Melissa Benoist abused by Blake Jenner

This is my opinion. A lot of people thinks Blake abused Melissa and I totally agree with that.
The descriptions match perfectly.
Watch till the end
Gets very interesting
Comment your opinions
I got this video from Instagram.
Most picture are from Google images
I got the video clips from youtube
Also Blake Jenner haven't posted anything since November 2019.
UPDATE: It was Blake
#melissabenoist #Istandwithmelissa

[@grantkang1346]

SORRY!!! To everyone complaining about how I edited the video. I would change it but I already posted it.

[@user-kw9mi6ch2h]

It's atrocious

[@Natalie-je6dg]

Please ignore the hate comments, they obviously don't know the first thing about what it takes to edit a video and upload to YT. Good job, keep doing what you're doing, you will get better as time goes on. Love and luck to you! xo

[@vanessaaltamirano2593]

I saw a message saying to ignore the hate comments but don’t ignore the comments about the editing. Honestly when an IPV survivor is speaking her story she needs to be seen, heard, and acknowledged. The editing covers her face and brings attention to him. Just small things like that can hurt the psyche of a survivor. I genuinely want to hear her story but the pictures are tasteless.

[@YoureRightIThink]

It's okay king. You bring attention to this and that already has a lot of meaning

[@emmaayres4583]

@@vanessaaltamirano2593 i see where you're coming from, but there's a full version of Melissa speaking out on youtube without the editing involved. i hope that helps

[@RapidObsessor]

let's all remember that this isn't about Chris. he's great, but Melissa Benoist pulled herself out of that hell, not anyone else, and she's so strong and inspiring.

[@lokebrandon]

@ANTHONY THOMAS Build a bridge and get over it lol

[@LoungingPotato]

@ANTHONY THOMAS Yo, read the room. Nobody should be shitting on women to make others look better--period, let alone in the comments section of a video discussing Melissa's abusive relationship.

[@-autumnfeelings]

@ANTHONY THOMAS Because she already is a dc actor and can't play a marvel role because of it

[@miguelpacheco8139]

Mystique 1250 Ryan Reynolds was Deadpool and green lantern tho

[@sophierowland7837]

ANTHONY THOMAS you don’t have to put women down to praise other women

[@Lazy_Kat]

Glee stars just hit different .. Cory Monteith death , Mark Salling suicide , and Naya Rivera death , Blake Jenner abuse and Lea Michelle allegations ... what a cast

[@chevon1920]

Also mark sailings allegations before his suicide

[@turkeycara1224]

Mallisa Benoist was also on glee

[@mryuksiesta]

@@turkeycara1224 I think they meant that as an extension to the video. Like on top of this

[@lukeparrish3679]

Yeah that Ford f350 does have a good paint job

[@sibs544]

@@chevon1920 but those were true right

[@corn620]

I don’t think it matters who it is . The fact that she survived and is willing to share to help others is tremendous.

[@janelle4887]

corn620 i think it kinda does bc blake needs to be held accountable for physically and emotionally abusing melissa :( .

[@dominiqueoutler444]

Yes, it matters very much who it is

[@shawnnadesersa1392]

I went through the same thing. It's never easy but I'm glad she survived.

[@agneseditsstuff]

@@shawnnadesersa1392 you're amazing for getting through it

[@kjxnz]

Yeah it kinda does matter because he deserves to be put away

[@shannon6358]

“It didn’t register as abuse because I was too worried about his feelings to worry about how it affected me” On point

[@lessismore8533]

Wow even as a victim, Kara still shows sympathy towards him. Talk about humility

[@userA600]

@@lessismore8533 😊 It just makes me smile how you said Kara. But for real though, she's amazing and deserves the best !

[@nicoleelizabeth6557]

"the damaged man that i had fallen for was too wounded to control himself."

[@pcrnstar4034]

when you say it out loud it gets sadder to think about. especially if you are suffering from it, my mom was...

[@snickeridooo5467]

@@pcrnstar4034 that's tragic. My whole family was, without knowing so.

[@charlesmcgehee3227]

Blake Jenner is a Felon. He just got very lucky and was not charged. People are doing long jail sentences for doing what Blake did to Melissa. His chance at any public career is over. I can not imagine anyone that would want to see this guy act or sing at this point.

[@gabrieladerre2862]

Ugh. That sums up the conclusion my super verbally abusive ex. He used to love to come home, and find some reason to scream im my face. It could have been something as batsh!t as him not liking how many leaves fell off the tree in the front yard. Some "men" are just sad excuses..

[@leoanimates5352]

its ridiculous because at first he couldnt be prosecuted because there was little evidence it was even him, and there was no proof it happened, and after he posted that it was actually him, he made it seem like a 2-way fight, rather than a case of 1-sided abuse, which everyone knows it was. I don't blame the justice system, after that tweet "admitting guilt" (even though he blamed her multiple times during the tweet), it's hard to charge him with anything criminal

[@douglaslarson532]

I applaud her courage in leaving Blake. Now she is happy with Chris and they are expecting a baby!

[@mariakara2419]

aww yay!! idek but i’m so happy for them :) hope they’re doing well

[@mariakara2419]

i’m so glad she got away from him

[@underbakedbacon4527]

Douglas Larson Chris Colfer? I thought he was gay....

