Men And Women Cheat Differently

[@Lisa-mg5tk]

Betrayal is the worst emotionally form of pain

[@chinedujames638]

Facts it a form of emotional torture that one cant explain

[@chinedujames638]

Facts it an emotional torture that one cant explain

[@1world2coexist]

I'd even argue it's the worst of all pain. I'd take physical pain over emotional pain from betrayal any day.

[@Lisa-mg5tk]

Yes I agree physical pain at times can be unbearable but to be fair who wants ethier

[@No-Lie-I-Want-To-Die]

And that trust is gone and buried. Replaced with anger and hatred. There's no going back afterwards. Once you've been betrayed, it's over. You can't have a relationship with that person again. It's best to distance yourself and move on, because I'd you don't, you'll just find yourself getting burned again.

[@shamzo1798]

Cheating is wrong regardless of gender and sexuality

[@thefemalefuture1]

fax

[@Ysfhahahshs]

One of the few logical comments here

[@thefemalefuture1]

@@Ysfhahahshs it's sad how common sense ain't so common anymore

[@Ysfhahahshs]

@@thefemalefuture1 yesss queennnn!

[@matthewtait2939]

@@Ysfhahahshs well it’s bad regardless of gender. However women cheating is far worse than male cheating

[@allisterhawes9224]

My wife of seven years was telling another man she loved him behind my back while married to me. Never felt so much pain, betrayal and humiliation.

[@sexymary]

Truly, the cheating is something to do with her, that's her problem, not yours. You being hurt has something to do with your unmet expectations..

[@derrickmoon3296]

They don't love like we do. Women are evil inside.

[@ggrace1133]

She was starving for emotional intimacy. Guys stop connecting that way 1-3 years into the relationship. That’s when love begins dying for women.

[@LilithTheAquarian369]

You wasn’t giving her what she needed.

[@ggrace1133]

@@allisterhawes9224 but this is the reality so many wives experience. Oh, we may not tell another man we love them, but the greater truth is, we aren’t in love with you an6more. Love died because it stops being nourished and grown. If you have meals, clean clothes, kids, a dog, a house and some sex, you think we, for some reason se can’t fathom, are blissfully happy. We are just doing our duties. Love is so much more than duties. It’s the special stuff. The stuff that went away 1-3 years in. The yelling ensued, the criticism, ignoring, and feeling invisible. Love withered away. You may be a good provider, hard worker, mow the lawn well, and are funny at get-togethers. You’re good at your duties too. You’re a good friend….roommate maybe. But we aren’t in love with you anymore. And almost always, the way you treat us (and the lack thereof) strongly indicates you aren’t in love with us anymore either. Heck, most of the time, it seems as though you don’t even like us. Plus, it is always, always, always our fault. We are to blame for everything ugly and unsatisfying. But who betrayed whom?

[@Ebvardh]

IDGAF if it’s emotional, physical, spiritual, psychological, or fucking tax-related. If you’re cheating, you’re 🗑️

[@AZITHEMLGPRO]

Who hurt you fr tho Lol jkjk

[@Ebvardh]

@@AZITHEMLGPRO My ex wife, I wish I was kidding.

[@indilas-left-sock]

@YotoYa-ol4xqdo u need to talk?

[@cateeed.0111]

@YotoYa-ol4xqmaking amends would probably help you feel better. This has happened to me, and the wife will probably feel alot better too, after hearing the whole story.

[@cateeed.0111]

@YotoYa-ol4xq well some people just dont understand. It would one thing if you knew about her, but you were a victim too. So that says alot about who she is as a person as well

[@Animemusiclover_]

Cheating is terrible on both sides, doesn’t matter whether it’s a dude or a chick doing it, it also doesn’t matter why, you entered into a commitment. Honor the commitment.

[@tantanmustdie]

Yeah people always sound so dumb when they trying to say "this kind of cheating is better than this kind"

[@karolsorrell827]

You do enter a commitment when you marry, To love, honor, obey, cherish, in sickness, health, for richer, for poorer, til death do you part. How little that vow means to Soo many people. One dishonors when the eyes roll skyward or when family has something contrary to comment on. It's Soo easy to stop cherishing the spouse when they treat you like their parent and they're the child. Slovenly habits, take-out boxes and wrappers, dirty clothes and towels all over the place. Forget about obeying your spouse when your SO doesn't like your friends and says that buddy-boy is a bad influence cause you get truly blitzed and come home at 4am.

[@OMG-zd5ex]

what to do in a sexless marriage when you can't take divorce at any cost.... specially in India.

[@kayb2930]

​@@tantanmustdieIt's not about "better". It's the way you view it subjectively. As a man, if you get cheated on, most people have little reaction. They sometimes view you as not being enough for her and maybe even making fun of you. At best, you get a pat on the back. As a woman, if you get cheated on, you now have a whole platoon of men ready to be the shoulder to cry on or the rebound. You're viewed as the gem that the "bum" couldn't appreciate or handle. Objectively though, its wrong no matter your gender. It hurts equally.

