Maura Higgins EXCLUSIVE: He Blamed Me for the Assault!

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[@JayaShay]

You'll be at 200,000 before you know it. Got so much from this talk. Paul you are the finest x

[@Eire68]

@@WeNeedToTalk-Podcast great podcast so glad I discovered you

[@libbygough4741]

Paul is the most refreshing interviewer.. kind, respectful and remains professional.

[@Paker12123]

You know hed make a good counsellor or got alot of it .. never even seen this fella before but he seems to have a great way with words so far or alot of thought behind it .. but his pod cast greatly depends on the guest … nobody talked back then .. ye kept shit to ur self … Your not the only 1 . thst was just ireland except for the english / u had a deaf teacher that had ocd or touch of autism…

[@grownupsthepodcast]

Paul saying 'the negative self talk needs to stop' is actually so sweet! Often we don't even realise we're doing it, so nice to look out for each other

[@Natxsxbbe93]

Wow, I don't think I've ever watched something on KZbin that was longer than 30mins. Absolutely gripped for 2 hrs, I could watch it again! what an amazing, honest, raw interview! Massive respect for Maura ❤

[@rangochu2713]

Do some cleaning while you’re listening to podcasts! This is what I do :)

[@holliecharlottie]

Completely agree!! I loved this!

[@alaynakhan6930]

@@rangochu2713i like to sit and watch the face expressions

[@axenaxo6304]

​@@alaynakhan6930I agree sometimes you need something in the back to listen to but when you see their facial expressions it hits different

[@magdalenadeighan7052]

Same. Loved it

[@kerribyrne2410]

Maura is so wonderful and authentic. As an Irish woman in her 30s I am so self critical and don’t notice until I am told by others, similar to this. It was like listening to a therapy session. She deserves all the positivity that comes her way. Well done, Paul. Amazing listen!

[@doseyjosey1010]

when he stopped her and mentioned her self criticism, I genuinely said outloud... most Irish women(and men) will always slag themselves off first, before someone else can! I was on call with a friend earlier, talking about wanting to join the gym but I'm a "lazy, greedy fecker"... its definitely an Irish thing!

[@kerribyrne2410]

definitely a defensive thing.. I’ll get there before they can comment on me. Wouldn’t have a clue how to change that and the even trying the affirmations would just give us an excuse to say.. you’re shite at them too 😂

[@Amyscreativestudio]

@@kerribyrne2410This is what I took away from that, she tries to say first the things that she thinks people are thinking to show them that she is self aware.

[@kellystuart317]

😊

[@suzanneohare424]

I agree 100%! Superb interview, love Maura ❤

[@arthuritis4503]

I went to the same secondary school as Maura. To say it was behind the times is an understatement. Good girl Maura, you're mighty ❤❤❤

[@hayleyy31]

Who would have thought Maura had been through such traumatic things in her life. She hides it very well. Glad she’s spoken and talked about her life. I’m sure she feels better for it. What a brave and strong woman. Couldn’t stop watching. Paul has such a way about him too. Great interview

[@AlishaC-ff3lp]

She never doesn’t podcasts too. Only ones she’s ever done was part of LI promo contract. She definitely felt safe to talk to Paul. These episodes are like therapy. Love Maura and Paul is Best podcast host

[@netfilmbinger]

😅

[@gemmaparker8052]

You can tell she's a genuine soul. Anyone who doesn't see that, has their OWN demons that they project onto her likely out of envy, jealousy or their own insecurities. Maura gave me nothing but confident, vibrant, real vibes. So I feel for her and what she's had to go through when people seem to just misunderstand her.

[@xoxo9354]

😅😅😅😅😅 wat a lot of shite u jus wrote.. she's got alot of demons rotten souls

[@LynseyTurnbull]

Wow, I liked Maura before, but I love her even more now. Huge credit to her for being so honest and vulnerable. Paul, as always, was brilliant at making his guest feel so comfortable!

[@beauandarrowfilms]

2mins in and I already know this is pure gold. Love her. Bless her! - nearly 10 mins in and RELATABLE. When someone speaks their truth it is so healing and liberating for those of us still finding strength in our voice.

