Men Should Pay For EVERYTHING | Women Should Be Hypergamous ©

[@byKevinSamuels]

What was your biggest takeaway from my video? Comment below.

[@kenyacasey2369]

I totally agree with your message and personally I don’t want anything for free and if I cant afford something I will wait until I can pay full price and I don’t want anyone doing something for me for nothing because I am not going to do something for nothing unless it’s something I am doing something to help someone financially unfortunate like children or ill/ elderly . Male or female

[@bradcooper642]

So much to take away from this topic. I would need more characters then youtube allows.

[@KUROSHURA]

I agree 100% that we as Men need to be 100% if a man wants a woman to shut up and do what he says then he needs to pay for everything. That’s fair Both Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence spoke on this in the 80’s. If a man wants 100% Cooperation from a Woman then he needs to be paying 100% of the running costs.

[@forgivekobe]

That I haven’t been doing enough

[@gemsoftheheart]

The truth is annoying, but necessary.

[@Retired-jr3qs]

I'm 57 years old, retired, single and overweight. Kevin Samuels has motivated me to get in shape and reinvent myself.

[@Retired-jr3qs]

@@stephendailey3108 Yes I have a plan. I will be physically fit by November 1st.

[@loisasmith5558]

🌈🌈🌈 yes you can do it it’s never too late don’t let bitter strangers from the internet to discourage you ❤️

[@thaxtonwaters8561]

The wall doesn't exist for us. Focus for 2-3 yrs and your life will be totally different.

[@Apoc6]

Sofia X That is simply a boundary that you set for yourself. Most men who are established and has money, assets, and investments, and most likely wants to get married will not be 32, unless you are trying to land a celebrity man, a lotto winner, or a trust fund baby. Even still, he may not want to marry you, or have children with you. Even if you do have his child, you will get child support but if he gets married later on, you and your children will be excluded from his inheritance. If you believe in hypergamy, it would make sense to marry a man who is established and have assets that will have you and your children set up well into the future. If you wait until in your 40s, when you sexual value declines drastically, you become overweight and your looks fade, the likelihood goes waaaaaay down. You will still have to work, keep up your looks, and settle for a lower value man.

[@MrLonghorn343]

@@Apoc6 settle for a lower value man? By then, she is a lower value woman, so he will be settling too.

[@primetime6629]

I'm a brother that has had to rise from the ashes. I'm a blue collar Henry. I gave up everything to a traditional woman turned modern woman. I am a traditional provider man. My ex wife didn't have to work to pay significant bills. She wanted to go to school,so I paid for schooll,bought a house,luxury cars, the whole nine yards. When she graduated and started making her own money,then states that my money was chump change,that was the beginning of the end. So when the marriage was over I allowed her to keep all of the things acquired and I started from scratch. Now I have a new traditional wife,multiple acres of land, 2 houses and luxury cars. I have started a nonprofit business which is very profitable. My income has tripled. When a man is the BAG no one or nothing can stop him from being high value.

[@jahkarimirza7286]

How is the ex doing now?

[@jahsnoke8043]

Well done

[@primetime6629]

@@jahkarimirza7286 Not happy.

[@belindamoore3518]

I'm sure your wife is ECSTATIC!!!!

[@Bubbles-qh7ez]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Realmcfly97]

I listen to this once a month, thank you Kevin for helping all the men that didn’t get this information from their fathers. Rest in Power ❤

[@thaxtonwaters8561]

For a single mother raised generation...this is the Father, Big Brother, and Uncle we needed. Thanks Mr. Samuels.

[@illwitness]

I second that.

[@kudzaijaur3681]

I'll third that

[@mikeandmars2345]

I 4th 5th and 6th that one bro

[@krystiasouza4127]

Absolutely agree. His words are the swift backhand in the chops when you backtalk to elders, the sit down on the bed lets chat wisdom you should receive from parents, and (if received correctly) the guidance to prevent you from continuously making the same mistake or making mistakes period in life. I appreciate him.

[@pacedeli24]

Real talk my father and uncles are like this

[@michaelsmith-ws2mb]

when I and my wife started to live together 6 months before we got married. she was shocked and happy as hell hat i wanted to pay all the bills, and i did. so much so that her girlfriends were finally talking nice about me and saying how lucky she was. she eventually convinced me to for her to pay the cable and power bill. she insisted, she wanted to contribute. she completely submitted to me . And we are still going strong 20 years later.

[@marjoriedavis-barnes3625]

AMEN TO COMMITMENT, STAYING STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE IT HAPPEN

[@JSain]

Yessir that’s real thanks for the motivation 🖤

[@tashdavidson4046]

As I said, she wanted to pay those bills because she wanted to invest. If you didn't let her invest she would eventually stray. Women need to invest in a relationship to stay there. How many times do we hear men say they have done everything for the woman yet she still gets up and leaves? Countless times.

[@markanthony1163]

Sounds like a good woman!

[@wshelby83]

@@markanthony1163 true that and a good man too

[@earnestdove5001]

This stream made me realize I’ve lost my ambitions, I’ve become lazy and I’ve become timid and I’ve always cheap. It’s time for me to change

[@corycrews707]

We are with you..Respect

[@robertdore9592]

Black people in general are cheap as hell, but I've only ever dated two women who were remotely generous. My last blind date was with a a women who 'alligator armed' the bill, I said "don't worry, I'll pay" after her insisting I asked her just to leave nice tip for the bartender. She left £5.00 on a £65.00 bar tab; I lost her number very quickly indeed.

[@Regalqualitylifestyle]

change into what ??

