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@jackiek41594 жыл бұрын
I think it's soo disrespectful for a man to be liking other women's photos when he's in a relationship! Ladies, if your man is doing this, you need to get yourself a new man! 💯
@shirleystarnes7334 жыл бұрын
Its hard to do when u are 73 years old . ! He is 64. . . he is suffering bad these days. Good !!!
@MsJames-po9dx3 жыл бұрын
Mines is he so sneaky leaving that behind it’s a wrap he don’t love me
@Mina-rb5ut3 жыл бұрын
They all do it.
@allyb51563 жыл бұрын
My husband was doing this . When I found out and told him I don't like it and to stop doing it because he's a married man, He got defensive saying she's a friend from highschool and he don't see what the "big deal is". I told him not only is it disrespectful but it's also that's embarrassing for me as a woman to have my husband giving other women attention in that way. I told him I will not put up with it and don't do it again.
@AfricanAsianQueen3 жыл бұрын
I feel you. It depends on the nature of the photo. My husband has facebook and has checked liked on many of female photos who are also my facebook friends. We know most of these women personally through our professions and church. These photos my husband checks "likes" are no where near dressing provacative or anything inappropriate. My husband and I discussed this. He said he checked "like" is because of the joy of the Lord she is expressing. And many of these women we both know are over comers of tribulations they have been through. And he is happy to see they are doing better with their lives. It is rare when he checks "like" on female photos. I'm grateful my husband is respectful towards me. The same is with me. I NEVER check "like" on a males photo. When I do it is family members. Other men I rarely check "like" on a man's photo is when he is posing with his wife, girlfriend, family or other people and when they have made an accomplishment in their lives. Whenever my husband puts a "thumbs up " emoji is for an encouragement because the woman has overcame an obstacle in something.
@Sharice_4 жыл бұрын
You can tell a lot about a man and where his mindset is based on the people he follows on social media.
@lexusqueenz15394 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am I know that’s the truth
@tazthemania3 жыл бұрын
Same goes to a woman too
@lashondarochell75843 жыл бұрын
Yes you definitely can find out that the man is full of lust especially all those half naked women, they are following on FB. It lets you know if you are dealing with a grown man or "grown boy" I am so glad I have deactivated my Facebook account and I don't miss it, I am not going back on it, You definitely will have peace of mind.
@Sharice_3 жыл бұрын
@@tazthemania it definitely goes both ways, however most women are not following a bunch of half naked men. we mainly follow other women.
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@krissypowers55414 жыл бұрын
Social media has no place in a true relationship.
@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax4 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯
@JustBeYouTy4 жыл бұрын
Agreed it’s a deal breaker for me.
@saywhatondat4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ieshjust163 жыл бұрын
I'm learning 😭
@EadsB70029 ай бұрын
agreed. if two people are in a serious commitment, there should be little to no social media activity...i.e. following, liking, commenting on the opposite sex's photos.
@ChaeThompson4 жыл бұрын
Dating in this society is absolutely draining. Makes me want to stay single forever
@charlottedover5912 жыл бұрын
Keep praising God; waiting; learning; and preparing. It can be very discouraging; however we need to know this so that we can give the boot to the dum men/boys!!
@charlottedover5912 жыл бұрын
dumb- I cannot spell!
@Ultrawicked2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same . Feel like I dont belong in a relationship. I'm too loyal.
@live4him2192 жыл бұрын
I feel you. It definitely gives you that vibe for sure. Got to stay positive and optimistic though. Hard though
@MM-zf2zl2 жыл бұрын
Ugh me too.
@ew07114 жыл бұрын
Seems like men are looking for what they think is a "perfect woman", when in reality no one is perfect. (Most) Women are looking for pure honest love.
@StephaniesWorld74 жыл бұрын
E White So true. That’s why we need to love ourselves, have self worth and respect for selves so we don’t accept anything that goes against our morals and beliefs.
@ew07114 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniesWorld7 self love & respect is the key 🔑
@tanitrarobinson74774 жыл бұрын
That's the problem, the men aren't pure....
@johnmanzon54684 жыл бұрын
So, whats uo with them girls that say I want a six foot guy, with hella money and a car and a deep voice, that isn't pure honest love. Everypne has types, everyone has their perfect man/women it just takes the right one.
@tazthemania3 жыл бұрын
Women are looking for what? Hahah women are looking for onlyfans. Women doesn’t love infact women doesn’t know what love is. Men are the ones looking for pure honest love. Women are all about what a man can do for them.
@lekeshial4184 жыл бұрын
"Be careful that you marry a teammate, and not a SECRET opponent." Sheesh!! That hit!
@Abishaiah4 жыл бұрын
Sis! Hit hard. The truth ain't always pretty
@genetriamills28472 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said
@hanishamarshall33412 жыл бұрын
Been there done that. In college. He started to literally compete with me in every way. 🤷🏽♀️
@CA2SD4 жыл бұрын
If a man is taking photos...he has social media. Don't feel special that he's sending them to you. He's sending them also to Karen, Debbie, and Melissa too.
@92681 Жыл бұрын
You are so right. I thought the video he sent me he made just for me. I found out he was on Tik Tok and saw the same video. I was upset and hurt...I no longer felt special. Social media is the devil.
@Su-du3mh Жыл бұрын
Ain't that the truth!
