Mendeecees Walks Out During His & Yandy's Final Coaching Session 👀 VH1 Couples Retreat

Yandy and Mendeecees join relationship expert AJ Johnson for their final session, but things QUICKLY go left and Mendeecees walks out!
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[@lateeshaempress1895]

He’s a problem taking corrective criticism and he doesn’t communicate well

[@jwill6437]

He has a broken Mama and Yandy can't fix a broken man

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Not at all, Mendeecee is not the man i thought he was😒but then, none of the tv couples i use to hold in high esteem are😒😒🤦‍♀️

[@pamelasmart4968]

Yandy is glitz and glam, it's all cosmetics. Mendece down to earth, simple, not pretentious. He is what you see is what you get. He likes the lifestyle that comes with Yandy. One thing he is his own man.

[@soniadevlin487]

*constructive

[@damienkirksey7026]

That's actually constructive criticism and it's not constructive criticism

[@kd1love983]

Sometimes the same person you sleep next to and support the most are actually jealous and envious of you.

[@monicabro0404]

Whew that's deep & you speaking the truth

[@candice6261]

You are who you attract

[@kd1love983]

@@candice6261 not in every situation. Light attracts darkness and healers attract damaged individuals. Why would anyone be jealous or envious of someone they have supported or is supporting.

[@keashaqueen715]

Facxxx

[@petrocociousmatsangaise4542]

Straight talk

[@_londonsunshine6181]

She’s outgrown him, and grown in different directions. learn to let people go!

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

She's a BOSS now and he can't take it. He's jealous cause he use to be the breadwinner

[@asll182]

Yes yes yes 🙌🏾 she is a boss now and he isnt on her level

[@kendrajohnson6485]

@@kayshawnsimmons6822 YASSSSS 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 Real Talk Sista

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

@@kendrajohnson6485 I've been in this situation many times, some Men can't take their woman being successful

[@kendrajohnson6485]

@@kayshawnsimmons6822 Dats Tru Real Talk 💯

[@alexandrianaomi]

I will never in my life “hold down” someone in jail. This is what she gets in return?

[@teshondagetties7122]

That’s the same thing I was thinking. Yandy is fake

[@NoTiMe4GaMeZ]

That’s what she get

[@batteriesnotincluded4715]

The way she dragged the other baby’s mothers as if SHE wasn’t also the side chick.

[@brown_skin_lover_queen5790]

Same I well not hold u down

[@trishabygrave2691]

Exactlyyyyyy neverrrrrrr

[@eveleo5066]

Mendeecees has a lot of issues he first needs to deal with his MOTHER.... PERIOD

[@yvettedotson3852]

Facts!

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Yep, i totally agree

[@eveleo5066]

@@kayshawnsimmons6822 his issues r deep rooted from his Mom! As a Mother u r to Nuture, Protect etc... She wasn't there to do those things..Ppl must heal certain wounds before moving further... It creates chaos.... Yandy is asking for some things that he clearly can't deliver, because he doesn't know HOW.... PERIOD ✌🏾

[@destineewilson1983]

He acts just like his mother when he gets called out about something

[@eveleo5066]

@@anitarobbins3486 yeah, I don't understand all those abbreviations

[@victoriamiranda280]

Don’t give your all too someone who doesn’t appreciate the hustle

[@ericatheempress6698]

He cheated on her during their relationship and he said he wouldnt hold her down if it was the other way around all while she was getting maced/peppersprayed in the face marching for him. She shouldve been ended that relationship.

[@belindajiles684]

🙌👍💯

[@victoriamiranda280]

@@ericatheempress6698 very true ! It’s a whole mess

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

💯💯, No better words were spoken on this subject, Thank You 💐❤

[@er3068]

I don’t know how two females can fight over him🥴

[@Opinionsin3dd]

He don’t want her like she wants him. she is in love with HIM!