[@Mrtkm]

@@robertdore9592That’s almost a 10% tip, how are you tryna make it sound like that’s so bad? She could’ve walked out without tipping lmao

[@andredickerson5800]

​@@robertdore9592you should have paid for everything

[@amazinggrace313]

As a woman, I can't say Kevin bashes women. He just brings them to the reality of their dating value. He also doesn't ease up on the men. This man is amazing. I think there was only once I disagreed with him, but that's a minor infraction for a man that mostly right. This man needs to be protected

[@thomasharrison4440]

Absolutely!!

[@mayaalan7631]

I’m sorry, but when he calls a 5’8” lean woman a linebacker, he’s basically bashing her for her height. How can you say that he doesn’t bash women?

[@DJKidd301]

Rip

[@MikeTheCeleb]

Definitely needed to be protected 😔

[@Candyman757]

@@mayaalan7631 Listen again, he said that they are the size of a linebacker which is factually correct. Google the size of linebackers in the NFL.

[@jamesgeist9535]

I am a total white boy. I've always been inspired and motivated by my African American brothers. I grew up in a racist world but that never changed me. Your message is Iron. Steel sharpens steel. Thank you brother.

[@sirreginaldlee3576]

lol

[@cliffordjeffery3557]

You're iron my brother! Well spoken..You're the B.A.G

[@Twelvelyn]

Respect.

[@hughflucas7075]

Much respect man your the best

[@Qwertyisgajidbd]

Hahahaha

[@et6032]

I was a mail carrier at the age of 20. I retired at 45. I own rental properties in the county, reside. My resume is not existent. But I left a fulfilled happy life regardless what comes. My grandfather told me America for sale get yourself a piece but,I have pieces.

[@Deshawn1]

When he said "can you shut women up with your work", I can hear the doubt of Men who can't just agonize in pain.

[@vertisbrown6483]

Foreal 🤧😭

[@Fowler0526]

you said a mouthful sir

[@bigdunks4eva]

As a 40yr old man reading two kids by myself, I seriously regret not investing in myself when I was younger and had plenty of free time to do so. I spent most of my life battling depressing and feeling sorry for myself. So now I'm working as many hours as I can, while trying to develop new skills and also pursue possible career changes. I could have easily done all of this while I was younger before I had my kids. I take full responsibility. The truth hurts 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@Lewieo]

I'm 27 now, battling depression and emotional issues, it literally eats away your time, as men i feel emotional work should be number one, its what's holding us back

[@mathiso01]

@@Lewieo A little advice. Find a way to get better, any way that doesn't hurt you, and I mean any way. Books, Psychiatrist, courses. You'll have a few quick good moments when you do that over the years they start to add up. You'll look around and realize it's really working by better decisions and opportunities coming your way. You won't be able to doubt it. That can be your reality, it works.

[@virgilf3]

@@Lewieo hit the gym and do things you like to do ,meditate

[@bunnyrivera765]

What matters most is that you learned now and Its not too late We're here to evolve and love & you are doing the work! My grandmother is in her 90's & still hasnt changed for.the better You have so much to be proud of and you're blessed to have children As you.must already know

[@theagbaman]

You’ve locked in and are getting it done NOW! Continue your evolution and push forward with all your power. All the best!

[@amberwhite7946]

I cannot agree more, being feminine is a lot of things but resting in the art of receiving is life changing.

[@atmuhzfeerjoyner]

The 😊😊

[@Beardown2]

I’m a 22 year old black male, about to attend medical school this Fall. I want to create a good life for me and be in the best position to help support a family.... while doing what I love, which is helping others in the field of medicine!

[@moneyman2825]

Good luck bro 💪🏾💪🏾

[@lilmisslegal3018]

You go! Clinical rotations is the best part of medical school!

[@ricomarcelmusic]

Stay encourged!!!

[@belindamoore3518]

Awesome!

[@0doublezero0]

@Cap’n Cooks Krystal Ship Bare minimum don't get married during medical school. Watched one of my black attendings go through a divorce, the man looked dead to the world. Fought a large custody battle for the kids and I believe he had won custody of them a few days a week. He looked a lot happier at the end of my rotation, but yeah it hurt him bad. If that shit happened to him during med school would have zero time to deal with it. He was an attending so he could cancel his appointments for the court case. So wait until then to marry.

[@sheldon6307]

18, 6 ‘ 2, but I will not lie- I graduated high school with a pretty average rank in my class. Used to think paying for everything was stupid because some guys think paying= sex, but now I see the value. I wanna be able to pay for everything because only a truly high value man has that ability in the first place. Working toward it now. Thanks for the guidance Uncle G putting

[@joejoe-en9bn]

Single father of 1, 27 years of age working a 9 to 5 Kevin contributed to the kick start of my transformation process to becoming a better man. I now take accountability for all my actions, I reconciled relationships with family members as well as my sons mother for the better of his mental health as well as gained a relationship with God. It’s a beautiful process, he’s like a father I never met

[@marjoriedavis-barnes3625]

Because you were willing to listen and act on it.

[@truettadevil]

Imagine if every Black man had this level of maturity... imagine!

[@tng6510]

This was good!!! Thank God for my husband. He is all of the things that make a high value man even when he was in college... which is what made me fall in love with him 20 years ago. Generous, ambitious, kind, paid for everything even in college, BOLD, protective, and strong leader never a follower... thank you LORD!!!

[@virgochild91]

I had wish I had seen this video 2 years ago; it would have benefited me a lot. I actually wanted to book a consultation before he passed. He was literally changing the world and wanted to make traditional couples great again among everyone. May he rest in peace 🙏

[@ojames1983]

Kevin gave the same energy, same expectations, same discussions addressing the men as he did the women of becoming or being at the level for which you say you want. Yet his critics and detractors don't dare mention videos like this one, nor any where he's taking calls from the men (the first 3 years + men's week) of content.

