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[@tabbailey7168]

Talk to your Man like he is First in Position . Talk to the Woman like she is First in priority ✨️

[@LetsTalkWithSawait]

This is by far the best marriage advice and breakdown of men and women I’ve ever heard and I’ve read tons of books on this topic!

[@nuwyne3561]

my conversation with the Lord has always been in reference to my husband,you made him Lord but I don't understand him, help me to understand. OMG, after 44 years of marriage, and I still Love him.

[@user-mt4fw6sh9e]

Dear God loves you its not your work to understand him. Love God. You will be saved by loving God not understanding men

[@audraevans1022]

To show respect for your husband: 1. Don’t put him down. 2. Don’t put him down or embarrass him in front of others. 3. Honor his wishes even when decides something you don’t agree with. 4. Praise him for all good he does. 5. Appreciate and thank God continually for him. Be a godly wife and trust God to make him a godly husband. ♥️

[@user-mt4fw6sh9e]

Blasphemy! God doesn't force salvation its a choice. This has no reward in heaven. You can do this and still go to hell. Marriage is not blasphemy.

[@aringandarobe777]

Wow!!!😭😭😭 what a word!!! For me❤

[@82mytreasure]

I AM BEAUTIFUL. Thank you men of God for this deliberate break down. I receive grace to respect and love my husband, raise godly Children, and make a difference in the world!

[@Toi84Toi]

While physical attraction may be important, it absolutely can not and should not outweigh other things such as character, etc. Because our physical appearance changing is INEVITABLE. So if you take a vow in marriage, "for better or worse, til death do you part", you're ultimately lying if you can't accept that physical appearance changes. It's terrible that some can't get past surface and vain things.

[@emilymyles9424]

This is marriage-saving, life-giving advice

[@Jemsy_1]

Thank you so much, men of God

[@patriciahand2223]

Man needed to leave in heat of argument exactly. The tone I agree. Yes Abba gave that to us. Respect the way the man deals cope.

[@patriciahand2223]

That's what my momma said, there is someone for everyone. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@estherand-israel824]

Wow Pastor Kingsley is so knowledgeable about this field, its amazing. Thank you Heavenly Father for this Knowledge, Am learning, am taking notes.

[@jullietfoabeh338]

Thank you so much pastor for the word of prayer. I receive grace to reconcile all of these differences and to be a good , beautiful, humble and obedient wife to my husband..Truly I have learned alot to get me back on track, Holy Spirit take over.

[@Jeweltones99]

🙌🏼🙌🏼Can you pray about doing a teaching on single moms raising boys?

[@ninalopo]

I agree... Very much needed.

[@nkiruolumide-ojo]

Supported! and welldone already if you are...no mean feat!

[@alicee.6471]

Priceless information 👌 👏

[@F3mal3Titan]

I’m very glad that Tomi mentioned what the woman can do after all “the weapons were taken away” because right about this point I was like yeah I’m walking out I don’t need a baby with an ego to drag around.

[@go2yourself]

Amazing.... as a 60+ woman I remember growing up we as young girls were taught by our mothers and grandmothers how to respond appropriately to the male of the species to prepare for marriage regarded God's biblical essence and order etc.. truth be told, the origins redefining/diminishing of the male is in Gen 3.... with the first recorded excuses for disobedience are Victim and Ignorance from generation to generation especially in the West....I'm sooo very thankful for this conversation...

[@Radiantlady1995]

Thank you Men of God breaking it down for us ! This was meaty! 🔥💪🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@witinvent]

What a powerful and revealing discussion. Absolute KZbin gold!

[@twannawilliams3616]

This is good

[@F3mal3Titan]

This introduction was so melodramatic lol.

[@askdamz9578]

Thank you for this !!! I have a video.om this !!! God.please protect our men in Jesus name!

[@katherinefratello4400]

I agree the emotions I’m getting your book

[@GodlovesU307]

@ 17.00 No wonder, after Eve, God says "he who finds a wife.." However, from what is said, the men could just cohabit with their PAs!!

