me trying to flirt with my best friend for 12 minutes straight

[@koga477]

This was a unique way of Joma telling us he's not with his girlfriend anymore

[@TheShiroWing]

That’s sad, didnt he moved to NYC mostly cuz of her?

[@koga477]

@@TheShiroWing yeah but he has a lot more reason to stay besides her now

[@sheexcel7134]

Did you really believe his gf story? I didn't at all, LoL.

[@jarrellidk]

I feel like this video was just a bit and she’s actually his girlfriend. I think she just has really good acting tbh

[@koga477]

@@jarrellidk she works in SF why would they do this type of long distance

[@heavyDriver320]

After Joma started flirting with his wife, she became his best friend.

[@WeiLiuhaha]

Lmao

[@AM-jx3zf]

Loll

[@_egghead]

Biggest friendzone twist

[@jeffinmathew7857]

😂🤣🤣😂😂

[@masterdavidlu9680]

Lmao, definitely the most precise reply ever🤣

[@carloscampo9119]

I don't mind if this is 100% just acting, but make this a series and make her a recurring character Joma. The sheer awkwardness and friendzone-like pain is just too good to be wasted. XD

[@ko-Daegu]

Lose appeal in the second time

[@khalilmoallaqat8999]

@@JR-hs1zd i find pleasure in other people's pain🙂

[@toryspelling7737]

yes pls!

[@rajchinagundi7498]

This was Joma's smart move for saying everything he wants to his best friend and knowing what she feels about him.This guy is a genius :)

[@sethaldrich6902]

yeah she feels nothing but friendzone, her panties are drier than the Sahara desert

[@Kingx_NGT]

That moment “you haven’t really tried though…” Joma’s absolutely blank stare in response

[@betaman2009]

Translation: You were trying? Omg.

[@andistraum2972]

"i didn't?" "i brought u fuckin' ice cream.."

[@ethanhodge3208]

@@andistraum2972 "I gave you water"

[@dreamaster9000]

When she said that I actually lost it!!! OMG so funny.

[@syamkumarkaturi9761]

FOR HYDROGEN PLATINUM IS NEEDED.sell gold .

[@anassabidar3453]

I felt like a third wheel in an awkward date which is even more awkward.

[@artemisfowl127]

This video was hilarious but seriously I still can never tell if Joma is ever being sarcastic or not. I guess that’s what makes him hilarious. 😂

Agree

[@JointSnipe]

I'm pretty sure 98% of the time he's being sarcastic lmao. It's his greatest power!

[@hoola_amigos]

Omg trueee 😂😂

[@eberhwang23]

its an art

[@williamlu5278]

10:43 "u havent really tried though." come on Joma, thats a clear sign!

[@peterchin7796]

mmhmm, can't be more obvious than that 🤭

[@Thenextphasemusic]

The awkwardness is palpable... and I love it.

[@yeehyphensum]

Sunmi is adorable. I'm so glad this is the first video of yours that I'm watching because it's hilarious

[@aperture0]

You need to watch both the channels. They're really good. Make sure you watch the startup series. It's one of the joma's best work.

[@Chococat_Ariana]

Same!! 🤗

[@byslo]

I really liked how the absence of music made the conversation feel so raw, intimate ... and awkward 😂

[@tanujagarwal3225]

Joma u do a lot of things so effortlessly and that comes out to be such a good comedy ...like ur blank or indifferent expressions , ur silence...u really nailed it at some parts of the video. You can be a great comedian globally if u really take this forward. Kudos to you bro !

[@aperture0]

Fr!!! Joma needs his own show on Netflix

[@Guopher]

when you realize Joma got a haircut so he could get one more shot with Sunmi

[@aquasonic3677]

He looks so much younger now

[@mnmldev8636]

I laughed way too loud at his inability to cook right after she mentioned her attraction towards men who can cook 6:05 🤣

[@nikolatesla399]

Yeah 🤣🤣🤣

[@bran_rx]

same lmao

[@ARM3LO]

one thing I do have to say is Joma's ad transitions are top tier.

[@besknighter]

"In the end, it's all about if it's mutual attraction. Because, when there's mutual attraction, no matter what you do, it'll work out. If there isn't mutual attraction, whatever you do, it it will not work out." Ouch oof owie

[@sam3524]

Sometimes people like eachother but don’t know, or are too awkward about it

[@anikevin]

I've been waiting for this collab for years Sunmi is so charismatic. She should post on youtube more.

