Men are tired of the insults, we're winning, we just don't know it yet.

[@BetterBachelor]

Thanks for the heads up in the misspelled title card. I'm at the bachelor barn on my property and won't be home for a few hours to fix it!

[@yoshisaidit7250]

"Men are tired of the insluts" Nice one.

[@gabrielbouvier7763]

Not to worry. Moving to rumble after today. Dylan Mulvaney, Dylan Mulvaney, Dylan Mulvaney.

[@m4rvinmartian]

*Hey dude... is there ANY method to get in contact with you? I've tried every thing in your about.* Anyway, been trying to offer help with your compound. HMU. My info is in my about.

[@aSpork]

thanks brother

[@aSpork]

where is your book at?

[@AlienRelics]

Feminists: "All men are pigs!" Also Feminists: "Women are just like men!" Aging Feminists: "Why can't I find a man to pay my bills?"

[@bababamooo906]

Female logic = disabled person.

[@iammaximus614]

… stay away from them 👹

[@michaelsix9684]

this meme has ruined millions of women and damaged society, it is a toxic ideology

[@VelvetCrowe734]

Except that true feminists don't depend guy's wallet to pay their bills. Use your brain before posting nonsense.

[@farrellmcnulty909]

@@iammaximus614 With pleasure, Max

[@pensatorseven1898]

You are strong and independent, pay your own bills. Problem solved.

[@Cov930]

Only when it’s convenient. Right when it doesn’t fit the narrative…shame tactics , complaining etc

[@Fangroth]

They can bark like dogs all they want. Ignore them and let them fend for themselves. Arrogance, disrespect, destructive behaviour should be punished.

[@ma3stro681]

The arrogant entitlement of the first bimbo. What self respecting man in his right mind pays a woeman's bills, just for some access to overvalued pu$$y?? She needs to go kick rocks until Father Time catches up with her. And he comes to collect, not pay out ...

[@enigma9971]

Men are paying her bills because they don't respect themselves

[@MickeyMishra]

Feel the same way. I would have loved to do it when I was younger and did. Today? There is nothing in it or men.

[@SirYeetus]

I know immediately. The more society/government gets upset, the more we are winning! 🤷🏽‍♂️😂

[@keithgraham9547]

Yeeeahh, no. Nobody is "winning." No country has ever reversed the trend of a birth rate below replacement levels. Millions of men and women won't have a family, mostly due to awful women.

[@sweengeppetto1915]

Yes sir

[@gabrielboorom2683]

Personally, I would like to see these women have to be "strong & independent" for a hundred years. No electricity, no running water, no men.

[@poopyhole101]

How is that winning?

[@jfkst1]

Yeah, collapsing society is awesome!!!

[@ViperStrikesAgain0160]

"If she rejects you in her prime, don't be there for her in her decline."

[@balanobody3704]

Guy gets there prime 26-36, if u r not a real fuck up during this phase, she's not rejecting shit

[@DigitalSwagg]

I can't lie after my wife divorced me I was wrecked. It took me 5 years and 3 months but I just 100% completely paid off my house. The true icing on the cake is I retired 2 days ago early at age 52. It truly feel freaking amazing and the sweetest revenge is living your best life. During those dark days I stayed on my purpose and stopped chasing women completely. You will amass a small fortune and get to your goals quickly.

[@OldSaltyBear]

Truth! I divorced at 32. I'm 53 and have been debt free for over 16 years. Bought a 153 acre farm at auction about eight years ago. Its got two barns, a 150 year old house with wrap around porch, a small bass pond, river frontage on the east, creek frontage on the North and 30 acres of hard wood forest for hunting. Only reason I am still working is I have been repairing all the barns and the house. Once the front porch is repaired and the heated workshop is built, I'll be cutting back from full time to contract consulting only during the winter. Looking forward to summers filled with fishing, kayaking, hunting and building timber frame cabins in the woods to rent on airbnb. Also started a 320 tree cider apple orchard with plans to make a small label of hard cider and brandy.

[@thatroonstboi6231]

how fat is she?

[@richardclausen154]

Congratulations, my brother! Similar to you, I divorced 23 years ago with two children, which I raised. It was a struggle and those dark days I could only focus on my children’s well being and learning to love myself. After 5 years I began to hit my stride. Once the girls were on their own, I took on remote and challenging projects all over the world. I am retired as I am doing what I love as a field engineer, still working amazing once in a lifetime projects. I truly thank the ex every day for removing the chains and setting me free. Life is rich!

[@Wong-Jack-Man]

Absolutely the acquisition of women is the biggest expense with crap roi. Once you stop chasing your money will grow exponentially.

[@firstnamerequiredlastnameo3473]

@@OldSaltyBear A dream situation. Your former wife removed herself so you could stretch out your wings.

[@WickedParanoid]

"It's been harder for me to find a guy to pay my bills" Poor choice of words. Now ya'll have even more trouble on that front, and rightly so.

[@nathandanner4030]

Maybe if she could Cook then you could have a "Payment for Services Rendered" situation

[@magneric]

At least she voiced what basically every woman seeking a relationship is after

[@gabrielboorom2683]

Never treat a woman like your equal. They don't think of you as a human being.

[@Aivottaja]

I guess we should give her credit for honesty, though. If a womyn were actually a decent cook, housewife and a decent mother, I would not mind providing for her as I would for my child or children. But that's a big if. I have no dreams of meeting such a womyn.

[@ulibarriL]

By bills, don't think rent, utilities, waste disposal, etc. You need to think, luxury vehicle, credit card debt, tuition, etc. Those are the bills she's talking about.

[@DeusExMachina10001]

I’m so happy feminism happened. Without it, women like the one in the intro wouldn’t be exposing themselves so blatantly.

[@swisscheese412]

Feminism is not the enemy: the housewife that divorce grapes u is the true enemy

[@downtostandup]

Feminism exposed the deep dark lies were were told decades ago. We just have to teach future men to not go back and do what's best for them the man and that man only. Let women rot by themselves

[@capo4270]

​@@swisscheese412 I argue that weak men in positions of power is the only reason why the womanism movement has even lasted this long

[@johnnyjohn-johnson7738]

I disagree, I think that feminism has made women more rotten than they ever would've been if it never existed, it's also turned men into pussies, I'm not saying that people with those personalities never existed before, but it was much rarer when it wasn't the dominant culture, people are sheep and base their values on those that control the narrative, so feminism didn't expose women as much as it brought out the worst potential in women through indoctrination and the normalization and rewarding of bad behavior.

[@johnnyjohn-johnson7738]

@@capo4270 100%, male politicians tend to be more beta than red pilled.

[@walkerlone]

The real problem with the OnlyFans model is that it tells women that men will give them money to see their bodies. It tells women that they are the prize. That they don't have to actually work, make something, do something meaningful. It reinforces simping. I'm glad you coined the phrase 'OnlyFools.' I would never pay money for something I can see for free on the internet.

[@Cahluvca]

🎯..burden of performance standard

[@respectdawildo_danjones508]

Anyone who pays for that shlt should re-evaluate their life

[@maximuscomfort]

Very true, "onlyfools" is just that.

[@redneckroy8947]

Yes. Nothing irritates women more than men living a happy, full life without them. Trust me on this

[@Matthew10950]

Can confirm. They resent us simply because we can be happy, sometimes for no reason.

