Yandy & Mendeecees’s Relationship Timeline | Love & Hip Hop: New York

[@soukeynaadeleseck]

People are trying to compare this relationship to Rémy Ma and Papoose. Let's NOT do that because we know for a fact that Papoose hasn't publicly disrespected Rémy Ma by having a known side chick on his arm. Also can we stop accepting cheating as a normal part of a relationship? Say no to struggle love!

[@blane6592]

BINGO!!!!

[@dgkingdom7391]

Facts

[@cherissetillman8973]

Yes. Both are completely different. But one thing i can say out of all the couples Ma And Pap, Yandy and Men are the only two that made it through and stuck it out.

[@conniepinkston5951]

👏🏾👏🏾

[@reeseedeamues7627]

Your right tho. We do accept cheating as a normal part of a relationship 😩😩 at one point in life myself included. We’ve normalized it.

[@simplitea]

Samantha’s problems with Yandy are different than Erika’s. Samantha really cared about what was being said about her kids, where as Erika desperately wanted to prove that she wasn’t a side chick 😂

[@maggiebrooks2550]

you are absolutely right

[@missmusicalpsychic7421]

She wasn't though, you ain't call my baby a dang on break baby 😂😂

[@noraafrica3555]

And to prove that mendecees still wanted her

[@eve9287]

Right Samantha did have a more valid point whereas Erika was trying to convince ppl that she was so much more than what she actually was

[@eve9287]

​@@noraafrica3555yessss

[@takesihiabarnes3974]

So when Yandy was pregnant with Skylar, Mendeecee was mad because she is out hustling for her family and couldn't grab Omear from school??? While pregnant? And he was a block away from Omear's school??? So he want an award for being a father???? Black women deserve so much better than this bs.

[@leonie85]

And talking about she keep leaving 'these kids' like he isn't equally responsible for them.

[@takesihiabarnes3974]

@@leonie85 that part

[@ryansryans7062]

I was just about to write the same damn thing!!

[@tiffanynieto5418]

And then they would go off when he would send Yandy

[@arielbanks5557]

Amir*****

[@insertwittynamehere_]

"his son from a previous relationship" ... Yandy made sure that was clear every time.

[@samariahbenard505]

she did too much, she could’ve just said her step son or mendeces son 😭

[@kellslaay6969]

What about the next son, they acted like he didn’t exist

[@yoshiprincess9289]

@@samariahbenard505 nah she said it perfectly and they weren't married at that time

[@Heyu7her3]

That's like "A Pimp Named Slickback" at this point!

[@amalsuudi22]

@@kellslaay6969 Omg yeah, i even forgot that another son he had with one of his baby mommas lol. Let's be real though, Yandee has always been a cash cow for mendecees lol

[@lovingme1st973]

I have never seen a realtor dressed like that😂😂😂😂😂

[@ambercarroll4181]

It seem like all the realtors on love and hip hop dress crazy 🤣🤣

[@foreverrare8460]

LMAOOOO FRFR

[@AChannelonYouTubeeeba01OvOw01]

I thought it was Brandy from Love and Hip Hop Hollywood.

[@iamheretoforgeapathofnoreturn]

Something about Mendeece's face has always reminded me of a lighter skinned 50 Cent 🤷😂💀

[@winnerwinner5992]

Its the mouth lool

[@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406]

😂

[@demonrash5449]

If 50 cent had a street brother

[@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406]

Think dey long lost brothers... Dey just don't know it...

[@robynxo3907]

Thought it was only me

[@girlwiththepurplepen]

Wow I had no idea Mendeecees had a son from a previous relationship. I'm so glad Yandy kept reminding me that he was his son from a previous relationship. Otherwise I would have had no idea that that was his son from a previous relationship

[@elliehernandez9069]

😂😂

[@MishalxIrfan]

Loooool 💀💀

[@conniepinkston5951]

Two boys from Two old relationships

[@brendalawisso8231]

🤣🤣🤣

[@achundrisokain91]

Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@devanwilliams7914]

I genuinely feel in the beginning he used Yandy for a come up. Then he gradually and honesty fell in love with her once their child was born. I’ll still never forget Yandy flaunting that fake ass wedding in our faces.

[@MariamRenneBeauty]

I’ve always thought that. Especially when you look at his baby mothers and then her. She had the most to offer and he wanted to get on.

[@2jcward]

Yup, that’s the only reason he picked her to be the main. He know she brings in that bred and he wants to live comfortably. He ain’t stupid lol, I just hope she’s not.

[@lusciouzlippz2306]

I agree

[@isisdiamonique5481]

I think she loves him more than he loves her. He hurt her when he said he wouldn’t hold him down in jail the way she held him down

[@mattikarosenthal3298]

Yes he is the typical bob the builder. And why did he go to jail anyway? Irresponsible men always want the go getters, The more they work the less they need to do. Don’t get stuck with one of those, they will never step up to the plate and pull their own weight or be responsible enough to support a wife and children on their own. I’ve seen second wives pay their husbands first baby mamas child support. Do you not get stuck with someone like that.