[@4265kitty]

@CanishaLaShelle I agree with you on this... I personally think that she's just trying to keep their family together for the kids sake & she doesn't want to give the other baby mamas any satisfaction of doubt about their supposedly marriage... She's over him & instead of just walking away, she's going to make it seems as if he pushed her away so that way she won't look like the bad person... Yandy is a very smart woman & most definitely a strategic thinker... She bought him on this show knowing how he'd look, that way she won't look like "Yandy didn't & wasn't holding him down!"... If the marriage fails, then all babymamas & her enemies especially Chrissy & Kimbella have won by revealing who she truly was from the get go... Because I don't think, I know Yamdy is that snake that everyone acknowledges her to be & if you're truly a person who can read someone, than you'd also know that since watching her on any show she's been on.

[@kizmo1810]

Yandy is beautiful and successful and she should want her husband. I hope he gets it together. He got too much female energy around him with all the different mothers of his children.

[@kellbellshack1453]

@@4265kitty they both love each other you can see he loves her bk, they just need to get away together NO kids NO FRIENDS just each other.... Best thing about falling out is making up..... Candles and ice cream strawberries 🍓😋 Come on guys love you too Xx

[@4265kitty]

@@kizmo1810 I totally agree with you also.

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Completely chilllle

[@nikishamitchell9155]

She was so happy speaking on him and he tore her down real fast. This a man that can't stand for his woman to shine or be happy. The man is jealous of his own woman success. Run Yandy u sleeping with the enemy.

[@imlissa]

He probably teams up and gossips with them other baby mommas..he actin like a frenemie

[@candice6261]

Oh please. Masculine men dont care. Your single mama lied to y'all

[@respectmygangsta3716]

Yup sound like the guy i just left

[@bestversion1687]

Same with me X he came from Nothing and it’s my fault that I have a Family that actually celebrates Growth & Success. And we empower each other with Love ❤️ & Encouragment.

[@asiaparks7158]

WOW U Know Exactly What Your Talking About Facts💯💯💯🙏🏾

[@jazzy_9761]

“It feels like they double teamin’ me” Meanwhile at that time Yandy was just sitting there lol

[@myishaholley4417]

Right...they EXTRA!

[@lalajones3242]

She aint stop her. So what u call. It

[@jazzy_9761]

@@lalajones3242 that’s not double teaming. the coach is saying what she observes in their relationship and since he’s not hearing what he wants he’s being double teamed? Yeah ok.

[@MalaYLoca]

@@lalajones3242 it’s only double teaming if what was said isn’t the truth , some ppl can’t handle the heat so they call it double teaming to take the attention off of them & put it back on the other person(s), sounds like gaslighting to me 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Quite so not to upset him,

[@miriamquintanilla2375]

This is a man who has never been held responsible for his actions, his lies and narcissism. Yandy has been an enabler to his lies from the get now that he’s doing it to her, she don’t like it 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Godschild4life123]

Exactly, now she knows how the others feels

[@jasminehenry2509]

It's sad this is your outlook but I respect the difference. However, when anyone is in love they look pass things others will see. We only know what is shown on tv we don't know these people. At the end of the day he married her. Let them live and figure their life out and I hope we all do the same

[@Camillyahreal]

@@jasminehenry2509 the funny thing is I agree it’s like folks want her to suffer for choosing him yandy more mature than him emotionally sad part he ain’t there and never will be she may have subconsciously enabled him in other ways we nothing about but how the comment was made above yours that’s not what I seen he def jealous because he has women that is financially bigger then him and it makes him insecure 😕 any man that says I want and I’m ok wit my women making more then me is scary 😟 and I’d run if I hear that my point is though his body language say other and that never lies

[@Godschild4life123]

It’s an observation jeez. Ladies make men the prize all to often, even fight for the man but eventually see what the previous women had to deal with. 😒

[@miriamquintanilla2375]

@@jasminehenry2509 the way he has treated the Mother’s of his children & his wife is sad.

[@dejahturner16]

Mendeecees comes off as intimidated by Yandy. She doesn't pander to him and make him feel big, so he tears her down. Yandy isnt perfect, but she definitely settled with him.

[@lalajones3242]

He never teared her down

[@annastasia248]

@@lalajones3242 tore *

[@marilynking527]

And he’ll go and find a woman whose weaker who needs all his attention

[@Hi.Im.Lovely]

Yandy praised mendeecees he could do no wrong in her eyes the way she would talk about him on LHH , she protected his name at all cost , he needs to appreciate her way more

[@batteriesnotincluded4715]

@@Hi.Im.Lovely Yeah she praised him while tearing down his other children’s mothers.

