Men need to focus on themselves. If you have value, she will notice you.

[@HammerJammer81]

im 41, divorced twice and as of 2 days ago ended a 6 yr "relationship" due to everything this dude talks about. She didnt work, sat on TikTok All day long and drank till drunk every night. Its my time now

[@Jake-rh7yy]

Yeah that's pretty much all of them now. My ex wife was the same way. It amazes me we grew up with out all of this bs social media and smartphones and now she can't set it down for more than a minute at a time. Makes me wonder what the hell she did before all the gadgets.

[@David-wo9un]

That sucks that the relationship didn’t work out but at least you had the courage to cut your losses; some of us are white knuckling it until the bitter end.

[@sammyvh11]

Get a hobby I love to fish. Women come and go mostly go. Dont get married again.

[@sammyvh11]

@@mickrozycki451 casual is good too. Just be safe. Don't use them just FWB

[@xavierStark84]

Still young, do what you deserve

[@SirYeetus]

"You'll lose money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money." -Master Chief

[@andrewrogers3067]

Meanwhile show Chief: Wastes time nutting in an enemy spy then dedicating himself to training and fighting

[@kingspeech2240]

@@andrewrogers3067 and the person he was knocking down wasn’t even impressive they could have at least made her sexy and she was not. To me that is lol

[@sunnyskies880]

Chad’s tinder dates are free

[@Peter_Parker69]

Tinder-girls: 7ft only Master Chief: Ok

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

You'll only attract golddiggers bro. better to have no money then you will know that she really likes you for you.

[@SoldierforGod]

“A woman can only break your heart if you give it to her” - Soldier for God

[@jesuschristislord77733]

"36 A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’ 37 Anyone who loves his father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me; 38 and anyone who does not take up his cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me." Jesus spoke Matthew

[@MickeyMishra]

Solid advice,

[@Asto508]

@@jesuschristislord77733 Jesus sounds like a hardcore narc

[@kentjensen4939]

The only way to break my heart is to rip it out Aztec style, dunk it in liquid nitrogen, and throw it against concrete.

[@MickeyMishra]

@@kentjensen4939 Makes you wonder if Diamonds have problems at Low Temps?

[@gabrielsimoes1730]

It's the "one" rule: you only ever approach a certain girl once. You only give them "one" approach. If she goes along, you got youself a date. If she doesn't, you move on and if she changes her mind, it will be her turn to approach. Be proud of yourself, be proud of what you've been through and survived, be proud of the burden you chose to carry. Don't kneel to someone that doesn't care about you.

[@ncasti]

YES. Ask once, and move on.

[@ordinaryhuman5645]

Except if she finally does approach later because she's incredibly desperate, you probably owe it to yourself to say "nope". She didn't want you then, so whatever she's after now is not you either.

[@piotrk.4241]

Once you were rejected, even if this time she approaches you, it means her other options failed and she's turning to her backup plan. You want a life being someone's last resort? Even she won't respect you.

[@kennv7566]

Lets say you test the waters and you get no response, if you understand female nature like BB has been teaching you, when you look back on the situation, moving on was the right choice.

[@CrummyVCR]

lol, women don't approach ever .

[@b0b855]

A little story from my experience. I asked this girl out a couple years ago, we went for dinner and I showed her around my city a bit. After that I took her back to my house to watch some Netflix, I got the feeling that she was a bit uncomfortable so I didn't try to push her into anything, just took her home after about an hour. Over the next month or so I would text her and she would respond quickly, usually in a few minutes, but she wouldn't initiate a conversation. After about 8 conversations I initiated, I decided to wait for her to start one. For a month it didn't happen so I deleted her number and Snapchat. Still haven't heard back. Sometimes it just doesn't click and you need to be able to move on, don't embarrass yourself by chasing because that will 100% never grant you a favorable outcome.

[@bonsummers2657]

Go for what you want(within reason) without desperation of emotion. Do.

[@b0b855]

@@bonsummers2657 exactly, women can smell desperation and at that point you have irrevocably lost the game.

[@JEZUKEFITNESS]

@@b0b855 What a primitive beings🧟‍♀️, they have not some kindness, that's why i won't marry ever

[@NeoZeta]

I love how your story ends. It feels like there's gonna be a twist at the end, but... there isn't. It's just that, and IT'S GREAT. Because that's reality. I've had many experiences like this. I have experiences where we even go further and make out (or more) but after that nothing happens again. They just distance themselves and dont' see each other anymore. It makes you wonder why sometimes they even agree to go with or to your place. But that's just women, they sometimes just go with the flow. I'm actually in a similar situation with one like this. And she's the one who demonstrated all the interest in me. She's a friend of a friend. We went out a couple of times as a group, and one time she just suggested to stay at my place when we were gonna be around in some parties. She lives in a closeby town, and our mutual female friend was having other people over, so couldn't take her, thus she turned to me. At that point we had flirted a couple of times already. After one of the events we were all saying the goodbyes, she invited me to go somewhere else with her, and we went. After this was over we went to my place. Of course, I made out with her, but it was too late and we were freaking tired to do anything. Even though she told me she'd be okay going further if not, so we just "cuddled". In the morning it seemed like she wanted something, but I wasn't into it (not really fan of morning activity). We did make out more later though, but then she went back. Days after, we were the ones going over to her town, and she wanted to invite me to stay with her, but she was at her mom's taking care of the cats while mom was away with her sister. She still entertained the idea of me staying with her at her mom's, however. Which she later changed her mind. Nothing happened that day. We been here and there talking sometimes, but I've noticed a biiiiit more distance on her part. And I ain't gonna chase, of course, because I know how it goes. She was the one that first initiated all the contact, in person and through text the first time with met. Now, I'm just waiting to see if this distance is gonna be forever, or if she'll eventually reach out on her OWN. Because if I do contact she'll obviously reply and be up for something I come up with, but I want to make sure she's not just "going along with it" because I'm pushing it.