[@wingknight7132]

Cheating women is far worse than cheating man

[@anomaly9156]

At the end of the day, infidelity is morally wrong for both.

[@BLVCKPEPPER4K]

Only to the married

[@OptimisticNihilist1244]

Just break up . Why cheat ??

[@mattmorgan6591]

Have your cake and eat it too. Until the baker comes back to the shop lol. Then you go to the candy store...

[@dzonibravo7867]

Women will break up, eventually, when she's sure she got the next guy under control.

[@babyydollloo]

Same with men for sure. ​@@dzonibravo7867

[@arnewuensch9834]

if it's for getting you off sleep and telling you heyy, here is where i am at. Step over and hug me! show me you got guts too! i know you have and i'm missing them as much as i miss you, i am just tired track the path without your smile, keep up and take my hand. Pls. I miss you like fresh water in that summer we first missed each others hand ... (btw she is mother of 2 kids -the father is my running back- it was never to happen- than to call your name for the first time to take me first this time - worked on me back then we remained silent in accepting all these feelings connecting about letting go somemore than ourselve

[@2004fordtaurus]

you never been in a relationship were the other doesn’t let you break up w them and will go through everything to force you to stay? or am i trippin

[@clintawnbomb]

Who cares why it happened. Shouldn't it be about the betrayal?

[@Českobet]

How Is that betrayal

[@Ysfhahahshs]

@@Českobet If your partner had sex with someone else or was talking romantically with someone else without your knowledge, that’s betrayal

[@thefemalefuture1]

@@Českobet cheating is betrayal, hello?

[@gleedgaming6359]

​@@Českobet bro did u even go to school

[@Českobet]

@@gleedgaming6359 no

[@DBSTre]

Cheating doesn’t have to be physical. Like she said, you’re allowing a space to open up to an outsider when that space should be occupied by your significant other.

[@galit5912]

As a man I say with 1000% confidence u should never cheat even if u say it’s “instinct” imagine ur partners face imagine the heart break simply don’t do it. If ur hearts not in a relationship leave before u pursue another person

[@tantanmustdie]

Based

[@almalone3282]

Some people are just born hoes men and women. I'd argue instead of not cheating if you know your the type to never be satisfied with 1 partner long term don't be in a relationship in the first place. Nobody but hardcore Christians will think your a evil person for having purely casual sex.

[@Sharpswordherald]

Woman’s face. It’s crazy how partner used to refer to same-sex couples, now heterosexuals are now using that word rather than saying husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend

[@imrankhanmohammed5492]

As man I say with 100% confidence u should never cheat even say it's instinct imagine ur partner face imagine that herat break

[@Leandro-X.2024.Alkebulan]

If it hurts so much, why do women forgive you multiple times and give you another chance to cheat again? Men just have standards. They get cheated on so they leave. Also high probability the child isn't theirs as well. Its a standard and paternity thing.

[@aaronsalter5596]

He’s just a friend 🤣🤣🤣

[@sidramehmood-gl8je]

So what?

[@Mu_the_Maori]

😅

[@Chicken.1234]

Bc thats what every woman says when their bf or husband finds out their talking and texting another guy weird stuff​@sidramehmood-gl8je

[@lilmama8718]

Is the same as men saying "she is just a prostitute"

[@SKBottom]

Nobody fucks more wives and girlfriends than "he's just a friend."

[@NoxoloSidzumo]

Women can cheat with no emotional attachment. Evolution. 😂

[@ms-lt3gg]

THANK YOU. I hate this “oh for men it’s instinct and women it’s emotional” Like no. I’ve seen friends in relationships look at men like a wild lioness hunting prey, like they’re in heat or something. Next day they wouldn’t even text him back after the deed is done 😂 It’s 2024. Women use instinct just as much as men and in SOME cases, more. I don’t condone in cheating but it seems SOME people excuse men cheating more because it’s “instinct”. Nope. Women have a strong instinct as well. When I see a hot/attractive male in public I don’t think “awh he’d make a cute boyfriend”I think “wow Id love to just jump on him right now” LOL TMI but it’s the truth. Both sexes just have to have self control and respect (ties in with loyalty).

[@TheSilentShadow96]

If you are in a relationship with someone, And you open yourself up emotionally to someone else, Or if you are just giving someone else your time instead of your partners It is cheating, Because the actions involved are directed from the intentions behind them.

[@PsychoKern]

Like don't cheat, ever...Simple as that. Is there a problem? Talk it out and fucking COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER....All problems solved....If it ain't solved or something then officialy break up and find someone else....Why is it SO HARD to talk with your bf/gf about a problem in a relationship and communicate it out? I don't understand

[@matrix9046]

Facts

[@Void_from_Abyss]

Same

[@thr7273]

Fax

[@karolsorrell827]

Sometimes you find that you're married to a selfish, immature, narcissist, who has gaslighted literally everyone in close vicinity into believing that you're the 'stupid monster', including the very children that you gave up your youth for. The preparations to rebuild your life can take a decade. And the children are a lost cause until either The narc screws up and self-exposes, or the children have children of their own and start to realize that something about the childhood wasn't right.