[@aaluathepiscean]

Mendeecees is really intimidated by his wife, and he's emotionally immature.

[@ksentertainmenttv0847]

Wow🙄

[@aaluathepiscean]

@Maria Garcia agreed

[@Chatchann]

*intimidated

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Yandi became a BOSS and Mona Right Hand and Mendeecee can't take Yandi's success. He was a boss when they got together so he acts childish cause he knows he can control her emotionally so he breaks her down

[@muncherclay8760]

@Maria Garcia it ain’t like thy legally married. Thy love and hip hop married 😁

[@devinaudette9770]

Yandy is so good at pretending that her relationship is perfect.

[@ladyliberation3852]

It's called delusion. A favored Piscean ♓ past time.

[@emmebee1168]

Well said👌

[@vic902]

And this was the same Yandy bragging about her marriage to Mendecees’ baby mothers😳😳😳😳sometimes what seems as a loss is a blessing in disguise

[@meghanm5592]

I agree.

[@riquelbrown1357]

Yea but that was years ago when she was happy. Things change, thats not karma its life. Them baby mamas were salty. He used them up and threw them to the way side that wasnt her fault.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Say it again

[@maryrice4421]

EXACTLY

[@kendrajohnson6485]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯💯

[@mitchmvtch]

A lot of these men process conversations like 18 yo boys. The lack of comprehension and deep thought that goes into their side of the conversation is startling. The constant defensive viewpoint instead of realizing he’s in a union, a PARTNERship is .. wow.

[@pink1237480]

Men don't understand how to deal with their emotions.

[@brianal7143]

He’s soooo childish, just like Ray J. Unable to take any type of constructive criticism or truth without getting their feelings hurt. He’s also resentful of her success.

[@damienkirksey7026]

@@pink1237480 Y'all can't control your emotions and you are the last person who needs to talk about emotions

[@mashaya8]

A lot of men are stuck at “trauma ages” also.

[@mitchmvtch]

@@mashaya8 true.

[@veraniquepruitt4520]

Everyone has problems in their relationships I wish them nothing but the best.

[@vonneal1]

Amen! Thank You

[@deenicole4951]

YEP; TRUE FACTS... 😘🙏😷😁

[@TheRibofJESUS]

Exactly.

[@jasminehenry2509]

I love your outlook

[@quinnafields9324]

Yesss

[@tulipw8693]

He don't seem like someone worth waiting for.

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

Ouch🤣

[@laquettaowens6120]

@@NkNk-vg8fc frfr 😅😅

[@questionresearch8721]

Yandy should have never gotten married or whatever she did to make a union with a Mendecdee.

[@mekasims1981]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TasyausNorseman]

Right. She was actually smart in not signing that piece of paper.

[@giggles21207]

“Or whatever she did to make a Union” 😂

[@wandaerving3065]

@@TasyausNorseman Yeah but they married for real real now tho 😁

[@youraceboon1192]

“Or whatever she did” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tisha6951]

Can we all be honest HE DON'T WANNA BE WITH HER STRAIGHT UP 😩

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

I think I agree 🙁

[@tisha6951]

@@NkNk-vg8fc you can just tell it's all over he's face

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

@@tisha6951 honestly he looks depressed and emasculated. She’s going to bat way to hard for him not worth it if the love ain’t there

[@shaneekhaynes7667]

Agree.

[@TasyausNorseman]

She’s absolutely right! He’s getting upset because they are speaking the truth! From that wedding they televised awhile back, she was actually smart in not legally marrying him. However, ladies don’t waste your time with ‘holding a man down’ who wouldn’t do the same for you. I love Yandy and know she deserves so much better!

[@wandaerving3065]

They legally married now 🤷

[@TasyausNorseman]

@@wandaerving3065 omg 😱!!

[@wandaerving3065]

@@TasyausNorseman 😂😂

[@damienkirksey7026]

They're not speaking the truth

[@jamesreed3619]

😂 you’re so bitter 😂😂😂

[@aprilthomas5485]

Aj Johnson still look good 😍😍

[@Baby-u6m]

Yasss I thought that was her. She still looking like she did in Baby Boy

[@2930honey]

She is killing it. So gorgeous

[@darleneanderson4440]

BLACK DON'T CRACK #MELANIN

[@meniafrazier1855]

Yessss she does

[@deirdra6990]

How is she a personal trainer, life coach and psychologist etc...