[@stevewilson4718]

They will call you names Because they know you don't need them to survive for anything

[@Ophanim1000]

Because no matter what they do they can never be happy. Because they are rotten to the core and they take it all out on us men through being a manipulative deceitful B

[@ImmortalLordSoth]

After my divorce I lived in my truck for over a month and used my gym membership at 24 hour fitness at the time for showers and changing for job interviews and while I was working getting back on my feet. Wasn’t easy but what needed to be done. So relate to your story joker.

[@snowcloudshinobi]

what did you use for a bed? did you fold down the rear seats and lay down a sleeping mat?

[@ktm42080]

Hope things are going better for you, sounds like you came out on top. ✌️

[@stevenbaumann5911]

Was there any Karma for your ex-wife?

[@ImmortalLordSoth]

I slept basically with the seats all the way back. It wasn’t comfortable but better than in the street.

[@gabeo9474]

That's where I'm at now, except I'm still here in my truck...for a year...

[@dontworryaboutme6410]

Remember gentlemen, success is the best revenge.

[@robertd9850]

Revenge is kind of toxic. Just live your life by your rules. Sometimes it's harder, sometimes it's easier but your rules.

[@davecasey4341]

@@robertd9850 Yes, it depends on what success looks like to you. The kind of success that will serve the best revenge is that of being happy. When you, as a guy, separate from the woman of your life, she's thinking (hoping) you'll be completely miserable without her. Living a happy life after her is the best revenge you can get.

[@Disenfranchised-lu1zv]

The internet has really opened a lot of men's eyes to female nature. It has been a blessing in disguise. Men used to get into relationships and marriages not expecting the hell that it would inflict upon them. Men were expected to tolerate toxic and abusive female behavior for the sake of keeping the family together. My grandfather was stabbed with a butcher knife by my narcissistic grandmother back in the 50's but he held on as long as he could tolerate until she chased him off to leave my mother and her siblings to the physical and emotional torture she put them through. The courts were biased back then as well. This emancipation from the abuse of women will only spread further. The sad thing is that women are doing it to themselves as well. That's the way she wants it, that's the way she gets it. As for me? I live like a king as a single man and have no regrets in life. I answer to no one and am free man.I live every day to the fullest and don't take my freedom for granted. If you find a good woman, good for you, but I wouldn't count on it.

[@effexon]

Im glad this dark side of 1950s is also told, from women side... not just stereotypical drunk father figure. Nowadays men have freedom to leave aswell. Might get badmouthed but less damage than getting from knife.

[@boratlion8613]

True. They “women” have ALWAYS been the abusive manipulative scheming lying sex. Men are all those things as well EXCEPT men aren’t going out of their way to destroy a woman’s life financially, emotionally and socially when given the option.

[@raymondpaller6475]

Spot on!! Before the internet, when there were bad examples that showcased the true female nature, they were localized word-of-mouth that could be explained away as freak one-offs from a small sample size. With the internet, the small sample size free-passes are over, there are large sample sizes that can't be blown off & men are now knowing what female nature really is. Female family members included.

[@32degreesretarded62]

I don't know if the "you can start from nothing and be ok" speech is something that many of us(myself included)ever really paid attention to. My ex lied to the cops about me hitting her and I ended up in jail for a few days. The county forbid me from going back to the place we shared, even though she left. I was homeless and jobless. It wasn't until I pieced my life back together and looked back and said "damn, that was easy". Been about 10 years and I've got my own home, full custody, boat, truck, multiple snowmobiles and money to go on vacation a few times a year. When it first happened, I felt like my world had imploded and considered "hitting the delete button". Now, I'm not worried about much because I've been to the bottom of the barrel.

[@Chickensea10]

Glad ya survived

[@32degreesretarded62]

@@Chickensea10 truthfully, vindictiveness is what got me moving more than anything. Broad took away my world and then I'm gonna voluntarily hand over my life? Leave my boy alone? At this point, I'm greatful it exploded. Came out on this side WAY better than when I went in.

[@joebeta1837]

You're a true champ, and I mean it 100%. I rather hear your "bottom of the barrel" stories than narcissist dudes describing about how successful they are, how they have so many women's phone numbers, and how they bang all these chicks.

[@justadummy8076]

@@32degreesretarded62 whatever it takes to motivate yourself, as long as you don’t act on those thoughts you’re in the clear, keep it up

[@mikearchibald744]

I think all that needs to be said is 'I"m happy". I'm not sure why all the guys here feel the need to say they've got snowmobiles and money. Its hardly the case you'd be any less 'successful' if you were living in a basement apartment but taking care of yourself. Life isn't about 'stuff'.

[@dantespicysausage9615]

I don't know anymore and im not sure i care anymore. Frankly I'm tired of the nonsense

[@cptsuperstraight6924]

She thinks she wants to be kitchen but she hasn't learned to cook yet. LOL

[@defeqel6537]

Yeah, and housework was equal trade when it was difficult, now it takes 1h a day so in no way equal to working all day

[@nathandanner4030]

yeah, literally assbackwards

[@chickenmadness1732]

@@defeqel6537 ye in the UK women used to take classes in school to learn how to cook, sew, all that jazz up until a couple decades ago. Takes quite a bit of training to be a proper wife and mother. The men used to take classes to do man shit as well, DIY carpentry etc.

[@Josh-py9rq]

Hey at least she knows her place 😂 now bring us gents a sammich and up the cooking game and we may and I stress may welcome her with open arms 😂🏴‍☠️

[@gabrielboorom2683]

She would look better on all fours eating out of a dog bowl.

[@billybobhouse9559]

I'm currently going through a break up with the mother of my children. We've been together 20 years. Things are really difficult at the moment. Even though you don't know me, I feel like you have my back. Watching your videos is really helping me gain some perspective and hope for the future. Thank-you.

[@stevo6891]

Sorry to here man I wish you the best bro!!

[@Chickensea10]

Good luck to you and the kids.

[@theelder4797]

Try and put anything in your name in a trust, that can't be broken for her to steal.

[@m4rvinmartian]

@@theelder4797 Too late for that message now.

[@craigfowler7098]

I empathise 100%. All the men on here including me have your back bro.

[@Deedee1987dee]

I'm in my 30s, grew up without a father, always struggled. Me and my husband are not rich but are comfortable. I would stand by him no matter what happens, if we lost the house, job, everything, I would just want him. He stood by me when our daughter was stillborn despite his own grief. I respect him so much, I clean, I cook, I clean his car and make sure he's comfortable and gets rest after work, I garden and grow us food. He tells me he loves me every day and take cares of me. He's the kindest, smartest and strongest man I know. Sometimes things are not meant to be, you might not find the one, but hell, if you ever do, don't give up on love ❤

[@weaksupremacy3799]

will see truth after you become 40. No man marry a wh0r. Its just wives become one with support from their friends and femnasi media. (spellings are changed to prevent censorship)

[@AdrienMelody]

You’re a unicorn, that’s not gonna keep me from giving up on love 😂 You have my respect, though 🫡

[@mikearchibald744]

Amen, on sites like these they are mostly going to attract people with ONE type of experience. Because you get burned doesn't mean ANYTHING about a whole gender. It means something about ONE person. And of course a lot of people have the idea that they play NO part in a relationship falling apart. How many times do these fall into the 'he said, she said' blame game. At sites like these we DON"T hear from the happily married people or the people who broke up but just don't take it personally. Hell, who HASN"T broken up with somebody. But thats what marriage is supposed to be, and thats what it usually is. If it didn't work out, thats sometimes life. A lot of these comments seem to be SO 'me' focused that I can suspect that in the marriage it may have been the same, and thats always a problem. It goes both ways.

[@TheChadWork2001]

Then you are a good woman and wife. GOD has blessed you. Earn it, and never take it for granted.

