Do This BEFORE getting Married!! | What To do While Single | Melody Alisa

[@latoyria7604]

Melody this video will give so many young ladies immense peace and inspiration on how to live their lives while they are single. God’s timing is for our very best. Be wise and make good choices while waiting ladies. Travel, strengthen your finances, grow, and get to know yourselves. 🥰😌♥️💝💝💝

[@thokom247]

I relate to the heartbreak one completely; mine also lead me to Christ and I can testify that God truly uses it. God bless you and your family ❤️!

[@kendragreene5953]

Mine to girl!💛

[@jaz1elise]

Same here.

[@itsjustjanice2986]

I definitely needed my ex relationship to appreciate the blessing of the relationship I have now. God knew what He was doing!

[@MelodyAlisa]

Yasss!! He always does right(

[@_clarisse_manishimwe]

I can relate to the first two things you mentioned: I’ve been living in a foreign country for six years, so I can totally relate to the open mindedness that comes with it, the adulting skills I learn through the process. 2nd thing, living alone not only allowed me to get to know myself better, but also get closer to God. Thanks Melody, lovely video. 💛

[@dreamervert]

Heartbreak definitely does have a way of making you run to Jesus! It’s my dream to have a space of my own and travel and I really plan to work towards it 😊

[@DPLmainYT]

It does😅

[@kaylawren9620]

So real about travel!! Literally how I moved to SF and started ministry living was because of my BIGGEST heartbreak!! Still single but really want to experience having a corporate job and living alone soon 🤞🏽

[@_clarisse_manishimwe]

Rooting for you!

[@amandinek2639]

It’s coming!

[@jaythaakiss]

In 2015 I experienced my biggest heart break that lead me to Jesus as well. Watching this video made me realize that God is strategically taking me on this journey as well before having a family of my own. Thank you for posting ❤️

[@fack1002]

I'm engaged and I have done all of these.....yup I'm ready to give my life to my family 😌

[@Simmy_esihle]

I feel you sis. These are major points. Yes, even the heartbreak. It pushes a person to seek God. Painful but so worth it.

[@MelodyAlisa]

yessss! painful but so incredibly impactful. God uses everything!

[@TiffanyG_]

Love this!! My experience is a little different because I do have a 4 year old daughter (outside of marriage) so I already have someone else to live for as well. I did travel and have fun before having her. However my daughter's father and I co parent sooooo well and my support system is amazing by the grace of God, so I'm still able to travel and have me time which keeps my cup full!! I am still believing that God will bless me with marriage but right now I am working on becoming whole and building a relationship with HIM 🙌🏾

[@morgane1707]

I literally asked God today how I can be a good steward over the current season of my life. So funny that this popped up.

[@N.I.X_T.V]

I've only had the heartbreak lol haven't moved out yet (really want to) and I haven't travelled yet. Hopefully those things come soon (yo girl is 24 and wants to see the world) 🤗

[@JessM20_]

I'm 24 too and saaaame lol. Tryna travel everywhere!

[@AllisonWonders]

25 and similar story here. I’ve had the heartbreak(s), and haven’t moved out. I can say I’ve traveled a bit so that’s good

[@shequaniawright8236]

I’m 24 as well & I wanna travel !!! It has been a desire 🥺

[@unbelaneablebeautyy]

This is a Melody Stan account! So graceful, so wise and so loving. God is using you to inspire so many. I’m a mentor to many myself and your KZbin encourages me! - 25 year old lol

[@tiannabest9154]

I completely agree, always good to embrace our journey everything is for a reason!

[@nicoleyoshihara4011]

Thank you for the advice! I want to get several years of travel in before I'm married. I had started already and going to continue ❤ Not to delay marriage for that reason but I just happen to not be courting right now

[@emmanuellaaddei4915]

You said "Ghanaian culture". This Ghanaian got super excited!! 🥳🥳

[@christellesalomon]

Absolutely love your channel! Watching you grow throughout the years has been amazing and inspirational!!!

[@moshibudithelma991]

awesome video Melody i cant wait to get married too but i have to find a God fearing man your family is cute ❤

[@samonelee5430]

Any advice for a young sister in Christ whose in love with the Lord and wants to do so much more for the Lord, but often gets distracted by the past? Edit: thanks so much beloveds for your words of wisdom. I am thankful to God that he has spoke through you guys and pray he satisfies your souls IJN 🙏🏾❤️

[@charitytravels]

The same sis, may God have mercy

[@favourkuyatsemi4744]

Do not [earnestly] remember the former things; neither things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. Isaiah 43:18-19 God is already doing something new in your life, so you can forget about the past. Also keep looking unto Jesus and not to yourself, don't look at any mistake or wrong decision you may have made, but on him.

[@_clarisse_manishimwe]

Just keep going back to God whenever you feel overcome by the memories/habits of the past. He’s always there to help you out. Also, be graceful to yourself, it will not be an overnight change. Just keep it real with God. He will sustain you 💛

[@GodblessKL]

Hey sis hey! I sooo understand where you’re coming from and I pray this helps and if it’s ok I’d advice you to compare the lies to the truth of the Word and you can say the truth out loud too!

[@zed8788]

Make sure remove everything that makes you to remember your past : When that happen listen songs ;preachings also pray and fast about it it will go away 🙏🙏🙏🙏Jesus is Lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Abmarp]

Travel ✅ but I want to travel to Africa before I get married FOR SURE. I need to live on my own. I know I need to before I get married. ESPECIALLY before children.