[@judge831]

@Daniel Bologna You also might want to consider that she might think you're not that interested. A good rule is to initiate 3 times and then let her initiate almost exclusively after that.

[@MrKentakie]

What I always say and heard from somewhere: "She's an addition to your life that should make your life easier, not the main focus. If she makes your life harder, it's not worth it."

[@michaelweston1042]

true

[@Maverick33]

Women as a whole make life harder period. False accusations, free passes when they're abusive, hypergamy, monkey branching, expecting 6 ft tall, 6 figure salary and 6 pack abs, hatred of condoms, controlling, manipulative, narcissistic, misandrist, micromanaging, promiscuous, body shaming, and a lot of times racist. It's best to just avoid them entirely. Don't ever talk to them. Do NOT EVER approach them. NEVER touch them. Avoid all eye contact. Keep at least a 12 foot distance away from them. NEVER be out of sight for security cameras. NEVER be alone with a woman. I could go on and on. Point is, women are dangerous and the consequences could be lethal to your reputation, image and character. Maybe life in extreme cases. Be smart and choose monk mode. No dating. No sex. No giving attention to women. Monk mode is safe mode. You must protect yourself.

[@me8751]

Relationships are an absolute joke nowadays. If you (as a man) "level down" in ANY way, you lose. If she "levels up" in ANY way, you lose. Relationships are doomed from the outset, for real. I'll never play that game again. Ever. Everything about this video is spot on. Thanks Joker.

[@fattyjaybird7505]

It really not worth it... every woman ive been with cheated in me, all except the single mother.... and i quickly noticed what she was trying to accomplish.... i guess im just too " nice"

[@edwardhatfield7284]

As a 44 year old man I've realized the worst thing a woman can say is YES. That's when all the real problems start. 😂😂😂😂

[@jayaz9113]

😂😂😂

[@nauscakes1868]

I promised to never ask another woman out. I'm now dating a woman who asked me out, and it's night and day how much she appreciates me.

[@orangepearlf40]

@@untze0 😆. @Naud Cakes. Just remember what's new to you is old to someone else and what's old to you is new to someone else. It takes a really special person to be content.

[@nauscakes1868]

@@orangepearlf40 True that! I think the biggest take away from most of this kind of content is to never "risk" or "invest" more than you're willing to lose. I don't want to pour my heart out and have it stolen. But if someone comes to me. Plays the game on my terms, and I don't have to invest or sacrifice anything. Then I'll give it a spin. That's ultimately the biggest question I have to ask myself each day. Is if this is adding to my life or am I sacrificing. As long as the relationship is always adding value, then I will enjoy it. To sum it off though. I'm not a dick. I won't abuse or exploit people. I'm just going to ethically stay within my lane. Others are free to join and leave.

[@humbletrader5479]

My ex put on 50 lbs within 5 years of eating wedding cake, and continued gaining until our divorce. Recently she dropped 65 pounds for a new man, but was unable to accomplish that feat while we were together, simply amazing.

[@_rmkjm]

Kevin Samuels (R.i.P) once said something along the lines of: men have to create their value, women are born with it.

[@richardbuchanan5497]

...but by thirty they lost it.

[@BlackMamba-lt8oe]

@@richardbuchanan5497 yes

[@thealternativecontrarian9936]

For me, dating has been like pulling teeth from a mule. I became life-happy when I decided to step out of the game and not try anymore.

[@davidresch390]

Very true

[@dennisrobinson8008]

Take some trips overseas to friendlier countries

[@dilligafwoftam985]

Welcome to the club, mate 🤓🇦🇺

[@fjohnson-o4t]

Yeah me too, my inner psychology has never been better since I stopped to meet their "expectations".

[@CrummyVCR]

chad thanks you.

[@TheDamianG]

My brother was with a woman similar to the weight loss woman. 2 kids and he stood by her when she was pushing 300. She got band surgery lost almost 120 lbs and started posting IG Pics for validation and wound up cheating on my bro and got knocked up thanks to a pump and dump she left my brother for. Don't ever be attached to anyone fellas. One day at a time and focus on you

[@CarbideSC]

Hypergamy doesn't care about our feelings, we can never forget that.

[@dannylaza1326]

Social media ruined society in many ways.

[@dilligafwoftam985]

Yep. A mate of mine sometime asks 'So which car did you buy for life?' Me, I use uber.

[@St.CrimsonTweets]

The funny thing is it sounds like she still weighed ~180lbs so that new baby will wreck all progress 😂🤣

[@joepharmasst]

If they lose all that weight they're going to look like the Michelin man anyhow

[@belenramirez3726]

Very good advice joker. “Don’t make her the focus of your life…because you will lose focus on other things.” Also,I liked his advice on having a group of male friends. Once you lose your focus on what really matters and direct it toward the woman only and she dumps you, then you will not have the support system to uplift you. Pain from rejection hurts a lot more when you’re on your own; without the support of buddies, no hobbies, and without goals in life.

[@jucaesar4961]

@Stevo I am on my own a lot, too. But I have also gotten to know some people that I would regard as friends from a side they would really not tell me if that side were fake. But I get why you say why people are fake. To me, it seems that most of the time one could also say I am fake, although the reason for that might also be mostly internalized from a past experience that I find quite self-defining in a negative sense. However, due to the inherent negativity carrying that in my public image would bring I don't show it. So, I suppose - in some sense - I am fake, And I could very much envision the same principle applying to a lot of other people.

