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[@AliDawah]

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[@A7medUranium]

She talks very quickly 😅

[@thetruthwithproof8802]

INTERCESSI0N DECEPTION 0n that Day, Only ALLAH will decide who gets SAVED by INTERCESSI0N (Quran 20 : 109) As we know the most pious person ( The Prophet Muhammad! PBUH ) will ONLY do intercession for those who Allah selects. Aisha Reported : The prophet PBUH stood upon mount Safa and he said, “O Fatima, daughter of Muhammad! 0 Safiya, daughter of Abdul Muttalib! 0 sons of Abdul Muttalib! I have no power at all to protect you from Allah ( Saḥiḥ Muslim 205 ) CONCLUSI0N - If the most pious person will not be able to save his daughter, how then can other so called pious people save us

[@maryeve3984]

$ay: “ N O N E in the heavens & the earth knows the GHAIB ( Unseen ) except 👉🏼 Allah 👈🏼 nor can they perceive when they shall be resurrected ( Quran 27 : 65 ) Say, [0 Muhammad], "I hold not for myself [ the power of ] benefit or harm, except what Allah has willed and 👉🏼 if I knew the unseen,👈🏼 I could have acquired much wealth, and no harm would have touched me ( -Quran 7 : 188 ) Allah Says He is Knower of the unseen, and He does not disclose His knowledge of the unseen to anyone. Except whom He has approved of messengers.} [Quran 72:26-27] Prophets have always been chosen to pass on the news of the unseen ( Afterlife Warnings ) To have the ability to know Ghaib & being told about the Ghaib are two different things Everything which Allah has told our Prophet P.B.U.H does not prove our Prophet P.B.U.H has Ghaib ( Unseen ) If the Prophet P.B.U.H knew without Allah's help, then it would be classed as Ghaib To say our Prophet P.B.U.H had even a little bit of Ghaib ( Unseen ) would mean you have REJECTED the QURAN 👉🏼 ( Quran 7 : 188 )

[@thetruthwithproof8802]

Say: N O N E in the heavens & the earth knows the GHAIB ( Unseen ) except ALLAH nor can they perceive when they shall be Resurrected ( Quran 2 7 : 6 5 ) Say, O Muhammad "I hold not for myself [ the power of ] benefit or harm, except what Allah has willed and if I knew the unseen,I could have acquired much wealth, and no harm would have touched me ( Quran 7 : 1 8 8 ) Allah says He is Knower of the unseen, and He does not disclose His knowledge of the unseen to anyone. Except whom He has approved of messengers.} ( Quran 72 : 26 - 27 ) Prophets have always been chosen to pass on the news of the unseen ( Afterlife Warnings ) To have the ability to know Ghaib & being told about the Ghaib are two different things Everything which Allah has told our Prophet P.B.U.H does not prove our Prophet P.B.U.H has Ghaib ( Unseen ) If the Prophet P.B.U.H knew without Allah's help, then it would be classed as Ghaib To say our Prophet P.B.U.H had even a little bit of Ghaib ( Unseen ) would mean you have REJECTED the QURAN ( Quran 7 : 188 )

[@antidepressantscausesuicid9876]

Great video

[@NaimaBRobertTV]

JazakAllahu khairan for having me, Br Ali. I realise watching it back that I talked FAR too much! And my connection - subhanAllah. Forgive me! May Allah guide us all.

[@untouchableali]

You are the guest! Speak to your heart’s content! We listen to Br Ali all the time on this channel. 😂

[@feefs2139]

Asalaamualaikum you deserve all positive recognition for all that you've been doing educating the ummah for years. I hope to work with you in the future in sha Allah. May Allah continue to put bakarah in what you do.

[@wasimhanif6145]

May Allah bless you so much ameen

[@aal-dahir1773]

Sister Naima, I wished you talked much longer. I was really enjoying it allahuma bariik.

[@wasimmomin1128]

Sister Naima you literally made a brutal attack on one of the shaitan's weapons against this Ummah. And that weapon is Feminism. Masha Allah you are such a warrior!

[@razer0072073]

Feminism is female narcissism. Narcissism is a pathology of the self. If you have ever studied the personality disorder of narcissism, you know it has certain classic hallmark features. Thinking about it more deeply, I've realized lately that feminism and narcissism share many core features. The narcissist is a person who has key pathological aspects to their personality structure: 1. An exaggerated sense of self-importance 2. Entitlement 3. Lack of empathy for others 4. Victim complex 5. Requires a convenient scapegoat Now let's see how well the ideology of feminism matches up with the pathology of narcissism. 1. Exaggerated Self-importance: Feminism teaches women that they are all-important, that their needs and wants overrirde the needs of others. Women are placed at the center of all things. Women are the metric by which everything else is measured and judged. Based on how such-and-such society "treats women," we can judge it to be good or bad. Based on how this or that country "respects women's rights," we can deem it to be good or bad. Everything revolves around women and their feelings and whims. Women are "queens" who "slay." In essence, feminism teaches female supremacy. Psychologists call this mindset of delusions of grandeur the narcissist's "grandiosity." Feminism teaches women to have grandiosity, an inflated ego. In Islam, the word for this is كبر (kibr, arrogance). 2. Entitlement: Feminists are women who are entitled. Feminism teaches women, who are "queens," to demand their "rights," which are in reality not their rights at all. As Muslims, we recognize that the only true rights of any person are those rights set by Allah the Creator. Demanding more rights above and beyond what Allah has decreed for women (or for men) is injustice. Taking more than your due is wrong. But if you believe that you are special and superior to others, you demand more than your due. This is entitlement. 3. Lack of Empathy: Feminism drills into its adherents the need to put themselves as women first, at all costs. The woman is special and is entitled to special rights and privileges and can have all the choices, regardless of the consequences of those choices on men, children, the family, or society at large. None of this matters. As long as the woman pleases herself in the moment and reaches her "potential" and "takes up space" and "smashes the glass ceiling" and is fully "strong and independent." The suffering of her own children, or her husband, or her family, or of society is inconsequential in the mind of the self-centered feminist. Feminism indoctrinates women with not only fierce individualism, but also an utter lack of empathy for anyone who isn't a woman (read: another feminist). I once told a female acquaintance about an article I had read about a woman who had killed her husband by decapitating him and then chopping off his genitals. I was aghast, and mentioned how disturbed I felt by that crime. My female acquaintance shrugged and replied nonchalantly, "So what? He probably deserved it. She was probably pushed to it by something he did! She wouldn't have done that unprovoked. He got what he deserved." I was speechless. I had to pick my jaw up off the floor at her comment. Zero empathy. 4. Victim Complex: This one is a no-brainer. If you have ever listened to a feminist or to a narcissist speak for any length of time, you can instantly note the similarity. There is a deep fixation on perceived slights, on imagined insults, on grievous "injustices." The narcisisst and the feminist are both masters at playing the victim in any and all scenarios. They are long-suffering martyrs. They are perpetual victims, wronged constantly by others and never wrong themselves. Nothing is ever their fault. If you try to point out something that a feminist could have done differently, the shrill answer comes back immediately, "You're blaming the victim!!" Feminism teaches women to see themselves as victims in all cases. This is also how the narcissist sees himself or herself. A person who is always the victim avoids all responsibility and all accountability for their own actions. 5. The Scapegoat: If things are never the fault of the narcissist or the feminist, then whose fault is it?? *Somebody* must take the blame. But it can't be the feminist (or the narcissist) because that would entail taking some personal responsibility for actions and having some accountability. We can't have that. So it becomes necessary to assign blame to someone. If women are the victims, then who are the oppressors? Someone has to victimize the victim for the victim to even *be* a victim. It must be men. Feminism teaches women that *men* are the enemy. Women are the martyrs because men kill them. Women are the victims because men victimize them. Women face oppression, suppression, injustice at the hands of men as a collective across time and space because of one key word: THE PATRIARCHY! The most perfect scapegoat for all of women's problems is this much-maligned patriarchy. Feminism teaches women to take no responsiblity for any type of shortcoming and instead to expertly dodge any and all blame, and to project all blame onto men. Putting all these pieces of the puzzle together, it becomes easy to see why women under the delusional indoctrination of feminism can so casually blame men for "rapes and wars" and so easily paint all men with the same careless brush. Men are the handy scapegoat. Essentially, feminism teaches women narcissism, which is a pathology of the self. May Allah grant us protection from both feminism and narcissism and make us righteous Muslims who have taqwa, ameen.