[@aliceroberts5928]

What if your spouse beats you and refuses to let you leave under threat of violence?

[@ryomensukuna601]

When a man cheats,"He is just a ho*ny animal" When women cheats, "(sob*) She had her circumstances, she was not loved" Absolute sexism Edit : Ya and I m more powerful than Saturo.

[@alek6208]

It’s true

[@tmoneypoleductions9764]

@@alek6208 but y cheat if u can just break up? man or woman

[@success2089]

It is different. Man shows his loyalty by protecting and providing for his woman Woman shows her loyalty by having sexual exclusivity for her man

[@colonizedgrain4034]

I used to think that idea was true, but the more I think about it- men & women probably both cheat for the same reasons. (Wanting to feel loved) - and men just don’t think that’s the reason because their brains won’t let them think that deep about the subject most of the time. (That’s my first time ever saying this, needs some work)

[@captain6876]

@@colonizedgrain4034 nope! Men are probably not getting sexual satisfaction from their lady, hence they cheat. Women are probably cheating due to lack of attention. Either way, cheating is disgusting and immoral. What makes it worse is when women cheats on a guy who is treating her like a queen, is providing for her, etc, just to have sex with some weird dude who is there just to have sex with her and then leave.

[@randomviralvids4438]

The best word to describe is betrayal... Cheat = betrayal

[@cjr4497]

She gets it. Cheating is not just physical.

[@Pls-hooman-no]

Its also highly abusive! 😊 You realize she saying that because she cheats right? Esspecially saying men dont have control and she a woman just wants to what.. "find the one" with a person back home keeping the shelter tight and warm? Thats actual abuse.

[@CastleHassall]

i think also it's wise to remember that they lie a lot to try to make themselves look like the ones with a heart

[@DOGSFORFOOD]

It can be, totally, for both men and women But still, no matter what, cheating is the worst feeling ever

[@MM3OG]

She's dropping bombs that some men don't understand and some women don't want to admit lol

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

I agree

[@realamericannegro977]

She is repeating what she heard men say on this topic, before the internet you would not hear wman say this. They only say what men already know.

[@carson1b16]

She literally said nothing lmao. Yall are making deep sht up

[@AcidicJO]

@@carson1b16 What she is saying is women cheat emotionally before they cheat physically. Their are psychologist out there who have studies this and made the observation that women more often then not will cheat with an ex-flame. She’ll reach out to him via IG or FB and reignite that connection they once had. Thus, cheat emotionally first, this woman is correct. For whatever reason women prefer to be unfaithful with someone they’ve previously been attached to, maybe it helps them cope with the fact that they are behaving like whores idk?

[@DanielleBabyBliss]

Ok so women already cheating if they have male friends? And dudes not? The dudes excited to nod along because that means they can be shady and territorial for no reason. Cheating in any gender is wrong. Emotional connections with any gender is definitely ok as long as it’s not romantic.

[@Midnight-ot3oi]

It is funny women will start rejecting physical contact from their partner if they start having an affair. It becomes like the affair person becomes the main partner who she is loyal to. Crazy for me to think of that from a male POV.

[@gregoryc6656]

Exactly this! they see it as the original lover is the side guy and the obsticle to the real lover

[@doom-driveneap4569]

Experienced this firsthand, my partner would push me away whenever I wanted affection or I greeted her at the door from work. She would always push me away, then I went through her phone and found out she was cheating with her ex boyfriend, right after our son was born

[@Rosemary46840]

Males do the same when they cheat

[@One-rr8um]

​@@doom-driveneap4569I hope she's no longer your partner.

[@abusabah6615]

This is why i oppose boy besties blatantly , emotional attachment is the worst , even if there is no physical , it just drains the RESPECT and love which are buildiing blocks in a relationship

[@Beaneabean]

They’re not excusing either one. Theyre just explaining it.

[@elfascisto6549]

Woah, someone with a brain

[@micill3578]

If she's not emotionally attached anymore she's gonna cheat let her tell you about her day don't judge her actions against others unless she ask if she stops talking to you about her she will cheat

[@OetsuuuanT]

This is why all men are justified to cheat cuz no woman is loyal anyway

[@angelquintero4651]

they guy going "ooooh 😯" 😂😂

[@jae4412]

Bruh i swear i laughed so hard man 😂

[@macfurrywong8108]

Because it's so well put. We know it but we don't talk about that concept. How these women are already prepared to cheat before they even do so.

[@scottlang7564]

You can tell this girl is Young. I've been married 26 years and I'm not so stupid that I don't think my wife has gotten emotionally close to other men. But I do know everything my wife's ever done cheating I will agree is not just a physical thing but at the physicals not involved you never cheated in my opinion.

[@aaronmiles2802]

If you accept cheating from your wife, you can’t call yourself a respectable man. The majority of men AND women will never respect you for that. End of story.

[@jimd4609]

Yes but does she keep it a secret?