[@gilliankingston8259]

@Stevo Rather than have a large circle of friends (on a permanent basis) that are more like acquaintances try to develop a small group of friends maybe originally from a larger group of friends aim to keep the friends that are genuine and will be there for you as you would for them because they will be the ones who are your real friends.

[@ShadowLord3220]

Story of my life... I got pack of friends, and were just happy young guy, then i met HER. She was the most important for me, and ofcourse her family. Slowly i lost contact with old friends because i didnt have time. Not only working my ass out, but also 'family' (her family) meetings every weekend. She didnt insisted on anything it was just a clever mind game, that passively made me to choose her over my old friends. Then she fired "i doont feel it anymore" And left me just like that. Dont know how i could be this stupid, but we all learn on mistakes i guess.

[@anonymousreaper2186]

We shouldn't chase a woman even if they chase us.... Our focus should be on building, fighting, elevating others, inventing, etc....

[@ShinyBlackRims]

I have a male friend who is tall, but skinny and timid in the way he talks. For the longest time, he could not get any valuable woman to be his girlfriend. Then, in typical beta fashion, he got together with an ugly woman who is just as undesirable as him. Now they both think they have value, when they actually don't. If they have high value, then why did no one else want them before? Nowadays, he is being a complete simp. He spends all his free time with her, and never with any male friends. He used to spend a lot of time with me, but now never. It's all good for me though. I can spend time with other friends. Just don't come running to me when shit hits the fan with that girl.

[@blunt2416]

"I tell my girl she is the 4th most important thing in my life. There is myself, my mother, my career, & then her, & she better be careful because I also love my fish"-Patrice Oneal.

[@wtfsamusidk7574]

My happiness is paramount

[@tolloromassi99]

Patrice, a God among men gone too soon. Imagine the wisdom of his in this podcast era?

[@internetperson9121]

In a short time, I went from working toward a prestigious career to having one. As soon as I updated my bumble profile to reflect, the change was immediate and drastic. Probably quadruple the matches and the women actually engage in conversation and put out effort. Keep in mind, before I was close to accomplishing this goal and my profile said so. I had hoped to meet someone before who was willing to at least have a LITTLE faith in me. Nope. Only once I was officially successful were most willing to let me buy them dinner. At least I know where things stand with them.

[@stevenphillips3466]

Waiting at the finish line...

[@dennisrobinson8008]

"willing to LET you buy them dinner"...

[@EE12CSVT]

All that and you still met entitled golddiggers. Lordy, that was a waste of time.

[@magnificentgentleman2805]

If they wanted to be with you for you, they would have always wanted the same, even when you had nothing.

[@internetperson9121]

@@EE12CSVT Would have been a waste of time if I did it for them, but I did it for me

[@tyronemarcucci8395]

I once ignored a hot woman to the point she pursued me, right into bed. BUT, she was divorced with one child. Good thing I was able to leave town.

[@theelder4797]

Yeah, I got into a thing years ago with a single mother, and the only reason I did was because I knew I was moving in a few months, told her up front and she said she was fine with it, but was crying her eyes out as I drove away. This was before the RP internet, but even then I knew single moms were a bad investment.

[@michaelsix9684]

wow, good story

[@danpolo8829]

Yeah bro, but you’re LITERALLY a Tyrone. Lol - Tyrone and Chad always get the girl. Ha!

[@TheVagolfer]

From a man that has dated dozens of beautiful women over the years.....DON'T. They have too many opportunities, too many options and too high of a value of themselves. They will only drive you crazy, especially if you get involved with her, you will constantly be suspicious of her. My Uncle Don gave me great advice after I was stupid enough to chase very attractive women for years - Find a woman that is a number or two below you in looks, but has a great personality and is into you, she will always want you and appreciate you.

[@Jackietreehorn-z5e]

I dated my friend who was in Playboy in the mid 80s. I can verify what you say

[@milanpospisil8024]

Yes, because those women will get men with lower attractivity, but much higher power and money.

[@snchez2106]

Made this mistake, twice. They weren't "beautiful enough" to me and they were so invested in many levels in me and i just kept chasing absolute whores who were, yes, good looking, but shallow in all senses, rejected me so hard that to this date my eyes get a bit of tears when i remember it. I didn't value those women that wanted me for who i was, i chased sluts and they always went with the chad (charisma, looks, bad boy, dangerous man, etc) and i don't have those traits, i have some, but not to the level of some "dark triad asshole". Regret this so much.

[@gabrielvazquez1691]

My life has felt the best since I embraced being a Lone Wolf. At this point there’s a lot I got going and I just want to focus on it and I’m as happy as I’ve been. Don’t let society make you believe you gotta be chasing someone or you’re not worth it as a guy. Find success and then even those who took you as a joke will admire how you got somewhere by being consistent.

[@hmhm856]

I have always said that woman are like children or like a stray cat = Too much of a sudden movement and they will run away. You must keep yourself interested in them but also not interested in them, both at the same time. You can be the guy shes craving over, but if you make a sudden movement, she will run away from you in a heartbeat and want nothing to do with you, even after everything youve done for her or how amazing you have been with her. Bottom line, you have to keep your cool with the woman you find attractive, the same way you keep your cool with the woman you find unattractive. Dont let the nerves inside you dominate you.

[@tolloromassi99]

Too much drama, I'd rather be alone and enjoy games on Xbox.

[@noinfoherebro]

The problem is that it takes SOOOO long to create value. Could literally take 10 plus years. It's not like you can' just do it in 1 or 2 or 3 years. That puts most of us at mid 30s early 40s by the time the value is created which forces us to have to either date younger women or date our age and not have children. If you've seen tik tok or any other social media platform you know younger women are the most childish and toxic of the bunch. It seems to be no way to win for men now a days. Unless you luckily meet a woman who isn't brainwashed.