[@Jibril491]

You perfectly categorized this poisonous ideology

[@Babycake.]

1. Based. If you don't treat women like decent human beings, your society doesn't deserve to exist. This is called common sense. 2. It's self entitlement if they are a MUSLIM, and demand said rights, because they are prioritizing their feelings over Allah's decree. Applying this to non-muslims is a false equivalence. Who are they choosing their rights over? Not Allah, because they don't believe in Him... So who else? Men? Who cares about male standards, and why should a woman choose a males standards for herself over her own? 3. Using an anecdote that involves a woman's reaction to an extremely EXTREMELY rare case of unhinged behavior exhibited on women (of which men dominate staggeringly) doesn't help your case. 4. I agree with this point. Women need to hold themselves to higher standards, and regret not putting abusive men in their place instead of shrugging it off as "It was all his fault." Yes, it was his fault, but you should have given him the back of your hand for it (excluding physical assault ofc). 5. Yes, based. Patriarchal societies that are not strictly sharia are ungodly najis. They are the most vacuous and foul environments for a woman to exist in. My mouth moistens with spit, ready to be expelled just thinking of such a society that dares exist.

[@-glitch-8195]

You forgot to add the redpill to your list of things that Allah should protect us from. You see brothers such as yourself have a deep seated hatred towards women and hide behind being against feminism. I personally don't agree with feminism and do not believe you need to be a feminist to see women as human beings. However, let's not get it twisted. Some women have turned to feminism as a reaction to mistreatment from men and some men have turned to the redpill as a reaction to mistreatment from women. The truth is somewhere in between. I've seen you promote redpill talking points a lot. Let's refrain from dabbling in ideologies outside of Islam and resorting to extremes.

[@RmonK2000]

You forgot to mention that narcissism is more common with males than women

[@RmonK2000]

​@@-glitch-8195exactly 💯

[@andra1110]

This just makes me cry of love and happiness. As a former feminist myself, as a convert Muslim who grew up in the west I can't express how much this resonates with me now at 28 years old with 3 kids and a husband. I've been naging and hating my life and husband for 10 years and I now in the last year I just realise how amaizing he actually is. Sisters please give into the love! See everyone with compation and mercy and forget about me me me. Allah will not change your situation untill you change yourself. And what you give out is what you get back. We keep insisting how we give everything and we do so much but inside we are bitter and we can't hide it from Allah. This is why Allah doest change our relationships because our hearts are black. We don't serve with intention of Allah and Jannah. We serve to get something, or because that s what s expected of us. And all fruits you collect are by the intention you put in. That s why we are not appreciated for what we do. We ré doing it for the wrong reason

[@wackypeace1135]

Sister Naima B Roberts is also a convert. I think in any relationship you have your ups and downs, but a successful one is where you put aside your needs over the needs of others I.e your family. Of course this does not mean you should neglect your own needs, as you nafs also has a right over you, but you should at first ask yourself first, if all your essential needs are being fulfilled, if so then alhamdullilah, your better off than most. Sure, if you still desire more, then you should try and communicate that with your other half, but just understand life ain't no fairytale so try not live upto unrealistic standards. Life can be hard and stressful and I'm just grateful I have my other half with me to lighten the burden, as well as enjoy the good times and memories we have made together along the way.

[@pipulshom6082]

For 10 years you hated your husband and your life.......this is so awesome......what feminism has done to women......you were bitter inside......your heart was black and bitter......from outside was it fine....!!😮😮😮 you pretented for so long time...

[@piraat070]

Feminism is pure cancer glad you stopped following that BS.

[@AC-mp7cx]

you should make it right for your husband

[@hilalaydin1696]

This is so true!

[@Adam-fc2lf]

Here before the storm of feminists

[@Babycake.]

See? What did I say abt you and provocative comments

[@Adam-fc2lf]

@@Babycake. "If the shoe fits"

[@ritamax5989]

😊

[@bethere7862]

@@Babycake. why are you a feminist?

[@SCP30851]

lol😂

[@Tasleem274]

What an amazing sister, mashaAllah!! It was so comforting listening to her. She has spoken the truth! May Allah protect her from the evil and cancerous feminists. We are desperately lacking sisters like her. If all women in our society become like her, the significant amount of misery from the society will vanish away, especially from the western society!! May Allah grant her Jannatul Firdause, Ameen! And same for my brother Ali ❤

[@palestinelucas]

Feminist needs a shut-up call this is the best shut-up cal

[@EB-jf5oi]

​@@palestinelucasYes they do. Same as Muslims

[@Pedrogonzales1464]

I haven’t watched the full video yet but just by me already a few minutes in I can already tell how knowledgeable this sister is. We need more sisters like this within today’s society Subhanallah

[@michaelmalzahn-tx2zi]

yes, the sisters need to take their beatings and unhappiness like a man.