@melissaconklin-wk5um9 ай бұрын
Sounds familiar
@CharlieBrown8433 ай бұрын
Facts 😂😂😂
@phugh38784 жыл бұрын
Honestly its a turn off if a grown man 30+ has all those social medias.... Tell me why a 30+ man needs a fb, instagram, tik tok , whatsapp, AND more ??
@Sabrina111134 жыл бұрын
That’s just childish. I like my men bout business! If a grown man actually has tik top throw that grown boy away 😂
@behindthescenesreviews68584 жыл бұрын
Don’t leave out Snapchat like these guys really be driving in their car with a camera in their face with the music playing 😂
@TiffanyFG4 жыл бұрын
When you put it that way, funny, lol-- makes you think.
@clarkclarke4 жыл бұрын
men and women wasting so much time on Social Media...the woman with a big booty is just that ...a woman with a big booty ....she could have a nasty attitude etc ....same with men....all that glitters is not gold ..🙃
@pinkkisses92904 жыл бұрын
Especially tiktok yuck isn't that for late teens early twenties???🤣
@Beautytrends77 Жыл бұрын
I just broke up with someone because of this. We went on a 5 day vacation and he posted all these pics and videos of himself that I took of him and not one of me and him. I brought it up to him and he said he want to keep his life private, meanwhile he posted 10 videos of our trip with none of me in it. When I brought it up he said he didn’t want to talk about it again. I brought it up again and he got defensive and I told him I know why he was doing it because he wants to be portrayed as single online and I wasn’t putting up with it. He always was adding someone new, liking pics and always active online. We met on instagram so why would it be any different. I’m glad I walked away! I won’t be hidden.
@badcoordinates4 ай бұрын
This happens to me. Almost to the T! It's so so hurtful. He says he wants his life private. But posts all the pics and videos that I take of him! He blocked me on fb. Then unblocked me. Hearting other girls pics but not mine. Then I asked him nicely who someone was and why he was putting hearts on her pics and he told me sorry it made you feel like there's something going on. There's not. But that's the thing. I didn't think that until he said it! And my red flag radar is going off like crazy. :/
@Beautytrends774 ай бұрын
@@badcoordinates it’s just a turn off and so childish. It just reminds me of something a young boy would do, these are grown men surfin social media to gawk at women as if they never seen them before.
@Tarahsays4 жыл бұрын
This is why when I meet a man if he has social media, I watch him ! I don’t mention what I see but I take note and we don’t last more than 3 weeks. If we do last more than that I live to regret it. Believe this word ladies this is not to be played with...
@rachellove47974 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@StaceysYouTube4 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing I won't like them, follow them, or interact with them like a fan or female on some roster. I will just sit back and watch and observe cause your actions online vs offline will tell me all I need to know.
@StephaniesWorld74 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Machenziethemodel4 жыл бұрын
😆 mines is 2 weeks. First red flag I’m out 😆
@dmk78264 жыл бұрын
🗣YES!!!....this is 100% true👏 I seen the signs and ignored them and two yrs invested man oh man did i regret this🤦🏻♀️
@tamco923 жыл бұрын
A lustful man is a man you do not need in your life. They will always be looking for the next best thing. He has 600 followers and he follows 2000 plus people and more than half of them are half nekkid women 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 run!
@LorenzoMasterConnector3 ай бұрын
Don’t start
@tamco923 ай бұрын
@@LorenzoMasterConnector you must be a lustful man.
@16Alessandra16 күн бұрын
Omg 😂 the guy I was seeing had 200 followers and was following 1200 only fans models and instagram thots. Instant turn off! 🤢
@tiffanyjoyce4614 жыл бұрын
Oh lord jesus, he giving up all the secrets. Jesus protect him& his family.
@womanofgod29484 жыл бұрын
Yes, protect him Lord. He's exposing all the dirty linen and allowing women to be set free from lies and bondages. Cover him under your precious blood from the fiery darts and arrows of the enemy. 🙏
@bflores39444 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@amberlagore10954 жыл бұрын
❤️ Amen!!!
@rachelleenterprise80724 жыл бұрын
You best believe this man IS protected
@lizagonzalez9524 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo! 😂😂👍
@queenlauralee474 жыл бұрын
"Marry a partner not a secret opponent" Yes!!
@tarao43824 жыл бұрын
I admit🤷🏾♀️ I judge people by what/who they are following. If he is following a whole bunch of big booty Judy's. RED FLAGS 🚩🚩🚩🚩 Turn OFF instantly🙅🏾♀️
@mntw60624 жыл бұрын
Tara O big booty Judies that’s a good one
@tarao43824 жыл бұрын
@@mntw6062 I promise they are all over social media. Unbelievable🤦🏾♀️
@LadyAngela6784 жыл бұрын
I dont like people that use Instagram because I think theyre superficial.
@mariahmaxton15444 жыл бұрын
If a grown man over 30 is on social media more than my 18 yr old son...yea it’s a hard no for me. 🙄
@elizabethschilling71784 жыл бұрын
This is so true! I was married to such a godly man that I had access to all of his social media, his phone, his email, etc. I pray to God I receive another one like him. RIP Mr. Schilling. 🙏
@frencheleerving3 жыл бұрын
Rip to your awesome husband I hope I experience such a love....
@elizabethschilling71783 жыл бұрын
@@frencheleerving In Jesus name you will. ❤🙏
@mcsilva82232 жыл бұрын
But that's saaaad.. what happend omgg
@hymnodyhands2 жыл бұрын
My deepest condolences to you.