[@jC-xz7jn]

Tragic indeed

[@LatiWins]

I look at Kevin and just want to hug him! He makes me laugh, and reminds me of my dad. My dad is a Nigerian man, retired professional, provides for his family, no-nonsense, straight talker, tell- it-like-it-is kind of guy. Harsh but honest. 🤷🏾‍♀️ No “daddy’s little girl”, spoiling/princess, gives-me-whatever I want $$ relationship with us. He made it his goal to pay for our college and that’s more than a lot of parents do, so I’m so grateful to him. I have such a thick skin now partly because of him. However did pick up some of that harshness and I had to learn to tone it down a bit. No one likes a black woman- or any woman really- being that harsh because it becomes unfeminine and men don’t want to deal with it. My dad showed me a good example of how a man should be. I’m married with kids now and I hope to raise them with the same values. As the African proverb says - A friend who frowns is better than an enemy who smiles.

[@lungelokhumalo6098]

I hope you find the man that you deserve sister ❤️

[@d.kj.n1392]

Seeing how you were raised, you would definitely be fit for a solid man. I know you're married lol

[@d.kj.n1392]

You're my type of woman.... I don't know if it's just me, but nowadays, I come across alot of women that want men to almost act like them, always giggling and laughing, everything is a joke, and have other feminine ways... And i can't rock with it. Men SHOULD be straightforward, men SHOULD be direct, men SHOULD be about his business...

[@mytriton54]

Wish I could give you a thousand thumbs up for that one, Sis!!!!!

[@Talia_IceCreamPaints]

Thanks for sharing. You’re very fortunate.

[@AnumIAM]

Samuel challenges both men and women. Now that is a fair thing. Too bad the men love focusing on shows that break down women. Otherwise the men could learn something.

[@lloydbenton9636]

He never broke down women! Kelvin simply told the women the way it is!

[@AnumIAM]

@@lloydbenton9636 to rebuild you must break down the old...the bad. So I think he criticized women constructively. That is what I mean by break down. No need to find an argument in my point... I was praising the man and his methods. Have a blessed one.

[@lloydbenton9636]

Naw, not really. For ppl who actually listens to Kevin, believe or not, he's way harder on us men than he is on the women. But as usual, he was just telling it the way it is. So from my point of view, I disagree.

[@da_reelbk4500]

@@AnumIAM YOU DID criticize MEN in your initial comment ('...too bad..."). And FTR: How many publuc Forums are there that Really criticize/tear down WOMEN? NOW, compare that to the Forums that tear down/criticize MEN...Especially BLACK MEN. Exactly. Kevin is Intelligent, Articulate, and Assertive. In Addition he subscribes to a Traditional Masculine Mindset. Some will Agree. Others will disagree. But almost ALL CAN RELATE. In other words, it's Familiar. Many people have NEVER had an original thought in their Lives! and have NEVER Focused long enough to Analyze WHERE THEIR Belief system originates, IF it's productive, and What changes NEED to be made.

[@AnumIAM]

@@da_reelbk4500 what is your problem? I said he goes hard on both and that we can learn. The videos most men share are the ones against women's wrong behaviors. I simply said I wish they shared the other videos equally. Calm down. Do men and women have to fight always. Try looking at the good instead of focusing on the part you disagree with. Peace

[@gracelove1842]

He is so correct. This is so hard to hear. I'm 45 no children, two degrees but I haven't progressed in my professional career. I'm below average. I'm going to work harder. I've allowed anxiety and depression keep me from progressing.

[@hmoneyvibez751]

What's ya degrees in

[@cinceregaulden9826]

I’m with you on this one

[@purplegirl8036]

If you start a business or a few side hustles you can make your income a lot faster. The way a lot of companies are structured politics (your race, gender, popularity contest etc) can get in the way. Even if you work 3 times as hard as your coworkers there’s still a glass ceiling waiting for you. Take time off to start passive incomes.

[@ceooflonelinessinc.267]

The west has a toxic mindset. If you are only valuable with a lot of money, a society will fall. Its already showed. Death of despair is real for men and women.

[@clydedaglide5284]

I am a PhD

[@PrincessEvangelist]

The part about investing in yourself, having coaches and mentors for self improvement/development

[@sylvesterhurt447]

“Women respect resources “ KS

[@jayally1900]

den what will happen if you lost your resources doe?

[@dirtydingo250]

My girl literally told me the other day, "omg you are just so abundant in resources 😍" inside I was like 😂 because I heard it from KS first

[@gregf8701]

Rewatching all your episodes Godfather, this legacy will be passed down to my unborn kids. Thank you for your work and dedication to uplifting people.

[@fullfab]

W

[@thelawyerchad]

For me the biggest takeaway, or where the rubber meets the road, is the work. Period. None of this is applicable to men who don't put in the work. As the old song from Rocky goes, "There's no easy way out. There's no shortcut home."

[@a100percentReal]

Great song! 🥊

[@bohammondlee7472]

Not just work but opportunity

[@DhaneCrowley]

I agree. It's time for Brothaz to grow up and start bossin up.

[@CVP72]

Exactly. Boss up or get bossed around. Fly up or get flown over! We out chea.*B0$$*

[@nunkap8874]

Pls send them my way lmaoo

[@annabellawr]

Mr. Samuels you are spot on with everything, as always. My mother is Ethiopian, father Italian and it is very customary on both sides of my cultures to literally fight for the check at the table. If it’s a group of men and women at the table, the men ALWAYS paid as expected. I’ve never seen women in my family pay in the presence of men because just as you said, pride. it wasn’t until i got older and began dating american men that i learned it’s very common for women to touch the tab lol.

[@krubelhabteyes7797]

Ayeee! We got another Habesha here! I agree men should always pay for everything. I grew up in Ethiopia watching my dad pay for everything. He is a true High Value Man.