[@OetsuuuanT]

Why are you even with her if she cheated?

[@gregorycarlson6632]

If you believe that your wife has been emotionally involved with another man, and that’s normal and ok with you, Dude, your marriage is a joke. There is NOTHING “normal” about being infatuated with someone else if you’re married or in a relationship. Nothing!

[@ricardocamarinha4897]

She is absolutly honest!

[@LoydNic-sm4dg]

That is a real woman they were talking to! A rare woman of class!

[@rahmagulaid2233]

nobody cares about the emotional connection or the physical connection. the reason cheating is wrong is because of the betrayal and hurt it causes to the other person. and if a guy still loves his girlfriend but cheats then he didn't truly love her but a man or woman in love would never do something that would hurt their partner like this and risk their relationship

[@ninany3870]

I’m a female on women are definitely on demon time too.

[@carleysoul]

Definitely -- 😆 And it's easy cause guys are easyAF --- I prefer "demon time" 😈 over emotional. I've cheated, had a MMF 3some 'cause he cheated and it felt GREAT! 😝 Did again and again and again! Best sex is FukYouSex! He never know. 🖕🏾🤘🏾It was def not emotional, it was NEEDEDDDDD!

[@King_of_darkness-dg5ps]

Well said 😂 couldn’t agree more

[@YoungKing50]

For sure but I would say there is more men on “demon” time hence the generationalization

[@user-vp6ir5bk6h]

cheating as girl is different as she said it's also emotionally, they're more aware of when they're cheating then men thus is more evil for a woman to cheat imo, obviously both are wrong, men are more horny by nature, and have trouble avoiding erections daily, cheating as a man can be with any woman, they just want to get their pp wet. virginity worth much mor for woman than men, woman not opening her legs is seen as a beautiful and good since humanity began, bible and the quran states this, men being sexually active is viewed as cool and high status.

[@Rosemary46840]

Gross

[@ronmexico5908]

People with morals and dignity are being attacked by people who are low class. Calling it a gender thing, race thing or anything else is them trying to get good people to fight for them because they are weak. Don’t fall for it. Stay strong and good even if it means being alone

[@vadimvlogz]

Major disrespect prior to cheating is a possible indicator

[@Football34526]

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[@glorify_BRIANHACKONLINE_OnWeb]

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[@sidramehmood-gl8je]

If a person chatting to someone and his sense of right or wrong do not allow him to continue this affair therfore after some days he leave this matter and go back to his spouse without telling her about his affair. What would he consider as a cheater or not? Plz reply.

[@Emptytopfloor]

@@sidramehmood-gl8jehe is a cheater. Leave your wife for a better man.

[@Rosemary46840]

Jail time lol- if we were to do that ALL males would be in jail

[@Sid-MMA]

Betrayal by ones woman gives unimaginable psychological pain. A Wise man will never give her a second chance , no matter how deeply he loves that woman.

[@andrewcruz3837]

idk if this is cheating but. I was talking to a single mom 35 with three kids. She worked 2 jobs. it was long distance. im 27. I helped her financially to feed her kids. keep her house cause she was homeless. helped her with gas money. she is a depressed person also . Having mental breakdowns crying in the shower. Cause of her past. And last sunday i found out by the other dudes pic they both were in it hugging. she went back to her best friend and banged him and did all this behind my back. for a YEAR! WE TALKED And how she said she loved me and would never hurt me I believed her!. i thought she was more mature than that. and now I can’t believe i let myself be freaking deceived!.

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

Hahaha you're a fvcking lozer bruv you actually think wimmin feel actual emotions like love? You believe they are loyal? Hahahaha what a chump you are. Don't let it happen again..

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

Hahahaha

[@clickmyprofile4751]

that’s definitely cheating man sorry you had to deal with that

[@andrewcruz3837]

@@clickmyprofile4751 right? She acted like nothing happened

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

Your first mistake was giving a chance to a single mom. Never EVER EVER date a single mom seriously. You wanna bang her it's fine do it as much as you want with safety, but do not ever think of getting into serious relationship. All that talk of how a real man behaves by single women is a facade to trick you into saving them. They do not have your interests in mind.

[@craigdurham1498]

Thank You for sharing the truth !!!!!

[@teresawatson9032]

I think it is worse when women cheat because for men most of the time it is purely physical but they do not love that woman, woman will love which ever man makes us feel safe and loved so as soon as our husband stops doing that and someone else does, we will fall in love with the one who does. Which is why I believe that for a long term marriage to work a woman has to consistently tend to her husbands physical needs and a man needs to consistently tend to his wife’s emotional needs.

[@Kiakitkat]

Their both bad

[@teresawatson9032]

@@Kiakitkat I never said they weren’t

[@sandipdattaroy1984]

The moment you find other guys showing you love and concern and affection, remember he just wants to make you feel special so that you open your legs for him at the earliest 😅😂. Don't mistake lust for love. Love is a feeling, and it can change soon. By the time you realize it is already late. Don't trust random guys/coworkers showing up empathy and love.