@KerrysKitchen1999 Жыл бұрын
I had access to my husband's accounts and he said I was controlling because of that
@sha_la0074 жыл бұрын
Preach!!! Women need to stop making their sons their husbands!!! That is a word right here!!!
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
So true in their 40 and 50 running back to momma house.
@g.i.36824 жыл бұрын
shaylas78 love them but raise them, not spoil them
@marishalewis4844 жыл бұрын
shaylas78 💯
@eet60674 жыл бұрын
I agree. This reminds me of the show Soul Food when Byrd's husband was too close to his mother. Byrd didn't like it.
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
The TRUTH shall set you free. Everything you said is true Tony. Ladies stop with the I’m not the jealous type because guess what you’re making it easier for him to cheat in peace.
@meshacole14214 жыл бұрын
Glamrocs Makeup yes that one!
@marishalewis4844 жыл бұрын
Glamrocs Makeup Yes all truth.
@LeoGrl_824 жыл бұрын
Now that'll PREACH!
@sharicebryant81494 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Too many women are worries abt “being his peace”. Meanwhile, he’s wreaking havoc bc you sitting there being peaceful when you need to put your foot down.
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
Ms Sippigrl82 Sis... a whole sermon and benediction
@prettytaurus36714 жыл бұрын
I don’t even like being friends with men I date on social media. It’s almost a guarantee that if I liked him before seeing is Instagram, I’ll dislike him once I see that he’s friends with too many IG models or too many women in general. Men think I’m petty for cutting them off for this. But it always bothered me and your message just confirmed what I knew in my spirit. Tony this message was everything!
@CaramelKissez4 жыл бұрын
You're not petty at all. You're doing right.
@WILLIAMS35able4 жыл бұрын
WOW
@mntw60624 жыл бұрын
Tony, you’re a beacon of light in our messed up world. I love how you said we need real relationships and real bonds in our society. Interesting how you said our society is being controlled by porn. Porn hides under layers and layers but so many involved in it. I also like how you said you don’t like viewing women who objectify themselves because of what it does to your spirit.
@willLLIt4 жыл бұрын
Same here!!!! Social media tends to show u the actual person!
@mntw60624 жыл бұрын
I admire you so much thank you for inspiring me to do the same thing, PrettyTaurus
@jellijell21504 жыл бұрын
Yes social media is the devil, when u using it wrong. And I HAD a grown boy. We argued abt the same crap. Tried to make me think I was insecure cuz he wanted to continue to like female photos, and that’s just the beginning. But glad to say I woke up and moved on. I knew I wasn’t crazy. I felt it was wrong in my spirit and thank God for keeping my eyes open.
@katherineroberts56984 жыл бұрын
Chica, you aren't crazy. I had went through something similar way back. We didn't date long chica...lol
@jellijell21504 жыл бұрын
We didn’t either maybe 6/7mths. And at the end he was saying how he wanted to fix things and how he really liked me. I was gone mentally so by then I was gone physically.
@carlinebaker15654 жыл бұрын
Jelli jell I know this 55 year old man who use social media liking,flirting,IM and DM with women I had to remove myself from his circle, I’m not boosting his ego!
@jazzy92824 жыл бұрын
Yes girl I had this grown boy like pictures of women he knew! In their thongs bent over in camera I'm like so that's what you like? That is just the tip of the iceberg
@najahharvey4 жыл бұрын
I swear I just went through this
@LakeishaGoudy4 жыл бұрын
Men make it seem like it’s no big deal with the likes on pictures that are inappropriate but I’ve always had an issue with that. If a man can’t respect your relationship and let the disrespectful behavior go then he’s definitely not the one. I’m at the point where I’m not allowing any men to waste my time. When red flags pop up and I bring it up but the disrespectful behavior continues I’m out. 🚩🙅🏾♀️
@phugh38784 жыл бұрын
If he's following half naked girls even BEFORE knowing you, he's not a quality man.
@LakeishaGoudy4 жыл бұрын
Larry Lobsta Facts! That’s a red flag. 🚩
@Stephanie-cl4fu2 жыл бұрын
Yup. I'm at the same stage. Really tired of men's bullshit. I currently still want to be single (only a year being single) and this is the reason why.
@onlybebeth2 жыл бұрын
That’s what I’m doing right this minute sis
@noreenr49222 жыл бұрын
Yup, me too
@cheekscheeks58404 жыл бұрын
This topic here men are going to shake the roof with this one
@vallariestephens28534 жыл бұрын
Yep!!!
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
Welp! They’re going to be mad 😠.
@kenishalperkins4 жыл бұрын
Yes they’re not going to like this. AT ALL !!
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
Indeed.
@tiarose53103 жыл бұрын
Good.
@geechiepolo3 жыл бұрын
This shit killing me man. I love my girl she my bestfriend...i thought it was harmless...never even thought bout how it would affect her...fellas leave the pics alone...i don't want no one else!!!
@AStarozzy893 жыл бұрын
U smart
@pennyspov3 жыл бұрын
Wise man!! MhmS Yes, make your girl feel like the most beautiful queen in the world, don’t ever make her feel any less! You got this!!!
@hymnodyhands3 жыл бұрын
Much respect, sir, for THINKING and REALIZING and RESPECTING the effect that social media use has on the one you love.
@mcsilva82232 жыл бұрын
Bless u brother
@wyneshawallace2162 жыл бұрын
Wise..my brother. GOD BLESS! 💯🙏
@rsi1714 жыл бұрын
This man is truly anointed. PERIODT.