[@kacyjenn762]

Love your videos! Have an amazing day! God bless🤍

[@MelodyAlisa]

I hope you have a great day too!!

[@rainy9698]

I'm so happy to see how God is working in your life! I've been watching your videos since before you left Korea, so it's really nice to see how much you've grown as a person in faith. Wishing you and your new family all the best!!! 🙏🏽🕊🇯🇲🇺🇲

[@Ashley21138]

Praying that I get to travel more and have my own place soon. Thank you for this ❤

[@gracefaletoese3428]

I love you Melody! You have such a sweet heart! 🤍🧡

[@anissamorgan3811]

Love this ❤️ Keep going, girl! You’re doing great 😊

[@MelodyAlisa]

Thank you Anissa!!

[@nina_gc]

I'm 100% with you on the heartbreak. I'm still struggling with fully establishing my relationship with God but I know that if not for my massive heartbreak I would not have seeked God.

[@mz.sophisticatedlady8398]

Phenomenal Video. Love Your Content. I Love Wisdom And Being In The Atmosphere Of Like-Minded Individuals Who Acknowledge And Honor Christ 🙏🏾💜. Blessings To You And Your Family.

[@covrtneymarie]

I love this video! Practical tips to help during the waiting period. I would love more videos about your preparation before your I Do! :)

[@MelodyAlisa]

great idea!! i'll work on that :)

[@ma.jeisaalonso201]

I'm a new member to the community or to this channel. Sis, I love your videos and you are truly such a blessing. It inspires me to become a better woman of God. On the other hand, I would like to share about my relationship. I'm engaged since July, me and my partner is inlove for 6 years now. On our very 1st year my fiancé already wanted to get married but that time I was not yet ready for a reason of building my career. Every year he would open that topic but I am just glad that is patient with me. Truly, the right man will always be with you and will wait for you until you are ready. I'm just grateful with him. Laddies, never settle for less. If you are single, I tell you, it's better to wait that to push through to a love that you don't deserve. Treat yourself with love and kindness and it will overflows to the people that surrounds you. I would like to share a verse, Isaiah 60:22. No matter what you may be facing today, trust in God's assurance that everything will fall into place in His perfect time.

[@jasmineleigh9373]

happy to hear you mention Ghanaian culture.

[@van-liem1695]

You are amazing 🤩 Folding clothes and filming a KZbin video wow !!👏👏👏

[@AmandaGabriel876]

Ohh wow...had no idea your husband is Jamaican🇯🇲🇯🇲 I'm from Jamaica too!

[@MelodyAlisa]

haha yep!!

[@kathi-annwright337]

#3 is sooo true. Looking back I'm grateful for that experience!

[@andreascott8519]

So glad I found your channel. I can relate to literally everything. Thank you for sharing your life.

[@annbazile6496]

GM Melody just absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing God Blessings to you & again your beautiful family 💕😇

[@AmandaGabriel876]

Great tips...thank you!!

[@MelodyAlisa]

You are so welcome!

[@gabrielley2399]

So on time, so thankful for you and your Godly wisdom Melody!

[@CarasPlace]

So much growth! 🤩 I love this for you. Thanks for sharing your tips.

[@elohoroghorodi196]

God bless you, God bless your home sis 🙏🏽

[@AaKariaCamille]

Could you possibly start a series about solo traveling ?

[@rabeccachabala127]

Thank you very much for this Sis,just came across your channel last week, I don't even know how 🤦..and the few videos I have watched have really helped..God bless you so much..With Love from Zambia 🥰🥰🥰.

[@inarijm]

I love your content!!✨by the way!

[@makalsiashepherd3275]

Love love love this video, the second point is on point because thats the season I'm in.

[@zed8788]

well being alon make us to be closer ot our Wonderful helper🙏🙏 Jesus 🙏🙏thankyou Jesus the one and only real helper

[@inarijm]

This is so helpful ☺️ I am going to watch this soon Melody!!

[@yaraborbara6226]

What an amazing video.. you are so mature ♥️

[@TurpuiTozay_health]

Thank you luv ♥️

[@Fierclyfabulous]

How do you do these things when you are so focused on your next season of life?

[@MelodyAlisa]

I would try to be in the present as much as you can. Sometimes we can be so focused on the future that we're missing what God is trying to do right now. I know it's easier said than done but definitely pray and invite God into it too. He way reveal to you WHY you're so focused on the next season instead of the one He has you in.

[@_keshia]

I loved this video 😍

[@MelodyAlisa]

Thank you Keshia!

[@Emeriieee_]

Heyyyy Melody ❤️

[@MelodyAlisa]

Hey hey!!

[@hairwithkay9632]

Thank you!

[@christabelkuokorkotey7407]

Melody: And then there is Ghanaian culture.. Me: yeyeee🤩 where my Ghanaians at? Much love Melody 💕

[@sarahortez1191]

I am 25 with a 3 year old son currently in college but I do take girls trips quite often to travel since I never got the opportunity too before but I feel guilty for not bringing him with me is this something that I should not be doing since he is so small?

[@sherellbullard3292]

Good stuff

[@candacebethany1074]

Love ittt

[@MelodyAlisa]

Thanks Candace!!

[@hjgsivq2023]

Hey, can you do videos on solo traveling

[@wiser0185]

Melody I would love to talk with u one and one, how can we arrange for that??

[@MelodyAlisa]

hey! shoot me an email at [e-mail]!