Is it time for us to have a baby?

[@helloglanz]

Mikael is a gentle soul. I feel like he's trying to say na he's def gonna be happier if they'll have one. But he's trying not to sound like he really wants to have one because it will put pressure on Megan esp that her fears on becoming a parent is bigger that her excitement.

[@genemaevioleta4180]

Same thoughts here.

[@rcaye6586]

I remember Mikael said in one of the episodes about budgeting . “Bones baka mabigla ka, may pangcollege na yung mga anak natin.” Pertaining to his savings. He really wanted kids

[@yona9893]

We are married for 16 years and no kids, but we are happy, I think for us it's not a choice but it's destiny.

[@roemi16]

First time kong makapanuod ng podcast nyo. And I must say, I really like how you as a couple are very open sharing your thoughts. it's very sincere. Akala ko kase, sure na sure na kayo sa answer before ko mapanuod. I didn't know na madaming explanations, where are you coming from, bakit ganun ang thoughts nyo. I really admire how Mikael handled the conversation. Parang hindi lang din sya agree ng agree. He's very understanding but also trying to lay out the possibilities. A lot of fears coming from Megan, and Mikael seems to be reassuring. He's not being pushy and you can see that he really cares for Megan. The respect is there. Sanaol na lang ako haha. Megan is a very strong independent woman. Not really afraid as well in sharing her thoughts and fears. This only shows that this couple has a strong foundation. Not all couples can do this. Mabuhay kayo and whatever happens in life, magkaanak kayo or what, sana stay pa din kayo as loving and supportive to each other. Rooting for you both!!♥️

[@christopherjohnsoncaoalo2739]

some millions of youth is missing this inspiring couple❤️❤️❤️

[@ski23doo]

It took a while for me and my husband. Until i accepted that my baby is my husband then i got pregnant. The baby is a bonus to a husband and wife relationship.

[@decz4457]

In our case me and my husband got married at age 26. We decided not to have kids muna and just enjoy each other's company. Until we reached 5 years of marriage and we were 31 yrs old already. that's when we realized "hey we're not getting younger anymore". So we decided to pursue our effort to have a baby. My first was miscarried but I got pregnant after one month. And I thought I would never have a baby anymore! Raising a child is not easy but happy, fulfilling and priceless. My son is now 18 years old and we are like cool parents to him 😊

[@marjoriemarjda6078]

OMG!!!Mafi feel mo tlga na uneasy na si madam bonez,naiyak ako kay fofo😢parang may lungkot xa kahit ang saya saya ng mukha nya!huggggs,,,hoooo nakikita ko self ko sau madam 13 years ago..andami kong takot,,yun bang panu na pamilya ko,(breadwinner),pano anak ko pag wala na kami work ng asawa ko..andami dami daming panu na...pero nung anjan na tlga..jusko biglang parang lahat na ng problema sa mundo kayang kaya ko ng harapin kasi may nagpapalakas na ng loob ko araw araw!yung mga what ifs ko dati biglang nawala at napalitan na yun ng ‘’ahhh sana pala noon pa mas bata ako nagka baby.😂😂😂

[@aileenjornales6972]

I realized, after being married for almost 15 years, that marriage is about two people and not about kids. Husband and wife first, kids are secondary. Kailangan kasi mentally, psychologically, financially, emotionally and physically ready to beat post partum , hormonal changes, lifestyle changes and shift of priorities kung may anak na. And if may kahit a bit of doubt pa, wag muna kasi hindi na yan maibabalik pa kung padalos-dalos sa decision.

[@sharinagalamgam3868]

same for me (33) and my fiance (34 soon). and we've been together for 13yrs. before, we always talked about having 2-3kids. but now, it's not a priority for us. if we are blessed with a baby, then okay. if not, we're fine as well. and it's sad cause people sometimes take that as us being against having kids, which is not. we basically just go along with where life takes us. one thing that worries us though, is that, what if the time comes na we do want kids, but it's too late na since women, as we all know, have a body clock when it comes to pregnancy. but we just have to live with it kasi yun ung decision namin. and no on can tell you that your decision is wrong.

[@ellehenries2224]

if you can keep yourself healthy, you have until late 40s to have a kid. some women even up to 50+. it’s all about taking care of yourself first before you even bring another life. take it easy ❤

[@allenroseosborne5951]

Once you reached 35, your eggs may not be as healthy as when you are younger and may lead to have difficulty in conceiving. And based on my experience, I regret that at least I should have frozen my eggs and now, I'm going to the route of IVF because we wanted it so bad but too late my eggs are not healthy anymore. This is just based on my experience.

