Melody this video will give so many young ladies immense peace and inspiration on how to live their lives while they are single. God’s timing is for our very best. Be wise and make good choices while waiting ladies. Travel, strengthen your finances, grow, and get to know yourselves. 🥰😌♥️💝💝💝
@thokom2472 жыл бұрын
I relate to the heartbreak one completely; mine also lead me to Christ and I can testify that God truly uses it. God bless you and your family ❤️!
@kendragreene59532 жыл бұрын
Mine to girl!💛
@jaz1elise2 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@itsjustjanice29862 жыл бұрын
I definitely needed my ex relationship to appreciate the blessing of the relationship I have now. God knew what He was doing!
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
Yasss!! He always does right(
@_clarisse_manishimwe2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the first two things you mentioned: I’ve been living in a foreign country for six years, so I can totally relate to the open mindedness that comes with it, the adulting skills I learn through the process. 2nd thing, living alone not only allowed me to get to know myself better, but also get closer to God. Thanks Melody, lovely video. 💛
@dreamervert2 жыл бұрын
Heartbreak definitely does have a way of making you run to Jesus! It’s my dream to have a space of my own and travel and I really plan to work towards it 😊
@DPLmainYT Жыл бұрын
It does😅
@kaylawren96202 жыл бұрын
So real about travel!! Literally how I moved to SF and started ministry living was because of my BIGGEST heartbreak!! Still single but really want to experience having a corporate job and living alone soon 🤞🏽
@_clarisse_manishimwe2 жыл бұрын
Rooting for you!
@amandinek26392 жыл бұрын
It’s coming!
@jaythaakiss2 жыл бұрын
In 2015 I experienced my biggest heart break that lead me to Jesus as well. Watching this video made me realize that God is strategically taking me on this journey as well before having a family of my own. Thank you for posting ❤️
@fack10022 жыл бұрын
I'm engaged and I have done all of these.....yup I'm ready to give my life to my family 😌
@Simmy_esihle2 жыл бұрын
I feel you sis. These are major points. Yes, even the heartbreak. It pushes a person to seek God. Painful but so worth it.
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
yessss! painful but so incredibly impactful. God uses everything!
@TiffanyG_2 жыл бұрын
Love this!! My experience is a little different because I do have a 4 year old daughter (outside of marriage) so I already have someone else to live for as well. I did travel and have fun before having her. However my daughter's father and I co parent sooooo well and my support system is amazing by the grace of God, so I'm still able to travel and have me time which keeps my cup full!! I am still believing that God will bless me with marriage but right now I am working on becoming whole and building a relationship with HIM 🙌🏾
@morgane17072 жыл бұрын
I literally asked God today how I can be a good steward over the current season of my life. So funny that this popped up.
@N.I.X_T.V2 жыл бұрын
I've only had the heartbreak lol haven't moved out yet (really want to) and I haven't travelled yet. Hopefully those things come soon (yo girl is 24 and wants to see the world) 🤗
@JessM20_2 жыл бұрын
I'm 24 too and saaaame lol. Tryna travel everywhere!
@AllisonWonders2 жыл бұрын
25 and similar story here. I’ve had the heartbreak(s), and haven’t moved out. I can say I’ve traveled a bit so that’s good
@shequaniawright8236 Жыл бұрын
I’m 24 as well & I wanna travel !!! It has been a desire 🥺
@unbelaneablebeautyy9 ай бұрын
This is a Melody Stan account! So graceful, so wise and so loving. God is using you to inspire so many. I’m a mentor to many myself and your KZbin encourages me! - 25 year old lol
@tiannabest91542 жыл бұрын
I completely agree, always good to embrace our journey everything is for a reason!
@nicoleyoshihara40112 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice! I want to get several years of travel in before I'm married. I had started already and going to continue ❤ Not to delay marriage for that reason but I just happen to not be courting right now
@emmanuellaaddei4915 Жыл бұрын
You said "Ghanaian culture". This Ghanaian got super excited!! 🥳🥳
@christellesalomon2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love your channel! Watching you grow throughout the years has been amazing and inspirational!!!
@moshibudithelma9912 жыл бұрын
awesome video Melody i cant wait to get married too but i have to find a God fearing man your family is cute ❤
@samonelee54302 жыл бұрын
Any advice for a young sister in Christ whose in love with the Lord and wants to do so much more for the Lord, but often gets distracted by the past? Edit: thanks so much beloveds for your words of wisdom. I am thankful to God that he has spoke through you guys and pray he satisfies your souls IJN 🙏🏾❤️
@charitytravels2 жыл бұрын
The same sis, may God have mercy
@favourkuyatsemi47442 жыл бұрын
Do not [earnestly] remember the former things; neither things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. Isaiah 43:18-19 God is already doing something new in your life, so you can forget about the past. Also keep looking unto Jesus and not to yourself, don't look at any mistake or wrong decision you may have made, but on him.
@_clarisse_manishimwe2 жыл бұрын
Just keep going back to God whenever you feel overcome by the memories/habits of the past. He’s always there to help you out. Also, be graceful to yourself, it will not be an overnight change. Just keep it real with God. He will sustain you 💛
@GodblessKL2 жыл бұрын
Hey sis hey! I sooo understand where you’re coming from and I pray this helps and if it’s ok I’d advice you to compare the lies to the truth of the Word and you can say the truth out loud too!
@zed87882 жыл бұрын
Make sure remove everything that makes you to remember your past : When that happen listen songs ;preachings also pray and fast about it it will go away 🙏🙏🙏🙏Jesus is Lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@Abmarp2 жыл бұрын
Travel ✅ but I want to travel to Africa before I get married FOR SURE. I need to live on my own. I know I need to before I get married. ESPECIALLY before children.
