Me & My Wife's Biggest Fight

[@abbysharpe7773]

“i kicked this door down i didn’t even film it” like bro give her space & maybe get help & stop saying “i’m 16 years sober” all the time & also she deserves privacy

[@seanzanardi]

Get help for what they had a fight, they’ve been married for a while it happens. They were both in the wrong

[@Discipleofthelordandjesus]

Watch your mouth Abby!

[@kelliejack2673]

"But your the reason I act this way" That's exactly what my ex used to say after he bashed me every single time. TRIGGER!!

[@Nomatterwhatclub5150]

They have a toxic unhealthy relationship. Both people are at fault.

[@melissahensley7198]

She said “I don’t know you anymore” Pat, you need to take heed & listen. I appreciate that you want to help others but I think you’re going a bit too far when it comes to her.

[@philipnosal6857]

I must say your video showing this, absolutely showcases how people should behave with each other, and then make amends. You have no idea how priceless this is. This is a great example of how we should express ourselves, good or bad, speak truth, and not just run away during fight/flight. There is no one else out here that displays such raw, and personal human interactions. Patrick, you remind me of my friend, almost a twin, who helped me with alcohol. 10 years sober to this day!! God bless all you, what you do. This does bring comfort, and the feeling of not being alone. Thank you so so much for all that you guys do!

[@natalielawrence8809]

I love Pat's gentle, insightful and loving friend, at the end- "You literally broke down a door, so you could fix it." 🤣 Love his smile...

[@woahmanitsvalerie]

Pat, do you ever worry that putting everything online might possibly ruin y’all’s marriage? You might be helping others but is it helping y’all?

[@YoMama9021]

Yeah he’s a little rich boy who thinks he’s better then everyone and he’s hanging his sobriety on her. She needs to leave

[@ThomasJay723]

@@YoMama9021 he’s a bird bro raping insurance money and drug addict dishwashers while she’s high drinking and he may or may not give them $20 to clean his house

[@alexiemery3734]

Thank you how can you inspire people to be stable when .... figure it out

[@themilkkmaid_]

@@ThomasJay723you people sound absolutely ignorant 😂😂😂 yall so miserable its sad

[@kalebanth8323]

@@YoMama9021 yea exactly he doesn’t worry about shit like that he’s an overgrown man child who never got the chance to grow up because he’s been spoiled his whole life. I mean think about it he’s never even had a job. This dude is hopeless

[@hilaryhernandez3646]

“Pay attention as I am talking”.. I felt that in my core lol.

[@jalyncarter2469]

Y’all are so hypocrites and toxic and y’all see no problem shit isn’t cute at all heal yourself and stop putting men and people that actually genuinely love you through the bullshit

[@lyrasus]

I had countless arguments like this co owning a business with my former partner. There is no worse feeling than feeling ignored or that your partner is refusing to listen to your side. I will NEVER share a bank account with anyone ever again. Patrick is doing good work but he seems like a bit of a narcissist in his conflict and crisis management especially. Veronica’s patience with it is saintly.

[@justhere5037]

This comment hit it right on the nail!

[@southerngal9087]

This shouldn’t be online pat. Your wife obviously doesn’t want y’all’s entire personal life on here. This part of your life is no one’s business. You two can get the help you need specifically for this situation without your fans being involved. This is just opening doors to allow people to put you guys down and to talk shit which just makes things worse. Married people have bad days and that is perfectly okay!! Marriage isn’t all unicorns and rainbows, no one is perfect.

[@ijustchangedmyname7794]

Kicking a door down? That’s not okay and that’s a scary response. Whew, the toxicity is palpable, on both ends.

[@mathissour]

lol so he just shoulda let her lock him in a room in his own house?

[@barbmoore6587]

The man who screams talk always says to her stop yelling

[@Fishifyed]

Thank you for showing whats real. We all can definitely learn from these disagreements/fights and become better humans to each other. Posting these videos are a perfect example. Glad im not alone in feeling like only my family fights like this.

[@melaina04]

One major problem is our society has become very dependent on social media. Where is the privacy anymore? You are treating your marriage like a business transaction. Patrick is selfish and Veronica is disrespectful towards Pat by her name calling. They r both toxic

[@ShelleyBean1808]

We are all toxic at times. I think that's what is being hopefully learned from here 💛

[@thehashslangingtrapper2108]

Very toxic.