[@nikkib8665]

I have the same mindset like bonez especially in my younger years..i got married at 29, almost 30. Then i got pregnant at 32 going 33. And im very happy because i thought talaga we are not gonna have a baby, its not like we havent tried but im like whatever happens happens. Now that im on my 7th month being pregnant, im totally excited of what lies ahead of our lives. Looking at our little bundle over ultrasound makes me more happier. What more once hes out.❤

[@yvettedelizo2501]

Ang bait ni Mikael, positive mindset. Makikita mo na excited na sya mag ka baby. 🥰

[@ziad7103]

I love this topic. S ngayon i have both of their ideas in mind din. Pero im more like meghan, im still not ready to be a mom. It's such a big responsibility even if i have a very supportive husband. For other people siguro it's so easy to decide on having kids, pero for me it's such a big deal. Even if somehow i know we're financially capable, emotionally i think i am not ready. Depende tlga yan s tao e. Like for me, i feel like im only starting to enjoy life AS MYSELF and with my husband. To each their own ika-nga.

[@androidtv8253]

I commend Mikael for being appreciative sa feelings ni Megan. Alam nyang hindi pa talaga ready si Megan and mas iniisip nya si Megan more than what he desire. Mikael comes from a big family kaya makikita sa kanya na he is a family man.

[@MystyxxEyes]

It is a hard topic to discuss especially if you have been trying for sometime and your body does not cooperate. It is always ackward answering to nosy friends, neighbors or relatives about when you will get pregnant (as if it is your fault if you still are not) believe me, been there done that and I got immune. If you plan on having kids there are always choices and options, it is not the end of the world. If you are scared and unable to have one biologically, there is always adoption. There are so many kids in this world the needs love and a good home. If you have so much love to give, consider this as well. A child is always a gift. You may feel exhausted at times but it is such a good feeling taking care of another human being and see how our love grows with them. 💗💗 God bless you both

[@JhaninaGarcia]

My favorite answer from one of my friends about having a kid/s, “you’ll never be ready.” And I realized, Oo nga noh. No matter how young, old, rich you are, you will never be ready to be a parent because there is no perfect guide for becoming a parent.

[@justNalyn]

Ang saya mag ka baby👶 and hindi naman po sila forever na sanggol. I'm sure ma eenjoy nyo ang pagiging baby nila🥰 In case, Just enjoy being pregnant it's a wonderful experience for a woman nakakatakot sa umpisa pero kasama na yun, lahat ng nanay dumadaan sa sakit☺️ For sure ma giging loving and responsableng parents kayo💖 Imagine your kid👶 watching this podcast. For now enjoy lang muna, mararamdaman nyo naman kung kelan kayo handa na magka baby, kapag wala ng mga worries.🥰

[@janella6250]

Ang solid nyong dalawang couple. Ang cute lang na d nawawala ung connection nyo, kahit sobrang tagal na ng relasyon nyo. Ang saya lang makakita ng kahit matagal na ung ralasyon d nawawala yung pag uusap kaya lalo kayong nagiging solid. At sana hndi mawala yun sainyo at mas lalo pa kayong maging solid. Give and take. Lagi nyong pakinggan ang bawat isa. Wag mag decide ng pang sarili lang, wag isipin ang sarili lang. Dahil may partner na dapat iconsider. Wish you a happy life and wish you to have a baby when the timing is right 😊 Only God knows ibibigay sainyo kung ano ang nasa puso nyo.

[@rinnaspade9196]

This is where I am at with my marriage life specially having a kid. Me and my husband has been married for 7 years no kid yet, a lot of people asked the same question "when are you going to the have a kid?" I say the same thing, "if i get pregnant good but if not much better" and i know some people are prolly wondering "WHY" which I don't think people need to know, I know some people are just nosy and assume that maybe one of us are defective which that's not the case, I believe in timing and right now im not ready for a big responsibility, physically to carry a child and emotionally im just not. So I say you do you as long as you guys are happy with or without. I really get what you're saying.

[@abengnimommy2767]

Nice conversation between husband and wife. Respect each other's opinion Weighing tbe pros and cons

[@maureenramos2858]

Halos same kami ng mindset ni Bonez. My bf wanted to have kids in the future kahit isa lang daw. But he is okay na whether we have kids or not. Kasi I'm trying to explain na it's hard to brought a child into this world. But I'm not closing any doors with that, too. It's just that I am nowhere near ready even though I'm almost 30.

[@karenkatecayanan1724]

I think one more way to mitigate Megan's fear which I think most of ladies have, is to make her more feel secured that whatever changes that may happen with her body, she will be loved, desired and accepted the same or even more with her partner.

