Men hurt too when marriages fail | Tuko TV

Tony Hutia was your typical church marriage counselor. However when his marriage ended his services were unwanted as well. He was desperate to be the voice of male divorcees and help them pick up the pieces of their lives.
The ambitious man has launched man cave called Eden Resort_Hutias to help men open up about their struggles with divorce.
He says it's been an uphill task but he won't give up seeing it through.
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[@moniquewanjui1481]

Thank you Tony for speaking up.Please hold camps and reach out to our young Adult Men especially those in High Schools,they need guidance.

[@Tamarrind97]

Am glad we get to hear a divorced man's side of view. Well spoken and explained. Alot learnt. Thank you.

[@evangelistgrace5278]

Marriage fails if the foundation is not right, and a man doesn't know his purpose in his life! I was in a marriage the man didn't know his purpose, I ended up begging all over to provide for my children's school fees, food and needs. I was so depressed.... almost went mad! I got peace immediately I got out... Marriage takes two people to work!

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

This is the problem.. thinking it is only men who have issues and bear the whole burden of marriage failure. Your story is not universal. There are many men with bad women out there mama. Just heal from your but don't make it blind you from reality. Women can also be very toxic

[@samanthawinslet3825]

Very true even women can really be toxic and then they blame men it's not fair really.

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Wow thank you for sharing your story. You're an amazing lady to have overcome that.

[@lucynluyali573]

@@samanthawinslet3825 majority are the men who are toxic

[@jemk6098]

Well said and true

[@ewuziebenard4664]

Am glad men are coming out to talk

[@isdorahmugele707]

This guy has a beautiful smile

[@goldenbazaars]

Don't be deceived by the looks.

[@isdorahmugele707]

@@goldenbazaars which looks are u talking about ?

[@toyinaluko9022]

@@goldenbazaars which look? If men don't have eyes don't they have brains?

[@agathamacharia1983]

I thought I'm the only one who noted that

[@philipkamote386]

Red flags, antidotes, fertilizer 😀😀 wisdom.Tuko we need more of this content.

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Thank you for watching

[@janetarus6602]

Kabisa

[@estermvula1512]

He has such a beautiful smile.

[@waridim9249]

Oh, I'm not the only one that noticed the beautiful, genuinely warm smile. 😊

[@kinawaka6858]

Hmmm you have nice eyes too

[@Willys099]

I saw that too...

[@lucynluyali573]

Am glad I healed while still in marriage, been separated for a good while now hoping to officially divorce soon

[@albertkeli1805]

The smile is very remarkable

[@kawiramurega]

Walalalah!! This guy is handsome and has a very beautiful 😍 smile

[@missrono9045]

N voice

[@africanawang2674]

but I have raised 10 red flags by the end of the conversation

[@missrono9045]

@africana Wang please share the flags.

[@TabithaM44]

I trust the Tuko show has a RIGHT OF REPLY, we need to hear the other side of the Baby Mama

[@veronicamakumi5272]

It's the smile for me. Wee

[@LindaTinahTV]

This was a really good one. I agree with where he says the problems are always there from the beginning just not addressed until they blow up.

[@mercykimani9741]

Congrats the man is speaking whole truth

[@terrybii1520]

Up Close and candid.I have learnt a lot.

[@margaretmacharia7330]

Most men ignore that even worsemen have goals and a purpose. You can't force your wife to fit in your goals. If children are there we can't ignore them we must take care of them both of you but most men ignore children

[@lucyhager2356]

My neighbour in Ngatataek keep it up proud of you .keep it .lucy

[@shemknight220]

Traditional marriage( contract/ business) does not work today. If I want to be a unit with you, why must I sign a contract? A contract that benefits the woman who decides to leave more than the man.