[@jasminewilson2292]

@@underbakedbacon4527 Chris Wood

[@Sam-du7cm]

I think it’s Katie something

[@Blackcoffee765]

is there like a conspiracy that glee stars are cursed or something? like literally, their lives went tragic...

[@FantasyGirl365]

Same with a lot of Disney and Nickelodeon stars 🥴

[@gingechicken7394]

Melissa and Grant Gustin are doing pretty good now though, same with Darren Criss and Chris Colfer!!! 3 of them are actors are with the cw, maybe switching to that channel saves careers lol

[@kjxnz]

Ginge chicken three? I know about Grant, Melissa... are you talking about the man who played Stein and Will’s dad

[@sapphiremelendez3741]

Lea is doing good 2

[@notquiteallison]

@@sapphiremelendez3741 sry to tell you... But she has actually been slammed and smeared online the past few days for behavior to other cast members in different jobs she has had. Look it up.

[@chloeisaacs4492]

In an interview a while ago she said Blake said she looked like squirt from finding nemo after "she fell and hit her face" and In this video she said her abuser said she looks like squirt from finding nemo... So... its pretty clear who it was.

[@GabrielFNPereira]

Also, since she published this video, Blake disappeared from the net, his last post on both instagram and twitter were made in November 22, and she posted this video on November 27.

[@chloeknehansvlogs4539]

Also he was the only person who was YOUNGER than her. She gave her fans hints.

[@beautyandfashion6936]

what interview was this?

[@audrey5592]

@@beautyandfashion6936 Jimmy Kimmel if I remember correctly, he brought one how clumsy she was and she told the made up story. And knowing how this works the producers ask the guest what subjects they want to talk about and if they have a story to share and since she said Bl%ake controlled a lot of her work he probably pushed her to tell that story, that way if she ever brought out accusations about him he had this interview where she basically tells how her accident *happened* (allegedly, that's my opinion anyway)

[@shannonweidinger3930]

@@audrey5592 Jimmy Fallon

[@cait.tama1]

The pictures of her beaten up as Supergirl while she’s talking about being abused irl is a little distasteful.....

[@kermitthefrog9365]

Ik, it’s gross

[@dc9067]

Super annoying

[@shelbyhughes8600]

What do you mean it's distastful

[@Valerie-of9fw]

i agree it doesn’t sit right with me that the person who posted the videos also put those pictures

[@imanidownes1406]

yeah, its insensitive

[@aprilnash7251]

I survived a relationship like this and what she is saying is so familiar.

[@camb4161]

I’m very glad you got through that. I can’t imagine how difficult that must have been. ❤️

[@BruhBruh-gq6fq]

Yeah I’m really happy their together..

[@imsofa_kinghappy9742]

Sometime people dont realize how hard it is to get out of relationships like that, getting out is something to be really proud of. You must be incredibly strong!

[@davinademers9545]

I am so sorry that you had to go thru that. I hope you seek happiness. Nobody deserves something like that.🤍

[@D3vilMayCry99]

Same with me. Just got out of it and I feel extremely sad yet relieved. Wish things could’ve been different but I understand I couldn’t help him or keep putting myself in danger. I’m proud of you and this post gave me so much strength. Thank you.

[@darkomegax4474]

Now shes happy with chris and their having a baby

[@dibora2094]

Period

[@angiea5116]

omg i did"t know they were having baby. yaaaaaaaaaaay

[@FantasyGirl365]

And Chris is way more attractive. They are very cute together

[@throwthatsalad8720]

I had no idea about the baby, I am so happy for them. You know when you see people on tv and ship them. That was Melissa and Chris for me, everyone deserves to be happy, especially them.

[@FantasyGirl365]

Mauve Aspyn right, I shipped them too when they were on supergirl together. They have so much chemistry 🔥

[@babyykawa_9847]

The way that she stutters when talking about this😞

[@isimp9231]

It's very upsetting 😭

[@tirzavanboxtel5814]

Ikr:(

[@carrinperkins3234]

I’m glad she is with Chris someone who actually love her and will never hurt her the way Blake did no women should never go through that so sad.

[@thenameisnaz]

Exactly

[@midoriyamayhem]

Fr and that they are gonna have a baby

[@carrinperkins3234]

Notaverage bing so happy for them

[@mynameisnotkinsley7061]

No man either 😔

[@luna-yj2bc]

***no PERSON should go through that

[@Itisthatdeepdives]

The stills from her shows when she’s talking about abuse is really insensitive, she’s talking about trauma

[@anayaspencer9597]

i think they were using the pictures to show her injury because you can see in the photos that her one eye is bigger than the other.

[@emmakatesmith1368]

100% agreed. I thought about this the entire time.

[@YoureRightIThink]

I think saying it's insensitive is a stretch. This person clearly didn't have that intention otherwise they wouldn't even upload a video about this at all

[@Itisthatdeepdives]

Some of the pic are just pics from supergirl when she’s talking about the abuse that does nothing to corroborate the abuse, which seems like a distraction from her words. Just bc you didn’t have the intention to be insensitive doesn’t mean that someone doesn’t come off insensitive, most of the time insensitivity occurs bc of lack of thoughtful intentions. It’s insensitive, you could’ve just shared her story without the extraness

[@sammiisdead8965]

@@YoureRightIThink no matter the intentions, it's insensitive...