[@joycefrilles]

With what this comment is saying about Megan's fear. I feel the same way.

[@romsycab]

While that is true, women could also worry about their bodies regardless of what others have to say about it. It is a personal issue.

[@kiml684]

I love this, as someone who doesn't want to have kids but had unplanned pregnancy.

[@rinaquintano442]

Women before define "being complete" when they have children but as we progress and got to be more open to self love, traumas, dreams, and fear, we realize that whats more important is not just bearing offsprings but if we, as a woman/e, are ready and healed. Being complete is not just all about having children. Please think thoroughly about the welfare (in all aspects) of the child. And it will be a lifetime responsibility, at your own expense. (Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, financial, etc.) PS friendly reminder that if you are not open to motherhood, please do not commit in marriage or even in a relationship to those who wants it. Its being unfair.

[@rufakha]

Your life, your body, your decision! Super interesting to! Much much respect to the both of you 🙏🏼

[@kismethug]

As a woman, I have the same mindset (as having kids at this point in my life) with Megan. Sa point naman ni Mikael, yeah we get it but it is easy to say that coz lalaki sya. The pressure of pregnancy is with women. The unknown is really scary for us. Other women are brave to move to the next phase which is motherhood. Malaking sacrifice naman for others like us. After pregnancy, childcare naman. Swerte kung supportive ang husband pero iba isip ng mothers e. For me, I hope partners/husbands understand and make women feel secure regardless of what her choice is. Di naman nawawala yung thought (or dream) na magka-anak. Just don't pressure your girl. 😉

[@sej081]

spot on!

[@evonnnie]

UP!!!!!!

[@Summersimmie]

indeed! it doesn't make us less of a person

[@dy_cokusina3069]

I agree 👍 💯

[@dorinasotto1149]

They're not not trying and their not avoiding

[@ysobel6965]

Really like how you talk ,listen and being honest with each other!

[@rizzanavarro7011]

we are on the same page megan ...im 39 now and still my decision is i will not to have kids because i am happy on my current life... i am having this mind set since im 23... i think find what makes u happy and it doesnt mean that having kids will make u happy....

[@bobababy6089]

Not gonna have kids either. I just dont see the point of having them

[@phv12]

Me and my husband are having these discussions as well. but in our case, we want to have a baby. we're 7months married but we still don't have a kid. Yes we're trying and kung ibibigay man, thankful kami pero kung hindi tatanggapin naman namin.❤

[@lrnyng]

I love the way you converse 🥺 You guys always meet in the middle and compromise.. You guys are like bestfriends that will never get tired of each other. I support whatever life God will bless you two. ❤

[@nayr0623]

You can never be fully ready when you have a kid (but ideal talaga if financially stable and the commitment is there na mapalaki ang bata ng maayos). Some people are sensitive about it kasi they're really trying pero di pa rin nabibiyayaan. It can be emotionally draining and frustrating lalo na kung may miscarriage nang naganap. Everyone's different, ang importante kung saan naman kayong mag asawa happy G lang.

[@imeldaombajin5813]

Have a great life and a good model to ur kids.goodluck.

[@mariabonifacio8017]

This is actually so healthy. I appriciate the two points as per own sex's perspective and the respect between them. Personally, I think before having a child, enjoy things, explore, and really do know how you two work because when a child is there, it really does become your world. Moreover, having enough experience together and knowing how to handle things will definitely help raise a child. But ultimately, marraige may be a start of building a family but it doesnt mean that a couple cant be childless. Overall, I love how they discussed before and after marraige perspective.

[@necromancer196]

goals pa din pagdating sa mindset.🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 don't give in sa pressure ng mga tao na kailangan magka anak kayo. di naman sila ang magbubuntis, manganganak at mag aalaga, gagastos at magdidisiplina ng anak nyo. tama yan na enjoy lang ang life,if meant to be-walang mkakapigil

[@almafernandez2758]

Eh ano ang point na nagpakasal na wala naman palang Plano na magkababy. Si Mikael ay excited na magkababy pero ang babae hindi ready. Tumatanda na at baka dumating ang oras na gusto nang magkababy e hindi na pwede. Matagal na silang nag enjoy Sabi nga ni Mikael.

[@necromancer196]

@@almafernandez2758 dahil gusto nilang magpakasal. simple. at sinabi nila sa video, malinaw na malinaw, ok lang sila me anak or wala. sinabi din nila sa video na wala silang ginagawa to prevent pregnancy. meaning, at peace silang dalawa sa desisyon nila. ang desisyon ng mag asawa dapat iisa lang, at nasa video naman na iisa lang ang desisyon nila-come what may. again di naman kayo magbubuntis, manganganak, magbabantay, gagastos at mag didisiplina if magka anak sila. yan problema sa mga pinoy, masyadong mahilig makialam sa buhay ng me buhay pero sariling buhay di naman maayos.