[@Nash0303]

I only dated Nigerian men because of this. They have that same pride that others lack.

[@lotuswolf1518]

Men who don't spend money 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐

[@devonmatthews8197]

Oh... annabella... you are traditional

[@evaphillips2102]

These losers get offended if a woman doesn’t offer 😂 pride is dead

[@PrincessEvangelist]

The more I watch you the more I realize you know exactly what you’re saying...you’ve paid your dues and earned the right to. This is the the truth, we all need sound advice and tough love

[@rochelleowens6501]

Interesting topic. My husband is a very giving man. He has been giving me gifts way before we were even dating. We have a son and has been carrying a wallet since 7, wearing spray cologne since around 10 and he has been wearing a watch since 12. My son when he wants something instead of asking us for it he will ask to work for extra money. He will buy me treats when he has money and he has bought me dinner as well. He takes money out of his savings account to purchase Christmas gifts and he just turned 15 years old.

[@rochelleowens6501]

@ thank you! I learned and with guidance from my Mom picked a good person to marry. It just trickles down.

[@LatiWins]

Wow! You’re raising a wonderful young man who will grow up to be a high-quality man who will definitely attract a good woman. You’ve given me great tips to raise my future sons with - as well as the kind of guy my daughters should look for.

[@mbinze1298]

This is so admirable.

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

♥♥ I recommed read Rich Dad, Poor dad from Robert Kiyosaki. It blew my mind🌷🌷 I want to be a rich person to help more people🍀

[@rochelleowens6501]

@@tralaritralarajiju2652 I read his book and the only thing I learned is too own property. He really never says how to work the system. I watched his videos and he still never tells you how to get rich.

[@holisticvillage8325]

This man should be standard listening as part of our rites of passage from boyhood to manhood

[@goddaniel9478]

Haha i love the way you wrote this

[@freeross371]

I love how Mr. Samuels took time to talk to the 19-year-old young man.

[@blackroute1527]

Nothing wrong with Hypergamy. Women and men should use it to their advantage especially during their prime years.

[@mrroycejayflochi3302]

The Black Kraut I’m strongly for it as well. The schism to me is that the women that talk the most about hypergamy tend to not have the goods to be too hypergameous, and it easily shows. #fivefourandtwohunnitpoundsixes

[@Apoc6]

Royce Jay They want to wait until after 40 to try to be hypergamous.

[@ShinkuGouki]

Their hypergamy is what keeps us competitive

[@strrangerthings7049]

Problem is when they choose to get pregnant during hypergamy, And you are a slave all of a sudden Problem is Male's are the one's that catch feelings through sexual exchanges Problem is the universal principle is all abt seeking the One for you, Which is what everyone is seeking for but won't admit to it, So everyone thinks by sleeping around is how you will find that one But how many of us in real? Problem is a problem for itself now days buddy

[@strrangerthings7049]

If I have test her than she is not worth it, as far as sex is goes no women is a grown virgin out there so it doesn't make a lot of sense to wait for it between the two people, if a women is truly a virgin than sex after marriage makes complete sense

[@i_oca95]

I’m 28 years old, live on my own, and have a job,but hearing Mr. Samuels call us his boys is so heart warming and feels very fatherly. RIP

[@dreamccullough3669]

I transitioned from working as a CNA at a skilled nursing facility to managing it. My salary jumped from $9.00 per hour to six figures. The attitude I had going in was that I wouldn't be in that CNA position for long. Right now, I weigh 190 pounds and am 5'5" but not for long. My best friend died was suffering from depression. Ready to get back to the happy and healthy me. Again, thanks for your honesty.

[@akeembell1706]

I’m 33 years old and I can admit I wasted precious time in my teens and 20’s not staying laser focused on my purpose. Even though I have a decent life I know there’s always room for improvement. This video gave me the kick in the ass I needed to really own my shit.

[@Da10thAlphabet]

Same Here Brotha. Wish I would have came across Kevin a long time ago.

[@SanctifiedLady]

You have a solid 7yrs to be any kind of millionaire you want. It only takes 7yrs to do it in America

[@anthonysantiago8884]

What is your purpose? How long ago did you realize it?

[@candidyamskickback5514]

32:37 confident intelligent assertive 32:46 competitive intriguing and aggressive 33:09 bold ambitious generous

[@theodorebruntson6436]

I'm 28 I'm currently a fitness instructor and a game theory consultant living in New York city I don't have it all together but I'm on my way thank you for the message

[@DarkKnight-yz2wg]

Game theory as in the sense of corporate strategy.

[@meaningoflife7199]

RIP Legend, they won’t talk about how you humbled men too.

[@truettadevil]

Who is they 🤔 Men? You right... we only see men mentioning Kevin when it comes to bashing women. They don't bring him up to hold each other accountable or to support women saying that men should pay all the bills 💅🏾

[@jeromehenry1574]

💯 My Legend he Definitely wake Us man up fi real. RIP brother

[@Mr3sixty360]

I'm 40, no siblings, fatherless child since the age of 9, had to be a man extremely living in Chicago which is my native city. Men like you inspire me and I am grateful to have been enough men such as your self to learn how to be a man that I need to be for me first before I can be a man for any woman.

[@antoniotula262]

Seriously his best vid I have ever heard!!!!.... Truth, genuine passion & personal testimony. Many agree/ disagree with Kevin on various issues but on value of work & work ethic for a man especially, none should disagree. Many of our problems would be gone if his work ethic from early age were prioritized.

[@mustafahussein9238]

I like how he talked to the guy with respect & assertiveness.