[@user-rt8iq5vb8j]

This is so sad and should be a lesson for everyone to not fantasize a version of celebrities just because of the character they are playing on screen. I remember shipping both Marley and Rider when I was younger, hoping they would be together but not realizing what was truly happening when cameras were off. I hope she heals from this trauma as this will only make her stronger and Learn to trust again as she is well worth it. I hope the next one will treat 100x better and shows her how a woman should be properly treated.

[@ratpacks4206]

you shouldn't feel guilty just for shipping their characters.

[@Lilylaina]

Shes happily married to Chris Wood now

[@faithh9695]

She’s married to Chris Wood and expecting!😆 I’m so happy for them

[@infernal..]

Bob Marley?

[@jenniferb4949]

You never know what goes on behind closed doors.

[@raphaelaayumi1121]

she didn't deserve that.

[@femme1236]

Nobody deserve that

[@joanvmk9847]

No one deserves that

[@anamartin5136]

Nobody does

[@hungryhippo17]

Well no shit

[@yankeegirl3380]

No she didn't. No one deserves abuse. God bless all victims and survivors of domestic violence. 🙏❤️🙏

[@kayleerebekah4884]

I have done some extensive research into their relationship, and there is no doubt in my mind that Blake Jenner was Melissa’s abuser. Age difference, projects they were working on, social media post, circumstances, etc. I have put together the timeline of their relationship together, projects she subtly references and the injuries she suffered. Everything lines up perfectly. On top of all the evidence, the biggest clue is maybe the least obvious. If Blake was not the man Melissa is referring to in this video, wouldn’t she have cleared his name by now? After all the backlash, reticule, hate, and overall extremely negative attention Blake has received since the release of this video. If he were innocent, no matter the circumstances of their breakup, Melissa would have spoken up. Their actions since this videos release are what really convinced me beyond a shadow of a doubt. He hasn’t been active on social media since November, his comments have been censored, and he has made no official statement in an effort to defend himself, because he knows he has no defense. He took Melissa, this beautifully inspiring bright light of a human being, and nearly extinguished her. He PERMANENTLY injured her, mentally and physically. He tried to hinder her successes because of his own petty insecurities. I could go on and on about how horrible this situation was, but if I’m being completely honest, Melissa’s story is one of the happy ones. She got out, found true happiness with Chris, and is soon to be a mother (which she no doubt will be fantastic at). But a lot of women, and even some men, do not have that luxury and we need to talk about this more. From March 2018 to March 2019, there were 1.32 million domestic abuse related incidents reported to the police. And each year more than 30,000 people die due to domestic abuse, 70% of these victims being women. We need to be mindful and careful of those around us, because you never know who’s suffering behind closed doors. #IstandwithMelissa

[@TheMorganVEVO]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@lilmissmonsterrr]

Omg get a life lol

[@kayleerebekah4884]

AssaultedPeanutt Well considering I’m currently studying psychology and women’s studies, I’d say this was worthy of my time🤷🏼‍♀️

[@luvmilann]

AssaultedPeanutt wow.. some people really are heartless 🤷🏽‍♀️ u hate to see it

[@melodypaz7485]

This are the kind of comments that actually matter, not the ones saying she truly surffered not like (insert the name of the woman you want), and you're right about everything, she is super brave!

[@hadleygustin9230]

She is honestly Supergirl in real life for having to go through this and then speaking up about it. I am so happy that she has Chris now and they are expecting a little baby boy in a few months.

[@Chelsea-xu6ve]

Hadley Fehlau When did they announce the gender?

[@hadleygustin9230]

ChelseaDreamBig If you go to Chris Wood instagram and you click on the picture of the baby new balance shoe and the bigger one, read the caption

[@noxoir3350]

But what about the others? She wasn’t the only one she’s just famous enough to have this audience. It doesn’t make HER a Supergirl it’s everyone else too.

[@hadleygustin9230]

@@noxoir3350 I understand that other people are going through this, but this video was made about her and so I don't feel the need to bring up other people because this was her story.

[@ritchchannel1494]

@@hadleygustin9230 its baby boy

[@MidnightMusings948]

Even though his character on glee was supposed to be the “nice guy”. I got a sinister and violent vibe from him. I saw the Jimmy Fallon interview where she made the potted plant excuse, I knew then. Her posture became stiff, her eyes had fear in them, she was fidgeting her seat, and when she told her excuse her eyes shifted to the right. I am so proud of her for speaking out. I am happy that she found someone who can cherish her for the treasure of a human being that she is.

[@meghansullivan6812]

Body language is RIGHT! You sound observant af. 💚

[@talishaelsie77]

Blake jenner had a Guest role on supergirl now thinking about it he probably made her get him on the show

[@baobailee6819]

small but large bean what episode?

[@kimmoran9310]

Bitch please Lee he is credited on 2 episodes season one episodes 11 and 12

[@kjxnz]

Oh my gosh I never thought about that and it’s probably true

[@katelynlorenz4782]

Oh my god, I didn’t even notice that! He played Cat Grant’s son and her love interest. Season 1’s release date was in 2015-2016, the same time they were together.

[@4everGirlStar]

I’m also pretty sure the costar she mentions is one from Supergirl. It would fit with the time frame as well :/

[@Belacroix5]

Glee has the most problematic people istg

[@JustinBullock03]

fr, like mark, lea, blake, naya, and sometimes matthew

[@savantcrystian2686]

Why Matthew

[@mvoonlight1250]

@@savantcrystian2686 the whole "😇😔😇" situation

[@shithead323]

mvoonlight what thing?