[@mr.goldenproductions_0143]

Absolute nonsense. While you are correct that everyone is an individual with their own background and experiences, societal trends, stereotypes and eternal unchanging narratives about human (as well as male and female) nature exist for a reason. They ring true most of the time for most people, and are thus a good predictive indicator of behaviour. @@mikearchibald744

[@alvincyt]

When a woman demands anything from you and she's neither your family, friend nor already your girlfriend, always ask "what do I get in return".

[@samuelshin593]

Remember, women working = double work force = half pay

[@Agent1W]

I was even told that my pay rate would jump up to some $4 more per hour in manufacturing if the company did not hire women to work the assembly line.

[@MACROPARTICLE]

But *not* double productivity, mind you. Law of diminishing returns applies here.

[@OldSaltyBear]

​@@Agent1W Maybe initially the pay would jump $4, but long term I sincerely think it would be more than that since productivity would also jump and collective bargaining would regain its power.

[@Parlimant_Strifey]

@@OldSaltyBear really depends on your workforce, a smaller workforce always has a lot more bargaining power. As the black plague taught us.

[@terkelalgevind529]

I was a period oa kaging motors at this plant.. I as a noob packed 100 to 180 a day depending what types, fat Betty my nabor college did 50 to 80 in a day. She got almost 8 dollars more an hour because she had worked there for 18 years.

[@walterpalmer2749]

Marriage : everything to lose ; little to gain ; a lifetime of insomnia; no thanks. The first girl was honest when she stated she needed a guy to pay her bills. That's all we are gentlemen - a Visa card; a debit card; or a "Ben Franklin". (take your pick)

[@thothheartmaat2833]

ITS ALL FED COIN FROM NOW ON...

[@soufiane4527]

@@simplelifeinfo3913 obviously

[@kristoferprovencal3608]

@@simplelifeinfo3913 I thought it sounded rehearsed

[@tomaszszupryczynski5453]

i will be charles manson

[@HaroldKelley-xh4nv]

If you wanna get your hands on a beautiful girl you better use a Mastercard. Motörhead “teach you how to sing the blues”

[@bordocofrivia2896]

Keep up the aggression ladies, marriage rates are low and they'll keep getting lower. Gents, invest in cat food in the meantime. No wife happy life!

[@levilam522]

No.... no pets, vacation any time, any place you want..

[@ApollosLight]

The new hymne is "No woman? No cry!"

[@ArtisChronicles]

​@@levilam522 I don't think you get his meaning when he says invest in cat food. He's talking stocks.

[@RoyalMetal9]

Dog food too. They all have little yappy punters with them everywhere they go.

[@dennisdouglas5941]

Hey no hateing on dogs. I have my little buddy, best friend, and way more loyal than any woman. Plus He loves to travel. Hops right into the car and is happy to hit the highway.

[@h.mandelene3279]

Don't marry philippinas- when you marry, you financially marry her whole family. I know from numerous observations.

[@erroneous6947]

Imo that’s generally true of Asians or Indians as well.

[@rocket_scientist5353]

That's what a marriage is in Asia. But if your wife gives you trouble you can go to her mom and that crap will stop really fast.

[@JoeMamma3120]

If that happens I'm fvcking her sisters too😅

[@Letsgo-sg4cy]

I have witnessed one of these cases. Don't get married to them.

[@nateo200]

The first girl was just straight up honest. No political or feminist theatrical bullshittery just like "this is what I want". I love that!

[@Dayz3O6]

She is busty and can fight on her own so fair points but the onlyfools stuff is still a growing cancer, just goes to show that simps are still growing fast the fact that she earn this much.

[@indrajeet]

​@Jar Jar Binks that's what I assumed - virtue signalling 😉

[@jasonscala5834]

They promise a lot of things but deliver none.

[@PhotriusPyrelus]

Her very first statement belies her intent. She wants a man, not to love, not to be a partner with, not to treat well, but to pay her bills.

[@nateo200]

@@PhotriusPyrelus Most women marry for security and hope to fall truly in love but I don’t think they actually look for love so much as they look for security at a primal level.

[@eloquentsarcasm]

20 years ago after my divorce I literally had nothing but what I could stuff into my 2 Army duffel bags. Took a long time to rebuild my life, but I did it, alone without any support. The biggest and most valuable lesson I learned from that experience was to find myself a "tribe", a handful of people I could trust to have my back and who I would defend without thinking. Just a few people like that in your corner means you can survive anything and it's a feeling I haven't felt since the military. Been Monk Mode for 20 years and while I've found a few that I thought might be worth a shot, every time within 60 days the mask slips and their true face is revealed. Wayne Dyer said it best "You can never truly be lonely if you like the person you're alone with." IF you can find yourself a "unicorn", drive it til the wheels fall off, but if you can't, build yourself a life that doesn't REQUIRE one in order to be fulfilling.

[@dhall936]

Very good message my friend. Keep livin the good life and loving who you are w/o the burden of a woman to bring you down. 👍

[@mrundefined5643]

No way we are settling to these women.

[@Cov930]

Rail them out an leave . They all seem to be about it , they love the hook up culture none of them can really never get away . They cannot from the constant attention they all receive

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

@@Cov930 After all Hookup culture its their only creation.

[@MikeBarbarossa]

1:51 My God the filters and makeup. Just look at the real teeth, and the filtered fake teeth

[@tvbuu]

Exactly

[@tvbuu]

​@@Cov930 don't even smash these demons

[@mitchellstanding1548]

My wife and kids are my life. They give me more joy than any game, travel, friend or hobby ever did. Listening to this I realize how fortunate I am. She is foreign tbh. Our love and faith kept us going through hard times. Best luck to you all out there my brothers. I hope you can find happiness.

[@rnt45t1]

God, you are lucky.

[@_winaero_]

@@rnt45t1 - but his kids might not.

[@collie8]

best luck to you too, I hope you happiness will keep on.

[@davecrupel2817]

Oh give it a few years. They're not cleared, even after 20 years, with the stories I've read.

[@JetBen555]

@@rnt45t1 It's not Luck

[@jameshathaway5117]

My wife was raised by her biker father. As dangerous as it was to date her it was worth it in the end. 20 years together and she has been with me to the bottom and back. Don't get me wrong she's got her quirks but running away and expecting men to be anything other than men aren't among them.

[@johnnyjohn-johnson7738]

I would expect that biker chicks tend to be a bit on the masculine side themselves.

[@HOTDOG401]

​@@johnnyjohn-johnson7738 Yes and no

[@jameshathaway5117]

@@johnnyjohn-johnson7738 Watch some videos of female biker etiquette and judge for yourself! 😂 They are a strange breed alright. As strange as the comparison may sound they are a lot like tradcon women. My wife takes that a little far sometimes. She gets pissed at feminists or women who take away a man's access to the kids ect. Next thing you know she starts talking about how the 19th amendment should be repealed and we should bring back the rule of thumb...

[@johnnyjohn-johnson7738]

@@jameshathaway5117 In my opinion, conservatism to a large degree is masculinity applied to politics, so even though we associate "butch" women with feminism, it still makes sense for a woman from a masculine subculture to be conservative because being conservative takes a masculine mentality.