[@realist2020]

Ameen

[@TS-zd2ud]

*what a mistake in the Qur'an!* Allah himself testifies that he has a son and he is the son as Christians understand it! Only the Koran writer was too ignorant to know what Son of God means! Allah's word which created everything is Allah himself too! *The Word Allahs which created everything is the Son of God according to Christianity!*

[@TS-zd2ud]

Son of God does not mean that God has a child in Christianity! *what a mistake in the Qur'an!* Son of God are 2 titles one referring to the Word of God and one referring to creation (humans, angels, demons)

[@bluelightmoon777]

​@@TS-zd2udHello Bot 🤡

[@ku8458]

To this day, I’ve never met a Muslimah who agrees with 100% and content with Allah & the Messagers ﷺ decision on matters of rights & responsibilities between husband & wife. If such sister exists then I will highly likely to propose to her asap.

[@mohammedmujahiddinsuhiyini4064]

Then may Allah make it possible for you to meet one and to also be worthy of one.

[@shreksmith]

I can't believe I've never thought about this before. That's so true. Mash'Allah there are still women who think like this. This message needs to be spread more. Much love to brother Ali and sister Nayema. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala guide us all.

[@zeet4z]

Spot on sister Naima you nailed it, I tell the same thing to my sons aswel may Allah guide us all Ameen

[@napez4126]

As a mom to 4 boys… I totally agree with her

[@Jahannam...Hellfire.]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@napez4126]

@@Jahannam...Hellfire. SubhanAllah

[@mina-mina6095]

if you had girls you will think diffrently but yeah

[@ameerakhtar1348]

This sister is a valuable gem to the ummah

[@napez4126]

Definitely subscribing to her channel now

[@k50159]

JazakaAllaahu Khayr to you both. Much appreciated

[@halalmuslimsidechickssexyf4641]

Islam showed full respect to the women and ensured rights, dignity and honour and equal status of men and women in case of marriage because for being a valid marriage acquiescence of the bride groom as well as bride is mandatory. In this regard no one is superior.

[@mariama1802]

Mashallah, I remember coming across Naima B. Robert's work when I was a young Muslim girl in primary school. I admired her not only for her representation but also because I dreamed of becoming a writer myself. Now, as a young woman almost 20, I still love storytelling and poetry though it is not something I still desire to pursue as a career. This was an amazing discussion, iIt feels like our world has become superficial and insincere. Why did the world start thinking tradition was so bad and that we should all be more like the opposite gender? Even in literature, we've seen family values decline and this agenda start to be pushed. I have to admit, it's tough to find inspiration to write when the modern world is like this, often disappointing. Nonetheless all we can do is try to teach with sabr and compassion, Alhamdullilah for everything.

[@Jahannam...Hellfire.]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@zia-ulislam7761]

Sister Naima B Robert is a gem to the ummah. May Allah reward her and her family with khair!

[@Jahannam...Hellfire.]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@MS-Hussain]

Masha Allah, Jazakallah brother and sister for coming up together for this noble work.

[@tajudeenbintijani]

If God wills, we stop this wrong idea of Men being providers and protectors of the Women. God alone is the creator of both men and women, and provider (razaq) and protector (hafiz) of both men and women. He alone places the affection in us both - men and women, whom He has perfectly paired us for each other - men and women, and He has told men to spend from the wealth that He alone has given men on the women. ... wabima anfaqu min amwalihim... [Quran chp 4 ver 34]

[@dr.ahmedfaraz3225]

Great message 🎉

[@SalamamusaKonneh-jk4kk]

Thank you for the important conversation

[@BruvahSulaiman]

The duty of every man and woman is to jump through rings of fire if necessary to please Allah. If you make that your focus, the right person for you will take interest in you based on that.

[@Jahannam...Hellfire.]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

@@Jahannam...Hellfire. Thanks for posting the verse

[@mohpat9989]

Very good discussion, keep up the good work

[@ayjay7425]

Sister here. Couldn’t agree more with Sister Niama. Keep up the good message. One day it’ll be heard AND understood.

[@Hell...FireIsReal]

Islam showed full respect to the women and ensured rights, dignity and honour and equal status of men and women in case of marriage because for being a valid marriage acquiescence of the bride groom as well as bride is mandatory. In this regard no one is superior.

[@hoormalesinjannahforwomen2714]

The Quran explicitly states that men and women are equal in the eyes of God. Furthermore, the Quran: forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world) instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons.

[@ducadukeoflondontown9473]

Very interesting discussion. Nice one!

[@ritamax5989]

Alhamdulillah Very refreshing.....real talk...Love sister Naima. Brilliant discussion.

[@halalmuslimsidechickssexyf4641]

Islam showed full respect to the women and ensured rights, dignity and honour and equal status of men and women in case of marriage because for being a valid marriage acquiescence of the bride groom as well as bride is mandatory. In this regard no one is superior.

[@bassama6958]

Great discussion ALi & Naima! Hopefully to see more discussions with sister Naima more because a lot of women need to hear positive and caring voices like her which I believe will help them a lot.

[@ameah5054]

May Allah bless sister Naima for the work that she does. I would recommend all to watch every single video on her channel. May Allah bless you brother Ali for this video!

[@halalmuslimsidechickssexyf4641]

The Quran explicitly states that men and women are equal in the eyes of God. Furthermore, the Quran: forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world) instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons.

[@anandnathan6851]

Sister Naima is very articulate and knowledgeable. I enjoy her perspective. I've seen her on a stream with Mahdi Tidjani before.

[@sabeca3337]

Amazing discussion ❤

[@muslim61073]

Ma Shaa ALLAH. Amazing speech from a very mature, wise muslim sister. Hope all muslim sisters think the same way. Jazakum ALLAH khairan and we are looking for more videos like this.