[@tomspeed3354]

sunmbi the dwarf show

[@keshavnathoo1218]

Joma: A girl wouldn't want a guy to be lingering around for years thinking he has a chance... Me: 👀

[@TaliixTif]

Joma👀

[@binodkumarpanda4367]

What👀

[@TheAugustusV]

Seriously this channel is going places. Even if the attraction isn’t.

[@Kitty-Cattie]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@welovfree]

Her: Are you single? Joma: Do you want me to be? Her: No! She insulted and complimented Joma in one sentence. 😂

[@vn7512]

One word

[@nikhilgunaware5448]

she tried joma not to end his current relationship. thats what she mean

[@LoSpotItaliano]

If she said yes it would be the same 😂 compliment and insult at the same time 😂

[@phantasy8921]

wait thats literally what i was thinking. If she says "yes", you can take it as "yes I want you to be single so I can take you out". If it's "no", you can take it as "No I don't want you to be single, cause you're going out with me"

[@tynyshtyqov]

Joma's sad FACE🤣

[@lunaeclipse5768]

This was a unique way of Joma telling us how to get a girlfriend and also at the same time what sunmi is up to.

[@ithinktechnologies]

This man is badly addictive.

[@shintanishino720]

Poisonous

[@renno2679]

those arms tho

[@saphiregough1480]

badly attractive?

[@illspeakfrenchbetweenyourlegs]

@@renno2679 those veiny arms

[@bubbatheg]

"You haven't really tried though". When guys hear this is really heartbroken xD

[@lucianoconde1814]

I think Is quite the opposite. She is giving him a sign, a clear one. Otherwise she would laugh or say something random.

[@vishnupriyaramesh1634]

Make this into a series.. I wud live for this..!!

[@minglittle970]

I just can't hide my smile when I watch this video.

[@chua_ni]

love when Sunmi laughs or being very serious when answering questions, hope to see her more in your videos hehe

[@rohanranjan616]

I was more Uncomfortable than Joma during this video 😅 Especially at the Sober & Sensible conversations , those pretty exchanges of Smile and Laughs. My heart was beating faster than Joma 😂 ( thinking about what's next ). But I was just waiting for Joma's comic timings but he is like *this video is strictly red cheeks*

[@aperture0]

Don't ship them. He's already committed to the person living upstairs. Lol 😂😂

[@excessorizeme]

This has Between Two Ferns vibes.

[@amizan8653]

Exactly what I thought

[@careem3463]

Shit mate I was about to write that lol

[@rogerthegreat6381]

Love your vids brother!

[@JoeARedHawk275]

@@rboapaudfs8SkE2h Nah Tren Black actually said that Joma improved in a later video but nothing about Tech Lead improving

[@mkmgauri]

Haha so true 💯

[@yatinazad8294]

I really loved this video. Super awkward and weirdly funny, yet sweet.

[@geraldist88]

The one who is sick of Joma’s face is damned for the rest of their lives

[@cgme9535]

Great video! This is very insightful for everyone. Especially so for software-developer, nerdy, introverted guys.

[@nemanjatomanovic8810]

I must say you do create content that is rare on YT. I can just imagine all the hard work and complicated process of finding good ideas for videos. Really good job man. 👍

[@davocarli]

Uuf, I relate. I have a history of me trying to flirt with people I really like and (later on) being told they couldn't even tell, or they thought I didn't like them romantically.

[@Aidan_Au]

This is the classic, "Can men and women be friends?". Sunmi should return to Joma's next reality dating show. Joma, please bring back more old faces. Bonus video: full length video of Sunmi reacing Joma's Blindr video

[@sanskarkaazi3830]

When Joma said.. it sometimes takes you nearly 24 hours... I thought he dropped a tear somewhere in between..

[@aperture0]

Too relatable

[@syamkumarkaturi9761]

FOR HYDROGEN PLATINUM IS NEEDED.sell gold ......

[@HJEvelynha]

Wait I love your new hair

[@JomaNYC]

You saw me with that hair… when I fixed your white balance

[@anotheruser7848]

sameee

[@john5545]

@joma outta boy go gettem’

[@ogitakasi3030]

ikr

[@__umbra]

@@rboapaudfs8SkE2h she married right?!

[@stashedup7415]

From what I've heard, if you make a girl laugh, you're getting closer. I think Joma might win here.

[@theunitydev5418]

I mean lets build a ship and Hope It sails

[@pushpakagrawal7292]

We are not as funny as girls make us think oops

[@MrMGR1986]

This man is all the way in the friend zone. I dunno how he acts around her off camera but on camera he is big simp. Most girls don’t actually like that. He seems like a really good dude though

[@Nik-rx9rj]

@@MrMGR1986 Yeah, he is. There’s definitely a middle ground between being a douchebag and a simp. Joma needs to move closer to the douchebag side.