[@sunnyskies880]

Even if you could attract women through wealth, you’ll just be used for your money. There won’t be genuine attraction towards you.

[@OnderHassan]

Most people are lazy, which is a good thing. That means you only need to be 1% better than everyone else. It doesn't take as long as you think.

[@shiiteposter1396]

[I agree with you but to overcome that shortcoming, I would suggest learning the ins-and-outs of making profit and income! Not deep into it, I'm actually a normie! But if one could monetize his skills to make active and passive income, he could be making the most of his time awake or asleep, yet make multiple streams of income regardless! Using your skills and a little ingenuity, get invested to do massive research for about a solid week! Or pay a professional for advice on all the types of means you can capitalize on! Hope I helped with setting you on your path to success!✌🏼😎]

[@JohnnyRebKy]

That’s why you might as well seek happiness on your own. If you need a woman to be happy your going to be one unhappy SOB for a long long time

[@hsew]

Women abroad seem to be less brainwashed, more feminine, and more willing to marry older men. Besides, women shouldn't be the goal. If you spend 10+ years creating value and end up not getting a woman, you at least have 10+ years of value to enjoy. Contrast that to focusing on women for 10+ years. Yeah, you might even get good at getting women, but, without value, you'll have nothing but problems no matter who is in your life.

[@samuraiwarriorsunite]

Chase your own success and happiness, that'll never let you down or screw you over.

[@constablekennedy7705]

Agreed Bro 💯

[@Taeix]

Even when she notices don’t let her in. She has nothing to offer, nothing to add only subtract. Until the system changes it’s a loss waiting to happen.

[@AvengingAngel2035]

I was going to say the exact same thing.

[@Leaptab]

It's easy to remember p, take away the vagina and what does she actually bring to the table? 99% of the time its zero, even worse is that it can be a deferment like a bad attitude or feminist ideology. That chance is that a women will be a net negative on your life and future.

[@bucket0rocks]

Camo. Ain't just a military concept. Real easy to be invisible to women. They only want the top 10%. Be a solid 80% in polite company. Hahahahahahahaha. If you dress to the 9's it's yer own damn fault for attracting attention. Drive the beater, not the beamer. Old shoes. No bling.

[@jeevangill2041]

@Randy G My question to him would be does he even watch the channel

[@JohnnyRebKy]

I have never chased a woman. Never been with one that didn’t make it obvious she was already interested. If they want you they make it pretty obvious and easy. If that isn’t the case for you then your barking up the wrong tree and it’s not going to end well. I got some female friends on Facebook who post pics every few days and there’s 50 guys commenting how beautiful they are. None of them have a chance. It’s pitiful. I have to struggle really hard not to comment SIMP under each comment 🤦‍♂️

[@magnificentgentleman2805]

If you have to make effort to get a w?!man, you're already done.

[@rimshot2270]

When I was dating my wife, I half-jokingly said, "Honey, if you want us to get married you are going to have to learn to cook Italian food." A week later, while talking to my mother over the phone, she told me my then-girlfriend had called her and asked her to send all her Italian recipes. "Did you?" I asked. She answered, "Yes. You're 26. It's time you got married." It was a common view among Italian mothers back then. I knew I was a goner, and I was right. We celebrated our 46th anniversary last July 2022. I don't regret it at all, but it proves your point.

[@JohnnyRebKy]

@@rimshot2270 that’s great brother 👍🏻. But you gotta remember that was a entire different world back then. Today we might as well be on Mars compared to then.

[@anthonywilliams7052]

@@JohnnyRebKy They want a good wallet, not a good man. Unless you are extremely good looking you might get them for a night. They are spoiled children in adult bodies. Not worth it.

[@gabrielvazquez1691]

I remember how some of my friends and I did that in middle school. I wish I could go back to tell myself how stupid it was.

[@Tinto2]

This message should be taught to boys in their teens from now on, lord I think of how much time, headaches and money I would have saved if I'd learnt this stuff sooner haha

[@Mike-ye6xi]

If they have a phone class is free.

[@jucaesar4961]

Well, I guess I must count myself lucky then, at a mere 19 years old.🙃

[@martinfiedler4317]

@@jucaesar4961 Do call yourself lucky and listen to the advice! Don't waste your 20s on women like ... a friend of mine did 😣

[@constablekennedy7705]

Better Late than Never Fella

[@covertcounsellor6797]

@@martinfiedler4317 Absolutely correct! Wish this content was around a few years back.

[@BoltUpright190]

I got my degree in Aerospace Engineering way back in 1978. Sure, there were women in the picture, but looking back, I can barely remember their names. What I do remember is graduating, making serious bank, and having one Hell of a career and life in the process. Take it from an old guy who's been there... Women come and go, but this is not a dress rehearsal. You have only ONE life. Don't waste it chasing women. Chase excellence and women will chase YOU.

[@christopherevans9119]

If women don’t notice you at your worse, then why notice them at your best… I learned by putting women first, & yourself 2nd Is misery & self destructive! Your will never be the only one for her, It’s just your time & turn for the moment until she finds something new & shining to play with until that loses Its newness & shine ✨

[@brucenatelee]

Don't act starving, act fed.

[@kwichzwellbreck3567]

Like all muggers, thieves and predators they will notice you once you have something. So no brothers dont portray your value to make them notice you!...... keep low and be thankful if those ghastly garden tools dont throw their eyes on you!

[@captainthundercock4336]

Pursuing women today is like running into a minefield!

[@BlackMamba-lt8oe]

Yes

[@captainthundercock4336]

@John Grigg it never began for losecels!

[@captainthundercock4336]

@John Grigg a loser on coping steroid!