[@cephas5053]

I’m 35 and broke as hell but I can’t hate the game. This has inspired me to do better 😃

[@ceooflonelinessinc.267]

You are a victim of your society. You have done nothing wronh. If you are only considered valuable when making money, your society will sooner or later collapse. Look at the U.S. Death of despair is real. For men and women.

[@joobebescorner1985]

Im female and i wish i was this giy he has incredible energy

[@evanyoung7719]

Damn I’m sure going to miss this MAN!

[@CoreyEmills]

2 years later what have you done hopefully you have bossed up

[@Kobeisgoated0808]

@@CoreyEmillsright I’m genuinely curious to

[@eznosnopes5276]

Hypergamy has acquired 2 meanings. The first one you are talking about is what women should be. Women should seek out the most high quality men. If you are beautiful you can get lots of men. If you have virtuous, submissive, valuable qualities, you can land a great man. She is an asset to the man. That type of hypergamy is awesome. It makes the men perform better and be better. A man must acquire power. The other meaning of hypergamy is that a woman is always looking to trade up. You could be a great man handling things but once she has access to everything, she will move on to the next guy. This is the type of hypergamy that men are concerned about. You see it in athletes where they have made it. The family and their children are set for life but once he retires from the game, she is done with him and takes half. Not always on the same page as you but definitely some great hard truths spoken. This has inspired me to grind even more and push myself even harder.

[@eznosnopes5276]

@Tika Summers Well if that is the case, why do they only divorce their partners once their careers are over? Any evidence that most divorces are caused by infidelity?

[@ceooflonelinessinc.267]

Thats a toxic mindset. If you constantly judge people how much money they make, your society will sooner or later become sick. Death of despair is real in the U.S. For women and men.

[@EdwardL10501]

I’m still building my real estate portfolio and living below my means but I’m addicted to investing my money into the stock market. I like to work smart not hard. I’ll have a couple million dollars worth of assets within the next 4-5 years and with the passive income of over 10K a month. I’m up over 30k in the last 3 months.

[@StupidBadyXD]

Don’t get marry lol

[@dobianulid7142]

Sure you do

[@paulgonzalezcooks]

I have a terrible gambling addiction and it convinced me I was a loser but the more I listen to Kevin the more I realize I am a real winner. My addiction doesn't define me but my recovery does. I am a winner in everything I do.

[@kingelement4160]

31 years old and these videos have change my life..From this video im now getting in the habit of working, taking care of my mind,body and soul. My whole outlook now is different. Thank you for real.

[@kevinhenry6929]

Mr. Samuels I'm listening to you and you said a lot of things that makes sense and tbh honest you shed a lot of light of my own life. I'm 33 years old and don't want to be average no more.

[@haroldsoulparker324]

Man I really love this channel. There are no short cuts in life. All Black men really needs to hear this. This is how kings are made. Kudos Kevin

[@obakengtaje1759]

He speaks nothing but the truth, a man should pay for everything, as a man just get a women you can afford

[@C_itsNemo]

Buying a woman is disingenuous

[@C_itsNemo]

Won’t last

[@billymadisonsbestestfriend5038]

where the heck was mentors like this 12 years ago lmaoo, ofc youtube wasnt around but watching your videos.. really breaks stuff down and opens my eyes to the ways i always refused to wana follow.. so much thank you for your content.

[@nadrac2002]

Boy do I miss this man's Livestreams. You're missed KS.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Wow the entire stream was 💯🔥 this why appreciate you. With the calls, you called both men and women equally to task! Keep it up👍🏽

[@LadyVKreations]

I really appreciate the way you handled the conversation with the young man. Your advise while you two spoke was really good as well the advice afterwards was great. Keep educating them Kevin. Some will listen even though some will not. Your work is not in vain.

[@Iridescent602]

Stop saying that marriage is just a piece of paper...So is money but you get up everyday and work hard for it. So work hard for your relationship, and your marriage.

[@slickdawg5976]

As the old adage states: "You have to pay the cost to be the boss." I truly don't understand the mind set of this younger generation of males.

[@rocklee8822]

What can you expect when we are all being raised by single mothers, I’m 28 now and just starting to realize the issues I have from being raised without a father/male figure now and hopefully I can teach the younger generation better than what I was taught.

[@trikstari7687]

They've been raised by a public "education" system that is largely bent on teaching them to be permanent failures, to ensure that the "social safety net" always needs more funding. College is even worse. Why else would you raise a generation of children to believe "all men bad" or "all persons of a certain skin color are bad" or "this other group with a different skin color can't succeed on their own unless we hold others back". I'm not saying being educated is a bad thing, but the education system is definitely broken and teaching a LOT of wrong things. Why doesn't it teach people useful things like how to pay taxes, make a budget, maintain a house or apartment, cooking, etc?

[@kodjokwakoudzi7538]

@@trikstari7687 I disagree with last part. We had economics class in Highschool. Some people didn't care to take it. Either way the library is free to read books on these subjects .

[@vernonpaigejr.1517]

In my previous marriage I actually said that line.

[@gocpng4699]

The Way People Are Raised.

[@mannyfresh7138]

This aged well. You passed 100000 and them some. This are the type of videos that make me evaluate everything about my life. Thanks for putting your boot in our asses for free.

[@Epiphany_Productions]

Timeless. You're still dropping gems on me, even from beyond the grave. RIP Godfather. Salute.

[@youngtimer7531]

Hey Kevin. My son is 23 yo. I've raised him to despise the free lunch. I guess my grandfather instilled it in my but I never knew it to be characteristic. YES, my family has benefited from it. It has provided me LEADERSHIP CLOUT/AUTHENTIFICATION. I had never heard anyone articulate this trait. Thanks for the quality content.

[@mrroycejayflochi3302]

If you want to own it all and control it all, then you MUST pay for it all!!! This is why visiting a marriage counselor before a wedding, and getting an airtight prenuptial is essential. “50/50” to a woman means that she’s paid a fee to not to have to do whatever she wants, and that marital respect and compliance is optional.

