Being a Female Motorcyclist - Harassment, height, & other differences

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00:00 - Introduction & Context
02:55 - Physical Differences
08:19 - Social Settings & Harassment
14:11 - Some Positives!
16:42 - Final Thoughts
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[@MeghanStark]

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[@damien5558]

I think there should vo more girl rides its just a not for man andi thinks its pritty sexy to see a woman riding a motorcycle hot hot lil but ye there should bemore of them 🏍️🏍️🏍️🏍️🏍️🏍️🏍️🏍️🏍️😘😘

[@Jeff-Vader_head_of_catering]

I almost didn't watch your video, purely from the title, but I decided to let your video speak for itself. I liked it, and I might subscribe, but it depends on what you're going to focus your channel on. I can identify with the person who commented on your video, that you talk about, here. However, and I hate that I have to specify my "identity", but I feel it's pertinent to your video... As a "male" rider with decades of experience under my belt, welcome to the motorcycling community. Sincerely. Not all of us are (insert 'ist's or 'ism's'). I don't even think that the majority of male riders fit in that category. I wont claim to know what women go through in any context. I can't. But riding motorcycles is a "club" or team, just like anything else. As such, the team members (both men and women) have every right to assess you. This is true in any setting, whether it's motorcycles, or the Chess Club, or anything in between. Nobody likes the arrogant jerk who comes in as a newb (not saying that you're either) and tries to immediately claim street cred. People who fit that definition are usually shunned, regardless of their "descriptors". Equally, nobody likes identity politics. You have every right to make whatever videos you want, and title them whatever you want. But the moment you start saying "woman rider" this and "as a woman" that, you're already discrediting yourself, by giving yourself an "out". Riders respect (good riders), period. Meaning, if you're into trail riding or adventure riding, then be extremely good, or be the best technical adventure rider amongst *ALL* riders, not just women. That's called earning respect, and that's exactly what you'll earn (from everyone), when you don't "qualify" or segregate yourself. If you come at it as "a rider", you'll earn respect amongst everyone. If you always segregate yourselves and put the qualifier of "woman" or "female" or whatever qualifier you choose, people will always put an asterisk next to your accomplishments. I'm glad more women are getting into motorcycles! The motorcycle riding community needs more people! But don't subcategorize yourself, if you truly want the respect of your fellow riders. Just my two cents.

[@AntiParallali]

seriously girl, the most relatable video ever

[@MeghanStark]

Thank you Lali, I love your channel! 🤩

[@sinkyourteethin9875]

As a 5’3 woman rider, I always love your insights on things like this! Thank you!

[@AstheMagpieFlies]

It's def crazy how it's so much easier to make friends on the internet (or even at events) just by being like hey your a lady rider, I'm a lady rider, cool *instant friends* XD

[@ashleyb9586]

I certainly get a lot of stares too. Feeling like you have eyes on you is something that takes getting used to. As a fellow introvert, I tend to simply avoid many social instances that would potentially bring on undesirable interactions with strangers 😄. Wearing a full face helmet certainly helps ease some of my anxiety. I just feel more annoymous, if that makes sense.

[@MeghanStark]

Yes, I live for the full face helmet! And my mirrored visor makes it even better. I love how the helmet turns you into a new character, as though you're not a regular human like everyone else on the street. Our little fish bowls 😊

[@ashleyb9586]

@@MeghanStark 😄 exactly

[@Keka-vg3ut]

Seing a chick on a bike is like a penguin seeing a Polar bear thats why everyone is looking

[@melissagreen7049]

@@MeghanStark I have been lucky I guess not to get any harassment, but I ride a Triumph which around my area is very unusual and yet recognizable to a lot of people so I do definitely get a lot of questions at gas stations or stop lights. Usually people think I'm on a vintage bike so that's pretty funny.

[@zedddddful]

I'm sure we don't mean to stare but it's mostly blokes just being impressed most of us think it's really cool seeing the ladies ride.

[@Linda-cb1ri]

I always wanted a cafe racer . Family said I couldn’t do it and my bad ex marriage did not allowed me . Now that I got rid off the negativity I went and bought a moped that is shaped like a ninja . Went up to 45 mph. I loved the feeling I felt so free. So I saved up and bought me a HD cafe racer. I’m lowering it soon and I’m learning alone . This has made me feel alive , unstoppable and free . I literally cried. It just means so much to me

[@matthewholmes7597]

Hi Linda how are you nice motorbike

[@blackomet5049]

I'm a male rider and something that surprised me is that I have never received as much genuine concern for my health from other people than when I started bike riding. People you don't even know will see you riding a bike on a small city during very quiet hours of the day and they'll still go "Hey, be careful out there. Okay?"

[@JoyonaBike]

Being a shorter rider has always been one of those things that I’ve had to work around. I hear about an awesome bike, go to sit on it, and nope! Too tall or big for my comfort. I will say the only negative experiences for me as a female rider would be male riders disregarding my knowledge of or experience with bikes, only making eye contact with or speaking to my husband in a conversation when I’m standing there (and they know I’m also a rider). Great insight from you!

[@tkaci718]

What type of bike did you start on?

[@tkaci718]

My lady wants to ride and she’s 5”0, and nothing outside of the rebel seems to be comfortable for her.

[@JoyonaBike]

@@tkaci718 I’m 5’3 so not quite as short. Really I started on a 125cc Genuine Buddy scooter, but the first motorcycle I felt comfortable on was my 2013 Suzuki TU250X. I also have an aftermarket seat on the Suzuki which makes it a little bit shorter compared to the stock seat because it’s thinner height and width wise.

[@stroker28]

I’m on the shorter end for guys. The first spec I look at when window shopping, seat height. On a triumph bonneville now. Can see that working for shorter riders.

[@76loridawn]

You pretty much nailed it. For myself and my daughter it is the awkward compliments. "You ride a bike? Good for you!". "You go girl!". No one looks a guy getting off a bike and says "You rode that? Good for you!", except for my daughter and myself because we have heard that kind of remark so much that we say it to each other when we see a guy and a motorcycle.