[@nathanisenhour4420]

Ita a mind field...absolutely..lol

[@blackmirror5601]

My motto since 2008: Don't chase her, replace her. The best relationship you can ever have is with yourself.

[@TheGamingAudiophile]

You have to have the value to be worth chasing in the first place…

[@rogerm3708]

@Stevo You left out famous

[@thedragonofechigo7878]

@Stevo yeap all true to that.

[@garethwilliams4467]

she has to "believe" you have value. If she doesn't value what you have, then ito her you aren't worth it - regardless of what you think about yourself. Or other people say.

[@Josh-fp2qn]

And I think social status is everything to women. Women will pursue if other women want you.

[@kthx1138]

You're right, Better Bachelor--when You're IN SHAPE, exercising, oozing endorphins, you feel so damn good you DON'T CARE if a woman shows you any affection or not. If she does, great, added bonus to life, but her affections are not the priority. There are only so many hours in a day and so much energy to go around.

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

True Words

[@peteroehring695]

And if a hot woman is chasing you be suspicious. She wants something and it does not bode well for you.

[@OnderHassan]

This is absolutely on the money and didn't fully understand this until my 30s. When you genuinely overlook women and prioritize your purpose, you will stand out from the other 99% of men who are actively chasing and trying to woo women into being with them. You will stand out massively when you do this and will begin to see just how easy it is.

[@carrionflowers6764]

Only if you succeed.

[@constablekennedy7705]

Very Wise Words Bro

[@carrionflowers6764]

@American Stoic I meant only if you succeed at whatever you are focusing on while overlooking women. Success would be living out your purpose. What is your purpose? Not all purposes are equal. Is it "provide for your family"? That is a popular one, but it also involves having women as your priority. Is it "play all the videogames I can"? Not very worthwhile in the eyes of many. Is it "help save lives" by becoming a health professional? What is your purpose you are prioritizing before women?

[@impudentdomain]

@@carrionflowers6764 now in days, just surviving is a pretty good purpose

[@carrionflowers6764]

@@impudentdomain So just focusing on surviving while overlooking women will somehow make you standout as the OP suggests? No. Not just any purpose will make you standout.

[@pauljerome01]

I don't think getting into a relationship then immediately jumping into the military is a good idea.

[@SynsterFear]

The guy who helped his wife lose weight. That reminds me of all the stories where a guy supports a girl through college. She gets a degree and a nice job and then kicks him to the curve and leaves.

[@shanestewart6252]

Story of my f***ing life

[@eezawyrdo3052]

I've pretty much given up on women. From being so obviously needy in my teens and twenties and getting zero attention as a result I noticed the less interest I took, the more interested they seemed to be . I'm not talking a night and day difference but something definitely changed. Also, I have always felt that just like some of us are no good at Math or Science or Sports, some of us are just no good at women. It may be a skill like any other that can be improved upon to a certain degree but if you ain't got it, you ain't got it.

[@SuperSymbiote1]

You haven't bothered to learn the skill bro. That's the reason.

[@chasing_dragons]

Even when a man has value, is "being in a commitment" really worth all the time and repetitive efforts to be "of value" just to say "we're exclusive?"

[@legendarycat2457]

Being 22 watching these vids everyday...I decided to make a choice. I'm open for relationships...but all my time and money is towards me and my retirement savings. I'm with great friends and all, they make me happy when I'm at my lowest. I know if I was at my lowest these girls would run off the second they had the chance...

[@chm9935]

Focus on your $$$$ now. Poontang going nowhere

[@pitapanda9150]

Best thing you can do! Made a lot of mistakes mentioned in all of the videos. Luckily no marriage. But still it throw me of for a few years. You are on the right track mate! keep going :)

[@BlackMamba-lt8oe]

Ur a kid 🤣🤣🤣🤣, u don't know shit

[@joshspiker]

Smart man. I wish I had access to this type of content when I was 22 (17 years ago).

[@impudentdomain]

you have the right attitude, be open to it, but don't sweat it

[@billjacobs2799]

Prime example of how shallow women are. Her bf helped her to achieve the goal of losing weight and once she achieved her goal, she dumps him. So much for staying with the man that was dedicated to her, she obviously is only interested in herself and nobody else. She will probably blow back up the first time she has a problem in life as her support person isn't there anymore. At that point the guy she is then with will leave.

[@ericaz1458]

Karma will come. Imagine all that loose skin 🤮

[@Josh-fp2qn]

The sow lost some weight and thought her SMV exceeded that of her bf. So she dumped him.

[@anthonywilliams7052]

Never deal with them, not worth all the drama or risk.

[@JCG0001]

Great message; learn to love and care for yourself, never fully commit yourself to any woman, no woman is going to love you unconditionally, and some will take you for everything you're worth.

[@DakotaDunlap69]

All this just sounds exhausting

[@joshbisinger7068]

Just because you have value doesn't mean you will get someone. It definitely helps your chances. Regardless it should be for personal growth not for someone else.

[@theelder4797]

Be six foot tall and built, that gets you whamens chasing you. Keeping them? Almost impossible and never worth it in the long run.

[@mikesmith9368]

That's not really a relationship, that's a hookup.

[@legwan2368]

"If you have value, she will notice you" Yea, after being ran through by 100s of dudes before you get your turn. That is unless you look for 18+ and up, but lets be honest, they're widling at even younger age these days. So, realistically by the time she's 18 she could've easily had a body count of at least 3-5. There is no hope if you're looking for a long term relationship in 2022 and up.

[@sammyvh11]

At 64 nobody chases me. But then they didnt at 20 either. Its always been a struggle then when you find someone they end up being an ass or dump you eventually. I'm going to fish and chill out and watch BB until the end. I'm not going crazy I actually think I have a good life in the USA. Just never a steady woman they come and go.

