Men vs Financial and Societal Expectations | Menisms Ep. 3

[@omtiam]

I'm a Nigerian girl in my early 30s in NYC and it's just so funny and fun to watch this. I enjoy hearing about society and dating in lagos. It sounds like a jungle! God be with y'all.

[@madeauxafrica]

Lool. Lagos is an amazing place. Ot just has its pros and cons. Just like every other place

[@maryogunniyi353]

I honestly do feel for "good" men who are trying to find someone in this current society. A man who can discipline himself in all aspects of his life will fine his partner 👏

[@madeauxafrica]

You're so right. It's like the law of qttraction. Be good, want good things, good thing will definitely come to you

[@lateefatayodeji5391]

Men, dating is not that hard. In my opinion, most ladies do not have money the way social media pushes it. Plus, the way you set the tone determines how you're viewed by women. Sometimes, just explain the condition of things to the lady. If you cannot meet her expectations, let her know. If she ain't down to understand... then everyone should rest. Simple, it's not by force to date.

[@madeauxafrica]

You're so right. We also believe that everything is a conversation away. And understanding is also very important

[@julianaadeseye4130]

Explain today, Explain tomorrow there won't be a third date bro

[@julianaadeseye4130]

Ps women really do make money as social media pushes but what do I know

[@theharmattansoldier]

@@julianaadeseye4130 maybe in Lagos sha

[@ijireddy7514]

Hmmm, jus agree say u broke fr were d gel dey, no worry even if she still dey with you, she no go rate u again

[@rainbow-ko2tc]

This was quite fun to watch, couldn't help but smile all through. Looking forward to the next episode

[@madeauxafrica]

Yayy. Next week Thursday 💫🚀

[@_eneji]

Differences between Nigerian girls and others outside was one time I got on a group in Houseparty app and the girls were super chilled and straight to the point. We didn’t know each other but the energy was different and I felt like I knew all of them

[@Iphie2019]

I love this channel so much! I am a lady but I have benefited from this discourse cos I am gradually understanding the struggles our brothers also go through. Great jobs guys!!!

[@abdulbasitbello2381]

The pressures aimed at men by society usually exploit us through our egos. Interesting podcast guys!

[@annaiskphotography]

Love the honesty. The part about parents ego and validation sounds so similar to my ex Soviet parents

[@DerrickCNdu]

It's a wonderful podcast. You guys might have to consider multiple episodes of this a week. People will definitely binge watch

[@oyindamolaige5433]

I love love this podcast! spot on and relatable conversation. Men are really doing the Work!! Ain’t easy at all. Big ups Guys 🔥🔥✅

[@topevirtue1237]

This is my 3rd week following this show, and I must the genuineness of the conversation is top notch! However, y’all let each other talk at a time, while I understand the intensity of having an unscripted conversation where you may forget something if it’s not said in the moment, it’s kinda chaotic hearing your voices over each other. Great show guys, can’t wait for Thursday!

[@ABlackBeauty]

Need a part 2... just moved to Lagos...from NYC... VERY interesting perspectives.

[@oyindamolaige5433]

Definitely want a Part2 !!💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

[@meetthereqs]

This advice applies globally thank you for having this conversation fellas.

[@JB4C89]

Great conversation, its okay not have your emotions together ALL the time you know? Falling apart is sometimes the best thing you can do to get yourself together

[@madeauxafrica]

💫🤗

[@atandadavid5554]

the issue of babes outside nigeria being more proactive than naij babes is basically patterns influenced by different cultures and gdp per capita.

[@aveseor9609]

This was a really fun episode. Glad to see the engagements are increasing

[@emmanuellengmang949]

You're allowed to say no. Very right.

[@uchechiugwoke5157]

Watching this alone I'm already feeling pressured 🤣... Interesting convo!!!

[@multisensoryhuman4254]

American tap’n Luv the Convo gentleman!! Keep up the good work Luv & respect 🙏🏾🥸

[@eniolathecitygirl]

Here to relax, watch and learn...

[@quam252]

PART II 🚀

[@StanleyGrooves]

I'd definitely love to see another Episode

[@livingwithdee5840]

Hello. I’m a new subscriber and I absolutely love this entire concept. I love the fact that it is intentional and can resonate with anyone(specifically in the Nigerian environment) I can’t wait for a part 2. Ps Do you think woman undergo similar societal pressures as men in Nigeria ?

[@taridagana5129]

Proud of you men🙌🏾

[@lasgidibully]

bruhhhhhh, this episode is very relatable. all the men should fall in line and tap in, u will definitely learn a lot from this podcast.

[@madeauxafrica]

Yess!!! MENISMS is where you need to be !🚀🚀

[@Wako_san91]

When I grow up I want to be like that 19yr old guy with a G Wagon

[@madeauxafrica]

😂😂 Amen to that

[@lyricstalkermozazzy]

😹😹😹badguy

[@johanna6550]

LOVE IT !! Could you guys take up the topic about how men (you) go about "read more" text. Like why do men avoid long messages etc and stuff like that haha

[@madeauxafrica]

This would be so bomb 💥💥 we just might take you up on that

[@newgenerationmanwithsegunbash]

Dope 👍

[@dennisstampleycali]

Enjoy your contents from America! I am African American men issue and dating! A safe space for conversation!