@ladyboss384 жыл бұрын
Yes, point blank periODD!
@janiedavis4774 жыл бұрын
Point, blank, periaaaad!
@itstimefortea45824 жыл бұрын
You can tell the grown boys on social media vs the grown men. They use the platform totally different & if you’re dating a man and find something disrespectful but receive no apology or removal of post? RUN sis, because that’s the same disrespect you’ll receive in real life.
@EadsB70029 ай бұрын
100%!! been there...done that... don't think it's gonna be any different!
@domt45883 жыл бұрын
I just ended it with a guy I was seeing for 4 months. He was always commenting on others women’s pics...but never mine. And these were not just regular pics...they were all seductive. I confronted him and he denied it! Really? He can have them...I’m done! Stay away from these men ladies!! Far away!!
@theejadadiamondd4210 Жыл бұрын
Facts so hurtful 😞💔
@desireeangelicmelodies8709 Жыл бұрын
No they don’t lol I’ve come across a few
@EadsB70029 ай бұрын
way to go!! the sooner you get these types of men out of your life, the happier you'll be!
@caitlinmontgomery9172 жыл бұрын
I've found this after telling my boyfriend I'm not comfortable with him following half naked IG women. I work as a model, and I've been that woman having her photos liked/commented on by taken men. It doesn't feel good for any of the women involved! Luckily my boyfriend immediately unfollowed these accounts - so please believe there are good men out there. Having standards does not make you 'insecure', it means you love yourself and know you deserve the best.
@nbellas2 ай бұрын
My bf did the same. He unfollowed most. He doesn’t like the sexy nekkid pics (I think bc he doesn’t want me to see) but he still likes their selfies? That’s wrong right? Am I overreacting bc now it’s only hot selfies?
@Alixir1228Ай бұрын
@@nbellasnah, it's not okay because he's entertaining them and feeding their egos.
@angelicagabrieli71694 жыл бұрын
I've always known that a taken man should not like other women's photos. Intuition never lies.Thank you Tony for such a blessed and wise video!
@BrittneySamoneSilver4 жыл бұрын
"We need real relationships, we need healthy relationships, we need real bonds." 💯
@tiffanys.42504 жыл бұрын
Your messages are getting more powerful every day.
@mayra.akamymy4 жыл бұрын
T. S. Fr
@TRIPLEMLUXE4 жыл бұрын
Yess indeed!!
@montricec87954 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
@@TRIPLEMLUXE So RIGHT!
@rachellove47974 жыл бұрын
This is sad.🤣 I'm just going to enjoy single life.
@lillianpitts98534 жыл бұрын
I am after my divorce and I'm a be happy as hell
@MsToofish4 жыл бұрын
Single is the new Peace
@rachellove47974 жыл бұрын
I can't play these games to get and keep a man. It's just not worth it.
@lillianpitts98534 жыл бұрын
@@MsToofish amen
@user-iw8vg6rd4y4 жыл бұрын
I'm With you! This was the last try for me. The sad part is mine will be 50 years old at the end of the year!
@kyradshae20434 жыл бұрын
“Point blank Periyod” gets me every time 😂
@c.l.93443 жыл бұрын
He needs to put that on a t-shirt.
@lynnmaria644 жыл бұрын
yes just broke up with someone after 8 months had enough of his disrespect. Liking and LOVING women everyday and young girls too! so pissed but should have listened to my intuition from the beginning.
@alicshahickman9844 жыл бұрын
“Get thee behind me satan” 🙌🏽
@behindthescenesreviews68584 жыл бұрын
Yea this topic is something everybody need to hear!! You got men who got 4000 and 5000 Facebook friends and majority of them are women they liking every picture and the worst part is the ♥️. The disrespect is out there in the open for everyone to see they all in the comments being thirsty and a lot of them are even married or in relationships. This $Cash App thing is now a new way for men to pay for sex. I ask myself do people with morals and values even exist anymore??
@Ummkelechi4 жыл бұрын
MISS LADY sis you said a mouthful
@mstiffthaboss91944 жыл бұрын
I hear you it is so sad
@shirlsshirls85944 жыл бұрын
MISS LADY 💯
@lillianpitts98534 жыл бұрын
Yes so true my soon to ex did that facebook help to expose pics he shared I never got
@Machenziethemodel4 жыл бұрын
So that’s what that mean when they ask you for your cash app. Wow. I’m so out the loop.
@HisaLight2mypath3 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm saying please be happy single ladies. Men bring nothing but pain and heartache unless you're really lucky to find a decent one
@TheCakediva082 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I'm just gonna put my energy into school
@tiffanyjoyce4614 жыл бұрын
Oh heavenly father please please please continue to cover, "the Gaskins family " with your blood & blessing. Keep them safe... Lord jesus bind those that even have a thought to do anything negative to this family.
@patwilson12574 жыл бұрын
Tiffany Joyce In JESUS name. Amen.
@nijaelinflorida4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@janiedavis4774 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏
@amandacowham8465 Жыл бұрын
This guy is completely spot on. I’m ending this this week . Wish me luck ladies.
@angiedee51244 жыл бұрын
"When he follows loose booty 901,"😂😂😂
@tameekaharris64254 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax4 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@janiedavis4774 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@officialwatchamber4 жыл бұрын
Angie Dee 😂😂😂😂
@staceyboyd45084 жыл бұрын
Lol loose booty
@duckypam4 жыл бұрын
🤦🏼♀️I feel after watching this that I’m gonna be single forever!