[@dannylaza1326]

Consider yourself lucky. I have women chase me and I just ignore them all now. The prettiest ones are the most boring and needy. I've emotionally checked out from women. I can't deal with them anymore. It's constant entertaining 24/7. Im much younger than you, you probably had a shot at having a successful relationship/marriage when you were younger just due to the times you lived in compared to now. Another reason is that im not vaxxed so even when a pretty girl approaches me I just ignore them and walk away because I don't want to go through the trouble of asking if they are vaxxed. I'll probably end up like you, as will most men. (maybe not a bad a thing). Peace.

[@GuruBikerTrash]

Same here, Dude. My life story.

[@bucket0rocks]

It is what it is. i like the peace & quiet. Hard pass on expensive drama.

[@BlackMamba-lt8oe]

Be thankful, my married uncle her wife bought men to hit him and wanted to steal his property 🤣🤣🤣🤣,

[@ncasti]

At 64 no women are chasing you? Go to a bar or diner where groups of 60+ year-old women congregate. Trust me, they will begin chasing.

[@benprins8240]

Men in my opinion STOP chasing women period. It's a waste of time, money, brain cells, can get you in trouble, gives you wrinkles, headaches and makes life shorter. I think that you should focus on your interests, goals, do what makes you smile, enjoy the little things and make memories. I know - your world opens up if you follow this mindset. Thanks Joker 😊

[@benprins8240]

@Stevo me too.

[@constablekennedy7705]

I Approve this Memo 💯👍🏿🙏🏿

[@benprins8240]

@@constablekennedy7705 thanks man😊

[@steamhammer2k]

If all men stuck together (like women) and did not chase women at all they would have to chase the men since they have an overwhelming drive to have children that I know that they will need a man for that.

[@milanpospisil8024]

@@steamhammer2k But you will have to somehow tame your drive to have sex, using porn or sexual workers.

[@rickstevenson9585]

By the time they want you, you won’t want them since women always want a guy several levels above them.

[@Winterascent]

I'm incredibly shocked at how fat almost every woman has gotten. Morbid obesity is normal, today. Why would I want that?

[@lilchang516]

@@Winterascent How “shallow” of you. You should accept women the way they are.

[@psylint7442]

I'm 24. A year ago I broke off the relationship I had for 7 years because of this girl power stuff. She started treating me like garbage, expecting everything, blah blah blah. Anyway, when I got out, I had nothing. I had to sell almost everything I owned just to make it to my parents house. I'm still saving for a vehicle despite basically living at work. I haven't chased anyone. I've focused on me and my family. For a year. Is it supposed to take 10 years? What's the point?

[@Jason.Goldstriker]

Thats why you gota do it for you bro and its never over there’s always another mountain to climb if you don’t enjoy grinding you won’t be consistent consistently enough because women aren’t a good enough motivation Also don’t waste 10 years doing “what you’re passionate about“ like I did be passionate about making money only

[@lennylink8772]

I find that women from other countries (non western) are superior. Countries that have had deadly conflict bring out the feminine quality in women.

[@sassasins031]

Life gets easier as you get money and hit your 30s. Most men struggle with women whilst in their 20s because you have very little value to them.

[@WageSlave_13]

It does take time. At 24, 10yrs seems like forever. It's not. You'll be very surprised how fast you'll get there. Do what ya gotta do. And despairing about chicks is exactly why you're not attractive to them. If you're your own man. It'll happen.

[@psylint7442]

@@Jason.Goldstriker Thanks man, I appreciate your input.

[@fifthof9501]

The title says it all! If you have value, you will be pursued. Be careful though. Does not mean any of them are worthy of your time.

[@otaviolobo7989]

That title sentence expects women to notice you for you when in reality she will notice your value first, you are just a expendable bonus.

[@sannjd]

Whenever I hear someone saying - women like challenge, drama, excitement and all this, I simply think of vomiting. How empty someone's life can be to seek such superficial excitement?

[@pootypump7440]

Yes, same here. It just tells me that they don't have anything constructive going on.

[@me8751]

Hey Joker... It may be a slow news week, but let me tell you man, this video hits all the right notes. You don't need a spicy new celebrity divorce to make a video. You speak the truth, and men need to hear it. Thanks, homie.

[@thestraycat69]

Focus on you not her, focus you not her. Joker thank you. Your advice freed me to better myself. You were my first advice to change myself. You lead me to lead others.

[@XxGyromancerXx]

I've noticed the bigger the loser the man is, the more tail he'll get. Women are attracted to those types for some reason. The instant I got my crap together, women started to ignore me because I was no longer fun. I became the boring guy. Life is more simple being the boring dude.

[@davidresch390]

Amen brother

[@Laurius57]

So you became betabucks. 🤣

[@mickethegoblin7167]

Depends on how you define 'loser'

[@jayare2583]

Men want peace and quiet, especially when they age. Women want chaos and drama till their 50s. So you holding down a good job and doing well, is boring..

[@Cyrus992]

So the top 10% idea is a myth

[@markjetson8977]

All my married buds hate it. Why would I?

[@sorathecrow751]

No woman has ever noticed me, so I must have no value. Hobbies, paid off house and car, make above average income, strong faith, but no woman wants me. So I'm trying to accept being worthless.

[@Nick-ue9um]

You’re not worthless, you can’t think like this, yours putting too much emphasis on the importance of being with a woman. Enjoy your hobbies and life, maybe seek some therapy

[@clinton4161]

Women in your area must be duds. If you're in the US look for girls in Eastern Europe or Asia. Look for someone humble and not very materialistic. When I'm not traveling I only date immigrants. It also really helps to be kind but fun and in decent physical shape.