[@johnkaranja768]

Was in a church marriage for 19 years, tried everything but failed completely, seperated for six years’ not able to move on with myself and regretting dearly 😢

[@annkamau7384]

Please help from a Counselor

[@susanwagura2329]

Me too

[@lucymburu155]

Please get help. You are not a failure

[@kinawaka6858]

Society is completely heading in the wrong direction, very sorry brother, I have some insights to share with Kenyans and hope those who will listen can make a difference otherwise if it continues that way our African culture and marriage will be completely shuttered

[@kinawaka6858]

Almost every marriage now is crumbling we are in a very dangerous age> sorry brother your not alone

[@teejayangel6638]

It's good to listen without giving your I'll informed speculations & assumptions when it comes to someone sharing their marriage life, failures and successes. Just listen, and learn where you have to learn. But Kenyan village analysts will have solutions, expert advice on things they know not of. Thank you Mr. Hutia for sharing your story.

[@mandepatricia6610]

Why do i feel like this man still had a lot to share with us? It will be great if Tuko invites him often to the show. I feel he's got a lot of insight. Also suggestion is if Kingori would engage him so that he asks those manly questions that we women want to hear answers too. I pray my comment is seen and a response got. Thank you from Uganda

[@nathaliefuraha4376]

I totally agree with you!! The interview was kinda superficial and rushed though. More time and detailed questions are definitely needed

[@teresiawanjiru4915]

Proud of you son.

[@janekogi6442]

Good revelations,now you can listen to Myles Munroe.Understanding the power in a woman

[@Willys099]

Tony Hutia, are those in hopeful relationships welcome in your mission of Divorce Care ama they'll feel out of place? If so, how can one join in?

[@mirriamnthenya6899]

Am also a divorcee,encouraged sana

[@kinawaka6858]

But why is this rate of divorce too high in today's world?

[@mirriamnthenya6899]

@@kinawaka6858 there are so many factors leading to separation and divorce.

[@kinawaka6858]

@@mirriamnthenya6899 These many factors some of them humans we are willing to create them

[@joskyshams4758]

I have learned alot. Asanteni sana

[@xoxomacx2539]

DNA required in the house. 🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽

[@happytimes9747]

Its depends, dirvoce always tires one side depends on what happened and who cause it.

[@eveevelyn7279]

there's always the other side of the story! marriage is more than what you didn't get.....I hope the other party can also have a platform to say what you also did or did not do...its rather skewed

[@sbaraza5823]

😂😂 When a man speaks you question but if it was a woman you would stand with her.

[@judithmuseve1845]

There is always the first one to tell their story........the issue is a collective responsibility of the two persons involved. We just lost one man who just slipped away in such circumstances

[@crimsonite1524]

you know you are right, people divorce for very heavy and tough reasons, and what gets out is often just the tip of what really happened.

[@marykaranja4329]

Thanks Yvonne, I feel like we've heard what Men did to women but also men go through a lot please letanga story zao more

[@victoriamalaki8673]

Huwa hawataki kuongea... wanajikaza as we have been told.

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Thank you for watching

[@abigaelch5589]

but what l know the first wife ni wako according to bible watoto wanakosa motherly love huyo wa pili ni mwizi...

[@soniroberts6865]

Ongeza volume Abigael...

[@eunicenjeru215]

Says who and which Bible do you read?I agree on children suffering but divorce is very much allowed in the Bible where infidelity is yet the same Bible says God hates divorce.And people stick to the latter without considering the former.However, the law of Moses need to be understood in context.

[@shazzysymon6835]

Abigael l guess we share the same pastor correct .na tell them ndoa NI roho if you have the spirit of divorce mazee inakugongah nje .na watu watafute kusikia true gospel

[@tuforu4]

Leave the BIBLE ALONE plz

[@tuforu4]

@@eunicenjeru215 we not bother with gods or bibles to be vivilised in EUROPE

[@philipkamote386]

Wisdom, wisdom 👏👏

[@tracynyambura4494]

Men hunyamazia mengi and hold in their heart woiyee

[@jemk6098]

That is why they should stop messing up

[@kinawaka6858]

its true mamaa we hurt too much

[@Nonek214]

Woiye interviewer! This interview needs a mature person with a broader understanding on marriage and also to ask the right questions unwise🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@angelinemuriuki7384]

I totally agree...I prefer shared moments with Justus for its rawness and Lynn Ngugi also tries.