[@ThirtytwoJ]

Lol coulda gone either way and if her name is Tabby oh fk man good luck. Girl came in a bar i was temp managing and stripping, at like 14 years back now when came in with one of the other guys bragging on pulling her bout half his age.., had warned him in training not to do that.. didnt listen. Kills the tips and always end up with another dude.. didnt mention was usually me or the scummy pretty boy that was prob contagious by then. All the straight dudes just trippin over their dcks for her, tattd up petite hottie all boobs and butt barely 18. Let en all make a fool and just sat back laughing. Im out smoking and she walks out rolling her eyes and all i had to say was "nice tats" and go back to my convo not caring. She thinks for a sec "Wait did you say tats or tits?" "Huh, oh tats whoever did that fresh fairy had steady hands.. but now that you mention it both" and 20 mins later shes askin me if i can take off and get her outta there. Spends the weekenf shacked up shagging and givin her a ride home waits til im pulling in the driveway to smirk and tell me oh yea btw my dads the former biker leader (grew up close enough to already know which) goes by Maddog. 😮 thats... something ya warn more than 10 seconds before. Oi. Didnt expdct me to shrug, walk up to him, shake his hand, hit it off with him and not miss a beat eye to eye not intimidated at all. 20 mins later hes givin me the gun show routine and im just like... dude those gold plated derringers are sweet, the fk you get em? And he cocks his head like.. "youre not the normal kinda dude are ya, you got a spine on ya and talk straight... come by saturday for the bbq, i like you. Best thing shes drug in in a while. fair warning tho she loses interest every week or so." Yea i figured. Guy she came in with is still pissed at me. 2 or 3 weeks later hes the one tells me her prison arms ex was over that i saw a glipse when i dropped her off, takes after her mom like that. Thanks for not causing a scene i saw ya toss her stuff out the car on the way out. ..but id have been curious if ya could take his mouthy ass tbh.. and prob woulda been laughin if ya had walked up and clocked him when he stepped out to start sht. You missed the part where i came out behind him cocking the hammer and he turned lil btch. ..Yea knew was something the way she instigated a dumb fight suddenly btchy. ..Just like her mom.. but dont be a stranger, ya good in my book. 3 or so years later she hits me up and has a kid the same dude whos back in the slammer, been strippin and got into smack.. tryin to sweet talk me like.. nah, ill pass. Not into spoiled goods and drama but tell your dad i said hey for me. Think once she realized she wasnt getting drama and attention or money from me out of it she went back to dropping her act that first round and i wasnt gonna play it, id just walk off or tell her theres the door then. Fun while lasted but twice in a week getting so smashed she wet the bed was a bit much even without the drama so wasnt worth fighting for her to say the least esp after tried to tell me might be pregnant for all of a day til that started. Nah girl nice try. Didnt wanna find out how bad she got when something wasnt about her. Didnt even bother tellin her id already knew she was a walking red flag when she hit me up on FB when i still had one. havin stopped by a few times to have a beer with her dad prob bout the time she was off strippin or hiding actually bein pregnant. Heard hed passed a couple years back and couldnt help joke he finally got away from her mom at least.

[@josealexi5141]

Like eating, it takes 20 minutes for your full stomach to signal the brain. Maybe we're winning, but for me, I'm not seeing clear-cut signs of victory (yet).

[@32degreesretarded62]

I'm on the same page as you. The only thing I keep in mind is that society didn't get to the point in 5 years. Or 20 years. Or even 50 years. The current generation of men won't see the benefits.

[@poopyhole101]

Nobody is winning. I don’t know what these manosphere channels are talking about. They are trying to sugarcoat a hellish societal breakdown. It’s beyond bizarre.

[@Memememe-is1yn]

@@32degreesretarded62 This is the truth. Most people don't give up on their stupidity until they give up the ghost, even after they've figured out they were wrong the whole time. It takes a new generation that grows up under that stupidity and rejects it to move forward.

[@thothheartmaat2833]

WE'RE WINNING BECAUSE SOCIETY IS OVER AND WE WILL SUFFER LOL..

[@gabrielboorom2683]

I've noticed small changes. I won't waste your time on details. Individual comments left by a few women here & there. Things I never thought I would hear them ever say because they're too normal.

[@RussRobo]

I can't believe there is such a thing as "paypigs". Men. Please. Stop. We are better than this. 😑

[@ludwig7974]

They're NOT "men" They're Beta Bish Simp MALES.

[@redshark9537]

I left California in 2006 and headed for Texas because I have friends and family here. I lived in maybe six places the first year. Now I own a small house and live alone. No nagging. No disrespect. No whining. Do I miss having a luxurious home with a swimming pool? Not really. It was a lot of work to maintain, and I never heard "thank you." Life on one's own is a blessing. I come home to myself, and everybody in this house thinks I'm the greatest. Guys, don't despair about not having a woman in your life. For me it's like not having a chronic disease.

[@michaelsix9684]

well said

[@JakkuHunter]

I don't know why it is that Women resort to insulting Men but i know it really doesn't work on us now. They end up looking worse themselves.

[@kaizerk4321]

Has anyone told them the definition of....insanity?

[@Parlimant_Strifey]

Makes em look lazy and stupid. You have to motivate people by giving them real reasons to care. Modern women like to give you none.

[@jeromethiel4323]

You don't know many women then. Women are ALWAYS that way. Especially about other women, and behind their backs as well. Insults are universally deployed by women, for any and all reasons.

[@Sydebern]

It's really simple actually. They are miserable, so they want you to be miserable too.

[@Ziegfried82]

I have zero respect for women's opinions whatsoever. I think the only insult I would respond to is that I was acting like a woman!

[@loganblackwood2922]

They want 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III and the 12" personality of Tyrone Tyreesius Dickerdown Jones and the millions of dollars of Lord Nigel Pennyworth Bankbalance all rolled in to their own perfect Disney Prince.

[@lesbianmustardbottle957]

And he has to smell good and never shed a hair from the top of his head.

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@@lesbianmustardbottle957 Nor shed a tear even if his own mother dies.

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@/// Mᴏᴅ Bᴏᴘ Bᴇᴀᴛ Just don't marry Miss Betty Ballbuster. Unless you're in to that.

[@simplelifeinfo3913]

this sounds like an incel comment

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@@simplelifeinfo3913 What exactly is an "incel comment?" What's the metric for it? Because usually responses like that are usually a shaming language comment. So?

[@17millionfuckoffs]

If you want true unconditional love get a dog.

[@nativeking698]

Not my dog. His name is Traitor for a reason.

[@robertd9850]

If you want conditional love, get a cat. Or a woman. Kind of the same thing.

[@Gavs_rc_hobbies]

Yep, got a dog. Always happy to see me when I come home, and follows me around like a shadow around the house.

[@OldSaltyBear]

I have two Kangals. I like them way more than I like most people. haha

[@mickethegoblin7167]

​@@nativeking698 😂

[@CesTorLop]

17:19 - "The way Men get revenge today is by living a good life. By being as happy as you possibly can." GOLD!

[@jamie49868]

I walked away about 20yrs ago after a terrible marriage/divorce. This was long before I heard about any movement or general support from the world. I immediately KNEW I was winning, and have done nothing but kept on winning.

[@theA-Game-777]

Praise God we are winning. My friend used to say that the pendulum would swing upwards to its highest peak and then it would begin to fall and annhilate the demons of toxic feminity. I didn't know what he was talking about then (since I had not been separated yet), but now, I get to see it with my own dear innocent eyes. Love it!

[@squint405]

Amen, let's do this righteously and meekly so as to be more worthy of our rewards!

[@bobthebuilderhecanbuildit]

@@squint405 True. The pendelum always swings back unless one side is noble and righteous when the pendulum is in their direction

[@jangolub8240]

Separated?