[@Jahannam...Hellfire.]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

Interesting intro Never thought of it that way 👍

[@poeticjustice9649]

Salaam, this was a refreshing reminder so I can’t wait for Sr Naima as a special guest on the show inshallah. Brother Ali, can you pin the link to Sr Naima’s coaching/book writing. Jazakallah kheyr

[@mubarakharuna6425]

A big thumb up to our sister😊 May Allah bless you and give you more wisdom 🙏

[@marouekhaled98]

Allahuma barak. Ali ..keep it up

[@i.x222]

jazakallahu khairan for this video brother. sisters need to hear this from everywhere. i certainly agree with what was said and its something that makes me upset about the condition of women today. allahumma barik for great content

[@Hell...FireIsReal]

Prophet wanted to put a stop to all cruelties to women. He preached kindness towards them. He told the Muslims: "Fear Allah in respect of women." And: "The best of you are they who behave best to their wives." And: "A Muslim must not hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in her, let him be pleased with one that is good." And:"The more civil and kind a Muslim is to his wife, the more perfect in faith he is." The Prophet (peace be upon him) was most emphatic in enjoining upon Muslims to be kind to their women when he delivered his famous khutba on the Mount of Mercy at Arafat in the presence of one hundred and twenty-four thousand of his Companions who had gathered there for the Hajj al-Wada (Farewell Pilgrimage). In it he ordered those present, and through them all those Muslims who were to come later, to be respectful and kind towards women. He said: "Fear Allah regarding women. Verily you have married them with the trust of Allah, and made their bodies lawful with the word of Allah. You have got (rights) over them, and they have got (rights) over you in respect of their food and clothing according to your means." In Islam a woman is a completely independent personality. She can make any contract or bequest in her own name. She is entitled to inherit in her position as mother, as wife, as sister and as daughter. She has perfect liberty to choose her husband. The pagan society of pre-Islamic Arabia had an irrational prejudice against their female children whom they used to bury alive. The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) was totally opposed to this practice. He showed them that supporting their female

[@Md_sadiq_Md]

Pushing the algorithm ❤

[@amisy7044]

Haven’t heard such a good podcast in a while machallah

[@hoormalesinjannahforwomen2714]

The Quran explicitly states that men and women are equal in the eyes of God. Furthermore, the Quran: forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world) instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons.

[@drasifofficial]

One of the most refreshing videos I've seen. Self-accountability is amiss in most of todays women. As a man, put your mission first.

[@biancacappai-hc4xl]

SubhanaAllah!, your videos are soo enlightening may Allah SWA bless sister Naima and you brother.

[@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346]

Islam showed full respect to the women and ensured rights, dignity and honour and equal status of men and women in case of marriage because for being a valid marriage acquiescence of the bride groom as well as bride is mandatory. In this regard no one is superior.

[@IsmailKamdar]

I am so glad you interviewed Sr. Na'ima, she is one of the rare voices of truth on this topic.

[@alhot11]

More please it really helpful advice for us that still not married

[@content-tj2lh]

Jazaakillah kheiran sister I'm a women and Im actually in complete agreement with this.

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of slavery , female sëx slavery as permitted in quran, islam, would you still support it ifyou , your family members , community are subjected to female sëx slavery, Quran 4:24 Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise. Sahih Muslim 1456 a Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Allah her pleased with him) reported that at the Battle of Hanain Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger (may peace te upon him) seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that: " And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (iv. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (2542) from Ibn Muhayreez who said: I saw Abu Sa’eed (may Allaah be pleased with him) and I asked him. He said: We went out with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on the campaign of Banu al-Mustaliq, and we captured some prisoners from among the Arabs. We desired women and the period of abstention was hard for us, and we wanted to engage in ‘azl (coitus interruptus). We asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and he said, “There is no point in doing that, for there is no soul which Allaah has decreed should exist until the Day of Resurrection but it will come into existence.” Abu Sa'id al-Khudri reported that at the Battle of Hunain Allah's Messenger sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that:" And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (Quran 4:. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Sahih Muslim 8:3432 *As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of marriage of prepubescent muslim girls with grown up muslim men and having sexual intercourse* Quran 65:4 And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease. Age of Aisha Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death). Sahih Bukhari 7:62:64 A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.' Sahih Muslim 8:3310 Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah married me when I was seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had intercourse with me when I was 9 years old. Sunan Abu Dawud 2116 By God, I do not say this to exalt myself over any of my companions." "What are these?" he asked. She replied, "The angel brought down my likeness; the Messenger of God married me when I was seven; my marriage was consummated when I was nine; he married me when I was a virgin,no other man having shared me with him; inspiration came to him when he and I were in a single blanket; I was one of the dearest people to him, a verse of the Qur’an was revealed concerning me when the community was almost destroyed; I saw Gabriel when none of his other wives saw him; and he was taken (that is, died) in his house when there was nobody with him but the angel and myself." According to Abu Ja‘far (Al-Tabari): The Messenger of God married her, so it is said, in Shawwal, and consummated his marriage to her in a later year, also in Shawwal. Al-Tabari, Vol. 7, pp. 6-7 As a devoted follower of īslåm do you support the kïllïng of apostates ie those who have left the īslåm religion as ordered by Mūhãmmãd Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] » Hadith كتاب تحريم الدم37 The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] (14)Chapter: The Ruling on Apostates(14)باب الْحُكْمِ فِي الْمُرْتَدِّ ‏‏ Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 Ibn 'Abbas said: "The Messenger of Allah [SAW] said: 'Whoever changes his religion, kill him.'" أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ مَنْ بَدَّلَ دِينَهُ فَاقْتُلُوهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 In-book reference : Book 37, Hadith 94 English translation : Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4064

[@akme2d]

This was amazing

[@unapologeticmuslim1575]

Brother Ali. I have criticised you in the past, however this was very fair. Good one bro 👏 mashaAllah

[@bazooka3730]

Sister Naima makes me cry! At these days it seems like especially women dont want to be critized in any way, even if things are true. SubhanAllah sister Naima speaks the absoluteley truth!!! May Allah protect you and open womens hearts through your wise words.

[@aaliyahmohd1473]

Shukran Ali for bringing ladies on the show especially modest noble ladies.

[@Md_sadiq_Md]

May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤

[@kikikoko607]

Ameen! 🤲

[@joerdim]

How do you know that this supposed Allah guy even exist?

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

What are the women blessed with in Jannah ???

[@jahannamisreal1606]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

@@jahannamisreal1606 Sura 19:83 Sending devils Do you ˹O Prophet˺ not see that We have sent the devils against the disbelievers, constantly inciting them?

[@DoctorHasan]

Brilliant video

[@3amopr638]

Allhouma barek! As a brother in faith, this sisters mind is such a delight and a breath of fresh air! Very knowledgeable, wise and sincere. I have high regards and respect for this sister. Great conversation brother Ali, please continue with these conversations with her, as these are the word of truth

[@Hell...FireIsReal]

The Quran explicitly states that men and women are equal in the eyes of God. Furthermore, the Quran: forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world) instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons.

