30 Life Lessons I've Learned in 30 Years 🎉

[@monstyle1459]

1. Nothing is as bad as your mind makes it out to be 2. Nobody knows what's right for you but you 3. If it doesn't fit, don't force it 4. Gratitude is powerful 5. Be patient 6. There's never a perfect time 7. Confidence comes from doing 8. Growth comes from getting out of your comfort zone 9. Listen to your intuition 10. Honour your values 11. Good communication is key 12. This too shall pass 13. Take the initiative 14. Perfection does not exist 15. You can have balance 16. Life is full of nuances (nothing is ever black or white) 17. Failure is a learning experience 18. Self-compassion is life changing 19. Self-worth is steadfast 20. Think critically 21. Lessons from childhood.. 22. It's ok to ask for help 23. Listen mindfully 24. We can't have all the answers but we can always keep learning 25. Health/wellness can become obsessive 26. Compare less 27. "Unproductiveness is not laziness. It's either perfectionism, fear, not knowing where to start, feeling inadequate, or being stretched too thin." 28. Say sorry when you're wrong 29. When it all gets too much, take sth out. 30. Trust the flow of life.

[@danielleb6064]

This was a big one recently: Don't live each day as of it's your last. Live each day as if it is your FIRST. That just really resonated with me. I have anxiety and often find myself working from a place of fear. This lesson helped me to shift and come from a place of ... wonder. Good stuff.

[@jessicad7720]

One of the best lessons I’ve been learning lately, is that you have to take responsibility for your life, because no one is going to do it for you. Sometimes the only person who can give you the kick up the butt you need is yourself :)

[@rebeccaa9691]

I love this lesson😅😅😅

[@patyespinoza9037]

A good lesson I have learned is that "theris always something better coming", because in many times I have felt so upset about losing something (a friend, a job, etc), but you need to know that there is a superior reson why that is not in your life anymore. Just trust 💫

[@larae.5553]

Oh so there is a reason why I lost my childhood to illness? lmao Just joking you are right. always hold your head up high and believe that better times are coming. Hope is all we have after all :) I wish you a great day and a great life! Take care

[@patyespinoza9037]

@@larae.5553 i could say exactly the same anyway... illneses suck! 🙄 but we still going on! Have a nice day! 😊

[@thunguyen3425]

Totally believe it because i went through it

[@heathershand9083]

Happy Birthday Meghan x You can't control others; how they behave, what they say or do. You can only control your own choices in life. Once you stop getting upset at the behaviour of others and focus on yourself things get so much easier. That's probably my biggest life lesson in 56 years on this planet.

[@annarosalavecchia1910]

One lesson I learned was from the wonderful and optimistic Dolly Patron "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain".... So darn true!

[@darthfiende1]

This may sound cynical, but I've learned that everyone can be relied upon to act on whatever they feel is in their best interest from their level of understanding and authenticity. It makes my and others' actions way more understandable.

[@eloisematchbox5924]

Really appreciated this video, Meghan, thank you for making it! I think something I've learned/realised is you cannot please everyone and not everyone will like you - but that it's Ok and you have to be you and your genuine self. Your channel has brought me much comfort, especially during this difficult period of Covid. Much love! X

[@andreiadias2600]

Hey Meghan! I guess one of the best lessons I've learned is simply accept our emotions as they are in the present moment. We often push emotions away or try to deny them, when the key is actually accept them. So, for example, when I'm sad I just accept the fact that I'm sad. And that's fine, because I know is temporary. It's something that definitely needs practice, but once you've done the work, it's honestly life changing. Thank you for inspire us!

[@YehavHartman]

my lesson: question the narratives the mind creates. it's his habit and way of work, and can be delusive.

[@eevaashley9367]

Happy Birthday, dear Meghan🥰❤❤❤ Love you so much!!! Btw! Whoever is reading this comment.. Buy a book called You are a badass❤❤❤

[@ms1295]

So young and so wise! Thank you for such important lessons! Many blessings.

[@PrincessofErised]

I got my back. I trust myself that I will figure it out, that I will get it done, that no matter what... my self-worth is steadfast. You nailed it with that one. It is not about ego, but of trust ... in one self.

[@neveenfbable]

I loved all the lessons, Meghan, especially number 30. Trust God ( our Creator ) because everything is under His control and He is the most Loving and Caring.

[@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

Awesome lessons, Meghan! Continue to learn & grow! Awesome video!

[@zaraxael1778]

Meghan, I just discovered your channel and let me tell you... I'm obsessed! I've been watching your videos whenever I have some free time, it's all I do lol! Congrats for your amazing youtube channel and your 30th!