[@coco3177]

She’s so grounded despite her fame! Her strong connections to her family & friends & her resilience have served her well. Continued sucess@ Maurahiggins

[@irisdanagher]

She is just the best.

[@beyondthedressingtable]

Paul you provide such a beautiful safe space to allow people to talk and let go of so much built up fear, anger, sadness and pain. Maura thank you for being so honest and open , what a great watch xxx

[@john-josephHart]

I have to say, it was an absolute delight. Maura's personality shines through in this episode, and her humor is both refreshing and relatable. She has this incredible ability to make serious topics feel accessible and engaging, which I found really inspiring. What struck me the most was how genuine Maura comes across. From the moment she starts speaking, you can tell that she's not just putting it all on, she's sharing her true self and Her stories and insights are not only entertaining but also resonate on a personal level, making you feel connected to her journey. It's clear that she has a big heart, and her endearing nature makes the podcast an amazing to listen watch. Overall, this episode has only reinforced my admiration for Maura Higgins. She’s funny, inspiring, and incredibly genuine x x

[@msdunphy9516]

This man is unbelievable. His energy and emotional intelligence is stunning ❤

[@jmk1962]

He's a therapist so should be emphatic.

[@charlouiseh]

Wow! Paul you have the purest, most beautiful soul. The way you articulate everything you say is extremely powerful and a gift to anyone receiving it. I can't get over Maura's strength, i'm in awe. What an incredible conversation.

[@kikid1121]

Paul's feedback to Maura at the end almost bought me to tears... Brilliant podcast as ever

[@01jzzy]

A refreshing interview, I can identify with her as an irish person growing up in rural Ireland . The school, the neighbourhood and the expectations put on you by family. All so damaging, that you believe you are not worthy. Talk therapy helped me to see this and shift my perspective of self. You simply want to run from it all as if you don’t comply, you don’t fit in and become alienated. It’s better to stand out than accept societies narrow vision of life!! Good for you Maura, do what makes you happy!!💯💯💯💯💯💯❤️

[@MsCj109]

Went to a small school like her, 32 pupils in both rooms in a rural area. Teacher had too much power. Can lead to bullying.

[@alspenlow6399]

As a 48 year old man,don't really know a whole lot about Maura but my God she's an absolute gem,from a fellow Irish person keep doing what you're doing Maura,doing Ireland proud🇮🇪♥️

[@DarrenMac-yk2gd]

😂😂

[@Kristina-sq5pu]

I love how Paul approaches his talks, respectful, mindful, comforting.

[@ads13924]

Maura was my favourite love islander of all time. Just absolutely un apologetically herself. I love it

[@patriciam.1204]

We cannot change what fate dishes out, when your time is here nothing will change that. Maura it was not your fault your friend died, it took me 50 years to stop blaming myself for something similar. Great interview. Xxx

[@Mayhartz]

Thank you Maura for being so open and vulnerable. And Thank you for giving her a safe space to do so.

[@LoftisTresca]

Maura is so strong and seeing her this vulnerable only makes her appear that much stronger. This alone was brave and there is a deeper courage she was able to meet within herself doing this, potentially. It is definitely how it appeared to me. Also major credit due to the interviewer, Paul, for amazing questions/ guiding of the conversation and creating a safe space.

[@hassnatahmad5339]

True, especially after sharing emotions wasn’t instilled in her as a child.

[@Lorglitz]

This interview helped me. I feel like I was on the journey of how I speak about myself, trust issues, relocating….. SUCH A GOOD INTERVIEW! Maura is a strong woman & deserves all the success

[@afritales1]

What an incredible man Paul is. I have followed him since Married at First Sight years back and he has consistently shown up as an emotionally intelligent man with strong morals and principles, and is a person I greatly admire and often listen to. Your response to Maura's horrendous experience in the taxi was deeply comforting and appreciated, as a lot of men, in my experience would never respond that way, and either trivialise the incident, dismiss it, or blame the woman. It is refreshing and touching to hear the empathy you showed when she told her story. This gives me hope that I will find a great man one day with strong principles, who will protect me. Also Maura is a very resilient woman. I will forever remember this episode in particular. Thank you so much for this.