[@reianahmae7650]

Amir really got yandys blue eyes its so beautiful. All their kids are so cute

[@Holliknight]

Yandy does have beautiful eyes but her eyes are green.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Facts and her daughter is too adorable she look just like Yandy mother

[@caribbeanraised6084]

Didn't even notice yandy had colored eyes

[@finnthehuman7159]

I always thought she wore contacts 😭💀 did not know those were her real eyes

[@soulcandy24]

Wow I thought she wore contacts until I saw the baby

[@sephoram1449]

He really left their Babyshower early just to go to the club? Major red flag!!! 🚩

[@stellarose9191]

😮No Way. Relationships req. balance. If Yandy can't trust Mendecees to be entertained by a well known artist then come home to her she shouldn't be with him. That is needy energy but if you want we can blame this energy on her preggo. In the same breath Yandy pregnant and should be relaxing not worried about nothing.

[@iamjordanmundy]

MAJOR! the club is always open, he couldn’t have gone to the club the next day/ following week?

[@introvertedgemini1284]

His NY accent is something serious.

[@marlena.g202]

Hear Rosy Perez ... 😝 now dats sumthin else.... 😆

[@shavonhamm7502]

Yes

[@MayaLee758]

Yep. He, Young B & Remy make me gawk

[@brownbbydoll1777]

Lmao forreal ‼️

[@IKNOWUFUKINLYIN]

He some serious 🥴

[@cakebabie]

She's smart for not getting legally married and doing the POA. It puts her in a better position to support their family if something happens.

[@Michelle-hu7fk]

Yea

[@tkittrell9315]

I Just don’t understand why lie about it.

[@cakebabie]

@@tkittrell9315 Yeah I agree. I wonder if that was part of the storyline for the show

[@Jazzmynnnn]

What’s a POA?

[@geminirising1]

@@Jazzmynnnn Power of Attorney?

[@drisodreamyy9231]

When Mendeece said “ did you see his moves ? Show mommy ya moves” and Amir went off like that I lost it. 😅😭😭

[@usadrones]

One thing about Yandy....she gon' lie! 💕

[@FromMikaWithLove]

🤣🤣🤣

[@babunaorem46]

💀😂

[@Naturally_Mia_]

😭😭😭😭

[@LiddoNickim]

Period 🤣

[@thatgirlPAIGE94]

Bwaaahahahaaahahaaaaa TRUE 🤣

[@mamimamimamimamimami]

“Hickory head, apple faced man” 🤣😭💀

[@barendamauney7362]

Go to hell

[@lacretiagiddens5359]

😆

[@geminirising1]

That was funny 😂😂😂

[@djkdosduhdjd5550]

The days are getting shortened, Jesus is coming back soon. accept the free gift of salvation. turn away from your wicked ways with the help of Jesus🤎🤎

[@terrestaharper]

​@djkdosduShdjd5550 AMEN

[@derrickholmes1013]

I can’t believe you guys are saying that they are relationship goals. Did you forget that he had two women pregnant at the same time?

[@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406]

🤣i got no words...

[@Maso_Prince]

And Yandy was the side chick too xD

[@demonrash5449]

Im starting to think they were just business partners

[@blane6592]

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@soukeynaadeleseck]

I had to comment because some of these people in the comments are on some BS. They are NOT relationship goals....

[@miriangelydejesus1859]

The way that the realtor was dressed 😭

[@blane6592]

Chile....the second hand embarrassment!!!🤣😩🤣😩🤣😩🤣

[@InfiniteIntelligence89]

I thought it was just me 👀👀

[@FromMikaWithLove]

I cringedddd so hard

[@Gaby44776]

I was looking through the comments to see if anyone else saw that?! Like what? Who told her to wear that?! Whhhyyy 😫😭😂

[@babykona7204]

Omg I thought I was the only one who noticed. He routfit was so loud lmaooo

[@alixadam2283]

When Mendeecees lied to Yandy about her son being hurt, that was LOW low. And then when him and his assistant started laughing at her..... hilarious 😐😐😐

[@jessmartinez6492]

Thats foul bro

[@kamstilldabest2003]

I actually felt bad for yandy in that scene, mendeecees was such a 🐍

[@xiamariansupreme72]

Exactly. Could've caused Yandy to go into premature labor from stress and panic. TF was he thinking?!

[@lauradocking4350]

Feel u babe xx

[@QueenMuva]

He laughs about everything, remember when his Mom threw that drink on Samantha Mom

[@ashleymarshall9599]

Say what you want about Yandy but she works her ass off and she's definitely a great mom

[@elizabethprescod5951]

Ort den

[@janassyjoachim1623]

Yes! I think she's a wonderful role model for young women

[@worldofnaay9750]

@@janassyjoachim1623 wtf a lady that stays with a man while he is in prison for 5 years after he cheated and all then got out and said he wouldn’t do it for her and on top of that she wasn’t legally married she is a liar .. she is NOT a role model for nobody😂

[@janassyjoachim1623]

@@worldofnaay9750 When you do things for people, do it from your heart, not because you think they would do it for you. She held him down cause she seen something in him we don’t see... a lot of men won’t do it for a woman and that’s why we praise pap so much. He choices in love is not what makes her a role model, he business and the way she uplifts our youth is! That’s a strong black woman! I won’t let some internet hero’s to change my opinion

[@malehlohonolo8463]

@@worldofnaay9750 you said "she wasn't legally married" as if that's an L. Baby girl's protecting her coins. Imagine being legally married to someone in jail with debts and child support now you gadda pay for that shit with your hard earned money😂 no thanks.. At least she might be a sucker for love but not a fool when it comes to finances

[@roseanneplatts930]

Omg as soon as she put her beautiful baby boy over her shoulder, his big eyes caught my attention coz Amir is so so cute he's so bloody beautiful.