[@derekwang2215]

well he did. He won. They are like finacees?

[@levifig]

Alternate title: “Watch a Man Be Friendzoned for 12 minutes”

[@simbian4345]

dayumn!

[@yelnatsch517]

If this is acting, they need to win an Oscar. The amount of awkwardness in this vid is palpable.

[@nitinpanwar5320]

Joma is hands down the most hilarious dude I have found on KZbin.

[@TonyCook7]

New to KZbin? Hope you like it. Haha

[@ryanj.3102]

The awkwardness was palpable. Joma should put all his chips on the table and try.

[@borisbakardzhiev1673]

We need someone to do a video explaining Joma's friends, exes and people in general. Cuz I am so confused I feel like I am watching some teen movie. But everything is positive :)

[@rainysuggest4247]

2 software engineers, sitting, flirting, one drinking milk i something you will never see. Most of the time I see: Computers scientist print(“do you like me?: ”)

[@raphaelpiano4422]

that's why it's so awkward.

[@alefratat4018]

Great chemistry between these two.

[@luchogusta]

I feel like Joma is a youtuber that will some day have 10M subscribers

[@ashiksaleem360]

Amen

[@Noelson]

He might prefer Sunmi over 10M though

[@julobie]

Owyeah

[@vn7512]

I doubt it, prob bc he doesn’t care

[@xali2008]

@@Noelson what's Sunmi?

[@mathdelvert4394]

Please continue 🙏 doing videos like this It's not only overly creative but it brings in that side of reflection and down to earth stuff, seeing the obvious and realizing things, and you really do help do that kind of, interpreting it in quite an original way fashion actually. Keep up the good work/great content.

[@berbatovfan27]

The comedic timing at 6:02 is just perfect

[@michaelwahab926]

I doubleclick this

[@deannguyen1910]

watched at that many times and I am still laughing :d

[@syamkumarkaturi9761]

FOR HYDROGEN PLATINUM IS NEEDED.sell gold ...

[@the1337fleet]

Too slapstick

[@PersonalGoliath]

This gave me an awkward vibe in an addictive way lol

[@bolzol306]

Another title's "Joma being himself for 12 minutes straight"

[@conocerseasimismo]

I felt nervous watching this. I felt butterflies in my stomach, I felt chemistry

[@hithereimsty]

Dunno why, but I kinda enjoy this kinds chatter a lot 😂 hope you'll keep'em coming~

[@bernardmasambaji466]

Bro, I just found and subbed.. Man she likes you, and I guess you should go for it since you are already friends, which would be a plus (from a married guy perspective)

[@sunmimilee]

12:26 Sorry Joma, that girl you're hitting on, she doesn't like you

[@AndyWang347]

rip

[@omerfarukmerey]

I feel bad for Joma :(

[@brandonyoung2766]

wack

[@toepic2066]

F

[@tars330]

Welcome to the club pal.

[@reactorscience]

This was too good. "I am sorry boys, the girl you are hitting on is probably not interested". Felt like this was said to me. Anyways, I will keep on trying (or crying)

[@andosgandos5018]

keep trying dude you will have one

[@ShaferHart]

8:45 getting denied two dates in a row from a girl is the maximum any guy should tolerate. She said it herself: if she likes you she'll be eager to go on a date with you, barring exceptions of course (use your best judgment) but too many girls get a hard on from leading guys on that they will never have a date with and us guys are too willing to see the silver lining on any excuse girls give. As a rule, I ask for a date once, if her excuse is good/plausible I might try a second time. If it's also a no I just thank you next her.

[@canobenitez]

2 is the magic number, indeed. 27 years old guy here, no need to make the same mistakes folks.

[@drake5367]

Dudes, I like it so much that both of them know each other's intention, but never say it out yet keep pushing forward and holding. Its like fishing you hop between loosen and tighten the string. Such interesting.

[@cringepepegaa]

This video just popped up on my field and I loved it lol You and your friend are hilarious, also the tips are pretty useful too🙌🏼

[@mujibulhaquetanim]

that was a relief for me, thanks, Joma for making the time enjoyable.