[@johnthomas2485]

I can't speak for other guys, but I'm for anything that grows our sport. Women are the largest growing segment right now, a point I've made to the AMA. Which is also why Alpinestars created their Stella line.

[@juodagalvesniegena714]

guys don't get that told because 95% of bikers are male,girls have it great,if a man enters a female dominated field he gets negativity,like nurse males get called bad names,yet every time a female enters any male field they get cheered on,if it's a high paying job it's some feminist remark-look how women are great,if it's a low paying bad job like mining or plumbing females get called heroes. Men get shit on no matter,rich or poor,lazy or hard working.

[@iamnobody9001]

@@juodagalvesniegena714 shhhh…. Stop saying the truth out loud. Let them think THEY are the victims in today’s society

[@Black.Sabbath]

@@juodagalvesniegena714 Waaaah stop being such a crybaby.

[@ThermicLight]

@Sulf korb - Unfortunately motorcycles invite a certain demographic of people, whether male or female, that behave like typical squid's. Yet you have women with so much entitlement, after I can only imagine being cuddled, that they think any resistance in any social environment must be because of muh womanness.

[@johnalvarez3376]

Much respect to all riders out there. In my 30+ years of riding I’ve seen almost every type of rider there is. From multi skilled daredevils on 1K baggers to jittery newbys on scooters. Based on my observations over the years I can attest that some of best riders out there are women. They tend to be more cautious than their male counterparts.

[@michaelsweet6709]

As a male rider in Milwaukee, I get harassed and made fun of because I don't ride a Harley, but it's mainly by the "Patch" wearing crowed. Much like you I ride on my own.

[@kingstonlabelle6954]

At this point just say “up yours buddy” and rev bomb them

[@pdx650]

Michael, fortunately, the only ‘patch’ crowd I’ve seen around portland, Oregon is the cma (Christian motorcyclists association). I’ve ridden with them a couple of times and, of course, it is always positive and never degrading to anyone.

[@edsbikerstuff]

Harassment in any form or situation is inexcusable. I even get harassed on my Harley but I can imagine it's so much worse for women. Thanks for the insights. Take Care.

[@manny_69x11]

I’ve never experienced harassment while riding, but have had other riders follow closely while heading in the same direction which I think is weird. I’ve found a great way to send the message you’re not interested in riding with a random is to ride in the center section of the lane. It’s great seeing different parts of Milwaukee on your channel. Ride safe.

[@ReeseRides]

Can I just say that I love that you're among the awesome motovloggers that are representing female riders in such an awesome way? (And inspiring fellow entrepreneurs!) Sometimes I feel women riders/motovloggers are over-romanticized at times, when at the end of the day we're just normal people that love to ride motorcycles. As for my own personal experience, I was expecting a lot of pushback from strangers about riding-and yet I've received minimal negativity-just lots of encouragement. When I went on my first group ride, I loved that I was treated like a normal person. I wasn't singled out for being a girl. I really appreciated and respected them for that. Just talked about bikes and it was great. Hoping the motorcycle community continues to grow and be more welcoming to ALL riders.🙌🏻

[@Ang.0910]

After reading a lot of comments I find one thing in common…lady riders want men to treat them equally but we ladies need to realise that since the beginning of time we have been in the “supportive role” to men, not even 2-3 generations ago women were still in the housewife role. We are the beginnings of more gender equality. Imagine in 100 years where women will be. So just take the backwards compliments and surprises as positive and keep rolling on 2’s! ✌️

[@matthewholmes7597]

Hi Ms Angela are you ok

[@GwenMotoGirl]

I ride and I’m a gal and I’m in Texas. I’m close to retiring from my current career. My first two careers were in male-dominated industries with the first being 40 years ago. I was “the girl with the big tits” as if I didn’t have a first name. I loved my work and I focused on doing the best work ever, so eventually, I earned the respect. I could tell hundreds of stories about verbal and physical abuse on the job site though. My point is that I learned to work around all this and still have good male friends and a couple of wonderful male mentors. However, even though I had that experience, when I got my license at age 52, I caved to my now ex-husband’s immense pressure to get a bike that did not fit me. It was too tall, too wide and way too heavy. It almost completely turned me off riding. When he left, that bike went with him and I got something that fits me well. And now I mostly ride alone and love it. I get more positive and supportive attention than negative. Thanks for your insight on this topic.

[@MeghanStark]

Thank you for sharing this Gwen! Some people will just try to grind others down, but focusing on your work and what you can control can really shut up any naysayers. Being in male-dominated fields isn't for the faint of heart, especially in years past. I'm glad you've gotten a bike that really suits you now too!

[@GwenMotoGirl]

@@MeghanStark thank you! I’m glad, too.

[@abhishekshah5961]

I am sorry you went through all this. Utterly shameful. I hope we learn tosee beyond gender, as a society. It's great that you're a riding enthusiast. Sometimes all you need is a ride alone. Just you, the wind and the grunt of your motor!

[@GwenMotoGirl]

@@abhishekshah5961 thank you!

[@ronmoore3987]

Hi Gwen, so sorry your ex put the whole pressure thing on You. Ive let that happen a time or two to myself in life.Nowadays I usually don't take to much advice, as once people get to know me , seems they think I'm treadmill or something 🤣

[@williammckinlay5191]

Hi from Australia, I’m an old white guy who used to ride. I love seeing women riding motorcycles and I really liked this vid. Keep riding and and ignore the shit-for-brains who give you crap.

[@miratronproduction974]

Best video so far Megan ! As a white male and someone who rides over here in the PNW I've had a few harassment incidences myself . Two from women and another late at night from some kids who I assume we're bored and looking to make some trouble . I definitely feel women get harassed more on bikes and we men need to better in supporting all our fellow riders its long past time we put these double standards behind us on the rode and everywhere else in life . Thanks for bringing your perspective to the community its valude and 100% encouraged.

[@portapawl5396]

Thanks for the insights! As a shorter guy I relate to the tall motorcycle woes. Motorcycle reviewers all seem to be 6 ft 2.

[@lkj974]

amen. and riding groms and monkeys.

