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[@clintmatthews3500]

Women think that because men don't have to carry babies that we have it easier than them in every aspect of our lives. They have no clue how much they are coddled. The special treatment is just normal to them. Anything that isn't special treatment seems like oppression.

[@eznosnopes5276]

They assume that men must have the same treatment by default. That’s the baseline to them. They can’t imagine not having it.

[@Argentum4761]

Women carry babies, men carry everything else

[@city_of_coompton6832]

​@@Argentum4761 Men manipulate the environment to survive. Women manipulate men to survive.

[@adriantapia6199]

Exactly

[@knotengajin7359]

Men did everything possible to make that process easier and safer for women: creating anesthesia, modern medicine, proper nutrition, vitamins and supplements, ultrasound, X-rays, etc. Yet women believe that men don’t care about them.

[@toddsmith293]

The simple fact of life for the vast majority of average men in America is this: Almost NO ONE will care about you. Sometimes not even your own family. You're on your own.

[@chuckchan4127]

I won't do this to my son. I'll always love and support him.

[@jbob6545]

yep

[@ak47ava]

That is why you have to be a selfish man in America. Always put yourself first no matter what Because no one will care for you and be their for you.

[@BetaBuxDelux]

My dad has called me like 4 times in 25 years. All because someone or something has died. I’m kind of afraid when he calls. LOL

[@Parasiteve]

people need to be taught this at an early age but sadly they're not and because of it shet like THIS happens. adults are depending on other adults who they dont know, to fugging support them and its like no, i dont know you and i dont wanna know you, therefore i dont wanna support you or your bs! you can only depend on yourself in life.

[@blackhawkjohn1]

A woman’s brain inside a man’s body. Story mode to hardcore, death match. 100%

[@DoporaBHe6o]

Well she got the character to even attempt, I'll give her that. However now comes the realization that being a man is not about appearance. It's about getting over crap and being stoic even when alone against the world. No physical "transition" will teach her that. Only years and years of pure struggle.

[@paulw5039]

Seriously. I've seen some low T girly men in my time, but that was like watching a man lip sync a histrionic girl's TikTok video. This is a woman wearing a man costume.

[@blahblah2779]

Give it 3-6 months. It’ll be 🤯🔫 time.

[@CARPETMAN6666]

He still has no idea what it's like to be a man. All he has to do is say that he's trans and he's looked at differently. Now all the girls come and give him hugs. So he truly doesn't understand he gets a taste but not the whole course

[@bobmahnamahknob]

@blah- you mean cutting body parts off and stapling on new ones doesn't help with mental illness?

[@OmniscientlyMe]

Ladies, men do know what it's like to have people want to hug them, make friends easy and not have people fear them. It's called childhood. For boys, that all ends around puberty.

[@juansalcido2037]

the hardest coldest truth

[@hankschrader5507]

Lol if you’re an autistic boy you don’t even know how to talk to people. This is one of the reasons why a lot of boys on the spectrum are becoming transgender. From a young age you are taught that men are evil, fragile, privileged, toxic, etc. and that you can choose your sex. It’s messed up and part of the blame falls on the dads of these kids. You need to teach your socially inept son how to be a man. Also, boys should play with other boys instead of being online. Being online is what causes kids to be mentally ill and transgender.

[@Nahelus]

im 34 and i can tell you something: Now is when i really feel close to my friends, and this friends i have now are the same ive been with around since a little kid, im lucky, i have nice friends but the point is that it takes 30+ years to be actually comfortable with my group of friends and when i say comfortable i not only mean that we can give emotinal support to each other but also trusting each other in a level where you know you can count on them when shit happens. 30+ years. However, i still prefer my friendship as a men to what i see my females friends have between them, too much gossip, back stabs and shit. Im talking about 30+ yo women that i also know since a kid. Their group is much more fragile, everything feels kind of fake.

[@jebes909090]

Nah its super easy to make friends as a guy in your 20's

[@NaughtiusMaximu5]

unless you join the military, after high school, only had 2 friends, my 5 years in the army, i've made some of the best friends

[@dritzzdarkwood4727]

I can't believe she got a little taste of being treated as a man and despite her hating it, she STILL thinks men deserve this kind of treatment. That's mind-boggling.

[@blatherskite9601]

Indication of mental problems.

[@dragoncum67]

Wahmen ☕️

[@edwardpaddock2528]

It is a perfectly normal reaction, often called 'doubling down'.

[@EphemeralProductions]

That’s how nutso and crazy this world has become. It almost makes me want to camp out as a wild man in Alaska or Siberia the rest of my life and rarely ever talk to another livin soul.

[@EphemeralProductions]

@@dragoncum67 😂😂

[@TMA62]

As a man, I can stand with the entire world opposed to me and I don't care. I will still stand alone.

[@zeno2501]

Amen

[@blabbergasted4380]

That is what's expected. Pappy gave me that lesson.

[@Torgo1969]

Versus The World! (An excellent Amon Amarth album.)

[@Paul-cu9lu]

I choose to live, purely out of spite.

[@willymakeit5172]

Fuckin’ A Bubba.

[@bushfingers]

Welcome to being blamed for everything, to being unable to do anything right, to being to cause of all the world’s problems, and then having to still show up and do your duty. Without crying

[@hungrymusicwolf]

I have known some women that can do all that, except the last part. The tears.... the tears, they never stop.

[@freddieoblivion6122]

Duty?? You're a better man than I am... I'm in mom's basement, belly full, nice and warm. FOCK the psychosphere we live in now.

[@jabrockobiden9434]

No, men are the light of God and are supposed to lead this world.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Is it common for people are rated between 1/7-10 to focus on gender issues, you ever notice really attractive people don't complain about any of these social issues? Or talk about what gender has what harder? lol Its only certain people, certain non-sexually attractive people for mating.

[@mukondelelic.mulaudzi8357]

You summarized it well

[@elmodelo101]

She didn't want to be a "man", she wanted to be a "trans man" and be treated like someone special.

[@tovarishchfeixiao]

And that's why every country should make the minimum 2yrs talk with a psychiatrist/psychologist a mandatory thing before getting the pills. At least i heard that in america you can get away with 1 or 4 sessions and get the pills. Which is very stupidly short and not filters out those who not really need it at all. Self-diagnosis never a good thing, especially not with something that need actual medical treatment with pills and stuff.

[@nemui9654]

@@tovarishchfeixiao nah, give them the surgery day one till enough people see it’s a horrible idea to do that to yourself and the problem will fix itself in a much more timely manner.

[@tovarishchfeixiao]

@@nemui9654 You forgetting that the transition is a treatment for something that we humans not have any other way to treat (if we not want to make genocide, which is never a good choice to make genocide). Because people who REALLY need it are only can get better mental health by doing the transition. I hope i did phrase it understandably.

[@nemui9654]

@@tovarishchfeixiao giving someone what they want is considered genocide? Interesting.

[@davidli7829]

@@nemui9654 well i think he has a point, and his argument is much more logically sound than yours. But to be honest, I've been burned by these people hijacking everything from academia to entertainment so many times, since I was in middle school, now on my way to uni. I honestly couldnt care less. Im pissed man, although I dont think its in the best interest of the medical field to just transition everyone one and its an act of poisioning the well, I cant help but sympathise with your argument. Im so fucking done with it man. As Tupac said, I want to see them eat, just not at my table. So sick and tired of their shit, especially living in woke virtue signaling canada.

[@mykeable]

"Nobody told me how lonely being a man is." Yeah, because we're all told to shut the hell up

[@chinashorts1491]

Yeah, talking about it only makes it so much worse. So we learn that you don't complain about anything.

[@FumblsTheSniper]

Shut the hell up, brother.

[@XxTaiMTxX]

@@BobDevV I find most of the reasoning to transition to be exceptionally bigoted. They don't "feel like the opposite gender", they feel like "the stereotype of the opposite gender". Then, when they transition, they continue to act and think like their original gender. They've effectively changed nothing. I think many realize that later and that's why they continue to delete after reassignment.

[@dodisatrio3017]

And don't forget those cliche word of "be a man/ man up"

[@alisaalisa6136]

You're the ones doing it to each other, you don't get to complain and act like victims

[@alii2730]

Imagine living as a man without the emotional ability to deal with being a man. That's a double whammy.

[@michaelweldon4699]

Not just that, but a fairly small and weak looking man. Unless she was crazy ugly before they took a pretty giant step down the food chain.

[@richardclausen154]

I watched that video thinking the same thing. And imagine not having the years of conditioning that actually prepares you for manhood.

[@robertruiz3131]

"Self-ending" post transfer is high statistically for a reason. Sad

[@kristoferprovencal3608]

That’s a good point, I think the tr nys have discovered the un-lockable hardest difficulty 😂

[@megajatt123]

@@robertruiz3131 i have a feeling it's all the f2m bodymodders who are taking toasterbaths

[@arisurec]

The fact that they're STILL defend the ideology even though it's making them suffer greatly makes me feel no sympathy for this person.

[@edwardpaddock2528]

sunk cost fallacy

[@angelphoenix7784]

Agreed. If going through this and haven't learned a darn thing about being a man. And still thinking it's still all valid, then don't go online crying about the treatment you get. Suck it up and do what we men do, cry to ourselves and move on.

