Mean Queen! VPR Episode 3 Breakdown - S11 E3 Recap | Everybody Loves Tom | Ep. 19

[@kateteve]

It’s the Vaseline on Tom’s camera for me 😂⚡️⚡️⚡️

[@lorimacdonald7977]

Ha! I thought my iPad needed a good clean - on one side…

[@jenriggs1261]

Whats up with the lens on tom??? Is it the blur affect?

[@mistymoonlight19798]

I really love that you are not only doing a podcast but that you also bring people as guests that challenge you and pump you for more and deeper information. It helps the world understand where you are coming from in your actions and things that you say! Keep it up! Some of us are really cheering for your personal growth!

[@RHO_ASMR]

Kyle Chan is like the wise ol Yoda of WeHo 😍🤣

[@CarefulYouTarotPodcast]

Definitely enjoyed Kyle Chan on this episode …I can understand why you are good friends with him…he’s very kind about sharing his perspective of the situation

[@kristelcorrea769]

This was an episode Schwartz should be here. He was heavily in the actual episode that aired. His perspective would have been nice to hear.

[@anne-sophie7416]

He was out of town when they recorded that podcast. He had an event in Toronto last night and he went to Florida to visit his family.. Definitely agree though he should have been there.

[@big_baby_world1]

Why ? He would’ve jus been up toms ass the whole entire time what difference does it really make 😂

[@Buildindie]

Not as good without Schwartz. Trade him out instead of that guy with the computer who never talks. What does he do?

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

@@Buildindie umm no that’s Jason Bader his other very loyal friend , his other Kyle , his podcast work wife THATsJason Sandoval Bader Schwartz ❤️❤️❤️he’s needed an wanted

[@Buildindie]

lol exaclty what I said. He's no one and he adds nothing @@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie

[@laureendandrea4678]

The problem is there’s always a but…

[@alisak58]

Exactly!!!

[@The_fnaf_black_light_family]

Bingo!

[@cindyortega5744]

Glad Kyle is honest with Tom

[@queenbee587]

I still think Tom hasn’t learned humility and I think until he gets that right, he’ll have this blow back. Stop the BUT and explanations, is my suggestion.Just own it. See how Jax does it and he is no angel.

[@alisak58]

%1000

[@kamijackson7521]

Did Jax get the exact same National public blow back too? I just don’t know how much a person can take without defending themselves when the majority of the u.s. is literally hating on him😖 He’s still acknowledging what he did. I think there’s room to have some understanding for Tom weathering public backlash from a big mistake and that Ariana deserves to recover in her own time and have negative feelings until she doesn’t anymore. Also, ppl who are very forgiving of Tom and not Rachel, could have some misogynistic beliefs to work out of themselves…. it’s tough bc society really ingrains it in to everyone. I’ve had to examine myself as well! Ugh!!! The amplification of all of this reminds me of high school amped up to a million😖

[@kino360studio4]

Honestly Kyle Chan comes across as a true Gentleman, there is something quite wonderful about him and thoughtfulness, kindness and compassion , with hard truths that are embodied in his words.... Hes a good guy you get that energy from him on camera. Everyone else is great but Kyle just has this edge

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

Kyle ! And Jason ! Please stay in Tom’s life and continue to tell him the hard facts and keeping it REAL for him because I rather a friend like Kyle and Jason who will SUPPORT YOU UNCONDITIONALLY but also tell you the truth about how things are looking and it’s just nonsensical…. Tom!!!! Like the Kristen thing is not relevant in this story their friend , if you had some unresolved ISSUE with how the Kristen thing went down or that you kept that stored away just to use it one day to minimize something that YOU DID that really hurt him as his friend it wasn’t about RACHEL it’s about how you treated him during said SCANDOVAL uninviting him to things and just hurting his feelings ! And he thought of you like a Big brother and HE LOOKED UP TO YOU TOM! You helped pay for the fireworks etc and this all after the Kristen situation? SO I was hoping by now ; present day; have stopped minimizing your friendships and excusing the hurt you caused not just Ariana SHEANA and JAMES and SCHWARTZ.. You didn’t excuse or minimize Schwartz but you put him in a AWFUK position by making him aware of your affair while his life was crumbling. But JAMES AND SHEANA really thought so highly of you ! James knew he was a fk up and you still forgave him and moved on and THEN you did Scandoval and really JUST SAY IM SORRY JAMES THAT I HURT YOU and not excuse shit : Sheana, she definitely didn’t deserve the wrath of what you said to her that night it came out . But she didn’t do herself any favors by dragging you through the mud and perpetuating more hate, tbh that seems very irresponsible of her but again, SORRY SHEANA I BLOCKED SUMMER MOON 🌙 😂❤ btw love ya regardless just being honest

[@lorimacdonald7977]

How can a 42-year-old man be so emotionally and verbally inarticulate?

