Maya did WHAT for her birthday!?! | Wine About It

[@StopVoice]

“ that sucks cause when you don’t drink people will think your pregnant “ “ but if I don’t drink there just going to be like … the meds “ - QT Cinderella You’re both wonderful

[@hiphopchelsey]

“I came out of the womb and I went-I’m not yours” that was so funny😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@jamesanderton8817]

For real, I almost had a full spit take from it.

[@MrAor2988]

😂that was unexpected and she’s quick with these things. QT funny as hell

[@verfuncht]

What got me was “It’s sad because you don’t drink and they’re like ‘Oh, Maya’s pregnant!’; I don’t drink, they’re like ‘The meds’”

[@frogperhapsyes6152]

This podcast has done the best job of anything I've ever seen at normalising therapy

[@allisonharris357]

dude yes and just talking about mental health like it doesn’t make you crazy i love it

[@julius333333]

qt in general

[@moocat800]

I also really enjoy how it shows the phases and purposes of therapy over time.

[@tink6225]

it's kinda absurd cuz prior to this I was struggling horribly with ocd & dissociating and after seeing how similar QT's mental state is to mine, I've signed myself up for therapy again😂

[@puczifff]

trueee

[@MillenniumEye373]

The Maya and Ludwig feud is so funny

[@alf8151]

I know QT worries about the pod being depressing but I just really appreciate how open and raw some of the conversations are.

[@DJKr15py]

Maya is the best "straight man", genuinely elevates other peoples jokes to another level.

[@T2Designgaming]

Agree, she's an excellent straight man

[@desmondhume]

i've never heard another woman express thoughts of guilt like this so openly, even though i have them all the time from experiences i've had. thank you for making this podcast and being the people you are 💖 also my favorite barbie doll came with a dog and you fed the dog little brown magnetic treats and pushed down its tail so it'd poop it out, and then you'd pick it up with a stick and feed it its poop

[@thatoneperson8154]

Wait I have the exacts one they looked like brown tic tacs lol

[@lar1ssa]

yess the recalled poop scoop barbie

[@desmondhume]

@@lar1ssa well, they never got mine back. he was a good boy 🐕

[@from-skz]

omg i had the exact same one!! pretty sure it ended up being discontinued as you could open the dog up and see it’s insides 😭

[@bratcharm]

honestly when y’all trauma dump it doesn’t make me depressed it just is always a good conversation that is sad. idk overall it just makes me happy that u guys both have each other and are similar in some ways enough to make qt have one girl friend!!

[@justalapisfloatingaround1223]

Time for my favourite trauma bonding podcast Edit: qt, stop reading the comments,

[@Ham.amsa7]

Qt, stop reading the replies to this comment

[@Deathstar0wannabe]

Qt don't forget to take your vitamins

[@echin9372]

Edit: qt don’t forget to flex on da haters 💪💪

[@Arineo7]

@@Deathstar0wannabe OK ，that's so sweet

[@frankjohnson123]

QT's laugh is so great, I can see why Ludwig stole it

[@itsuhhndrea]

best comment

[@bloodwolf2609]

This joke is so great, I can see why you stole it

[@kingmeverse5861]

THIS IS SO TRUE AND REAL AND ACTUAL

[@waretafai]

Actually true, tho

[@RetiredRobot]

@@bloodwolf2609what joke?

[@wolfwhisperertf]

All I've got to say is that I have dyslexia, adhd, love animals and make way too many jokes about my trauma so watching this podcast is like watching my brain worms have a conversation and I'm here for it

[@TenaciousDealer]

Holy shit man, I know QT has mentioned her SA before but I had assumed it was a one-time event. Hearing that it happened between the ages of 5/6 and 10 is insane and that more she had to live within that community with the other family for years after is horrendous. Honestly given how much she's been through it's crazy how well adjusted she is, I'm so glad she has such a good support structure around her now too. Maya has to be one of the best friends you could ever ask for and Ludwig sounds like a very supportive partner.