[@operation1968]

Lack of self awareness

[@Spartan135]

these things are paying the consequences of their own actions. LET THEM SUFFER AND DROWN IN THEIR PAIN!

[@Freedomlives33]

None whatsoever 👍🏾

[@PCFDPGrey]

The proper response as a man to this "guy". "No one cares. Suck it up and take a lap."

[@samr8603]

Yep with "What do you want sympathy? You find it in the dictionary between sh*t and syphillis".

[@darksoulsfanboy1917]

you are part of the problem. out here complaining how hard men have it while actively denying an emotional outlet, this is only one of the reasons why men have such high suicide rates

[@johnwilson1094]

It is believed that in this situation the Russian Marines will say, "Toughski Shitski."

[@kirklanyoshinaga8953]

That was my reaction. I’m like “are you serious? If you’re lonely, DO something about it! Quit your bitching.” I’m tempted to download TikTok just to see how much shit this guy got. Lol

[@GoatOfWar]

''Be a man''

[@jorgealexisromero1645]

We dont cry in front of a camera. When we cry we do it alone and we move on because we know that the world keeps moving and life doesnt get easy. He is not a man, she is still a woman with diferent skin.

[@theelder4797]

If you don't cry to Bud Light commercials, you aren't a REAL MAN! Like her! I mean him! Bigot!

[@kayakcobber524]

First thing came to my mind as well.

[@aebalc]

I am a man and I am jealous because I have never been able to grow a decent beard or mustache.

[@NervousNoodles]

Facts. At the end of the day, the responsibility of picking up our lives and move on falls on our shoulders. We don't just get to "wish" it away or shift it on some nonsense like the patriarchy. We recognize this and understand it.

[@FamilyIsGone]

DLC pack unlocked for women

[@clarkvaughan]

This would be a good movie. A female brain stuck in a masculine body. "Why do women ignore me?" "Why won't anyone help me before I ask them?" "Zero matches on my dating profile. Something's wrong." "When I cry, nobody cares?" "When I lie, no one believes me!"

[@salguodrolyat2594]

The last one is 'the once in a blue moon when I tell the truth, nobody believes me'

[@healthyquadrant6587]

It would be a great movie!

[@steved5960]

would be a great movie indeed.....but would get cancelled unfortunately

[@joshua50101]

The last remark made me cry out of laugther: "when I lie no one believes me!" Women get away with so much crap bro

[@mrkiky]

@@steved5960 If the movie were made in today's Hollywood, the woman in a man's body would be having a blast with everything handed to her/him and everyone taking her/him super seriously all the time. And of course she/he would be a totally average dude played by Chris Evans with an executive job in a big company making at least the US average income of 200k a year.😂

[@NerdlySquared]

It’s funny how jealous they are of the “privilege” of a disposable invisible utility that no one cares about or helps…until they feel it themselves.

[@MrRhetorikill]

They are jealous of the 1% of men who's stars all aligned into some incredible achievement. They don't even notice normal men.

[@blunt2416]

Its hilarious & insane how they rationalize that men have it easy. I think their depiction of men comes from TV & Movies.

[@theflame5919]

No ammount of surgery will transition or impart a spirit. Being a man, is a particular spirit. Just like being a woman, is also a particular spirit. That is unchangeable. Without that spirit, she is just a woman in a surgically changed body. She has no access to the inner zeal, drive or competitive nature of a man, nor any of the motivations to persue, achieve and constantly push into whatever it is. For a man, the goal is not the end of a journey, but the journey itself... and that's fundamentally opposite of a woman. It's a sad story.

[@korbendallas8488]

That solipsism is the tell-tale sign and it can never be erased by pills, surgeries, or pronouns

[@siz4sean]

The closest thing Hollywood shows how men have it is Rocky 1, the 14th round.

[@riepah1707]

That she thinks of herself as an emotionally mature man while making a whiny video on tiktok is really telling.

[@sugonmad2402]

I don't get how you or others can simultaneously watch a video like this (the commentary) and knowing what the problem of repression of emotions with men is and then go on to chastise a man for expressing his emotions. You're digging your own grave.

[@nottomclancy2439]

@@sugonmad2402 Who is chastising? It's not manly. You deal with your shit, get it together and move on. Who makes whiny tiktok videos for attention? Women. We are not women.

[@alanm6o9]

Its not a man it never was

[@AS_210]

​@@sugonmad2402That's not a man

[@grizzlyadams1929]

@@sugonmad2402 Except he's a she so your argument is invalid.

[@jamesjonnes]

Being a man is harder than being a woman, change my mind.

[@asparrow9876]

No, I won't. 🫡

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

Except if the woman is in a situation where she needs to accomplish a difficult task (like moving heavy objects) and there's no man to mooch off of. Then she'll struggle whereas a man can do the task with ease. In situations like these, women typically won't make the effort at all, and just accept that the task won't be done.

[@unknowncommenter6698]

Well a man CAN be HARD, unlike woman.

[@MyMy-tv7fd]

you wanna fight?

[@ironsoul941]

In American culture you're absolutely right. I admit the opposite is likely true in places like Saudi Arabia.

[@chickenmadness1732]

LMAO. She's STILL bitching about men and blaming them for her problems even after supposedly becoming one. You can't make this shit up.

[@leighwallis5782]

😂😂😂

[@Muck006]

Actually ... the correct pronoun is "it" ... because he/she are for people who are - in theory (without medical problems) - capable of REPRODUCTION, but the people who "destroyed their reproductive capability" are neither and thus "it".

[@faulrevere8938]

💯🔥👊🏻😂

[@nickredbear4094]

Gotta get those calculators out because this shit just ain't adding up 😂😂😂

[@MickeyMishra]

Pure Pottery.

[@m.f.jones90]

If a woman plans on transitioning to a man, tell her to get ready to sign up for selective service.

[@cocodojo]

That's if they get that done before they're college age, but yeah, prepare for lots of "you don't have a choice, just buckle up and deal with it" struggles through life.

[@moriscondo5511]

I don't think that would be good for the military, though... kind of a complicated issue.

[@protox4]

That should have came with the right to vote, tbh.

[@AaronOlafson]

@@moriscondo5511 Have you seen the military recruiting tactics lately? They are putting out ads for trannies. Disgusting, but hey it's trendy and happening. Russia and China are laughing at our feminized armed forces.

[@adrone123]

Yea! For real! What a good point because I know the armed forces are having issues meeting annual quotas in multiple branches as of late so they better start signing up trans males for selective services since they military is woke now!

[@thefreakmachine]

"I'm an emotionally mature man" said the woman on medication while recording a TikTok video. ...and there go my last sanity points!

[@sinchrotron]

Buahahahahah. Made my day

[@antikertech157]

Crazy!🤣

[@chrishoff402]

The Trans Activists and any women thinking of transitioning from male to female should have read Self Made Man by Nora Vincent from at least a decade ago. She was the women who impersonated a man for over a year, and then had to check into 3 psychiatric hospitals in succession. She gave the warning "Identity is something you don't play games with". She also said that women were the ones with all the privilege.

[@knightforlorn6731]

then she killed herself coz there was no way to go back. Tragic, because it was so obviously avoidable.

[@rookooful]

I don't normally read non fiction. But I bought and read that book. It is so well written and contains so much good information. I loved the part where she tried dating and instantly ran face first into roadblocks she knew she herself had been putting up while as a woman. The sudden contrast from being the one who does the judging to being judged gave her a reality check in 5 min.

[@XperimentorEES]

Absolutely! And yet the alphabet cult is deadset on indoctrinating the next generation into thinking identity is just playdoh, society's going to implode when they get old enough to take over positions of power.

[@holeymcsockpuppet]

​@@rookooful she was a huge loss. Absolutely brilliant. But her bipolar disorder was never controlled well. With great artistic ability comes the mental illness flipside of the coin. She lost the battle with her mental illness. Just a note, it wasn't the book experiment. Her su¡cide was unrelated.

[@berserkhunter1981]

Male to female? Shouldn't it be in reverse

[@justcoffee3617]

The true test of a man is dealing with a world that doesn’t care about you, only what you offer. She failed the test, facial hair doesn’t make you a man, having friends who go along with you and your reality doesn’t make you a man, getting treated like crap and then crying about it on social media is something a woman does. As an emotionally mature man, I can tell you this is not how men act, especially on social media platforms.

[@nathancoats6432]

I just want to smash ppl all day on social media...I hope that isnt bad. All the women in my life tell me I need to see mental health at the VA. LMFAO

[@thehammer9599]

I’d go one further and say a man sharing emotions on social media is not a man.

[@Asto508]

@@thehammer9599 Joker shares emotions quite a lot here. It's just the tears and crying part that men don't do usually. Stop pretending men don't have emotions, men have a lot and show it way more than they would like to admit. The men that never show emotions, e.g. heavy autists, are those that also struggle with male friendships. If none of you wanted to share your emotions on social media, none of you would be here. It's just a different mode compared to women.

[@HermitGeek]

Yep, crying on the internet should be grounds for instant Man Card removal...

