebook for alllll of the reasons you said in this video. Right on!
@derekthompson9317
@derekthompson9317 4 ай бұрын
I am been off social media expect youtube .don't miss it. This guy is so correct
@jamesarnold1123
@jamesarnold1123 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video Matt. I am so done with social media in 2024.
@abbys104
@abbys104 8 ай бұрын
👏🏼 👏🏼 I've been social media free for almost a year now. It's been great
@RamboQuellz
@RamboQuellz 9 ай бұрын
And I don't think people realize how much social media makes you very lustful of people you'll never have direct access to! People have parasocial relationships with people who don't even know they exist!
@intuitivelymagician2076
@intuitivelymagician2076 9 ай бұрын
my goal for 2024, reducing social media phone usage. replacing healthier habits, back to meditsting , journalling exercising, making side income, back to finishing college, getting my kife in order quitting my current job
@dosomestuff1949
@dosomestuff1949 9 ай бұрын
Why 2024? Start now
@intuitivelymagician2076
@intuitivelymagician2076 9 ай бұрын
@@dosomestuff1949 I meant to say starting early for 2024
@dosomestuff1949
@dosomestuff1949 9 ай бұрын
@@intuitivelymagician2076 ah okay
@Leewook2424
@Leewook2424 9 ай бұрын
هل فعلت ماقلته؟
@Ketankumargothi
@Ketankumargothi 8 ай бұрын
Literally Doing the Same here.. All the best Bro💪🏼
@rejhannnn
@rejhannnn 2 күн бұрын
0:51 this silent moment have so powerful message!
@ravimakwana992
@ravimakwana992 9 ай бұрын
Its been 4 months without a social media and I can tell anybody reading this that there are no negatives. The validation that I get from myself after accomplishing anything is more authentic and powerful than any validation i can get from anybody. Unless you have FOMO, its quite easy to do it, but you gotta learn that the happiness, fulfilment and excitment that you brew within is the true one and not the one that you get off from posting stuff online. You'll see it when you do it. Also, there's no point in seeing what everybody else is doing in their life if all thats gonna do is frustrate you up. If you really stop that and actually start enjoying your life you'll find yourself have that life too!
@tk-hf4oz
@tk-hf4oz 7 ай бұрын
Hell of a motivation speech. Thanks.
@theblessed5737
@theblessed5737 7 ай бұрын
Bro, this message really touched me🤝 REAL TRUTH!
@CesiraKelleher-im5nu
@CesiraKelleher-im5nu 4 ай бұрын
I am a Gen X er and the first part of my life no social media when I hit 35 got a phone and “it” started. Now at 56 more unhappy then ever with constant scrolling. This video really motivates me to end it. Thanks and you are correct so busy focusing on other people when we should really be focused on our own journey.
@Colesbaby1999
@Colesbaby1999 7 ай бұрын
I’mma be doing this real soon, the addiction is crazy
@lailak482
@lailak482 4 ай бұрын
Yeah I did for 3months my life was different more in real world I just deactivated it today again
@EjoysArtSpace29
@EjoysArtSpace29 3 ай бұрын
I searched for this kind of video. Yours popped out first on my screen. I got tired of posting my stuffs every day on social media. It's a lot of pressure. I decided to delete them but not YT. Thanks for the enlightenment.
@trainmaster1548
@trainmaster1548 9 ай бұрын
i’ve just deleted social media myself and i could not relate more to your video. to put it simple you read me like a book. this video has finally made me recognize what my problems were and how to improve myself, and i’d like to thank you for that.
@fhgwfggfbhuyt7563
@fhgwfggfbhuyt7563 4 ай бұрын
You are right when you said, brother, stay away from distractions to develop yourself. Thanks
@Indigo.422
@Indigo.422 9 ай бұрын
People always look at me crazy when I say I don’t have social media…the longest I’ve ever went was 18 months and I was so happy and content…I’ve been off since October and I don’t plan on going back, my friends think I’m crazy being that I have 21k+ on tiktok and was getting paid but none of that matters to me…I enjoy my high vibrations 😊✨
@Starr_lit
@Starr_lit 9 ай бұрын
That’s not crazy
@cobrazoid
@cobrazoid 2 ай бұрын
The real crazy ones are the ONES who think you are crazy. You are doing a good thing, I have used social medias before when I was in school, thought I was missing out stuff, but truth to be told, they served me no purpose, I wasn’t actually missing out on anything… they were all boring and just waste of my time. So, I have deleted them once I finished school. Couple years later my life gotten even way better without social medias. I can’t even comprehend that people who have social medias and say that they can’t live without social media with the straight face, it’s like nicotine craving, addiction, but electronically.