[@JSweez87]

Well because like, obviously you know like, like I don’t know you know what I mean? I don’t like, I don’t even know.

[@robinsutherland3691]

I never thought the relationship with Ariana would work long term because you guys didn’t want the same things. Without the show I think it would have ended earlier. As for James, I don’t think he’s hurt that you were with Raquel, he’s hurt because he felt you pulled away from him and he lost the friendship. He did look up to you and his hurt is personal, it’s not about Raquel

[@JerseyGirl0911]

I think the relationship was over & then they bought the home: as if that would help it, keeping up with the Jones. Then Covid broke a lot of relationships.

[@ronesss33]

I agree with this 😻

[@christinestetser5734]

Great episode! Kyle really broke it down.... Great job!

[@kristina4395]

Billy Lee has a max crush on Sandoval 😅😅

[@marissaceja]

Kyle Chan for the win 🏆

[@sofa-the-page]

Yeah I enjoyed listening to his perspective

[@marissaceja]

@@sofa-the-page same, he seems like a friend everyone needs

[@kino360studio4]

10000% he has this amazing energy and kind truthfull words of wisdom

[@kristelcorrea769]

Why is the camera that focuses on Sandoval appear blurry vs the one on the other two guys, which is clear and normal? Dirty lens? Blur Filter being used? Weird. I don't like it

[@urmamasmamasmama]

Prob the lighting

[@kristelcorrea769]

@@LEENIKINS I think it might be an insecurity thing. My sister does that to every single photo to the point that it's like she's erasing features she doesn't like about herself by too much blur.

[@melancholycat3978]

​@@LEENIKINS Lol😅

[@amarchibald1012]

Dirty camera lens on the second camera

[@gigisielaff]

well, tom is middle aged and vain.

[@michellemichalowski5741]

Anyone else feel like Tom & Sheena have always been the most annoying and self absorbed people on this show from the very beginning 🥴

[@JerseyGirl0911]

Absolutely not! Scheana is my favorite, both her & Tom never isolate people.

[@marhar1172]

Yes for self absorbed Scheana..Can't stand her..her narcissism is off the charts..

[@SandyWoodress]

This man is still trying to down play his relationship with James! Who, by the way, was 22 when he was with Kristen and Tom was with Ariana at that point! He also only knew James a few months at that point. Watching S3-S9 completely debunks everything Tom is saying! If he wasn’t honestly a close friend/big bro to James, he damn sure “acted” like it. So is he a fake friend, playing a role for TV, or is anything he does genuinely real? He can’t have it both way. You’re fake when you’re filming or you’re lying now to look better. It’s a bit ironic that Mr. Take Accountability is the least accountable on the show. 🤯

[@AmandaJohn-k5m]

🙌🏼🎉🎉🎉

[@gorillaX1944]

"Least accountable on the show" Utter delusion LMFAO

[@HannaW1219]

“A man is known by the company he keeps”. Its unfortunate that his friends are getting hate but he continues to prove he hasn’t grown or learned anything from this experience. If someone wants to be his friend, it’s a reflection of their character and values too. That applies to everyone on the show not just these 3. Tom just happens to be the one digging the deepest hole for himself with his words and actions over the last 11 months.

[@sammysoup01]

Exactly I didn't even care what he did but to keep hearing him speak on it is making me start to dislike him because he tries to fake cry wipes away fake tears and always making an excuse for himself I feel bad for other tom for having to deal with it sandy is lucky to have him as a friend

[@melancholycat3978]

I completely agree- the over the top (bad) acting, fake tears, and endless excuses are getting beyond old. I noticed his usual M.O. of "I'm sorry, But..." has occasionally changed to : "I'm sorry, (yet) on a separate note..." 😂🙄😂

[@maryoliviamacgowan1548]

Is there a soft focus or some kind of filter on Tom’s camera? It’s making my eyes crazy.

[@kamijackson7521]

SAME!!!

[@hayfergroup]

Love every episode! Shout out to Jason & Kyle! We're glad we met Kyle at your show in San Diego and again at Schwartz & Sandy's. He's a lot of fun and love how he explains things because it makes sense. The people who are around you all love you. Looking forward to the next podcast!