[@mysterycookie_]

Maya's wine pour was phenomenal

[@sofiac1111]

right? 15:13

[@tomgillman9555]

It's so insanely sad to hear that Maya finds it abnormal that she met someone that is just a normal chivalrous young man that treats a woman with respect

[@TissueCat_]

i absolutely love when qt cracks a joke then laughs rlly hard at it. i love when ppl laugh at their own jokes, i feel like it adds to the humor. plus her laugh is so contagious

[@em-xr8dk]

This podcast is so dear to me. I have my own baggage like everyone else and hearing these two incredible women just be so candid helps me. It makes me feel like I’m having those deep chats with my friends

[@Marthentic]

Holy shit! QTs “I’m the hug uncle” joke was fucking hilarious. She a comedic genius

[@msbanshee2979]

This pod has been seriously healing in ways therapy hasn't been able to. Thank you for speaking so openly about such difficult subjects, you don't know how much it means to those listening. ' it's not your responsibility ' from someone who understands the weight has lifted something off of me today, thank you Maya and QT. ❤

[@315peaks]

The best trauma bonding podcast, even as they said, do not trauma dumb here; I am thankful for them opening up because it's given me strenght to do more about my personal shit and talk about it in real life. I appreciate the fuck out of QT and Maya, I get their humor and I deal the same way with my friend so it's great to see people with traumas making jokes about it. p.s i love this podcast, QT please stop reading comments :) this podcast is great, you guys vibe perfectly and there's no issues, and yes, if they want something fun, they can go watch boring ass tiktoks or whatever.

[@taras82]

Glad to hear Maya had a great bday with her boyfriend. Good to hear QT feels good after her break too. Looking forward to all the events!

[@ramsay2234]

The Barbie story was heartbreaking

[@thegamingcharizard7762]

Litteraly. I felt so violated just by listening honestly. So sad

[@Chachixo]

Honestly had to pause to cry a little bit. No one deserves that.

[@paulisnatis]

Same... horrifying (!!!) on so many different levels

[@kaitie3298]

i don’t think the pod is too depressing at all. personally it’s nice to hear someone voice the same emotions that i have about similar situations. it’s cathartic and it’s just nice to relate to someone bc these topics don’t typically get talked about.

[@danny171d]

I was just about to stop watching this episode to save it until tomorrow, to listen at work. And then QT added the trigger warning asking all pedophiles to close the video. Looks like I'll be binging the episode tonight. Genius marketing.

[@dominoot2652]

legally obligated to keep watching

[@nehakhanom2293]

lmaoooo

[@Bob13454]

@@nehakhanom2293 youtube is giving me an option to translate your comment to english and when I do it turns it into "lmao" with just one 'o'

[@lesbean8020]

I really needed to hear that bit about the guilt surrounding a victim’s recovery. I honestly feel so validated and sane after hearing QT and Maya chat about that. Love this podcast and I always will

[@KannabisMajoris]

*Producer opens wine exactly like QT did last time* QT: "How did he do that?"

[@sofiac1111]

16:40 maya’s commitment to not have a wine sponsor the podcast is astonishing lmao

[@Suspense1376]

The struggle with the wine bottles never gets old

[@starfai]

this podcast is genuinely so cathartic, another commenter had a similar sentiment to this but this is the most honestly and unapologetically i have ever heard other women in speaking about their trauma and emotions and the healing process and im so thankful for that bc it reminds me that there are other girls that feel this way too and that we'll get through it together

[@Royceroni]

I usually don't comment, but this podcast was so real. Thank you QT & Maya for being so vulnerable. This opens the pathway for so many victims to heal & to know that they aren't alone. Y'all are amazing role models. We see you and acknowledge your experience, pain, hurt, guilt, and all your feelings, they are valid. What happened to you was unfair. Fuck those guys. It is not your fault and never be your fault for what happened. Do what you need to do heal and fuck all else. w/ Love

[@0blivvy8]

The comment about pregnancy during the wine review made me lol. Years ago I was hanging out with friends having a Twisted Tea. One of my friends didn't want to drink, then told us the news... she'd just found out she was pregnant! I thought, wait when was the last time I had my period? OMG my period is late! and I put down my drink. I bought a pregnancy test on the way home, took it as soon as I got in...and yep, I was pregnant! Blessed with a healthy, beautiful, smart, kind & funny boy; best 'omg what if' moment in my life!

[@jeffwarren6520]

Damn. Maya's college story was actually heartbreaking. The strength of these women is sooo respectable.

[@KornyQ16]

I listen to every upload of this podcast. As a afab person, this podcast is extremely validating. I love you both so very much as human beings.