[@mahnoorburney2323]

The great collaboration that the world needed!! ❤❤

[@jahannamisreal1606]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@EB-jf5oi]

Inbred and Ninja?

[@AbdulWahab-zy4cd]

Am gonna heads up Liking this video.

[@iNikkah]

Sister Naima is correct when she says we should be Pro Ummah, too many times we judge situations from our own egos and perspectives, did Allah put you in earth to be happy or did Allah put you in earth to worship- part of that worship means leaving aside some of your desires and having tunnel vision for what Allah has prepared for us

[@ahmadmoneer741]

May Allah bless you all.. may Allah gather ourselves with the prophet Muhammad peace be upon him

[@gadeerb7]

I really needed to hear what sister Naima had to say and check myself. Barakallah feeki sister I’ve never seen your content before but inshallah I will start watching your videos for reminders because even though I try my hardest to stick to what I learned when I received Islamic advice, I get emotional in the moment and forget. Thank you for enlightening me and keep it up!!

[@jahannamisreal1606]

Allah said "And seek by means of what Allah has given you the future abode, and do not neglect your portion of this world, and do good (to others) as Allah has done good to you, and do not seek to make mischief in the land, surely Allah does not love the mischief-makers. Quran 28:77

[@baraji4653]

What a wonderful and fruitful talk between two stars to the other stars and planets around them 💟🎉

[@rkkt12345]

I used to have that kind of mindset...unfortunately I found out later on that it is deem to fail. I was the boss in my family, gave that up after reading the Quran. The realization that we are created that way we are finally sink in. If women are given the power to rule, chaos will reign.... no offense. The present day is the prove of that. To Iive in harmony and peace with each other is to cooperate, forget about romance....it isn't reality. A real woman respect her husband, took care of him and their children and help with decision making in her family to balance the scale. Alhamdulilah all that is behind me now and redefining my role as a woman has opened my eyes. JzkAllah for the clip...totally 100% confirm my realization. I was a feminist,

[@alimohammad-dp7om]

And your husband was fine with that ❓

[@rkkt12345]

@@alimohammad-dp7om Yes....he is. He's a Christian so he didn't know. Now we are starting over again....I'm letting him be the head of the family but would you believe me if I told you that he's adjusting??? He told me himself that he'll think about it. He's like that....he's okay with everything. Now I'm teaching him about Islam.

[@sarfun]

@@rkkt12345 Alhamdulillah, also sister your husband must also be a Muslim for your marriage to be valid

[@rkkt12345]

@@sarfun I know. Unfortunately it was impossible to marry a Muslim man back then in my country because there were none. We live in a country where Christianity is a predominant religion. Hopefully our numbers will grow Inshallah.

[@mohammadhussain8090]

Sister my mother is boss of our house but she is not feminist

[@gc6497]

She is one of my favourites on the web. she is amazing. May Allah always protect her. I'm a revert woman from Italy !

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of slavery , female sëx slavery as permitted in quran, islam, would you still support it ifyou , your family members , community are subjected to female sëx slavery, Quran 4:24 Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise. Sahih Muslim 1456 a Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Allah her pleased with him) reported that at the Battle of Hanain Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger (may peace te upon him) seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that: " And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (iv. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (2542) from Ibn Muhayreez who said: I saw Abu Sa’eed (may Allaah be pleased with him) and I asked him. He said: We went out with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on the campaign of Banu al-Mustaliq, and we captured some prisoners from among the Arabs. We desired women and the period of abstention was hard for us, and we wanted to engage in ‘azl (coitus interruptus). We asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and he said, “There is no point in doing that, for there is no soul which Allaah has decreed should exist until the Day of Resurrection but it will come into existence.” Abu Sa'id al-Khudri reported that at the Battle of Hunain Allah's Messenger sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that:" And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (Quran 4:. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Sahih Muslim 8:3432 *As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of marriage of prepubescent muslim girls with grown up muslim men and having sexual intercourse* Quran 65:4 And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease. Age of Aisha Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death). Sahih Bukhari 7:62:64 A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.' Sahih Muslim 8:3310 Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah married me when I was seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had intercourse with me when I was 9 years old. Sunan Abu Dawud 2116 By God, I do not say this to exalt myself over any of my companions." "What are these?" he asked. She replied, "The angel brought down my likeness; the Messenger of God married me when I was seven; my marriage was consummated when I was nine; he married me when I was a virgin,no other man having shared me with him; inspiration came to him when he and I were in a single blanket; I was one of the dearest people to him, a verse of the Qur’an was revealed concerning me when the community was almost destroyed; I saw Gabriel when none of his other wives saw him; and he was taken (that is, died) in his house when there was nobody with him but the angel and myself." According to Abu Ja‘far (Al-Tabari): The Messenger of God married her, so it is said, in Shawwal, and consummated his marriage to her in a later year, also in Shawwal. Al-Tabari, Vol. 7, pp. 6-7 As a devoted follower of īslåm do you support the kïllïng of apostates ie those who have left the īslåm religion as ordered by Mūhãmmãd Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] » Hadith كتاب تحريم الدم37 The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] (14)Chapter: The Ruling on Apostates(14)باب الْحُكْمِ فِي الْمُرْتَدِّ ‏‏ Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 Ibn 'Abbas said: "The Messenger of Allah [SAW] said: 'Whoever changes his religion, kill him.'" أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ مَنْ بَدَّلَ دِينَهُ فَاقْتُلُوهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 In-book reference : Book 37, Hadith 94 English translation : Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4064

[@BlacFireSan]

I already know this is going to be good 😂❤ I love Sister Naima. May Allah grant her deceased husband Jannah firdaus. He was a great man.