[@adelMN2]

@@Asto508 yeah we do have emotions thanks captain obvious but we don't deal with them like women...

[@krazieecko]

Imagine choosing to take a bunch of drugs to go from a protected privileged group to an unprotected vilified group and losing all your privilege but still blaming the wrong group.

[@InlandDiscoEmpire]

And now having to out yourself that you're trans just so you're treated better lol.

[@mmtot]

That makes her 2x stupid.

[@m.khalid334]

okay but men have some responsibility in this too, you cant blame all of this on women

[@Bad_wolf_41]

@@m.khalid334 enlighten me please with your wisdom mister!

[@frikabg]

Imagine... no need you can see it at plain sight! Women treat men like criminals but somehow people can't point it out and when someone does he is called named and shuned. I have less than 0 sympathy for this transgender person... she was part of the problem and she bought the BS she was fed! Let her enjoy the full extent of the consequences!

[@legislatedanarchy1380]

This woman cannot comprehend the depth of male emotion. It is earned and silently understood. Men and women swim in different pools.

[@Anaklusmos42]

Also works with male friendship. My friends and I are friends, and we don't question it any single day. We can argue about anything, if we are still willing to be friends together, we are still friends at the end of the day. I've heard some of my female friends talk about one another when away. Sometimes it's funny, sometimes it's just a little bit of banter, but sometimes it's worse than that. I still wonder how some of them are still seeing each other.

[@andrewhoneywell5244]

The difference is the women p*ss in our pool ?

[@leonard_Khan]

If you wanna be a man, don't cry like a little girl, life is hard, just accept it

[@ibubezi7685]

"Life is even harder if you're stupid" - John Wayne

[@dabadore.]

Well, you can cry like a little girl, but it has to be on your own time and get over it after so you can move on.

[@onthepath501]

Ha ha perfect

[@smti1985]

Life is only hard for men now. You get everything from society if being a girl.

[@Seldomheardabout]

BS men can cry. Just because you come from a family of low iq men, don't try to convince me that crying makes me less than you. 10$ I could kick your ass while crying. Wouldn't that be fun?

[@thegeneralscall]

The way society treats and raises young and old men, would be considered psychological neglect and abuse if done to a women.

[@markumoeder]

Yea, no wonder they have the most suicidal rate's.

[@andrewgreeb916]

when you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression

[@stephenfitzgerald9769]

Living as a man is harder than living as a woman? Hmm… didn’t see that one coming; no, no…

[@curiouspeople6441]

She believes the woke lies

[@jamesjonnes]

The majority of detransitioners are female (70%) and white (90%), and over 80% have graduated from college or completed some college coursework.

[@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395]

Being a woman is way harder stop lying

[@chuckchan4127]

​@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 Unless you're a woman living in a goat ffuucckking country, woman are playing on easy mode.

[@clintmatthews3500]

@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 How? Childbirth? Needing a stool to reach a shelf sometimes?

[@RampantBasilisk]

Another thing that is sickening is that some men are genuinely kind to others (because that’s how they want to be treated), but instead so many people will think that man is trying to sleep with them or think they are a weirdo.

[@radioactiveassassin5218]

or gay

[@robertmatthews2009]

As a man, I don't want people to hug me. I want my wife to hug me and I want my children to hug me, but not people.

[@tylerboone6584]

Yeah. I hate being touched by strangers or people who mean nothing to me. But my family and friends are everything.

[@etheu9sby292]

When I heard that from this women I was like there's your problem. I don't want to know your feels like I have 3 very close friends those are the only ones I'd ever really talk to about personal stuff.

[@Wearywastrel]

Hell, I don't even want warmth from my family, I just want some damn respect.😅

[@robertmatthews2009]

@@Wearywastrel You have to earn that.

[@Wearywastrel]

@@robertmatthews2009 no time, nobody helps with the bills. About to tell them all to screw off.

[@middle_digit]

Society gives you nothing as a man. No one comes to bail you out. You're not playing hard mode, you're playing survival mode.

[@horseblinderson4747]

Nightmare mode Hardcore savefile No respawns, no redos

[@teneleven2818]

@@horseblinderson4747 you playing Diablo 4?

[@diplodoctopus4241]

Its the Witcher without armor, magic, or a guild. Even the f**king horse is hard to come by.

[@burningsinner1132]

@@diplodoctopus4241 It also is not immortal and healing her takes time and money. Mostly money.

[@aahzmandiaz2767]

Yes, there is NO save game. In games it is usually called the "iron man" mode. We do not freak out, because we are used to it. it's our normal play mode for life.- Even our fathers told us: "Life is not fair. Deal with it!"

[@SirYeetus]

Being a man is difficult & unforgiving. But I'm glad to be a man regardless. 💪

[@jamesjonnes]

Being an average man is even harder. The woman in the video is probably in the top percent of attractiveness. She has seen nothing yet.

[@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395]

Sounds like a bunch a woman whining

[@Knight_Horus]

Sir Yeetus sighting! Let’s goooo!

[@SergioLeonardoCornejo]

TBH it is not our nature to live that harshly. We were supposed to work hard to gain comfort, not living a difficult and unforgiving life. This situation we suffer is the result of a system which puts us as second class citizens. A system our ancestors built thanks to feminism.

[@Metaldude1945]

Cope

[@jacestar3007]

"I feel like a man. I think like a man" No girl, no you don't

[@greatscott3470]

She brought this on herself. Welcome to a world that does. not. care. about you.

[@mr.e0311]

Bingo....

[@Thatsaspicymeatball]

A girl at my work was literally just telling me that a few years ago she was driving around with a car full of girls, no insurance, no tax, no MOT and no driving licence. She was pulled over by the police who discovered all of this, gave her words of advice, then sent her on her way to DRIVE HOME. That male privilege I keep hearing about.

[@fgcpeak9591]

lmfao bro, every woman on planet earth needs to be forced to live as a man for 1 year MINIMUM

[@SteveSmith-ty8ko]

@@fgcpeak9591 If that were to happen, I suspect that the use of anti-depressants would skyrocket.

[@brentmckenzie2793]

Johnny law prob hit them up on social media shortly after the stop

[@Zero_2500]

@@SteveSmith-ty8ko can they really go any higher for females? We gonna go from 60% to 80% on SSRIs that don’t work?

[@Tommy1977777]

​@@SteveSmith-ty8ko just let ke buy some stock before the start of that year. 😅

[@marcedoreste]

You can change your body to look like a man, but that doesn't make you one. Deep inside "he" still thinks, talks, and feels like a woman.

[@nobody_8_1]

$SHELL

[@bjornhenderson7847]

Men feel the same emotions women do and honestly men probably feel a little deeper, they learned to express it you have not it shows a level of maturity you don't have

[@Raverraver9999]

Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..

[@bjornhenderson7847]

@Raverraver9999 cool I've heard about God read his book didn't like what I read pretty misguided for an "omniscient" being

[@wolfpack4128]

Exactly. She still believes that hugging is how affection is shown and doesn't realize that men show friendship by making fun of each other.

[@crowviking]

I am damn proud to be a man.. and I teach my sons the same. We are the pillars of society. If we are not appreciated, we walk away and the world falls.

[@Jaecht88]

I feel you bro. You're absolutely right. May Allah bless you and your family. We're together in this against those evil forces

[@X8X8X6X4X]

That's happening with the femboy revolution

[@toshiojohnston3732]

Slaves or pillars re think that fellas men are problem solvers that's the problem.

[@t34r]

That's not even exaggerated. We are 50% of the workforce. Think about how many men work in all kind of jobs. Imagine what would happen if all men would disappear at the same moment. These lunatic femenists would only celebrate for one day and then they would realise that electricity and whater supply isn't maintained anymore, that nobody is gonna build houses anymore, that law enforcement lost most of it's forces in an instant and so on and so on. Simply put without us society would collapse faster then you can say "strong Independent woman who don't need no man".

[@toshiojohnston3732]

Workforce? The same can be said about slaves.

[@Wordgoblin]

Absolutely loved when she complains that being a man is hard and then tries to make it men's responsibility to reach out to women to learn how to have better male friendships.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

Fake man is fake.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

@PhoenixLord777 Tough. Now she's gonna get the man treatment.

[@bennydave4160]

Reaching out to them typically doesn't end well.

[@sircefiro]

Still a woman that's why lol, still mens fault

[@nicodiaz627]

Insanity lol

[@chumblesthecheese8580]

Boo hoo, people don't worship me for merely existing. Boo hoo. Boo hoo hoo.

[@alexandersims1613]

Facts

[@Mojo_Dojo333]

The issue in the video here is that this is a woman experiencing, a womans experience, in the context of a mans life. Their best attempt at playing pretend. Man up.

[@Dontbeweak123]

Her saying the hatred for white straight men is valid killed and iota of sympathy and respecting could have held for that woman

[@peter.24.7]

Agreed. A lot of people seem to be skipping over that part.

[@jesuschrist2174]

Maybe people tired of them shooting up schools and churches

[@Nah1100]

“Alright so you’re a piece of shit woman abusing potential rapist.” So stupid. I suspect this person will self delete and that is sad to me but at the same time that’s one less person holding ideas in their mind that make men powerless against them self delete all the time. So now he’s treating himself how he’s been treating us before he transitioned. Just desserts.