[@savantcrystian2686]

@@mvoonlight1250 damn...

[@sheilahanindra3316]

I feel bad that I used to think her divorce was bcs she fell in love with chris on set. Now I know why :(

[@christineirenejovita9601]

sheila hanindra omg yes I thought the same. And after hearing this story, gosh I cant believe it :( I loved them ever since Glee. But now I hope she now found her peace and herself with Chris 💕

[@patriciagamarra5864]

Same here... i just found this out today

[@mazvitaselemani]

They were married? I don't pay attention to glee post season 3 so I didn't know this

[@sheilahanindra3316]

@@mazvitaselemani yes blake jenner and melissa benoist was married after glee ended

[@mackshields6450]

It’s definitely him, she used the potted plant excuse on the tonight show in 2016 and her and Blake were together from 2015-2017

[@icy9428]

can you send me the link pls

[@twothirdstrio]

@@icy9428 kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5etaoptpL-FhZY

[@serenabromley5618]

Actually 2013 and seperated in 2016 and legally divorced by 2017

[@LilliSzawlosky]

My mom went through abuse. She had a phone thrown at her face and her eye swelled up. She now has a scar above her eyebrow that will be there forever. I love that she is speaking out. It helps people.💕💕🥰

[@alondramulero5915]

your mom doesn't deserve the abuse. No one does. I hope she's okay today ♥

[@LilliSzawlosky]

Alondra Mulero thank you. Luckily she got out of the situation and is with someone so much better.

[@meghansullivan6812]

💚

[@aliyajannahtan2611]

Can we just talk about how petrifyingly beautiful she is even without makeup?

[@arismaceo7073]

Yeah cause that's important in this domestic violence video

[@snoopymochi562]

Aris Maceo People can talk about more than one thing.

[@teto85]

A younger Marta Dusseldorp.

[@kjxnz]

Liza Johnson I mean it is the important thing

[@urvashisharma8879]

No we don't need to talk about that. And we shouldnt . She is literally describing domestic abuse that she went through and survived . Can we for once rise above how pretty or not women are? Its so reductive.

[@bree9388]

Wow this is so sad 😞 She didn’t deserve this. But now she has Chris and she growing a family

[@BobbyDamiano]

I wouldn't want to see Chris Wood and Blake Jenner in the same room together. Chris would probably kill him!

[@lessismore8533]

Lol ikr

[@oliwiaburczyk4624]

Oh yes!

[@Elpaso915x]

Fr

[@shesadg1]

Last winter when this news first came out, I went to see a play in New York (Cyrano) - with Jasmine Cephas Jones, Peter Dinklage, and -- to my horror - Blake Jenner. An audience full of Game of Thrones and Hamilton fans had no idea, and I was shocked they let him go on that night. Small production, maybe no understudies? Anyway, it absolutely matters who it is, because he financially benefits from people NOT knowing, and he enjoys privilege as a public figure that shields him from accountability as long as we don't know. I was on the front row of a packed mid-size off broadway theater, and remember staring into his face and realizing, he's relieved I'm clearly the only one who was aware of the allegations. He does not deserve relief. Social pressure and shaming is the only thing that works with people who rely on public affection. It matters who it is. And our rejection of him matters too.

[@jennasaab438]

She is a champion, a queen, and a REAL LIFE SUPERGIRL I’m so happy that Chris Wood makes her so happy and that she’s getting a child from him ❤️❤️❤️

[@grantkang1346]

For those of you saying I shouldn't add pictures and clips: I really care for Melissa and this video is to expose Blake. The original video is on Instagram. I added the photos and video clips to show why I think it's Blake. They are not from the exact moment she is describing because there are no photos of that online.

[@destinyg7340]

Grant Kang I can’t find it on Instagram??

[@amelia3609]

When I watch supergirl, Kara’s and Mon-el’s relationship seems so real, and authentic. I am proud of Melissa, she fought a mental and physical battle, that she shouldn’t have fought alone, or even at all. She is now safe with Chris, and her baby.

[@stylesorigi]

Blake is a monster and an abuser. He was with a lovely and sweet girl and he was awful with her. Im happy that she could get away from this toxic relationshop and now she's looks happy with her husband and i can't wish for her enough good things for futur born. She's a strong and beautiful woman and nobody deserves that.

[@theblackinsomnia]

there is not enough proof to accuse him of being a abuser let say there was a 100% chance that it wasn't him how do you think he would feel that he is getting accused of being a abuser

[@melnextdoor]

@@theblackinsomnia he is the abuser

[@melnextdoor]

u know she has a baby boy now💕🥺 he so pretty

[@jillwycoff8795]

they both were abusive in the relationship, it was just extremely toxic

[@stylesorigi]

@@jillwycoff8795 melissa was everything but abusive toward that thing, he literally put the blame on her when he was supposed to apologize

[@janefisher88]

She stayed because she came from a broken home and didn't want to fail like that, too. I felt that! I did the same, plus I had kids I didn't want to put through divorce! My abuse was emotional, not physical... the scars it leaves aren't visible to others and it's hard to get them to believe that he's threatened your pets, hid guns in the house, tried to get you fired from your job, destroyed your credit, stolen your mail, etc...So on top of everything, I had external pressure to stay with him. All I can say is, be kind; you never know what someone's going through.