[@nishaJD]

clean the lens of the camera on Sandoval. This ep was way better than the last episode. Kyle Chan was great!! Better help woulda been a good sponsor following this last vpr ep. Find a cake company to promote LOL and add a playful Q&A, would you rather, something to lighten the mood; recurring Summer Moon shout out; Penis flute solo? LOL

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

I cried when I saw you and Sheana first see each other! lol You both had this smile and I could feel the excitement it omg I missed you but omg we have this thing that fcked it up - and because I’m an empath I CRY a lot lol but Kyle and Jesse made me cry that scene to start!

[@meganizzle23]

When Kyle is explaining how something may have been in someone else’s point of view (their feelings and how they reacted) QUIT GETTING DEFENSIVE AND HEAR SOMEONE OUT !!! They’re not attacking you they’re simply trying to help you in future situations so that you understand why that looked wrong when you responded to James about how he screwed Kristen.(just an example) anyways LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS - they’re not attacking they’re just helping. Friends speak real talk to you that’s why they’re friends cuz they can tell us when we are wrong !!!

[@meganizzle23]

Also you should have Kyle on more often he’s great!

[@bretzky9261]

Schwartz figured it was bad for business to show up for this one. Tom Island getting lonely!

[@RealityRecapGurl]

Kyle is a good friend to keep. Tom doesn't need "yes" people, he needs to grow and not be threatened. He messed up his life and Ariana's, not ours.

[@JerseyGirl0911]

Kyle has an excellent way to explain each point of view without offending anyone. I believe that’s exactly the difficult position Scheana was in that gets dismissed “oh she’s making it about herself, oh she flip flops”. As well, everything Schwartz had going on is not stressed, last thing he wanted or thought of was to get involved in Sandavol’s affair. He deserves grace.

[@MikWorthsmith]

3. The way Ariana is perpetuating the bullying and mob mentality is indicative of how she treated him throughout.

[@janinedirks5828]

Like, like, like. I wanna pull my hair listening to Tom speak.

[@txkitkat1307]

Like Like Like the last episode 😂

[@310filmbuff]

Keep defending yourself Tom. Right is right and wrong is wrong… no matter how old the individual is or how much time has passed. Humans make mistakes at all ages. The self righteous people on the show will learn this as they get older. No one is perfect.

[@laurazytczak9840]

Btw …… I would much rather have 1 true friend like Schwartz than the group who would ice out anyone who is NOT in agreement with them! In 20 years the Toms will still be friends, not so sure about the “gang”

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

That right thrrr

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

Not to mention, Schwarz never once said anything about how his family being sick and his brother that’s how unselfish he is! He took heat all that time ! And didn’t express his FEELINGS and he could have easily went SILENT and did no press and go home to his family and said No comment! And he stayed in LA and took the shit! And ppl want him to walk away from Sandoval! That’s bananas! I’ll never forget when they paid for Tom’s brothers to come to his wedding. That literally was the day I realize holy shit these two are lifelong friends like for real for real.

[@sharbear4248]

Exactly!!!

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

@@sharbear4248 yess I agree! I will never forget when Tom paid for Schwartz brothers and family to be at his wedding. Sandoval has had Schwartz back every single day of that friendship and no matter what ! Like said here. I’ll take a Schwartz / Sandy friendship over 7 or a bunch of fair weather friends

[@just_me_Keri]

My husband and I will be at S&S on March 5th for the watch party 🎉 Celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary ❤

[@annaknotts6692]

Congratulations 🎈 to you both!

[@doloresbriseno2567]

I thought the video that Ariana saw of Raquel on Tom's phone filmed at Schwartz's apartment? They were also photographed a few times together on double dates - one was at a ski lodge. Not buying it Kyle.

[@unniemoon95]

Rachel said she was at a hotel in New York I assume for WWHL but, I don’t know where it’s filmed.

[@AmandaJohn-k5m]

@@unniemoon95It was filmed in said hotel room. She explains it all in her podcast, Rachel goes Rogue. It’s really good and so is his former assistant’s Ann’s called We Signed An NDA

[@kandykaye9981]

Jax did the same to Tom with Kristen and Tom forgave both of them. The hate is out of proportion. It’s ridiculous.