[@alanhassall]

Reviewers also assume that we are all proportioned the same. Being 5’7” with a 26-27” inseam, there are a lot of 5’7” riders who can flat foot on the bikes that I ride.

[@Lei.theRogue]

It definitely took me a longer time to build my confidence on a bike compared to my taller girl friends. I've had my fair share of harassment from drivers and rando pedestrians. Luckily, none of those situations escalated out of control but still pretty damn scary/ creepy whenever it does happen. I'd say being a female motorcycle rider (or just a female in general) can be hella weird in the online space-- people are so quick to judge your life through a picture. On the plus side, being apart of the female collective can be really empowering in a community full of people that believe women shouldn't even be on a motorcycle. Awesome discussion topic! PS I love seeing the Milwaukee views in your videos!

[@MeghanStark]

Thanks so much! Certainly a blessing and a curse, but there really are a ton of benefits of putting yourself out there. I've had a really great experience of sharing online overall and have had to grow into being okay with being misunderstood/misrepresented/ridiculed. It's a fast track to a thicker skin!

[@alanbrown5593]

I just came across your channel, most of us have female relatives, and all of us a mother. The lack of courtesy and respect at times, is truly astounding. You are a Lady who happens to ride a motorcycle, not better or worse just different, but still an equal. I ride a bmw R1200GSA and have a 29" inside leg, it is about a +ve attitude (and training too). Don't ever let the Neanderthals (of either sex) put you off, do what makes you happiest. It's because you meet the nicest people on an Honda, allegedly.

[@KrakensGarageandAdventures]

This is a really good talking point. My mother rode until she was 73, she's 88 now and hung up the spurs. She was very much an extrovert and I would say the most annoying part of her riding from the late '70s until like 10 years ago was men always wanted to give her advise (usually pretty bad advise) and I saw her put many of ones men in their place over the years. lol Great content ma'am. Eric

[@AmericanLoser360]

You are so well spoken! Thank you for representing the female rider demographic 🙂

[@kelseylengjak8748]

I couldn’t agree more - when co-workers, family, and friends found out I was getting my license they were overly concerned with my safety. The attention can be annoying, luckily, Atlanta, we actually have quite a bit of women who ride. Thanks for sharing!!

[@surferdude642]

Atlanta? You must know doodle on a motorcycle.

[@scottschaeffer8920]

Sorry about the harassment, you keep riding, and the more ladies we have in the motorcycle community, the better for all of us.

[@nickmcclellan9623]

I am a 5'3" male in Texas. I coach women's wrestling and ride a Harley. I am always amazed that people are surprised that women ride motorcycles and wrestle! Why wouldn't they?! These are 2 really cool activities imo and I am glad that more people want to enjoy it too. So ladies, kickstands up and toe the line!

[@kinker200]

I’ll add my anecdotes as a man. Similarly, most of my friends and family didn’t want me to ride and my coworkers made comments on how people they knew died riding motorcycles. However, several of the stories had the rider not wearing a helmet or riding while drunk or riding well above the speed limit. Almost all of the comments I’ve gotten while riding have been positive, from people liking my bike or old ladies liking how I looked in my race suit lol. I try to encourage more people into riding, but they get a lot of pushback from their friends, family, or coworkers which is sad. One of my friends was interested in riding and said he wanted to get a Ninja 400. I told him that’s a great bike and he should take the MSF to see if he enjoys riding. However, one of the older coworkers told him not to get a motorcycle and that he would probably get hurt or killed on it. Hypocritically, that same coworker then bragged about when he retires, he’ll get a clapped out Harley to ride and do stupid stuff on.

[@OneStepBeyondu]

I'm late to this party but I'd like to address the "it's too dangerous for you" allegation towards women who choose to ride. On the whole, women ride less aggressively than men and tend to ride by the book, the way they were trained to do, rather than take chances. I believe this significantly reduces their risk for getting into accidents, especially as beginners, and makes them safer riders then male's the same age. Wear good gear, know your limits and you'll be just fine.

[@gcanaday1]

It's the same when women learn to shoot. They do as the instructor says and because of this tend to be better shots than men, especially in the early stages. The gap closes with experience, but the only person with a perfect score at my concealed carry class was a women shooting a .22 pistol. It was easy enough on the recoil that she could handle it, and she did as he said. It was her first time shooting.

[@_desertork1839]

Hey first time viewer here, just wanted to say i liked your video, the calm riding, the beautiful aesthetic and good vibes too. Cheers!

[@Veagence100]

Love the motovlogs and edits, I honestly thought you live in NYC because you give off that relaxing cafe vibe

[@Rdhebrew122]

Great video Meghan! When you started, I thought...holy cow...that is Milwaukee! You rode some of my favorite downtown streets during this video. Great shots and thoughts on this. My wife is an avid rider, and one of my 3 daughters has taken rider training. I have found it interesting how people respond to us when we are out. Peeps that know us treat us the same, but then there are the people who are surprised that my wife rides and say silly things. I never get complimented on being a rider 🤨😜

[@clairebishop9835]

I love that people are surprised I ride - the comments I get aren’t patronising, rather they are genuinely enthusiastic about being an older gal on a 500!

[@viennapalace]

Very interesting video! I can't relate to the female rider stuff but as a male rider of 40 plus years & a part-time introvert (I am out-going but love my own company), one thing I have always loved about riding is the way you can go somewhere with all your mates (or even a bunch of people you barely know) & not have to talk to them until you get there. And when the helmets come off, everyone not only has a shared passion but lots of different experiences of the same ride to talk about. Ride safe & keep doing what you do. You're definitely making a difference to peoples' lives whether you realize it or not & for that, I salute you!