[@grinningchicken]

Its funny when they did street interviews black men didn't think hatred of white men was justified but "educated" liberal white women did.

[@randomuser17184]

same. i was about to sympathize and a few seconds later? NOPE.

[@NKWTI]

I had a chick on a dating app think I was gaslighting her by mentioning how lonely I was. She didn't even consider that I was being sincere, this is a woman who "champions herself" as someone who fights against suicide and causes that are supposed to help people who are suicidal "reach out" and get the help they need. Well, she didn't really seem to care about my mental health and only further ostracized me, assuming the worst conclusion that came to her head.

[@immortalfrieza]

What a moron that woman was. You were on a *dating app!* Of course you're really lonely, that's why people use dating apps!

[@DYLAN102001]

She virtue signaling, leave her be before she hurts you.

[@uncletom06]

Look at all the group photos of organisations that champion mental health and try to stop suicide. You'll notice that these organisations are mainly filled with women. And guess how much progress we are making in lowering the suicide rate? I bet you could give you a good guess. Imagine thinking that women could solve a major problem (suicide) that centres around men and male emotions and male mental health.

[@firefly551969]

I get so tired of hearing women(or former women) talking about how supportive and welcoming they are to each other. Women are AWFUL to each other. Backstabbing, gossiping wenches...

[@jhellert1]

Al Bundy NAILED it perfectly. "Son, don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other".

[@lineage254]

But they cuddle more the feelings of each other, they might talk crap on their backs but they will still cuddle the feelings of the women in the "group", men will tell you to your face i dont like you f you, women wont, and for her it must a shocker men dont cuddle each other feelings or really care about that crap, again "he" is not a man, just looks like one.

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

They are good at faking it... and its enogh for then. After all women dont know what real friendship or real love are... so the fake thing its the best they can get and its enogh.

[@kumikoloh9190]

Well women are good at sabotaging each other's relationships with their boyfriends, husbands and families. Look at Bear Gryllis Survivor Show, Women vs Men.

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

@@lineage254 Ive 3 friends... the real ones. The kind i trust more than my own blood. And 2 of then started with exchange of punches becouse we did not like each oter. LOL;

[@jwigley3835]

She didn't grow up learning how to deal with being treated like shit by society. She grew up being coddled. Being a man is like always gaming on hard mode. We have to make things happen for ourselves. We don't get affirmative action and billions spent on us to push us up the ranks. She's not an emotionally mature man, she's a con job and she'll never understand. As I'm listening to the video, I hear Joker making the same video game comparison, he's right.

[@792slayer]

Another thing that's going to mess with her/him/it is the learning curve on testosterone. Not learning how to deal with it ramping up during puberty and then suddenly getting it dumped in the system has got to be a wild ride.

[@joshuakhaos4451]

@@792slayer Learning to deal with it during puberty was one hell of an experience. And hardly a fun one at that. The constant horniness was miserable. I cant imagine what they go through when they start having it pumped into them, sometimes years after being done with puberty.

[@cmc5394oparva]

More to the point, people like her are not just mentally ill, they've been brainwashed by their teachers and university professors to believe that there's an "oppressed/oppressor" dynamic in human history, which drives this nutty perception that anyone who's part of the demiurge has a life of non-stop perfect happiness. That's why so many of her political bent are so resentful of everyone who they think is above them on the social ladder, and so contemptuous of everyone who they think is below them. Turns out that trying to make yourself into someone you think is of the "privileged class" isn't a cheat code for perpetual bliss, and everyone has to deal with their own crap just to get through the daily grind of living.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

Tough luck. Because now that she "is" a man, you bet I and society as a whole are gonna treat her like a man.

[@city_of_coompton6832]

Yeah I work in construction and the (few) women are usually treated with kid gloves and held to lower standards. Although tbh I respect the traffic control ladies. Their job is harder than it looks and they're usually middle aged/working class and don't expect special treatment. It's the younger ones who have a feminist chip on their shoulder and think they're sticking it to the patriarchy by being an... average at best... tradie that are annoying

[@maxbants7737]

Welcome to the glorious "patriarchy". No refunds

[@bobmahnamahknob]

Sit down, shut up, and hold on.

[@TheJeremyKentBGross]

"His" transition isn't complete until he's been bullied mercilessly, laughed at, ridiculed and scorned by women, and punched and spit on by men, for daring to cry about it, even in private. An "emotionally mature man" had this behavior crushed out of them by the beginning of middle school by the latest.

[@saltytwofer]

Brilliant. I'm stealing this 😂

[@toddtangen6750]

[@RashadCrenshaw]

This shit killed me

[@xensan76]

Sometimes I like society not coddling men, it helps us be more prepared when shit hits the fan.

[@johnnyboy2411]

Right! Tough times make tough people.

[@jmlkhan5153]

Yessir. I am perfectly content with life's misery, often happy, even. This is conditioning for when worse times come. It is making us better prepared for collapse. We are IN the bad times, and we all know what those make...

[@animal_wilson7391]

As men, we don't get to share our struggles. We suffer our pain in silence. We're not understood. We're not welcomed nor loved without conditions. Society has made us public enemy #1.

[@andrewgreeb916]

Churches are still welcoming, I have yet to see one close their doors to anyone. There's a distinct lack of care for men, and it's going to be a while before that changes.

[@saulspeaks2557]

That's the big one!! We can love unconditionally, but a woman's love is ENTIRELY conditional. We have to maintain those conditions in perpetuity, because if the conditions change, so does her love.

[@varnix1006]

@Shadowyarts lazy, weak, needy, so many adjective to count, so much pressure to contain.

[@micahbellonline9462]

As men...? You mean as Westerners. You don't see Russian men whining like American men do. I think that trans is totally credible as an American man. You've gone soft and now women reign over you. In the Bible, that's a judgement on men, and yet, you act like victims. It was prophesied.

[@catharsismemory]

You can share your struggles with other men, stop ignoring each other and reach out and help each other as men. Stop isolating, ignoring, each other and come together as men. Men need to build support groups for one another. Call that one friend you have seem in a while and ask him how is life is going, tell your dad, brothers, uncles, male cousins etc. You love them every now and then if they are around. There's no reason for men to suffer when you have each other.

[@LordeGainz]

I AM AN EMOTIONALLY MATURE MAN?! NAH....that was out of pocket and disrespectful to everyman who has matured, went through the trials and tribulations, faced the dark times, faced self deletion thoughts, faced extreme bouts of loneliness, didn't switch teams. Walking the earth with absolutely no sympathy, everythings your fault, and leveling up throughout adversity and absolutely nothing is handed to you except a shovel to dig your grave! This person went and picked up the mantle of men as if it was a birth right and found out this pressure we deal with as real men IS NOT A JOKE AT ALL! BEING A MAN IN THIS WORLD IS AN UNBELIEVABLY DAUNTING TASK! SHE EFFED AROUND AND FOUND OUT! Surprise you're a woman and what exposes that fact is you picked up the camera and started ranting about how difficult life is for you and shed tears. This life as a man isn't a joke.

[@LordeGainz]

​@@WhyteHorse2023yeah those were the initiation stages of our man hood. As I said before this life we live is not a joke. They think it is but the sword drops relentlessly on our side

[@Matthew10950]

My son is ten. He is a more mature man than this dude.

[@fredhughes4115]

@@WhyteHorse2023 Don't forget the jeering crowd - and friends that turn out to be useless.

[@jasondorsey7110]

​@@Matthew10950 These liberals have no idea what emotional maturity is, if they get upset they just cry victim and the whole world panders to them so they never have to mature, and this airhead is most likely shorter than your average man so it's exponentially harder...won't be long till they're on social media crying about chad's height privilege

[@sebastiannieves3396]

Beautifully written and one of if not the BEST comment I've read today!!!!!!

[@SoullessAIMusic]

Now I am a man who was raised by a single feminist. This is the kind of BS that a feminist would tell you A man should do to reach out for help. This is the kind of stuff that set me up for failure for quite some time.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

🤗

[@rw7975]

Feminist single mother is entering the race with a broken leg. Hang in there and learn from the past... guys like us aren't alone.

[@maxnovax3948]

That's right. Reach out "for help" and you are under someone's thumb.

[@jle4433]

I feel you. Same situation. 49 years old and still trying to manage the resentment.

[@tracyranger]

Hope you broke free of your indoctrination, brother

[@DigitalDeath88]

The same thing happened to a feminist journalist years ago(early 2000s), she wanted to make a long term story about proving men had easier lives. She dressed and lived as a man for about a year and a half and learned it was too hard for her. She even developed a mental disorder and borderline PTSD.

[@Anuskrebs]

Norah Vincent? Killed herself almost year ago. I guess she never recovered from all the mental problems.

[@UsaKen_PMC]

The one and only feminist i respect because she sacrificed herself only to proof that almost everything in modern feminism is wrong.

[@DigitalDeath88]

@@UsaKen_PMC True. She did in fact admit she was wrong and said men have it far harder than women both physically and mentally in the end.