[@mrroycejayflochi3302]

Kareem jenkins Marriage as we know it is approximately 200yrs old. Prenuptial agreements, visiting marriage counselors and divorce attorneys, getting background and credit checks, and visiting a doctors as a couple BEFORE getting married is a very new approach, and much cheaper than waiting until after the marriage has occurred. Doing so removes the “veil” of surprise and disappointment and reduces risk. Putting the accountability on each partner before the marriage takes place leaves the door open to leave before greater damage is done, and keeps everyone involved more honest. Do you see where I’m coming from?

[@mrroycejayflochi3302]

Kareem jenkins Ultimately, the “Marriage” isn’t the relationship, which is why the state is involved in marriage as opposed to relationships. Ultimately, the relationship is the most important thing. Being married for almost 25yrs myself, I see the value in what Kevin says, especially since he’s been divorced twice. One can learn much more from failure than they can from success. And one can really learn a lot from learn from the wisdom of those who have failed because they’ve already been through the trials and tribulations of the journey. All the things I personally speak of about how to approach marriage before the wedding is because of the things I learned after bumping my head through the marriage journey. As a Married man, I agree with quite a bit of what Kevin is saying because I’ve seen it in other places and aspects.

[@mrroycejayflochi3302]

majesticj42 your “bible” also says men should have one wife in one part, THEN it says men can have multiple wives...so which is it, ole’ faceless bible expert???

[@mrroycejayflochi3302]

majesticj42 The thing is that we have to leave the religious books out of the marriage discussion because marriage is secular, which is different than the relationship. Marriage is a contract between the State/Government and the people involved. Therefore, marriage is a business arrangement. To be the boss of a business, then you must own and control all shares, which mean you MUST FINANCE IT ALL. There’s a very good reason that the saying “Paid the cost to be the Boss” exists.

[@mrroycejayflochi3302]

majesticj42 No, doubt. That’s why I came up with those points to consider prior to getting into marriage. Marriage is a risk because of what you stated, so people have to take steps to either minimize or eliminate those risks. I did a video on it in my channel talking about it. Go and check it out.

[@yournotdatguypal]

Kevin I have not been studying for my real estate exam, I was going to aim for the bare minimum percentage for a passing grade on the exam but you have motivated me to go for a 100% passing rate. I too grew up blue pill beta male raised by his mother. I am determined to wake up that inner wolf that you have woken up inside of you! 🙏🏽💯

[@hime1004]

Thank you!!! It is refreshing to know that real men are still here

[@reneecrotty6910]

I can tell you from experience, as sad as this is, the moment I pay for a guy (which only happened with one guy who I scrapped) I literally can feel my hormones change in my body.... and he becomes really unattractive to me and I feel this gross feeling in my whole body. Something that is hard to explain. Wish it weren't that way but it is.

[@jazdj04]

I know what you mean

[@AnonYmous-tr4cu]

We can’t fight nature no matter how hard we try

[@pa5730]

how do you feel when we pays for you?

[@reneecrotty6910]

@@pa5730 I feel like "Oo!! he is sexy! he is so kind and sweet and I feel safe with him and he is dependable with a beautiful caring heart"

[@pa5730]

@@reneecrotty6910 I see do you feel thankful and appreciate him for taking care of you? or is it a 'no big deal' for you because he is a man and he is supposed to do so? I'm just curious because it's difficult to understand how women feel to certain actions men do as a men so talking to a woman and understanding how you feel is the best I can do to avoid misunderstandings yes? because at the end of I'm sure everyone feels disturbed when they are taken advantage of their kindness.

[@CelieJones]

I like that. My Father always said “A man wh wants your money don’t want you”. I don’t want to trade traditional roles with men.

[@KenchiOMO]

A woman who wants your money dont want you. See how that mentality exposes both genders for using the opposite sex for money

[@cardo92w]

@@KenchiOMO Great point

[@amazinggrace313]

That's right girl! I'm not even heterosexual, but I'll be damned if I ever date a 50/50 guy! Wtf? Lol...and then expect you to cater to him . These heterosexuals going through shit for real

[@joshuatravis4766]

Your father lied 🤥 to you

[@blueking5739]

@@KenchiOMO women usually want men for their money not the other way around. Even if she had all the money if the world she expects him to provide.

[@earthdivine360]

Speaking facts ! How can anyone be mad? Do the work that needs to be done to get where you want to be in life! Period! Don’t waste your time complaining, make it happen! ✅

[@deirdremarshall-greene1181]

100% men suited up and capable, backbone to make things reality.

[@angiewatkins7488]

I moved in with a man ,who resented the fact that I was poorer than him.He was always going on about the fact that he earned more.He paid the mortgage and electric bill ,but never stopped moaning ,even though I supplied the food. He dumped me because we rowed so much ,as he would always go on about "feeling used " and said I was "holding him back "! Now ,I'm rich and own a house,I don't really have much to do with men ! The way he treated me ,put paid to that. The fact was,he was not a rich man,or superior !He just acted like he was.

[@Kobeisgoated0808]

Build with me bae

[@Tayy]

@@Kobeisgoated0808lmao fr tho.

[@dmac5808]

I'm in the Top 5% of earners. My wife never paid a bill , ever. She drive the car of her choice ( I bought her 2 BMW 750LI and Now she drives a Tesla model s of course.), own two homes and will get her a beach home that she always dreamed about. I taught my son that is how your women is suppose to be treated. ( a quality woman). I have been in IT for over 25 years. I'm also an investor. I never understood why a broke men would date.

[@MsApril16th]

I remember running into a guy who bought his wife the car of her choice and he had to drive all the way to San Diego to pick it up for her. He was most likely a 100%.