[@DH-li1iv]

It's the same for both there's no double standard The Bible says if you have done it in your heart you have done it!!!! and it's true and most people will be like but you didn't physically do it... but you're doing it in your heart. your heart is being taken away from whoever you're with, because you're daydreaming or wanting to be with someone else. so you really did it. I mean if you think about that over and over again. the bible's not lying. it is very true! you Did it in your heart, so you really did it!!! because if your heart that belongs to someone, can go astray to think about someone else, and make love to them, then you don't really love that someone, cause you're thinking about somebody else. If you loved them your thoughts would be on them.

[@thyone3925]

So that makes you guilty too

[@DH-li1iv]

@@thyone3925 it makes everyone guilty who does it. The Bible also says that there is only one judge. That is God. The Bible says to be careful in what measure you judge, because in that same measure you will be judged. Only God knows our true heart. The Bible also says if we repent of our sins God will lovingly forgive us. And will not bring that sin up ever again. It's us as humans who try to take matters in our own hands and judge others, or call people out, or try to repay evil for evil. Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord. I was cheated on (physically), and someone gave me the scriptures Roman's 12:9 thru 21. It really helped me. Many blessings to you and your family. Much Love In Christ...D ❤️

[@jacobpaulgordon6202]

@@thyone3925 what’s that supposed to mean? Are you in charge of everyone else? No… so stfu

[@sephorahercules3160]

amen

[@ROCKDIVA85]

Cheating back fires on the cheater. They get what they deserve in the end. They get kicked out, cut off, and lose so much. Cheating just isn't worth the trouble.

[@OetsuuuanT]

I bet you only say that when the Cheater is a man. Y'all justify when women cheat

[@darray.]

Heres my take, i think a lot of ATTRACTIVE women get in relationships with men with status (let me finish), not so much for attraction because attraction/sex is already easy to get for an attractive woman. Heres the flip side. A lot of men with status, dont have the time to commit emotionally, they'll pay your bills, take you on expensive dates to boost your ego. But thats it because they're out creating self value through money. So those women typically will cheat physically or mentally with a man thats more empathic, one that'll make her feel valued and seen emotionally. So i do think, if you are an empathic man, and you think you're in a relationship. Shes probably got another man thats wining and dining her (who's to say if the empathic man is the main, but i do know the one with money will treat her like shit and she'll take it. But with the empathic man, she'll treat him like shit and wont take any shit from the empathic man because she doesn't really care about you, she cares about status). Thats just the modern manipulative woman. I do think deeeep down, us men always know whats up.

[@zeuwyx]

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[@51gebze._-]

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[@aliakar3931]

Often the difference between whether a person is identified as a hacktivist (or Batman vigilante as described here) or a terrorist is whether the person describing the hacker agrees with their ideology or not. One of the reasons why doing real harm with hacking is not a good idea. *Brian hacks online* all the way. No worries about breaking the law, and you're actually building value for someone by ensuring they know of all their system's vulnerabilities. A great place to start practicing is on your own devices and networks.

[@shootist279]

Men, don't get married, don't get attached.You will lose everything....guaranteed.

[@tantanmustdie]

Hope you feel loved soon

[@Lalaafastroli]

Lmao, hopefully love finds you one day

[@anomaly9156]

You sound pathetic. Misery does love company.

[@SacramentoNativ3]

92% chance for men who get comfortable easy

[@wingknight7132]

​@@tantanmustdieYou are speaking emotionally he is speaking facts

[@Ladies_man217x]

Not accurate. As a man myself the only person I want is my girlfriend.

[@Officialqueso]

You my friend will get cheated on

[@Ladies_man217x]

@@Officialqueso doubt it but we’ll see

[@perfectcell5111]

@@Ladies_man217x see we shall

[@Ladies_man217x]

@@perfectcell5111 hope not

[@perfectcell5111]

@@Ladies_man217x thats more like it

[@umutbugrahelvac7790]

*Johnsonspy* , you're one of my favorite people on this planet.. (And I don't even know you personally). The way in which you present your work, the content and the access is just awesome. Thank you!! This project is unbelievably amazing and thanks for presenting my the access with so much positivity!! All the best from Germany....!!!!!!

[@ralphmiranda2077]

The rare jewel of a woman that understands and talks sense… if she lives it, that might be another story

[@marcosarreguin8146]

Woman cheat even before she’s born 😭😭😭😭😂

[@mogottem8660]

Hahahaahahahah shittttt I’m buying you a beer

[@symonelewis1690]

How does anybody cheat before they're born? You're making zero sense right now.

[@yousht7348]

​​@@symonelewis1690 maybe his mom cheated on his dad before his mother born 😹

[@tantanmustdie]

Funny that studies show men are more inclined to cheat than women

[@priyamoerlie4614]

So your mother to hahaha

[@onixtheone]

Anyone that lies to a partner is cheating. We agreed to be exclusive, that means body and mind, not just one or the other.