[@laurieanne3075]

i agree with this comment!! :)

[@queenbhatari5171]

This exactly me, I just found out her Chanel like one good day agooo , I feel like ts miracle to meet her.

[@queenbhatari5171]

Happy bday lov

[@lynflom125]

I was not a patient person either, but after having my 2 kids, patience is my best quality.

[@patyespinoza9037]

I love how passioned you express about all these things, thanks Meghan! 🤍

[@Autisticheather]

Touch people more. When you're talking to them lightly touching their shoulder or arm, goes such a long way in connecting and making people feel not so alone. Kids too!!

[@rushmanzero]

You are filled with all kinds of wisdom. Thanks for sharing this.

[@cynthiaotoole7996]

My Mum's birthday is same as yours Megan!! I love your videos, started listening to them yesterday. Thank you 😊 💓 Cynthia

[@ColleenChristensen]

Happy late birthday!

[@pocketfullofpetals6894]

The hardest lesson I've learned is to listen to myself and know my truth.

[@letsgrowtogetherr]

Valuable lessons. Thank you for sharing and happy birthday ❤️

[@scenepunk09]

I'm turning 30 in a couple of months and I hate it but I accept it...your excitement makes me feel better about it too. An important lesson I learned is no one really cares that much what u do. Like if u embarrass yourself they might not even notice. And if they do they will forget it pretty fast. Alot of these things we have been told but must be learned with experience...

[@trish-leigh3737]

Happy Birthday. You are amazing. I wish I had learnt as much as you have about life by the time I turned 30. I have just turned 60 and some of these were eye openers for me - guess we never stop learning. Thanks for the inspiration xx

[@absorbnatureexploringkashm2304]

Happy Birthday from Kashmir India 🎂 🎂

[@miensinaga4064]

"Live to the fullest, coz all we have is now" somehow this quote makes me calm from anxiety i have.. i really study hard about life has its own law.. Thankyou for sharing tho.. Happy birthday 🎉

[@wendyinvt802]

Happy birthday! Love that dress!

[@nayabshaikh2521]

Happy Birthday Beautiful ❤️ 🎂

[@shaisortino2760]

Thank you for this wonderful video Meghan. This came at the perfect time.

[@tammystegall5130]

Lived this .I'm 56 years old and it's good too hear these things .

[@hollylevey5889]

Happy belated 30th birthday 🎂🎉🎈

[@hellokitty-vl7by]

Oh Meghan! I can listen to you for hours and hours.

[@aniamroz-pacula9769]

Happy birthday, Meghan!🙌😘 Loving all the lessons, 21 just made me lol😁 thank you so much for sharing 🌞

[@anitaprudnikow2088]

A very Happy Birthday to you Meghan Welcome to 30

[@yarayosf8664]

OMG, that's one of the most important and valuable videos I've ever watched on KZbin 😍😍 it's like I'm reading a book! Thanks for sharing this with us, we love you ❤️❤️❤️

[@orangeleaf2096]

Happy birthday, although you are half my age but I learn a lot from you, good job and keep going

[@1980frey]

Happy birthday!! The quote i try to remember (it is kind of a lesson as one you mentioned) "Everything ends with an Happy End. If you are not happy it simply means it is not the end" - i heard it in an (awsome!!) movie "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel". :)

[@tashatipton1810]

Those movies are my favorite! So many good lessens and so uplifting. I love movies that have meaning and teach you something!

[@annicknicky3673]

If you can't do anything about it, don't worry about it. I read about this in a magazine and it just stuck with me. I'm still learning to live bij this, but I'm not as impatient anymore when I'm behind a slow driving vehicle and I can't overtake it, I just stay behind it and try to enjoy the view around me as long at it is safe.

[@paulafeliciotti483]

Happy birthday!!! Thank you for these 2 or 3 years !! I love your channel !! You've been a great teacher for me and, going through my healing process was so much better with all the información You share and your company. I'm grateful for this! I hope more people discover your channel and follow you ❤️

[@CupCakesNKittyLitter]

Thank you for this!

[@pattycandle3596]

Hello from France ! Love this video really ! My favorite thought when I'm anxious : Don't worry everything is going to be ok. The best is yet to come.