[@harushouse]

Never realized she was Supergirl... She looks so different now. I'm so happy she has found a happy healthy relationship and her child will be happy

[@femme1236]

Let this be an example that everything can change if you talk don’t be afraid of it

[@demonhunter4423]

Yeah, if you talk, your family can turn against you like mine did. I talked about how my brother beat the shiz out of me and none of my family give a crap... I had to move to the other side of the world just to be able to breath...

[@pearl9731]

but also be careful who you talk to. talk to someone you trust and someone you know will help you. there are also hotlines that you can call.

[@femme1236]

@@demonhunter4423 I’m so sorry for what happened to you I hope u are better now!!

[@quannichols3518]

I hope karma is coming for him

[@007Fusiion]

Kevin McDougall I’d think the other guy will win

[@someone929.]

Kevin McDougall I think I would like to punch him to the sun and let him become ash if I was supergirl 😂

[@lesliesanmiguel94]

Kevin McDougall wait who did she get abused by ?

[@beasfav141]

@@lesliesanmiguel94 her ex husband Blake she's now remarried to Chris wood tho

[@potatoyoutube9225]

I KNOW KARMA IS COMING FOR HIM. He is such a waste of space.

[@myajanette]

Blake Jenner came out and confirmed that he was the abuser and “apologized.” I have that in quotes because it was barely an apology. He eventually tried to victimize himself. And regardless, apology or not, it would never make up for the years of abuse she endured and it will never make up for the healing she will have to go through and live with for the rest of her life. He left a scar on her, physically, emotionally, and mentally, that she will never be able to get rid of. It’s absolutely disgusting that people like that actually exist, but it’s even more sickening that they get away with it. So much more respect to Melissa. I’m glad she shared her story, it’s a brave thing to do, and I hope more people will have the same courage to come out and share theirs, but if not, I hope they’re aware that they’re not alone in this and that everything will be okay.🤍

[@myajanette]

I am so glad that she survived it and that she’s now living a life with someone who, I’m assuming, genuinely loves her. I hope she and her husband are truly happy. She deserves it.

[@someone-ih3tu]

Well, now she's about to have a baby. A whole family! And what do he have? i don't really know.. but i hope he has nothing.

[@kelseybedee6913]

I want to see her baby bump

[@sparklingdaisy3169]

I nearly had a heart attack when I saw the title of this video. I knew I wasn't the only one who thought so.

[@isabellequeva]

I always thought it was so weird how in s5 of glee they suddenly made jacob(?) pucks brother, a cheater again even after their season long arc. For her character to go back to Blake’s character. Idk if I’m reaching but it never made sense to me, especially after they made the new kids leave after s5 after all the hype that surrounded them.

[@sararoberts2973]

Sadly, liars like Amber Heard make it harder now for women to be believed. We love you, Melissa!!! You are our Supergirl! We believe you!!! I’m so glad you and the actor who plays Mon El found each other! Can’t wait for you to be a beautiful mama!

[@zeynepdoogaan]

what lies did amber tell?

[@nicola3997]

@@zeynepdoogaan i'm just going off the top of my head, but she said that Johnny Depp abused her, but then she admitted that she lied and there was evidence that she was the one abusing him. There is so much more. Just look up Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. There's a lot of information out there.

[@Cakes01]

Aidan Nicole yea then it turns out he was the one being abused there’s a clip where a kid ask what happened to his finger and he makes something up but later said it was done by Amber

[@victoriavivivolov7793]

stop bringing that up under melissa’s story

[@highfiveheh2892]

At least now she has Chris

[@katie-hf3px]

blake needs to be prosecuted this is so heartbreaking

[@coconutsciencegirl9232]

Probably to late.

[@aliciamtz2654]

@@coconutsciencegirl9232 many cases are brought up years later. They can still be won as long as there is enough evidence

[@Itsthomas99]

alicia Mtz these types of thing have statute of limitations

[@serenar5414]

statute of limitations should be 15 years. she will need proof which im sure she has but yeah i agree he needs to be prosecuted

[@drewo8043]

Blake is clearly guilty, he hasn't posted since 2019 and closed his comments

[@besi6578]

ikr!!

[@marisafaith9975]

Well, next time don't abuse someone

[@jdmurphy3922]

I think Blake was stalking her on social media seems funny he shut done his social media2 months after she re marries

[@norunninginmylobby7440]

When he asks you to change your clothes GTFO

[@lessismore8533]

Ikr

[@emmasuniverse7710]

She really is Supergirl, fighting for what she believes is right, being so brave and strong. You are worthy of not putting up with this real supervillain. Your Worthy

[@egankuys6958]

Cape or no cape she is a real Supergirl! Luckilly she has now met her soul mate :)

[@joeychen7306]

I watched Glee from the very first episode right till the very end. It's heartbreaking to see and know that she's gone through this. Hearing how her voice shook as she talked about her abuse was saddening. But also, hearing how calm and confident she sounded right after she finished her story towards the end shows how happy and comfortable she is right now. Traumatic experiences will not heal easily but I'm glad that she's making positive progress! My heart goes out to Melissa. She's a really talented actress. 💛💛💛

[@englishrose202]

I cried the entire time I watched this video. I relate so deeply to her story because just 5 months ago this was my life. My ex isolated me and hurt me making me believe it was all me, it was my fault and I was horrible and untrustworthy. I feel better knowing that someone I look up to is healing and working through the same thing. I feel for her and send her all my love because I know how hard it is to heal from something so awful and traumatizing.