[@almafernandez2758]

@@necromancer196 hay naku vlog Yan di ba? Kaya pwede magcomment hindi naman ikaw yan..

[@necromancer196]

@@almafernandez2758 obviously vlog nga. nakasulat sa title dba? kaya pala di mo maintindihan na wala ka dapt pakialam sa desisyon ng iba, ang simple2 nasa title na nasa vlog pa mismo di pa rin gets. bago ka makialam sa desisyon ng mga taong mas maayos pa buhay kesa sayo, ayusin mo muna comprehension mo nang maintindihan mo din ang point ng video di yung kuda nang kuda na wala namang sense

[@justine5129]

Some of these comments are being really unfair to Megan. As the woman, it’s her life that drastically changes if and when they decide to have a kid. At the end of the day, she has the final say. They are already a family with or without kids.

[@titaizel963]

I will pray for us Megan, yung gustto naman tlgang mag ka kids, pero scared lang.. I will pray for us na bigyan tayo ng courage.. 🙏😊

[@itskimmynoona]

i can see how mikael wants to have a child in the future and i completely understand megan, having kids is a big responsibility, i live in Canada and this is my advice to my single sister as well, if she get to have a child that’s good if not then save for her retirement and live a carefree life. Living abroad is not easy too raising kids. Marriage is not just about having kids :) i tell this to my children as well.

[@mariavictoriarodrigo4978]

Hi Mikael and Megan. Love both your different points of views. Just surrender everything to the Lord your marriage that it will continue to be stronger and a family having kids if that is His will. It is definitely a different level of happiness and fulfillment when you become parents yourselves. So don't worry. So it is all in Gods perfect timing talaga. If He inspires you to have a checkup, go for it. He will guide both of you in your life journey. Just don't forget to surrender.

[@misstaurus4338]

My favorite couple dahil nakakarelate kaming mag-asawa, newlyweds ❤️❤️

[@shoipenoliar4519]

Based on may experience going 7 yrs narin kmi kasal ng aking mapag mahal na asawa, minsan kc nakaka presure din ung mga taong nag tatanung kung kelan ka mag bubuntis or mag aanak, like me di ko alam ung isasagot kc nag try ka pero minsan tlga di pa tlga binibigay ni god, mas masarap nlng enjoy ung buhay kahit wala anak.

[@annedrea3109]

Appreciation comment for Fofo for being very understanding with Bonez. A true man, indeed. I'd like to commend also Bonez, for being very honest and open for voicing out her thoughts especially as being the woman in the relationship, the carrier, as per Fofo. Praying that soon, you two will realize what is it that you really want in your life, hopefully before it's too late. Maybe you can try asking yourself now, taking your decision as a couple, not as an individual. "Will this be the same decision and the same life that we would want to have 10 years from now?" Then from there, it may help to finally realize what you really want. But eitherway, I will support you, guys, no matter what. Sending love to both of you!!❤❤❤

[@airakhonghun5459]

Yeah, that’s why you need to talk about everything before marriage. 😊

[@bhernaasistio8694]

Mas blessed kayo kapag meron kayong baby kahit isa lng kc bunga un ng inyong pagmamahalan , alam naman namin n mahal nyo ang isat isa kitang kita un truly kaya naman we are praying both of you na magbunga n ang inyong Love sa isat isa. Sabi nga ni Lord ang mapagkakatiwalaan sa maliit ay mapagkakatiwalaan din sa mas malaki because God is in control.

[@vanessavinola1452]

I love listening to both of you💖 but I like commend Mikael for being so supportive with Megan. Bihira yung ganyan na not forcing you to have kids or not making you feel less kasi 'di ka magkaanak or ayaw pa magkaanak. Plus, respeto kasi tawag jan and pagiging sensitive. Like me, i'm happy that my partner doesn't make me feel bad about it, kasi my PCOS ako, so mas malaking chance na di ako magkaanak. We don't stress each other about it (or at least we do not let it bother us), we are just enjoying what we have right now while preparing pa din for possibilities.

[@annedrea3109]

I will support you, guys, in whatever decisions you'll have. 🙏🙏🙏

[@motivationchannelforyou]

Bottom-line is ayaw ni Megan, gusto ni Mikael. Whatever is the outcome kapag matanda na sila ay happy kaming lahat and we love you guys. 😍

[@MsNotaBene]

I see myself in megan. My parents would always tell me to make faith to God stronger. 🥺

[@mumay7559]

Sana maraming Mikael Daez 😅 You are really cool couple, may God always bless your relationship.