[@bikerheart]

At least there are a lot more of you now Meghan. Harley-Davidson and other bike manufacturers have recognized that the fastest growing segment in motorcycle-dom within the last generation is the number of women taking up the sport. As a result, for example, many newer bikes have lower saddle heights which allow riders with shorter inseams (including myself) to reach the ground more easily. . .also, the lower center of gravity makes the bike feel "lighter" and easier to handle 🏍 As always thank you for sharing, and your comments are spot on

[@johnpagejr.7628]

I found your site through Magpie fly's and think it is great that you are doing a video channel. I agree with what you have said in this video and wish that society was not so degrading to women. I think for a lot of us old guys or at least for me I think it is great to see women riding motorcycles. I find it refreshing when a women knows how to get along in a group of guys and hold her own. It is kind of annoying when some one guy or gal winnie's about every little discomfort or problem. I follow a lot of women on line and enjoy there videos a lot. I also like to ride and am very short legged as well. I have a 29" inseam. I have three motorcycles write now and I mite sell one but I am not sure yet. Well any way enjoy the ride Meghan!

[@dianaestrella9714]

I’m starting my motorcycle journey. And I’m so glad I came across this video! I’m also an introvert can 100% relate to many of the things you were saying. 😎🤙🏼 keep up the great job.

[@MikeB-ng3ol]

Male or female, if you have a bike I already like you. Can go up or down after that though lol

[@beingbaylee6816]

As a female rider (and dealership owner) I love hearing women’s thoughts. I never thought of stature at all. I’m 5’9 and 220, so I’m a large woman and close to a guys size. I’ve never had the issue of size comparison. However, a few female customers have. I think all of them ended up on a Rebel.

[@YokohamaC]

Love that your last names stark 😭 just got an R3. Thank you for the video

[@OrionKarlDaleyIst]

I like talking to myself. And I like it more when I m listening. KZbin and a smart phone these days is all you need to open one self up to a universes in the self. Many while operating vehicles record and/or stream. I find that very cool. I enjoyed your motorcycle video as reminding me what it was like to once ride. recently, been rebuilding my motorcycle since storing it away when my adult son was once an infant. I have actually had it for 41 years, and only 12,000 miles on it. Just got the engine running again and looking forward to a COVID-19 free summer and future to ride - Ride Safely and thanks for sharing your experience -

[@zedfragg4134]

This was a very interesting video to watch, I specifically searched for experiences as female motorcyclists as it took a while but I realised there is a lack of female motorcyclists (in my area in the UK at least, or at least I haven't noticed). I've been trying to get my partner into riding (She decided on a car, boooo) and it got me thinking. The resistance factors and the physical differences never really came to mind so that's an interesting thing I never really considered and the harassment sounds like a PITA. Certainly an interesting video, thanks for posting.

[@jamiejackson3206]

This is a great vlog! I'm a 5'3" rider too and I finally got myself the perfect bike. I do have small hands but I've learned to get to the turn signals and shift and brake smoothly with practice. New and stiff riding gloves are my nemesis! I ride alone 90% of the time and find that random people like to comment on my bike or men most often ask if I "do okay" on a bike the size of mine. I do ride a 675lb bike but that's by choice. I live and ride in Milwaukee too so I like watching your motovlogs to find new areas to ride. I've not had very great experiences so far because I feel like there are tons of random careless drivers who don't respect the smaller size of a motorcycle. (Funny in Milwaukee I thought there would be an overwhelming respect for riders). Do you find that you're only able to ride certain days of the week and only at "safe" times of the day when there's less traffic? I have to say that's the biggest barrier I've encountered since moving here. I just don't ride as much as I'd like to and that needs to change! Any advice is appreciated!!

[@matthewholmes7597]

Hi Jamie what motorbike have you got

[@ttrguy9952]

Meghan, You know I have been watching your videos since the beginning. I have watched you evolve through the learning curve. I love the fact that women riding motorcycles or taking the sport up is the LARGEST demographic in the motorcycle industry. I embrace this! In the past, women were passengers and now they are your piers and riders themselves! I don't ever want a passenger. I want to ride with a Lady riding her own bike! I have ridden with women riders on countless rides over the past years. ALL of them have demonstrated that they have self imposed limits as to speed and risk. They are all very serious and calculating risk factors. This in itself is fantastic! The rides with women were fun, occasionally Brisk to their comfort level and back down to Casual riding. If we had to wait for them to catch up for 30 seconds, SO WHAT! They were ALWAYS happy just riding together and with us guys. I don't categorize riders as men or women riders. If you are on a bike you are a RIDER! Whatever your safety choices are, man or woman, it's your choice. Out there in the REAL WORLD there is not a Competition between men and women riders but rather Equalization in my book. Just my $0.02 Meghan! I will be buying more goodies from you next week! Peace Ride Safe and BE safe Lady!

[@MsLisa551]

I started riding at age 53, I'm 57 now and so happy i did. Post divorce,, no more being a passenger 😊. I just rode the southwest Canyons in oct. 1500 mile to Utah and back to las vegas in a week. An amazing experience.

[@imallierambles]

Meghan - thank you. I just bought my first motorcycle (Yamaha XT250) at 48 years old and never having ridden a motorcycle. I'm still learning so I've joined a few online groups, which are usually mostly men, to learn and get info. So far everyone has been very helpful. The men seem to know it's awkward to offer to meet me to help so I feel they don't offer but have been supportive and full of info. And I had one woman say she'd be happy to ride with me as a kinda mentor. Most people simply tell me classes are invaluable, get good gear, practice and have fun.

[@MeghanStark]

That's awesome! I find that the moto community is very receptive to learning and sharing information, it's great to be a part of online groups of any demographic. I'm so glad you've been finding the support you're looking for; thank goodness for the internet era! There's a lot of great people in the comment sections of these videos too 😊

[@imallierambles]

@@MeghanStark Good tip. I'll keep an eye out for gems in the comment sections. thx

[@ronmoore3987]

You go Allie Rambles ! I like your name ! I WAS a rider in mid 80's, then thirty years later got back in the game . I still like to hear other people's bike stories. Tell me one...

[@matthewholmes7597]

@@imallierambles Hi Allie nice motorbike what you had out of it

[@maskyy5316]

Wonderful and thought out points. I've only started riding a bit over a year now and come to enjoy the experience a lot. I ride for fun but also respectful with others sharing the road with me. Almost glad to see more female riders on the road. Continue to enjoy your rides, be safe and healthy.

[@CrimsonAnjel]

Thanks for sharing this. I'll be getting a bike soon and it's good to know what to expect, and to have tips for how to handle things. Like having issues with the clutch due to small hands, I never would've even thought about that!