[@Simplykiebby]

Amir and Skylar are so beautiful 😭

[@amiecoope6265]

Mendeecees damn near falling while using Yandy's leg for support had me hollering 😭😭😭

[@vonablack2698]

This!! ☝🏿🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lindalolly6318]

😁😁😁, am traumatized

[@laurawilliams8806]

😂😂😂😂😅

[@Thula_Impala96]

Struggle love is NEVER worth it

[@kanariepotts3394]

EVAAA!!!

[@toomuchtoomuch6545]

Never 🎯

[@jordanwhitehead1251]

They both rich, how is it struggle love. Stfu ya say anything.

[@jordanwhitehead1251]

@@kanariepotts3394they both rich dummy

[@vimbaimupesa4670]

Each for their own l guess

[@Violet-3313]

When he told little Mendeces he might not be around for a while made me so sad. You could tell that he kind of understood, but not really. When he touched his face I cried.

[@tiastewart98]

I got teary-eyed too 🥺

[@Rye617]

All I know if my husband call my phone and lie about our child in the hospital, ima make sure he Goin straight to the hospital his damn self. 💯

[@isarey7696]

🤣😂👏👏 same

[@naomiakande5731]

That's facts

[@chequethiasallie8976]

🙌🏾 right

[@kierra3825]

yandy made a big mistake holding him down for those many years. he is now saying that he doesn’t know if he would do the same for her

[@MrDcrawfod]

I wouldn't either

[@quetta561]

She thought she was better than other others and she but he chose her bc she had the bag. He would’ve never married her if he would’ve never went to prison

[@harveyworld2372]

@@quetta561 he was in the streets he had money lmao

[@Jmarie0134]

@@harveyworld2372 yea but yandy came with stability & a secure bag his other baby mommas he took care of them

[@NicoleC007]

@Jess Torres Facts!

[@Danisweetss]

Remy and Papoose are the only relationship goals in all of love and hip hop. Yandy and them are cute but fuck all that drama and cheating

[@alisonjnbaptiste8059]

Well Said.

[@miller6333]

also jessica dime and shawn with the happy ending

[@lovelywilson2112]

How do you know pap and Remy haven’t had cheating problems. ? We aren’t there with them off camera

[@Bee-lieve623]

Don't refer to them as relationship goals. Didn't they unfortunately suffer a miscarriage? Be careful what you speak onto yourself.

[@lovelywilson2112]

@@Bee-lieve623 that can happen to anybody relationship or not

[@CHELSAE20]

One thing I love is how she includes lil mendences in everything

[@nyotaharris854]

Not everyone are haters❤

[@brownbbydoll1777]

The realtor outfit at 6:49 had me 💀😂 That’s the most ghetto realtor I’ve ever seen like is that some ny shit or sum’n ?

[@javonicasapp1203]

Exactly i was thinking the same thing!!!!

[@quentology11]

Yeah, a bit unprofessional!!

[@rheapelkey9945]

So Funny 😆

[@reyfin4922]

What about Joc and Karli realtor

[@Vanessacurry84]

The scene with his son made me cry that was so upsetting to see I know ppl need consequences when they break the law but it just really sucks for situations like this bc the kids are innocent

[@boni_traxton9436]

Yesss it was so sad. A lot of black men out here need to know that their kids need them an they need to do right

[@chelsea_belle]

That blue eyed curly haired teeny tiny button of a baby, is *ADORABLE* !! Haha!

[@phoenixtehrani7848]

MONIECE & FIZZ TIMELINE + HAZEL VS MASIKA TIMELINE....I'm not settling for anything less than those 2.. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤❤❤❤❤ PLEASE, PLEASE PLEASE, Vh1!!!

[@deniyahdenise9637]

They not doing the hazel vs masika ...

[@phoenixtehrani7848]

@@deniyahdenise9637 Why not?

[@steph8407]

Yea moniece and fizz would be interesting too😂

[@phoenixtehrani7848]

@@steph8407 Yes! I wanna know why there's such bad vibes with each other.

[@deniyahdenise9637]

@@phoenixtehrani7848 bc she threaten them with her lawyers

[@princessroyalty7879]

I believe Mendeecee chose Yandy because he can see her love. She shows real feelings.

[@nataliehenderson8657]

She’s a check

[@tiandcimom]

@@nataliehenderson8657 exactly! Outta the 3 women, Yandy has the most to offer

[@domodacutee1731]

We're never getting Hazel vs Masika or best of Masika 🤣

[@cookielove8174]

It better come by Easter 🧐

[@domodacutee1731]

@@cookielove8174 chile one of us are going to have to do it lmao

[@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406]

It'll be cool to get da best of both just to see where dey come from and how much dey've evolved...