@mrsce39064 жыл бұрын
Man...that's how I be feeling. These dudes play way too many games. I have no time.
@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax4 жыл бұрын
Me too and I'd rather be than deal with this shit. Too much drama and negative energy.
@Ashley-id2cb3 ай бұрын
It's ok to be single. Most Men are too sneaky, lustful, and full of deceit. Very rare to find a honest man...
@reina_017984 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom for God, Tony. I am 17 years old and so glad i found your videos at this age, and I dont know what I would be like without your videos. I ordered a woman’s influence and I’ve been reading it ever since it got delivered. God bless you and your family!!!
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
Bless you Sis and congrats on the early start you're getting!
@MahoganyClark4 жыл бұрын
🖖🏾 ayee I'm 20 at least I'm not the only young one..❤
@nikkirowland4 жыл бұрын
Reina Huff so proud of you sis for taking in this info at such an early age. You are about to save yourself from so much heartache and foolishness as long as you put these lessons to use. God bless you, keep up the good work on self love ✨
@coachnatishamommatish1854 жыл бұрын
@ Reina That's a blessing baby stay on the right path on your journey your listening to a real man of God amen All 🙌🙌🙌🙏✍TRUTHS 👑💃❤
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾 you're doing amazing love! Keep it going! 💖🌼
@krystalgardiner55913 жыл бұрын
Social media is the devil’s playground
@kalisseaya Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, society blames everything on women. Call us insecure & over thinkers. No were just logical thinkers. Great video ✨
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
Agreed Tony, that you won't find too many men that are 100% single! I know firsthand that If a man you're dating says "You haven't seen me talking to or posted up with another woman online" yet he's liking other bare booty women's posts... that's a red flag!! You may not see his full activity, he may say he's single but that doesn't mean its true!! 🙌🏾
@giftednanointedcrafts66504 жыл бұрын
Ðemetria Ͼalvin They can hide thier activity online n dating apps. ive experienced that one for myself. he was talking to other women but was trying to be sneaky about it. 🤔🤔
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I know some hide, living double, & triple lives. It's a shame, and then they insult your intelligence thinking you won't find out but if you pay close attention to their actions, you'll spot their inconsistencies.
@lalavargo4 жыл бұрын
Laughing and healing right now. Stay blessed
@CaramelKissez4 жыл бұрын
God bless you 🤎
@katrinamccreary64114 жыл бұрын
Same here 🙏💌
@elainegomillion9784 жыл бұрын
Girl, you and me and all the other good women out here.
@theejadadiamondd4210 Жыл бұрын
Same ❤️
@seraphinasb9884 жыл бұрын
I'm not the type to look into my mans phone. But the day I suspected something going on with my (now ex) husband so much was happening on social media and in text messages. He had secret apps etc but the issue was he was following men. I thought it was suspect to follow all these men working out I noticed the gym trainers were all gay, and he didnt even work out. Needless to say he was on the down low and it was an awful experience. Once I found out things got crazy, as I had discovered his secret and he never intended for that to happen. It's so sad because I recently seen him flirting with more woman online and they have no idea that he is a minister, divorced, or gay. I was a virgin when I married him. I just Thank The Most high for protection. Be careful and trust your intuition and the Holy Spirit.
@millybadze21174 жыл бұрын
The Treatment Room May God Almighty continue to cover you! It is well with you! He never leaves you nor forsake you even with all the hurtful and painful things we go through🙏🏽Stay blessed my sis!
@bre_s91644 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! God was looking out for you!
@rosieramos37604 жыл бұрын
Always follow your gut,it will never fail you
@seraphinasb9884 жыл бұрын
@@millybadze2117 Thank you!
@clarkclarke4 жыл бұрын
Glad you found out ...I cannot imagine that experience however so happy you are on the other side 🙏🏿 be well ...be safe
@sydnei2111 ай бұрын
This is so true. I’ve been dealing with this for 3 years. I finally broke it off with him two months ago. His response was you’re leaving me for liking women pictures on Instagram you’re insecure af. I’m so glad I made that decision because it’s literally a game for these grown boys.
@EadsB70029 ай бұрын
you absolutely did the right thing, sis. those types of men are only there to waste your time! they are never serious about the relationship....else they wouldn't need to be following and liking photos of random women! actions and behavior say it all.
@mike6199 ай бұрын
As a man, I can honestly say if you’ve never met those women in real life to asses them (if he said they’re just friends).. then you’ve made a great longterm decision. If I keep liking a girl’s pics, I’m subconsciously, signaling that I’m wishy washy about who I’m currently dating and not being intentional. Something I stopped doing after I was 25yrs old
@Ashley-id2cb3 ай бұрын
Good for you.
@agnespoku49934 жыл бұрын
I followed the IG of a guy who wanted to get to know me. He had an insane number of selfie posts and an insane number of posts of big booty women. I told him, "Your IG makes me wanna throw up". I unfollowed him and stopped dealing with him.
@nikkirowland4 жыл бұрын
agnes poku whenever I see them with a bunch of selfies or videos of them just doing nothing but trying to look sexy in front of the camera I’m immediately turned off. I already know they’re just out here thirst trappin
@mrs.haynes-r5z4 жыл бұрын
@@nikkirowland me too or constantly working out in the gym with close-ups
@officialwatchamber4 жыл бұрын
agnes poku 🔥🔥🔥
@shanepruitt27154 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, women RAISE their daughters and BABY their sons....that’s the problem!!!