[@halalmuslimsidechickssexyf4641]

Prophet wanted to put a stop to all cruelties to women. He preached kindness towards them. He told the Muslims: "Fear Allah in respect of women." And: "The best of you are they who behave best to their wives." And: "A Muslim must not hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in her, let him be pleased with one that is good." And:"The more civil and kind a Muslim is to his wife, the more perfect in faith he is." The Prophet (peace be upon him) was most emphatic in enjoining upon Muslims to be kind to their women when he delivered his famous khutba on the Mount of Mercy at Arafat in the presence of one hundred and twenty-four thousand of his Companions who had gathered there for the Hajj al-Wada (Farewell Pilgrimage). In it he ordered those present, and through them all those Muslims who were to come later, to be respectful and kind towards women. He said: "Fear Allah regarding women. Verily you have married them with the trust of Allah, and made their bodies lawful with the word of Allah. You have got (rights) over them, and they have got (rights) over you in respect of their food and clothing according to your means." In Islam a woman is a completely independent personality. She can make any contract or bequest in her own name. She is entitled to inherit in her position as mother, as wife, as sister and as daughter. She has perfect liberty to choose her husband. The pagan society of pre-Islamic Arabia had an irrational prejudice against their female children whom they used to bury alive. The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) was totally opposed to this practice. He showed them that supporting their female

[@Naimah_Vlogs]

Ameen 🤲

[@siloa6273]

She’s well spoken and easy to listen to and props to Ali for not actually I nterrupting to much and let her speak mind.

[@sarahhassan2914]

Your showing the world the bigger picture of Islam... only if and when we see ourselves as ummah your words will ring true. Allah loves us!!

[@manymac656]

Mash'Allah the speech of the Sister

[@arfanaveed8308]

Hats off to both of you, Jazak Allah! I realized today that half knowledge is sooo dangerous and it literally makes you biased. At 13, 14 years old I started to feel bitter about boys and men in general even though I didn't even know what 'feminism' meant at that time. To some, it may sound funny that look a kiddo who ain't knows nothing was being judgmental of men, go get mature first but I think it eventually was going to shape my mindset in future, it would just get severe later on. It was this mostly irrational, exaggerated negative perspective of men that I noticed I was begining to develop, the issue was I was lacking knowledge & I got to know some horrific stories and murders( internet ok !) with women and girls as victims and how boys flex about their masculinity on social media...A mix of fear, anger and hatred grew within me. But I am so grateful and happy that now as I grow older I am seeing the other side of the picture. You guys and lots of others like you are praise worthy in this regard. I will like to say something to all who begin to feel this hatred and envy for boys/men..these mistakes I was making. 1) Lack of knowledge 2) Extremism ( don't do this, put yourself in their shoes, acknowledge men struggles as well 3) YOU ARE NOT A MAN SO DON'T THINK YOU KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A MAN 4) Do not GENERALIZE, not all the men are to be blamed due to some SPECIFIC men 5) ONLINE Not all you see is real...sometimes it is but men also face same issues it is just not highlighted with as much intensity 5) WATCH videos like this one with a neutral approach and magic will happen, everything will fall in to place.

[@isaX5]

I pray Allah blesses this sister. Need more women like this

[@mehdierrebbaa4769]

Masha allah, good one brother Ali, Will someone please translate this and put some Arabic subtitles for it

[@anitachow8910]

💯 she said what she said. YES PRO UMMAH

[@muslim-pk8nn]

I like this woman first time i see a woman who speaking so logical things.Mashallah i am proud of her.May allah make all woman like her.

[@Babycake.]

I highly doubt your much of a judge about what "logic" is, lmao. For males like you, anything that strokes your ego is "logic", regardless of whether its true or not looool. Be quiet.

[@alyarrf]

Thank you soooooooooo much my brother Ali and my sister in Islam for this video and discussion. It has given me so much clarity. The things my sister is saying here, are the things that I always needed from my partner, and not getting in return that was due to me I was confused and thought that I was going crazy. Like I did my very best for the last 18 years, but still it was never enough and never accounted for, never valued. SubhanAllah. Asking for my simple rights prescribed by Allah became topics of futile arguments. May Allah guide my parter in her future life without me. May He make it easy for all the brothers and sisters out there, ameen.

[@aishabashir5400]

I don’t usually comment but I’d like to give my personal opinion in one thing. At minute 50 she spoke about women who want to focus on themself and their careers until late 20s before marriage .. what we don’t realize is a loooooot of women (majority here in the Arab world) are actually afraid and under pressure that if they spend time on themself before marriage it’ll be too late .. and what ends up happening is she becomes desperate for marriage from an early age and compromises on things which she’ll regret down the line, just cus of this fear of not finding the right suitor in the future. This rush for women to marry in a certain time is why women are not choosing the right men and divorce is on the rise. If she worked on herself instead a little longer at least she would understand herself better , have more experience in life , understand things better and what she really needs in a man … instead of trying to “win” the title of “married” at the age of 19.

[@thegirl30]

I love Naima, Allahuma barik❤

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of slavery , female sëx slavery as permitted in quran, islam, would you still support it ifyou , your family members , community are subjected to female sëx slavery, Quran 4:24 Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise. Sahih Muslim 1456 a Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Allah her pleased with him) reported that at the Battle of Hanain Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger (may peace te upon him) seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that: " And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (iv. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (2542) from Ibn Muhayreez who said: I saw Abu Sa’eed (may Allaah be pleased with him) and I asked him. He said: We went out with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on the campaign of Banu al-Mustaliq, and we captured some prisoners from among the Arabs. We desired women and the period of abstention was hard for us, and we wanted to engage in ‘azl (coitus interruptus). We asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and he said, “There is no point in doing that, for there is no soul which Allaah has decreed should exist until the Day of Resurrection but it will come into existence.” Abu Sa'id al-Khudri reported that at the Battle of Hunain Allah's Messenger sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that:" And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (Quran 4:. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Sahih Muslim 8:3432 *As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of marriage of prepubescent muslim girls with grown up muslim men and having sexual intercourse* Quran 65:4 And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease. Age of Aisha Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death). Sahih Bukhari 7:62:64 A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.' Sahih Muslim 8:3310 Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah married me when I was seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had intercourse with me when I was 9 years old. Sunan Abu Dawud 2116 By God, I do not say this to exalt myself over any of my companions." "What are these?" he asked. She replied, "The angel brought down my likeness; the Messenger of God married me when I was seven; my marriage was consummated when I was nine; he married me when I was a virgin,no other man having shared me with him; inspiration came to him when he and I were in a single blanket; I was one of the dearest people to him, a verse of the Qur’an was revealed concerning me when the community was almost destroyed; I saw Gabriel when none of his other wives saw him; and he was taken (that is, died) in his house when there was nobody with him but the angel and myself." According to Abu Ja‘far (Al-Tabari): The Messenger of God married her, so it is said, in Shawwal, and consummated his marriage to her in a later year, also in Shawwal. Al-Tabari, Vol. 7, pp. 6-7 As a devoted follower of īslåm do you support the kïllïng of apostates ie those who have left the īslåm religion as ordered by Mūhãmmãd Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] » Hadith كتاب تحريم الدم37 The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] (14)Chapter: The Ruling on Apostates(14)باب الْحُكْمِ فِي الْمُرْتَدِّ ‏‏ Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 Ibn 'Abbas said: "The Messenger of Allah [SAW] said: 'Whoever changes his religion, kill him.'" أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ مَنْ بَدَّلَ دِينَهُ فَاقْتُلُوهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 In-book reference : Book 37, Hadith 94 English translation : Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4064

[@mohammedasjadulla7548]

One of the best and most useful videos to date. Really hinformative and helpful. Keep up the good work Bro!