[@airacartagena1200]

Ngayong panahon mas open na tayo sa feelings natin hinei tulad ng dati pagkasal automatic baby agad. Now andami pa dapat pag usapan🥰

[@this.user.is_taolovee.]

Yeah, tama si Mikael. Everything is possible to happen naman e. Napakaunpredictable nang life but the good side is that people can do something about it when something not particularly positive happens.

[@thelmaaguas6730]

I think the message you want us to get is that, if God bless you with a child then you have a child of your own.😘❤️🙏

[@ricardocepriano7543]

I always enjoy watching and listening to your podcast. The way you discuss things openly, it’s very matured and realistic. One question I want to ask both of you, please go back to your wedding ceremonies, remember you made a promised to both of you and in front of God and your witnesses that you will be open to life. Time is running out. I would like to hear from you.

[@ciefsm6834]

Super love this conversation from a mature relationship!!! 💯💯💯💯💯 More sitdown vlogs like this pls, we learn so much from you

[@titaizel963]

I am with you Megan, I have the same mindset. But I realized, that's when praying, trusting God, your partner, and yourself comes in. But I completely understand you.. Mikael, pray that God will give her strength and confidence about this matter. I understand that having kids gives you another purpose in life, but if we will just open our minds, napakadaming pwedeng iba pang maging purpose mo, so have kids when you're ready for the good and challenging that comes with it. And also, sometimes we are ready na, pero may changes din sa body that could hinder us. So yeah, You'll be okay guys, and with how you communicate with each other.. 😘👌

[@crazywhirlwind]

Megan brings up worries/points that not a lot of people talk about. Maybe it's a generational thing. But they're so fulfilled in their life that really a baby isn't needed to fulfill them or enhance their life.

[@vhinnx4449]

Kayo yung favorite ko na celebrity couple, at ewan pero ang bigat sa pakiramdam habang pinapanuod ko to. Siguro kasi isa din sa gusto ko masubaybayan sa inyo is yung parenthood. Nakakalungkot lang na hindi yun yung priority nyo, pero syempre nirerespeto ko yun as a fan. Pero basta HAHAHA, nakaka sad. 😢

[@JA-cp7mf]

bat ka nalulungkot, syempre ganun talaga ang magasawa sa hirap at ginhawa nga diba, Anyways nasa sakanila nayan and willing to ready to become parenthood. And ayan ang gusto kong panoorin o papakinggan sa podcast na ito habang single at college life pa, may idea na ako sa love life 😆

[@vantineg1201]

The best gift in life is having a child. Yung tipong nahirapan ka mn sa pagbubuntis, nagbago ang katawan at nalagay sa peligro ang buhay mo, pero you choose to bring life because of love. Your fears will only limit yourself in the long run. I hope time will come, you will accept the challenge of wanting to have kids because you love your spouse and you want to extend that love to your future kids.

[@walnut817]

One thing I learned when I got married was marriage is not about "yourself" only anymore, it's about being with someone and their happiness weighs more than yours. Lift up all your worries to God and do the rest. Your husband's happiness gives you more happiness. And their sadness just doubles up yours.

[@jk26viper29]

and how about the wife’s happiness? you are being 1 sided.. walang magagawa god mo if may trouble sa pagbubutis, dahil if merun, then wala sanang namamatay dahil sa pabubuntis.

[@moninaeleamdl]

Try to see way past the pregnancy and "little baby" situations, the child will grow as fast as you can think of. :) That's more likely what you can look forward to. God bless you guys!

[@astoldbyhera]

Watching this after forcing and giving my husband an ultimatum of having kids lol This is what a healthy relationship looks and sounds like. You've inspired me so much!!!🙏🏼✨

[@高村アルミダ]

Sana nga po mag ka baby na kayo super cute siguro ❤

[@bangtanpurple8916]

This couple was Amazing! I found out this #behind goals relationship when I watched them in Toni Talks and it was a great story as well. Then after that I searched it and luckily I watch 5 videos continuously tonight because this couple has a good heart and really honest. They are really good to listen too and its makes me inspired more about life because they bringing up different learnings, experiences, about their life that made me excited and watch them more. Hope for more podcast content and spread the love anytime and anywhere bones and fofo. God Bless po sa journey nyo!

[@ruthabigaeltacadino335]

Hi megan, hindi ako nagcocomment kahit kaninong vlog or video content. 1st time ito sa podcast niyo mag asawa. Almost we the same, takot na magkaanak in fact na baka may problema. 7 years na kami mag asawa at wala din kami baby because we choose na wag na lang. Na inspired ako sa inyo mag asawa, kaya papanourin namin ito mag asawa..thanks you both.