[@joshelkins6189]

Unfortunately we are all losing (men and women) if you read the word of God! We were designed for relationships, one flesh and true loyalty. It’s truly sad what has happened to society, men have given up their leadership roles. I agree with what is being said however I don’t feel we are winning, rather we are crumbling fast. If more men got off Onlyfans and into the word of God, women would have no choice but to raise back up. Sadly, I doubt it will happen!

[@ApollosLight]

It will take much more time and social decay for the tides to be turned. Billions are invested in wokeness and similar agendas and have not pid off yet; other collateral goals are not achieved yet; social and economical collapse are still not in front of society's gates. Things must come to an almost unebarable point before the pendulul will strt to xhange course. Until then we must stay safe, sane, self reliant and away of relational mindfields.

[@towardsthelight220]

This is the speech men need to hear, especially young men and boys who never had a dad.

[@M0viLover]

I'll have other posts to this video. But, regarding your comment: that is why Aaron Clarey now has a course, "The Dad You Never Had."

[@WingItWithEthan]

As I watch this, I just woke up in a parking lot, living in my van/working. Just paid off all my debt today!!! And already saving for land. You can do it guys! It won’t be comfortable and you will be humbled quit a bit, but I think life only begins once you step outside your comfort zone.

[@kellyknowles1638]

It can be done, I did it and not one person helped me. Good luck brother.

[@m4rvinmartian]

Great job man! If you need some help figuring out additional income, hmu. There's lots of small things you can do to get that land quicker.

[@bfth121]

I just paid off my apartment, keep grinding! You'll get there bud!

[@eloyrodarte1083]

I'm happily divorced. A friend recently asked me if I was afraid to die alone. I said "you mean in peace, no, I'm good with that". He was shocked and said, "I never looked at it that way". Life is all about choices. You can choose to be sad and lonely because you don't have a girlfriend or wife, or you can choose to be happy and free to do as you please. You can simply make a choice in attitude, inturpitation and optimism. For every loss, there is a void. Every void creates an opportunity. Don't be so distracted by the loss that you over look the opportunity. I nolonger have to yield to an unhappy wife. Now that I don't have to be home, I found a job that requiers me to travel. I love to travel. I work more and as a result, make more money. Wow! I like money. I'm happy, I'm having fun, and I'm making more money than I ever have before. And I don't have to answer to or share with an unhappy wife. I do not tolerate unhappy women.

[@combativeThinker]

What a cope.

[@sparshrastogi2646]

Joker, this video is up there with your best work. The freedom to do whatever I want as a single man is truly a blessing sometimes. This year I am getting my motorcycle license in summer and taking a trip to Japan and Korea in October, like I've always wanted to. Hitting the gym regularly as well and getting in the best shape of my life. I suffered a terrible breakup last year when my fiancé broke up with me on the morning of our wedding day - I have since used that trauma to improve myself and get in better shape physically, mentally, financially. I wanted to thank you for all you do brother, your videos keep me going on the toughest days sometimes.

[@stevo6891]

I’m sorry man that is just downright wrong.. Hope you are ok bro!!

[@sparshrastogi2646]

@@stevo6891 thanks bro, I am doing better. Better single than in a miserable relationship

[@stevo6891]

@@sparshrastogi2646 I agree, I got a motorcycle as well.. Call me mean or whatever I’m sorry but I ignore women.. Don’t care how good looking they are.. When I was with my Ex for 4 years we weren’t married but I was miserable.. It was her way or the highway.. Man I was a fool.. She didn’t like me riding motorcycles told her i don’t like half of your hobbies but I do them anyway no complaints.. I just focus on me and my goals I’m the prize..

[@joygasm1]

Not alone mine married ap over me hurts but that’s women Japan does seem cool tho I also have my eye on it

[@stevo6891]

@@joygasm1 definitely, I’d like to see Japan 🇯🇵

[@abecochran4251]

Living well isn't the revenge. You're supposed to do that anyway. The revenge is the revenge.

[@capo4270]

I believe the term is appropriate because when some women (not all) leave a man, they think he'll never be able to pull another woman or level up his life. It's revenge because some women don't want you to do better after them. I personally witnessed this when my younger brother left an ex & leveled up significantly

[@korzbro35]

@@capo4270 Yeah, I agree. It's a bit metaphorical revenge. Dudes getting better in the end, after a rough time, aren't getting better just to impress their evil ex-es. They are most probably finding some (new) meaning in life and going with it. Which, I suppose, might get that ex angry as a side effect. "Whaaaat, he is doing much better now, has more money and another woman with him?! And, much worse, he is looking as he is HAPPY?!?!"

[@veetour]

I don't understand why these simps still throw money away to these garden tools.

[@_Azur]

It's a mystery, or they have too much money I guess 😅

[@mickethegoblin7167]

Well, they are simps

[@combativeThinker]

A fool and his money are easily parted.

[@jasonweishaupt1828]

No fucking way I would drive 24 hours for some 304.

[@Timmy9384]

This needs to be the video of the year, I agree 100% The concept of a relationship is an illusion, nothing more. I've been on my own for 3 years now, and I'll never look back. Solo is where it's at. I'll keep my freedom.

[@TheMadManPlace]

At 65 I was forced to get away from a VERY toxic situation. Moved to the other end of my country, slept in my car parked in a McDonalds parking lot for almost a year. 5 years later I am living in a cottage (where I have life rights and a small pension) and have started to build up my new man-cave (hobby workshop which is bringing in extra income) and replacing all my equipment that was thrown into a skip and dumped by my step-son who was the "toxic situation" I mentioned. The narcissist dumped ALL my stuff (lathe, milling machine, spark eroder, 75 ton injection molder, drill presses, welders AND EVERY HAND TOOL I EVER OWNED) because "You are OLD so you don't need all that scrap". So to men younger than me I need to say "You can ALWAYS rebuild but you WILL NOT SURVIVE A TOXIC SITUATION INDEFINITELY..."

[@majcorbin]

*RUSH Limbaugh,said it BEST on [6 april 2002,hour #3] ^Our society is Swimming,in a Sea of information, Yet DROWNING in IGNORANCE

[@freudianslip2192]

Man, this is the realist speech I've heard all year. Congrats to Joker for all he's accomplished over the years.

[@MOTV583]

6:30 This was the realest speech I've heard in awhile. Every man hat's still searching for peace in this modern world needs to hear this speech.

[@walmartgolem]

The impotrant footnote is to not return to the west.

[@M0viLover]

I'll have other posts to this video. But, yeah: this is the rationale behind Aaron Clarey's book, "The Menu."

[@robr.5044]

Great message! I like how you said that we’ve forgotten how to be men. I think that that is very true.

[@youngandballin92]

This is the best video you’ve put out that I’ve seen. Great message man!

[@bobdobalina8910]

I 100% AGREE, the Traditional Relationship, Unconditional Love, Stay by your side thick and thin. IT IS GONE. I am living that right now. I do not have a wife. I have a Room mate. If I wanted a roommate, I would have stayed single. So WHY don't I leave? I have two young kids, two dogs, and a house, that if we split, I would never get into the housing market again. I have adjusted. I count the days where I can afford to leave on my terms. Marriage is for suckers and I signed on the line. My kids LOVE me. My Dogs love me.

[@happybike3823]

Kids and dogs are all a man needs. Damn shame we have to go thru women to have kids tho. Hang tuff bro. Think of that most glorious day when you can make your move to stay motivated.

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

Unconditional love... that never existed... what existed was a set of societal rules that kept women in check.