[@teresawatson9032]

If my husband or long term partner cheated on me, as long as it was just a one night stand and he used protection and it was purely just a mistake purely made of lust not love I would forgive him, as long as he promises to not do it again. However if I am in a relationship and wanting another man it’s because I don’t love my man anymore, because as a girl I can tell you when we truly like a guy we are straight up obsessed and see no other men.

[@SuperBeastman10]

Does that mean u will invest emotionally in another man before ending your relationship,u havent answered that question,many women do this and may even sleep with the other before ending her current one.

[@teresawatson9032]

@@SuperBeastman10 Well that doesn’t relate to my comment, but like I said when a woman is truly in love with a man she doesn’t see any other men, but I would never cheat emotionally if physically if that is the question, if the relationship isn’t going to workout I would just break up with him.

[@SuperBeastman10]

@teresawatson9032 thats the best way to be,it doesn't always end that way though,theres many people in the world and sein as this is based on women they will get emotionally connected to another man then end it after. The new guy appaars on the seen so soon after the break up as he was already in the background..

[@KevinJohnson-pt8mg]

Honey cheating is not a mistake it’s a choice

[@teresawatson9032]

@@KevinJohnson-pt8mg but people can make choices that where a mistake. It’s obviously something that it would take me a really long time to get over but if we had built a family together I wouldn’t break it all up because of that.

[@tr1707]

Yes, that's called micro- heating and is still very much disloyalty

[@tr1707]

*micro-cheating

[@AbstractM0use]

If you'd get upset if you found out your partner was texting or sexting someone else in secret, then it's cheating.

[@joshuahall6488]

A renowned therapist who wprked in cultures all over the world, stated that cheating is anything that you keep secret from your significant other. People in open marriages still lied and hid their meaningful outside relationships

[@chelseashamim9148]

Both is wrong

[@thecreativemillenial]

How about, unless its an open polymorous relationship, in which both people consent to, no-one cheats because it's dishonest?

[@anomaly9156]

If it's a polymorous relationship, it isn't cheating. Cheating isn't supposed to be consensual. It's called cheating when it's not consensual. So, once again, all cheating is wrong. Infediles are home wreckers that destroy families.

[@EvolutionG789]

This women had experience with cheating

[@frankklanac6072]

She is exactly correct To entertain the very thought of cheating makes you instantly guilty of the ACT itself There is only one answer and she is telling the one truth there is no other

[@shalinitiwariscorner5210]

It's just cultural myth. Men can also cheat emotionally and women can also experience unromantic sexual attraction. Also, women don't often cheat on their male partner with some other man, it's most often her galpal. And men don't take that seriously and sometimes deliberately allow it.

[@cubehipster7160]

Broken females do.

[@OetsuuuanT]

Women are far more hypocritical when it comes to cheating. Also, even after women cheat, men still have to pay alimony

[@MrBones-bo7ll]

I personally don't care how different cheating is, it may just be a piss in the lake for man, and a man still love his woman, but that woman will have her heart broken and won't love him, it doesn't matter how different it is, it's still wrong, best to be in a open relationship, i think cheaters are sick, especially when they expect some kind of monogamy.

[@yohnathonmars2908]

Cheat go to jail. Period. Thats a bigger sin then stealing a fn candy bar

[@SpiritualStepper-Cross]

That’s why Jesus came to save us

[@KaiM-t6s]

I'm getting 6 life sentences then 😅

[@jasonandyjoseph]

She just preached the word.

[@jeanettemena1286]

When men cheat they do so too long before physical touch. They are liking pictures, sexting, DMing, emailing, going on a few dates prior to the actual physical encounter.

[@Michael-mh2tw]

'Liking pictures' You need a therapist if you think liking an image on some dumbass social media site constitutes infidelity. Jesus christ.

[@lennoxbraithwaite2546]

Cheating is cheating women always trying to justify their actions, if you don't love someone tell them and move on. It's always men that are the bad people, isn't it equality you women preach so own your shit

[@alrose8870]

Yeah. Men do the same. I mean how did they even get the side chick? By getting phone numbers and talking to girls. Men gotta do work to get the girl.

[@lynlyn222]

@Ptah𓁰Amun𓁩Ra𓁜 pretty much every episode of cheaters the man was on a date... so you dont even know.... lol

[@sciencenerd777]

​@ptahamunra5422Nope, that's cause if you have a gf and you are looking outside it means that you have to put in some work to get the outside meat.... men say the reason why them cheating isn't as bad cause they have to put in the work, what's different about wanting a another woman besides your gf

[@Xgil2Play]

That ghostly "ooohhh" sound he made to emphasize the drama 😂 Man lovea his tea, you can tell.

[@jacobortiz2829]

Realistically I think we all got cheated lol

[@Void_from_Abyss]

Of course

[@clickmyprofile4751]

not me at least yet..

[@jacobortiz2829]

@@clickmyprofile4751 good luck 💪

[@easylife6348]

@@clickmyprofile4751bro you don’t even know it. I’ve experienced plenty of women have boyfriends be giving me choosing signals and I have to tell you there’s a 99% chance she already or currently micro-cheated on you with someone else even if you do everything right in the relationship, your girl probably found a dude that’s better than you in every way.