[@KB-Unc]

😳😁😂

[@laurenlocd3180]

Whew!Yes Lawd!!!!!

[@rickysanchez8517]

Facts... these mofos different

[@absolute757]

I pay all the bills too and my woman doesn't need to work. She chooses to tho and I make sure all her checks are direct deposited into our joint account we use to pay the bills. Only thing I would suggest is never let ur lady know about all the money u make.

[@Scentsational-Vdo]

Damn Kevin! You are definitely a god send to Black Men! What you are doing is helping to elevate the minds of stagnant men that don’t see their bullshit mindset. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

[@YachicaK330]

Kevin can really sit there with no callers and still have have good show ❤️

[@Diesal102]

Age 35, 745 credit score, wages in the top 15%, 3 duplexes all paid off. 10k stock portfolio, not married but not single.

[@Chinonsopbeauty]

That’s amazing

[@roumyapratapsingh3514]

I'd say don't get married but in the end ur the boss

[@z040880]

Prenup if you get married. Protect yourself

[@vernonpaigejr.1517]

Get married. I say that, what's the reason for accumulating all of that if it's not for your family. After you die, who takes ownership of it.

[@Diesal102]

@@vernonpaigejr.1517 Marriage for poor people

[@Lovelymadee_]

Kevin is hilarious 😂 im up watching old videos to catch up

[@Wo7dup]

Same hahaha

[@sirreginaldlee3576]

Laugh to keep from crying right?

[@Talia_IceCreamPaints]

Same.

[@tupacisalive1236]

@@sirreginaldlee3576 why would she be crying?

[@Fowler0526]

lol that makes two of us

[@JoshuaGill]

I will say this. This video right here got me to turn...tf...UP! I started my own school for entrepreneurs and NOW I'm about to try to turn my game up. Good lookin Mr. Samuels. 💯

[@crystalsalters3141]

Are you married?

[@jbadams56]

What if she divorce you and take half? Go make more. 😂😂😂😂✊🏾💯 My mind isn't there yet but damn that makes sense.

[@Faith_therian960]

Jeff Bezos did it. He didn’t argue at all about the divorce and his net worth has tripled since plus he has the woman he really wants

[@kjobful]

Stop marrying down

[@kjobful]

Jae Angelica she was with him when he had nothing, she deserves it.

[@jbadams56]

@@Faith_therian960 absolutely correct. It's a wealth mindset. Abundance mindset.

[@Apoc6]

jbadams56 Black women call that “struggle love”.

[@MissMiaAfroGoddess]

You need to do this show for the men EVERY WEEK!!! This is the best stream you have ever done, bar none.

[@darthbrooks4933]

Damn, I ain’t gonna lie, this one stung but only because the truth hurts. Keep doing what you’re doing Mr. Samuels, young men need to hear this.

[@rhonda1704]

All men need to take heed not just young men

[@donafonso1349]

This is GOLD! I'm completely on board with Kevin's message.

[@mskaiser33]

Thank you for treating that young man with care lol I was worry for a second. There are so many children who are being raised but not taught reality of life.

[@jamelquron8750]

This was absolutely a masterpiece. R.I.P KS

[@RICHGTV305]

Men ask yourself a question, if you have a daughter would you want her to marry and have children with a financially challenged man that can’t take care of his family ???

[@Suuubi01]

The problem is y’all make beignhigh value man synonymous with being a morally upright man, at the end of the day if a man has a mindset, vision, and discipline (hardwork) to make money and generate enough income to the point where his significantother only works if they want too, that’s good enough. Y’all forgetting a “high value men” are polygamous, sometimes wife beaters, sometimes terrible fathers. The children of the rich and their wives tend to be drug addicts, there’s nothing spiritualy gained from having money. Most of their marriages fall apart in a heartbeat, what gets me is y’all act like, your facts oriented but the facts show these (100 percent) hypergamous relationships yall obsessed with fail miserably. You do not need to try and be white, they have high divorce rates as well. As an African, I’m confused as to why some African Americans compare themselves to white people, they are not the God standard that’s honestly so dumb.

[@ironeagle918]

@@Suuubi01 Stop making up for your losses and man up!

[@googlemeets9672]

@@isabellalora6533 you probably don’t deserve it anyways what was the point of women fighting to work if they don’t wantvto

[@keishapuryear8180]

Your comment is exactly why there are so many women who feel like not marrying a man like this would be settling. Don't all parents want the best for their daughters? Most of KS videos drag women for wanting what he says men should ASPIRE to be. He tells women our sexual marketplace is what determines if we qualify for a high value men. He also says that only beautiful women who were taught to be housewives should expect a high value man. Even if she meets that standard she must not have any goals or desires and should solely cater to the man's needs. Do you want that for your daughter?

[@not_da2159]

Iron Eagle that wasn’t the point of the post at all😂😂 can you comprehend

[@gma904]

What’s more sad than a “male” complaining about paying for things is when I hear women agree with them. My kids’ father paid for EVERYTHING. And never asked me, ever.

[@Adwoa_100]

Well that's stupid because both my parents equally paid for me and ny siblings and that's how it should be.

[@Adwoa_100]

Your a bum

[@amerokeewiya1320]

“My kids father” but never married you?

[@truettadevil]

​@@amerokeewiya1320Black men don't come from a marriage culture... they descend from bucks who breed Black women 🦌

[@icidro1]

rich people are some of the "cheapest" in the sense that they learn how taxes work so they can pick up the tab all the time and get it all back later

[@tiktokms590]

rich people has the life that you can never have, stop lying to yourself when you can see the truth

[@DhaneCrowley]

I agree. And it's always relative to where you're at in life. The goal is to be as "powerful" as one can. Like, how you go be a King depends on the Queen to pay her part so y'all can survive?