[@blane6592]

@@domodacutee1731 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@domodacutee1731]

@@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406 i agree 100%

[@preciousmartindale4364]

Lol when he said she said she will never leave her husband His Mind Really Thinking I Can Cheat And She Ain't Going No Where...🤣🤣🤣

[@ciqured8525]

LMAO I THOUGHT THE SAME

[@Nat-rv3cp]

You already knoooooow that that was what he was thinking lmfaoooo! Smh you can't tell men that you'll never leave them, but you also don't want to often tell them "I'll leave you at any point for any man" because those are manipulation immature tactics to instill guilt, shame, & fear in someone and will never lead to healthy relationship developments.

[@MsKeepItMoving-h8z]

It never occurred to him that she was going to be fucking other people too or did he just not care?

[@toomuchtoomuch6545]

Women Better Wake Up, Diseases are Real 😬 Im Sorry I'll just be single because cheating is a No for Me 😏

[@Militant-shorty]

That what I said too 😅

[@rhanji2n820]

Mendeecee always looks just off to me like the lights are on but nobody is home.

[@ktown4751]

😂

[@charityholley9613]

I agree 💯

[@cierramiller4256]

He is a narcissist lol

[@NomthandazoZA]

1:51 "Your faver is gonna drive you...." I would've punched him right in his face! Did my "faver" knock me up too??! Stupid!

[@amytk6095]

😂😂😂💀

[@fluffybear1539]

LMFAOOOO !!!!! Why I pronounced it as “favor” and got confused 😭😂😂😂, then I realized you was mocking his accent

[@blane6592]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@blane6592]

@@fluffybear1539 SAME!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Sassy_Muffin136]

“Faver” screaminggggggggg 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️

[@MadiiiW]

It’s her keep saying “me,him,Amir and his son from a previous relationship”😂😂

[@lisaclark5123]

Mendeecees is crazy. He was in and out of jail while she hustled and worked. And, now he is complaining about what she did not do. Please, he needs to stop whining and crying and do everything he can to help Yandy.

[@shaniquelashay2091]

Poor Yandy 😩 she fought so hard for a relationship that she was trying to convince to the world that he was a good man .

[@stefaniesinclair2020]

well she never said he was perfect

[@dollymolly6085]

He is a good man

[@jasmineartis5754]

Dollymolly6085 if that’s what a good man is to you then you don’t have standards.

[@only1kristen]

Not Yandy having to bend down to kiss Mendeecees when she had heels on😭😭😭

[@samanthameza6114]

lol but girl did u see how freaking tall her heels were?? like the heels she was wearing when they were in the tattoo shop, they were atleast 6 inches!! I kno they were vuittons but they looked like stripper heels lol ❤️❤️

[@only1kristen]

@@samanthameza6114 lmao girl yes but according to google Yandy & mendeecees the same height (5’7) so no matter what inch heel she wear she would be taller than him 😭 couldn’t be me

[@samanthameza6114]

@@only1kristen girl right, my husband is only like 2 inches taller than me so I hardly wear heels anymore when I'm with him, I usually just wear them when I'm with my bitches cause I'm not tryna be taller then my man lol

[@mariamaria-ti8fq]

She's taller than him, even without the heels

[@only1kristen]

@@mariamaria-ti8fq no they look about the same height to me when you google pictures of them together unless Yandy got on some tall ass heels over him

[@kamora2917]

yandy, him and his assistant laughing at you is....a no from the general population

[@darrielbrown5314]

So glad someone else noticed that

[@Theonlybranaja]

That realtor’s outfit was a mess 😭😭💀

[@Simplykiebby]

Maybe it’s just me, but if my husband is were to call me and say my baby in the hospital just to “get my attention” and then while I’m upset with him, start grinning in my face? I would have torn that studio up. And then his assistant doesn’t ask if I’m okay, she coming akiki’ing in too? Oh no ma’am

[@ioh7908]

“Akiki’ing” 🤣🤣🤣

[@Simplykiebby]

@@ioh7908 Girl, I was pissed as hell watching that

[@briizyfbaby16]

I been looking for this comment! I would’ve slapped tf outta both of them cause u don’t play like that. Not with anyone, especially a pregnant woman. BITCH IF HE WASN’T OK WTF WAS U GONE DO??? Idc if I was in there whooping his ass, stand tf down ASSISTANT. She should’ve known her place n he should’ve put her in her place b4 Yandy got in her face.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Mendecees and Yandy really are a cute couple/attractive minus all the babymama drama and Yandy being messy and liar 🙄🙄🙄 ijs tho

[@ChristalJ]

And that’s all they are, is attractive. They lack depth to me. Don’t have the things that truly should be valued in a relationship. They feel like a stunt couple. And that’s fine, but at least have your love be deeper than how you look and how much money you have 🥴 that’s how you have problems.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

@@ChristalJ I agree/u better preach it 💯❤

[@crystabellecampbell5895]

@@ChristalJ Agreed

[@AshBall70]

I agree 😂😂😂

[@diamyndrough6568]

@@ChristalJ that's cause she stole him from Erica by being his side piece. There never was any depth. Tandy got pregnant and he wanted to "do right" by her 🙄🤦🏿‍♀️

[@Prophetessdaeja]

When a man is ready to step up and do right it’s no turning back nobody is perfect but you can always see the love between them two

[@hoodgoddessnews5221]

Wen yandy was pregnant in the black going off on everybody her hormones was on gansta mode😂😂😂😅

[@LandyCorner]

Yoooo😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@uhmno1210]

Its funny how Yandy didnt mention that she was pregnant at the same time as Ericka.