[@HOTSHOTGAMING-eb3ds]

Instead of cheating... breakup... Atleast after breakup it's not considered cheating

[@raider1297]

Why do these selfish people simply not leave the relationship and do whatever they want to do? You free your partner of yourself so they can go and actually look for happiness and someone better, and you can do what you want. Simple lol

[@KaiM-t6s]

Money plus you don't have to deal with the whole break drama

[@Perez-ib9ur]

Emotional cheating is horrible. That is a relationship killer for me

[@jafhio2284]

True, wen a woman is texting somebody wen shes in a relationship that already cheating.

[@JayElemn03]

I agree with her 100% and the guy with the curly hair is really taking it in😭😭😭

[@nikkicreary]

Most women cheat when there is a lack of desire in her relationship or revenge after their spouse cheat...

[@karolsorrell827]

I think I read in a woman's magazine 30 years ago, that when a woman usually cheats, she ready for the marriage to be over and she's looking for a good replacement. I think that's true, although as more equality occurs, woman are catching up to men in respect to why and percentage.

[@wingknight7132]

Seems like ur making excuses

[@Mr_Mistah]

Is that supposed to be an excuse?

[@easylife6348]

Wrong, most women cheat because they already found someone better than their boyfriends. My grandmother told me exactly what im telling you. And also, I’m not trying to brag but as an handsome man myself there’s plenty of women at my job in Amazon has boyfriends be giving me constant choosing signals every time I come to work even the single girls, but these women who has boyfriends have it worst with the choosing signals. All these years working at Amazon I came to a realization that ALL women in general have the potential to cheat because they all showing me day in and night out.

[@abhinavdw1]

​@@easylife6348so you're saying women will cheat if they find a handsome men?

[@LOVETHERKO26]

This why I stay single. You can't trust anyone these days

[@sucram1018]

Or maybe you have trust issues to think anyone is inherently distrustworthy. Because there are bad people or people into things that are bad.

[@yourlocalraven489]

@@sucram1018 No one is trustworthy. Everyone is out here to get you.

[@yourlocalraven489]

@@sucram1018 My family and friends cry because i push them away. But i know that everyone is a liar.

[@Emptytopfloor]

@@yourlocalraven489every single one

[@mooner77]

😂😂😂 me too bro litarally

[@deborahelizabeth3788]

No. Texting other people without it being romantic is not cheating. It IS cheating if you’re texting them in hopes of keeping the door open for something more than a friendship, or the conversation is inappropriate.

[@Pure_Light_of_Heaven]

No man is ever speaking to a woman that he isn’t deep down wanting to bone.

[@ChadoTheDon]

Anyone who cheats did it mentally way before it was physically this is trash advice

[@gregoryc6656]

Why? Its the truth

[@MahdiRedwan]

Emotion is an excuse, they are dramatic. They can’t control their pissy, they can’t control the greed of money/ power.

[@raymondotoole2600]

Don’t cheat … if you’re going to then communicate that you’re feeling a certain way. Don’t psychologically damage someone else. Plus if you think a man cheating means nothing you’re extremely red pilled… get out of this pill cringe shit

[@violettabicycletta331]

You are so very right about women and what it means to cheat !.

[@princedey3560]

She is really a queen

[@gabrielperez7164]

Honestly and this is a message for the woman who read it as man who's recently got my own place and in all realness I can actually say worked hard enough to become independent and still take care of my family as a man if you are ever with man and at some point even if it started with love if your love fades please have the respect to tell them the truth no matter if the truth is your love faded or someone else has been giving you the love that your man at the time stopped giving at the very least be honest enough to end it with Truth before moving on with life as a man i can respect that

[@reginaldtate1847]

God bless her for that now we all know human being human 🪟👀👀👀

[@238elizabeth.m9]

She's right

[@sliceOcheese]

I love waffles

[@ilpgreets6950]

Me too with vanilla ice cream

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

Wheat Waffles

[@VX_XI]

Cheating is bad regardless of gender. Man or Woman. And people who argue otherwise are just projecting the fact that they have probably been cheat on many times or they cheat on people alot. Just stop behaving like a child already, this is a sign of a deep physcological issue.

[@kristinc2909]

Also, men act like throwing heart eyes emojis at girls pictures is “not” them trying to shoot their shot on some level

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

Because realistically, most women ignore positive attention from men. Heart-eye emojis will almost never result in a random twitter model actually talking to a man. Women ignore 99.9% of men.

[@clickmyprofile4751]

@@shin-ishikiri-no is not ok just because it’s possible they will get ignored i’ve been ignored by the opposite gender all my life if i managed to get a partner i still wouldn’t do that

[@OetsuuuanT]

Women who cheat are far worse

[@walkinginfavor4383]

For humans, biologically, any physical intimacy lends itself to emotional connection. There is no separation between physical/emotional cheating.