[@saqibkhan24]

This is so devastating so paining to see her that what's she's been through !! She seems so sweet so so nice ! How someone can do such things to the person like her !!

[@gabbyfelix8305]

That's so sad, especially cause he came in as her love interest on supergirl for a an episode or two. They made her act with him again and I can't imagine what it was like to have to pretend to love her abuser just for a show.

[@TKDDLJ09]

But they were still married at the time. And i doubt the producers knew anything about it at the time. I also think that she either asked for him to be play the role or he asked if he could. Backnin season 1, noone knew this thing happened, so they didnt make her act with him, they probably just didnt know.

[@marianasversion]

Yeah, I don’t think I’ll be able to watch those episodes again. I bet he asked to be on the show and that’s so infuriating. Also, during the interview Melissa gave ok jimmy fallon where she talks about her eye injury, she mentions the “accident” happened the day after she got the part of supergirl, which makes me wonder if that was the reason they were arguing when he threw the f*cking phone at her face

[@auroraq35]

Mariana Godoy omg what episode is that?? i don’t remember . she is the real super girl for surviving this :( ♥️

[@camilamartinez8281]

She is very brave for leaving Blake and now she is happy with Chris

[@FandubWorld]

It's almost two years now since Melissa opened up and I constantly find myself coming back and while still getting emotional feeling very proud of how strong she is and how she managed to move on. Look at her now, she's married to a much better person, has a kid, has brought life to a beloved superhero, has progressed from actress to director, has been on Broadway, and has even started her own production company. She's such a sweetheart too, beautiful inside and out, and a true inspiration to all. We love you Melissa, never ever forget that. I want that man to be removed from production of Merrily We Roll Along. It's going to take 20 years to film, it's not too late to recast the role. And after that I want him locked up for the emotional and physical harm he caused this beautiful woman. He can twist the tale all he wants, but it won't take away the severe damage he did. IStandWithMelissa

[@isabellarickey4501]

I remember watching glee and feeling like Blake gave “jerk” vibes. Idk if that was him or his character tho.

[@Mia-mk2tw]

His character (Ryder) was sooo sweet but irl Blake is a monster.

[@nina-dr5lc]

i stand with melissa. blake recently posted an apology and practically twisted her story and made it seem like it was her fault. he is a sick man

[@molliecollins7338]

This video is so insensitive. This woman is talking about domestic abuse. All these pop ups make it seem comical. Your way of justifying this is that you already posted it so that’s it. Like take the video down, be a decent human and edit this out. It’s actually so hard to watch because it’s like you intentionally did this to make a mockery out of this woman.

[@vivicaullett834]

They’re showing clips of when the abuse was happening to see if anyone can spot unusually behavior or show them how she behaved differently next to him.

[@Jayxroberts]

@@vivicaullett834 no they’re not. This entire video is cringe and distasteful af. If you think it’s okay you have issues.

[@rosamontes1592]

She captured exactly what it feels like to be in a relationship like that. The drainage, thought process, the excuses and so much more. I’m so happy she spoke up ❤️ this was very encouraging

[@vibe_oli]

She is way braver the I. This gives me hope. I see my story in hers. Down to the letter except one big obstacle, we have 2 kids. I’m isolated and have nothing of my own(money, car, real job) it’s another way to keep you stuck and dependent on them. They are so insecure and afraid that you will smarten up, get stronger, and say ENOUGH AND LEAVE. They love you most when you have one foot out the door. Mine just threw coffee on me (and $2,000 worth of recording equipment he bought with OUR $$). I was more worried about the equipment because I knew that I could make him care more about that then me. It’s a vicious cycle but mine doesn’t even apologize anymore for the abuse and cheating. 12 years in and he knows how stuck I am even though he knows I don’t want to be with him, I don’t love him, and I in fact hate him. I have told him I can not stand to even be around him. He cares more about keeping and controlling me and our kids then if I love him or if the kids are happy. When we fight and I stand up for myself he puts on his father of the year hat when he really does nothing for anyone not even his kids. It’s a sorry excuse for a life and one day I will get out with my kids and be happy. Her strength is a beacon to others who suffer the same abuse. It turns helplessness into hopefulness.

[@whitneymadill1081]

Praying for you. Please know that there are people who can help. Be safe and get away please 💕

[@thepassionatebeing3691]

praying for you my beloved sister. pls stay safe and leave him now

[@lesleyled76]

I am so proud of her! 😘 She did such an amazing job and she showed so much strength and courage when she accepted the support of friends and family when she left him. On a personal note, I didn't experience physical abuse, but rather emotional and mental abuse. He also physically and emotionally raped me. (Emotional rape is a real thing.) 😉 I remember that the first time I told anyone about my experience, I was terrified! I still don't feel 100% comfortable, but I get a little better every time I tell it. In case you read this, Melissa, I will be praying for you. Keep being amazing! I am an avid Supergirl fan!

[@Primm1171]

This is the part I dont understand. I was on the receiving end, not so much physical, more mental. It started when I was a little boy and never stopped. So when I see people being hurt I want to help not hurt them. But Im glad you got out and life is better for you and yours

[@lesleyled76]

My heart truly hurts for you, Mike. I experienced about 4 years of mental, emotional, and sexual abuse. Just about an entire life of it...I can't imagine! People who abuse at all deserve so much worse! I just wanted to let you know that you have someone who is thinking about you and praying for you! Take care!