[@madeauxafrica]

Yayy! Thank you for watching !💫👏🏾🤗

[@topluck1805]

I need part 2 of this topic

[@jaiyesimiolaidehannah5162]

Definitely want a part 2! 🔥👏👏

[@madeauxafrica]

You're going to get a part 2!!

[@Rumbu_P]

Everytime! When I was in America..when i was in America. America that everyone is going..if it relate yes! But not all the time..it freaks no one really Plus you interject Mure too much, allow him reach a nice conclusion before you interject..he always allow you talk & you can go for like 3 minutes just u & when he comes in, you obstruct Other than than, good job (I guess we learn & grow..early days 👏🏿)

[@chiamakanwankwo9048]

I agree. Michael interjects mure a lot. But it's a good show

[@Rumbu_P]

@@chiamakanwankwo9048 yeah..early signs looks good, Chiamaka

[@PRINCIAGO]

Nice content so far. I like what you guy's doing. What is the microphone brand?

[@harbeeholar82]

Love love the conversation. Part 2 please 🙏

[@madeauxafrica]

Yayyy. It's coming soon

[@marvyben9686]

I love this episode so real💯💯

[@aishabello6813]

Part two definitely 😊

[@madeauxafrica]

It's coming soon !

[@derasdiary]

We need a part 2!!

[@the0lamide]

First of all, let's be friends y'all. Una too get sense. Secondly, part 2 PLEASE!

[@BeeJ3]

When is the next episode?

[@nuelog3322]

Definitely need a part 2 on this one!

[@madeauxafrica]

Definitely !💫👏🏾

[@SeunSunmonu25]

@43:40 I literally fell off my chair 😂😂 Eyaaa 😂😂

[@sammyfly101]

Part 2!!!!!!!!

[@glo_rieeeestitches9416]

Love love itttt!🤩❤❤❤

[@madeauxafrica]

Thank you! 🤗🤗

[@Bg_tee]

You guys are doing great and y'all deserve the best ❤💯 waiting for part two thanks.

[@oneigboboy]

Def need a part 2. Also why not make the Episodes longer or are y'all renting the space?

[@madeauxafrica]

😂😂 oh no. We have our own production studio Uzo. It's almost an hour long too

[@oneigboboy]

@@madeauxafrica oh yeah. Calm calm. I watch a lot of podcasts and some of them go on for like 3 hours. But I get you though, you know your audience better. I just enjoy seeing people discuss and vent about issues 😂 and 40-50 minutes just doesn't feel like enough time to vent properly and also give feedback. Cheers though. Just found the chanel yesterday. Enjoying the content. 🙌🙌

[@tobilobaabioye1791]

Great contents, nice talk, great perspectives, entertaining and informative. These guys are the real deal to be honest, I would love to meet them on a one-on-one basis. Man need some tips on dating in LAGOS 😊😊😊

[@madeauxafrica]

Get out your note pad Tobi. Those tips are coming 📝👍🏾

[@chukwubuikemanueyiagu1567]

need that part2

[@madeauxafrica]

You're going to get it !

[@belloabdulquadri2118]

Interesting Topic, I hope to enjoy the conversation once it starts.

[@madeauxafrica]

I hope you're enjoying it

[@linkylin6982]

I'm enjoying it already😊

[@madeauxafrica]

Of course you are !

[@aniekanakpakpan3127]

part 2 please!!!!

[@madeauxafrica]

Coming soon !

[@rolandamadi9772]

Piggyvest be making bar from this girls 😂😂😂

[@chisomchukwuemeka970]

Its the “will Nneka, Amaka ever do this for me” lmao😂 What’s with them and igbo girls please?😅

[@ashvinerestaurant3789]

Today is Thursday 24th feb o

[@madeauxafrica]

😂😂 yess. We shot it before Thursday 24th February

[@lateefatayodeji5391]

Uhm for the part where you guys spoke about why parents pressure kids especially boys to tow a particular career line, I don't suscribe to the idea that it's solely about ego and eye service. The world view of our parents are clearly different from ours so I think it's important that we consider the safety net factor where they know that towing particular career lines like law and engineering tend to increase the chances of success that their kids have compared to artistic career paths. Also, there are social and moral factors generally that influence their reactions.

[@madeauxafrica]

Yes, ofcourse, there are social and moral factors when it comes to how we all live

[@oyindamolaakinwale9011]

This podcast is supposed to be for men but it's all girls in the comment section😂♥️

[@tobiomotayo406]

You know how you people don’t like see finish? It’s how I dey dodge am too. That asking a man to go out thing dey sometimes cause disgrace. So until I’m certain the man is not a bastard, all of us go dey our dey

[@adedolapookekunle]

M² I guess

[@beluchiokenwa6930]

Why is he only calling Igbo girls 😂😂

[@full2087]

It still balls down to your parents ego

[@madeauxafrica]

Hmm. 🤔 how so?