[@courtneypierce4411]

I absolutely love how angry you to can be at each other but you still make it work , you talk it out and you've given me and my husband so many lessons in fair fighting. ❤️ y'all are the best

[@suemikeemery]

That kind of behavior is corrosive and dysfunctional. He broke a door. Not good.

[@Robertson-gz2jt]

Lmao this is hilarious

[@courtneypierce4411]

@@Robertson-gz2jt agreed I commented that 2 yrs ago and they are the most toxic and dysfunctional people I’ve ever met ! Not to mention scam artist with that “recovery house “ they run that is going to end up hurting someone

[@anna-ny2ep]

don’t know if you’ll see this but i get super irritated really easily and this is something that i’m working on now and there’s a lot i’ve learned. the reason why this fight got so big was because you guys kept getting more and more mad and adrenaline kept being pumped into your bloodstream so you guys wernt able to fully hear eachother. it’s super super hard but when something starts to set you off you have to walk away and be alone for like 45 minutes to an hour so that the adrenaline leaves your bloodstream and so that you can think more clear. and when an hour has passed think about if you feel like it’s still worth talking about and if it is then you go back and you can have a calmer conversation that’s actually going to help with the situation.

[@natalielawrence8809]

I relate so much to this- thank you ♡

[@JordanParrish-n3o]

Pat I wanna tell you thank you man I'm coming up on 6 months clean and your videos are real and that could make people uncomfortable because of the world we live in kudos to you my guy keep it up foreal.

[@mandyjohnson1055]

Don't leave eachother mad. Talk it out. Listen to eachother we love you guys

[@josephslawson3369]

My wife has this same argument with me, I have never been able to put into words how I feel when we have an argument like this. Thank you so much for helping me find the words for the feeling of powerlessness. I need to explain to her when she is upset about something I have no control over better how I feel.

[@Followour1channelunveiling9346]

This does help my husband and I I want you to know PATRICK RIDGE & VERONICA RIDGE IT IS VERY VERY COURAGEOUS to put your REAL LIfe Almost all aspects and the truth out there-! Showing the real life side of marriage the ups & downs of real life-!! I commend you sincerely and of course people are going to run their mouths but remember when that happens your doing something RIGHT-! Keep on spreading LOVE & LIGHT❤ I PRAY 🙏 YOU BOTH ARE BLESSED WITH A BEAUTIFUL HEALTHY CHILD IN 2023 & your dreams continue coming TRUE YOU BOTH DESERVE IT-!

[@Aquaberrybackfist]

The girl chiming in with the astrology bs and the way you shut it down is the best shit ever😂

[@courtneyriley7210]

Pat your exhibiting abusive behavior here. This is abuse. No sugar coating no soft blow here dude. Your being abusive to your wife. And your pulling other people in the home into the argument. Weather your trying to help people or not neither of those things are ok. Your wife is a beautiful strong woman. You need to respect her boundaries and when she speaks don’t listen to respond listen to understand. Hear her.

[@bencunningham8314]

Veronicas is equally abusive and quite the manipulator

[@jalyncarter2469]

@@bencunningham8314exactly it’s always another female that constantly victimizes there self and reflects all the responsibility and accountability into the other person it’s so toxic and unattractive that when there is a conversation that the woman doesn’t like or agree with all of a sudden it’s abusive and y’all turn to a victim gtfo

[@dskeyser]

Um, I love your dad. He said wives are like that 😂. Yes we are! That doesn’t mean husbands don’t drive us to that though. Not gonna lie, I felt Veronika on this one. Really felt her. You are a good team, I am glad you can find solid ground in the end 😍

[@mozaki9798]

You need to take this financial problem seriously . think of a solution cause on the long term it will destroy your marriage . don't be shy to protect your marriage financial interests .

[@dadalovesshannon4103]

I Really Love The Truth...I'd Love To Go Through His Home After My Surgery And I Recover...I Really Think Pat's Ways Can Help Me & Others

[@user-yo4zt5su3b]

In all sincerity it seems you are out of your depth in awe of your dad and trying to replicate him...you seem like a boy wanting his dads attention rather than an adult listening and reacting.