[@mamiluv]

True, I'm happy Ariana seems to be flourishing but it'll be nice to see Tom happy again 😊

[@CarolContreras-bk2rm]

Soo sick of ariana, she is a beast

[@jenriggs1261]

Jax didn't need to fit into his excuse

[@sammysoup01]

Tom cheated on Kristen with Ariana so he did it before and didn't learn from it nor did he this time his apology tour is weak I don't care what he did but his words show he doesn't care about the situation onlythat it blew up on him instead of it going the way it went after him and Ariana got together 😅

[@celestewillett6613]

Yeah, that’s true. Jax & Kristen were sneaking around together for months under Tom’s nose. I had forgotten how in love Kristen was with Jax. How she never took ownership or apologized without always adding a “but” to her apologies. It’s funny how you forget all those little details when it’s been so long since watching.

[@jeanettelombana4247]

Don’t apologize anymore. You have already and they accept or not . Keep your chin up Tom ! ❤

[@maurinewatkins7997]

Revisionist history! We saw what Swartz did!!!!

[@MikWorthsmith]

1. No Kyle, James can't be high/mighty w Sandoval when he did the same thing. Tom S has always been a righteous dude on the show and although I find James amusing, he has been erratic the whole time and mean to everyone at different times.

[@gigil8307]

For ariana to have been the girl who never wanted to be on the show before and looked down on everyone else then and is now playing the martydom cheated on gf and getting paid for it. not forget she was the first one who cheated on Tom with Lala going down on her. Tom has to take that and not get any from her AND be quiet. ariana is the classic narcissistic. Plus he doesnt deserve the treatment he is getting when Jax and kristen and james have done him wrong and they get back into the friend group with no problem. Sheena sits there and is poor ariana when sheena was a mistress who broke up not only a matriage but a family where children were involved. So she has no room to talk. And katie finally has her new weho witches group to cling to cuz she is boring on her own.

[@calebfangman1984]

I love Kyle Chan!! ❤ he has great perspective He seems like a really good friend that will tell you what you need to hear. ❤

[@sammysoup01]

Oh I know right like when he told Katie she needed to lose weight

[@kal2487]

I looked it up, that was a different guy. @@sammysoup01

[@zitabovee3491]

@@sammysoup01you are thinking of someone else that wasn’t Kyle it was Lisa’s party planner.

[@calebfangman1984]

@@sammysoup01 that was Kevin Lee 😂🙈 and he looks absolutely nothing like Kyle Chan

[@Jesshopwood]

Here to support! 😊

[@reinventingdaily]

James WAS 19, A CHILD!!! Move on

[@jerryokeowo7197]

Ariana should move on too. Any man woulda cheated on her between. She grew cold and uninteresting…no one wants that sadness to deal with. Rachel on the other hand; is full of life and juicy. Tom…dont effing apologise no more.

[@kal2487]

I caved and renewed my Peacock, so I'll just have to deal with the secondhand anxiety of watching, hopefully the cast will be singing Kumbaya together by the end. In terms of the podcast, you guys tend to go deep in your conversations which I really enjoy. BTW: Kyle seems like a super insightful, level headed guy, and someone good to have in your corner.

[@sammysoup01]

Kyle is the same one who called Katie fat when she gained weight so.....

[@kal2487]

I never saw that so IDK...@@sammysoup01

[@Alotofshake67]

@@sammysoup01 It’s not Kyle who commented on Katie’s weight, it’s Kevin Lee .

[@AmandaJohn-k5m]

@@sammysoup01What?? That was Kevin Lee. Your comment is both ignorant and insulting. I would delete it if I was you because that is embarrassing.😬

[@glamcoffee841]

Tom you are surrounded by some really solid people. What a blessing. The hate has become too much -I recognized that early on. Your cast mates should be ashamed of their behavior all the way back to the reunion. Your band mate has some really great, thoughtful questions and he is a total asset to your podcast. Kyle Chan seems like a really special guy. I’m glad you’re here, Tom. Keep going.

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

Love you Jason! You feel like another Schwartz as in a LOYAL AMAZING UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE friend for life even at our worst kinda friend and I’m glad your so present now for us to see!

[@theresaterry164]

I don’t think Kyle is a paid yes man…. I definitely think Jason is.

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

@@theresaterry164 i do not think either of them are , just cause he is paid as a manager of the band , I truly beleive Jason has always been a true loyal friend that might just tell him behind close doors - I def do that with my friends / I am supporting you as a friend the best I can in public but you will def hear about yourself when we are alone together. It’s not like Tom’s had a bad Year prior to this that we were aware of so when really did he do anything else BEFORE Scandoval? It’s not a pattern of bad behavior is my long novel point !