[@venitatouch2530]

such a respectful and great interviewer. can definitely feel the vulnerability and authenticity

[@ca1.1um]

Maura is the ultimate love island bomb shell. Thoroughly enjoyed seeing her open up like this 👑👏🏻

[@jgsm91]

Used to think Maura was (standoffish) and proud. After watching this, I would say ‘I have a slight soft spot for her now’ and that she’s “highly intelligent” and not as egotistic as I first thought. Naturally beautiful woman as well 🌹

[@sourceinsights]

I attended a catholic primary in London, my experience is similar & has haunted me for years; the abuse was atrocious. To this day i don't know why i was never removed from that environment.

[@Youokhun]

It was just so accepted. Don’t know if you’ve seen Cillian Murphy’s new movie, based on a book - those Magdalene laundries were in Ireland until the late 90s. It’s mind boggling what is just allowed and accepted by a society.

[@laurenleeden136]

I love her deeply. From the show to just following her on socials. I TINK she’s the best. ❤️ needed the grief discussion today as well. Thank you both!

[@alexmiller6698]

i lost my best friend just over a year ago, and my dad a year before that. if it weren’t for my best friend i wouldn’t have survived losing my dad. he held me up single-handedly and nobody believed in me the way he did. Even through having lost both my parents, his death was one of the hardest things of my life. we hated the bullshit of women and men not being friends. He was my brother and i love him still. always will. you can’t keep blaming yourself it eats you up inside xx

[@brianlongobardi2929]

Wow so brave of Maura to be so vulnerable - we need Paul on Irish telly to help us heal as a country I think this interview speaks to a lot of us ❤️

[@pearlmdluli5520]

Only got introduced to Paul through MAFSUK a couple of weeks ago. I had never seen Maura or any episode of Love Island before... but I'm glad I watched this episode. So incredibly healing and inspirational. I love the wisdom and grace that Paul exudes throughout this interview. Onwards and upwards 🙌 Thank you for this podcast. Love, from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️

[@ELR921j]

I love Maura-always found her to be so funny and down to earth. Also shout out to her friend from Ireland who saved her. Love Paul being so caring and a safe space for her to talk about all of this

[@christinec4156]

Coming from an Irish girl the slagging ourselves & others is real it's called having the craic & banter, Ireland is known for dark humour & comedy & it's something that's ingrained in our society, I believe if I'm honest Irish people use humour as a cover up so much trauma has happend in our little country(catholic church) I see more wounded souls, I resonate with maura so much just wish I had her strength & resilience something I'm working on at the minute to not give a shit while also giving a shit with the right people, like maura the people that are there for you in all your messy, beautiful life situations that stick around & support you they deserve your energy, love & time what I've learned is you're left with feck all but quantity doesn't matter quality does that wins everytime, beautiful interaction between you both & I'm sure you both learned alot from one another ❤️

[@miriamm5057]

Couldn't agree more in all your points.

[@Youokhun]

It’s even how we speak English, we are self deprecating like always expecting someone to say no or for us to be bothering someone so we apologise. I don’t notice until I’m speaking to non Irish people and they’re shocked at how self deprecating our English is. For example the You wouldn’t want to….. would you?” We are setting up that the other person wouldn’t want to already

[@verali164]

​@@YouokhunWe speak hibernian English.

[@Youokhun]

@@verali164 yes we do, and how it evolved is very self deprecating. We are always anticipating rejection, apparently this is common in post colonial societies who were forced to switch languages

[@verali164]

@Youokhun Another one on the bandwagon, change the tune..