@samxia7008
@samxia7008 6 ай бұрын
LOVE this video Matt!! I burst out laughing so many times cuz you descriptions are spot on
@elliemichel7560
@elliemichel7560 7 ай бұрын
Love this so much. Thanks for sharing
@nikoo8035
@nikoo8035 9 ай бұрын
Your past video motivated me to delete Instagram (only social media I had). I am like 10 days into it and I am feeling so better. Guys just do it. Seek absolute freedom.
@traditionrider
@traditionrider 9 күн бұрын
Great advice… especially coming from a young man. I’m 69 years old and just learning how I have been seeking validation from fake friends using social media. You can’t be present if you are also focused on social media. Like you said, it’s an addiction.
@erickflores1617
@erickflores1617 Ай бұрын
you inspired me so much recently i haven't been using social media not as much as i was used too before and let me tell you that i been feeling way better now
@hypnotize107
@hypnotize107 9 ай бұрын
Bro you are speaking facts, listening from germany. I hope this message will reach more young people.
@masonduffy820
@masonduffy820 9 ай бұрын
Little late, but I just came across this video. This story is really uplifting to me as I was in a very similar situation in middle and high school where I was always brought down by my peers for not ‘fitting in’ or matching their vibe. I ended up tuning those people out and deleting Snapchat once and for all, and it changed me life. No longer was I unsatisfied or anxious over how I wasn’t fitting in with other people- that never ended up mattering. Now that I’m in college, I’m the happiest and most confident that I’ve ever been thanks to deleting social media and not getting tied up in what people thought of me!
@AdamsOsiris
@AdamsOsiris 4 ай бұрын
Hi matt this video was truly inspirational and had tipped me off the edge for good, Social media has brought me nothing but grief. As I've grown older I desire privacy and I don't wish to be searched or judged by other people that don't know me personally. A realisation that has sadly become more noticeable in this generation.
@ibrahimbayr1011
@ibrahimbayr1011 3 ай бұрын
Amazing speech brother, appreciate it
@anaestelagutierrez4319
@anaestelagutierrez4319 7 ай бұрын
Amen!!!! thank you for sharing this, it really helped
@Jxfunfg
@Jxfunfg 9 ай бұрын
I did delete social media last year n was so focused on school and passed, I opened it again n deleted today to get that same focus back❤❤
@doseofmyreality
@doseofmyreality 3 ай бұрын
I’ve been watching a lot of these types of videos lately but this one is by far my favorite that I’ve watched 🎯
@prophecyrevelations5653
@prophecyrevelations5653 5 ай бұрын
I didn't delete social media I just don't engage publicly anymore. I check DMs only about once a month. Not interested in people's random posts anymore. My DMs are DIRECT MESSAGES from people I like, I never view any timeline...cuz in my book, if u didn't say it to me directly...u didn't say it✌️
@davidmay-jr4zf
@davidmay-jr4zf 3 ай бұрын
So true mate, I'm going off as from today, thanks for your video
@polixenivardoulias4297
@polixenivardoulias4297 2 ай бұрын
awesome video... I have been working on quitting social media for two years now. Everything you just said makes 100% sense. I feel like I waste so much time on it when I could be more productive with something more important with my time. Thanks for the video my friend.
@maryannekaveckis9973
@maryannekaveckis9973 Ай бұрын
Dude is wise beyond his years!! Good for you! Learning this lesson early! Your life is only going to go up from here! 👏🏼👏🏼
@malikgray6615
@malikgray6615 9 ай бұрын
Been had my social media for wayyyy tooo long and I don’t even know why I still had them for this long it’s crazyyyy !!!! I just know I’m 2024 it’s gonna be HUGE changes for one I’m gonna start living more in the present
@TanmayChauhan-o1f
@TanmayChauhan-o1f 20 күн бұрын
Hey matt today is 1 Oct 2024 . I take oath to delete my insta until I achieve something in my life , thanks for guiding us
@Tecuexe415
@Tecuexe415 2 ай бұрын
Life is so much better without social media.
@MattE477
@MattE477 9 ай бұрын
I recently deleted social media two months ago and Matt you are so right
@sierrasedlock7013
@sierrasedlock7013 4 ай бұрын
This month is 6 months without social media for myself!
@ladybird491
@ladybird491 7 ай бұрын
My husband seeks validatin offline which is like his social media. Glad i bailed during early stage of pandemic. My screen time is less than 1 hour now and moat of the time it is watching videos I use every morning. I quite over a year ago. I deleted the apps as well. I go on vacation now and do not post the pics on social media and maybe one pic on my yt channel so my subscribers are okay. I also quit chatting with random strangers online who i dont see and didnt teach me anything. I would rather go out and meet people. If they cant see me off line then they are not a friend. The endless texting and only calling crap, I dont do anymore.