[@omarzaifulizan3064]

Only the OG's remember Sunmi

[@vansh8638]

And the girl from 3:04 too

[@khz2172]

@@vansh8638 yeah yeah , her name is arielle, low key everyone got cursh on her

[@khz2172]

@Kevin Huaricallo watch joma's day in the life of silicon valley engineers, and you will understand

[@martinsurovy427]

Tru that. But only the real OG' s remember that Joma has no girlfriend because he's gay

[@megaraph5551]

@@martinsurovy427 only the real og's remember that Joma's married to python

[@japhalpha]

I think Joma might be a hard case. Skip this girl bruh, you a king, there's plenty other high quality girls out there for you. Follow what makes you happy. If it doesn't make you happy, recalibrate and adjust, then A/B test your best results so far.

[@hibaricgg]

Great to see Sunmi back!

[@chickenphoenex3934]

I don't know their relationship, but i felt a very ambiguous atmosphere there which keeps me smiling the whole time.

[@darkbrowniris9643]

This video was somewhere between awkward, hilarious and putting Sunmi on the spot

[@loowanj4949]

Girl: You haven't... tried though. Joma: *is she serious? I gave you ice cream, the key to my apartment and my social security number!* -_-

[@leonisadonis]

Joma is giving me moist critikal early collage years vibe

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

This issue is not as easy as you conclude though. There's always a possibility that attraction can grow with time and exposure. The problem is that lot of women don't believe in this, and they don't have the patience to look beyond initial impressions. I often hear lot of women say "if I'm not attracted to you on first date, there won't be a second date" . But men are more forgiving on this aspect, they are more willing to change and adapt so as to build attraction. We are usually in the seller's position to convince women ( buyers) that we are good quality stuff.

[@Lalit-yw2tb]

For real though, this is like true friends talking to each other, nothing awkard just plain friendship, because you know them well and your usual questions to them are: "Hey! What's Up?" and then awkard silence XD.

[@djvelocity]

10:01 - *@Joma: she’s giving you the cheat code to dating her. She saying it without saying it,* you need to adapt your presentation of yourself infront of her. If you show her a different side of you (eg. more masculine, less masculine, more career and goal orientated, less career and goal orientated etc.) you will dramatically increase your chances of dating her. If you change how you act for even a day, you will see your chances increase. My background is in medicine, mostly in psychology, so I hope this helps 😊

[@liy1561]

alternate title: joma takin L after L for 12 minutes straight

[@carloscampo9119]

Its great hahaha

[@dalmiseo6636]

L??

[@SumriseHD]

@@dalmiseo6636 Loss Try urban dictionary next time

[@dalmiseo6636]

@@SumriseHD oh thanks... I didn't it could be found in urban dictionary but thnx

[@Joseph-qq2sf]

“You haven’t really tried tho…” Joma: *Dies inside*

[@lazypanda1493]

All my attention was on those freaking keyboards, you are a lucky man Joma

[@nguyenangthang7473]

I watched your two videos of this type, it feels like more of a good conversation when guesses ask the interviewer back with maybe just simple questions

[@tiffmetcha]

That smooth sponsor insert though

[@jjangmes]

This is like watching Between Two Ferns but way more real, awkward, painful, and funny.

[@LuciferTyson]

Joma might take L here, but we all know he living his best life.

[@nikhilmishra7224]

I swear this is my most favorite video on KZbin I just like sunmi's personality and i think I have a crush on her😅 This is my favorite channel

[@aswinsajith6625]

Legends still thinks whether she went with Joma for Sushi 😂😂😂

[@krishnateja1518]

Wow that’s 95% better than those stupid shortfilms they make everyday. Really engaging and entertaining ❤️.

[@Murphistic]

15 seconds into the video and Joma is already hitting on Sunmi 😂

[@ashiksaleem360]

2 seconds in and its gold

[@Jay15523]

I hope this becomes a series on the channel. Complete gold Joma 💰

[@SurajSingh-pb4bs]

6:04 is one of funniest things I've seen in a while lmao

[@Shinhye-t9c]

Lol

[@zhbitjean]

I can't tell which part is acting but it makes laugh. Good job, Joma.

[@joeyaintwaffling]

Still can never tell if he's being sarcastic or not, he has a superpower bro

[@russeltobias2851]

Honestly, this video is lowkey hitting sunmi he makes it funny to avoid awkwardness, also btw i like this vid hahaha

[@muditbhutia405]

How can he be so smooth and awkward at the same time ?!

[@universalsorrow]

the chemistry is so intense redox equations are balancing themselves. how can people concentrate in moments like this

[@yourfriendintech]

I'm probably hella late but I just realized the wave painting is actually cookie monster LOL

[@myice-creamdreams3421]

awww you two are cute i hope you all make it happen and live happily ever after

[@purpleskies1709]

tfw u realize 50% of this is a joke by 50% of this is also Joma having a crush on Sunmi and in some strange, unorthodox way, give her a reason to like him or at least consider him

[@LightningWrath]

He actually has a girlfriend living in the same building.