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

@@happybike3823 Thats why im not having then anymore. The fact thats a tied with a women forever, plus you will become a slave of the system if you care for your children. And third i dont think i can deal with a women that try to use my children has a weapon agains men...she would meet a violent end, at some crazy accident. So better avoid.

[@capo4270]

​@@ArantyrDarkhand Correct, I don't understand the label "unconditional love" being attributed to women. Sure, there are outliers who have given up the ghost for their kids & even their husbands maybe. However history has shown men who have also given up the ghost time & time again for their fellow man (soldiers, strangers even) because it's what men do when the time comes. Men are, & have always been the true romantics. Why do you always hear women saying "I want a man to romance/woo me" Women just starfish men as a romantic gesture

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

@@capo4270 Exactly... women have "love" for babys becouse of the hormonal bomb that happens in the birth... when this fail its when we see post partum depression. Theres a line i aways say... more men died saving pets in the last 200 years, that women put thenselves in danger to save their kids in the story of mankind.

[@Greenyt1234]

"Ginger found a woman to marry him" ....yeah lets see how much she actually loves him and isn't just using him for a paycheck. Hardly sounds like a win to me.

[@Agent1W]

And being a salesman is no cakewalk either.

[@JCG0001]

Yes if a ginger gnome can find a mate then there's hope for anyone.

[@Siegeclan34]

Joker himself said that ginger male was fat, notice how all these married dudes are fat

[@DrJav1977]

Joker, this is one of the best videos you have made. I really needed to hear this today.

[@Smakbab9069]

Profound video. Been with my wife for 20 yrs, and very happy. Sometimes I feel fear when thinking of possibility of losing her to disease or whatever else, because she is my 'unicorn's eyelash'... Hard to imagine life without her. You've just laid out the blueprint to happiness without a rare unicorn. Having balls, and having friends, of which you are actively providing with the movie nights. You are a damn fantastic person in these challenging, ever changing times.

[@prorebuilder]

Thanks for sharing, I believe a lot of young men need to hear this message. I too had my red pill moment when she left me. I rebuilt my life, it was't easy. I built up my investments. I now have a dog, house, a small circle of very close friends, 22 car collection and a life time of hobbies. Not interested in dating, the ROI is dismal, a wise man once said, "Women are insufferable and miserable". See you all tomorrow for movie night.

[@nickjohnson410]

Women Love Wallets and nothing more, do not ever forget that.

[@yettiluch1]

Imagine all the little girls that look up to her. The message they walk away with is, just show your azz, you'll make more money.

[@briannyob7799]

Because plenty of men pay to see it. We have no one to blame but ourselves. I don't subscribe.

[@brucekeys4910]

The path of least resistance= no development of character

[@al-imranadore1182]

Devolving from monkey brain to lizard brain.

[@yettiluch1]

@@briannyob7799 im not so sure about that. Does a prostitute not still stand on her corner even when there have been no customers? I remember yahoo chat when a lot of girls were doing the same thing on webcam for free.

[@briannyob7799]

@yettiluch1 ultimately, the prostitute gets customers. Otherwise, she would quit. In this case, the woman is in the top 1% of earners on Only Simps so someone is paying

[@jeffspicoli7619]

I've known for nearly 18 years now but very pleased more and more dudes are waking up.

[@rick-ry3kj]

I live in Costa Rica, and believe me, men are starting to wake up as well, because the courts are biased against us. Not too long ago, there was an article of a recently divorced man, who was getting raked by the courts down here. Once he appealed the decision by a "woke" judge, who went along with whatever his vindictive ex was charging him with child support, he was able to start over. I am 46, have a good paying job, I hang out my cousins every once in a while, having drinks at my uncle's bar, and whenever I want to get it out of my system, I just get two women half my age at a "massage parlor" for a little over 100 bucks, life is good.

[@Chrisisinatrance]

I've been heavily considering moving to costa rica. Any advice?

[@rick-ry3kj]

@@Chrisisinatrance you will like it, but it is expensive, you may want to consider moving to a nice area secure area, preferably gated, if you can afford it.

[@johnnydough5464]

I was married for 15 years, and my wife walked out on me to be with another man. Did I wallow in self pity? No!, I just went about my normal day to day life, and I am a lot better off being single, than I was being married. We had a daughter, and my only regret was that I wasn't able to spend more time with my daughter, since she ended up living with her mother. I got back at my ex-wife, by being the best father that I could be to my daughter. As my daughter was growing up (she was 9 years old when my wife left me), I bought my daughter a lot of things, like computers, books that she wanted, clothes, etc., then, when she was 12 years old, I bought her the car that she wanted. I also tried to spend as much time as I could with her, because I love her so much and wanted to be with her. When I flew to California to see my brother, I took my daughter with me. I told her that she could have Christmas parties at my house, and when she wanted to do that, I bought a lot of snacks for her friends to eat. When she turned 16, I took her to get her driver's license, and when she passed the test, I titled the car to her, as well as gave her a cell phone and a credit card, in the event she broke down and needed assistance. When my daughter went off to college, I bought her a new VW Cambrio (a VW convertible), that my daughter wanted. I later discovered that this was the exact car that my ex-wife wanted, but couldn't afford since her new husband didn't make as much money as I did. A year later, my daughter saw a new Cambrio, that was the upscale model of the Cambrio that she had, and she liked it, so we traded in her Cambrio on a new, upscale model Cambrio. My daughter said that her mother (my ex-wife) would be jealous of our daughter because my ex-wife couldn't afford a car like that. I told my daughter to tell her mother that, had she stayed married to me, I would have bought her a car like that. My daughter and I have a great relationship, where as my daughter and her mother....not so much. My daughter knows that I will be here for her for whatever she might need, and that her mother will not. As for wallowing in self pity, well, that's not me. I just look at things in a very logical way, and decide what is the next course of action, then I take that action. I am old now (70 years old), and I am content with my life. I have a nice house, nice cars, a beautiful daughter, and a decent pension, so life is good for me....for as much life as I have left.

[@cutflow2]

40yr nyc man here chatted up a few 18-23yr from Philippines and they all cook n clean daily. Sheesh

[@cavetroll666]

im a single 32 year old guy just taking care of myself at this point gave up trying to meet a girlfriend every girl ive ever met has just used me lol

[@jacobprayer8656]

You're doing it the right way!

[@Chickensea10]

Good luck with your channel

[@stevo6891]

All I got was games, lies and ghosted.. I ignore them!!

[@johnc.8298]

JOker, I get a smile every time I hear your intro, "face for radio and a voice for print". You have a welcoming introduction.

[@Beef1188]

7 years ago, I went to work abroad. Everyone that cared was scared shitless for me. They kept saying "don't go, you'll get screwed over, you won't anywhere to sleep" etc. Today I'm back from abroad, I've got a house and almost zero debt. Where I was working, "professional bedroom action" was legal, and it cost 100 bucks, in most cases cheaper than a first date!

[@andrewdavis6917]

Dude... you're a fantastic person. Live large my man

[@Sylentmana]

I don’t disagree with her calling those men freaks and losers. That’s what they are. She meant it as an insult but it was a statement of fact.

[@AvaiLeon]

Yep, they all deserve each other. It honestly blows my mind that anyone would pay for it in the first place. There's an endless supply that's already out there for free, more than you could ever consume in a lifetime, and you're out here spending actual real money to just... *_see_* one woman in particular. I don't get it.

[@Fuckyoutubecensorship1]

​@AvaiLeon I agree.