[@cba2113]

AA bullshit jargon is so manipulative

[@jackygreen3093]

This sounds like me and my hubby oh Patrick and Vero! This makes me feel a whole lot better cuz now I see it's not the of the world when we yell like this and Patrick hit it right on the head love u guys

[@reneefarmer278]

It's messed up you told your wife you understood her and then you went to your dad and tell him you trust them. Take the time and do the work to have the hard convos

[@probablyhyperfixating]

You dont always have to finish the convo right now, calm down then go back😬 if my husband and i kept fighting when we were pissed we wouldnt be together

[@jmango5370]

If your getting so worked up to the point your kicking doors down I think it’s time to take a step back and re evaluate bro. It’s okay to argue with your partner but instead of trying to win the argument all the time just LISTEN!

[@BakedByBlara]

if she starts complaining about you posting and recording fights you need to stop.

[@SugaStarr]

It’s not a “flex” to be self-aware and consistently reference how long you’ve been sober if you’re not making changes to end the toxicity. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

[@Graderman3587]

Y'all's laws are relaxed, Here in Florida this video would have you locked up for domestic violence for kicking that door open,All a cop would need to do is watch this and the state presses charges

[@lostandguided5533]

Patrick you are a amazing human being. Just wanted to say that. ❤

[@cheyennesmith4347]

I honestly don’t know what to think with you guys anymore..I started watching your tik toks for helping my to be stop drinking but the stress you guys have with each other seems to be deeper than what’s shown and it’s stressful for viewers to watch! I love you guys but maybe you need anger management and I think Veronica would be happier to talk about the problems...

[@nikkic8886]

Honestly thats why you don't marry or date someone who is useing when ur sober

[@nikkic8886]

If u ever want help u can always contact me. Also #sobertok

[@bencunningham8314]

@@nikkic8886 you are right, it makes no sense for Pat to be with someone in active addiction. He is not putting his recovery first.

[@ZNOM9]

They are a joke. So narcissistic

[@Mř.FęęlBąd]

@@bencunningham8314 and on top of it, her using is putting some of us who are serious about our recovery in jeopardy. The last thing I need to see when I’m searching for a release (from addictive thoughts) is anyone high on anything. I mean the weed plants, the paraphernalia, the talk about smoking weed and doing psychedelics, it all gets to me. I’m newly sober again and hearing how high Veronica is all of the time makes me miss smoking weed. Just being honest. I think a lot of us would appreciate if that was kept for separate videos. I understand where he’s trying to come from and I understand everyone has there own way of doing recovery… but if you’re going to try to make videos that inspire sobriety I would cut all of that out. I can’t imagine going to rehab at Graceland and having the counselors be under the influence of anything. I know mushrooms and LSD are found to be beneficial to addicts but I also know that putting any type of drug or anyone under the influence of a drug in front of an addict who is newly sober/clean can and will jeopardize their sobriety almost undoubtedly. I’m not hating, I love what he’s trying to do, but I do feel the need to share some constructive criticism as sometimes these videos trigger me. GOOD LUCK TO YOU PAT! Veronica seems like she’s got a good head on her shoulders and so do you. Just understand that not EVERYTHING has to be caught on camera. Some things in life are reserved for the privacy of your home!

[@melissafinnerty280]

Your behavior lately has been off kicking down doors, spilling drinks, throwing records...I can’t tell if you’re throwing a child’s fit or something else is going on. I hope you get it together

[@kimmyball4961]

I'm sorry but when Pat said "I feel uncomfortable for you", I giggled my ass off 💛💛💕💕

[@caseyjean444]

Does anyone ever think they record and post these type of things to show people that Internet personalities and relationships are not real. Ya’ll are lying to yourselves if you believe you never fought like this with your partner.

[@suemikeemery]

It’s painful to watch you wreck your marriage. And then you say you ‘do it for your audience’?

[@ZackariahCombs1]

😂😂 that robbie character!..?…?.. You know hes about upside down and lookin to eat another cheeseburger!…. Hahaha😂😂😂😂😂 i cracked up for a hard 2 mins lol

[@Ren_Hep]

You both are beautiful human beings . You can see your love even in your fights !

[@ijustchangedmyname7794]

You missed the kicking the door down portion of this video?

[@silentyblitz]

That isnt love..

[@Fordora1988]

I love how real You guys are ! ❤

[@ElectricMix26]

Eeeeks. Biggest cause of divorce is money fights and money problems. Veronica is a gem, fucking 10/10 don't lose her.

[@silentyblitz]

This is the attitude that will break u like he is broken, u think a happy man would break a door? Why is he unhappy who is causinh these fights? U dont foght with a good woman or alone?