[@EmirÖzey]

I'm most sure that Brandon of *Johnsonspy* is the solitary individual here that is really ready to complete this without any kind of grumble, I'm genuinely thankful to him for since, supposing that it weren't for him I wouldn't have discovered that my sweetheart was not the slightest bit steadfast from the beginning

[@JasonSmith-ir8zz]

Finally we get a girl that admit the fkn TRUTH!

[@tantanmustdie]

Sadly, men definitely do the emotional cheating too. The difference is women will not cheat unless they are emotionally connected to the 3 person. For guy, they cheat whether they have emotional connection with the 3rd girl or not

[@anomaly9156]

When you don't even realize what the truth is on the general level.

[@wingknight7132]

​@@tantanmustdieno ur wrong

[@VioletBlue-q8v]

People who cheat are intelligent

[@TuxedoTalk]

People cheat because they're not getting something they want from the relationship and for whatever reason can't communicate it with the other person. You don't look for water when the bucket is full.

[@Pure_Light_of_Heaven]

Bucket won’t always be full in a relationship. Happiness, satisfaction, even attraction come and go. If your fidelity is tied to your happiness you won’t have a lasting relationship.

[@TuxedoTalk]

@@Pure_Light_of_Heaven Ever had an empty bucket for years?

[@Pure_Light_of_Heaven]

@@TuxedoTalk I try not to tie my happiness to other people but I would imagine if you were absolutely miserable with someone and they made your life miserable then sure I can understand. But what are people expecting to find in someone? An empty bucket is the inevitable result of spending lots of time with anyone. Eventually they won’t be exciting and fun anymore. You will completely know and understand that person. It will feel like dissatisfaction and boredom

[@TuxedoTalk]

@@Pure_Light_of_Heaven What if your partner doesn't want sex anymore.

[@Pure_Light_of_Heaven]

@@TuxedoTalk I understand why a young man would leave a relationship without sex yes. I guess the question becomes is this a person who you want to grow old with. Even having sex becomes difficult as you age as well. It’s not the priority to me now that it was when I was 25.

[@yunghumble100]

Ain't no such thing as cheating if you don't treat your relationship as if it was a game.

[@NoobGaming-eu1kv]

i respect this girl bcoz she is speaking truth

[@WCreamoreIII]

Women cheat out of anger, men cheat out of joy. -Kelso from that 70s show.

[@Crucial_4orce]

No women ain’t gotta be emotional to get off. Men are confused with what you’re told. Like us, they do not need any connection to simply hook up.

[@Lalaafastroli]

This is straight facts she knows exactly what she’s talking about

[@TheBeatSmash]

"mentally" texting another guy is "mental"

[@LifeIsGood1992]

Cheating for men and wonen is the same, difference is in the steps, For men it's sexual then emotional For women emotional then sexual So cheating is cheating no matter which sex you are

[@dustinwestergom-flick3173]

Agreed. I went through it. And why couldn't she take about her feelings whilst saying I never talk about my feelings? I didn't talk about them, because I didn't think anything was wrong...until it she had crossed the emotional AND physical line. Now she hates me for hiding her to her own standards she held me to. Accountability isn't in a woman's logic

[@rachaelcorreia8630]

Girl talk for yourself....not true

[@Ysfhahahshs]

Yes, girl!!!!!

[@Mahadev_Shiv18]

The girl i loved cheated her bf n me we were victim of her false emotions but we fkd up our lyf

[@tantanmustdie]

Being more "animalistic" doesn't excuse physical cheating. You are called a human for a reason. Have human decency and don't hurt the one you're supposed to love.

[@wingknight7132]

Emotional cheating is far worse than physical cheating

[@macfurrywong8108]

I think they are speaking in terms of like the logistics of it. Like what actions they take. Like most guys are caught cheating always cos of their animalistic instincts whereas with woman it's always emotional. Cheating regardless is still horrible for anyone on the receiving end. There isn't worst. Betrayal is already the worst in general.

[@gargigoswami143]

​@@wingknight7132 both are cheating tho

[@wingknight7132]

@@gargigoswami143 both are cheating but one is worse

[@gargigoswami143]

@@wingknight7132 both are tho

[@Seetiyan]

Both sides are animalistic. We're animals - hello. She's just trying to make a woman's bad behavior seem more lofty and fancy.

[@matinaki1644]

What I see is trying to downgrade the seriousness of the matter concerning men. Like it is "natural" to cheat and that blah blah thing. It is equally wrong if there is no arrangement, period.

[@OetsuuuanT]

​@@matinaki1644 what I see is, women calling it justified because women are inherently better human beings. Apparently, women only cheat when she is not treated well. Meanwhile women can ab*se men mentally and physically and deprive him of intimacy and he still isn't allowed to cheat

[@Digital_Happiness]

It's honestly concerning how many people believe emotional cheating "doesn't count"

[@refinedsugar]

Very true. Women are all about their emotions. Their "feelings". They might voice their unhappiness. They make not. Depends on the woman. In my limited dating experience, women are lining up their next relationship before they break up with you.

[@marcoi7035]

👍 in my 20s there boyfriends were always calling me up