[@therectorsdiary3068]

Sauti ni ya Frankie Just Gym it...I wish he could talk to the boys in my School...and tell them that it's okay for boys to cry...

[@tonyhutia]

organising for School boys mentorships

[@jackyngao6165]

That smile ooo

[@rebeccaligoo9715]

Thanks Tony,please seek a forum to narrate your story as from it many can relate more easily.Seems yhe questions are good but denying us your 1st marriage wholesome story.Through the story we can pick up the red and green flags.

[@ceciliandiritu7914]

True my case is vice versa. U heal when u talk it out🙏

[@lulu-xt5gs]

Enjoyed listening to this man.Bless him.

[@MODEKAI]

As a man if you explain your problems women will start bashing you toxic, patriarchal and playing victim card.Women tend to behave righteous and innocent in marriage.

[@crimsonite1524]

thats why modern men shouldnt marry too early, you need to develop yourself as a man first, learn women and the time you are in. you cant marry at 25 like some are doing because then you dont understand the contrast of our father's time and our times. in our grandparents time all women were basically the same, if she wasnt sleeping around then for sure she was wife materail and they had an understanding of their role, nowadays theres no end to the types of women out there, and they will agree to be married even though they have different goals and wants.

[@eunicemwende5748]

I like his boldness, I don't support how the church discriminated against him. instead of giving him a chest to lean on. Keep pressing on Tony and thumbs up.

[@teejayangel6638]

Women also go through the same discrimination, the Church has really failed in so many ways when it comes to real life issues. It's no wonder so many pple have left Christianity.

[@saraphinasimeon3246]

good man ,finally comes out, but he is talking too much in his vernacular language, which some of us don't understand it

[@salomekitali1922]

Bwana Hutia what word do you have for the men who divorce and forget the children and move on?

[@tonyhutia]

It's Not right, even man should take care of His Seed as much as he can not unless his not able to. But he should try as much much as he can

[@jackyngao6165]

That's why I don't go to church

[@Sylvia-sd4mf]

In the ame church Nairobi Chapel l have seen all types of groups but not a single one on singles. Why?

[@africanawang2674]

Do you go around saying you're a divorcee when you are remarried? I thought a divorcee is a single divorced man. I feel bad for his current wife. imagine that situation

[@judithmuseve1845]

He is both a divorcee and married. Divorced simply means you left a marriage legally irrespective of what you do thereafter. He remarried thereafter.....so he is married

[@DrizzyDrake254]

Who tole you wife yake pia sio divorcee

[@linetkutwa2209]

Keep good work

[@nancy1256.]

True they hurt soo mch

[@waridim9249]

Tony has a lot of good advice.

[@mercynelima4241]

na vile tunatafuta msee anatamani awe anapigiwa simu hata akiwa kazini,Hadi ukiwa chooni nikuulize kwani babe ni kokoto unatoa huoni nimeshakumiss😁😁bt hizi story za ndoa kuanguka zimetuvunja roho hatuna Imani tena😢

[@kinawaka6858]

Mimi napenda kupigiwa simu sana hata nikiwa chooni bora nawe nikupigie pia.Usife moyo there is still hope

[@tamarikimani5701]

Its better a pet🤣🤣🤣i read one of your comment

[@kinawaka6858]

@@tamarikimani5701 Mmm my comment was soo bad?

[@tamarikimani5701]

@@kinawaka6858 no,we are sailing on the same ship dear

[@kinawaka6858]

@@tamarikimani5701 wish i could just chat with need someone to enlighten each other

[@tabithagrishon4892]

Wow!

[@Hlulizinyanga]

Love you and thank you Yvonne

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Thank you so much for watching.

[@SteveIrunguJermaine]

Marriage is a none issue period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

[@kipepeo75]

but some dont want to see nor support the kids....