[@nicklostable]

Agreed 👍

[@phoenix33a65]

​@@AvaiLeon They're in looove! 😍😂

[@dhall936]

I think some of those guys have false hope that they can actually get with those O.F women and dont see they are being used.

[@theA-Game-777]

Dude, you are not that out of shape. Really appreciate your wisdom. My homies are in the gym. My 'bald' friend is the alpha male. He talks to everyone - including women and men - and its his confidence and his ability to talk to people and he says to me that women are coming at him and it is so easy. But he's married and he says he won't. Women love confident men and they lap it up when it is coming from a man. God bless.

[@suparosc02]

yes, this is what I'm trying to share since I were in highschool! They called me fool, they called me crazy... I knew I was the only winner among those idiots!

[@Dallen9]

A Man's Happiness is his ability to do good work and be acknowledged for it. A lot of Men are unhappy cause they either can't do Good work or aren't acknowledged for the good work that they do in a meaningful way. Women used to be all the Acknowledgement a guy needed and when they quit delivering it, Men quit caring about them.

[@jayare2583]

Exactly. Me and my crew painted every door frame in our building while staff was gone for over a week, on top of other things. Once everyone came back not one person complimented and said it looks good. All we ask for is a little compliment here and there, not praise. I brought this up to someone and they replied with "well that's your job" missing the point.

[@oliversmith2129]

​@@jayare2583 Thank you for doing a good job.

[@Lostmarbles42]

I been alone majority of my life I'm happy being alone I'm definitely not a winner with women but I don't care I'm not losing out on anything

[@thevashfan12392]

It's not that we don't want to do things It's the lack of motivation to do those things. I remember when I went truck driving. That was the time of my life. It was harder than anything. You learn to be comfortable with the situation you're dealt. My greatest moment: buying a jug of chocolate milk after being burnt out and not eating for 4 days. In the words of henry chinaski "Failure is Freedom"

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

Thats the thing... majority of the species its not human, they are just animals, hairless chimps, majority of men motivation its just work to get sh it to impress a pus sy bearer, to fu ck and multiplie. Most men dont look at the future at old age until its to late, they just waste s h it with parasites, the famous buy things you dont need to impress ppl that dont matter. Takes a lot of time to understand the pleasure thats found into simple things.

[@uncommonsensor]

I wonder what day the country died

[@ma3stro681]

Every man should read Bukowski ...

[@richardraymond7775]

@@uncommonsensor I would say three days, although many different events along the way; Dec. 23, 1913 (federal reserve act passes through 63rd Congress) Nov. 22, 1963, JFK was assassinated, and Sept. 11, 2001. The absolutely phony war on terrorism starts and our freedoms and rights seriously erode. Good question though.

[@michaelwebber4033]

this is probably my biggest issue. What does being happy even feel like. I don't think I've ever been happy in my entire life

[@robertd9850]

Maybe an SSRI will help. It wasn't until my doctor found the right one of those for me that I thought "Aha. This is what normal must feel like." Has worked for me for 20+ years. I'm pretty happy right now. That wasn't the case for years. I hope you find a solution. BTW, my cat helps a lot. He's not only my buddy and friend, he is also leash trained and I've made lots of new friends walking him in the neighborhood. If you do this, spend all the effort on the cat and what she needs. The rest will follow.

[@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM]

Please for the love of God do not go on SSRI's. Do not mess with your brain chemistry using drugs. I've seen far too many people get totally messed up, it seems to especially make women crazy, which many many of them are on these days and the reason we are having such trouble with them. That stuff is the devil. People on that stuff are high all the time from it and think things are great, but to onlookers they often seem unbalanced and nuts. I can tell instantly when someone is on an SSRI, and those people drive me crazy, I can't stand to be around them. There is also serious risk that it will totally break your brain forever with major psychological side effects. Please don't do it. And lol don't become a cat person. Maybe that is the connection between SSRI and cat ladies lol. Go get some exercise, take the right vitamins, eat better, find contentment, find more hobbies, you don't need to be on a happy high all the time. Just be content with life and who you are and the best you can be without breaking your brain with drugs.

[@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM]

You should hear the divorce stories from men who had wives that went on SSRI's. It was like they were living with aliens they didn't know anymore, and they were crazy manic, and cold and seemed even evil, because that stuff alters the brain so much.

[@steveredstone1711]

Happiness is an illusion. It's all about dopamine chasing mostly. Real happiness comes from success.

[@sheldon8821]

That was an exceptional vid today. I enjoyed listening. Thank you

[@jarodbarnum2864]

"The wall! the wall! Nothing on Earth can make it fall!" Manosphere

[@Daniel-kc2bt]

😂

[@meshugganator08]

Why do we even have a golden rule if they don’t care to follow it

[@simplelifeinfo3913]

what's the golden rule

[@meshugganator08]

@@simplelifeinfo3913 “try to treat others as you would want to be treated”

[@oceanhedonist265]

Great comment!

[@dwood78part23]

Looking into her background, there's nothing to assume that she's in a relationship. As the late KS would say, "she's on the way to no-man's land!"

[@NervousNoodles]

RIP Kevin Samuels, the godfather.

[@drunklink350]

I prefer boxed wine and cat land. Same place tho

[@al-imranadore1182]

She does boxing so she's probably a lesbian.

[@joebeta1837]

Joker, this is one of the BEST speeches I have ever heard in my 48 year old life. Guys, you are men, just like the first man in this world. Struggles, as much as they suck at the moment, are good for you. You will grow to become a strong one in time.

[@Aeneas137]

it took me 5 years to adjust after the divorce and I almost didn't survive the depression My advice to men going through this depression: focus on work, start new hobbies, and try new things, especially new social things. I went into auto racing, HPDE. I spend every waking moment doing something with my hands so that I don't have time to sit around and think, and most importantly, time to get depressed about losses in life. as a result of this increased focus, I have vastly increased my income, and I have several hobby race cars that I work on. I spend every item moment either in the garage or shopping for parts or talking with other mechanics online about upgrades. this is absolutely crucial for a man: you must get out of your head and use your physical body in a productive activity. If you have an IT sort of job in a desk, then it's you absolutely must have hobbies that put your hands and arms to use making things or fixing things. If you don't know what to do, just try a bunch of different things. KZbin is filled with tutorials on wrenching on cars. I don't have time to get depressed anymore. I rarely think about failed relationships anymore. I don't miss the trauma of dealing with a difficult woman everyday.

[@mr.goldenproductions_0143]

So you're just evading your problems instead of solving them? Not the best advice in the long run. It's important to reflect where one may have gone wrong in the past to avoid doing the same mistakes in the future.

[@plungecomics]

I've never been more happy than being able to decide and rely on myself for my happiness. It took a few years after the divorce to realize that I can only make myself happy and not someone else. I had to take advice and really think what made me happy and it wasn't anyone else but doing what I loved was what made me happy and not having someone there to keep knocking down my decisions in chasing my goals. This was 13yrs ago. It took 5yrs to realize that being single was better than being in a relationship.

[@michaelsix9684]

some folks never learn this until it's too late

[@Sydebern]

That's great and so true brother. Women can be hypnotizing to a man, making you believe that you need her in order to be happy. That's where the mental slavery starts. But realizing that only you can make you happy, is where freedom starts.

[@jamessims4802]

YES SIR!!!!! I'm at that place now. There are times I don't feel so lucky but for the most part, I'm with you brother! I appreciate this commentary to the fullest. You are the only guy that hit this at this angle. Once again, I've been watching a lot of channels but this particular video hit home. Thank you man!!!! You made my day!!!!!!!!