[@lettycabello9787]

Hello.All I can say is that you two have been matured enough to think about this.As for me being a mom I was also afraid but I look at the positive side of life and think about what a child could give to a parent like me when it comes out.I was afraid of delivering a baby but thinking about how my mother has brought me to this world made me grateful that somehow I know now how it is to be a mother.The challenge is there but since you are matured individuals I know you can handle it too well.I am already thinking of the cute “bonez and Fofo” would be. I am looking forward to it.Good luck to both of you and I am following your podcasts.I am so happy to know that you Mikael is a very mature individual and the way I see it always look at a better side of things for a better life.And I like your attitude.God bless you both coz you both click with each other.Take care of each other and we as your fans will pray for a better life for you like what I am doing as a BTS Army.I will support you both like what I am doing with BTS.I will be waiting for their return.

[@elainejnnrs]

First time watching your podcast. This relationship is goals. So much wisdom ❤ stay strong!

[@micci9865]

I saw these two in person. man, they were towering.

[@christinejimenez2413]

Hello! Guys, bagay na bagay talaga kayo at naiinggit ako kay fofo, kasi subrang mabait at gwapo. I love you as acouple. Para naman sa akin mas maganda pag may sarilj kayong baby kasi iba yung pakiramdam pag may anak kana. Lalong lalo n pag galing ka sa work tapos pag uwi mo sasalabungin ka ng anak mo maniwala kayo tanggal ang pagod niyo. Sa subrang saya niyo pagnakikita niyo anak niyo.

[@djrowena8659]

I felt sad for Mikael while watching this video. Conquer your fear of uncertainty, take the responsibility of raising kids and you will reap the immeasurable joy only having children can bring.

[@jk26viper29]

😂 then i will feel sad for megan, if she will force her self to have a baby even hindi pa siya ready. so respect each other’s choices.

[@djrowena8659]

@@jk26viper29 i do. i think she is not really planning or intending to have kids. well, thats her choice. i still love her.

[@jk26viper29]

@@djrowena8659 having kid shouldn’t be planned. if it come then it come. planning is supposed to be wearing condom. if they the husband is not wearing any condom during sex, then megan is ok to be pregnant if magkakaroon..

[@joicesahagun9760]

Wow! I’m so excited for this couple to have kids. Especially for Mikael, he will be a responsible and a great dad!❤

[@siskhaty8900]

I love your thoughts that you would just go with the flow.kung meron or wala its ok..at least ung heart ninyo open sa kung what is ahead.pero mas Maganda pa rin ung meron kaung anak kahit isa man lang.kc its another experience of your life ❤.

[@ridenmore2452]

Maegan should realize that husband,men in general wants to have a baby ( specially if it is a boy ) .And i can see that Mikael will be such an amazing father.

[@limitlessmeeples8013]

Wow! I really like this podcast and the topic! Napa subscribe ako! Haha Super relate. 12 years na kami ng partner ko and wala parin kaming baby, dahil di namin minamadali at super nageenjoy kami na kami lang. Dahil alam din namin ang pagkakaroon ng baby ay hindi basta basta, but same open parin kami sa possibilities na magkaroon parin ng baby. Pati adoption napagusapan na namin if willing din kami. Aha super relate talaga. Pati ung Reddit, tambay din si partner dun. #Childfree thread

[@reghhxxi521]

it just really goes down to what your priorities are in life. if mainly your priority is your careers, gaming or traveling, you'll just see that having a child will be a hindrance in your lives. but if you're more of a family-type kind of person, you'll see that having a child in the future will be very fullfilling. if the couple have different priorities, and would not compromise, we can't expect these kind of relationships to last. 😂

[@cherrydomingo229]

Ang talino ni Mikael. Worth watching.

[@jessadelacruz4676]

I hope 20yrs from now once you get old like 50s or 60s you will make a podcast again if you made the right decision to have a kid or not having a kid 🙂

[@ppyetv5851]

God bless sa relasyun nyu wag nyu kalimotan Yung God ang center sa buhay nyu para mag tibay ang inyung samahan

[@janinaabrenica4141]

i hope you can open up a topic a childless marriage but then nagka anak sa iba yung isang spouse within the marriage. 1. should you be keeping the marriage and accept the child? 2. how to communicate with the mother / father of the child out of wedlock? 3. what if 1 of the parent is not coummincating, or mahirap e communicate, how the obligation to the child works? can't wait to listen to your adoption podcast. intertesting. thank you

[@simplethings8112]

My ex wanted to have a baby with me before and I wasn't ready. I overthink a lot and have so much childhood traumas. I was afraid, I and my ex won't be able to raise the child properly since we both grew up in broken families. And now, he's with someone who is willing to give him a child. It hurts but that's the choices we have to make. Go on separate ways.

