Men Feel Love (With A Woman) WHEN! Dr. John Gray

Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus shares how a woman can meet the right man and fall in love. He shares how she can meet and attract the right man in a way that creates greater connection, love and intimacy.
When you understand your own wants and needs and what men want and need in a relationship and how they fall in love you can find deep love and passion. When women understand they can get more of their needs met and experience greater intimacy. John Gray teaches the importance of mutual respect in romantic relationships. Understanding how men connect with women and how a woman can invite attraction, get her needs met, share her feelings with a man in a way that will make him feel successful, make her feel heard and draw a man closer to her is the basis of John Gray's inspiring work! When a woman is on the masculine side she often gives too much and her feminine energy can be depleted.
Want to know what makes a man feel love with a woman? John Gray says a key for a woman's happiness is to be in a receptive energy and be open to what a man can give to you. If you, as a woman, are giving too much to a man, you are unlikely to attract a high-quality masculine man. This is why learning more about how to invite his attention with your feminine energy is important as is balancing giving and receiving. If you are a single woman or woman in a relationship or marriage and want to enjoy a great relationship with a man, then polarity between a man and woman are essential! If a woman is showing up with masculine energy and like she is the better man it can be very hard for a man to feel attraction. Dr. John Gray from Mars Venus fame and author of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus answers this question about men and women and what his advice is so that you can enjoy a loving, passionate, committed partnership relationship or marriage with the right man for you.
John Gray Shares How A Woman Can Bring Out The Best In A Man! Secrets About Men Every Woman Needs To Know (For Women Dating Over 40, Dating Over 50, Dating Over 60) John Gray of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus Fame helps single women understand men, bring out the best in a man and have intimacy with a man. Visit John's website here: marsvenus.com/
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[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

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[@Sunlightsam24]

I finally am with the right man, after 1 marriage, 4-5 relationships and lots of dating, I found my King! He treats me exactly as John Gray says a man treats a woman to raise her estrogen. I’m so happy I didn’t commit myself to any of those other relationships. It could have resulted in another divorce, financial trouble, angst. I know my family talked about me about rejecting on silly stuff, etc., but I know what I wanted and what I wasn’t willing to tolerate. In the end, I made the right decisions for ME and lived a fantastic single life.

[@dee2022uk]

That's really great. It takes patience, and enjoying life, without expecting much. Would be nice to find that one day.

[@pyaforbeautifultomorrow9327]

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[@addabhala]

Thanks for this ,Denise can you share on the silly stuff you were rejecting?

[@Sunlightsam24]

@@addabhala ‘silly stuff’ according to them :), one man wasn’t affectionate, it was like there was a barrier between us. Another man was very negative and argumentative. Both men treated me very well overall…

[@linabuns]

@@Sunlightsam24 this gives me hope and makes me less afraid of kissing a few "frogs" until I find my King 😌

[@user-nf6bw9zm8d]

3:30 accepted, appreciated, trusted, admired, hero, contributing to your well-being in a meaningful way,

[@christywhitley6053]

I’m 58 yrs old. Married my first love; we were together 24 yrs. I never dated after we separated. However, a new coworker surprised me at Christmas by visiting while my children were staying with family during school break. We remained together until his accidental death eight years later. *I can’t imagine ever trying to make anyone change in order to commit to them. Love them as they are or leave them in peace.

[@sabinechanging2269]

I tried to change my ex husband and father of my two daughters. He’d spend all money, wouldn’t pay his part of the bills. At one point the gas and electricity company threatened to cut off gas/electricity in the middle of the winter because he was almost a year behind. So I had to step in and took over and paid. That happened with everything until I was paying for everything. So yeah, I begged for him to change and step up. It wasn’t about me being controlling and needing to fulfill my own needs. It was about being a team for our family. Do I regret trying to change him? Hell no, I can look my girls in the eyes and tell them I fought hard. Did it work? No! So I left him, best decision ever!! You shouldn’t rely on a man to make you happy, but if the relationship makes you unhappy…

[@jenkech5824]

So true what you said but according to the universe guru on KZbin never ever step in to rescue a man because he will never step up. Same situation for me my husband was not being a consistent and reliable provider so I stepped up, went to Nursing school put the kids through private and boarding schools and he still never stepped up. His about to become an ex husband cos I'm exhausted of being the main provider still paying schools and contributing to his part of paying the rent. I've woken and know I deserve better.......

[@sabinechanging2269]

@@jenkech5824 you do deserve better Jen! The situation sucks, and being divorced is hard but not nearly as hard as dealing with the frustration of trying to keep the family going on your own! You’re strong and you can do it!!!