[@ladyjay1561]

My intuition is telling me that he doesn't love you like you may think he does sis! 😬 The way he said "Absolutely not" over and over again.... said it all for me.

[@mariannevasquez4134]

Karma playing out here

[@tiarawatson542]

I honestly feel like Yandy has outgrown Mendeecees. If she continues to stay with him, she'll eventually loose herself.

[@pfil.odendron2036]

“Yandi stay “not knowing this was gunna happen”. Thats her tag line

[@MallLaSoul]

Exactly

[@JH-lb6qf]

Did Rah Ali lie though? 🤔

[@NoTiMe4GaMeZ]

@@JH-lb6qf I came here to say the same thing 😭

[@sweetsatin24]

@@JH-lb6qf literally what popped into my head was her at the reunion chin quivering acting like Yandy 🤣

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

True 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@NinaAngelina25]

What is she wrong about? See, this is what happens when people listen to respond and not to understand.

[@mekasims1981]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@yvettedotson3852]

Facts steady thinking about what his rebuttal is going to be instead of listening with an open heart... and ears 💓and👂

[@Dirtbagmcgruff]

🤔

[@misstinygenuine]

Yes, that part! Like, if we as people can receive before responding, we'll have more clarity and understanding then arguing and misunderstanding things that are miniscule.

[@goddess_inblack_b3009]

Yes

[@Prettygirlbelike]

Now that he cant sell drugs and yandy is making all the money he doesn’t feel like the man anymore. Get over it bra yall a team

[@nicoleraheem1195]

😅

[@RaiiEnigma]

Baby boy mama still look good damnnn ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@reneelewis9346]

I THOUGHT that was her!!!! Thanks for the conformation!

[@shawneamarrow4082]

What I’ve noticed in men they’re very deeply secretively rooted with insecurity

[@triphcapps9123]

He said don't de-humanize me. Felt that statement.

[@channiballecter]

Me too.

[@leratoseretsi5603]

Such words are unhealthy in a relationship

[@lspr5134]

He wasn’t not being heard by either of them and the mediator isn’t a qualified therapist to work through this with them

[@t_taylor1517]

I don't think he wants her anymore🤷‍♀️ ( after so long prison can change your feelings & sometimes it's "outta sight outta mind" )

[@belindajiles684]

🤔

[@melaniec171]

It was strategic on his part bc she had the money and connects so he had to play the game like he really loved her. But look at his exes Yandy was never his type but the most convenient

[@charityholley9613]

Well said even tho!!! I was also saying...😏🤨 Nevermind ✌🏿

[@er3068]

He’s ugly and she can find better.

[@t_taylor1517]

@@charityholley9613 🤔👂👂👂

[@XactlyCeSe1]

He’s watching Yandy leap ahead while he’s stuck . He’s an emotionally immature ex-con who’s resentful and jealous of his woman

[@carameldiva5131]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 SAY THAT!!!!! He stuck on how their relationship/roles were when he went to prison and Yandy has elevated her status by leaps and bounds. He's an emotionally small man who wants her to shrink herself to make himself feel better. Don't EVER dim your light so your partner can shine!!!

[@helgaderm8439]

Period

[@kaytrinnapatterson2885]

You said a mouth full Sis!!!! I agree 100%

[@jaeraee3437]

What smh

[@auroramothergoddess]

And what does that say about her

[@Kai-bx5xs]

poor yandy...sounds like some jealousy on the attention she gets, thats what you signed up for honestly shes a business women in the media

[@melaninqueen4562]

Exactly!! Why not stand by her and support her just like she did for him while he was in prison!!

[@marilynking527]

Exactly!

[@batteriesnotincluded4715]

That’s not wut DC is saying. There is a time & place for everything. And if SHE don’t give him the affection that he needs...U know the rest!