[@travelguidetoanywhere]

Kids or without kids stay in love. Your life your decision as long you are happy.. I Love your tandemn.

[@rebeccareyes7955]

Iba ang fulfillment ng isang married life kung meron kayong kids. Sana hanggang bata pa kau mgkaroon na ng anak. Yung career nio ay nandyan lng yan. Your both responsible naman. Will pray for both of you.

[@bernadetteaquino2698]

Its obvious that bones is not yet ready to become a mother while fofo is excited to have one. Guys, having a kid or kids is a blessing from above...and both of you should be ready so it will be given...bones you dont have to be afraid of having a kid coz its an awesome feeling when you have at least one...i think you should be more afraid of fofo looking for a girl who's ready to become a mom...just think about it😉

[@aprilspeakslife6994]

Before, I am also afraid to have a child. More like Megan's concerns - will I be able to raise a child well in this cruel world, etc. Then I received an advice from a mom, she said, your child is not your own, it is God's. So don't think that you are supposed to control everything as they grow.. the best you can do is just give them the love and the support that they need. For the things that you can't take control, you've got to learn to surrender it to God. Your child's gonna be fine. You've got to conquer your own fears. Believe that the love you have inside you is enough to raise a loving human being. ❤️ Pregnancy is not a bed of roses for most women and Megan has to conquer first her fears of the unknown. For sure, Mikhael will take care of you when you get there. ❤️ I am now on my 3rd month, and my journey has never been easy. I don't like the pregnancy, but I love my baby inside. So I've got to keep going and I am excited for more unknown journey coming my way.

[@eleanoradversalo4400]

Totoo.. na tayong lahat ay walang kasiguraduhan sa kung ano ang ibbigay sa aten ng mundo pero isa lang ang sigurado.. na ang Panginoon ay laging andyan at hindi tau papabayaan. Kami din po ng asawa ko kay mag 5 years ng married pero wala parin po kming anak. Sa totoo lang nong una parang nastress din aq sa pagkakaroon ng anak dahil sa mga sinasabi ng ibang tao.. but then through reading bible don ko narealized na wla din pala tlga sa aten kamay ang kontrol kung gusto o ayaw mo pang magkaanak.. Na kay Lord parin tlga.. sa kanya kse lahat nagmumula... he is our creator. Bsta anuman ang gusto mo sa buhay pagpray mo po at wag tayong matakot kse anjan c Lord hindi nia tau papabayaan at higit sa lahat wlang syang hinahangad palagi para sa aten..kundi ang laging mapabuti tayo. Kaya ako patuloy parin sa araw2 na panalangin, hindi lang para sa sarli ko maging sa mga katulad ko na nag aasam narn n magkaroon ng anak. Naway biyayaan kmi , tayo ni Lord ng anak. Hinihiling ko po eto araw2 sa pangalan ni Hesus 🙏 Wag din po tayong matakot sa mga bagay na hindi pa man dumarating... Ayon nga sa salita ng Diyos. Mateo 6:34 Kaya huwag na kayong mag-alala tungkol sa kinabukasan, dahil ang bukas ay may sarili nang alalahanin. Sapat na ang mga alalahaning dumarating sa bawat araw.” ibig lang po sabihin nito na one step at a time po dapat hwag po muna tau maging advance kse c Lord na po ang bahala pra sa mga susunod n araw. Matuto po tayong magtiwala sa salita nia.. at ang tunay na kaligayahan ay sa kanya po naten matatagpuan 🙏. Godbless po saten lahat.

[@aprilspeakslife6994]

@@eleanoradversalo4400 wow! I am so blessed po sa comment nyo. I am praying po na ma grant na ni Lord ang matagal nyo nang hiling na isang supling. The Lord sees you heart and the Lord knows the right time din. Let us continue to trust His ways and His timing. 🙏❤️

[@noriellebatalon4966]

Getting pregnant is not easy for everyone. Megan, I feel you. I get you. One thing is clear here, she/they are NOT not trying nor avoiding getting pregnant (meaning they ARE trying) but clearly naturally. Megan doesnt want to put pressure on herself. If it happens, it happens, if not then not. She's okay with both which is honestly a good and healthy mindset. Even IVF is not foolproof, if I am to talk from experience. She's even open to adoption so I see nothing wrong with her responses here. Megan, your feelings are valid.