[@petarglisic7300]

@@clinton4161 Women in eastern europe are no better.

[@melaninxcellence8208]

Go Africa or Colombia and you will change your narrative very soon.

[@melaninxcellence8208]

I went to do business in Africa and the amount of women desperately looking for a way out was beyond me. Most were asking whether I have a friend or uncles or people that want to date or marry them. Stop crying and get Yr passport now.

[@warbaby1975]

I'm short (5'5), bald, with a decent body, and retired from the United States Army as an Armored Reconnainace Specialist/artist of various mediums LOL! women have never even noticed me and the ones who did tell me I was too short. All my rejections from thousands of women in the past 32 have rejected me while mentioning my height as their barrier,

[@Josh-fp2qn]

Height can make or break your romantic life. I am 34 and never had a gf, not even really sure if a woman wanted to be with me. I am 5’3”. The only thing worse than being short is being very shy. Women loathe shy men, I don’t care what they say about it being cute. Balding is a strike against a man also which is another thing I have. It’s too bad because I am actually a good looking guy. If I was tall, had hair, and was outgoing I think I’d be slaying poon right and left. Oh well.

[@iceonthesun8880]

Don't feel too bad. I'm 6'2, and at 42 yrs old....never once has a girl I've asked out said yes. I always hear I'm too skinny and/or boney. There isn't much I can do about my fast metabolism. In short, you can't win.

[@JR1300r]

Hello Joker. I have been there and done that for many years I one hundred percent agree with your thoughts and advice YOUNG MEN listen to this man if you want a great life. Cheers

[@sillycaveman7832]

Very good advice here, Joker. Even a somewhat good-looking guy can turn a woman off and make them dryer than a dessert by sucking up to them. They don't want a ManChild that follows their lead. Women need a Man to pave the way forward by keeping their eyes locked on a goal, a strong financial future, while they follow behind.

[@demonhalo67]

Most don't even want to follow but want you to carry them while they have an easy life while you work hard.

[@TheSuperappelflap]

unfortunately this doesnt work for all the strong independent women, they refuse to let a man lead a relationship but they lose interest if you dont. theyre simply undatable.

[@lukewilson624]

This will work up to a point but eventually they'll still grow bored/dissatisfied with the relationship. The honeymoon phase doesn't last.

[@ncasti]

Don't chase. Instead, attract.

[@iowa_lot_to_travel9471]

To date them is no benefit. To dump them is no tragedy. - Saloth Sar

[@Sanguen666]

"The moment she leveled up., she dumped him". GOOD. I Hope he had his heart broken and that he learned his lesson. Some beta males are too dumb to learn. some never learn.

[@txmanlyman]

Women love calculatively, men love more so unconditionally.

[@steveinskeep4964]

When he chases her and then treats her like a queen, very very soon she treats him like a peasant. Don't become her preferred payment method. Let her chase you and demonstrate herself as a bona fide woman of traditional Christian family values. Yet even then secularism creeps in. So,.. be safe and simply DON'T MARRY. And don't let social circles white feather you into 'settling down, since even those selling themselves as Christian women are suspect.

[@JSFGuy]

1st & 2nd

[@rockspoon6528]

My sister was the unicorn many men seek... Christian, virgin at marriage, traditional values.. except that was all gone in a few years, and now she's divorced her husband, disowned her parents and myself, and gone off the fucking deep end. DO NOT MARRY.

[@brawndothethirstmutilator9848]

You’re living in fantasy land if you think you’re going to find a Christian woman with “traditional family values” that is okay not marrying you. The woman your comment describes is 110% looking for a husband.

[@Leaptab]

Never lead with your wallet, don't treat her like a celebrity or she will treat you like a fan, she will never chase you as she sees that as beneath her, however she will chase when she sees a sucker or can leech/manipulate her way into a luxury lifestyle that she will never get herself nor deserved.

[@isaiah95786]

Let her chase you, but don't let her Chase Bank you...

[@rgx420s]

Thanks for this one! I really needed to hear this today.

[@steveinskeep4964]

Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat,..." Truncated quote from movie Heat. So true. The worst psychological STI is catching feelings.

[@douglasbrinkman5937]

If the ARMY thinks you need a wife, they will issue one to you.

[@levisguy53]

that's what they said in the navy, yet the married guys got FSA for being out to sea for more than 30 days, what a crock of chit!

[@pablorosado535]

The most honest advise I heard in years. Joker , better than doctors: Excellent. They will find the same if he has other priorities, no matter if they try hard or not. Years ago I read, the ones who got the more attention are those who are not really looking for it. . . To force those things is always a mistake.

[@justnotherdayanddontbedik]

Yess I agree with the title I'm in pursuit of monk beast mode right now .. no simping here ( what could a woman offer me other then nono box or chewed up bubble gum down there) especially when they give out like candy. no nut September

[@bigneiltoo]

In my best relationship which lasted 4 years, the girl was a 10 and was half my age. The only way that was going to work was for me to let HER initiate nearly every text conversation. I kept stats. On 80% of given days, it was her sending the first text. Also, after every SINGLE date she had to be the first to text (usually sending a thank-you). This meant enduring 2-3 weeks of no contact at times, and that is what keeps their interest level high. Even when she has dates with other men, even when she tells you that she's in love with another man, your stoicism keeps her intrigued.

[@sibarra417]

take the red pill

[@blunt2416]

BB Nailed it whoever is the chaser has less value to the other. Men used to think "Men are hunters, So we must hunt for V"....Nope those were the days of the flintstones...No more initiating.

[@beardedlonewolf7695]

This guy is about to make the same mistake I did when I joined the army, give up nothing for a woman, absolutely nothing.