[@MeghanStark]

Yeah it's always great to hear other people's experiences. I have giant hands so I've never had that problem! Women tend to have a harder time finding gear that fits well too.

[@CrimsonAnjel]

@@MeghanStark Right! I hear you're working on that. Pretty exciting stuff! Can't wait to see what you have in store for your brand.

[@karentunkel4545]

Awesome video! I'm a female motorcyclist in Milwaukee, too! :)

[@marcomartinez2472]

+1 to the person who said increased participation of women in the industry will benefit it in a multitude of ways! I think many guy riders take a lot of the privileges that you mentioned (flat-footing, steering control ease of use, and bike weight) for granted. They can honestly make or break the experience for a new rider. I'm genuinely happy that women riders can easily find community among fellow women riders because community can make the world so much easier to navigate and easier to participate in. I think as a guy I quite envy that because most riders I encounter at meetups are too caught up in the performative machismo of the hobby. Thank you for sharing your perspective and inspiring other riders!

[@Pitbulls_Plates_andPipes]

Love that you’re in Milwaukee. I’m from Sheboygan! Live in St Luis now

[@jastaylor2730]

Speaking from the viewpoint of a man who holds no bias towards women. Glad to see you riding. I’ve seen several of your videos very well done screw the jerks enjoy yourself.

[@millinutz]

I'm a guy. When I started riding my Mom was upset, saying on two wheels it''s so much more dangerous than on four... I bought a second bike. Just thought I'd tell that story. I've now been riding for several years and love the fact that women are now really gettin into biking. In the last few years, i've helped three women get started, taking them thru the early stages to where they start there official courses leading to their driving tests. (I live in Switzerland). Two of these women (also short inseams) have had to cope with what you've been saying here from friends and family, but had the guts to go thru with it, and now say it's the best thing yet in their lives. The third one was my longlegged daughter and grew up on my pillion. Her boyfriend is now, because she rides, starting to learn and is experiencing exact the same from his volks and friends that you went thru with yours... so you see nowadays it works both ways. Sorry 4 ramblin, greets, Steve.

[@heylex6135]

Girl I have a 2013 triumph Daytona 675 (my baby) and I vlog as well and this was so relatable.

[@thomasdavenport6791]

Good video. Lots of insight on being a female motorcyclist. I've know several over my years of motorcycling including one that taught riding courses and road racing technique. An amazingly talented rider. Keep up the good work. Oh, and keep it rubber side down 🙂

[@PandaOfNox]

I'm glad you brought up the height aspect.. I got a 2019 Kawasaki Z400 as my first bike, not realizing how tall it was until I really rode it. I'm currently looking into lowering kits because I just can't with the tip-toeing and one footing it. It makes me nervous! Fingers crossed it works for me because I love my "super naked" bike and don't want to get rid of it.

[@surferdude642]

You may want to see if you can get a lower seat or have the current one shaved down a bit.

[@annastebelskyj580]

Very thoughtful video, thank you! As a female rider on a CBR125R in a small town, I certainly turn some heads (I started riding at 35, and I've just turned 40). I once stared intensely at a beautifully kept 80s convertible Mustang while the older male occupant nearly dislocated his neck to stare at me on my puny mockery of a sport bike. Fellow bikers have always given me the two wheels on the road sign right from the start, and sooooo many people, mainly men, love to talk to me about riding (there's only a small handful of female riders in town). I was even invited to join the riding club, and I only declined because the darn thing barely does highway speed (110kph is terrifying on a single cylinder, tiny bike). I'm currently rebuilding a 1988 CBR600 Hurricane, so I'll finally be able to take him up on the offer. It's a vintage super bike, lots of horsepower to grow into (87 ponies inline 4) but the seat height is only 30.3" (yes, I just looked it up to confirm), perfect for 5'5" me with my 29" inseam. A bit heavy at 440lbs wet weight (I'm a whopping 130lbs), but it's still lighter than my husband's Trans Alp, which is also over 2" taller, IIRC. Maybe it's because I live in a smaller town, ~10k people, but I've never been harassed or catcalled, though I did get yelled at by some teenagers once; the excited vroom vroom is awesome kind of yell, I mean. I've had soooo many great interactions, mainly at the grocery store. I came out once to my "twin" taking pictures of my bike. I took pictures of his before, too, so funny. My favourite was a very elderly man who told me about tearing it up on his 50cc two stroke scrambler that he still had in storage cuz he couldn't bear to give it up. Lots of younger men originally from India see me carrying my helmet, decked in leather, and excitedly ask about my ride because they miss having a motorcycle. Just an overall good experience, so far, other than almost getting hit a few times. And I'm a far more conscientious driver these days, on two wheels and four, thanks to motorcycling.

[@benwells2338]

Loved watching the vid, thanks for sharing your perspective as a female rider! Haven’t actually thought about any potential differences in rider experiences based on sex, so it’s interesting to hear your thoughts. I guess for myself, I don’t think about a rider’s gender, and when I do come across a female rider while out on a ride, I’ll definitely be pleasantly surprised, but would just carry on with a wave or conversation at a light as if they were a dude. Thinking of my own experience as a newish rider still (just over a year now) I think people in general automatically assume I have some high performance sportbike, or will at some point, almost as if I don’t have a sportbike because it’s something out my control like maybe I couldn’t afford it? Or that I’m not macho or what have you, who knows. I ride a BMW naked and couldn’t care less what others think, I love my ride! Looking forward to seeing more videos of yours, enjoy the ride out there fellow rider 😎✌️

[@patadamson4005]

Hey Meghan, I know this is an older post, but can I point out a wonderful difference you pointed out but I’m not sure you were aware? As a motorcycle instructor I am so happy with your response to the car that pulled out at 3:28. Women riders tend to do what you did, look for what you could have done differently, “maybe I’m going too fast” whereas men tend to take offense. This is why I would rather ride with ladies then men.

[@rachelperry1756]

Brand new girl rider here...thanks for your cool, laidback videos!