[@thegoat7517]

She actually wasn't pregnwnt at the same time Erica got pregnant when her and mendeecees was off for a minute then they got back together after Erica had her baby and she didn't know

[@uhmno1210]

@@thegoat7517 on the "tangled web mendeecees, yandy" thing on youtube part 2 Yandy said she found out when ericka was 7 months pregnant. So yeah they werent pregnant at the same time i thought they were lol. But she did infact kno about ericka.

[@thegoat7517]

@@uhmno1210 okay I can agree to that

[@ceceblack2613]

Want woman wants to mention that 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@thegoat7517]

@@ceceblack2613 every relationship go's threw things if you actually love someone you would stick with them till the end

[@Marie-v2q]

“Before we move in together we need to see where this relationship is going” Lmao moving is too fast but having a child together in an unstable relationship is ok

[@bregottiLIVES]

They out here exposing Yandy and her lies 😂😂 I’m here for it.

[@FromMikaWithLove]

I just hollered

[@thegoat7517]

I don't see no lies but hate

[@dgkingdom7391]

@@thegoat7517 or you blind?she lied she was married She lied she sent KimBella to Lil Mendeeces bday party to crash it She lied about them trying to get child support Shall I go on?

[@determinedheretic5344]

@@dgkingdom7391 keep going. I’ve been asking someone to give me context and explain more hot lies she allegedly told.

[@Whothefuckisgrey]

@@determinedheretic5344 Literally every other scene is a different storyline she’s forcing for the camera’s

[@artisticspirit779]

Vh1 yall hiring? Cause I got some great relationship/friendship timelines that I could put together.

[@jasbourne94]

Family too hell 😂😂😂😂

[@christinewavvydoll1924]

Share ideas. I believe They read comments

[@Anneceline123]

If they hiring am auditioning cause i got some good tea my neighbourhood

[@lightskinisland8638]

No frrrrr.. Shit i have a tell ALL!!!!

[@MelissaMNaturealiztabeauty]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tuduetsomonametsi690]

I dont care what anyone says but they seem good together and Yandy is a good mother. Through good and bad times they made it through it all.

[@RhondaRobinsonisflyassbetty]

Self surrendering is very hard to do. I really do not care for Yandy but I have mad respect for how she held it down. Unless you been through it, you will never know stress like that.

[@Em-md6uw]

This comment really made me think about it differently. I kinda feel for her just a little bit now

[@jasbourne94]

Aww the scene with lil Mendeecees was sad that is his twin for sure.

[@VikkiVallencourt]

When he choked out her cousin 😂😂😂😂😂

[@taneeyalee8528]

where was that at?

[@chickinskinz]

@@taneeyalee8528 fr 💀

[@VikkiVallencourt]

They ain’t show it😡😡

[@VikkiVallencourt]

Y’all ain’t see this!!! It’s just clips we already saw😳

[@jasbourne94]

He bout life frfr he did not care bout camera

[@perdetha]

Oh Chile! Struggle love....I struggled before, and during my marriage. Finally gave up all the drama, and started to breath. I learned that people are who they are. My X has been chasing me every since. I can't go back there. Not a chance. She'll learn.

[@whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859]

Same here 😊 Never go back

[@chinyelundubisi9985]

Sorry...but this is NOT relationship goals🙄

[@mandisaDore6193]

Periodddd

[@thegoat7517]

They passed the goals already

[@charlinda_is_her_2058]

PREACH...ain't nobody on this earth looking to them as goals.. with his mouthful of teeth...

[@caribbeanraised6084]

Exactly

[@CopperSkinnedMamii]

Nobody’s relationship is to be idolized that’s what people need to understand 🤣 no other relationship other than the one with God should be the focus.

[@nicolesherman8974]

Or even Hazel E and Teairra Mari’s friendship timeline.

[@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406]

Yeah.. Just to think they were so close at one time that they stopped being friends the next...

[@javalaelam3819]

There’s one imma try and tag u

[@javalaelam3819]

Oh no that’s nicki and her sorry lol

[@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406]

Dey should hook us up.. And that's exactly how I felt.. Like she keepit on hunnid wid people buh dey always stab her in the back.. I mean I can totally relate to her.. And her vision of girl code.. I really like her a lot.. And I'm just stating my opinion...

[@liyahmishelle5473]

They have one now

[@marykimani1590]

I don't know why, I'll always like Yandy despite the fact that she clearly is not liked by many

[@thegoat7517]

That's what I'm saying

[@xLAPPUINx]

I feel the same way. I think colorism plays a role and she's financially independent. Envy shows up also.