[@echin9372]

❤❤

[@maqima]

not going to share something vulnerable, just that I did the mistake of sharing something vulnerable when I hadn't worked it thru, and someone victim blamed me in the comments, and it made everything so much worse. share these things with people you trust

[@allyjay7395]

You're both the hot and funny ones and you're both creative and artistic and smart in your own ways! Maya is an animal whisperer with the strength of 10 women in her little body and QT is a resourceful and resilient business woman and you both have hearts of gold! You've suffered such loss and trauma and overcome a cult and you're still standing! You've come so far despite all you've endured! Let that be a testament to what you're capable. Don't be a dick about it but don't underestimate yourselves! You're both a couple of bad ass b!+€#$ so keep on wine-ing about it!

[@flamingbull3438]

As a guy some of the heavier topics are hard to hear since they are so far removed from my experiences. That said, I listen as much as I can so I can be more understanding and good to the women in my life ❤

[@shinaplaystwitch]

I love the trauma mixed with humor episodes. My kind of people

[@NeverDie565]

Your podcast is great. When you want to talk about "depressing" shit, do it, we love it.

[@kuurak5733]

the convo abt qt handling her trauma was fucking heartbreaking but also so profound and important. i feel so lucky to be allowed to watch such a personal and deep conversation i feel so greatful!! thank you so much for being open, you don't know how much it means to some of us

[@brianrader3248]

These discussions are oddly so helpful for me as a therapist to hear. Not only are these great things to get out there but also seeing how both QT and Maya have dealt with significant traumas and very difficult situations to find a resolution to.

[@nonbinaryplant2692]

I appreciate how much you guys shared about your trauma. As someone who’s gone though something similar it helps but also sucks to know how often this shit happens, but you guys validated my feelings and worries from your similar experiences and people appreciate that more than you know ❤

[@116RonH]

There are so many podcasts out there that are fake, overly positive or very structured/organized. I usually listen to podcasts in the background while I'm doing something else, but with this podcast I find myself constantly stopping what I'm doing and just paying attention to the video. I like the randomness, the depressing conversations, the crazy stories, the different interpretations of things.

[@bumgy1686]

it feels like being in a call at 3 a.m. , zoning out while the talkative friends go off

[@ahem8013]

theres a lot of us out there who have gone through similar things and because its so taboo its almost impossible to find discussion about it. sometimes you just want to talk and joke about it. started to tear up but it was cathartic to know im not alone. i appreciate the vulnerability

[@bastaonthefloor]

I don't listen to any podcasts but this one. I've tried a bunch of others but nothing makes me smile or laugh or think like this pod. I know you both don't need to bare your soul like you do in this pod but man these pods massage a part of my soul that I don't really know why. Thank you QT and Maya for wine about it.

[@phillyzuu]

I love that you are sharing so much QT and being so open I’m sure it’s helped someone else just you sharing that for others to hear

[@thejobbernowl]

I think you guys are hitting a groove now, the convo is feeling more balanced and comfy. :)

[@paigehansen8944]

23:03 I’m literally shaking knowing QT reads these comments tbh I’ve bared my soul here at least once

[@Imrano_Rex]

QT and Maya, you are both such an inspiration to go through what you have and come out of it stronger with kind hearts. You are blessed souls. (Also QT’s joke about coming out of the womb and declaring “I’m not yours” was hilariously genius 😂)

[@Tobbe682]

As a bystander of many similar situations QT is talking about in this episode. I find the serious concern and question "is this still happening" "is it my responsibility to protect others". (especially children) Is so real... i to this day have not figured out how to move forward about it.

[@eva2465]

QTs genuinely so gorgeous, so crazy she doesn’t think so

[@thebroodingbear]

“I was a hot kid! Heh heh heh!” The way i screamed, paused, and ugly laughed. Lol so upsetting. I love it here. 🔥

[@jessehyde1101]

My favorite duo on the internet. Really refreshing hearing therapy and dealing with trauma coming from streamers. Also, love to drink along.

[@asopiram2172]

So happy I finally got into Wine About It ❤ Y'all are both beautiful, amazing and funny ladies 💗

[@sylviacross9683]

About the pod being depressing i think its like when im depressed and listen to sad music and it makes me feel better. This pod makes me feel better because it reassures me that my "insane thoughts" are not insane but a side effect of trauma. Thank you maya and qt❤️

[@DrAntics1]

This podcast really hits, I've been through very similar situations, and as a boy going through it all really made me insecure and angry. Qt and Maya, you guys are amazing and inspiring. I just want to give them hugs everytime they share about their experiences they are so strong even if they don't realize it themselves.