[@jenkech5824]

@@sabinechanging2269 Thank you so much my darling, much appreciated

[@CucKim-yd9cy]

i was like, why did u marry him and give him kids? You should choose a good responsible man to start off a family in the first place, otherwise I’d rather be single by myself

[@cathyrichardson1254]

I’ve got a good man. My first I’m 65 years old and he’s the same always wanting to help do something for me.He works so hard He served in the U S Navy for 30 years . I’m so proud of him And now .he’s building a business for our kids.Actually our grown kids

[@nancycordero-severance7661]

Reciprocal altruism requires selfless emotional maturity with a balance of humility and self confidence. Something sorely lacking in the society of men.

[@dr.ayanna]

This is SO POWERFUL, Dr. Gray! The piece about making your requests known to resistant men whose fathers' never exposed them to helping to a woman and to being "romantic" or those resistant men who are accustomed to being pursued by women is crucial! Some of these old mules "age out", get set in their ways and really turn you off! I was wondering about how to delineate between "trying to change a man" versus trying to "bring out the best in a man". It seems that you have clarified based on the communication style and approach. Thank you for clarifying!

[@dr.ayanna]

Some of these men are so "low testo" and SLOW to respond to the micro-rewards/ affirmations that they make you wonder whether they even enjoy being men!

[@itsHappening-ry2ef]

Great points these old men miles are not he worst

[@DaddysDollxo]

IF YOU TRULY WANT HIM TO BE HIS BEST NEVER EVER EVER EVER CRITICIZE HIM ONLY PRAISE AND ADMIRE Him IN YOUR WORDS TO HIM AND OTHERS- DONT EXPECT HIM TO RELATE TO YOU LIKE A WOMAN GO GET SOME GOOD GIRLFRIENDS AND HOBBIES

[@kitkat129]

GIRLS APPLY what Jonhs says, IT REALLY WORK! !! I'm so impressed! I'm here to say thank you to John and to this channel. One day after I started to apply it, the guy I like wanted to buy me gifts!! Now it's two weeks later, and I have him wrapped around my finger! it's so good to stay on our feminine and see the man do things for us. Before watch Jonh's videos I never pair attention to what a man was trying to do to conquer me..I was so bussy trying to conquer them instead haha The most reveling information I had was that man are happy making You happy. This is lifechanging seriuosly!!

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

No thanks. Better to kick a man to the curb

[@jingjingwang747]

Michelle always asks John the best questions, love it!

[@nicolii7321]

Sometimes in a marriage with kids neither partner has their cup full enough to give to the other.

[@ananichi]

Thank you!! I want my love to feel so loved and nurtured and like he is the hero my my heart. I was always so focused on me me me- what can I get - how can I be sure he still loves me- show me- tell me- Ugh- now I just want to be there for him. Be his safe place. Thank you for this ❤

[@user-pr2wx9gg8e]

Am from Tanzania listening a lot from john gray ,he is really turning light in the darkness

[@recuerdos2457]

Guys seem to enjoy feeling special. That s why sweet ladies can’t easily capture a man’s heart for too long, because you re sweet to everyone. Men love to conquer, that s why an east going woman can’t boost their egos :)

[@tinkerbell9282]

That's how boys think, not real men . A man would rather have a woman who is sweet and devoted. Only insecure boys and narcissists want to chase and conquer cause they love the high

[@Anacuentacuentos]

My exhusband was estrogen oriented. It was exhausting! I missed being a woman. 💜

[@AvAG1923]

😂 oh my lololol

[@megancollins7075]

Love this! I've listened to this episode like 5 times now. So much good information. Thank you!

[@jas_love]

I told my man I want communication as it's the only things that keeping us close. I ask him to spare some time but he didn't want to. So I have to communicate myself and let him go. Because once the communication is down we are down for sure. So it's gonna be like dating myself. Better do the breakup and love myself. Because my man is never changing and all he want is more space and the more space I gave him, he went further away. So al this theory will apply well to the right couples who love each other and doesn't wanna loose each other. This advice will never end well when you are dating a narcissist, a cheater, a liar, and an unfaithful man. And when you meet the right person, you will never have the time to even overthink of not feeling unloved.

[@pamelakapke62]

Women can still "mess up" even the right guy and relationship because we didn't know a lot of this stuff 😢 I have never been good at accepting gifts from men, but all they want is appreciation

[@itsHappening-ry2ef]

I’m not treating no man like a woman 😂he need to be solving problems and providing

[@jenkech5824]

Spot on not sure which planet John is on????!!!!!

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

​@@jenkech5824 Mars

[@EvaEva-lf3ww]

What a pleasure to listen to John . So useful , so understandable.

[@zinebbenslimane8903]

Like training a dog with treats lol

[@alliefordrealty5081]

I am with a man who has been single his 55 years of his life. He is used to doing cleaning work and everything. But he asks me for a lot of massage which is fine. I am happy to do, I am a dancer and know how to do massage very well so i spoil him that way.