@Michael-fs1cw
@Michael-fs1cw 6 ай бұрын
Just pressed permanent delete on insta/facebook. Your videos helped me finally press and say goodbye. Thanks for the help. Now to go through the task of deleting gmail and cleaning up my digital footprint. Much love bro 💕
@gerardomercado2357
@gerardomercado2357 6 ай бұрын
Social Media turned into a popularity contest and its no longer about looking back on old photos
@lailak482
@lailak482 4 ай бұрын
Yes
@TezSaunderss
@TezSaunderss 29 күн бұрын
I’m deleting mine because I feel I’m always comparing my life to others and makes my life feel crappy and jealous. Plus no one really speaks to me on there
@11111mhmhmh
@11111mhmhmh 7 ай бұрын
nothing egotistical here, when someone is constantly staring at their phone all day and the other isn't, it's hard to relate to most people, especially considering how fried their brain has become, keep it up!
@MathewStephen_ForeverYoung
@MathewStephen_ForeverYoung 5 ай бұрын
I deleted Facebook last month and got rid of Instagram today. I do feel blank but not bad. It feels like exiting a loud pub with endless music. I am hoping to make the best of my short span of existence.
@wanjikufelistar7947
@wanjikufelistar7947 8 ай бұрын
Just deleted mine today, going strong and never looking back
@TroopsofDoom666
@TroopsofDoom666 7 ай бұрын
How it everything? I just deleted mine today 😅
@wanjikufelistar7947
@wanjikufelistar7947 7 ай бұрын
@@TroopsofDoom666 I love it here, it's so peaceful 😊😊, no pressure
@keith5273
@keith5273 14 күн бұрын
Dude you killed it! Well done
@anacruz7264
@anacruz7264 5 ай бұрын
social media is a waste of time. last year, i was at my lowest because i was a senior in college with alot of stuff to do. i had to focus on my assignments and graduate, but the same time i would care about another people and what they would do. i would compare myself with other people especially girls. Right now, i’m youtube videos about how to better myself and get a better job. Social media is just a distraction. I am 23 years old right now and I never really liked instagram cause everything is just super fake.
@khrystihh
@khrystihh 5 ай бұрын
omg i really resonated with this comment, i’m a senior graduating at 23 as well!! def taking this as a sign
@anacruz7264
@anacruz7264 5 ай бұрын
@@khrystihh social media just keeps getting worse and worse. you just gotta focus on yourself and grow. it’s so much hate and negativity out there’s
@lfy24964
@lfy24964 5 ай бұрын
Facts
@lfy24964
@lfy24964 5 ай бұрын
I don’t have social media either
@alenaadamkova5322
@alenaadamkova5322 5 ай бұрын
The thing is if people would be allowed to use it only 2 hours a day, the content would be much better quality, more engaging, less spaming. Less spaming in videos, less desiformation and less spaming in comments.
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 9 ай бұрын
I deleted my socials last year and I feel soooo much better!!! More time for me, my hobbies, my family and friends. My stress levels went down big time which actually helped me lose weight cuz high cortisol levels prevents weight loss. However, KZbin on the other hand 😂 I still spend too much time on that. But now that I’m off socials, I have days when I even wanna turn my phone off all day and night. I realized I get so stressed out when I wake up and see tons of messages and notifications on my phone. It feels better putting my phone on airplane mode and no wifi. No messages when I wake up.
@MrBucketlist
@MrBucketlist 5 ай бұрын
Great heartfelt video.
@joshy1234_5
@joshy1234_5 3 ай бұрын
i deleted my social media way back 2021 and now its been 3years and im still alive and happy in life
@marymensah2106
@marymensah2106 3 ай бұрын
I deactivated my accounts and deleted the apps as well. So happy I did. Amazing video, thank you for posting this. God bless you
@omarirayane4267
@omarirayane4267 2 ай бұрын
Best way to live is out of comparison and away from the addiction of social media
@madkittyjoey70
@madkittyjoey70 8 ай бұрын
Great video and a funny one too. I left Facebook in 2022, but came back in late 2023. After getting nothing but messages from random guys asking me where I lived and if I was married, I decided to leave for good. I don't have a TikTok or Snapchat, but am getting ready to leave Instagram. I don't have anything more to say on there that's special.
@Amberhope835
@Amberhope835 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊 This was your first video i watched and that was a confirmation for me that when i deleted all my pathetic social medias few years ago was the absolute best thing to do.