@gail_71923 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.That is the problem.
@NaomiRGlee4 жыл бұрын
Social Media can be used for the good or the extreme bad. It's like good and evil.
@queenlauralee474 жыл бұрын
Social media destroys relationships...for sure!! Thanks for giving us the real deal...
@tatums.74724 жыл бұрын
Half the time the women they have is just as nice looking or better looking this still don't matter to some men.
@kristabistaify2 жыл бұрын
Yupppppp. The guy I see says oh I don't like her she's trashy and desperate for attention. You're gorgeous and classy. Whatdya know.... he's liked every single pic last six months of her...even the spread eagle ones
@africanqueen52924 жыл бұрын
It's hard to find genuine love in today's world.😔💔. Thank you Tony for taking the time out to make this video
@zahraali81614 жыл бұрын
People don't need social media but what they really need is to listen to God. As God said he don't bless a masse God is pure love..¡¡¡
@CoachHC4 жыл бұрын
This was the truth on here. Majority of the men I know especially over 40 on social media trying to see if they still got it. Posting pics of there body and sending them to the DM. These are men with good jobs/ careers but still living grown boy mentality.. Be Blessed!!
@CaramelKissez4 жыл бұрын
Facts! I don't even respond.
@TheFactsofLife2374 жыл бұрын
I also ignore those grown boys! If you are not man enough to talk to me in person, don’t waste my time!
@mrs.haynes-r5z4 жыл бұрын
Yes they are
@phugh38784 жыл бұрын
Men over 40 on social media are damaged goods.
@sc7404 жыл бұрын
H Cohane yes yes yes yes. Omg. Especially that last part.
@kaoshi_kutie4 жыл бұрын
#WORD!! if a guy has lots of selfies and follows alot of Women that's a red flag for me 😩🚩🙅🏽♀️
@photogenicshea48014 жыл бұрын
Whoaaaaa buddy!!!! Tony is out here giving FREE GAME!!!! Dated a grown boy for 2 years- never gave me passwords and didn’t wanna post me. Thought we were building trust- whole time he had another woman- the ENTIRE TIME WE WERE TOGETHER!!! Ladies just follow your gut instincts- your not wrong.
@salomeyul4 жыл бұрын
I used to think that I could not ask any man to give me his codes because that was an invasion, but at the same time, I would always find my way in their social media because I could feel that they were up to something. Every single time I checked I would find trash. All cheaters. So nowadays and thanks to Tony, I know that I cannot accept any guy saying no to me reading his texts. I never had a problem with showing mine, and even believed that it was a wrong thing to ask, that it came out of my insecurities. Never again. Thank you Tony, I listen to you every day and I am learning so much about myself! Now I know that I will stay single and abstinent until the day I meet a real Man. Bless you!
@Butterfly-cu4ex Жыл бұрын
Social media can’t destroy relationships without participation. So it’s the people using social that destroy their own relationships.
@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven24 күн бұрын
Temptation becomes a sin when you give in.
@rosagreene43644 жыл бұрын
I don’t usually comment but I’m so glad you touched on this. I’ve literally been thinking about this topic for the past month looking for answers because I felt like I was overreacting. This just confirms what I was feeling. God is definitely working through you.
@CaramelKissez4 жыл бұрын
God bless you!
@staceyboyd45084 жыл бұрын
Your definitely not over reacting . Lol cia 😂
@MiaCarter73 жыл бұрын
Amen
@agnespoku49934 жыл бұрын
Reporting for class!
@angiedee51244 жыл бұрын
If only I had seen this video 6 years ago, it would've saved me from a lot of pain 🥀
@mariahharris25062 жыл бұрын
Me too
@michellemiller8512 Жыл бұрын
True story
@EadsB70029 ай бұрын
same....so many of us learn the hard way. i always tell other women to move on the minute you notice his true character....because regardless of what he's telling you, he's not serious about the relationship if he can't respect it.
@xodierra3 жыл бұрын
When he said “Michelle Obama” I lost it 😂😂😂 because these men know exactly what they’re doing!
@fah2324 жыл бұрын
I really feel that's why this pandemic was allowed to happen, we need to down and reflect on our lives and get back to the center. We are out of control, all morals are gone. Thank you.
@ieshjust163 жыл бұрын
This 💯
@mariahconklin41502 жыл бұрын
I know mine were a couple years ago but I’m glad to have them back
@shirleystarnes7334 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband to girls on Facebook , an dating sites . I HATEthat site. I am divorced and very lonely now . I wished there was NO such thing as social media . Thank. . you girls for destroying my life . I hope it happens to you one day . !!!
@smiles95994 жыл бұрын
Awww sweety he wasn't worth it.
@LolaSemone4 жыл бұрын
You forgot to blame your husband for his part in it was well. Both are to blame! He destroyed your life as well and I’ll never understand why women go along with this nonsense
@teefosterx43982 жыл бұрын
It ain’t the women’s fault though
@Ashley-id2cb3 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry... it was his fault. He had no control.
@110718744 жыл бұрын
Social media will hold you captive. Know when to shut it down.
@savonnafoxchamp53712 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. My relationship was just broken up tonight over social media. I was told I’m crazy for this very conversation. Bless you and your wife. I’m glad it’s still relationships out here putting God first. Very good advice.