[@bernardette486]

How to determine love vs lust , he does nothing for me in a 5 year relationship, except sex and watching movies ,communication 10% I feel alone and not taken seriously , he asked me to marry him this year am so confused 😐

[@ilenek.5428]

Did u say yes? It could be a fake move. Lol. He may not have intentions of actually marrying. He may just be trying to confuse u. That's why these videos are so great. Tell him h to the no! (Hells no!) 🤣🤭

[@deedeebrecca8645]

He sounds too complacent. Only you can decide what is right for you, but I think I would either end the relationship or take a significant break.

[@christianandreygel1060]

İ don't think it's a good idea to marry him. 5yrs is already too long for someone to show you how he really values you. You're not supposed to feel alone in a relationship. İf this id how he is rn, he might be worse after marriage.

[@Donjasoni]

It depends. I need more detail. Too vague. What does he say when you talk to him about it? What’s his personality type? What’s his dating history? Does what he say match what he does in action? Does he ask you questions? Does he communicate his needs and wants? My advice would not be to listen to your gf’s or other women on advice about men to be honest. I’ve found that it’s scary how little modern women understand about what men want and need. I don’t doubt their desire to help with advice but most women that will give you advice are giving you advice from a female perspective. You already have that.

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

Hi

[@Ukhti_Sady]

I so much love this conversation John, makes a whole lot of sense. Thank you ☺️

[@chaosswa-ee-ty5911]

What is an example of a reward for doing a small task like dishes? I don't want to ruin the economy by giving more than is necessary

[@dianamary6170]

Lol!

[@ananichi]

a thank you. Hug from the back- your hands brushing against parts that make him feel good 😊 that’s what I’d do

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

​@@ananichi Geez he's JUST done the dishes. Tell him the reward is he can now has basic life skills. His reward is he can put them away

[@annlaughren9060]

Wow great understanding, like, that makes sense. Thanks 😊

[@georgeta6882]

Zero speech. I woul like to depend on a man olin order to be HAPPIER. No man remains.

[@michelinekollmann868]

For me all that gradual rewarding stuff takes too much time. I would rather ask him for money to get someone to help me out in the house. Easy for him, easy for me, problem solved.

[@amandacadogan9549]

I would really like hear some of the advice that John gives to men.

[@RememberTheLord]

Same here

[@Miswhitness0520]

He has said before the advice he gives to men. He tells them to brings us flowers- to do more etc. where have you been? Pay attention.

[@staywellandstrong4199]

I really enjoy it when he approaches from both perspectives, as well. But this episode is especially great in giving advice for women - 👏

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

​@@Miswhitness0520 Pffft lol

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

​@@staywellandstrong4199 Bad advice for women

[@npaujlis-angel8889]

Best advice ever!!! Thank you!!

[@mariacarolinacarol8053]

Great!

[@joudisall6474]

Michelle is an amazing woman

[@hayley5684]

Great conversation! What if they do something that makes you upset or angry. How do you approach the situation without stepping into masculine energy. This would be a great topic to explore pls

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

Merry me I m intrested with u really 👧👧😍😍❤❤💍💍🌷🌷🌷🌷

[@georgeta6882]

JG has no idea, of course. Everything is around how not to criticise a man, how to admire him, bla bla bla

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Just talk to him like an adult. Stop walking on eggshells.

[@pamelakapke62]

First of all slow down, you can't fix everything, unlearn everything we learned, as independent modern women, not that there's anything wrong with that, in a day. It is just so nice to have someone who wants to do things for you 😊

[@franci-uz]

BRILLIANT!!!!

[@johnnyringo0506]

So do I.

[@franci-uz]

11:37 Hahaha, thats so good John! I love your books! The videos are a fresh up

[@kristenmoonrise]

Genius video. Thank you both! 💡👍🏽

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

Or u marriad .?❤❤😍😍👧👧🌷🌷

[@franci-uz]

John there's a guy on youtube that says that there are a lot of good looking females out there, but just a few men that have their shit together. So he says men are the price. High Caliber Men can choose any woman anytime but women have a hard time to find a good man. That would mean that women would chase men right?

[@franci-uz]

@@thekindredstoil he says: High Caliber Men can choose any woman because they are high caliber. And there are a lot of women who are looking for a high caliber. More women are looking for high caliber than men looking for high caliber women. "You just have to look good". That's why he says that women can't be the prize. Men are.

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

When you have STANDARDS!

[@sfoster4874]

😊 VERY HELPFUL. Thank you!

[@vickykinyunyuzi4448]

Hi John what if a man says he wants nothing from a woman,but doesnt say what he really needs.and doesnt communicate much his quiet.what can one do?

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Leave

[@niceworld468]

!!! PLEASE GERMAN TRANSLATION !!!