[@brennefleisch]

The "I'm an emotionally mature man" line made me burst into laughter

[@chikem9531]

Absolute tears 😂

[@ItsMrAssholeToYou]

Me too.

[@upside-downphflag8395]

Those were big words for an intellectual imbecile.

[@oldtimehockey7324]

We’ve all been lied to, but how do you lie to yourself?

[@andrewgreeb916]

Emotionally mature? The bar hasn't dropped that low yet lady.

[@PatronHall]

I find it easy to make male friends. Thing is, men bond over value. If you want to make friends in music but you SUCK at it, it's harder. If you're an amazing player, it's super easy. As a man you learn that it's not enough to just suck and be you. You have to show that you have the drive to get better. This toughening process that produces capable craftsmen is not what women are used to. "You're worthless until you show me something." That's a man's life.

[@aaronpatterson2369]

It aint hard to make friends at all. Shared experiences and lifestyles. This...whatever it is... chose the wrong path. Its a deadend for this..person. Cant play C O D and think you can hang in a war! This example is dumber than man- to -woman!

[@dh510]

I think what women don't get is that men don't just simply hang out together the way they do. They can spend hours just sitting and babbling to each other, feeling that this time was well spent. When guys do something together, it's usually centered around a goal oriented activity that actually "achieves" something, be it working on a project, making music, or simply beating a videogame.

[@oldscratch3535]

@@treesoul00 You're not a guy. You're just less emotional and more logical which puts you at odds with the vast majority of women. My mother is the same way. She's basically a male mind in a female body. It sounds great, but its actually not.

[@dankline9162]

​@@treesoul00 Everything is a spectrum. Im a sensitive guy, someone would insult me at school, and id let it get to me, bothering me all day. Learning to be more stoic.

[@dankline9162]

Also, I never liked sports, especially if I wasnt actually playing, but I also hate a lot of those trivial things, I like doing making fixing things

[@kenchorney2724]

As soon as someone uses the term "cis" I tune their B.S. out.

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

“Emotionally mature” “dude” you’re every woman ever crying in her car.

[@tidasium1785]

💯

[@LeviBroflovski]

I do the same unless its mentioned in South Park 😂

[@lesgobrandon9826]

I see it as a sub-conscious acknowledgement of the truth. Cis effectively just means REAL. By using cis they are admitting that the Decepticons aren't really what they claim to be.

[@Sensorium19]

There's only men and women. Everything else is just a transvestite, chemical or otherwise.

[@Hierax415]

Ouch, I honestly forgot about that feeling at 2:40. I was 15 and coming home late at night, and some woman walking ahead of me kept turning around and looking at me, she finally crossed the street and sort of jogged away. One day you're a happy kid then you hit puberty and you're a scary man 95% of the people you encounter from that point on are either indifferent or hostile.

[@nottomclancy2439]

I found that to be hilarious when I moved to a big city, hit the gym regularily and got big, women would do the same thing. They would scurry away as fast as they could in the street or would change the side of the street. Once I stood up to get out of a train shortly after a woman stood up to get out and the narcissist thought I was stalking her. I didn't realize what her problem was until she STARTED RUNNING AWAY. I was reading on my phone not even paying attention to her. We just happened to have to move in the same direction for maybe one minute. I thought: "Hmm strange..." and started thinking about it until I realized later that day, that she might've thought I was after her. I laughed my ass off. I'd rather be perceived as "the scary evil man" than a whimp, so: not complaining. (I am also in a healthy and happy relationship so I couldn't care less about other women and how they feel anyway.)

[@WirrWicht]

This happens to me regularly, even in broad daylight. Sometimes I think to myself: “Don't strole too far into that area, it could be dangerous. And indeed, you may be safer around me than anywhere else. Because I do not harm strangers who are not violent towards me.”

[@paulcases2646]

That's so true, I've been the cute boy everyone wants to protect and cherish and as soon as I've hit 14yo, I was happy if I wasnt considered a potentially dangerous creep. If I started to express any sort of feeling, whether if it's at school or anything, I would get even more considered as a creep, I just figured out that the best way to not get into any troubles was to remain mostly discrete and silent. Many boys must have experienced this moment when you slowly become a man and people start not caring about you anymore

[@melonmusk8924]

I am that kinda guy who likes to walk alone on the street. I don't like passing people or walk too close to people I don't know. If there's fewer people on the other side of the road i cross the street, I just want to walk alone listening to my music without people interrupting me by being too close. Hell, I even feel uncomfortable when I have to be with someone in the elevetor. It doesn't matter if you're a man a woman, a child or an old person, I just don't like being around unknown people.

[@simonspacek3670]

@@WirrWicht I'm the weird one usually. And to be 100% scary, I use a walking stick. A nice one, so it looks kinda expansive. Since I have it, LESS women look scared around me. I'm not that anonymous "some guy", I'm the very noticeable "guy with a big stick that he wouldn't just toss away". And even crazier is that when patrol cops met me, they just asked what is that stick for and when I told them, they were completely fine with it. They even joked that I could easily beat someone with it, I told them that in that this may happen only if he pulls out a knife first.

[@TheVagolfer]

Real men do not cry to get validation, that is a foreign concept. When we do cry, once every few years, it's alone, in our truck or car while we are driving home from work or some late night event. It only lasts a few minutes and we make sure no one sees us, then we have to pull ourselves together before we get home because as soon as we open that door, we're in a world where no one gives a shit, and we know that and accept it.

[@louisaagnes1509]

No hate but doesn’t that make it worse? Like you can show your feelings and if people don’t accept it drop them, you don’t want to surround yourself with people like that. Won’t people be happier that way?

[@Tcoldsteel]

That’s one of the saddest and truest comments I’ve ever seen on KZbin

[@SwornInvictus]

As much as people will say otherwise, a lot of us men know better by experience. Every time I showed vulnerability to a woman in my life, she either consciously or unconsciously lost respect and started treating me differently from there on. Our value to society as men is through our strength, it's a hardwired biological truism we have to live by. Our social standing lives and dies through respect.

[@MrHBSoftware]

@@louisaagnes1509 we are hardwired to try and be strong...a male child sees his dad crying for the first time and its a huge trauma moment..i never forget the first day i saw my dad crying...was on my grandpas funeral and i cried when i saw my dad crying.....as for most woman they are unconsciously repelled by a weak sentimental man...we must get our shit together and get the things going and be strong for our family

[@louisaagnes1509]

@@MrHBSoftware you can be strong and show emotions at the same time. My dad cried and I never saw him as weak. Plus do you really want to be with someone who's repelled by your emotions, that's not going to make you happy longterm

[@Booma4142]

Everything she thought she knew was wrong, but still she cleaves to it. How like a woman. Pathetic.

[@SSNESS]

People are scum anyway

[@CyberChrist]

Clings?

[@herrpez]

​@@CyberChrist "Cleave to" is somewhat archaic, but means essentially what you proposed as an alternative. Cleave can be its own antonym (look up 'auto-antonym' if you find that sort of stuff interesting).

[@CyberChrist]

@@herrpez I was thinking along the line of an Autocorrect failure, Not being native, I'd never heard it in its first sense, but as the root for "cleavage" ^^ On a side note, M-W seems to prefer "contronym" ;)

[@herrpez]

@@CyberChrist I personally prefer auto-antonym because it appears way more transparent in its meaning to me. :) (What's M-W though?)

[@timalder8940]

Norah Vincent was a lesbian female who, for a journalistic project, lived as a male with the help of make etc .. found it so disturbing that she eventually ended her life with assistance in Switzerland. We don't talk, we don't share our feelings .. we just plough through it.

[@bdel80]

Joker did a video about it

[@Deridus]

I actually feel really bad for that person. Was able to keep an open enough mind to see the reality from what it was. I found it unfortunate that she was unable to cope. I am still proud of her, though. She did a hard thing, and deserves to be remembered for it.

[@paulcarmi8130]

Wow it’s like you found this content yesterday 😂 Yeah, we know. We get it. You saw that video and it changed your perspective, it’s not some breakthrough 😂

[@timalder8940]

@@paulcarmi8130 really? wow? you're having a go at someone who supports the creator and is providing extra evidence .. way to go guy .. make this an extra toxic space !!

[@TheKurgain]

I read her book. I give her alot of credit for trying to understand. RIP.

[@HungryWanderer86]

Men don't go around whining about their feelings and asking for hugs, welcome to the real world! Yesterday I was getting out of the car coming back from the gym and this lady just crossed the street as soon as I opened the door 😂

[@Cortanis001]

I have to laugh at these cases every time. Now let's hear them talk about how stoicism is toxic masculinity. Let's hear her explain how being treated as a murderer or rapist is valid just because now she looks like a white man and actually explain it.

[@endcgm9277]

Best comment here 👏👏👏

[@MaciejStachowiak]

The best for sure

[@peter.24.7]

I really hope it is enjoying it's 'male privilege'.

[@Delimon007]

She already did in this video saying that the "complaints about cis white males are valid." This woman is a lost cause.