[@YanikaSpikes20]

@@batteriesnotincluded4715 💯💯

[@alcoholicbunny2649]

@@melaninqueen4562 it’s that childish toxic 2000 man mindset where a man can’t be beneath the woman financially. Like it’s 2021 almost 2022 he needs to learn that it’s ok not being the money maker in the house. He needs to voice his jealous and come to terms with it so it can be mended

[@antoniawilliams2627]

His jealous. But needs to realize that she held his ass down. So he needs to wake the hell up.

[@MsBrown-ie4ot]

He doesn't love Yandy the way she loves him.. Yandy deserves more... Can't wait till she realize this.. Mendecees body language and facial expressions towards her is louder than his words #wakeupYandy...

[@charityholley9613]

And that's what people!!! Don't understand!! It's a different! From wanting to be with someone. And you love them!! So thanks 💖 he never love her!!!

[@chelseagarwe469]

Mendeecees fell in love with Yandys bank account......before he fell in love with her....this is why I always say as a woman get with a man who matches your success 💯

[@charityholley9613]

Amen!!! And that's true 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@martheministryyoutube5351]

Amen 🙏 you so smart u comment made my day much love to you

[@robbsheff5982]

@@oliviaharrison6584 I agree i truly do think she loves him and he loves her i my honest opinion they both legitimized each other. Because she was a good girl making moves with her management co he was has been able to me legit business people and because most of the artist she managed are street artists mandeecees gave her the street credibility needed to deal with those types.. I guess I am just saying they compliment each other in alot of ways

[@oliviaharrison6584]

@@robbsheff5982 yes they definitely compliment each other but an ego can do damage to any relationship on both sides. The problem is people spend too much time focusing on what they are(material stuff, being seen) instead of who they are

[@martheministryyoutube5351]

That right Queen thank u💛

[@hollyw8044]

She thought she was the prize over the baby mommas so hey there you go 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@dgkingdom7391]

Mendeeces doesn’t want to be there and it’s so sad yandy my sister take a hint

[@samanthayoung2720]

I really don't know what she see in him...he seems powerless....weak....not a leader....almost like her son....he's really not on her level...this struggle love relationship....smh...but its her....not me

[@wonttrickmea1869]

It’s embarrassing really but oh well sometimes women need to get old to realize the truth

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

We all seen her about to break down talking about how her soul is tied to this man and hearing it come form the pit of her soul the whole table was moved. She gone wayyyyy past love

[@Briinnovative]

These couples have been through a lot and all of them are strong 💕💕💕 yandy did a good job planning this couple retreat it was well needed

[@chelebear1823]

He seems girly to me! IJS😏

[@brandylashay6012]

He wants her to dim her light yeah we don’t do that !

[@AmourLondyn]

Girl he needs to put on some shades or up his watts to match hers but she shouldn’t have to dim her light

[@damienkirksey7026]

That's what y'all are going to end being single

[@brandylashay6012]

@@damienkirksey7026 BOY rephrase that sentence and then try again.

[@candice6261]

To all ex-cons or just some of them since they're your favorite?

[@samanthayates8812]

@@damienkirksey7026 single is better than an insecure man. Bye! Dont let the door hit ya on the way out

[@renee8007]

She’s fooling herself that he loves her the same way!!

[@junjou3267]

And just a couple of years ago, Yandy was bragging to the “bitter” baby mamas that she was “married” and now look at her 🤭

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Chilllle, Yandi ain't file them papers for a reason

[@antoinettesmith6456]

Right lol

[@chasenobody5530]

I never realized how much he acts like a whole female. He really is too emotional.

[@kiairaharbin]

The fact he can’t hold himself accountable....

[@emmiesblessed8800]

It’s always good to communicate! But communication can be difficult to accomplish when neither one wants to listen and the other just doesn’t want to deal with it..

[@danijacob4119]

Yandy has a sweet heart. She deserves to be loved by someone the same way she gives love. I don’t think Mendecee is that person

[@sjohnsonsj536]

Yandy did all that capping against the baby mamas to still be just another woman he don't really care for

[@nikkitynakkity3418]

Once she realizes she’s better than him, she’ll be better off.

[@keishawilliams7546]

It’s clear he just doesn’t want her. She needs to just cut ties and let him go and be with someone who really loves her. He needs to go heal before he enter back into a relationship.