[@itsallaboutnothing2672]

Amazing Just THANK YOU💖💖💖💖👍👍👍

[@athenagem17]

Happy Birthday, Meghan! I'm so happy I came across yong channel last year. 💖 whenever I watch your videos, you're like a mentor/big sister who reminds me to take care of myself or be at peace with myself. 💙 I wish you more happy, and healthy years to come! 💖💖

[@dbrown2890]

Two lessons I have learned in life is : Do not continue to help people whom do no want to be helped . Let them go. Their failure can either teach them or detour them . But it is not your job to fix their issues especially when they fail to listen to well rounded advice . Also, do not expect much out of people . Understand the difference between the potential you see in someone versus they reality they present .

[@jannatara5685]

Happy Birthday Meghan 💕

[@joanmcmanus5320]

Great video, Meghan. To add to the reasons for unproductiveness, I would say that it could also be the feeling that you must do a job that is unfulfilling (which you may or may not want to consciously admit).

[@meghanlivingstone]

Good point! That’s a big one too!

[@8randomprettysecret8]

Happy thirtieth birthday 🎉

[@erljimenez8824]

Hello Ms.Mhegan..."being in 30's is such a great time of our lives,, we learn so much💙💙💙

[@smartmom7758]

Great tips great video I am over 30.. it's still good to hear all the tips

[@petitsjoujoux5011]

Happy Birthday Meghan!!! I just turned 30 too about 10 days ago (January 16). It was an interesting video to watch! May you have many more joys in your life :)

[@siddeswaran8440]

Wishing you a day filled with happiness and a year filled with joy. Happy birthday!”Have a wonderful time and a very happy birthday!” “Hope your special day brings you all that your heart desires!

[@ririrodriguez3395]

Happy 30th lovely Meghan! Stay well xx

[@jenniferknowles2023]

Happy birthday beautiful! 🎉🎈🎂

[@palakjain1099]

listening to you feels like I'm talking to a friend

[@cathylynnpietranton]

Happy Birthday Meghan. Brilliant video.❤ I've learned self love.

[@basraabdi9479]

My favorite part is " it's not two peas in a pot, it's two peas in a pod" " it's not human beans, it's human beings" . Love it!

[@ariklinkman293]

Happy birthday 🎁 30 is such an emotional year!

[@angel5894]

Happy Belated Birthday!🍰🥳

[@lyndreemalang6302]

What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger. :)

[@anueerola9242]

Happy belated birthday Meghan!! 🥳

[@aditimahato1476]

Happy Birthday 🎂....and thank you for sharing...these tips are so so helpful ❤️❤️❤️

[@fotinichristodoulou7326]

I love your calm, non judgemental and positive energy! So many great tips.. Personally I found no. 1, no. 18 and no.22 unbelievably helpful... Thank you! ❤️🙏 P. s. Happy birthday!! 😊🎂🎉💐

[@robin231176]

Anger does more harm to ourselves than to the object of our anger.

[@carriefry8847]

Happy Birthday🎁 Thx for sharing this with us!

[@ifigeniapapadelli5688]

A very important lesson that I've learned over the past couple of years is that... Healing takes time! 😏❤️

[@ActionPills]

💊 - Nothing is ever as bad as your mind makes it up to be 💊 - We all have the answers within us 💊 - If it doesn't fit, don't force it 💊 - Gratitude is powerful 💊 - Having patience 💊 - Waiting for the perfect time can lead to waiting forever. 💊 - Confidence comes from doing the thing, not just thinking about it. 💊 - Growth comes from getting out of your comfort zone. 💊 - Listening to your intuition and being honest with yourself are key. 💊 - Living by your values enriches your life. 💊 - Staying true to yourself is important. 💊 - Good communication is vital in relationships. 💊 - Express yourself openly and honestly. 💊 - Remember that this too shall pass. 💊 - Take initiative in life. 💊 Perfection does not exist and balance is important 💊 - Realizing that perfection doesn't exist is liberating 💊 - Having balance is key to feeling joyful in life 💊 - There is a lot of gray area and nuance in life 💊 - Not oversimplifying things is important in understanding life's complexity 💊 - Failure should be seen as a learning opportunity, not a loss 💊 - Lessons from failure can be applied to future situations 💊 - Thinking critically in an objective and analytical way helps in making good choices in life. 💊 - Being open-minded and allowing beliefs to change fosters development of more sophisticated perspectives. 💊 - Asking for help is more than okay and it is impossible to do everything alone. 💊 - Practicing mindful listening leads to better conversations and learning from others. 💊 - Accepting that we don't have all the answers and embracing continuous learning. 💊 - Being aware of the dangers of disordered eating and diet culture in the health and wellness world. 💊 Comparing your life less to others, especially what we see on social media 💊 - Focus on your own real life 💊 - Learned the importance of trusting the flow of life 💊 - Everything will work out in the end

[@travelvloggerdaisshing4740]

Happy birthday meghan 🍫🍫🎂🎂

[@myname7303]

You are beautiful human being. I wish you happy birthday 🎉

[@floatingthoughts]

so wise and mature for your age! thanks for sharing!