[@jalyncarter2469]

No she’s not at all her whole personality is disgusting. Hypocritical condescending egotistical no accountability

[@mikemoavero3518]

I do stuff all the time and say I'm sorry and then can do the same shit the next day. For me change can be a long process, so I can relate big time. This kind of stuff happens in every home in some shape or form. Just try not to break your own shit cause it sucks having to deal with it later.

[@nathans.5911]

Get over yourself I feel bad for the recipients of your BS

[@ThomasJay723]

(Swipes camera violently between both during interaction) “ is that my fault ! “

[@over.837]

My man at the end was great..he (smashed) it in his desciption about "literally breaking doors down to fix it "..by the way smash means on point in u.k. but that in itself was a bit of word play 😊🌷🥀...we gotta laugh at ourselves eh?..love and blessings xxxx

[@youngwizi8658]

Hey love the vid. Feed back I can say is that u don’t understand what gentle means fully. Yes trama adds to that. U must be gentle when u are explaining and arguing. Easiest way to say it is be a (SIMP). Bring it back to the window please.- keep it up

[@ThomasJay723]

2:21 her adderall kicking in He’s like “ bro film this hold the camera “

[@timberzach1324]

Honestly I feel your weight my wife and I have these same moments if you will one thing to remember is you fight because you care and its learning sometimes more efficiently and people's tones can be hard in the moment when there is passion. Tomorrow is a new day and I Believe it will be great✌👍

[@jessicaedmonds2214]

You are making changes what you are doing is so powerful don’t doubt it

[@cristianamarsilia55]

thank you for sharing

[@over.837]

Thats it..Patrick is the spitting image of Fred Flintstone wait ....AND Barney!!!fsakes..lol...looooooooool

[@aphysique]

Live in the solution, not the problem!! Remember that....

[@donavynrhyne5756]

My opinion is just that, it’s mine but here goes...you can’t start breaking shit because you are going to scare your wife. There has to be a better way to get your anger out.

[@nikkic8886]

Everyone around u gets high I'd be angry too. They have a way out and you...(we) dont. We have to feel!

[@jhonrip]

False

[@abbysharpe7773]

“a pact to myself” exactly your selfish

[@blueviolets52]

exactly

[@Wodenseyes]

Kicking down a door to continue arguing is absolutely INSANE. If anyone kicked a door in to continue yelling at me, I might pull a gun on them.

[@lindsayward829]

There’s so much hate in these comments but I love how they’re willing to expose their toughest moments.

[@daneeschalalbeo9355]

Oh and I love your camera guy so real and nonconfrontational

[@mollyanneful]

When i heard her say somthing like I need to yell to compete with you! I completely relate with that, my fiancé is loud and has a deep toned voice, and I as a women just naturally I have a softer tone that I need to yell and talk loud to feel heard over this voice when we are heated and then I am loud to be heard then it feel aggressive so he yells louder and it just explodes

[@donnawestphotography]

It's like you egg her on half the time. She is a free spirit

[@j33harbison]

Thank you for posting real shit in people's lives!!

[@barbmoore6587]

256 hes still screaming walking goddamn contraction is who you are sir fabulous

[@Addison2023]

Me and Jay fight like this we could use the help you guys inspire us to keep goin

[@probablyhyperfixating]

No hate pat we know with love theirs passion and sometimes passionate arguments

[@cherieprender1030]

Hes healthy and so if she they love eachother so much. Every relationship has lows and highs and u can't just blame 1 person for that. It's 1 day at a time and relationships are hard. They aren't toxic that are just normal. Look at the fight videos vs the love. More love then fight. That's good and I love them both

[@morgankiley8337]

Whoever filmed this made me dizzy. The screen is jumpy and shaky. Not usually how pats videos are.

[@misti76450]

You guy's are amazing. Pat I feel you too. I'm rage-full at times. V IS 💪 STRONG and takes ur shit head on. I love it. She's the soldier you're hot headed. I can so relate! You guys arw amazing.. I love you both so much.. Tons of ppl need to see real life🦖 Sometimes its not all 🦋🦄🦋

[@evanegel4866]

I mean this is insane… but they’re def on to something. All the other couple channels portray this cookie cutter perfection and then fall apart when the littlest conflict gets exposed. I’m on for this content 😂

[@jacksonalexanderholder6567]

Pat why do you stay with her if she's toxic bro that's the wrong step in any relationship drugs bro drugs

[@gordonshumway2974]

“Veronica you know nothing about cameras per square inch”!!!!!