[@hevoskuiskaaja2008]

I have a question, if the dude moves into the feminine energy at home and wants his wife to do all the masculine things, can it be that he is cheating annd being in the masculine energy with his mistress? Most of the time I was reading about people cheating I noticed that the men usually do it all for the mistress and start to move into their feminine at home. I’d live to hear John’s take on this because I think this has happened to me with my ex.

[@Sunlightsam24]

Interesting question…from all the research, learning and real life dating/relationship experiences, this is what I know. We know how invested a man is by how much he invests of time, listening, humor, money, energy, labor-his actions. If he’s not investing, that doesn’t mean he’s necessarily in his feminine, it means he’s not invested in the relationship. Which makes sense-he’s investing in the relationship with the mistress.

[@lauraa857]

that's why I turn away from feminine guys. XD

[@kitkat129]

I think you are confusing the things!! If a man is mostly on his feminine pole is because his estrogen is high, so he will be this way everywhere with anyone EXCEPT with a person/ situation/ etc, who estimules his testosterona to boost. If he is masculine with his mistress it's problably because she is on her feminine and estimulates the best on him. But it doesn't mean he "spent" it all with her... When he gets home YOU are probably the one taking the masculine hole and making him goes to the feminine. It's more likely a man to cheat because his wife is the masculine of the relationship so he find a mistress to feel "man" again

[@hevoskuiskaaja2008]

@@kitkat129 I myself had to step up because he didn’t, when I tried to move back into my feminine energy he just didn’t move into his masculine. Maybe I should have moved more “forceful” into my fememinine energy. That’s why I’d love to hear what John thinks about this as I think I did my part on that end wrong, too by just realizing I had to do it. One of the reasons I split in the end because I’m better off alone.

[@hevoskuiskaaja2008]

@@lauraa857 He was masculine until he changed job from engineer to teacher. Not sure what exactly happened but it happened around the jobchange.

[@Xrusha_]

Brilliant!

[@Pinky_Pyn]

Thankyou so much for this video! I love it!

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

Hi ❤❤❤❤

[@ninanina4799]

I don’t understand one thing. Yes I am happy with my life and we were good then I got unwell for 3 months. Scared, lonely, ill send him a message from A&E he replied a week later. Does it mean I only have a man when things are great in life. He said I am needy and blaming him for my illness while I wanted contact with my loved one.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

You need to break up with him

[@rebeccaconn389]

Good info 😊

[@MM-mf1vr]

What can be a revard after making dishes?

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Who is doing the dishes

[@gwennie2ful]

I said that today! 😊

[@dianneciresi6324]

And what if he doesn't want to change & set in his ways

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Leave him

[@pennysawell]

If you have him on again I'd be interested to know the authors of the books he recommends "Think and Grow Rich" and "Codependent No More" as there are more than one of each. And any other books (apart from his which of course I've read avidly!) which he recommends for self help.

[@nicolii7321]

If a woman is fine without a man, why would she ask him for help?

[@pamelakapke62]

Women need "help" men need help, men live to do things for their woman!

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

Makes sense 🤭😀💖🍀

[@DaddysDollxo]

It’s easy - NEVER EVER EVER EVER CRITICIZE HIM, ONLY PRAISE AND PHYSICALLY LOVE HIM MORE WHEN HE’S PLEASING YOU - and do not depend on anyone for your happiness

[@sarahrobertson634]

Never criticize him? That is total bs. Men need to learn to accept constructive criticism.

[@lamlucky777]

❤ ❤️ ❤️

[@sarahrobertson634]

@@aleksandrac9335 Right?? As if men can never be criticized. Ridiculous.

[@khrisi9410]

Criticism associate his BAD feelings with you and once that happens it's all downhill. He's grown, he doesn't need to be criticized. If you need to criticize him then leave him.

[@Mayfloweralways]

@@sarahrobertson634 I think it’s more about the delivery. I used to do everything in the relationship with my ex. At one point, he would look around and say, “you didn’t finish that.” It wasn’t what he said, it was his attitude of entitlement and acting like I wasn’t doing enough. That’s why he’s now my ex. So instead of saying “you don’t help enough” it’s more loving to just say “it would really help me out, if you could get the dishes every other night and take out the garbage.” It’s just about better communication.

[@selenasimmons6653]

Acceptance, respected, needed, wanted, secure???? Dude, not in this world today...there r so many issues that will snatch all of tht away from a man...He better find it all within himself....and make a life where HE can discover it and keep it

[@angelsky6869]

Times doesn’t change how we are in nature.

[@jenkech5824]

So true

[@ananichi]

Yeah but those are things outside of our control- this now about doing our job.

[@wonderfulwenna2710]

Tip toeing

[@missvegan1967]

Sorry,but if we both work it shouldn't be a question about doing dishes. Men should just hire a maid!