[@2jcward]

He wants the lifestyle she brings, that’s it. He doesn’t have to worry about bringing in so much money with her. That’s the only reason why he chose her.

[@keishawilliams7546]

@@2jcward 💯

[@alieenajones6189]

I think he's just in it to benefit himself

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Its not just that he's broke now, they have kids and he's tied to Yandi's show deal i think or at the very least Yandi has worked his deal wit Mona and Vh1 for the 3 shows they've been on since his release 🤔🤔

[@sonyab2u974]

He left a long time ago, Yandy is in denial

[@QuinshunCarswell]

If it's not about him, he don't want anything to do with it.

[@ltillman79]

At this point- I hope Yandy finds her worth and find some who would truly value her. She's better off without him

[@SUEDUCE]

The fact that she spent lonely nights and days and held down they kids is crazy, fought all on national tv with his other baby-mamas and lastly could have cheated but did not! She need to move on from him!!

[@diontenelson1116]

She probably said come on back let’s get this check

[@soradanam8160]

Yet, Yandy was trashing Erica and Samantha, bragging about being married to this loser, the marriage was never real from the start, I'm pretty sure he only stayed with Yandy because she had the bread, that was a better situation for him to slip through.

[@lisel.133]

Yup, the way she was crying over her friendship with Safari on the show. I knew something was up with that relationship.

[@steph8407]

I knew since she came on the show with him 🤣 just watch in one of these clips "their love triangle" all 3 ladies talk about their relationship with him, he just played them

[@2jcward]

I just commented this! He only picked her because she made the most money and it doesn’t put all the pressure on him to bring bread. That’s it! He’s a hustler and joke. ✌️

[@tanyac123]

When he said humanize me, I felt that. You can't take a man's dignity and expect him to sit back idle.

[@jasmineportis8206]

Here y’all go you can’t take nobody dignity this whole pride dignity thing with men and yall make excuses for them is why these niggas act the way they do.

[@BOO512]

He spoke up for himself! That is key to communicating. Some men will just agree and hold resentment so cudos

[@freakysmart5265]

But y'all was trashing Erika and Samantha everyone told yandy then she lied bout the wedding so the relationship seems kind of yandy sided to me 😂😂

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Yes! That's the crazy part about all this. They been say this but every body was team Yan. I believe Sam,she had many recipts

[@freakysmart5265]

@@kayshawnsimmons6822 yep... Erika told her first then Samantha started trying show receipts and a part of me feels like Mona edited a lot of stuff out for Yandy sanity since he was already down

[@charityholley9613]

💯

[@kianidavis2042]

He wanted to marry her and thought they were married and Samantha and Erica were the same two bitter baby mamas that tried to plant a fake story that yandy cheated to break them up and there were receipts on that! Those bitter betty’s were just jealous and bitter towards Yandy because their baby daddy put her on a pedestal so those two aren’t credible at all! Just two bm haters! Yandy was protecting her bag from those two jealous foes it had nothing to do what they were talking about smh

[@freakysmart5265]

@@kianidavis2042 ok yandy family that must pulled Samantha hair when she wasn't looking... Who said anything bout yandy... I'm talking bout him... But if she so in her bag why she couldn't get a man to match her bag ? Why did she need them to be her storyline... Where is yandy interesting? You came at me hard all I'm saying is both of them explained to Yandy how he was going to be they knew him longer.... Yandy actually started it all by calling them bitter and acting stank instead of being a wife/step mother... But carry on with fraudulent yandy I'll pass on that one... Be blessed

[@kennyking4554]

Its the way all this begun on a very cheerful note (by Mendeecees making a light moment, talmbout how he holds the door) then for him to kill the whole vibe that got me 😂🤣🤣🤣😂

[@GodsChosenMekAmoR]

And her face when he did lolol

[@she4dastreets532]

Word i peep that they were happy but he switched the mood real quick lol

[@fatgirl4365]

I remember when my mama told me I was better than the relationship I was in I felt like she judged it, but ladies and gentlemen sometimes we are better than the circumstances we choose...mama was right

[@bambiwhite2358]

He knows Yandy is fake.

[@divaki5841]

THIS!!!