[@theresaterry164]

@@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie I have never listened to such a kiss ass in my entire life! On the show, on the podcast he is a yes man.

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

@@theresaterry164 oh Man! I tried here!

[@theresaterry164]

@@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie I respect your opinion.. I just don’t agree with it!

[@fifilamoore1718]

❤❤ What I did was wrong “ BUT “ “ LIKE , like “ It’s sad that one can’t say sorry without a “ But” Ego is a killer , sometimes we need to get out of our own way.

[@marileorube24]

I agree with kyle. Everyone shat on Schwartz without ever considering what he was going thru. I haaated seeing how everyone treated him. I hate the cruelty. There was zero empathy. What drives me crazy is how both toms have always been neutral always including everyone when they have fd up. No one returned it back. The cast let their fame and fan base dictate their actions. I love kyle and Jason genuine souls.

[@marhar1172]

Agree 💯

[@VeraLynn.25]

Will there be an episode this week? If not, is it a directive from your publicist? Or is this a decision imposed by Bravo? We would appreciate being informed of the circumstances.

[@victoriajimenez5192]

Love kyle def a friend tom needs around

[@moconnolly9801]

Are they trying to Barbara Walters vaseline on the lens on Sandoval to make him appear more youthful or less rough looking? The blurriness is hurting my eyes.

[@classyconversationswithrho344]

I've been saying it since this began. People were terrible online as well so hateful. Everyone is human and we all make mistakes. What people did to Rachael and her family was so mean. I did my best to reach out to her as well. Trying to give her my best advice. Because she needed people to believe in her not trash her! I wish you all, only to best. I have been a fan since the start and only want the best for everyone. Stay strong and believe it will all work out Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes. That really helps you to understand. As a published writer I really did try to reach out to the producers in order to help. Crickets lol Too bad a person needs to be well known to be taken seriously. It is what it is. I tried my very best. No shade but the missing link is Rachel because she was part of what saved the show. Honestly I hope I am wrong but I mean as Rachel on the show. Be humble Tom even more so, it will work out.

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

Well said ! I also tried my best to humanize her again as much as possible in the socials and I did LIVE episodes just to plead her side , I also did it for Ariana AND TOM ! but mostly Rachel because it was not normal and I’ve never seen the depth of delusional hatred towards someone you never met, and didn’t do it to you and IT wasn’t warranted , I was also very disappointed and confused and concerned for all 3 of them, and Schwartz..and I appreciate that you also did feel the same way !

[@HannaW1219]

Someone acknowledging their mistakes and trying to grow from them can go a long way. She is no where close to properly media trained and may not come off great in interviews/on her podcast which doesn’t help her case. But you can see she’s reflective and putting in WORK to try to change and improve. I truly feel that if she continues down this path she will not find herself in this situation again. I can’t say the same for the other party involved…

[@CarolContreras-bk2rm]

So sick of ariana, she is a beast

[@susangoodman6638]

Cheating is not a mistake. It was an actual decision Tom made to step out on his very long relationship

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

@@CarolContreras-bk2rm that’s really not necessary, but your entitled to your opinion ,i just do not see what you see AT ALL!

[@theresagrace5840]

Something I learned from losing a loved one regarding this topic, is the act itself is a form of temporary insanity. It's good to see people supporting you during that time.

[@sofa-the-page]

What I would be curious about is whether Lisa reached out to Rachel after the reunion the same way she did to Tom. With the way Rachel was spoken to at the reunion I feel like she needed someone to make sure she was okay just as much as Tom..

[@anne-sophie7416]

Rachel said in her comment section Lisa didn't reach out to her.

[@BeautyXXBrittany]

FACTS!!

[@sammysoup01]

Nope Lisa didn't reach out to her I think if she did it was about Graham or she is worried Lisa hates her for what happened to Graham

[@annaknotts6692]

i totally agree with your comment! i may not like what Rachel and Tom did...they did it. it happened . once a person apologizes they shouldn’t be sent to hates for it. we've all done things to hurt people (intentional or unintentional) and we ALL want grace

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

Very good question ?

[@gorillaX1944]

W Kyle episode honestly. He is kind, understanding, supportive, but not afraid to tell you his opinion even if it differs from yours. Love this guy

[@justatitle]

My take on Tom raising his voice to Lisa was like a son who is annoyed at his parents questioning. I feel like Tom loves Lisa like a mom, and it might feel appropriate to him to be able to let down his hair and vent. I’m not sure, but it was my first thought when I watched it. Tom talks to Lisa like a son might talk to his parent, no holds bar, because he knows her intentions are legit and he trusts her.