[@Primm1171]

@@lesleyled76 Means a lot Thank you.

[@Mikkixox9]

It comes out differently for different people. There are a variety of factos that play a role in becoming abusive, you can have two siblings who grew up in the same home with the same parent and one continues that cycle of abuse and one breaks it, the hope is both break it, but that is sadly not always the case.

[@meghansullivan6812]

I’m sorry you went through that, Mike 💚 wishing you peace

[@matea4971]

what is so insane is that when she shared that story on jimmy fallon about falling, i was so convinced. i didn’t even think to question it. blake pushed her to tell the story so that no one would find out. she’s a survivor.

[@lk2352]

This is so scary, They used to look so happy together.. I Always thought Blake was such a nice guy since the glee project...

[@xVadRay]

Me and my abusive boyfriend were the "perfect college relationship" even the dean of our major knew we were dating. Is really scary how they can manipulate you to even cover up their abuse

[@lk2352]

@@xVadRay I used to think that you can easily see if someone is abusive and if someone is abuse if you pay attention. Now I see with horror that abuse can be so subtle and also more frequent than i thought. I am truly sorry for you. are you still with him ? (Sorry for my english)

[@ariannasastre1]

It was for sure BLAKE. At least she is in a wwwwwwaaaaayyyy better relationship with Chris Wood and SHE'S PREGNANT

[@ohleander02]

There is no doubt in my mind that Blake is/was an abusive creep. No doubt. I feel very bad for Melissa and I am so glad she's happy and well, now.

[@emmasuniverse7710]

OMG they been together since Glee I didn’t know. And what’s worse he abuse her, how dare he I really thought he was a good guy, boy was a Wrong. #Shame on Him

[@millasuini8307]

I remembered on the Glee Project he kept talking about his girlfriend then when he got the job on Glee, he right away went with Melissa, that's when I already felt he was off

[@bengalshead]

Tbh just by looking at his face for the first time I knew that the kid was bad news

[@lessismore8533]

@@bengalshead he definitely was still immature. Had tons more growing to do

[@alexandrarouse8381]

The way she describes how he would run her a bath and never justify his actions but come to her with self hatred for his actions is exactly what I went through. The way she explains how she justified his actions is exactly what I did with my ex boyfriend... I thought my love and willingness to love him despite his demons in his mind would show him how to love himself. I never thought I could heal his demons but that I could show him what that life could be like and I could be someone to help bring him out of his darkness. It’s so heartbreaking to hear her story because nobody expects someone that you love and loves you to hurt you in the worst ways. Such a strong woman I have so much respect🤍

[@zencreature]

Little did they know how well they chose when they cast her as Supergirl.

[@blackandalittleyellow]

The fact that she's a Supergirl makes more sense now 💓

[@chloeknehansvlogs4539]

I love Melissa she gave me the strength I needed. Forever grateful to her!

[@Natalie-je6dg]

To everyone complaining about the editing: Give the channel a break, they only have 500 subs and probably have no editing experience, it's a miracle they could even upload the clip. For an armature attempt, it's not bad at all, we all have to start somewhere! If you can find the whole video elsewhere on YT go watch it there, otherwise be grateful and give the channel some views.

[@caseyfinnegan4139]

It is confirmed that it is, in fact, about Blake. Blake made a post on Instagram talking about the entire relationship. And he recounts the story about the phone and how it hit his former partner's face, so this definitely is about Melissa. BUT his explanation is so lame in his post, he talks about how HE had to deny certain roles or wasn't allowed to take pictures with female co-stars because Melissa would be jealous and would "threaten" to self harm. And he claims that she scratched him and punched him and that he had a "traumatic injury in the shower" that he doesn't want to talk about. He talks about how he wants to forgive himself and he uses masculinity as an excuse, that he felt he needed to act a certain way and be "manly" for her... Towards the end of his statement, he lists himself as a VICTIM of abuse and then secondly as an aggressor himself... He also disabled his comments on Instagram, like you can't comment on his statement at all, and you can't comment on previous posts either.

[@avapollard3351]

She is so strong. I am so glad that she survived

[@ilenegoddard9113]

It makes me smile and cry at the same time because she survived and has now found Chris who is perfect for her. And there having a baby!! She is a real life supergirl and she is so strong. She truly deserves someone like Chris.

[@kroineerest460]

I just have a theory. In Supergirl during her fight with Reign the visual techniques were an awful lot like how she had described some of her abuse. She said she was dragged by her hair which happened in the fight, bruises on her eye, broke pavements/wall. I don't know if I'm just thinking to deep or not but there are some similarities.

[@neverholdmed0wn]

It's almost eerie how similar people's stories about abusive relationships are. As a person who's gone through the same hell, I feel really thankful that she shared hers.

[@amandarivera25]

I’m so happy she got out of that relationship, no one deserves to be abused

[@noeltomlinson1212]

I remember watching this video on Instagram when she first spoke about it. The suspicion both broke my heart for Melissa and angered me as a former fan of Blake. I am so proud of Melissa for being as strong as she is to push through and tell her story.

[@marylabelle803]

I appreciate her bravery,she is right she built up quiet strength while being in abusive relationship and I hope many ,many other women listen to her message!