[@kierra3825]

they both hit the nail on the head. that’s why he was so offended & wanted to leave

[@jacobiedwards2955]

The moment she said “number 1 fan” he shut down from the conversation. I think he’s jealous but also he’s scared what comes next for him.

[@starletrobinson]

This is what happens when you don’t express your emotions well, ppl will assume and they could be totally wrong 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@SeIene]

I definetly see these two divorcing. Maybe not soon but give it another year or two. The issue they are having is they both want to lead and the other to support. Mendecess was used to leading the relationship, but when he was locked up Yandy became the lead. And she wants his support but he wants her support too. Either they learn to co lead to fix their issue or all of what they are feeling is going to slowly mutate to just resentment. Just because your role shifts doesnt mean it cant shift again or maybe shift into something better. But they should have known this would have happened. He went in one way and came out expecting things to be how they were. And she expected him to have adjusted to the changes when he couldnt if he wasnt there to grow with her during those 5 years.

[@Aisha-qw9cd]

Ain’t no marriage to divorce 😂 unless she did file that paperwork

[@SeIene]

@@Aisha-qw9cd True! I forgot about that, i wonder how common law marriage works in this case then?

[@pamelasmart4968]

It's communication. The ability to articulate verbally thoughts feelings and needs. The ability to listen without becoming defensive and putting the other person on offense.

[@2jcward]

They never divorcing because she is the bag. She’s even admitted there have been months he doesn’t bring in any money. He’s not going anywhere.

[@lateshia815]

I feel like he don’t really want to be there but don’t want to initiate it 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@marylawal7386]

It’s so hard to continue to take care of a man who feels insecure about your success as a woman. Tandy look upset but honestly, this is how it’s going to always be.

[@remired241]

I just realized who AJ Johnson was.....this is my house Jodi...if I want a man running up thru here🤣🤣

[@meekashabazz6135]

AJ looks the same as she did in Baby Boy

[@hodette]

Yandy needs to wake up .... he don't rock with her the way she rock with him .. I don't think his in love with her I think his comfortable with her ..

[@eve9287]

Yandy expects so much from mendecces as she should but he just ain't having it he's not coming out his zone for no one ....smh

[@taeg100]

In general, damaged plus damaged equals multiplied issues.

[@sashaiscalledsasha]

Lol everyone's a psychologist and therapist in these comments 😂😂😂

[@virgo7956]

Right!!! Oh I would never...... Oh.....she's stupid...... Oh......see how she did the other baby mommas... Just perfect doctors and therapists😂😂😂😂😂

[@queendomgaming]

For the record... I thoroughly enjoyed this series! I need more shows like this 👏🏾

[@smithhawkins72]

Most men don't want to go to therapy and then doing it on national television. She should've known.

[@carameldiva5131]

Yandy pumps this man up more than he deserves. I'm not the biggest Yandy fan but seems like she could do better and should have somebody to support her like she did/does him.

[@ladyyvette1339]

Their's more to it than wt they really wanna say 🤨

[@veronicaparks8750]

His attitude says I'll get another One .. 😱😱

[@manyminimoons930]

im not sure why she settled for him, shes a made woman and I feel like she might be happier if she were single

[@byrddii3516]

Holding a man down because he went to prison does not make him want you or need you once he is put of prison to be honest he doesn't want Yandy anymore because she isn't controllable like she was prior to his prison stint she was on her own doing everything without him so she really doesn't need him I don't even think she wants him his mama has did numerous interviews saying Yandy was dating around on the low while he was locked up so🤷🏽‍♀️ it's there life they gonna live it how they want but living in the public eye doesn't make the relationship any better

[@hayaglamazonluxe]

Period 🤷🏾‍♂️‼️

[@melaniec171]

Yandy was never his type. She was just the money bag and connect to the people he want to be around.

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

Idk, he doesn’t have desire in his eyes when he looks at her! I don’t think he’s attracted to her. Remember when she did that video fir him he just looked embarrassed 😳

[@marissajohnson9007]

@@NkNk-vg8fc he doesn't have desire in his eyes for anything......something is missing....frfr

[@MsTPick]

@@NkNk-vg8fc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsTPick]

@@NkNk-vg8fc wait, what video

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

@@MsTPick Yandy smith dance video for Mendecess 🙁

[@susannaalvarez4631]

I need a Mendeecees vibe , I feel all he went through he can put it in words and we here for it💯💯💯💯🎶🎶🎤🎤

[@GlamorousKiema.]