[@ByNature15]

@@xLAPPUINx Colorism? No but the finances, possibly. However, she’s shady too so that’s probably why she’s not liked.

[@xLAPPUINx]

@@ByNature15 Folks don't like darker skinned people...period! I've encountered that my whole life so I know what I'm seeing. She's also smart and goes against the grain. Bad combo for a lot of people. They want to take her down a peg or two.

[@divinemuse6989]

There are many that do like her. It's weird that you people think everyone is supposed to like the same thing. I hate it here.

[@MsSab28]

Pick me dynamics are so bizarre. Many women predicate their worth upon whether or not a man wants them and I can’t entirely blame them. That’s how women are socialized since girlhood, to prioritize the male gaze but at the end of the day if two women have kids by a man and have been deserted by him, you’ve gotta be smart enough to avoid him. Mendeeces is not a catch by any stretch of the imagination and Yandy is willing to scrap with other women over him like a skunk on a pile of trash. It’s so sad.

[@kehindesho5414]

Beautifully said 👍🏾

[@leilag519]

He was wrong for saying Amir was in the hospital and causing her unnecessary stress during her pregnancy tho. But other than that, they seem like a cute couple

[@dcvirgo8707]

I agree it was fucked up though how do you just leave your child at school and not be there to pick them up if she was at an event she should have told mendeeces can you grab him from school you don’t just leave him there and have the school calling where are you

[@simplitea]

they tried to push the idea that she was super messy with the BMs, but i’m a firm believer that two things can be true at once, and i felt their bitterness. especially Erika like 🥴

[@honeyjohnson8536]

Exactly

[@2516562101]

"Yandy doesn't believe in divorce" so just to confirm they have definitely been cheating, or he has been cheating and she isn't going no where. Plus they aren't relationship goals like at all

[@jayminthomas936]

Can’t get a divorce if they were never legally married

[@2516562101]

@Dainelle Speaks Tv It's not

[@heathercarter9614]

Why is that because they been thru trails and tribulations ? I don't think anybody wants to be cheated on. But let's get back to reality. It happens... And instead of her leaving. She believed in her family. NOW they are doing better. Women get cheated on all day and night and stay. At least he grew up learnt from his mistakes and now take care of his family and made her his queen. Nomore thots running around

[@cherissetillman8973]

Well i am going to say this. They are working with whatever relationship they have. I seen a lot of couples so quick to give up and not fight or work. A relationship is work. They've been on and off for 6 years. That's a long time. And their biggest issue has been suppose cheating and the mother's of his children drama. So while others bash or talk about them negatively they're making it work. So they doing what's beat for them

[@MishalxIrfan]

@Dainelle Speaks Tv girl yes thank you! 👏🏻👏🏻 So many women stating Mendeecees and Yandy are relationship goals like girl bye. I wouldn't stay with a man who cheated on me, let alone had a whole ass baby with another female. Yandy is mad at the other mothers of Mendeecees kids. She should be mad at Mendeecees. He's not some kind of prize being in and out his kids lives. It's unhealthy for the children, and Yandy is a mess bringing more kids into that situation. Yandy is going to stay with Mendeecees no matter what and that is a sad sad thing. He can do whatever he wants and basically Yandy will never get a divorce. That's not goals, that's low self esteem.

[@destineewilson1983]

Why Mendeces act like his case THEIR case? Like she allowed to be happy about the baby, work on her career, and want more. That's why she never sent the papers off

[@adonnarowe1811]

That’s why he doin this

[@Siayya]

Yandy seems like a incredible mother to her own and medecee children.

[@Jahsummerss]

Yo his speech got so much better cause no way he used to talk like that 😭

[@lauradocking4350]

Yandy so naturally beautiful man

[@whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859]

Ewww

[@GloriaRichardson4u]

When a square college girl meets a STREET 👑. YANDY LOST HER MIND. MENDEECEES SO FINE

[@angelgray8899]

I'm a square and I'll only date other squares 💕 Dust to stuggle love 💯👀

[@anelissabrown2424]

@@angelgray8899 And the church said amen!!

[@parisdavis270]

@@angelgray8899 👏🏽👏🏽 any day

[@MariamRenneBeauty]

This is the comment. This lowkey needs to be the title of the video.

[@Shalayah2010]

😂😂😂😂

[@mybrotherskeeper13]

every time she mentioned his other kid she says “ from his previous relationship “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s deep but it’s funny

[@Funsizescorpio]

Yeah from his one of other baby mommas 😂

[@rachelmarie8475]

they straight started at yandy first and brought all these receipts but been they didn’t like what yandy had to say and when they were expecting yandy to get upset but instead she held her man down, THEN all of a sudden it’s about the kids lmao 😂😂😂 hating ass bitches bro

[@mariahyohannes]

Notice how Mendeeces looks down everytime he lies.....

[@LiddoNickim]

If he wasn't good wtf was the assistant bouta do? ... then for both of them to laugh in yandys face... yea real cute ..