[@DrizzyDrake254]

Soem.women with MMS Malicious Mother syndrome prevent dads from aceessinf kids just to spite ot hit back at the dad

[@tonyhutia]

and that is very unfortunate

[@Mariajames21]

Lies

[@esperanzawanjiru2435]

Ati certain community started flocking in and you had to move 🤣🤣🤣

[@SteveIrunguJermaine]

Marriage to me is a none issue period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

[@hilstonemurray481]

Sisi wa eastlando...tukopamoja

[@nimowairimu897]

I like your efforts for the men, applause....but the test of "come we stay" falls short on women....Should he get a Green card to the US, and the only way you can show you are legally married to him is by way of a Legal Marriage Certificate LMC and you cannot produce one....and he has to leave you behind what do you say to yourself then? .... When he dies and you need to legally prove you are a spouse by way of a LMC for the purposes of securing marital property and you cannot, what do you say to yourself then? If he picks another woman to marry and asks you to leave immediately, and you have to prove your legal marriage status by way of a LMC, what do you say to yourself then ? Food for thought 🤔

[@marvinshi]

kawira ! " that's actually a thing ? " ooh hell yes

[@RoniMugaki]

WISDOM WISDOM WISDOM

[@millisifuna6322]

Laaakini hiyo kofia….eeeiii!!

[@millynaomi4406]

The interviewer need skills ..this interview could have been much better ..

[@kawiramurega]

True ✅

[@mandepatricia6610]

Thank you for noting that too

[@beatricewangare8864]

poor interview

[@beatricewangare8864]

I wish ni rene

[@tuforu4]

15 minutes is ENUF.

[@Loltome]

Thank you

[@virginiamutisya6216]

NOW WHAT HAPPENED TO THE TWO THE WAY THIS GUY KNOWS THE WORD OF GOD OF WAT I LIKE? HE IS PLANTED IN THE CHURCH OR NI ININI SASA ANYWAY

[@beatricebigywott2016]

Smile yake ni ile wanasemanga inatoa nyoka pangoni

[@lillianodhiambo2575]

True!

[@rosamariewanjiru8659]

I want to hear the wife's side. I detect chauvinism.

[@tonyhutia]

🤔

[@judysharon864]

@Lynn we need more insight to this story. Invite this man to your show.

[@jessyngochi7188]

Tony is not telling the whole truth.Many people know him from church and he knows how he treated his beautiful wife and left her for another.

[@TabithaM44]

Let the former wife came and talk, I know the show has a right of reply...... Tuko do something

[@Jane-fi8on]

😮

[@christineochuchi7448]

He is not putting blame on anyone . its a collective fail .it takes two... he did wrong she did wrong , Lets learn from them ; The truth can be taken to court if need be. Mambo ya watu wawili ngumu.

[@pmosigisi5421]

@Jessy I don't think she needs to speak. Speaking as someone who has been mudslung by the ex in all levels of media, I have learnt to let everyone do what they need to heal. If this is healing to him let him do it but in truth. When truth is compromised no real healing hallens to the liar. He isn't affecting her. He is affecting himself

[@tonyhutia]

Really???...

[@lucywambui7036]

sultana 27th October 2933

[@elnosh6072]

I have seen your reason for divorcing. You married a single mother, which was a red flag.

[@josephinekamau2162]

The waman who is interviewer you She needs to go to school to learn how to ask duestion. How can you ask ,he will go to the third one. She don't know how to ask duestion.

[@alicenyambura1130]

Si uanze programme yako! Dont trash other people. Grow up!

[@mercymukanda320]

how about you start by checking on your spellings before telling others what they should do Mrs perfect

[@ShaffikAbdul]

Of all the issues being discussed yani ww waona interviewer asking wrong qns.. How mean can people be

[@margaretnjeri4064]

The fact is I love Yvonne she humble gal with time she will be gd with it😘😘

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Thank you Joseph for your feedback

[@myzgod]

Pls speak English. You have international audiences. Pls

[@tonyhutia]

Much apologies should get the translation to some of the things we are saying.

[@salomekamau5380]

The lies on this channels 😂😂😂

[@christineochuchi7448]

This guy has losts of knowledge to share , Just needs a mature interviewer . ( Ask the difficult questions ) Prompt properly .

[@nathaliefuraha4376]

My thought exactly!!

[@faithwangari487]

Lynn ngugi

[@tuforu4]

RUBBISH COMPLEXITY GUY.