Tus Ntxhais Yog Lesbian Ua Rau Niam Thiab Txiv Tag Kev Cia Siab. 8/19/2024

[@ShouaTojsiab]

It’s sad. I know it’s hard to accept that our children are gay/lesbians because we want them to be normal (I know because I’ve lived through this as a parent). People can say whatever they want to until they have lived through it, they don’t know. We need to be more open minded and accepting. If anyone should be blamed for the child being gay/lesbian, it’s the parents. Children can’t choose how they want to be born. It’s better to have our children alive being gay/lesbians than to loose them forever to death (whether from health or suicide). It’s so sad.

[@meeliving1345]

Koj hais yog kawg os.

[@tangfang375]

Thank you so much for approaching this topic. It is a start for understanding, healing, and hopefully moving forward.

[@meeliving1345]

Thank you for listening to my story. Appreciate it!

[@angie-gz4yg]

Judy is a very loving and forgiving person.

[@meeliving1345]

Yes, she is.

[@meganxiong3324]

Lig dhau lawm thaum yuav tuag mam tig rov hlub ces too late for both mom and dad because they are selfish parents if they have little thoughts maybe their daughter still alive today

[@meeliving1345]

Yog los mas.

[@JenniferYang-d1i]

As parents we should just be supportive of our kids. Zoo thiab phem yuav ua peb siab los zoo tshaj lawv tseem muaj txojsa nyob zoo tshaj. My kids are not open yet but I went through one moment where one of my child said non-binary. Ua niam mam peb tu siab thiab mob siab tshaj tus txiv. Tus txiv yuav cem yuav hais li cas los peb tseem hlub tus menyuam thiab yog tus quaj.

[@ongBakvue]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj rau Maiv Xis thiab Julie nkawd. Cas yuav hlub nkawd ua luaj.

[@nkaujsuablauj7966]

So sad 😭 story

[@phoebelor1173]

Ab yog kuv ntshe txais tos tsi tau thiab hos

[@corathoj3016]

😢😢😢

[@KayLy-yd4pc]

So sad hv nawb mloog ces los2 kua muag ua luaj nrog tsev neeg and you niam laus Mim.😢😢😢😢😂

[@meeliving1345]

Aws, yog 1 zaj neej neeg tu tu siab thiab los los kua muag kawg os.

[@yajfamily4320]

Nyob zoo os Viv ncaus kuv tuaj koom koj thiab os ❤❤🎉🎉

[@meeliving1345]

Ua tsaug os .

[@leevang7435]

Thanks for telling stories like these that aren't often talk about in the Hmong community :) It brings me hope that someone from my parent's generation / the older generation talk about this topic.

[@meeliving1345]

Thank you for listening too!

[@brian.vaj0806]

Very sad story, made me cry half the time

[@meeliving1345]

Yes, very sad and teary story.

[@leevue5409]

This is so sad..

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

Khub Niam Txiv no very old fashion tsis muaj kev kawm es thiaj tsis txais tos nkawd tus Ntxhais. Ob tug OG parents no es Ntxhais tsis tau tuag los twb muab hais tias tuag lawm no ne.

[@pazevang6579]

Koj tus hais zaj neej neeg ntawm kod twb yog poj niam es koj puas xav hais tias poj niam hlub poj niam no txoj kev hlus yuav mus taus li cas yog kuv mas ntshe txoj kev hlub yuav mus tsis taus os tus muam aw

[@lisvajhuam3553]

Yeej muaj tiag li koj lo lus qhuab qhia thaum txog yus lawm ces yus yeej tswv 8 tus tag li lawm os

[@meeliving1345]

Yog los mas viv ncaus aw.

[@nemolee7848]

Her parents want to see grandkids. How will this be possible?

[@ongBakvue]

Sperm bank. Very possible to do

[@serenasx]

There are many options for lesbian and gay couples to have kids if they want kids.

[@hmooblubneejpok]

Viv ncaus mee aw kv twb nias kj lub tswb ntev2 los lm kj kam no ho pab nias lub tswb 6 kv thiab mog

[@meeliving1345]

Aws, kuv twb nias koj lawm thiab os. Ua tsaug sib pab nawb mog.

[@mosvaj1385]

Kuv tsis ntseeg thiab kuv yeej tsis lam support hom no. Kuv ntsuag ntseeg tias yog tib neeg lub siab Xav tias yuav ua lesbian ces ua xwb tsis yog Ntuj tsim. Ntuj tsim ces yog ntuj , Vaj tswv yawm saub muab Yaj phom rau ces nws yog txiv neej , hos Vaj tswv yawm saub muab daim av luaj 3 nti rau ces nws yog poj niam xwb. Yog kuv tus kiag los kuv yuav tsis lees txais tib yam.