[@unknownunknown_]

Yea that was real suspect..smh

[@tanishahenderson8721]

Girl baby showers not your wedding night once you have a baby shower that's it boo

[@terrellwiley7133]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@letsnotbefriendly]

I respect Yandy for atleast treating the outside children with respect and love ..many step mothers are emotionally abusive or secretly hate their partners kids .. the children didn’t ask to be here and you gotta be a low down insecure evil wench to hurt innocent kids

[@thugmonk9837]

It was really disrespectful of Remy to ask Mendeece if he was good while he's arguing with his wife/gf. The fact that she didn't see anything wrong with doing that shows how silly she is. It's inappropriate. Stay in your place and mind your business

[@jazzyjazzmusic]

She lost me when she was stan n 4 Tory Lanez.

[@lazybones4970]

Mendecces told the assistant "Go sit down,go file some papers, go do something" lol we need more partners like that

[@tiashillae9453]

After yandy wanted to whoop that girl cause he let her laugh in her face.

[@kellslaay6969]

It’s evident that mendecees was a lier, cheater and had no respect for the other mothers of his children. I wonder if he wld have waited for yandy

[@UchihaAisha]

Of course not 😂😂

[@barendamauney7362]

Learn to spell first

[@PassionBeauty-ys2fm]

No

[@PassionBeauty-ys2fm]

He wouldn't have waited.

[@cassiusclayreels]

Can't spell "Liar"?? 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🤣

[@takeesasimms6149]

you can tell the love yandy has for mandeeces is real but they never really were the overly affectionate type. the vibe is even more distant now like there are some wedges between them

[@ashantizulu144]

I prefer to disagree . As New Yorkers We Don’t Publicly Kiss & Touchy Feely In Public. It’s disrespectful to children and others who may be looking on. In New York when we see people in the street kissing we yell out “GO GET A GOT DAMN ROOM OR TAKE THAT ISH TO THE HOTEL! “ 🤣😂.. seriously

[@mayb1ezy]

@@ashantizulu144 So true, I’m from NY, too 😂😂

[@takeesasimms6149]

@@ashantizulu144 lmao i see ya point

[@blane6592]

Y’all missing the whole point of the original comment. Fuck y’all being from BRICK CITY! Yandy fake and Mendeecees is STILL cheating!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@takeesasimms6149]

@@blane6592 well damn sis lmaooooooooo

[@imperfectlyperfect2993]

The matching sweater scene will always get to me🥰🥺😭

[@thegreatest2107]

10:00 the face he made when she said “are you serious?” 😹😹😹😹🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ChristineJones05]

😂😂😂right like bihhh get this ring hell

[@oneforall8161]

That "duhhh" face was so cute though lol

[@deniyahdenise9637]

Lmaoo that was funny asf

[@jasbourne94]

What the name song playing I always hear on different shows?

[@irenernfuturemsn7689]

Took me straight out

[@datbadgurl145]

Sis said and if this hickory head apple face man 😂😂😂

[@pocahonttis3707]

Started off horribly and ended up to actually be a good husband 💙💙 i love then together hope they continue to stay blessed they both deserve that

[@beautyistifanus8794]

She is pregnant 😳mendecees don't just play like that with a mother

[@valeriedarbouze]

Did anyone notice that in the interview Yandy had a fake belly in the first couple minutes of the video but once she had the baby in the show, during the interview, she was wearing the same shirt, same makeup, and same hair but no belly lmao reality tv is fake

[@pink7661]

right the fake belly was crooked too💀 and ain’t the same size as her real stomach was

[@patriciairv.3347]

Damn wtf I didn’t even notice fhat

[@ninapeihopa4948]

Let's get to the facts Yandy is fake as they come that's why

[@valeriedarbouze]

@@ninapeihopa4948 yes and no lol, they’ve done that to other cast members. Masika had a fake belly in her interviews and part of the show because the producers made her wear it even though she had her baby already

[@Redd91ful]

😭omg I need to tighten up on noticing small details because wtf!

[@1GratefulQueen]

It's,wild that they romanticized the moving in and proposal while he had a whole other baby they didn't mention until it got messy. It's good that they love each other and if they happy I love it but don't idolize this by touching music multiple jail and prison stints

[@dcvirgo8707]

Yeah the other baby was the same age as their son yandy was the side piece that’s fucked up it’s like yandy didn’t even acknowledge mendecees other son

[@1GratefulQueen]

@@dcvirgo8707 did you notice that she only acknowledged one then miraculously acknowledges multiple child's mother when aseem was 4 years old.

[@ElleBoogie_]

@@dcvirgo8707 wait, huh? how was Yandy the side chick if he was on national TV with her and proposed to her? Lol.

[@bossytweed6664]

@@ElleBoogie_ He had been with Erica on and off for like a decade. She posted a lot of receipts of them being together shortly before this season because Yandy was trying to make their child out to be a break baby when in all actuality Erica and Mendecees were together for awhile. Mendecees definitely used Yandy, it's clear as day.

[@Fleurae]

@@bossytweed6664 that doesn't really explain why Yandy is a side piece or whatever. Erika was clearly the side chick lol

[@cliveharris4829]

Ladies - don't raise kids and wait for a man in prison

[@YoungRheubottom]

Yandy is such a pickme that got picked. Lord.