[@anmolays]

Wow wonderful talk! I feel Im exactly likes this always wanted to be a wife a mother.... despite being a bright girl myself didn't persue my career left my MBA and got married as my husband says dont worry complete your MBA here in UK. When i came i just supported my husband and build my family nothing else. Today when my husband has become atheist i got separated . Now im thinking what to do i didnt work or pursue my education. Give my all to build him he didn't invest in me . All i have is my son who believes in Allah swt thts my achievement in marriage. May Allah make him sadqe jariah for me. Im so feminine always want my husband to lead. Never like him in kitchen. He barely helped at home. But now im forced to be at my masculine to protect and provide for my self which is against my nature. Please pray for me that Allah grant me a God conscious spouse a real masculine man . Ameen

[@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346]

Prophet wanted to put a stop to all cruelties to women. He preached kindness towards them. He told the Muslims: "Fear Allah in respect of women." And: "The best of you are they who behave best to their wives." And: "A Muslim must not hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in her, let him be pleased with one that is good." And:"The more civil and kind a Muslim is to his wife, the more perfect in faith he is." The Prophet (peace be upon him) was most emphatic in enjoining upon Muslims to be kind to their women when he delivered his famous khutba on the Mount of Mercy at Arafat in the presence of one hundred and twenty-four thousand of his Companions who had gathered there for the Hajj al-Wada (Farewell Pilgrimage). In it he ordered those present, and through them all those Muslims who were to come later, to be respectful and kind towards women. He said: "Fear Allah regarding women. Verily you have married them with the trust of Allah, and made their bodies lawful with the word of Allah. You have got (rights) over them, and they have got (rights) over you in respect of their food and clothing according to your means." In Islam a woman is a completely independent personality. She can make any contract or bequest in her own name. She is entitled to inherit in her position as mother, as wife, as sister and as daughter. She has perfect liberty to choose her husband. The pagan society of pre-Islamic Arabia had an irrational prejudice against their female children whom they used to bury alive. The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) was totally opposed to this practice. He showed them that supporting their female

[@alphauno6614]

Sister may Allah make it easy for you. Islam allows you to remarry so I don’t think you are out of options.

[@freespirit7835]

Are you still looking to get married?

[@anmolays]

​@freespirit7835 yes inshaAllah I trust Allah will compensate me with great believer who's heart is connected to his Lord.

[@freespirit7835]

@@anmolays , do you live in UK? I wanted to marry a second wife, will you be interested?

[@iislam2283]

Allahuma barik to sister one of the best she speaks the truth.

[@maxm00d]

جزاك الله خيرا to you sister naima. Some men have had their lives destroyed by women like these stealing their assets post divorce and stealing their children.

[@SitKid721]

True it took me almost 10 years to finally feel joy again after my ex wife took my daughter from me.

[@TheMuslimahMisha]

SubhanAllah I agree with the sister!

[@aniabediako3609]

May Allah protect her and keep her safe and secure to continue with the truth men are afraid to speak of. Now here's our blessed sister educating us all about the truth. What she needs from us all is Dua and stop praising her. All of you good sisters out there, if you agreed, come out and support her. The best support is, you should be out there educating other sisters. If she has to do it alone, many of us will die without having the taste of a righteous wife(religiously committed wife) in our lives. May Allah forbid. Will continue Inshallah.

[@farinaiqbal9368]

Beeeeeeeeautiful speech of reality of life true i agree absolutely right MashahAllah lots bless both you jazak Allah thanks

[@saminachishtiali4414]

Jazakallah khair sister well said agree 100% i am reflecting upon myself and how i treat my husband, i should be grateful.

[@ArhamYuu]

I think this discussion is very necessary for the Muslim community, especially in my country Indonesia

[@kbb8962]

Relevant to all Muslims Worldwide

[@wasimhanif6145]

May Allah bless you so much ameen everything makes sense, may Allah bless everyone with the best of happiness and blessings ❤ and grant appreciation of what they have family and the most important Allah sbt

[@anandnathan6851]

Brother Ali, we need Sister Naima's link in the description, please.

[@Asad-2166]

56.00 I loved changing my children nappy feeding them and telling them stores, they grow up so fast🙏

[@freedomPalestine23]

If you want to get married, look for someone who has a fear of Allah. They don't have to be knowledgeable but if they have fear of Allah, they will always put Allah first and want to get better in Islam. If your married as long as the person has a fear of Allah, no matter what happens, the ups and downs are normal, but Allah will always come first.

[@joerdim]

No, I will rather look for someone without superstitious beliefs and who is brave and not easily scared.

[@shahee6579]

​@@joerdimno one asked

[@joerdim]

@@shahee6579 And I didn't ask for your response.

[@shahee6579]

@@joerdim love you

[@joerdim]

@@shahee6579 I don't believe you.

[@ummsamyrah]

❤ السلام عليكم ورحمةالله وبركاته ❤ May Allah reward you both! I understand and agree with you Naima B. Roberts... sadly our teachings and upbringings are the fault however, ai truly believe if we return to our old Sunnah ways and actively work as a village to raise our children ans help our children raise their children with the correct teachings, it can be corrected...but the 1st step is stopping, looking and paying attention to what we are facing Right Now!🌺 May Allah Guide Us All Ameen!

[@KaneWeir]

May Allah the almighty bless this sister

[@Aamiin733]

Ali man sha Allah role model

[@STARKILLER15100]

Wow. So much of what I have heard here I have heard before from red pill groups. Thing is it’s true. I’m honestly considering this religion. It speaks so much truth to me

[@Onajourney519]

many men don't fulfil their responsibility hence why many women are sick of hearing this!!

[@mohamedaboobaker2794]

Speak for yourself

[@Onajourney519]

@@mohamedaboobaker2794 it's always a woman hating individual who feels the need to respond to me, I bet you anything he's onz of these men who abuse women, just typical cry baby and not masculine. Go and be a man instead of a doush who feels the need to throw around one liners .