[@jackiewindom2451]

Awesome awesome awesome I have been to marriage counselors and this is the best teaching I have ever heard. Thank. U so much and God bless u 2

[@Itsaboutthekingdom]

Our own self respect will be what we show and how we will respond. If we do not see ourselves as enough and whole, it will spill over to others. We have to know who we are with/in The Lord are we will continue to act out from our soul... Our own Mind, Will, and emotions. We can't help our King/Queen if we are not mature and secure within ourselves. It really does start at home first... our inner (self) home.

[@venicemcfarlanepinnock7647]

Thank you. This is really helping my marriage 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@iprospernow3422]

Powerful. Thank you. Gentle reminder, meaningful communication, vulnerability, forgiveness and affection is critical.

[@emilymyles9424]

I feel so blessed to come across this information

[@patriciahand2223]

Understand home is were they are celebrated that's right.

[@patriciahand2223]

Exactly master her emotions. Yes, bro., Abigale Yes she did. That's right.

[@JanDoll27]

Oh Wow! This is soooooooo good! Pastor Kingsley and Prophet Tomi, you are a blessing.

[@patriciahand2223]

Beauty is not one set standard of one.

[@monabrown101]

Very interesting. All I can say is WOW

[@iprospernow3422]

Sometimes people are not married because they are under spiritual attack. Satan tries to prevent marriages, but he is a defeated adversary by our Lord & Saviour Jesus Christ / Yeshua Ha Meschiah Amen. 🙏

[@monabrown101]

True... but I also believe one of the greatest weapons to defeat the enemy is information(light) because the devil works in ignorance and lies. When u know truth, it will sett u free and u will know how to break the backbone of stagnation via the truth of the Word, and prayer. Amen.

[@warriorwomenministry8628]

Wowwwwwwwwww…now I understand…Thank you Lord for bringing me revelation to save my relationship! God bless you Pastor!

[@patriciahand2223]

I know for men discussion but it hit all. Awesome bros.🙏🏾💎

[@ashdluciangurl]

These truth bombs almost hurt. Grateful for the conversation about men. I wrote notes y'all! I needed this, I want to get the book. Now we also need Sis Kingley on here helping out brothers out though, cause we be suffering too. With such differences we certainly can't thrive together without lots of adjusting and we want the guys to know how too. cheers

[@joalanemohobane5273]

This is such an important teaching

[@jullietfoabeh338]

Chaiii Lord help us to reconcile these differences

[@patriciahand2223]

She was right.

[@venicemcfarlanepinnock7647]

I am beautiful just the way i am😊😊😊🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@patriciahand2223]

Blessed Blessed Blessed🙏🏾🤴🏾arise🙌👋🥰💃🏾

[@katherinefratello4400]

Hey I disagree with that the aging part and I like a man that takes care of himself too my eyes are being opened and I think when you have knowledge you have wisdom and making the adjustment brings joy

[@joifant8884]

Powerful powerful powerful

[@Gloria-xz7yk]

Amen! Responding to what Prophet stated....I AM BEAUTIFUL!

[@patriciahand2223]

Patients Amen

[@Gina-ks6my]

I AM BEAUTIFUL 😍 🤩 👌🏾 😌 😊

[@Visionaryonewealth]

I neeeded this so much. I'm running to purchase the book.

[@blueskies382]

@20:00 interesting about the confrontation stuff

[@patriciahand2223]

Excellent yes

[@nuwyne3561]

Wow Awesome insight. Thank god I ' have learned to apply many of the "C's" over the years

[@lulu_937]

Love this interview!

[@patriciahand2223]

Good teaching.

[@samanthalodge2405]

Amen.

[@pastorerick]

Wow I this is good I wan that book just for me and I’m a man!

[@gracekim8680]

Amen

[@patriciahand2223]

Go serve

[@Gibeah]

Actually... I need freedom too. But I tie it to power, not money. That's why it's witchcraft, not wizardcraft...

[@marciabundura2960]

Amen. Thank you!

[@Gibeah]

Duuuuude... I NEVER talk to ANYONE just for affection :'D this is sad... I actually don't understand casual chatting... I'm obviously F.

[@Gloria-xz7yk]

This is interesting 🤔

[@katherinefratello4400]

This is so good !

[@davidloverofchrist]

Interesting !!! 😍😆😊

[@borensj]

This is a beautiful video

[@carolhopetyler2178]

I am beautiful.