[@carinabolstad9595]

what a great person she is! I have so much respect for her and how strong she is 🥰 I could listen to Paul for hours too, such a smart and respectful man

[@msdunphy9516]

This is a very healing interview for Maura

[@jesstallents9097]

One of the best interviews I've watched in a long time ! The most real and resilient woman ... this is the sort of "influence " the younger generation of girls need to aspire to! Xx Love ❤

[@jena5352]

Paul is one of the most professional, empathetic and nonjudgmental interviewers out there. Big props to him 🙌🏾

[@loisorr8294]

In absolute floods about her bestie 😭 god love her 💖 only half way through & so engrossed in this amazing womans story ♥️

[@nicolagolding3281]

Wow this was good 👍 learning so much. I got up this morning, feeling a bit depressed but after listening to this man, I am so grateful . I have two amazing children family that loves me. I haven't got a man but I am so love ❤❤❤

[@rachaeladams4469]

What a unique lady . Carrying on being you . The right man will come along . You’ve never met a real man yet who can handle a strong independent woman . Someone will be lucky to have you xx not only stunning but brains and a wonderful sense of humour xx wish you all the best for your future Maura xxx

[@brionyjohannah790]

I’ve always loved Maura, never taken herself too seriously and seems so down to earth! She really opened up here ❤

[@bouncyshak]

Between how he treated Arabella on All Stars and his seeming coercion of Maura into a relationship followed by degradation after the breakup, Chris Taylor really comes off as a fake 'nice guy' who feels entitled to and then hates women when they don't comply.

[@TigerBoyX15]

I think he is g.a.y

[@TigerBoyX15]

CT is on the other bus..I think..

[@jasminebranch3007]

Yes! I was shocked when I saw Chris Taylor on All Stars. Then his rambling on the Love Island podcast this year, not letting others get a word in. Also shirtless on a podcast with guests. Why??? I really hope LI producers revise how they do things, and show how beautiful people like Maura and Mimii are. I’m glad Maura got the LI USA gig with Ariana.💓

[@jillsgalvin5121]

Maura is a breath of fresh air. Really enjoyed this interview. Paul is a total vibe 🥰

[@angelinabaez1841]

I just loved this so much. Maura is even more beautiful on the inside than she is on the outside. What a beautiful story and there’s so much power in vulnerability. I hope this was the catalyst for her to start changing her narrative about herself and to work through her trauma. Love Maura so much!! 🤍

[@loriann5988]

Love that she doesn’t need a man. Would love a husband but doesn’t NEED one. I’m so with her. We don’t need men to make us happy or fulfill our life. ❤

[@PeaceMatters5]

So much respect for her being so vulnerable, especially about SA, that's so difficult 😢❤

[@sooticablue1664]

Best channel on KZbin! I’m not trying to put other channels down but I’m tired of the usual self congratulatory ‘I’ll interview you then you interview me age we can talk about our anxiety’ - this is real! I absolutely adore Maura and Paul is no non judgmental and accepting and encouraging- it’s actually made me cry a few times as it’s helping me accept myself. This channel and the work being done is so important. It’s really made me emotional because i consider myself a failure abbé a train wreck and yet I’m watching so much kindness and understanding, I can’t explain but it’s helping me so much more than being told to get a morning routine and to follow some five minute brain hack. This honestly is the best channel I’ve come across ever. ❤

[@juliebyers7136]

I could listen to you all day Maura! Love your accent!!! What a strong lady you are too :)

[@thebutterflyjourney33]

One of the best podcasts I’ve ever listened to. Love Paul and Maura ❤

[@rochellebrant]

What a fantastic woman, beautiful inside and out!! So much respect. Thank you for sharing so much with us Maura

[@Dreamerz1234]

Really liked how raw and honest she was. Could not stop watching, really good interview. So nice to Maura open up and be vulnerable.