[@maxdel3185]

Yey! Thank you for another podcast! I guess some people are just insensitive about this topic. Communication with each other is really essential. Have a blast with your life guys!!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@daisymendiola4559]

Excited to see a little Megan or Mikael! You have both really good genes and would be great to have kids. A child or children will carry the couple's legacy. Having kids also intensifies the relationship.

[@daisymendiola4559]

Megan needs to seriously consider having a kid or two.

[@MissJonie89]

This got me good! Physical change i guess is one of the most dangerous aspect that affects a woman's mental health. So peps,be careful on judging her.

[@christinejimenez2413]

I am always watching you guys, Ingat kayo palagi God bless you always!!!

[@rubymonares3465]

Ohhhh... napaka-deep ng conversation!

[@jhaybhelisleta781]

Nakaka hanga nman Ang pagsasama nyo very open kau s isat Isa...... Nirerespeto Ang bawat Isa..... Kami ni Hubby 16yrs. n nagsasama and pa 13yrs n Married Hanggang ngaun Wala p Rin kami kid..... Pero Hoping p Rin n darating Rin Yun.... Actually naghahanap n Rin kami maBaby n maaampon.... Kc marami n nagsabi n kapag nag ampon daw kami baka sakali....... N share q lng po....

[@eufemiaagotrosas5045]

Hope that have more than one kids one day for both of u as u both aspiring and good couples

[@imeldaombajin5813]

Nice talk good for to have kids.both of u have a great lifr.

[@kb-ie5mj]

very good guys as set of a good example to young generations who talk about having kids, the pros and cons. it so funny that, educated ppl are thinking how and when to have kids.. unlike poor and uneducated ones are like baby factories and they blame the government why they are poor... hopefully more younger generation put these videos of urs in their brain and think also.... gud job to both of u, a very good example! love u guys!

[@jhenneyocampo8434]

Love the conversations! And oh, I can relate! My husband and I are about to celebrate our 1st yr anniversary (next month) and after almost a year of being married we have not been blessed with a child yet. There's a part of me that feels sad that we don't have baby yet but the other part of me feels that its okay since we are still in our honeymoon stage. Please share with us your pregnancy journey, if ever or once you both decided to take a test just to make sure everything is well :)

[@mmej726]

embrace changes it ain’t that bad. once there, u know what to do.

[@liriosambaoa972]

Listening to this podcast, I really admire Mikael's personality. Having a partner with lots of fears is not that easy to handle. I can relate to Mikael because my boyfriend has lots of fears as well like Megan (not the pregnancy thingy of course because he's a man😁) but helping your partner to overcome gis fears is not a walk in the park. It is a long process, super duper long process 😞. It is hard for the adventurous person to encourage the conservative one to take a risk. It is even harder to understand her because he's not thinking the way Megan thinks but from what I have observed, he really tries his best to understand Megan and her fears. He's communicating with Megan, encouraging her not to close her doors in getting pregnant but at the same time, without pressuring her. Mikael is really a great husband and partner. But it's sad to see that Megan's fear is greater than her love for Mikael. I hope someday or soonest, Megan will overcome her fears. Mikael is a great guy. Salute to Mikael! I am praying for the progress of your relationship from only husband and wife to parents. 💕

[@androidtv8253]

It’s easy to pinpoint hardships and fears when you don’t have one yet. Pero lahat yan, mao-override once nandyan na. Lahat ng sinasabi ni Megan, wala na yang impact pag nandyan na dahil at the end, all you can emphasize lang is worth it pala ang lahat ng hirap. Kasi immeasurable ang kaligayan mararamdaman mo everytime nakikita mo ang anak mo. I know they are enjoying their life together now. Dapat lang din naman para walang what-ifs dahil naenjoy nyo talaga each other na kayo lang. Time comes may saturation din yan. Just don’t stop learning parenthood while you enjoy each other para hindi kayo sobrang mangapa. Enjoy in the side while learning in the side.

[@camilleeevrp]

Hindi naman lahat gusto mabuntis. Syempre it comes with a great responsibility. For me, hindi magiging selfish si Megan if she’s not yet ready because she is also thinking for their future child’s sake. kung gaano kahirap magraise ng bata. Also, hindi porket gusto na ng lalaki ay nakaka amaze na. Sila nga ang excited pero hindi naman lahat kayang magampanan ang pagiging tatay…

[@auralizsabangan3426]

To each his own. Take your time.

[@teacherjeck3144]

Yeheey!!! Praying for the both of you❤

[@jen4140]

I am sure maganda ang baby nyo because of you are both pretty and handsome.