[@illustratyr3620]

I became hip to Kevin when that “You’re Average at Best” video went viral. Since then I’ve been very intrigued by his content. This video here tho, bro holding church! I’ve never had someone break it down to me like that 💯% men and abundance mindset

[@mickiig6271]

This segment was very informative. A lot of men have feminine ways which creates an environment for women to fill the void. So you end up with women behaving in their masculine nature which of course is counterproductive to a successful relationship. I've dated a 50/50 man and always found it disturbing. I had a hard time respecting him which is why I left. A woman is a helper but some men rather be the helper than the head. I guess that is the result of a women dominating culture. If A man can take care of the essential bills then I would say he is doing his job. I understand not all men make 5 figures and can not afford the Louis V and Cartier. Personally that does not make you less of a man.

[@cardo92w]

This is an honest statement, any man should be able to inspire to live by.

[@SOUSEGOD_MUCKCITY]

If he chose not to pay all of the bills you didn't have no respect for him in the first place you only respected the money

[@llkdavis]

There was never an era of black people in America where a majority of black men made enough where the wife could stay at home. The black man worked in a factory or in the fields and the black woman worked as a house cleaner, in the fields or in a factory too.

[@nennacobrand6943]

This 💯

[@asiarn4272]

Straight facts!!

[@MarkJallday]

Real talk here. I thought I was dealing with something size 6-8. Hard work is the key.

[@thecapone45]

It's crazy how when Ayn Rand spoke about loving someone conditionally and it being okay to be self-interested in our goals, she was vilified. But when KS promotes some of the same ideas, we love it. I guess that's why I like KS so much, him and Ayn Rand promote similar ideas about achieving your own goals and ambitions, not catering to others whims and desires.

[@jayRbugz]

thanks i just added a bunch of Ayn Rand videos to a playlist to listen to at the gym

[@rrteppo]

Ayn Rand was speaking about shit Men had been doing for generations. That's why White, Asian, Hispanic men all have submissive wives still. Because they know that their men are going to be 100% around them. Go read any book from before feminism and the wife always keeps her man 100.

[@DonStephon]

You speak so much truth in this video. Things would roll so much smoother in relationship and marriage if I had this mindset early on. Wanting more for myself and doing to work to accomplish higher goals. Work shuts everybody up.

[@moneymitchamp]

This is a top 5 must watch...Everyone 20-30yr old needs to watch this. . Steve Harvey , Devon Franklin wont give women this type of game.

[@barringtonmorris90]

Steve Harvey gives plenty of game.

[@squarefinancialmarketing7848]

@@barringtonmorris90 not any useful

[@Facebodyfx]

I have a 55 year old male friend who has never been married or had kids and lived with his parents most of his life. He would always say things like " I'm not cheap, I'm frugal and smart with my money" He has no ambition and says he'll get the things a woman needs after he finds her. I wonder if he's aware that this ship has sailed.

[@tebogomohanoe5443]

bro get him to watch Kevin fast

[@gregorydennie7751]

It hasn’t sailed away but he got to put in the work. He can right the ship cause he’s still breathing

[@forthoodsr]

That man said “You got no money, you broke!” followed by a bomb drop! 🤣🤣🤣😭 The goat KS! ☝🏽

[@patricebowen3513]

Kevin your sound effects are killing me .

[@previnshaw751]

In short money is a tool when used properly it fixes things properly.

[@Rick-gf1fi]

There’s nothing wrong with negotiating. I’m not talking about negotiating on basic things. I’m talking about furniture, tech, etc. Big ticket items. Specially when your trying to build. Everything takes time, paying full price for something will come with due time. Don’t get miss guided. Especially if you are under 30

[@Ruckerpark98]

Yea I’m so glade I found this video!! I’m 34 and I’m playing catch up!!! I’m getting to that 100%!!

[@cparrish2999]

Edit button

[@Ruckerpark98]

I have increased my income 2x since then😎. And my cooperation has as well!✊🏾

[@anthonytate]

32 nd yeah

[@Ruckerpark98]

@Get on Up started working towards becoming being HV! I started a business which brought my income to 6figures, I been in the gym for the last three years (now starting to see the results I want.), had real honest conversations with my wife that hurt her but I built her back to be the natural women she likes to be. I got me a life coach/therapist. I suited 80% of time, I’m in the process of joining a organization that is highly recognized as HV men, but overall man I realized that I am a very successful man!

[@rachellejoachim2652]

I am right behind you.

[@ensulalachance8353]

Kevin really has inspired me to step up my game to take better care of my man. With his insight, i learned that i have to work harder to deserve him.

[@donswayze7587]

None of this bothers me because I live a simple life. I dont wanna live in the social norms of today. I dont be out here faking it and i walk proud regardless. However a lot of what he says is pretty helpful overall.

[@ginaelle1]

Thank you Mr. Samuels. I wish I heard your information 20 years ago. The reality check that we needed. Especially us black women. Thank u again. Giving it to us straight with no chaser. God bless you.

[@o.m.a.4670]

Kevin's message is "highly" needed, as many boys are being raised by our moms. While my Dad gave me what knowledge he had, I grew and gathered my own the hard way. Young men, need this message and knowledge preteen, so they can have a format to start out in life. Unfortunately, I disagree with Kevin's 10% tipping point, when it comes to women, but I really enjoy his content.

[@deesmoove5852]

2:00:40 I cut my Locs off to be a manager at a restaurant when I was 18. Back then it made me feel some type of way like I sold out for the man or something but as an adult I look and smile at the 18 year old MANAGER of the restaurant he’d only worked in for a year and a half. Taught me a lot, nice to know Kevin got one of those stories.