@MichaelElam2
@MichaelElam2 9 ай бұрын
Bro you funny 😂, but yeah I feel you on the disappearing and reinventing yourself part
@ValerieMonae
@ValerieMonae 6 ай бұрын
Absolutely love this video ! Free from the addiction. Thanks for this !
@Chriscarper
@Chriscarper 7 ай бұрын
Thank you mate, done it myself today, its something I've been thinking of doing for a long time, permanently deleted today 👍
@TeresaMichelle1970
@TeresaMichelle1970 8 ай бұрын
I quit ALL social media. Never looking back
@jeremyleary411
@jeremyleary411 9 ай бұрын
I totally agree and relate to the courtside seats story. Thanks so much for sharing your story because that helps a lot with my own life!
@raeesah8050
@raeesah8050 8 ай бұрын
same here, it’s really sad when you think back to times in your life where it has been the same situation as the courtside seats story 😭
@antoinemouthon6501
@antoinemouthon6501 9 ай бұрын
Hello Matt! I really like your video. I haven't deleted my social media but I've been setting methods to decrease the time I spend on it. For example, I put the social media apps on the 2nd page of my home screen so I feel less tempted to open them up, and it worked. I've never really considered deleting though because I like to see what my close friends are up to without feeling too insecure.
@Kenif_18
@Kenif_18 3 ай бұрын
Not even bro, your focus in these days is a super power! I've noticed that since getting off those apps. Legit, Killing it at work with productivity. Best decision I ever made.
@Tommy_Univerxse
@Tommy_Univerxse 9 ай бұрын
Im so inspired by this. Im really struggling here with it, looking forward to this change
@krzysiuup
@krzysiuup 9 ай бұрын
I love that feeling, when I'm watching your videos and can relate to all this benefits you are talking about ❤
@feryelzoghlami3832
@feryelzoghlami3832 9 ай бұрын
so i used to have social media (i had it bc i was following the crowd aka my friends have it so why dont i used it too) anyway i didnt care less ab posting anything bc i was worried to post a stupid picture. but the sad thing is like u said u start to waste ur time and u compare urself to others too much. everytime i look at my friends stories i feel lonely (they are not acc my friendd we were just classmates.) i always be like " why i dont go out with ppl like that?" and when i saw these delete social media vids i did it and now i feel way better
@sabirh5046
@sabirh5046 9 күн бұрын
Social media is a stress machine
@samgant2289
@samgant2289 3 ай бұрын
I came off social media in 2020 through the pandemic. I do not regret coming off social media. I like living off the grid and above all living a normal life. I grew up before social media took off and I coped before then and I'm coping now. Social media is poisonous disease that is ruining young lives.
@octavoss
@octavoss 2 ай бұрын
Best educational video i watched about brain health… Honestly… I will bookmark this vid cause it’s gold
@O_Scud
@O_Scud 7 ай бұрын
I just put app limits on my phone. Put a 1hr limit for all my socials combined, not 1hr per app. I’ve been walking by myself, I’ve been reading more, I’ve been exercising more, I’ve been cooking more. I enjoy my solitude and it’s been so liberating.
@annaliseoliver1693
@annaliseoliver1693 9 ай бұрын
Love this video!!! Love your brutal honesty. Straight to the point. Subscribed!
@LiteraryStoner
@LiteraryStoner Ай бұрын
I recently deleted my tiktok, instagram and twitter and feel SO much better already! I regret absolutely nothing.
@MadDog-65
@MadDog-65 5 ай бұрын
Hell yes life is better without it!! I am never going back. . Love this vid.
@Romeforever400
@Romeforever400 9 ай бұрын
This guy is amazing keep going I wish I can talk to him and meet him in person Im from London i use social media everyday but not 24/7 i just focus on what others are doing to much on social and real life to much I think in 2024 I’m be the best version of me
@MattSpear99
@MattSpear99 9 ай бұрын
London meet up one day 🤔
@Romeforever400
@Romeforever400 9 ай бұрын
@@MattSpear99 yeah I don’t know how but yeah
@Drasco
@Drasco 9 ай бұрын
@@MattSpear99 ill be there
@saleebaan84
@saleebaan84 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for speaking about this issue. I have deleted all my social media accounts. Today when I woke up it was peaceful.
@SenyoritaStoic
@SenyoritaStoic 4 ай бұрын
Nice video, man! Keep it up!
@kingmtres
@kingmtres 4 ай бұрын
I’ve been going back and forth between having social media for years now and now all I want is to do is focus on myself so I can figure out what I want. I’m 32 and I want to completely disconnect from this energy. I do want to have a KZbin eventually but it stops today.
@luismas4612
@luismas4612 8 ай бұрын
Thanks man. I’m thinking about this a lot. Stopped using Facebook already and IG is next.
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