[@daleatsoverton9542]

your wife’s extremely toxic bro , i really don’t think she’s good for you brother . idk why people tell y’all you guys are goals if they really watch your content they’d see how miserable she makes you . you gotta stay focused & try not to let the yes men convince you into being a yes man that’s exactly what they want

[@watermelonslim1082]

She drinks she smokes pot she eats mushrooms she drops acid and he's trying to ask her to have rational thought and behavior they don't go together Pat ol boy..

[@jessicahermenegildo5886]

I came definitely relate to what she's saying and my other half was also the type to break down doors into fight with doors and then even get mad when the door hits back cuz he's f****** you know smashed a hole in it or took it up his engines and there was no longer do I can tell you how many times that's happened and how many times he's apologized for this same s*** I'll just breaking s*** but the same behavior so I can understand her I'm not siding with her at all but I know where she's coming from I feel that frustration I know that frustration I do agree that posing and stuff like this and keeping it all the way real does and will help many people

[@elleskip]

I couldn’t handle him img

[@StreameDream]

Don’t ever speak to me unless you eat breakfast 😂😂😂😂

[@samimccartney8883]

Veronica I feel u so much my ol man ignores me all time it pisses me off so bad because it makes me feel like he could give 2 fucks about me and my feelings I try to give him advice and he doesn't even listen or take my advice he would rather take a strangers advice than mine

[@matthewregister3240]

brother man just tack a breath brother just breathe I know it's hard and I know you want to do everything for her but some things you can't brother and I am sorry she doesn't want to realize that right now but there is a lot of things you can fix brother but really I think it's no one's business and I think that's a bad call on your side for a recording it and I'm sorry for whatever reason you have to do that for I love you both man y'all are good people I want to do the same thing save lives God bless

[@barbarashepherd2834]

You are NOT helping anyone dude...

[@tylerasbury5854]

Veronica is for the streets like if you agree!!!!!!!

[@EricJamess]

Y’all acting like this defines him… EVERYONE has moments like this.

[@RyanPortland420]

Is that at your sober living in front of your residents?

[@s.j1215]

You have not changed as far as looks are concerned. I am confused about the recent post about it'syour birthday getting younger?? You are a beautiful Woman 12/10/2023

[@Nightwatch744]

Wow they keep unsubbing me from this channel

[@RebeccaLynn313]

This is my Husband and I, but... Veronica is my Husband and I’m Patrick. Ugghhhh 🙏🏼🤍

[@daleatsoverton9542]

my guy literally has to chase her down & follow her like a fuckn lap dog just to apologize or to try to talk & that shits really hella sad

[@chacedelaney7282]

Dude her jaw is moving left and right grinding her teeth what Is she on????

[@tmthompson79]

The need to fix it right then is the addict part..its to get what we want right when we want it. Not saying ur an asshole just saying thats a part of u that u might have wanted to work on. I kno this was a while back, just some observations. .

[@bencunningham8314]

Pat you know her first love is the bottle

[@Cleanbob503]

😂😂yea he’s clean come on man 😅😢😢

[@XxTheMedicxX99]

Yall needa check out Dave Ramsey Total Money makeover

[@Cleanbob503]

Bro should go to anger management 😢😢😢😢

[@SC-12345]

Pat I think you’re putting your pact for everyone else ahead of your wife and marriage. You’re walking a scary line.

[@kaliwebster4443]

Me and my boyfriend of 6 yrs are the same as you and Veronica

[@jameshanzlik2899]

Keep going brother

[@zer0sixx]

Pat, having a "normal convo" with your wife doesnt count having a phone in their face while talking with em about personal stuff dude, i understand u feel like you wanna share and video stuff but most ppl wouldnt wanna talk nor argue with a phone in their face. And pat saying "your screaming at me" and at the same time he is, cmon pat, marriage is a ride, sometimes let go off the phone for ur marriage man

[@shanecomfort1507]

Love The Channel but pat is sober??

[@samuelcohen6320]

i didnt even film it😂 omg

[@thehashslangingtrapper2108]

I get you have content to make but why record y’all’s problems and post them? Like if you guys start arguing before you are recording do you put the argument on hold to grab your phone or get the camera man ready? It’s like your priorities are a little backwards at times.

[@DanielleFoster.]

Veronica, you're gorgeous and I love you 💚🫶🏻