[@tomaszszupryczynski5453]

as white polish in uk blamed for colonialism, slavery, white privilege, i laugh too, but at least compared to rest of that privileged victim playing trash, she growed a pair to face her delusions. i feel sorry for our trans and gay brothers who are attacked by simps, it only benefits those whores, but i have zero empathy to those that play victims in rainbow mafia

[@philiusify]

It's hard being a man, but I wouldnt trade it for being a woman.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

God no. Please no. I'd rather chew rocks as a man than have a brain of clanking rocks as a woman.

[@maxjohnson1758]

Indeed.

[@lifemarketing9876]

Yeah it's like being a self made entreprenuer vs. being on welfare. That's the difference between being a man vs. being a woman.

[@duckman12569]

I am shocked by how many men are willing to take that trade

[@willdegra317]

but as a woman you'd have a woman brain and be unable to see reality for what it is when your feelings won't allow it.

[@jeremymain7303]

This woman spent her whole life living easy making friends easily not realizing that SHE was why the men around her hand no friends, and instead called them "emotionally immature" for not having what she had. And the moment she transitions, she's confused by the outcome. Nothing changed, babe. You're just now on the other side. What you did to men, is happening to you. You deserve ever widdle tear.

[@Matthew10950]

It's hard not to want to enjoy his pain.

[@jeremymain7303]

@@Matthew10950 Her pain.

[@Matthew10950]

@@jeremymain7303 Whatever.

[@MarylandGuy-ey3st]

She can always stop taking testosterone and go back to being a woman though

[@jeremymain7303]

@@Matthew10950 She will NEVER be a man.

[@SilentKnightVII]

Chris Rock said it best "Only Women, Children and Dogs are loved unconditionally, A MAN is only loved under the condition that he provides something"

[@devilslayerthesaintofkille1317]

Being a woman, child, and dog is a condition in and of itself. Also tell that to spike spiegel who hates, animals, kids, and women with attitudes.

[@alexraw2707]

Changed apperance, but the attitude and emotion is all wrong for a man. Abandon those stupid emotions, be stoic and strong. You are a man, you don't need friends.

[@devilgames2217]

"A king has no friends, only followers and foe" -The King

[@jt1559]

That's exactly it. They feel like they're men, but they have the mindset and emotions of women. Their bodies may look male (debatable) but their personality isn't male. All the stuff this person is crying about, most men don't care about nor think about.

[@rogerm3708]

It's rare for a man to find another man he doesn't compete against and shares common interests with

[@lifemarketing9876]

but she's a woman not a man. that's the issue here.

[@peacegod7337]

We all need friends. Even the most stoic men had friends.

[@luminous6969]

Hearing about women realizing how hard it is to be a man will never get old. Now get out there and tell all the others, toots.

[@TheJeremyKentBGross]

Their transition to manhood isn't complete until they are bullied mercilessly for daring to cry about it, even in private.

[@MikeG82]

that person in the video can tell every woman in the world, they won't care women don't care about anything unless it is affecting them personally, in other words the last thing they care about are the problems men have

[@xybersurfer]

@@TheJeremyKentBGross exactly

[@louisaagnes1509]

I realize how hard it is to be a man but it doesn’t change my view as a feminist, life is hard for men because of the way society treats them (I know some people don’t believe this word exist but the patriarchy) and my hope as a feminist is that it wont be such a big thing in the future for both men and women

[@xybersurfer]

@@louisaagnes1509 what is your view as a feminist?

[@kanekio.cuchiha4968]

A emotional mature man doesn't go on TIKTOK crying his eyes out about being lonely a true emotional mature man goes to a sports bar and scream at the people on the tv that can't hear him and build a friendship with some random guy that'll last a lifetime

[@Batman88878]

Or goes to a boxing/MMA gym & builds a friendship through the "fire".

[@brentharlow3559]

Problem one is that ain't a dude in the video. Emotionally Unstable or otherwise. No one forced this wingnut to play on Hard mode, it made that call. If it's living a life of misery because of the decisions it made that's it's problem. If it's lookin for sympathy it can find it in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.

[@cyberreality7774]

Not very funny to be punched after a life of loneliness

[@fredfredburger5150]

An emotionally mature man has friends whose names he does not know.

[@MrSirwolf2001]

"I once worked with a man for three years, and never learned his name. Best friend I ever had. We still never talk sometimes" Ron Swanson

[@danejones-qy6jy]

Being a man nearly killed me a few times... 35 now but would never change it.

[@lifeline_]

Making friends as a man isn't like amking friends as a woman, that's why it is harder. Making friends as a woman = share experiences and act like you care. Making friends as a man = earn my respect. This person seems weak, more feminine, and desperate and then wonders why she has no male friends? They don't respect you.

[@avppr3451]

Indeed. If she still had the neotenic face of a women, the tears would instantly generate simpathy from both sides men and women... But as a men crying and showing weakness, the truth is that it generates disgust in men ( cause how can i count on you in the heat of the battle if you are a soaked emotional sponge? you are a liability...) and women ( cause they expect to be protected by the men and not the other way around)... It is indeed a womens brain on a mens body.... It is using female tactics and wondering why is not working...

[@Deridus]

She wanted a transition to what she imagined men were like. She obviously didn't do any research. Obviously wasn't paying attention. All you have to do is crack open a history book to see men are disposible. She lost her greatest worth to chase an imagined status that men don't even give credence to, Then immediately still says that everything "women and everyone else," is valid. It's like seeing a warning about coffee being hot and proceeding to burn yourself. Moronic.

[@louisaagnes1509]

So you’re saying men struggling to make friends is because of men?

[@avppr3451]

@@louisaagnes1509 Yes. But mens friendship, though sparce are more genuine. Women are all glee with each other, but you and i know their are false as a serpent with eachother... Men have no bs, they are straight as it is

[@gwills9337]

Well said OP

[@robd9049]

“He’s” probably only like 5’5” - 5’6”. Life is even harder for a shorter man when it comes to dealing with women and other men.

[@theredknight9314]

Tell me about it. As a 5,5 man. I constantly feel like the weakest in the room. It’s tough. It’s why I’m trying to get more muscle

[@dars4utube]

Won't worry for lack of kitty for sure

[@LeviBroflovski]

​@@WhyteHorse2023 5'2" white dude here. I'm practically John Wick trying to survive the contract of Contracts from the High Table.

[@willdegra317]

100%, and she doesn't even have one of the main things that makes life enjoyable

[@knotengajin7359]

She likely already had a lesbian lover down with the whole change.

[@DanielFrost21]

Part of being a man is being accountable and responsible for your decisions. You made your choice; deal with it.

[@SSNESS]

People suck, I hate them

[@toughcookie128]

But then he's a woman forget about accountability

[@ugoedeh183]

Check mate

[@tomaszszupryczynski5453]

no its part of being adult, its time to put that on all women, so they will stop playing children. so now courts, government, soyciety will make them accoutable and pay consequences, like we men already make them accountable

[@DanielFrost21]

@@tomaszszupryczynski5453 Yes, it should be expected of everyone, but it's currently more expected of men. There's something particularly distasteful when a "man" whines and complains about a choice "he" made.

[@novedekne]

He’s used to people putting in effort to talk to them rather than having to put the effort in themselves. They’re lonely but they don’t have enough of a genuine interest in other people to foster a real relationship because they want people to show interest in them. This is why I appreciate women who ask good questions and show genuine interest in others. They tend to be less entitled than those who expect to be the topic of conversation.

[@novedekne]

I take part of that back. It’s not safe to assume that they don’t have an interest in others. Maybe they’re just terrible at expressing it.

[@taun856]

My dad once told me that if a woman does something good or it is well done, she instantly gets told how great she did, and "You go girl!", but if a man does the same, the best he can expect is "Nice job, what the hell took you so long?"

[@Andrew-pq3lj]

“Ok now do this”

[@fahadsajjad8649]

​@@Andrew-pq3lj so true

[@JohnathanMenezes-g6i]

@@Andrew-pq3lji felt that one 😂 i just got off work

[@Nahelus]

And thats ok, because life as a man is hard and the sooner you learn the only dude is going to save your ass is yourself, the faster youll mature. To be honest man... even if i dont feel super safe all the time, having the knowledge that at least i carry myself and if i fail, at least i was fighting, makes me feel peacefull. Also, when i get to look around my life and i see myself with a positive moral and attitude, i look to my girl and i see she is happy and when she is down i can bring her up, and i see my little puppy happy and well fed, when you fight for 3 beings instead for only just yourself and you keep the boat sailing, you feel great. The only thing you need to be a happy man is to have balls, thats all.

[@mikeonis]

100% true. I'm living proof, a female guitarist covered one of my songs here on yt, it already has over 100k views. I wouldn't even get 100 views for my own song

[@kransencrates]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

[@chuckchan4127]

Fuck. How do I stop playing this stupid game of man mode?

[@jamesjonnes]

She didn't even go through divorce yet.

[@6stringbeats397]

You can’t change biology. She can dress up like a man but she is still biological a woman.

[@ScreechingPossum]

Genuinely a case of “You get what you asked for”

[@moriscondo5511]

@@jamesjonnes Ok, I laughed out loud (as a divorced male) on this one...