[@matthewholmes7597]

Hi Rachel what motorbike you got

[@meon3wheels]

Hi Meghan. I just subscribed. I heard of you from some other lady motorcyclists. I'm 64! and started riding four years ago. I ride with my husband of 43 years. It has become my favorite addiction.

[@jamiedilley2615]

I just recently moved to Milwaukee and I was going to be getting my license soon and was looking for other people to ride with as I’m not originally from this area and don’t have friends up here. I like watching this video because it kind of gives me an idea of what riding a bike in Milwaukee is kind of like. I have been nervous about what it will be like with the traffic as well as riding alone

[@kdsowen2882]

Ergonomics , how your bike fits you, is everything if you want a safe biking-experience . You learn quicker and become a more accomplished-rider . Women-riders usually figure this out quicker than guys . As a guy , this has been my observation . I'm an older-guy and ride 3 different bikes , I still have to reign myself in when the adrenaline starts flowing . I'd imagine there is always going to be 'BS' when women move into areas that have traditionally been male-dominated . You've gotta laugh out loud and move on . When Stevie-Wonder was asked in an interview how he felt about being blind , he replied " It could have been worse, at least I'm not Black" Dave NZ

[@williamhershey9713]

Greetings, Meghan! As a short statured guy, I had a lot of the same issues with my choices of motorcycles. I'm no longer riding due to health issues, although I would love to have a sidecar rig. I am liking what I see and hear so far.

[@frostiscold4497]

Sick looking bike, great choice! you look great you have a nice voice don't worry about it, I don't have a bike but if I did I would pick the same one you have keep up the content.

[@ccmiller4]

Great content. I’m fairly new female rider having put about 10K miles on my first bike. I do ride with a group of peers, men and women, all 50+ in age. I also ride solo 1-2 times a week to work on my skills. I think if you take time to become mechanically familiar with your bike, i.e., can talk with a mechanic to avoid BS, learn road terminology and apply it, know and own rules of riding you can avoid a lot of crap. Enjoy the fact that more women are joining our ranks and having a voice like yours gives us a place to be seen and heard. Remember, it’s your ride, own it!

[@MeghanStark]

Thanks so much Connie! And I'm glad you enjoyed. Hopefully there will continue to be more and more media out there for people like us

[@worldwarwe]

Super insightful vid! Hate to hear about all those negative instances you’ve had while riding. Hopefully some of those tools out there will watch this and learn a thing. I got heckled on my cb360 once because it wasn’t fast lol. People suck

[@ronmoore3987]

I would get same dummy driver attitude while I was on DR 650 , but when they'd try an disk me off the line at the stop light, I schooled their asses quick , single piston style, but hey you don't mess with the RONZ.......Ehhhhhhhh

[@ElliotDooleysmith]

I can't speak from the experience of a female rider, as I'm obviously not, but I think we need more female riders. As someone who has, for the most part, preferred the company of the opposite sex in terms of socialising it would be nice to go to bike events and not be greeted with an overwhelming feeling of bravado and competitiveness that seems to follow largely male oriented groups. Obviously, this is not always the case, but unfortunately, it's the experience I have had with bike events. Perhaps it's my own prejudices or angst but I've always felt an air of showmanship or unspoken challenge of physical or intellectual prowess when amongst a group of my own gender, something I don't think is quite as common with the opposite. I'm currently working on getting my girlfriend into motorcycling, she's complete on-board, enjoys being on the back with me, we just need to find the money to get her a bike. I honestly can't wait, my two favourite things, spending time with her and riding my bike. I can think of no better way to spend my free time, cruising through country lanes with my best friend. 😁 Haha, I'm getting soppy.

[@TheSummersita]

I've been riding for a year and have noticed a lot of people filming me while on my bike. It's disconcerting at first, but you get used to it. I love to play along and wink and blow kisses. However, I'm 6'1", if I were a tiny thing I would probably be more cautious. I LOVE when kids get excited about a motorcycle and wave, or when older women cheer me on with thumbs up and waves. "Hey, grab a helmet and hop on the back, Sister!!" Riding is the best thing I've ever stumbled upon. Everyone who rides shares a connection, but women riders are so rare that they're novel... special. Personally, I enjoy that.

[@pbbdaemon04]

i know this is a serious topic but right now im listening to the bbys and loving it. thank you. on another note im a fairly new rider but its very unfortunate that people who open their minds to motorcycles cant open it just a little further and welcome everyone equally.

[@MeghanStark]

I'm so glad! I love getting people into Milwaukee music, The Bbys rule. Yeah I think every year it'll be more common and then it won't be a big deal at all! Most people are welcoming and just excited about more bikes on the road 😊

[@postersm7141]

8:26 The fact that you recognize that driver to the left is everything :-) stay safe

[@whollymary7406]

She also happened to build the very motorcycle she set the record with - KillaJoule, the world's fastest electric motorcycle and the fastest sidecar motorcycle of any kind. Håkansson, who comes from an engineering background, spent five years building KillaJoule in her garage with the help of her husband. The vehicle made waves thanks to both its speed and its battery technology, which Håkansson credits to clever engineering.

[@Ectoloryn]

I enjoyed this vid. I am a male rider, but I find that I become more empowered (inspired) to ride when I encounter women riders, I want you to know that I appreciate you. My girlfriend does not ride but will be my passenger occasionally to neighborhood events, outdoor concerts, etc. She will ride if I keep it under 35 mph. Motorcycles are great for outdoor events as they need very little space to park (I know I am preaching to the choir). My GF has a sister that lives just outside of Milwaukee, be cool to stop by your company next time I am in your town... I live in Minneapolis, MN near Minnehaha Falls. Today's temp is a balmy -4, burrrrr.

[@oliverwood7190]

Meghan Stark Kindness costs nothing, but means everything. I hope Meghan you have a nice day.

[@lizzieevans297]

Im only a teen but like, I really wanna get a motorcycle, its a bit different in the UK i think, you inspired me to ride and alot of other youtubers have too, but my parents don't want me to ride a bike.