[@brandontrammel4581]

You both are amazing don't put yourselves down

[@ericmu17]

Holy shit, as a person who went through SA and both of my sisters as well this made me bawl my eyes out for Blair. Its too common. Its so fucked up.

[@jamesharbor4998]

Chemistry in this episode was great, feel like you both are really getting back into the groove

[@bgaimur]

Maya is so right about her skills being the straight man. Totally holds awkward moments of the podcast together.

[@O.Garcia37]

God that story of QT having to go through those things as a child is terrifying. It sounds like a fictional horror story because I just can't believe a human being could actually do that to a child. I genuinely cannot begin to comprehend the amount of trauma it must have caused and it sucks knowing these things happen to children all the time

[@daltimusprime777]

Maya's relationship with her boyfriend should be the standard guys aim to be/ routinely maintain

[@Dalcentii]

I've actually never watched much of either of your content, but I love this podcast and look forward to a new ep every week

[@aydadae7337]

My p3d0 abuser is my baby daddy, and i have to see him every weekend. I was 14 and he was 20. We were "together" i was groomed, til i turned 20 and finally left him. I became pregnant at 17 and i lied to the nurses his age and everything. It waa a long and very unhealthy "relationship" the power imbalance was insane. I know you said you wouldnt read this QT, but i do hope u see mine somehow :/ i cant report him either because then my son whos now 9 wont have a father around. I have texts from back then, CP he has of me and i had sent, everything. At least 100 witnesses over our 7 year relationship . Not only can i not report him because my son would lose his father (WHOS NOW MARRIED AND HAS A SON WITH A WOMAN WHOS HIS AGE) I would lose the little child support me and my son are given. The world is insane and its disgusting how many men (mostly men, sorry its how statistics work) get away with being absolute creeps to young girls. I hope i get my peace someday, to. I feel for you and maya, its heartbreaking to happen to you as a toddler/ 6 / 7 years old. I cant imagine hurting a kid like that.

[@shiopiii]

qt and maya are the pretty ones! how dare both of you be so pretty 😡 also thanks for the weekly therapy girlies 🥺💅

[@solartyrant9049]

Perfectly timed release for this episode, I just finished binging the last three episodes lolol y'all crack me up

[@hibunnie]

i love how real you guys are- feels like im listening to my bestfriend and I's real life convos sometimes

[@ArtaniaVIII]

I love that you talk about your issues, no matter how dark it may get. Even though my stuff is different and I'm not sharing, it makes me feel seen since I can relate to just how damaging it all can be. And I ove that you 2 are funny and cute and I will love to keep up with your content as I can

[@Matroximus]

Reminds me of Christmas, my two aunts just sitting on the sofa, drinking red wine and complaining about men and TV soaps

[@beanberg]

This was a great episode and more like what I remember Wine About It being! Kept the mood funny and not awkward even when talking about sensitive topics. Loved it!

[@noratudor255]

qt is actually like the prettiest person bruh and it makes be angry like wth

[@Arineo7]

I don't want to be mean, but you have to have been paid to do this.

[@anna-wy8mq]

⁠@@Arineo7 if you disagree just move on don’t be a dick

[@enider]

@@Arineo7Why u got to be mean? You gain literally nothing from this comment and we both all know it’s not true

[@emackmar]

no fr shes actually so gorgeous and theres people who say otherwise like hello?? im not lying or anything either just bc i like her.. when i saw her i thought "wow, shes pretty"

[@pnwpeach]

Thank you for opening up about everything. I want to say that I actually had a VERY similar experience to QT (almost IDENTICAL) to a point I actually almost thought it could be the same dude because I live in WA. It’s not the same guy (I am positive), but it actually helped me to not feel so alone. I actually have struggled with the guilt of it my entire life and recently found a therapist I’m able to open up to about it. I asked her why I still feel guilty and am still affected by something that happened so long ago and she said that it’s because of how it affected all of my life decisions up until today. It’s actually crazy because although, we may not think about it all the time, it still affects how we live. I hope we all grow to heal even if it’s not today, or tomorrow. Nobody deserves going through any sort of trauma and I hope everyone finds their peace with it when they are ready. I’m still not there, but if we’re strong enough to make it to now, we are strong enough to keep going. Nobody is alone, and if anyone in the comments needs someone to talk to with no judgement, I am here 🫶💕

[@allisonharris357]

i get so excited every wednesday for this podcast

[@Lena-mr1fy]

Most entertaining part of my week!!!