[@benprins8240]

Yes men are simple, I absolutely loved this. Mindset is key, adjust accordingly. We are WINNING. Period. Thanks Joker 😊

[@puglife5966]

Young guys don't get discouraged I was former special operations went into contracting made money by the boat load got injured badly when the money dried up wife left. I wallowed in self pity spent 3 years in a bottle homeless. 5 years later I'm sober and run 2 businesses you can do it you are men the road will be rough we are men after all but steel is forged in heat we had an old saying sweat in training so you won't bleed in combat don't ever give up on yourself and quit the game.

[@EdHealey88]

Thank you Joker! You’re channel has really helped me realize that I need to be the priority in my own life.

[@logantawhiti55]

I discovered the less you have, the more you'll appreciate the things that truly matter. Happiness.

[@MDobri-sy1ce]

I have a twin brother that would die for me and male friends, I have had over 20 plus years. I am not devoid of love it is just a different kind.

[@rvharikrishna]

Cooking classes? Just talk to your mom, grandmas, and aunts. You’ll get all the classes you need from them and for free !!

[@TheBobby1979]

You know what joker, you’re so right. I myself don’t like the environment in Illinois. I’m thinking of getting sailing off some of my stuff and keep most of my stuff, move and relocate to Washington st. If I have to live in my car and work a job. Thanks for the words of knowledge and encouragement!!

[@mikekloepfer7424]

Awesome. I totally agree. I'm living my own life and even when the going is tough I feel like I'm winning, and I am happier than ever. Thanks for giving the pep talk and positive attitude to men out there. It is very much needed.

[@brendangolledge8312]

The hardest part about my 20s was unemployment. I got an engineering degree with honors, but couldn't even get a job as a garbage man in the USA after I graduated. I lived overseas for a couple years teaching English, and then worked in warehouses in the USA for a couple years (and messed up my joints from overwork) before I got my first engineering job at the age of 30. I'm still paid less doing engineering work than I was paid loading boxes at Walmart. There are several instances where I would have been homeless if my parents hadn't let me move back in with them. How is a young man supposed to deal with this situation? Having no savings at all for the first 10 years of my adult life, despite having done everything I was told I should have done, really took a lot of options away from me. I think in some ways, life is harder than before. I thought repeatedly about subsistence farming, but my parents wouldn't let me use their land. And how can I go get some land which is owned by somebody else? At least during caveman times, there weren't people laying claim to literally every single square inch of land, so that you can't work for yourself, and also refusing to hire you.

[@robertd9850]

Come on. If you graduated with honors from a decent engineering school they'd be beating down your door unless there was something clearly wrong with you.

[@brendangolledge8312]

@@robertd9850 You are one of many people who are sure they know something, but are wrong. There is a massive surplus of engineers and it's basically impossible to get your first entry level job unless you know someone. I saw an interesting infographic once that showed that roughly 90% of new engineering jobs are filled by only 1/3 of engineering graduates. About 1/3 go into other lucrative fields (such as finance or management), and the remaining 3rd get stuck in undesirable jobs like retail and manual labor. I was stuck in the 3rd group. I was a fool and focused on my studies instead of networking. I probably would have been better off getting a trade actually. It's even worse in some other countries. You can see lots of articles about how 80% of Indian engineering graduates are unemployed. There is supply and demand in everything, and if you oversupply anything (including engineers), the price will drop.

[@juliantheapostate8295]

​@@brendangolledge8312 what about the merchant navy? I know an engineering graduate who was in your situation and is now printing money as he travels the world

[@brendangolledge8312]

@@juliantheapostate8295 If I had thought of it, I might have applied to jobs in this occupation when I was younger, but I'm married now and currently have an engineering job, so I'm not interested in traveling the world anymore.

[@robertd9850]

@@brendangolledge8312 You must be a "software engineer" not electrical, civil or mechanical.

[@kevinmccallister1343]

Actually, we’re all losing (men and women). I’m just going my own way because it’s the only sane option modern women are leaving me with. If they weren’t so messed up and brainwashed activists fighting for some absurd cause they were told to fight for, then I’d be interested in them. But I’m not playing a game and not interested in playing one with women. I would like to see normalcy return to this country but I guess that’s asking too much given just how warped this society has become all the brainwashing and activism going on. We really just need an asteroid to hit and end it all.

[@camsteremail]

Bingo

[@adrianmacias3228]

That's your opinion men are winning you just want the old life but let me tell you something the future is now old man

[@erroneous6947]

Your right.

[@erroneous6947]

@@adrianmacias3228 no need to be an arrogant fool.

[@simplelifeinfo3913]

hey man revoke that last statement about the asteroid. Shouldn't be wishing death on people

[@stephenbruce4298]

Joker, my man, this is one of the most interesting and motivating videos you’ve ever done! It wasn’t so much a kick in the ass for me as much as it was a reminder of how I’ve lived in the past and how it has worked for me. I’m in my early forties now and I’d fallen on harder times over the last decade, and I mistakenly allowed this to make me lose sight of my willpower and my faith in it. While I’m still dealing with some issues I’ve learned contentment, patience, and gratitude for what I currently have and for how far I’ve come despite my setbacks. Thanks for reinforcing my mindset and why I continue to strive for what I want out of life! Keep doing what you do! 👊🏾😎

[@MiguelHernandez-rb8mm]

exactly...bring down the "pathriachy"...I can fix my own toilet anyway...

[@THE-michaelmyers]

I can't disagree with anything said. I would point out something said though that I disagree with a bit. That phrase "the best revenge is living a good life" means she is still living rent-free in your head. I admit it can be difficult to not think about a girl after a bad breakup. I am 65, I was cheated on over 40 years ago. It threw me for a loop that lasted for years. In my case, all I had to do was call her and I am sure she would have come back. I knew better! When she cheated I was at the lowest part of my entire life. I was basically broke. I was eating if I was lucky 2 meals a day. One of those meals was a can of sausage and some crackers with water. I lost almost 40 pounds. By the time I snapped out of it, I weighed 140 pounds. Folks I am 6 foot 2. My life today was built one day at a time. I did what I did to survive. I also did it 100% for me! About 10 years later I had myself "snipped" I knew then I was never going to be a dad and decided I would NEVER allow a female to baby trap me (even though 2 did try). Revenge is for losers, just make your life better for YOU! One last item! I give you Vanna White as an example! Yes, that same Vanna White that turns letters on that game show! Would you pay to see her? Well, she was in a Playboy spread! I believe it was May 1987!

[@zoompt-lm5xw]

Great video Your channel is saving lives Thank you

[@kimkimpa5150]

Who in the actuaI F pays for stuff on OF anyway? I mean how absoIutely desperate must you be to do that?

[@simplelifeinfo3913]

older lonely men

[@vinize]

Listening to your story Bachelor, i can relate bc i was also married for 6 months only before it ended bc her hipergamy hit and she got a job as a spa manager and did not feel the passion about me anymore. At least you did fly from Brazil to Bulgaria to try and make things work like i did😂

[@TheSjeize]

Same story here bro i flew from the netherlands to the US and wasted 2 years here trying to make it work with no luck. All good there’s a lot still out there for us :)

[@Mikielike]

I'm 65 my wife took off after 25 years, thanks for bringing hope.

[@dannybailey666]

Do they think that I want a woman just to cook? I cook perfectly fine. The main thing I value is, that they're not a knobhead. They have a distorted view of tradionalism. My understanding is that men and women used to work together. The men would provide the home, the women would keep it.

[@danielsnook5029]

Military experience makes you a professional mover.