[@chumblesthecheese8580]

"A woman in need, is a woman indeed." -Benjamin Franklin

[@Josh-fp2qn]

Somebody tell Ben a woman don’t need no man.

[@SpaceCowboy-D]

He treated her like a queen, so she treated him like a vagabond.

[@ModelJames13]

If you chase women, you probably won't get one. If you wait for women to chase you, they probably never will. Lesson: you will probably fail either way. Keep the false hope alive, or just give up. Those are the 2 options.

[@DutchDansing]

blackpill

[@Josh-fp2qn]

Women only pursue and ask out Chad. You have to laugh when they claim to be too shy to ask out a man but somehow they are able to summon the courage when it comes to a genetically godlike man.

[@Smiler2724]

The best is the choose women who are honest and have high value love her husband treat him well.

[@yvesgysel9834]

In college I was focusing on the studies, my part-time work, sports... Never chasing girls, interacting with girls for sure. Some were indeed flirting or asking me to hang out. I never did, because I was just to focused on achieving my goals. In my experience Women/Girls are so attracted to Guys with goals, who are not looking for casual fun. I always considered them as a friend, a person. It's not that crazy, actually. If she's hot and knows you are chasing her, why would she make any effort?

[@raulsanches3619]

If you care about her noticing your value, you already lost

[@bluegoka]

15:55 _”He hung in there (…) and when she could level up, she dumped him.”_ The industry calls it Bariatric Divorce.

[@burntnougat5341]

Focusing on improving onself is the key point but having some form of expectation that you'll be sought after by a woman for doing that is pure cope

[@JonBee99]

It's takes more than just focus on your self.. self mastery, mastery of thought, increased spiritual wisdom and semen retention. You can't become high value without knowing self discipline. Then and only then will you manifest your true self.

[@Moralozki]

My ex cheated on me, shes been with him for a year now we have a daugther toghether and my own daugther has been telling me that she wanted to be with me ive been single for a year, and My only Focus is My daugther and myself, i'm fat, i kinda don't care Focus on yourselves, and if You are in a situation like mine, focus on your loved ones thank You Joker

[@alexbadescu7943]

You have to care about your weight, if not for you, do it for your daughter. She needs a healthy dad. Good luck!

[@rayven1178]

This is why you don't "s1mp." When you overcommit you're an idiot. It's like studying 20 hours for a guaranteed-A quiz. It's like offering to pay 3x full price for a used car. It's like agreeing to sign all business papers in a business deal but not expecting the other party to sign a single thing. Don't let society shame you into being a sucker and idiot. Relationships SHOULDN'T be like a business deal but it really is exactly like one. You need to protect yourself and demand a worthy exchange. Don't sell yourself short.

[@markfornefeld299]

The way I just thought of it it is that chasing is like a check valve it only works one way and do what this guy better bachelor says and you will be all right if you tried to go the other way it’s like trying to blow against the suction force of a check valve

[@MageBlackstone]

What makes you think that when I have wealth which is the value that you refer to I would want to have a 304 beside me or any other leecher. Most of us work hard towards our goal and we don't want a freeloader at the finish line if we ever get there.

[@Sonicstillpoint83]

Joker, thank you. More people need to hear and internalize this message.

[@RicardoPenders]

Man you cracked me up when you said; "Chad Thunderstroke". 😆🤣😂

[@skanlines]

I think mens only real chance of finding love and a family, is to find a nice Amish girl. They have a community and probably still have shame, that you probably wouldn’t have to worry. Still a higher likelihood of finding an Amish girl than a city girl who won’t leave your ass because you said thank you.

[@MEATOGRE]

How do these guys watch this channel, see the same things day after day after day that these women do, but then ask “should I chase this woman?” Did you comprehend a single thing said here over the years?

[@JSFGuy]

And the notices are rolling in

[@shiiteposter1396]

🥇

[@Ralph_W]

Every woman I've gotten involved with has made it abundantly clear they were interested; verbally or through body language. If I wasn't interested, all I had to do was not act on her cues and she gets the point -- typically no discussion necessary at all!

[@adamkays7639]

Don’t chase puthy, getting some puthy is ok, but don’t chase it. ~Mike Tyson

[@bachelorsensei9437]

"If you have value, she will notice you." That's kinda the double-edge sword. She will stay until she finds someone who gives even more value.

[@W.T.F599]

I'm too old to care what women think now a days.

[@jelig72]

Preach

[@williammentink]

Lucky you. I haven't reached that point yet.

[@TheEatShizzel]

A multi millionaire once told me. Chase money and women will chase you.

[@randomyoutuber7898]

So simple. So true so 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@sunnyskies880]

Women date based on looks today, not income. This isn’t the 1950’s anymore. Modern women actually make a little bit more money than men today. Very few women today are impressed with a 50K per year job.

[@GangdamStyle20]

You have not understand the message of this channel. Yes, they are not impressed with 50K, but the butterflies start with 100K....

[@sunnyskies880]

@Pasoa If you want to be used for your money, then yeah, it’s about a six figure job. Go become a betabux and get cheated on.

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

@@sunnyskies880 EXACTLY!! Most males are dum asf and still don't get this. You can work a minimum job but as long as you're hot you will still get attention from girls.

[@Dave-kh6tx]

Women don't date based on looks in the states. I got attention from lots of married women at my last job. No chance of meeting decent woman or having kids there. Quit and booked it to Mexico. I've met lots of nice women here. It's harder to find a dud pre 35 here. 🤣🤣.

[@c.albrow9161]

So does this mean they should sthu about the “wage” gap (even though it’s an earnings gap)?

[@ivanrakk]

Rowdy, good luck and best wishes. Lesson learned. I hope she gets what she deserves.