[@pan_bulencja6553]

Muito obrigado. A muito tempo procuro um mod assim.

[@blueskies382]

Interesting that tone matters 🤔

[@estherkwanga3973]

🙌🙌🔥🔥

[@Rita-23]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥

[@patriciahand2223]

Favor in the wife. Alright. Truth.

[@patriciahand2223]

What about the men who want their woman to be "Super Woman.?"

[@ireokoh1003]

I wish to join your channel, but my payment methods get denied. How do I do that?

[@sapnashroff6176]

I'm sorry but it's beyond disappointing to see that Tomi Araiyomi is so easily approving of this "marriage advice". His return is at the corner and you guys still not get it. A wife I( or a husband) is NOT a project. Jesus did not just gather information on his bride and then go on to doing some other work because one project was over. And asking tht women should just kinda line up to their needs for "freedom" is plain out umbilical. This does not lineup with ephes 5.

[@sapnashroff6176]

This just sounds like a lot of worldly psychology to me

[@sarahlouise8089]

Agreed. This doesn't resonate with the scriptures at all. And just seems to be random human understanding which is falliable.

[@Gibeah]

Project minded... am I. Actually. a GUY? I am INTENSELY project minded... to the point where I don't move until I have a clear objective with practical steps... Jesus is more of a creative actually :'D he's the content of the neverending story

[@patriciahand2223]

The women do too much love their way. And not what was needed in the area in which to yes respect.

[@winstonk400]

Real life Hitch!!! C'mon!!!

[@amberh3333]

No sound on mine

[@TomiArayomi]

Please refresh and try again

[@moniquedvibe]

So I listened to everything, I seek answers. I got married unknown to me what I was doing, I was very naive, it was whatever my hubby I did, to the point I lost my vision, because I didn't know self when I got married, my hubby got drunk with work and no passion/attention for me, even when I communicated to him but he called it nagging. 3years into marriage he lost his job, and chose to come show me love , but I was already far gone emotionally. He started assaulting even when I became the bread winner of the house, I became like a man, while he argued and said I dnt respect him anymore. I was just a naive peaceful girl who became tough, learnt to secure myself because he wasnt giving me all forms of security since day one of marriage, 8years into this, I have found myself, though hes still struggling, i have become more of a solution in businesses but disconnected in heart from me, I have become bitter, angry, that It seems I cnt breathe around him. I asked we get separated so I get myself away from the toxic place I have become used to and now in a body I dnt like, but he doesn't want to separate, I dnt want divorce but I need to get myself coz I hate how I've being treating him due to 8years of bad experience in marriage, m so confused now, that I dnt even want to go home..I need help pls

[@sadraolaedo4733]

Girl if you know what is good for you DIVORCE that man before you lose your sanity. This is the problem with alot black women, they feel there is no option once they leave the man driving them CRAZY. You married the wrong man ACCEPT your mistake DIVORCE now or you will look back and REGRET. Jesus values your wellbeing and sanity over any so called bondage, you are presently thinking is marriage. Remember OSINACHI, she stayed and died. There is a man out there who will love and cherish you.

[@intercessorsforthenations7447]

Hello my dear, if your husband is willing to attend counselling with you, I will advise you take a step towards this urgently. Pls ensure it is a trained Christian Marriage counsellor, adding prayers in your understanding and Holy Spirit. However, if your husband is violent towards you, then act fast. May God direct you in Jesus name.

[@moniquedvibe]

@@intercessorsforthenations7447 thank you somuch, God bless you.

[@lawrencewelsh9459]

Hey Sis...I think the Lord led me down here to read your comment. It sounds like your desire is for your marriage to be healed. So I'm not bringing any condemnation by saying that God HATES divorce (Malachi 2:16) and so do we. I'm trying to bring this encouragement: if God hates it, then He will do everything that His daughter asks Him to do to defeat it. I pray that the Lord gives you a husband who has been transformed into the image of Messiah. And I know He will do it.

[@moniquedvibe]

@@lawrencewelsh9459 thank you somuch I really need healing in this marriage but I'm so far gone, I need to be good for self first because if I'm okay I will be able to give love naturally ..one can't give from an empty cup.