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

Yesss

[@mistymoonlight19798]

Absolutely! The whole time I was like damn they really are close! Definitely that mom & son relationship.

[@kristelcorrea769]

I think that may be partially true, but Sandoval routinely raises his voice to women, not just LVP. Not sure if it's a lack of respect for women on his part or he gets frustrated when people do not agree with him. So he raises his voice so he can be heard because he assumed they are not listening. It's a bad look regardless for any man to treat women that way. Not just Sandoval. Reality is no one has to agree with anyone 100% of the time. It's also reality to feel frustated when we feel no one is listening to "our side" of an argument, especially when we feel we were wronged somehow, and it hurts. Still doesn't make us right in whatever the argument is about. But when we "feel" hurt by perceiving ourselves as being wronged in some way. There has been plenty of times in my life where I felt I did nothing wrong and no one else seems to care or listen to my side of things. Or I feel that I am being overly held accountable for something I feel I didn't do. I can relate to Tom in this scene.

[@levasseurfam7577]

i think he has shown to be a great friend and very supportive. People make mistakes his are just public ours are not. Just bc ur a celebrity doesn't mean ur not a person. Do i think he handled everything well? No but he took a lot of blows that's a lot to try and deal with. They all did. I felt awful for Ariana but did the punishment fit the crime? Def not it was wayyyy overboard. The punishment was way more then should have been publicly speaking. People. Can type on a keyboard these awful things about him while their skeletons are hidden.

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

@@levasseurfam7577 well said !’

[@mandylem]

Love Jason's forced friendship question. Definitely feel like that w Ariana and Lala this season.

[@AnneMcdevitt-ox1wh]

He got a divorce and lost his home because of TOM

[@CarolContreras-bk2rm]

He is adult, not Tom S. S fault

[@lizdahl847]

Schwartz got a divorce cuz he was married to a psycho😮

[@gigisielaff]

can jason get a tray table for his laptop? is that in the budget?

[@fifilamoore1718]

❤ I think it’s like a security pillow , like hiding your tummy perhaps 🤔

[@drx6139]

Yes, the laptop on his lap is very strange. I could not sit in a meeting like that, idk how he does it for the podcast. Does he even use his he laptop during the pod?

[@tinalondon7622]

You and Rachel were cruel to Ariana.

[@jerryokeowo7197]

Its enough already you muppet…

[@yazminfair6660]

I’m over the hate Tom train !! Some Men leave their wife and children !! She wasn’t his wife it’s time for everyone to move on!

[@laurapotpie]

Man the amount of public hate he got and continues to get is insane!!! Like look at what Ariana Grande did when she took SpongeBob from his wife and baby- MUCH worse - and she's getting like a quarter of the public hate he has if that and her career is thriving. It's so nuts and so unfair what the public did to him. It's like a smaller scale Britney Spears public bullying.

[@AmandaJohn-k5m]

@@laurapotpieHe and Britney Spears could not be more different. Wtf?🤣🤣

[@karltsurudome656]

went to show in san diego...it was surprisingly great!!!! the band was excellent....the only thing was i lost a bet that i could get a picture tom......

[@kimberleighe_anne]

I love kyle. He speaks the truth. Your lucky you had those few people who saw you were deep low and they stepped in to help save you. Thats why i hated how the mob mentality got it was disgusting and disturbing to watch.

[@MeganLeeShultz]

Bahahaha the problem is we actually like Negan from The Walking Dead 🤣

[@glamcoffee841]

Looks like they used the “soft touch” lense on Sandoval 😂

[@joellesevigny6376]

I love the podcast. A suggestion, if I may : it would be great if you could talk about the episodes with more details!

[@KayVaughn-x8p]

I remember when everyone hated james an NOONE woukd film w him except u!! I think James is narcasist if anyone is!

[@jakestroll6518]

They are very similar. So either both are narcissists or neither is a narcissist. Or maybe just say “jerk” instead of “narcissist”.