[@MLynn-vx6ls]

Looks can be deceiving!! Glad that she's finalLy free from that abusive man. Big thanks to those peopLe who heLped her get through what she had gone through... And I'm happy that she is in the right hand now with Chris Wood. ❤❤❤

[@Nobody-ob3eg]

Omg i never knew she went through this, such a beautiful soul she didnt deserve that. Thank god she's doing better now.

[@clarissaaustin]

i knew he was trouble the first time I saw him.

[@arsh6027]

The fact that she had the courage to speak out about this says so much! I love her so much. She is so strong, she knew there would be criticism and people who don’t believe her but she wanted to share her story and tell people in these situations that they are not alone. Now she’s married to the most perfect husband and is pregnant 💗 I LOVE U MELISSA

[@annie71311]

the part where she was like “don’t please don’t” you can hear the fear in her voice 😢

[@sanvinalamolu3715]

It pains me even to this day that our strong supergirl went through something like this. She deserved so much more and this was truly heartbreaking. I'm glad she got out of it and it's 100% Blake. It all makes sense and I am glad she is with Chris now and they are having their own baby now. This is a trauma no one should face 😩😭😭

[@jackiel8557]

i feel like a horrible person for wanting their characters, ryder and marley to be together when he was a horrible person. i wanted marley to be with ryder instead of jake. but oh my jesus, hearing her speak her truth and describing her trauma, hurt my heart and fucks my mind tbh

[@wintersoldierbb1795]

I think it is Blake she had me when she said “he got angry for her dancing with another co star”

[@soniadevlin487]

He’s made a terrible apology. People on twitter need to make sure he’s cancelled for good

[@queenofdabcity]

Wow I’ve never felt a video as much as I do right now as I’m watching this. My heart goes to you and anyone going through this.

[@zainymainy6224]

She looks like shes in her early 20s

[@alondramulero5915]

She's in her early 30's 😂

[@bangtanobsessed964]

Alondra Mulero Thats why she they said she looks lmao and she really does

[@sherna15hanaya]

What's sad about this was I always thought they look cute together while watching glee, and I didn't expect him to be that kind of person. To think that you married someone who's amazing as her 🥺 I forgot the guy's name but I know him before glee, he's one of those who compete to be part of the show.

[@anurb.s.c.anurb.s.c.2329]

I don't understand why to put some images that have nothing to do with what Melissa is talking about (like those images of Supergirl when she talked about how she felt when he hit her). Seriously, without any sense, it even seems to take some of the seriousness of what she is talking about. What she is talking about is serious and important and the person puts out of context images just to try to make it more dramatic :(

[@Heb.e._]

EXACTLY!

[@Skyebright1]

Agree and the volume overcomes her voice, it’s offensive

[@grantkang1346]

Sorry, I was just putting in clips and photos to relate to what she was saying. I'm just proving that Blake abused Melissa. I lowered the volume when I edited this but It came out louder than I thought. You can find the original video on Melissa's Instagram.

[@emmyjacqueline]

exactly

[@williethomas9953]

What a heart wrenching story. I've never understood how anyone can treat anyone violently. Particularly someone who you claim to love.

[@juliewalters7108]

I’m so sorry that you had to endure this. BUT I am so THANKFUL that you are speaking out! You are using your platform for something amazing! 21 years ago next week, the man (well, make. He was NO man!) I was with put me in a coma for the 3rd time. My family was told I would t live through the night. They immediately flew from Florida to Wisconsin to say good bye. But I made it! The doctors were amazed that I didn’t, at the very least, have permanent brain damage. Physically and mentally, I am fine. Emotionally I still struggle at times. After I was released from the hospital, and while he was in jail for what he had done (Thank you former neighbors!), my friends packed my stuff and moved me to my family. They literally saved my life. So, I u see stand your pains and your fears. I also u see stand your strength! THANK YOU 🙏🏻 Thank you for speaking out about such a personal and sensitive topic. By doing so, PLEASE know, that YOU ARE SAVING LIVES! Much love and respect to you! ❤️

[@mackenziewalker4155]

When I clicked on this, I thought it would be a compilation video of just playful banter and such, but I'm glad that it isn't. I'm glad this message is out there and that I happened to see it since I didn't know this happened to her.

[@katherinep8749]

Thank you for speaking out. You are Brave. I give you a gentle hug. I grew up with an abusive father who beat my mother. No one deserves this. I plead with any women going through this we need to speak about this together. The abuser should be ASHAMED not the victim. I am with you. Thank you for your strong video.

[@LilTRoberts1000]

Her ex literally Glee slushied her

[@ameliaxgarland]

OMG

[@3verlastinglove]

That’s not funny

[@millamacchio878]

We all thought Jake was the bad one when it was rlly Ryder

[@abbiezinn3352]

haha i knew he sucked. ryder was a sucky character, but i guess the writers told him and lea not to act, just to be themselves

[@gingechicken7394]

I always thought Ryder was a sort of sweet protective character but now I realize it was just Blake covering up his dark reasoned possessiveness...

[@sofiabogado4876]

@@gingechicken7394 Ryder was a made up character, Blake is just the actor who played him. Blake was and is absolute trash but Ryder Lynn as a glee character was sweet.

[@niamhcawley7862]

Sofía Bogado Ryder was a ‘nice guy’ I always hated him, now I know why, his vibes just weren’t good

[@gingechicken7394]

@@niamhcawley7862 another actor could have made the character great. I love the office too btw

[@Bobbywoodhogan]

There’s no doubt it’s him, it can’t be anyone else