[@safiaoud3245]

Yeah that's why these women have insecurities and distrust which caused them to look away from Islam's prospective of marriage and focus on the Hollywood love story

[@Onajourney519]

@@Peace-lm7sj just go anf look at the men who are looking for polygamy and who are single I think most of the men on there are not providers and are just takes with a big sense of entitlement

[@safiaoud3245]

@@Peace-lm7sj she said many men ,not all men ,stop misinterpreting

[@kikikoko607]

It's a two way street. Rights come with duties. A lot of duties, a lot of rights. It's giving and taking. Not only taking!

[@researhanddevelopmentcentr6525]

We should believe in Allah and be thankful to Allah and remember Allah is always there ahead and with us.

[@bbb-jn8dv]

If i TRULY have someone with a good heart nothing wrong with him being my guide….

[@Asad-2166]

Correct but have you listened to the sister and understood what she said?

[@999legend8]

Many women make stupid conditions to not let a man lead. Always idiotic conditions. How do you 'truly' know someone has a good heart?

[@MS-Hussain]

She is indeed a very good speaker Masha Allah!!

[@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346]

The Quran explicitly states that men and women are equal in the eyes of God. Furthermore, the Quran: forbids female infanticide (practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia and other parts of the world) instructs Muslims to educate daughters as well as sons.

[@IM-3000]

As mother you are 💯💯💯right. Very smart woman

[@Pavan-rz9uo]

May Allah bless our brothers and sisters. Inshallah 🙏🏽❤️

[@muslimninja9017]

ALLAHU AKBAR!

[@Md_sadiq_Md]

May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤ Aameen summa Aameen ❤

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

What's there are women in Jannah?? Men get 72'juicy houris ,!! And women ???

[@KarenMaria969]

I Total agree with what this Woman Mother & Sister is saying🙏 It works both ways Man & Woman are happier when they both work & laugh together for their future & family please God🤲 Treat others as you would like to be treated😍🙏💚💚💚

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of slavery , female sëx slavery as permitted in quran, islam, would you still support it ifyou , your family members , community are subjected to female sëx slavery, Quran 4:24 Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise. Sahih Muslim 1456 a Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (Allah her pleased with him) reported that at the Battle of Hanain Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger (may peace te upon him) seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that: " And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (iv. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (2542) from Ibn Muhayreez who said: I saw Abu Sa’eed (may Allaah be pleased with him) and I asked him. He said: We went out with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on the campaign of Banu al-Mustaliq, and we captured some prisoners from among the Arabs. We desired women and the period of abstention was hard for us, and we wanted to engage in ‘azl (coitus interruptus). We asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and he said, “There is no point in doing that, for there is no soul which Allaah has decreed should exist until the Day of Resurrection but it will come into existence.” Abu Sa'id al-Khudri reported that at the Battle of Hunain Allah's Messenger sent an army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and taken them captives, the Companions of Allah's Messenger seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that:" And women already married, except those whom your right hands possess (Quran 4:. 24)" (i. e. they were lawful for them when their 'Idda period came to an end). Sahih Muslim 8:3432 *As a devoted follower of islam do you support the practice of marriage of prepubescent muslim girls with grown up muslim men and having sexual intercourse* Quran 65:4 And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease. Age of Aisha Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death). Sahih Bukhari 7:62:64 A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.' Sahih Muslim 8:3310 Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah married me when I was seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had intercourse with me when I was 9 years old. Sunan Abu Dawud 2116 By God, I do not say this to exalt myself over any of my companions." "What are these?" he asked. She replied, "The angel brought down my likeness; the Messenger of God married me when I was seven; my marriage was consummated when I was nine; he married me when I was a virgin,no other man having shared me with him; inspiration came to him when he and I were in a single blanket; I was one of the dearest people to him, a verse of the Qur’an was revealed concerning me when the community was almost destroyed; I saw Gabriel when none of his other wives saw him; and he was taken (that is, died) in his house when there was nobody with him but the angel and myself." According to Abu Ja‘far (Al-Tabari): The Messenger of God married her, so it is said, in Shawwal, and consummated his marriage to her in a later year, also in Shawwal. Al-Tabari, Vol. 7, pp. 6-7 As a devoted follower of īslåm do you support the kïllïng of apostates ie those who have left the īslåm religion as ordered by Mūhãmmãd Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] » Hadith كتاب تحريم الدم37 The Book of Fighting [The Prohibition of Bloodshed] (14)Chapter: The Ruling on Apostates(14)باب الْحُكْمِ فِي الْمُرْتَدِّ ‏‏ Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 Ibn 'Abbas said: "The Messenger of Allah [SAW] said: 'Whoever changes his religion, kill him.'" أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ مَنْ بَدَّلَ دِينَهُ فَاقْتُلُوهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ Grade: Sahih (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 4059 In-book reference : Book 37, Hadith 94 English translation : Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4064

[@kikikoko607]

45:36 Dito! I agree!

[@jamessantiago1815]

HLHAMDULILAH Sister, I hope I can meet someone like you are right on HLHAMDULLAH

[@snowflake1458]

5:20 so true. Even in western (Christian) weddings you see the father always telling the man to take care of his daughter, but you never hear anyone tell the woman to also take care of the husband. Also like the sister mentioned: in these movies or just in general you see always the guy chasing the girl, trying to impress her and he has to prove himself to her and her family and we never think about how hard it must be for men, because they are also scared of rejection from the girl or her family and he is constantly on thin ice. We need to stop following these nonsense western relationship idea and focus on how our beloved Nabi (Peace be upon him) was with his wives and how the greatest people were in a marriage. We need to follow the best generation, which was the generation of the Prophet and the one after him and not what America etc. portrays. You see most relationships fail. The problem is also that they have this boyfriend girlfriend thing. Thats haram. Marriage is the solution.

[@adnanrashtogi4553]

Due you know about the Christian matrimonial wows ! Both take a solemn oath before God to love and be with each other through good times and bad till the end of their lives.

[@alphauno6614]

@@adnanrashtogi4553 tbf the vows don’t mean much if he can come home drunk

[@user-rj3sv3nc7j]

It all makes sense now

[@moynulkhan3810]

Love from 🇧🇩 my bruda

[@sha1dur_rahman]

Me also from 🇧🇩 bruda😁

[@kbb8962]

Bangladesh flag?

[@sha1dur_rahman]

@@kbb8962 Yes

[@IosifStalin2]

This fills me with sadness and a little horror