[@micahk3202]

I adore watching your videos. It's great to see someone that it seems like you like figure flattering motorcycle outfits. Can you do a video on whatever knowledge you have for beginner motogear and what you can utilize use on a cruiser vs what isn't really needed. There is so many opinions on what is okay with sports bike riding vs cruisers. And I'm very interested in only using a motorcycle for cruising and commuting in the city and open, non-gravel roads. Motogear is super expensive and any input on what you can use on ways you can save by not having to purchase big priced items would be helpful if you're just using a commute or crusier. Like the AtWild jacket is amazing or shoes that is ankle protective and hard but doesn't look like skiing or space boots lol. I literally watched all your gear videos and I watch Doodle on a Motorcycle. Both of you are so informative :). Thank you for your videos.

[@kevineinheuser8643]

"Ohh, a BMW, very nice!" 😊

[@denniscrick9036]

I think it's great when ladies get into motorcycles! Good job, Meghan!

[@lovelyme_x33]

I’m also from Milwaukee, you are an inspiration 💕✨😁 Thank you for this video, you go girl! ❤️

[@maiaplum]

I notice that all of your stature related points are about being smaller. As a larger woman, I find that one of the most frustrating things about being a motorcyclist is finding good, flattering gear that fits!! Love your videos~!🧡

[@MeghanStark]

That's so true! This is why its important to hear a variety of perspectives, I have just one of many different women's experiences

[@dixiedoo5876]

I think if you are on either end of the spectrum it can be very challenging to find gear that fits. I just asked my husband earlier "why do the seemingly simplest of things concerning a motorcycle be it gear or motorcycle modifications have to be so dang difficult with me". I'm really petite but I certainly understand your struggle too.

[@G4gazhotmail]

If you see a problem fix it, make a brand for women with sizes that look cool as. X

[@kabardinka1]

I'm 6' tall. It is IMPOSSIBLE to find riding gear that fits. Zero... nada, it doesn't exist. I've tried many European brands like Rev'It, Dainese, and Klim (and returned a half-dozen jackets)... none of them fit and US brands (like Icon) are even worse where 'tall' is considered 5'7". There are lots of women over 5'9"-5'10" but motorcycle wear companies don't care about us. And, no, wearing men's gear doesn't fit for a lot of reasons. It does bother me how companies continue to focus everything around men (and using sexist advertising to sell their products) even though women riders are the largest growing demographic. :(

[@maiaplum]

@@kabardinka1 Girl, YES. I’m like 5’10” and there’s just nothing. And you’re so right, women are something like 20% of the motorcycle market now right? Why won’t they make gear for us so we can give them our money??? Lol

[@Daniel_Size_12]

I enjoyed your video. It is great that you ride. It is wonderful for you peace of mind - wind in your hair. You have good presence and I can tell that you can handle yourself well. You have my respect. Dan from Florida

[@gutplucker]

I think it’s great that total strangers want to talk to you at stores and filling stations just because you’re on a bike. All part of the fun of riding!

[@ONEFAITHofJESUS]

Absolutamente

[@hollyjolli]

I love it until it turns creepy

[@roorozco4517]

@@hollyjolliDamm that’s all I needed to read, first it was at the gyms where women are looked at for a couple of seconds and label men as creeps now it’s happening with the motorcycle riding now, fuck now you can’t look at the bike cause the female rider is gonna be bothered like if we’re trying to propose to them or have sex on the bike in the middle of the road 🤦🏻‍♂️ That’s all we need is conceited women on motorcycles that are going to start yelling rape while riding, damn some brods need to get over themselves and stop making everything about them , just like this video’s title being a female rider you deal with harassment n the differences that are set for women, KNOCK THAT SHIT OFF ALREADY THAT VICTIM SHIT HAS GOT OLD ALREADY STOP BEING SO DAMM SENSITIVE AND JUST RIDE YOUR BIKE AND PAY ATTENTION TO THE ROAD AND TRAFFIC AND NOT WORRY ABOUT WHOS LOOKING AT YOU AND LUSTING ON YOU, GET OVER YOURSELF MAN , just ride and have fun all you weak brods with no self esteem stay off bikes and get back on your phone and see how many likes you have and how many people love you cause you have so many “FOLLOWERS “ GET OVER YOURSELVES AND MOVE OVER AND LET THE RESPECTABLE WOMEN RIDERS SHOW YOU DIVAS HOW TO RIDE AND PRESENT YOURSELF✌🏼🙋🏻‍♂️👍🏼🧟‍♀️🧟‍♀️🧟‍♀️👹👹👹💩💩💩🐀🐀🐀🤡🤡🤡🧌🧌🧌💯💯✌🏼😉👍🏼

[@gbsailing9436]

Hey Meghan, this is the first video of yours I've seen. I don't wish to be critical or harass you in any way, but I noticed you mentioned you did you riders course. Did they mention to you that you should ride to the left or right of your lane when pulling up to a traffic light or intersection? This is an area where cars tend to drop oil in larger amounts. I was educated on this when I did my 'stay upright' course in Australia many many years ago. This is good advice and the only time I fell off my bike was when I failed to head this advice. So if you could learn from my only mistake, keep to the left of your lane when turning left, move to the right of the lane if going straight ahead or turning right. And when you turn, turn to the same side of the lane you are going to. Once your up to speed say 15-20mph you can move away from the sides of your lane to use the centre line. Additionally, it is always good to be moving around within your lane as you ride so that you don't fall into the danger of being in a car's blind spot. Moving around within the lane will negate this problem. I wish you safe and enjoyable riding from here on in! Greetings from Cronulla, Sydney, Australia. Google it and hit 'images'...

[@tonydavis5053]

It’s rare but getting better seeing female riders in Florida and getting better all the time.

[@mose717]

I’m glad the positives outweigh the negatives for you. The flat truth is we need more bikes on the road and putting out good content hopefully inspires both men and women to take the plunge.

[@whollymary7406]

In 2014, Eva Håkansson set a world record for being the fastest female motorcycle rider, with a speed of 270.224 mph.