[@formerdungeonmaster1232]

QT you're really growing as a person and it's beautiful to watch!

[@kapknuckles]

Qt is on fire this episode lol “She didn’t appreciate them as much as she should have because she was too busy. Being divorced “

[@emilyhaworth895]

Trauma aside - I really wanna know what Maya asks for when she gets her lashes done.

[@jpdotca]

Man i was in the same situation as QT between the ages of 12-15. I lived with the guilt until I graduated high school at 18, and happened to bump into the "man" again and it broke me. I went to my mom and told her everything, and we went to the police. It turned out he had done it to over 20+ other girls from my area, and he also was grooming girls online. I never wanted to put him in jail, but when I realized the scope of it through the police interviews, hearing his conviction and watching him leave the court in handcuffs was the most relieving thing I had ever experienced. I talked to the other victims during the trial, and it was also healing to hear their stories and support each other despite not really knowing each other. QT, if you are reading the comments, please don't worry about sending somebody to jail. Unfortunately, here (in Canada) child molestation charges can only get a max of 14 yrs in prison ( i wish it was more ). If you had to suffer with this guilt for 20 years, he can sit behind bars for a max of 14. I too am extremely confrontational, so this was my closure and it felt amazing. I hope you can feel that too.

[@catscandance1232]

Loved this episode as always. These are really helpful for when I need something playing while I eat/clean/work. Fr life saving. I also love you guys. Feel like I’m in on the convo.

[@echin9372]

Same 😊

[@katepedersen4655]

I think maya was spot on when she said she compliments funny people well because she was so fucking funny on ludwigs episode

[@Jessica-zs4hh]

i love wine about it!!

[@agotiprime7687]

I talked about the guilt thing that you all discussed last time to my therapist today. It went well but I said the exact same stuff today that you said on this podcast. Just found that neat :)

[@gaguto]

I hope you both heal from all this, no one deserve that

[@sofiac1111]

1:06:11 i’m so glad they’re both getting the love they deserve 💜

[@chocobabes]

This one made me so sad, i've been abused too. So hearing QT share her story was nerve wrecking. At the same time reliefing and understandable made me feel okay with my guilt.

[@Maddietos]

Hey QT as I am sure you already know processing trauma is very hard and I am proud of you for handling it. I just wanted to say I appreciate how transparent you are about this. I've been through similar things... just thank you! Best of luck on your healing! ❤

[@LunaLamperouge]

Thank u for the stories and sharing your dilemas regarding the sensitive subject, it was very relatable and good to hear others talk about it 😊

[@zxcv338]

My favorite episode so far. Laughed so hard.

[@GabrielliAmbrozio]

I love this podcast!!! ❤❤❤ It makes me feel safe and validated. I have so many traumas similar to them...

[@ali74826]

Thanks for the great ep 💖

[@CoyoteKate22]

Thank you both for being so vulnerable and willing to talk (and sometimes laugh) about these painful topics.

[@ramsay2234]

I love this podcast. Maya and QT are great together. Such a good friendship. Both funny, but QT is one of the funniest people on KZbin.

[@paninterstellar779]

Thank you for sharing your story QT

[@tankthekittyinthecity356]

This episode was really great. Thanks for talking about what you do

[@aria_lu7762]

Remember what Maya said about only responding to good comments with more good comments and that attracts good people? I think its kinda the same concept when talking about mental health, when you talk about a certain topic a lot you're gonna attract ppl who want to hear or ppl who talk about mental health too, so there's always gonna be an audience willing to listen bc they can relate in some way. So pls keep talking about what you want to talk about, we're gonna be listening no matter what ❤

[@KirbeeGaming]

Qt! The merch drop was wicked, I got a sweater, thank you! 🎉

[@Trixxfi]

I love this podcast, it’s not rlly depressing it helps me feel normal in a way

[@raritymademydress]

The Patreon is def worth it, trash tv is amazing

[@jbone877]

"-let's open the wine" lmao

[@user-tp6ho4un2c]

Great podcast and late happy birthday Maya 🎉

[@SnKissd]

Im studying psychology and watching this pod feels like homework das crazy