[@3six967]

Let me get this right- A whinning woman with a goatee, makes a decision that alters her life negatively, and blames the negative effects on men? I'm shocked. Has something like this ever happened before? 😋

[@shinodamasaru7945]

Always has been. Not a shock anyway. Men are tough cookie, they said. I'm suffering and they just pat my shoulder and said, " s* ck it up."

[@NeoAutodroid]

This is why I am super caring about my male buddies because many of their their own family even don't care about them or ignore them. I helped a couple of them go through messy divorces where they lost everything. Who do the courts side with every time regardless of circumstances ? The mother. As men we can change our own culture. We can be there for each other.

[@wastelandsniper789]

This woman was lied to - by herself and others - about how she's really a man in a woman's body, when what she really is is a woman with more masculine personality traits and interests than the average woman. Which I understand because that's what I am. But despite the fact that I love the John Wick series, play first-person shooters and action games, and was the resident gun nut at work before I retired, I know that I'm still female and still have the emotional baggage that comes with that. Us girls grew up with the formative experiences of being female, not male, so we really have no formative male experiences to reference, just as men running around in womanface don't have the formative female experiences to reference. I know about as much about actually being a man as a somewhat effeminate dude does about being a woman. The world would be a far better place - and these people would be far better off - if, instead of having their delusions validated, they were challenged and reminded that the problem is not with their bodies it's with their minds, and the sooner they make peace with and accept that the better their lives will be.

[@tracyranger]

Save the Tomboys!

[@cc-by8uk]

Beside that - he still tries to connect with women. That will not turn out good. Because he should try to connect with men. And yes friendship is now harder to build because he has no male friends from school, highschool or university. As an adult it is so much harder to make friends.

[@amandafurrow2338]

​@@cc-by8uk People to not open to strangers but a woman trying to become a man forget the rule of men backstabbing each other.

[@thebanished87]

She made her bed, she might as well sleep in it. She wanted to be a man. Well good luck honey!

[@freedomandguns3231]

Its as if people forgot Tomboys are a thing.

[@Wbfuhn]

Women believe that men have it easy while men know that women have it easy.

[@WhackyRavenLand]

Being a man = Little to no support, encouragement, sympathy, compliments or appreciation. Being a man = Constant hardships, challenges, loneliness and danger. Being a man = Being determined to fight through it all as it's how a man experiences growth and becomes a stronger, better and more powerful man. My struggles in life have made me the man I am today and I wouldn't change it for anything.

[@kumikoloh9190]

Tokyo Revengers, Naofumi the Shield Hero, The Incredible Hulk, Naruto and Deadman Wonderland in a nutshell.

[@julianblack3390]

You're God damned right!!!

[@topendmillennial9690]

This is how "male privilege" feels like

[@indyj16]

Being a man isn't that bad, it just means you gotta earn your way. Also, society thinks you are 💩 so you just gotta tune it out. For me loneliness fades as I age. I actually like my privacy.

[@RuddsReels]

Yes, I feel the same. I've never really been affected by loneliness thankfully. Of course it can grate sometimes, but it's not very often.

[@angelphoenix7784]

It makes me happy to know that one day I wont be here as I age.

[@galactusholmes]

This all day every day. At some point as a man, you have that Thanos moment: “Fine. I’ll do it myself” And silence is golden. After work, when my social battery is depleted from having to talk to morons all day without getting sent to HR, I walk in my apartment and hear… the heat pump. It’s awesome. Screw society. Leave me be and I’ll return the favor.

[@untouchableghost6757]

@@angelphoenix7784 don’t wish life away…just make sure you do something with it ✌️

[@SwornInvictus]

Straight facts. I've become an island unto myself at this point. Couldn't care less what people think or whether I'm alone or not. And you know what, I'm happier now than I ever was before.

[@mateivacariu1171]

You got what you wanted; but you lost what you had. You got everything that you deserve.

[@5dodot5]

Be careful what you wish for i guess. You might just get it.

[@grinningchicken]

White liberal woman: White men are the devil and deserve to be hated ignored and scorned. Also white liberal woman: Lemme transition to a white man real quick Gets hated ignored and scorned by other liberals White liberal woman: 😮

[@upside-downphflag8395]

Succinct, almost poetic. Well said.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

@@5dodot5 And so one finger curled on the monkey's paw...

[@billynewt4831]

I’m enjoying sitting back, playing with my hobbies and dog and watching these people slowly understand the consequences of their actions. I literally have nothing to do with them except watch these fails. They do it to themselves, yet, as a straight, conservative white guy -I’ll be blamed for it🤣

[@blabbergasted4380]

As Dennis Miller said long ago, "I'm a white man, I'm everybody's b!tch." Yet here we are, keeping the power on.

[@solrosenberg4529]

Same, I love these videos of women generally nagging all men in society telling us we need to be more like this and less like that. I’m like biaaaatch, you ain’t my wife or mother, you ain’t the mother of my children so I DGAF about you. These vids are nothing more than entertainment, we ain’t changing shit, just laughing at you.

[@effexon]

explains why so many men transfer to being woman... sportster and where it gives edge coz why not... system is stupid

[@nathancoats6432]

your racist bigot! lol jk but that is the usual response.

[@JT-91]

This is the right response. sitback and enjoy the show. pickup the pieces once the system collapses

[@morriswheatley9856]

They don't know what real friendship is.

[@Jake-ky4yj]

As a man that grew up in a house with women and no father, I've been alone my whole life. I had to make my own way. Yeah. 30 years of being alone and I'm doing great. This woman has done 8 years of being a man and is having a mental breakdown on camera. Says a lot.

[@briana7515]

No, She did 8 years of "transitioning". She wasn't a man for 8 years, it's a lot less. I just realized, too, my clarification inadvertently furthers your point.

[@RobertMorgan]

Six sisters, no brothers, but a strong Silent generation dad, I know what you mean. I was kinda immune to female bs by like 12, to survive lol, and it's probably why I'm turning 40 this year, no kids, no marriages, only one real serious relationship years back...it's all bullshit lol. I can't take it seriously. I know all the tests, all the tears are fake, and THEY'RE. LYING. Lol.

[@TheInsomniaddict]

The woman also has a baked-in community that'll tell her "you go, man!" every time she stumbles. Likely that's starting to wear thin and she can't figure out why everything is turning against her now that she's a man.

[@dwight3555]

@@TheInsomniaddict Her story is the same as every other girl who did the same bullshit: she started to believe in that kind of insanity, girls supported her because it allows for easy irl and ivl karma-farming, men supported her cause they wanted to get in her good graces to fuck her. But as soon as the voice started getting low and the beard started growing, all of that was ripped away instantly. The girl thought she must have made some mistake she didn't notice, and spent many months having breakdowns not understanding why, and she's finally started to realize just a tiny bit how much suffering the average man goes through. But she still doesn't care for us, she cares for herself and her own suffering, and will continue doubling down, cruising through "life" as a dickless manlet and ending up throwing herself off a bridge.

[@303machine]

Take care. You're not alone.

[@aztharz5637]

Honestly if I met a emotional man like that in real life, I'd avoid him like the plague. Men don't burden men with problems. It's ok to give advice and solve your friends issues, but being overly emotional doesn't solve anything.

[@Sydebern]

I actually knew this kind of "man". Tried to explain to him that life was going to be a whole lot better if he would act more like a man. He said he was just sensitive and like women, he "likes the ups and downs of the drama." Then, he started crying when some woman "friend" of him let him down. I was done with him, blocked him as well. I mean, i'm all for helping if a guy wants advice about manning up. I mean, i had to develop myself also. But if you don't even want to become a man and then go cry about how people hurt you, good luck with that.

[@ItsMrAssholeToYou]

Much like bright colors in the wild, certain displays are a warning. A wise person heeds such warnings.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

@@themichael3410 "Safe space" should only be in the same context as real men if it's a reinforced zombie-, vampire- or demon-proof safe house.

[@avppr3451]

Indeed. as i said on another comment... If she still had the neotenic face of a women, the tears would instantly generate simpathy from both sides men and women... But as a men crying and showing weakness, the truth is that it generates disgust in men ( cause how can i count on you in the heat of the battle if you are a soaked emotional sponge? you are a liability...) and women ( cause they expect to be protected by the men and not the other way around)... It is indeed a womens brain on a mens body.... It is using female tactics and wondering why is not working...

[@GibDozer1]

I mean it's one thing to have life kicking you in that sack and breakdown with a close friend privately. It happens and if you're lucky you've got meaningful relationships where under deep duress that's acceptable. It's a whole other thing to break down and post it publicly to strangers. You can have a beard, but that's extremely feminine behavior...

[@filmbuff7130]

A beard doesn't make you a man! This person is 100% still a woman!

[@NaggersandJoggers]

yup and this person also has a mental illness. How does someone think that their is something wrong with the body and not their mind?

[@ConestogaCreek]

What about a sport coat?

[@5-minute-witness356]

Yes, still has a woman's expectations and emotional needs. Men have similar needs but don't go about meeting them the same way as a woman does. That's one reason why this person is failing.