@murielgonzalez71542 жыл бұрын
It’s been 2 weeks and I keep thinking that it was my fault, maybe was overreacting. He commented on another girls video and the bad part is that he knew her. I asked him why he hurt me? And he responded “no one hurt me.. how I felt was based on myself”. But it’s disrespectful.. specially after catching him DM other females.
@pamelabledsoe26352 жыл бұрын
@@murielgonzalez7154 i’m sorry 😢 i felt that i feel like 🥊 him
@murielgonzalez71542 жыл бұрын
@@pamelabledsoe2635 Aww thank you! ❤️ I’m heart broken about it, but I know I deserve better. Now I am able to see the real him and this taught me a valuable lesson not to ignore the red flags!
@misslacolebaby7342 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t worth your time, run.
@goddesstingz87054 жыл бұрын
Watching this made me unfollow so many pages that didn’t serve me on Social Media, if I want my future man to move right on social media I must do the same as well, this helped me to look at me for sure 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
@jmc1111_3 жыл бұрын
THIS
@hymnodyhands2 жыл бұрын
WISDOM!!!! As you discipline your life, you become qualified for the circle of people on the same journey!
@tmakesha1987252 жыл бұрын
Yes Most definitely help with growth
@daree764 жыл бұрын
34:40 I lived this. Before my husband died he went to the hospital a lot and I would have to get into his phone to update his social media so everybody could be aware. He never had a problem with me knowing his passwords.
@LIVH_Olivia4 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss 🙏🏽
@LucreziaGirelli4 жыл бұрын
I found out that my ex was a dog checking his Instagram activities. A 40-year-old man lusting on fake butts and twerking girls. Thank you Lord for letting the man go
@cancercrybaby71592 жыл бұрын
i’m internally crying i want to cry but i feel myself suppressing it. thank u for this video it opened my eyes and gave me confirmation that my intuition is valid. my feelings are valid. i need to separate myself from this boy.
@zadajames90712 жыл бұрын
You are the first man to finally tell the damn truth!! I’m so glad that there are men out there who know that SM definitely is more serious than what ppl try to make it
@Communitychoud3 жыл бұрын
Ever had a man who says really likes you but at the same time keeps following random women on insta/Twitter.
@u4riacy4 жыл бұрын
Listen up!!! Anytime employers are checking social media as part of the interview/hiring process.... you know it's IMPORTANT and VERY RELEVANT! 😂👏🏽 I ask to see a man's social media and let them see mines in the early stages. I see too much of the wrong thing.... it's a wrap! This saves me a lot of time. I want to know what's in your head. Social media will definitely expose it! Thank you Mr. Gaskins... Be blessed!
@goddessk46102 жыл бұрын
That's smart
@jacquelineking87064 жыл бұрын
Yes! Just had to break relationship and tell a man I'm not your wife. Thank you for ministering to us.
@cheekscheeks58404 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing this topic up . But it’s a topic much needed so many ppl have broken up and even lost their life because of social media it’s the # 1 cheating site , dating site, pornography site smh that’s why I got off years ago n happen about it. This is a trap it’s deceitful and stressful trying to see what he or she is doing not worth the stress my tho
@aaliyahs95944 жыл бұрын
Cheeks Cheeks facts 💯💯
@Moonpiebye4 жыл бұрын
He hit the shut that mess up FACTS if your woman can't have your password he up to something..yep it might me a MAN😂😅 👍
@GrandmasBeLike4 жыл бұрын
They also have multiple accounts. Don't be fooled. Two brothers one married 40 yrs and one never married --both have multiple fb accts. Half with their pics, half without... Not what killed the opportunity, never made it far enough for that to be a problem. Guy crossed every line TG has ever mentioned!
@Beautytrends77 Жыл бұрын
Hitting like is the same thing as eyeing women in public when you are right next to them!
@CaramelKissez4 жыл бұрын
Typically men go back to the same place they met you. I've had a dude I dated lie he had social media and found his profile. Of course other red flags, but I cut it short. He barely made 2months in my life.
@come_on_barbie_1234 жыл бұрын
Me too. I just caught one in a lie that I found on social media. We weren't friends but I searched him anyway. The lie was small, but I was like nah...I'ma go ahead and terminate this lil relationship.
@elainegomillion9784 жыл бұрын
Y'all did right by leaving, because if lies about that, what else is he lying about. Think about it, for everyone else that will read this and think that it is petty.
@terryf.93222 жыл бұрын
OMG, thanks so much Tony! You call those immature ‘boys’ out-in their 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, still out there playing, ghosting, bread crumbing the women! It’s such a disgrace! Thanks for all you do to support us women and the men willing to listen and learn. God bless you and the family!
@Raquel-de8ni4 жыл бұрын
Real talk here....solidified I did the right thing by dropping that grown boy. Thanks Tony!
@j.aolani4 жыл бұрын
Scared to watch this🤣 bouta get my feelings hurt💔
@jalex58083 жыл бұрын
A friend of mine was always complaining that her husband wouldn't check that he was in a relationship on Facebook. She was irritated but at the same time just also defending him to the point she got mad at me. I was trying to explain to her that people you follow on social media, especially Facebook where it's more so people you know represent your Social Circle. So when you refuse to put you're in a relationship or post pictures with your partner, it represents you being reluctant to tell the people in your Social Circle and pretty much most of the people you know about your spouse. That's not normal to feel the need to hide someone you're supposed to be proud of from the world
@thelifeofmilliee3 жыл бұрын
I’ve always stressed this & everyone has always tried to tell me I’m insecure or childish. But someone being honest about just not being ready is what I’d respect. Playing it off as if the women is insecure or embarrassing herself says a lot about you as a person because a like/ repost should never be that serious. Older men especially should not be that consumed into social media in a negative/disrespectful manner.