@kacyjenn7622 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! Have an amazing day! God bless🤍
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
I hope you have a great day too!!
@rainy9698 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to see how God is working in your life! I've been watching your videos since before you left Korea, so it's really nice to see how much you've grown as a person in faith. Wishing you and your new family all the best!!! 🙏🏽🕊🇯🇲🇺🇲
@Ashley21138 Жыл бұрын
Praying that I get to travel more and have my own place soon. Thank you for this ❤
@gracefaletoese3428 Жыл бұрын
I love you Melody! You have such a sweet heart! 🤍🧡
@anissamorgan38112 жыл бұрын
Love this ❤️ Keep going, girl! You’re doing great 😊
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Anissa!!
@nina_gc2 жыл бұрын
I'm 100% with you on the heartbreak. I'm still struggling with fully establishing my relationship with God but I know that if not for my massive heartbreak I would not have seeked God.
@mz.sophisticatedlady83982 жыл бұрын
Phenomenal Video. Love Your Content. I Love Wisdom And Being In The Atmosphere Of Like-Minded Individuals Who Acknowledge And Honor Christ 🙏🏾💜. Blessings To You And Your Family.
@covrtneymarie Жыл бұрын
I love this video! Practical tips to help during the waiting period. I would love more videos about your preparation before your I Do! :)
@MelodyAlisa Жыл бұрын
great idea!! i'll work on that :)
@ma.jeisaalonso201 Жыл бұрын
I'm a new member to the community or to this channel. Sis, I love your videos and you are truly such a blessing. It inspires me to become a better woman of God. On the other hand, I would like to share about my relationship. I'm engaged since July, me and my partner is inlove for 6 years now. On our very 1st year my fiancé already wanted to get married but that time I was not yet ready for a reason of building my career. Every year he would open that topic but I am just glad that is patient with me. Truly, the right man will always be with you and will wait for you until you are ready. I'm just grateful with him. Laddies, never settle for less. If you are single, I tell you, it's better to wait that to push through to a love that you don't deserve. Treat yourself with love and kindness and it will overflows to the people that surrounds you. I would like to share a verse, Isaiah 60:22. No matter what you may be facing today, trust in God's assurance that everything will fall into place in His perfect time.
@jasmineleigh93732 жыл бұрын
happy to hear you mention Ghanaian culture.
@van-liem1695 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing 🤩 Folding clothes and filming a KZbin video wow !!👏👏👏
@AmandaGabriel8762 жыл бұрын
Ohh wow...had no idea your husband is Jamaican🇯🇲🇯🇲 I'm from Jamaica too!
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
haha yep!!
@kathi-annwright337 Жыл бұрын
#3 is sooo true. Looking back I'm grateful for that experience!
@andreascott8519 Жыл бұрын
So glad I found your channel. I can relate to literally everything. Thank you for sharing your life.
@annbazile64962 жыл бұрын
GM Melody just absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing God Blessings to you & again your beautiful family 💕😇
@AmandaGabriel8762 жыл бұрын
Great tips...thank you!!
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@gabrielley23992 жыл бұрын
So on time, so thankful for you and your Godly wisdom Melody!
@CarasPlace Жыл бұрын
So much growth! 🤩 I love this for you. Thanks for sharing your tips.
@elohoroghorodi196 Жыл бұрын
God bless you, God bless your home sis 🙏🏽
@AaKariaCamille Жыл бұрын
Could you possibly start a series about solo traveling ?
@rabeccachabala127 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this Sis,just came across your channel last week, I don't even know how 🤦..and the few videos I have watched have really helped..God bless you so much..With Love from Zambia 🥰🥰🥰.
@inarijm2 жыл бұрын
I love your content!!✨by the way!
@makalsiashepherd32752 жыл бұрын
Love love love this video, the second point is on point because thats the season I'm in.
@zed87882 жыл бұрын
well being alon make us to be closer ot our Wonderful helper🙏🙏 Jesus 🙏🙏thankyou Jesus the one and only real helper
@inarijm2 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful ☺️ I am going to watch this soon Melody!!
@yaraborbara62262 жыл бұрын
What an amazing video.. you are so mature ♥️
@TurpuiTozay_health2 жыл бұрын
Thank you luv ♥️
@Fierclyfabulous2 жыл бұрын
How do you do these things when you are so focused on your next season of life?
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
I would try to be in the present as much as you can. Sometimes we can be so focused on the future that we're missing what God is trying to do right now. I know it's easier said than done but definitely pray and invite God into it too. He way reveal to you WHY you're so focused on the next season instead of the one He has you in.
@_keshia2 жыл бұрын
I loved this video 😍
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Keshia!
@Emeriieee_2 жыл бұрын
Heyyyy Melody ❤️
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
Hey hey!!
@hairwithkay96322 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@christabelkuokorkotey7407 Жыл бұрын
Melody: And then there is Ghanaian culture.. Me: yeyeee🤩 where my Ghanaians at? Much love Melody 💕
@sarahortez11912 жыл бұрын
I am 25 with a 3 year old son currently in college but I do take girls trips quite often to travel since I never got the opportunity too before but I feel guilty for not bringing him with me is this something that I should not be doing since he is so small?
@sherellbullard32922 жыл бұрын
Good stuff
@candacebethany10742 жыл бұрын
Love ittt
@MelodyAlisa2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Candace!!
@hjgsivq20232 жыл бұрын
Hey, can you do videos on solo traveling
@wiser01852 жыл бұрын
Melody I would love to talk with u one and one, how can we arrange for that??