[@annemarieelton2069]

We love Maura & as fellow Irish from Dublin It was a pleasure to meet her when she came to our local shopping centre at Liffey Valley Her humour honesty & beauty makes her a wonderful beautiful woman 💖💖

[@luisarocchetto38]

This changed my life…in so many ways then I could imagine ❤️

[@teresamalone8978]

Maura was the funniest woman on that show. She should have won, her personality is amazing. She is so beautiful

[@snowrose8483]

This was an incredible episode. Kudos to you Paul for asking such great questions and to Maura for being so honest, brave and unapologetically herself. Maura you’re such a strong woman. X

[@lp9219]

Maura has the bravery that is like a breath of fresh air. Great episode

[@MatsaA-n5x]

I want to give her a massive hug and let her know she is so strong. ❤❤❤

[@kirsty2861]

Paul is just such an incredible man inside and out. Loved this chat and getting to know maura better ❤

[@lesleypilkington9788]

I really enjoyed listening to this switched straight on when I heard Maura was on, she’s so private and low key, and doesn’t give a f**k. Never heard her speak about anything like that before. Great podcast

[@madalinaerimia9219]

I didn’t know her, but honestly I really needed to hear her tonight ☺️she is absolutely gorgeous and confident and vulnerable all 3 in 1 ❤️

[@shirleyhenderson9978]

Amazing in depth interview , didn’t even get up to put the light on ,,,I was glued to the sofa in the dark ,brilliant insight into Maura’s life ,thanx for opening up to Paul’s intriguing questions ,hope you learnt a lot about yourself 🌺

[@tess7068]

These interviews are the only thing that have had my genuine interest on KZbin. I feel like I learn so much from these and surprised how much I can relate to these celebrities. Can't wait for the next guest ❤

[@Officialauratools]

This is the first time I haven’t put a video on 1.5 speed. Oh Maura, what an incredible woman

[@ZairaWalker]

Paul is the most refreshing interviewer.. kind, respectful and remains professional.

[@KeeHart]

Shocked to hear about her primary school, I grew up half an hour from her at the same time as her and my schooling was total opposite, never had any idea this was happening down the road.

[@boxingstraighttalk6599]

Did she get bummed?

[@shooanna1]

@@boxingstraighttalk6599Have you been bummed, it seems like it’s on your mind?

[@Meisachicken22]

@@boxingstraighttalk6599 wtf is wrong with u! U disgrace

[@isobelcullen7075]

Is her school still open do you know? Absolutely appalling!

[@janicemcauliffe9490]

Small country schools

[@edelomahony1669]

That teacher should be arrested even now for child abuse.

[@DaynaJaxx]

he’s dead

[@shirleycarroll1698]

Must be shitting himself

[@ct3114]

Unfortunately some of the teachers were like that in that generation and even worst the generation before.

[@isobelcullen7075]

Agreed!!!

[@Youokhun]

Don’t know if you’re Irish or not, but there was a lot of teachers in that era who did this. Probably until the mid-late 2000s. Some of us had a ruler slap on the hand if we spoke Irish wrong, or on the back of the leg. Mainly from the nuns or priests that worked as teachers without formal education themselves

[@bridgett7128]

Love Maura🫶 she’s such a girl boss and her honest side is so refreshing

[@emilylopez9192]

I love this woman, so raw, strong &, herself with no apologies! Can’t wait to see the things that she does in the future ❤

[@ritanevin8920]

How Wonderful of you Maura to open up and if you were to open up I am glad it was to Paul he is such a wonderful Therapist watch him on all his shows 👏👏 MAURA many girls compare to you and hopefully they will talk to someone to help them out you are an Inspiration to a lot of girls hope your life journey gets better 😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nataliealexandra9063]

Wow, what an interview. Was gripped.

[@gaynorross9783]

65 year old and I think this was brilliant

[@35halton]

I have Loved Maura since she rocked into that Love Island Villa in 2019.. (the minute I heard that accent I was behind her 110%) I loved the fiery, strong, independent, beautiful hard working woman she is…she’s a role model to all young girls out there but I absolutely loved seeing her more sensitive honest side here! I love how she handles the awful negative comments made about her and the presumptions made about her and every man she comes in contact with… And I’m also appalled at the disgusting comments women make about her what happened to women building each other up… and being genuinely supportive and happy for her she’s worked her butt off for what she has and good luck to her . Speak about others how you would like your Children spoke about 💚🇮🇪

[@niloidean]

Maura, loved your honesty. Loved listening to you. What a wonderful woman❤

[@TigerBoyX15]

She needs to not allow Players like the latest guy..to take advantage...her males ..linked to..are not ones I would touch with a bargepole....or they are Fake for Publicity..either way its not nit a good look..Be Exclusive..to attract better and Real..