Yandy been had more attention than him. That’s why he got with her. He used her and now he’s done. Now he can go back to Erika

[@deannailer4297]

He is a narcissist if there ever was one I’m telling you

[@sunnidayz856]

I believe so too.

[@tangiecleans312]

Their relationship is the prime example of how a LOT of women only want a man as a score marker. Knowing that you can “take” him from other females and be called his “main lady” only to find out that he’s really, in factuality, probably not as great of a soulmate as you’ve led others to believe. I don’t feel sorry for her though, she got EXACTLY what she wants and deserves.

[@sevend1398]

I Really Want Yandy And Mend To Work Out Any Issues they Have ,Walking away from the problem doesn't make it go away

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Yea, its still gone be there when he gets back to his set

[@LadiieSavage]

She is getting exactly what she deserves 🤣🤣😂😂 Congratulations Yandy!!! 😭😭

[@teedenise688]

Thank you!!! with her fake a**

[@lolaISheartless]

I agree I think of Erika went to jail he would’ve held her down just saying

[@2241cookies]

It's that Scorpio energy, still love them tho! Lol

[@vonneal1]

Yep im married to one & he'll never be okay with Yandy being in the spotlight. He needs to be real with himself & then be real with her!!!!

[@saoricuzu5571]

That mendeces guy looks like a child. Yandy is a fool. She's a boss, get you a Man not a grown child

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

And he knows Yandi has out grown him.

[@destinygraham2230]

This is hilarious she acted like they were perfect

[@EmpressKima]

Something off about him..I understand childhood trauma but its something else

[@voraciouschild9226]

🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈😂😂😂😂😂🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

[@Tamara_Smith]

In the words of Yandy, "your problem is, your baby daddy don't like you." 🥴🥴🥴

[@antoinettesmith6456]

😂😂😂😂

[@mahaliadick1282]

Facts 😂😂😂😂😂

[@dangelamarx80]

Yandy made herself compete with many women for mendeecees, so she was deeply invested when all he did was show up. I think alot of the things she saw in him were all in her head. But she put herself in a position where she had to win him. Without truly knowing what she won.

[@2jcward]

Wow. Great insight! This should be pinned. 👏👏👏👏

[@lamarmc]

How is AJ a relationship expert?

[@nf4702]

This is what I want to know lol

[@mekasims1981]

😜😜😜😜😜

[@DanqerrStarr]

Google her

[@muncherclay8760]

She’s not just an actress.

[@lamarmc]

@@DanqerrStarr a self proclaimed life coach doesn't make you an expert.

[@Nubiiiiiaaaaaaa]

I don’t feel for them lol she knew what it was before she inserted herself, he was in a full on relationship with his other Bm’s. 😂

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

True

[@antoinettesmith6456]

Exactly

[@dominiquemurphy]

I am no expert buttttt maybe because they didn’t have a chance to grow together, it put a damper on tings. Plus this was filmed not too long after he got out. They didn’t try to relearn each other all over again before hopping on TV. I think individual counseling and marriage counseling is best. Mendecees got some stuff to work on as a human being before he can even think about a congratulations. And Yandy is just all around irritated with him for leaving her and so even if he is trying, she’ll never see it as enough.

[@charityholley9613]

Absolutely correct 💯👏🏼

[@Slowdownwithkees]

This mannnnnn is hilarioussssssssssssssssss

[@shenikade8565]

Truth be told he not into yandy he still got street mentalities and yandy wants a man man

[@shenikade8565]

I think he low key jealous she the bread winner and he in the back ground feeling less than and he resents that

[@Nini_473]

He's just a cute face to match hers. He lacks confidence and is clearly intimidated by her. I really believe him when he said he would not have help her down if she went to prison now!

[@inxroxert]

If it's broke, don't continue to fix it. Sometimes you have to walk away, even when you love someone so much. If they're not giving you the same energy back in return, it's time to let that individual go.