[@dodo-dh4ob]

@@LightningWrath i still confused that was a joke or not. I mean, “same building” part. 😎

[@purpleskies1709]

@LightningWrath really? Seems like a weird video to make if that were the case lol

[@cosmic_rat7315]

@@dodo-dh4ob yeah he said that on a different video.. They live in the same building..

[@Shá_doe]

@@cosmic_rat7315 after that vid i just assumed he was lying

[@fry8h]

This is an indirect way to ask your crush what should you do to make her like you

[@dd0669]

I don’t really know what I just watched, but I loved it.

[@thiagobassguitarable]

the awkward moments are so cool. you can see they look at each other and think wtf are going here

[@AssistantRegionalMgr]

I think the girlfriend who made him moved to NY is Sunmi. This video is full of jokes and they are actually together.

[@samuelfilipe31]

To the regional manager

[@alexgg769]

This is what I feel like too.

[@SJ78910]

Oh hail the assistant to the regional manager

[@souljaunt]

Assistant to the regional manager

[@syamkumarkaturi9761]

FOR HYDROGEN PLATINUM IS NEEDED.sell gold ..//

[@BotondKuti]

This was awesome. That is the type of flirting I would probably do too. Sadly not everyone gets it and appreciate it. It's ok, it's just incompatibility, as you mature you'll understand it more. And don't feel sorry, you'll be a lot happier with someone compatible. Keep up the good work! 🙂

[@vh8996]

10:40 Sunmi: "Wait... You haven't really tried though..." Joma: "..."*nods* Sunmi: "..."*nods* Joma's thoughts: "AAAAAAAAAAHhfzjydGd,hzfzhfzyfzuhffux oj"

[@kevinsha6500]

Hi Joma, it's my first time watching your video. It seemed to me that this girl really values you and you really value her. I even have a weird feeling that she has been waiting for you. And it seems like you have some fear that stops you from reaching her deep down in your heart. It may sound crazy but this is how I feel. It seems to be very important so I wrote this comment. I wish you both the courage to move forward.

[@user-764qotttt]

동감. 솔직한 답변 ㅎㅎ

[@someonecubing2410]

When Sunmi talks: Guys who been coding inside so long and forgot girls existed: WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN!

[@oluwaseunus]

I feel attacked by this comment.

[@someonecubing2410]

@@oluwaseunus Don't worry both Joma and I had notepads out for this video

[@aperture0]

@@someonecubing2410 This video has genuine advice

[@phil4423]

I think we all SHIP THIS so hard

[@Hater-hp8kq]

Moral of the story is Don't try on your bestfriend let her be your bestfriend

[@thevains]

Man and woman never be friends 😑

[@thevains]

@@ozgeoz889 sorry to break it to you mam with all due respect you friend zone that gya and now your benefitting or he never actually try on you because he is scared to propose you because you might reject him or so called beta male and he is just finding the right opportunity to f you up. That's the truth I know men how thay thing all just have few requirements 1) peace 2)respect 3)love 4) sex that's it we men are simple creatures we don't have much requirements as female do

[@thevains]

@@ozgeoz889 answering to your first question no men like staying friends with a girle until unless men is beta male or just the women is masculine and we men need opportunities to do so a normal alpha male just go and ask a girle out when she rejected him he is fine with it but a beta male will say or women we can be friends that's how this kind of relationship is found that's shows your answer Answer to your second question I seriously believe that they can never be perinatal friends until friends with benefits🙄 and that's how a women uses men for there benefits and expenses Answering to third question First thing I don't mention a things about use 😂 and you contradict your self and these showed how you using that gya because his beta and may be your the masculine one . So ya mam not to hurt you or anything I am telling the truth about men what else men won't tell you If I know you I won't tell you either because we don't know each other it's fine and that how it's goes in the life of a men you women can get any men anytime but as a men we all struggle and grind to be the high value men to provide a women and no women care about that crapp and you know it your self everyone just want hight quality men and rest how stay behind and can't do anything stay beta just to stay by girle side 😑 .

[@DW-qw1hp]

@@ozgeoz889 from male pov: if males are friends with females, then there is a reason for it: either you are attractive, or i got a feeling for you. this is basically it.

[@pm-rj7ef]

@@ozgeoz889 they *_probably_* can't

[@afzalmahmud1974]

I haven’t seen a amateur Interviewers like you. I enjoyed this video so much. 6:58 is the best part and gave her a Ice-cream 😍