[@deusvult8251]

A beard DOES make you a Man, Men have BEARDS women dont... GOD gave Man beard! in this case this in NOT a man... this is an abomination

[@bracedgod4505]

I've encountered some trans dudes in my life(2 max), and they still talk """deep and artistic""" like women. I'm thinking "yeah you passed, until you let that cIap trap out". They absolutely can't handle this life hahaha no sympathy from me.

[@benl6328]

I realized one thing listening to this. I really appreciate being a man. Growing up the hard way, learning through hardships. Damn I'm proud of who I am today. I got my house in order, my wife and kids are happy, faith is strong, yeah feels great being a man.

[@_Pyroon_]

The advantage of being a man is being invisible-no one sees you unless you've made something. You can go decades without someone trying to befriend you, especially women. A woman has the opposite trade off-you'll get attention from both wanted and unwanted people. But as you get closer to 30, you'll get sone degree of invisibility.

[@ArcaneAnouki]

Born with value vs built their value

[@simonhailom2477]

​@@ArcaneAnouki facts

[@mexicancanteen9596]

Women past thirty aren't looked at less. They're just seen by a different crowd.

[@GibDozer1]

​@@mexicancanteen9596 I'll have to disagree. Less and less Men available and interested as vvhams age. There will always be a percentage of guys interested, but those guys will always be invisible to them. Once they cross 40 even attractive Whams are just specters to the top tier Men. Average ones are practically invisible to everyone, just like Men. Most of us are invisible until we do something great, or something awful...

[@hdthor]

Women only become invisible to high-valued alphas as women age beyond 30. Women are always visible and drooled over by thirsty betas no matter how old or how out of shape they get.

[@ashm4938]

I remember a story of a lesbian who dressed up as a male for a short while and wrote a book about how it was "the loneliest, most difficult time of her life"

[@eke.D]

Norah Vincent i'm guessing.

[@imrankh68]

She finished her life

[@Bad_wolf_41]

@@imrankh68 yea, kinda like speedrunning i guess.

[@obloomerrealista]

She ended herself

[@Defensive_Wounds]

She then years later killed herself over it afaik.

[@pamelab7235]

Kind of surprising he hasn't benefitted from all the privilege he's supposed to have, and certainly being part of the patriarchy now was all worth it?🙄

[@sshreddderr9409]

HE. Dont enter their totalitarian delusional frame.

[@Nick-zz6xl]

Still felt the need to dump on strait white men.

[@maxxcarver5502]

lol. enjoy Invisibility!!

[@myopiniongoodyouropinionbad]

"He" must not have filed for his male privilege card. I just had mine renewed. Its not hard.

[@maxxdroid]

@@myopiniongoodyouropinionbad male privilege is real. I have it. I get free Audis, Teslas and BMW-s given to me just because I am a man. People give me money. People throw gold at me. Birds sing to me. Police stops the traffic to let me drive. Patriarchy is real and I enjoy it every day.

[@robintst]

When I was 16, this was the reality check my dad gave me: "No one in this world gives a shit whether you live or die." Welcome to the party, pal! Sorry you're having a shitty time but this is a man's reality.

[@millionshadesofdarkness2165]

Doesnt she know that as a man you cant cry or everyone will look down on you. She has alot to learn

[@DinnerForkTongue]

Bet that's a lesson she's learning now. The hard way.

[@samuraitadpole5459]

@@DinnerForkTongue I almost feel bad, almost

[@Matthew10950]

She is not learning a thing. It would be impossible for her to understand, like learning a new language with no one to teach her. The idea that the feelings themselves need to be suppressed and until they are burned out would never occur to her.

[@mph5896]

Women will dump all over men acting like that. Call them names to cut them down.

[@carls9310]

No one can ever truly change their gender...no matter what society would have you believe. It's far better to just learn to be as happy as possible in the skin you're in. No surgeries, injections, or dress up...just make peace with what's between your ears and legs.

[@serbrat]

Well, it's insane in the first place to believe that you can just change the gender by changing the looks and mutilating your body.

[@a8205-w8h]

I used to think like that, but being autistic I know from experience that some people's brains works very differently, almost alien like and all the trans people that I've ever talked to seemed to be very atypical individuals that usually believed that they would be accepted between neurotypiclas if only they could "pass" as someone born with the opposite gender, they appel to extreme measures to get that acceptance but even the ones that manage to pass, finds that their minds are too different for them to be considered normal. It's very easy to offend and miss communicate when people with diverging neurology talks to each other and that leads to ostracism and persecution. The politization of this issue is very counterproductive...

[@shoutatthesky]

You win the obvious comment of the day!

[@slaydog5102]

Say that to the people with gender dysphoria

[@kostasbiker9302]

​@@slaydog5102 That's a mental illness, still can't change "gender".

[@oats7924]

I wish that people weren't so cold to men. They deserve to be helped and cared for just like anybody else. The golden rule is disappearing.

[@minnesotajude8447]

She’ll have to deal with the fear of being falsely accused. Enjoy.

[@bobmahnamahknob]

Not.with the non-functional sausage roll that she has. Have you seen one of those abominations? Nightmare material.

[@plumber1337]

The fabled and famous "trans community" start dissing and ignoring their own when they become "men", that doesn't usually happen with trans women as much. If being a transmen is playing on hard mode, imagine being existing as a man from birth.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

Nah, trans men have it harder. They're women and didn't grow up with the grit needed to be a man.

[@jt1559]

​@@DinnerForkTonguethey also don't have a real, working Willy.

[@oldscratch3535]

@@DinnerForkTongue I agree. At least I got to grow up being treated like a man with a father and male figures in my life to half ass teach me things. A trans-man grows up being treated like a fairy princess. They never develop the thick skin and stoicism needed to be a man. They never suffer through years of hard labor trying to eek out a living. All of those things make a man into what he is. So as much as I don't want to agree that they have it harder, I will admit that they do in my opinion. They've experience both sides so they know what they're missing. I only know one side so I can't miss what I never knew.

[@plumber1337]

@@DinnerForkTongue they have the support of the rainbow mafia. And they may not have grown with the grit needed to survive as a man, but they lived a sheltered life, unlike men

[@XBullitt16X]

Nah being a trans man is worse, neither sex is interested in you.

[@CraigS1124]

Emotional maturity for a man is stoicism. We feel all the emotions a woman does; we just control them. Emotions do not rule our lives, unlike a woman. Men don't "reach out" often, we deal with it.

[@dothedewinme]

I’ve been chastised all over the place for saying this exact thing. Then those same people go “eww gross” when a guy opens up. Lol it’s a joke.

[@AFuller2020]

Even if your sick, you say nothing or people think your complaining, just carry it hidden, that’s what’s expected.

[@markellii3093]

Reaching out is not supported it is actively discouraged.

[@meatbleed]

Totally agree except emotions ruling women. It's a fight for everyone. It's just a little easier for women to be vulnerable to their emotions thanks to mother nature

[@dxfifa]

We really don't, just like women thinking they're as horny as men because they have a sex drive this is inaccurate. Countless FtM transitioners said the testosterone blunted their emotions and thy no longer cry anywhere near as much

[@tamarevans9025]

As a 100% natural female, I realize how much more difficult and lonely it is being a man because I raised one. ❤ I love men, strong and masculine men. You are appreciated.

[@yournextdoorgamerwithgames2945]

Prove it

[@tamarevans9025]

@@yournextdoorgamerwithgames2945 Prove what? To whom? You??? Lol

[@dsaikon]

​@@yournextdoorgamerwithgames2945?

[@tamarevans9025]

@@Millstone_Justice I'm nothing like your mother.

[@aryyahuwilliams-me1mz]

the enemy is laughing at these people. the war on the mind is real.

[@clintmatthews3500]

The Devil's Useful Idiots.

[@devilgames2217]

Working as intended, we are losing.

[@drinkxyz]

Here's another tip for this man: men don't cry on social media.

[@scurvyrum]

She doesn't realize how good she had it. Once she changed that certificate from F to M, it was in that moment which she knew, she fucked up.

[@MarylandGuy-ey3st]

She can always stop taking testosterone and shave and eventually go back to being a woman though. Us biological men don’t have that option. So it’s actually still harder for us.

[@scurvyrum]

@@MarylandGuy-ey3st I can certainly see that, considering that I'm subscribed to a detransitioner. But in general, life is harder for us guys, but it also makes it much more fulfilling because we have life on hard mode.

[@ponderrous2659]

It doesn't have to be so lonely for us. I have a group of friends, I get real, I get vulnerable, I give and get hugs. Platonic love from other men. It's HARD to find people like that you can trust though.

[@Barbelldad]

She’s not a man , because no man would be crying over this crap.

[@internetperson9121]

Maybe the real reason it is crying is because it ruined its life I’d actually give it a pass for crying in that case

[@Matthew10950]

Men can cry. It happens. Never knew a single man to record it for you tube though.

[@capo4270]

​@@Matthew10950Remember Tyrese filming himself crying over being cleaned out with child support?

[@Matthew10950]

@@capo4270 I remember hockey players, scarred and missing teeth, crying at their retirement pressers.

[@FAITHandLOGIC]

Not true. Many men cry over loneliness and it doesn't make them less.