[@lahaza6515]

What a good group of people here. Those chicks have run that situation into the ground for every dollar they could grab. At this point it's going to start looking manufactured if they keep it up because the proportions just aren't going to jive. Inevitably though; the Ariana girl will push so far that the pendulum will swing. The Tom Schwartz character started it off right by mention her "ego" in the episode. She didn't acknowledge it very hard visually, but I think it rang true to her on some level. We'll see. Fun show. I was living in LA the summer before last & when walking past Tom Tom & Pump; it was a really lame scene. All cardboard cut out young girls, goofy guys in skinny jeans & cheesy music. Not the hippest places, but definitely huge money makers.

[@marhar1172]

💯

[@mariascarzo2333]

Hang in there buddy ❤ some of us fans DO understand you and wish u nothing but the best honey .

[@leontineanderson919]

It was really nice to hear Tom goes out of his way to interact with fans before and after the concerts. Do you know how many groups don't do that? The meet and greets are usually just a chore to get through. Just a small observation in a terrific, revealing episode.

[@AmandaJohn-k5m]

Considering the ego boost that he gets from interacting and the attention that he lives for, it’s really not that surprising.

[@salmanilla7943]

Scheana is the Queen of cringe. The sunglasses were ridiculous.

[@crystalk.8342]

Sheana doesn't deserve his friendship. She was relentless on her podcasts and said her anxiety was triggered by this situation. She's marketing the victim mentality like a spoiled kid. She turned out to be an overdramatized self serving queen

[@rachelcook9083]

Kyle nailed it!! What a great and wise friend you have Tom!! 🙏❤️

[@2mis2TL86]

It’s not the first time Tom yelled at Lisa. Last season when she told him to wait before talking he said “can I get a fucking minute” bc he wanted to rip into lala and was mad she backed him down. Tom has shown small glimpse of who he really is over time but bc he’s OVER do the nice acts ppl believed him.

[@tomm7232]

Love you bro!

[@lifehealingmagic]

This episode made me like Tom. He's by far the most interesting person on the show.

[@SophaQ_____]

👉👉Tom don’t let the haters stop you from doing the podcast. A lot of us look forward to it. Now where tf is the latest recap??

[@sammysoup01]

So I'm not mad what you did to Ariana honestly she did it to herself, but come on now why even talk on it if you still aren't sorry. I feel the only reason you say sorry oh I have to learn from this but you legit did the same to Kristin with Ariana you should have learned then but didn't. So instead of putting on a performance and apology tour stop talking on it. Everytime you speak on it you try to fake cry you try to wipe away tears that aren't there and then to make Lisa feel bad for you, you bring up you have had bad thoughts knowing she would respond the way she did when you been living your life like nothing happened so doubt you had any of those thoughts so ashame on you for that. For now on stop talking on scamdoval and move on this podcast would be way better off and more will listen if your real not fake like you are being just know you have a face when you lie and try to fake cry your not an actor remember that nor singer 😂 yes I saw a video Im guessing the only people who see your show is to say they saw someone on tv 😂 so again stop talking about it because I'm starting to dislike you the more you speak on it and I'm sure I'm not the only one I'm still watching this episode and your friends are saying the same as I type

[@2mis2TL86]

lol “she did it to herself” hopefully you remember that sentiment when you have a daughter and a man hurts her. Be sure to say “awww sweetie but you did this ok”😂😂😂

[@AmandaJohn-k5m]

@@2mis2TL86For fkn real. It blows my mind and scares me when women say this nonsense. My first thought is always about their potential daughters.

[@esthergergen7415]

News flash to this trio, no one on the cast it trying to get a rise out of scumdoval or any of his cronies, they are simply stating the obvious about him and the only people he can keep in his circle now.

[@KayVaughn-x8p]

I feel like u have been judge by every word youve said..thst it mustb so scary to say anything. An its like nothing u can say is right..ive never seemed somebody judge so darn much..id b stumbling on my words too!

[@sammysoup01]

He stumbles his words because he isn't actually sorry he's on his apology tour with a fake crying and wiping fake tears people wouldn't say anything if he actually just shut the f up on the subject the more he speaks the more people can see his truth 😂 I don't like Ariana nor did I care what tom did but he is starting to look pathetic the more he speaks on it

[@Crespofutbol]

James says what he did to Tom was ten years ago and to get over it, he was 21 years old blah blah. Ten years ago Tom had around the same age James is now. James is still handling the situation like a 21 year old. Don’t let this group push you around ToM. Keep your head it up.

[@nicolekhorasani7019]

Tom, listen to Kyle, he is smart. You need to learn how to act better & try Tom, try not to use the word (LIKE) as your main descriptive word. Time to grow Tom, emotionally & in your vocabulary. Saying that, you’ve been a great staple character on VPR & we need to get past this so to have new story lines.