@dv27963 жыл бұрын
I just caught my boyfriend liking 3 women's Facebook photos from the first months of our relationship and til now. He denied and lied at first about not knowing what he did. Then I'd show the screenshot. Then he downplayed it and said that he "knows" them and that those are just pictures 😣 after the arguments, he apologized. Then he said I'm crazy for digging through his past, even though the information I found was public. Sadly we live together and I am trying to leave although name is on lease and I'm trying to get out of the lease. He also called me out of my name 3 weeks ago. I'm just done with him...sad but it'll be better not living with him and always being under stress in the relationship.
@hymnodyhands2 жыл бұрын
I pray you made it out, sis...
@seadogg_56274 жыл бұрын
Bro you know I agree with you 100% because I was doing it to my lady and I heard her so bad but I'm doing better I'm in social media go cuz it's nothing good out of it
@CaramelKissez4 жыл бұрын
If you would like coaching you can book him at MYMENTOR.LIFE/TonyGaskinsjr
@keysham84944 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony! Social media can say a lot about a person 🤔 I’m from the days where men used to approach a woman. I miss that era but those days are long gone sad to say for a larger majority . Now it’s dm 😒
@moriahaddison4 жыл бұрын
Keysha M yea I really hate how times have changed.
@meshacole14214 жыл бұрын
Keysha M i miss regular interaction
@marte13763 жыл бұрын
but man havent changed at all, they just got worse. That's why you need to have standards and not allowing anyone in your life who doesnt bring love and material benefits
@villainouspixie29234 жыл бұрын
Oh my! I literally just thought about this topic today. The guy I'm talking to I just found out he has instagram. I dont have any social media but youtube. Let me listen to this before I talk to him about it thank you so much! Came just in time 💚💚💚
@marishalewis4844 жыл бұрын
villainous pixie hey lady. I don’t have social media either outside of YT 💙
@villainouspixie29234 жыл бұрын
It's extremely toxic & causes too many problems. Plus it's a time waster. I used to use it for my esthetician business but found myself going back to gossip pages. & just scrolling to kill time. Now I use my car as advertising & just word of mouth. The old fashioned way
@marishalewis4844 жыл бұрын
villainous pixie I get it. Definitely can be a time waster lady. It’s good to get new knowledge like we do with Tony or for business purposes only.
@nashonharris78054 жыл бұрын
My mother ordered your book for my birthday ( April 27) hopeful I get it soon, she said I need it in my life asap lol....mama knows best.
@CaramelKissez4 жыл бұрын
Have a blessed bday and enjoy the book when it arrives.🤎
@nikkirowland4 жыл бұрын
Happy early birthday!
@nashonharris78054 жыл бұрын
Nikki Rowland thank you sweetie
@nashonharris78054 жыл бұрын
Caramel Kissez I sure will thanks
@Coolct4 жыл бұрын
Thank God someone like Tony broke this down for us because I have felt this way about men and social media for a long time and everybody wanted to make me feel bad about it and I always thought to myself if he’s liking her pictures you could always open up a door to something else finally someone openly speaks the truth.
@tmakesha1987252 жыл бұрын
Same here
@misslacolebaby7342 жыл бұрын
Also why in the hell you giving her the idea that you want her by liking all her pictures. I recently went through that, no longer with him.
@shannonmonaallathat9 күн бұрын
S/o to Tony for being so transparent. We not beat. and we ONLY FOLLOWING OUR MAN😁💯
@lynnjones76954 жыл бұрын
Yes, we need real relationships & healthy bonds!!! I so respect you...
@kenishalperkins4 жыл бұрын
I ran to this video !!!
@gods_child_83984 жыл бұрын
Girrrrlll! 😂😭👌
@reneejacobs81834 жыл бұрын
I know they mad at you, but keep speaking on it Brother, because it’s necessary for both men and women! Stay Blessed! 🙏🏽❤️
@loridori4 жыл бұрын
Social media should be something that you use to keep in contact with family and close friends. It's not for your contact with the world. We are not to be of this world. How do I know we don't need social media? Because there was a point in time when we didn't even have it and relationships actually could last. Think about it...your grandmother did not have social media and she still had struggles with her own husband, so don't you think social media has amplified the relational struggles we have today?
@kimteart92524 жыл бұрын
To whomever read THIS IS 💯 FACTS. He is NOT lying. . I am a witness. Be wise ladies.
@mslnie4 жыл бұрын
"Boy shut up.... Get thee behind me!" 😆 😆 😆 yes!!!! Thank you, Tony! Thank you for spreading the truth! God bless you!
@williamfuentez72383 жыл бұрын
I'm a 50 year old man on tiktok married for over 10 years following my granddaughter. And women are following me on tiktok and I have no videos. I was like huh that weird. Now watching your video it all makes sense. I didn't realize the rabbit hole I was going down. Bless you for making this video for my eyes to be opened.
@sheenamarieuy32483 жыл бұрын
If only many men think the way u do, where the woman doesnt have to tell the man what to do on his soc med, that would be awesome.keep preaching brother!
@godseed794 жыл бұрын
Facts!!! SM exposes the cracks in your relationship!! SM by itself isn't the problem. 👏🏾👏🏾