[@Scorpions2shy]

Many men who do not ride a bike are of the opinion that women do not belong on a bike or should be a passenger only. She is there to enhance the rider not be the "tough one". Other men who ride feel we are interfering in a manly domain. I grew up around bikes and was taught early on all the pro and cons but once my uncle got married, my mother just baulked at me even getting any sort of motorized 2 wheel items. Fast forward, my spouse and I had a similar joy and love for motorcycles but he was also sharply advised not to get a bike. His brothers could get but not him. End of 2017 , I put my foot down as he had just been retrenched and he need a bit of motivation. We had already killed our our outstanding debts so my suggestion came to open ears. GET A BIKE. He said he would first get his learning permit and if he passed he would get his bike. He passed, he got his bike. His mother thought I was the worst .... again. Long story. Thanks to the weekends sitting helping my uncle on his bike, I was even able to suggest and advise what was needed on the 125 he bought in addition to his 1st bike. October 2018, he took me for a spin on his 2nd bike as it was my birthday. An idiot skipped a red traffic light and I broke my pelvis. The doctor who saw me sent me home with an open pelvic fracture. 3 months after, I went for a 2nd opinion and was sent for traction and fusion. October 2019 my husband got me a bike. I was nervous as heck but today still prefer riding bikes as to driving in a car. Will I stop riding. Heck no. Well done Meghan for standing your ground.

[@ttvills]

I really like the way you ride, you are not going like in between cars, and then complaining that people cut you off or try to smash you, you are respectful in traffic. Ride safe!

[@kennyt0342]

Thank you for your thoughtful content. Very enjoyable

[@teemoody8125]

You're Killin it, girl! We INFJ-A's consider our bike rides a form of "mental floss". 😁😎. Appreciate your share.

[@RMZ228]

Cool to see that you're in Milwaukee, I'm in Madison commuting most of the winter to the UW on a vstrom 650 (don't even have heated grips). Anyone else ride in the cold? Lowest I'll go is mid 20s F.

[@brucedesjardins6120]

Rider for 48 years, 45 of those inactive. Got back in three years ago, loving my commutes, rain or shine, and my wife got her license as well last year. I love riding with her. Stature was a big factor in choosing her bike (Yamaha MT-03, perfect!). "Attitude toward female riders" has caused her to have to ride lead, because drivers seemed to creep up close behind her to check her out. With me following her, the creeping up on us has stopped. I thought my butt was better looking than it is, I guess. Thanks for letting me join your ride and your opinions.

[@SternDrive]

I'm a little guy and my previous bikes were smaller, but I never could really flat foot it on the ground. So I just bought my fourth bike, a Sabre 1300, which is away bigger than anything I've ever owned before. I chose this one because I'm getting older and I wanted to be able to flat foot it at stop lights. The problem is, this bike has a far longer wheel base than most bikes, and making U-turns is a bit of a problem now. I'm practicing on parking lots, and it's getting easier. This bike is fantastic on the highway!

[@mariachoumanidis9914]

Best video I've seen on this subject. Totally spot on

[@mariaferrer3676]

Hi Megan, just want to say that I am 56 and starting my life as motorcyclist and very excited about it. I feel fitter and better than ever and would love to be able to learn to ride well the motorcycle. Glad I found your Chanel. Thanks for all the tips. One question.. where did you get your key ring holder? :) Thanks x

[@matthewholmes7597]

Hi Maria what motorbike have you got

[@keithschuessler3435]

A few things: 1- heated gear. It will change your life. 2- flush your brake fluid over the winter, it is pretty discolored. 3- get in the habit of laying two fingers over your front brake lever. It will greatly reduce your reaction time when cars do stupid things, particularly when it chilly and your hands are cold. (See comment #1) 4- I’ve never watched any of your videos, and your interpersonal relationships mimic mine so strongly! it makes you so relatable.

[@MeghanStark]

Thanks for the tips, but I actually already flushed my front and rear break fluid a month before this video. It's in a tinted container. I've heard wonderful things about heated gear, one day I'll give it a try.

[@MotoThiccy]

See, I'm trying to get into riding. Currently I'm saving up for my first bike I'm not sure what exact bike as : 1) I'm 5'2 and 2) I'm 17 so it'd have to be 125cc. I'll be on a CBT "license". I was also told it's stupid Idea by family members but my ambition to get the bike is on overload. I see so many people biking and all the freedom and excitement they get from it and it just makes me want to get a bike more. Though family members think it's silly which from a slight perspective I understand as I live in the UK and it rains quite often I don't think rain is enough of a reason for me to stop getting what I want so, I quite literally just told them "listen, I want a bike so I'm getting a bike. It's my choice" because honestly if you let people tell you what to do all your life think about all the missed opportunities you'll have. I'm a female at 17 and I will get a bike, it'll be a long while as I'm saving up money from work but...in the end it'll all be worth it :) If you have any suggestions of bikes that would be suitable let me know! Also don't forget to follow your dreams/ambitions

[@MonoMoto]

"ouhhhh the BMW vaarrry niceee" that was so funny hahahaha :D

[@TyposGarage]

I liked the Into the Wild clip! There are definitely some barriers to entry into the motorcycle world for alot of people, especially women.

[@RebelCowboysRVs]

I really do not understand why female riders have become rare. It seems like it uses to not be that way. My mom rode motorcycles as did her brother and at least one of her 3 sisters, and nothing was though anything of it. But this was in the southern Appalachian mountains in the 60s, 70s and 80s. The school was a few miles away, the grocery store was 14 miles down the mountain, and most jobs were 30 miles into Chattanooga. But in an area where indoor plumbing was still high class, cars were a luxury. So there didn't seem to be a stigma to riding a motorcycle. You had to have a way of going and motorcycles were the affordable option. Or maybe I just didn't notice because they were normal to me. They were badasses to everyone else though. My aunt drove her big cruiser motorcycle through the school building. That is badass enough, but this school did not have a ground-level entrance. She drove it up a flight of stairs, through the doors, down the hall the full length of the building, out the other door and back down a flight of stairs.

[@davidvance3527]

You have lots of good points that most people never think about before getting a bike. That's why you should test ride as many different bikes in the size and categories that your thinking of. This summer I was at a small rally in MO that had about half women riders, all excellent. And I would not have concerns and would proudly ride with any of them. Good video. 👍😎