[@AbbeyRachelBeth]

Paul, this is a whole new level of podcast. This was so so good. ❤️

[@sarahmurtagh770]

What a great podcast!! Love maura thank you paul for this ❤

[@ajwilliams8260]

Loved this pod... A fantastic theraputic convo... Maura is truely a beautiful woman on the outside and even more on the inner... and i can listen to Pauls calm smooth voice every minute of the day.. Very talented educated man x

[@T28D]

What a superstar Maura is! ❤ Love love love this podcast! Even if the subject isn’t one you relate to, there is soooo much you can learn. Paul is such a beautiful chilled teacher with an amazing way of articulating himself 👏🏾

[@carolinemcivor7007]

Great podcast. Paul is absolutely amazing, love listening to him. Love Maura, she's so honest and likeable

[@emmaodonohoe9371]

Something tells me you too are guna be friends after this, Wonderful and very honest conversation between two really great ‘Lads’(Maura will get it’) Maura your home life resonates a lot, you spoke very respectfully,Much love from Tipperary ❤

[@mariegleeson-g3p]

Great interview❤ well done Maura on being open and honest. Paul she trusted you ,great interviewer ,keep up the good work 😊😊 love from Ireland❤❤

[@georgiak7497]

This is hands down thee best podcast. It’s just saw and raw and relatable. Every one of them is like therapy as well as fascinating. I resonate so much with Maura’s and Lauren’s and it’s helped me in so many ways 😢❤

[@jmk1962]

Paul is a therapist, he knows the questions to ask.

[@Sharon-se9tp]

Maura was so honest, loved this interview ❤

[@shannonjade6412]

Wow this is incredible. Paul you are something special the way you create your videos the way there are pauses to explain and go further into the issues raised in the videos, amazing thank you.

[@deirdremacnamara9885]

Fabulous Interview. I see so much of myself in her when I was younger

[@melissaa2580]

We love you Maura !!! ❤ so proud of you for coming on here and being vulnerable

[@CrystalGulliver1]

This is real life therapy! Love Paul and Maura ♥️

[@laceydavidge1249]

Love Maura, it's sad she felt like this 😢 good for her speaking, so honestly ❤

[@JaniceSchembri]

You Maura, you are such a good person, honestly never thought you went through so much ... virtual hug to you

[@NAjq5db]

ahhhh bloody love maura and all the women from her season. Such an incredible display of sisterhood and strong self esteem

[@louisecrouch850]

Wow I loved this interview. Maura is a beautiful warrior. Good luck in l'm a celebrity get me out of here ❤

[@JasRocks735]

I’m so glad she did this interview cuz I thought she was living the dream yet she was living a nightmare 💔 so happy she good now

[@FionaDonovan-um9uo]

She is great strong and resilient. Loved this interview.

[@charlottetdondon.4013]

Loved this. Maura is such a genuine person, and I feel Paul allowed her to just talk❤

[@mads6773]

you’re a great podcast host, always listening and allowing the guest time to speak. so refreshing compared to other podcasts

[@bubblefun4564]

She’s an incredible woman. What an amazing interview but also the takeaways are incredible . Thank you ❤❤

[@phylliewilly]

This was so illuminating. I learned so much for myself and about Maura. Thank you Paul ❤

[@hassnatahmad5339]

Please do me a favour and consider to have more former UK Love Island contestants on your show! Love Island is very popular in the UK and we always got behind the contestants on it. We would love to see an in-depth interview about their lives and what made them into the people they are today.

[@hassnatahmad5339]

Please do me a favour and consider to have more former UK Love Island contestants on your show! Love Island is very popular in the UK and we always got behind the contestants on it. We would love to see an in-depth interview about their lives and what made them into the people they are today.

[@tanyadhlamz]

So much respect for her ❤