[@anadajevic3024]

Happy b-day! 🎉🎈Your thoughts on this topic were very interesting and wise, thank you for sharing! Lesson that I learnt this year was - try not to lie to yourself, especially when it comes to your values. Not being honest with yourself is making you unable to know your true self, your purpose and achieve true fulfillment.

[@maevaidosa1646]

Happy Birthday! 🎊 Awesome video.

[@ajoyfullsound]

Happy birthday!

[@mariamnader2016]

Happy birthday beautiful Megan ❤ Nd thank u so much 🙏💛

[@benlesher1442]

Great Great Great! Just Great. I've Been following You for 3 years now. I'm impressed how sweet and mature You are Now. Happy Birthday. Ben and Terry

[@angelinarusso2430]

Happy Birthday!!!!🎉

[@carolc2574]

I really ove your content, Meghan. Happy birthday!

[@mayor_dj]

Hbd! I became 40 in the beginning of January. Thanks for the list

[@tangleofmaya1971]

happy birthday, and thank you for this video. hope you doing well.

[@sababeauty21]

Each time i watch your video I learn something new, thank you for adding value to my life, I have pen down each and every word. Thank you so much, please do create a video on angry control in all situations please 🙏

[@michelleyl1202]

Love this Meghan, such valuable lessons!! Very inspiring! 🥰

[@ruchiparekh5175]

Thank you so much for sharing the life lessons you've learnt!

[@thinnthuzarhtet4823]

oh my Happy Birthday 🥳 we are neighbours 😅 I turned 30 on 9th January 🥰

[@intentionaldes2654]

Been enjoying your videos I aspire to create content as good as you haha

[@laurencoeling9710]

Human bean! 😍😍😍

[@carnellburgess6349]

Happy Birthday 😊! Enjoy Your Special Day 😊

[@jeremiepineda7698]

Belated happy birthday!!!

[@equipo1557]

love it

[@Batmanda1014]

Happy birthday! Keep up the great videos! 😁

[@jasmineneupane8213]

But still you look sooo adorable and you have such a baby face hun 💖 Lots of love!!

[@claireoh1966]

Happy birthday ❤️ 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@RH-qx7wm]

Everything I thought I needed to have in order make me happy actually made me miserable and when those people and things went away or when I let them go, I found the freedom and happiness I was searching for all along. Joy comes from within and living life to the fullest no matter what! Environment has much to do with it as well. I found a spot in the Universe that I absolutely thrive in. One day I was sad because I was an empty nester and left my husband. My sister told me, “oh, you’ll get over that real quick once you get the taste of freedom. You’re kids don’t have to live with you for you to be ok and happy,” She was so right! That is my mantra now for everything that seems like a loss or that I think I need to have in order to be happy. “Oh, I’ll get over that real quick!”

[@ms1295]

I’m looking for that spot in the Universe as well! Curious where yours is? Glad you let go of things that weren’t making your happy!

[@RH-qx7wm]

@@ms1295 Cincinnati, Ohio. It has it’s negatives, but the positives far outweigh them. The people are just so inclusive and fun. There is a spice of life here that is like no other place I’ve been. It is rich in diversity, which is what I love so much about it. It is a melting pot of different cultures. I just love it! No, it’s not fancy, it just home. I’ve had fancy, but fancy is such a chore. I’m more into use value of items. With people, I’m all about finding ways to enrich the lives of those around me. The setting I’m in is just perfect for my needs and in ways that I can give. It is a place that I want to contribute to, not because I have to, but because it just brings it out in me. Also, the Reds games are for gathering and cheering on our team no matter what. And no matter where you’re from, you’re always invited to gather with us. Always home in Cincinnati.

[@pearlbotts]

Ugh I love this! Happy birthday :)

[@lesleyjackson7691]

Such a great video! Thanks for sharing. I think there are a lot of reminders in there for us. I for one am trying so hard to let go of my perfectionism - not easy! Stay safe Meghan. x

[@julia9337]

Very wise lessons! Thank you 😊

[@SanjeevKumar-wg8xh]

Happy birthday🎂🎂🎂

[@invlogn7943]

Hi Meghan,my English is really bad but i learn English in University of Indonesian, I watched your vidio two days ago. I think your vidio's can help me to learn English and many ideas in this vidio's so i really like it😀

[@annanemcova2025]

Great as always! Thanks!