[@sholley11]

Love you Tom! ❤️❤️🙏🏽

[@Rosendick]

Question For you'll: How do You feel that vprs (James and Katie) call You "payroll friends"?. I found it VERY disrespectful. I think it is a point of honor. Mess with the Saint, but not with the donation.

[@justatitle]

Sheena’s hair was on point that night. Even LaLa looked glamorous. Yeah Tom you’re right it was different. Kids growing up.

[@barbraw-backtoeden7419]

Swartz gave them a place to meet so yes he was involved 🙄

[@theonetrueking2685]

I am cheering for TS to get it together.

[@AnneMcdevitt-ox1wh]

I wish Rachel would have pressed charges against that pervert for illegal sex tape. He needs to be held accountable! No accused you of being a serial killer, just a serial liar, a serial cheater and a disgusting human being. How dare you bring up suicide to Lisa. You know that you love yourself too much but you'll do anything for a little pity 😂hilarious!!

[@laurapotpie]

What a gross comment to minimize what he went through. Like please enough, have some decency don't watch his podcast if you don't like him. Like gross.

[@ethom7397]

I'm sorry but...... Every time he says he's sorry he ends it with a but.... He should just say i'm sorry and move on.

[@krslp]

I ❤ Klye Chan

[@aimeecalcutt4694]

tom your camera is smudged

[@sharbear4248]

I’m baffled by the irrational hypocrisy of 90% of the cast. It’s childish. James is still an infantile clown. His self-importance is embarrassing!

[@beebeebyrne]

30:11 sheena looks like shes struggling theres a lot of pressure and i feel for her that groups got some strong personalities but she jumped on the money train ... i do feel like tom would go hard on her like that...their friendship is genuine the consistent through out just drop the bad mistakes on both sides apologise and dont waste time you can see they need their friendship in this time i hope we see it sorted

[@beebeebyrne]

Kyle is such a good guy and realistic 38:58 Inital reaction is different to continuously bulling someone and on public social platforms i love this show but how can you get away with that Im suprised

[@zitabovee3491]

Tom I’ve always thought that you and Ariana were a bad match. She is extremely hypocritical cause she was hooking up with you when you were with Kristen. She was very belittling and rude to you and other people. I think your mistake was staying in a dead relationship. Also the way you handled it afterward. It should have been “I was a coward, didn’t have the balls to end it” end of story but the excuses is what infuriated people. I think Rachel now blaming you is super gross. I hope you don’t change the person you are cause you are positive and kind. I agree that the punishment didn’t fit the crime.

[@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie]

And I have to voice my other feelings lol 😂and I don’t know how to express myself in short form😅

[@yashiramarieperezfigueroa98]

Tom you need to understand that: you slept with Rachel when Ariana Madix dog and grandma passed away. You decided to stay with Rachel instead of being there for Ariana that is really wrong. James… situation…. well Rachel was her fiance and you decided to help him with the proposal. I hope that you understand that you did hurt people that love you.

[@KAte-ng9zg]

It seems him and Rachel think what Arianna went through isn't so bad so I wish they go through the same thing when they feel they are with their life partners so they can actually understand what she went through.

[@CoffeeBuzzzz]

I don't always handle myself great-Tom Sandoval...merch please!!!

[@laurazytczak9840]

🚨🚨🚨PAID FRIENDS !! You EMPLOY People !!!!!!!! Wtf !!! Who else on the cast does that … OH Wait, Scheana employs her husband 😅😅😊😊😊😊 still support you Tom! I don’t support what you did, however NO ONE else seems to like to be judged on their worst mistake..wondering when the statute of limitations runs out..like is has for the others…🧐🧐

[@Frequencychick]

TOM, you have been attacked nonstop for almost a year! It’s absurd. I always chose your side because I saw how she treated you in such a demeaning way, and rolling her eyes. Can’t even imagine how horrid she was off camera. We are starting to see it. Lisa was attacking you again in that meetup and she only backed down when finally getting that you were in such a dark mental space. You brought her flowers because you are so thoughtful and kind. She chose that moment to again reprimand you. Ugggh! She deserved your reply. She needs to back off already and hope nobody demands apologies ever again. You owe nothing and have amply apologized and don’t need to feel inferior to anyone. Nobody deserved one except for Ariana for betrayal, and she owes you an apology for her behavior in the relationship. ❤🙏🏻