[@KayAintPressed]

To me yandy seem like she only married to him to get to his other baby mommas to show that she not the baby momma she the wife. But that's just my opinion

[@shellybanderson1911]

I agree

[@wilsh]

Yeah they seem like business partners to me

[@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406]

I agree too.. Just so she don't get a bad rap..😒🙄

[@nathc540]

🎯

[@TheGamersGuide819]

I can see that

[@teresaa9991]

why are y’all praising this weird ass relationship...

[@dgkingdom7391]

Istg🚶‍♀️it was so fake and messy No goals there

[@thegoat7517]

It's better than any relationship in Love & hip Hop

[@dgkingdom7391]

@@thegoat7517 delusional I see

[@thegoat7517]

@@dgkingdom7391 the matter of the fact is there's only two relationship that are successful yandy and mendeecees and Remy and Pap

[@thegoat7517]

@Ev3LyN Vj since I'm clearly sick name a relationship that's better than those two

[@nathc540]

So Yandy admits her and Mendecees were on and off. So why the switch up in season 7?

[@AniyaLashay3]

She Didn’t She Said That She Was In A Relationship As Well During Them 6 Years Of Being On And Off . 😂

[@BrayBray78]

@@AniyaLashay3 right, she always made that clear

[@lachell257]

Erica said they were on and off for 7 years. So how is Erica a side chick again? It seems like Mendeces was playing both of them.

[@keamberrlovee]

i just loves the way he talks 😂😂

[@stephenbetts6367]

Talks just like a Harlem dude. Idk who’s accent is thicker between him and Cam’ron 😂

[@LUVLELEO100]

Did anyone else cry when he told his son he'll be gone for awhile💔

[@tylerhardy2012]

Yandy was dating mendecees while Samantha was adapting to being a new mother. 7/6yrs later mendecees has a “break baby” soon after has a child with yandy. Sam and mendecees had an agreement that lasted 7yrs jus for yandy to blow it on tv. Lol

[@keedss]

the lack of stability she was talking about in the beginning was erika.

[@kellym9301]

Regardless of the drama she really does seem to care about ALL of the kids. When the kids are with her, they are her kids, to care for, to protect, to love like her own, period. Anyone who says different needs to reevaluate. Yandy is doing a great job as a stepmother really giving her all to help support his children and provide so much ❤ and happiness. I get bio moms but it's not like you sit with step-kids and talk about being a step-parent (and not a BIO) 24/7 but someone is salty and immature. You're child KNOWS who their mother is. Grow up!! Love is love and the more children receive it the better human beings they will become!

[@kanyebreast6072]

No, she PRETENDS to love all the kids.

[@videofan1010]

That becomes completely irrelevant when she puts the children in harms way by causing unnecessary drama just to irritate their mothers (case and point - locking Erika out of her apartment).

[@Rosy___]

I think she ACTS like she loves his other kids because she uses them as a tool to push HER narrative. If she really loved them, she would respect their mother. She constantly undermines them & uses the excuse that’s she’s the “wife”. & she’s not even his legal wife.

[@honeyjohnson8536]

Y’all bout as delusional as his baby mommas 😂

[@glitchxvii]

@@videofan1010also, Samantha invited yandy & her kids to her sons birthday party so all the kids can celebrate together, only for her to send kimbella instead to cause drama & provoke a fight. Proof that she doesn’t actually care.

[@LikaKickedPuppy]

The proposal was beautiful. I want to cry with them .

[@domodacutee1731]

*Cue the babymama drama in 3...2...1...*

[@samjaymitchell634]

Lmao

[@chantayb86]

I actually like Yandy and Mendeecees together. He kinda humbled Yandy in a certain way.

[@francescav91]

Humbled her ,by making her look stupid as hell . now they in couples retreat, he said he doesn't know if he would of held her down if she went to prison. and he gave her the option to leave. It seems as if mendeces always make the choice for her because she's so desperate . what women would of not loved to be legally married yet she settled for a ceremony because of his lifestyle so let's not encourage and celebrate mediocrity and stupidity

[@isisdiamonique5481]

@@francescav91 exactly

[@kimmore1681]

Girl bye

[@QueenM3.]

She had something to prove. Dassit!

[@Burlykim13]

I am not a Yandy fan but this is such a highlight that people who,haven’t been pregnant have NO DAMN CLUE how brutally hard that can be and how it totally messes with your emotions and can make you a very different person. To have another person, let alone some young girl, stand there laughing after such a cruel prank is so sick. Clueless. I think they’re both lucky that she was pregnant.

[@aneshaelizabeth]

Sir, you could have picked your child up from school. If my partner is the bread winner, pregnant, and taking care of home, I’m going to do everything in my power to make it easier on them.

[@asiaadelane3427]

Yandy in the studio cursing Mendeeces out is so me🤣🤣🤣

[@istoleyourmilkandcookies]

Mendeecees: *telling his son that he's going to jail for a long time* Mendeecess' son: *smiles*

[@Burlykim13]

Well thank you for highlighting that a child does not understand the repercussions or what that even means. I’m guessing you aren’t a parent

[@istoleyourmilkandcookies]

@@Burlykim13 may not be a parent, but i was once a child.

[@kanariepotts3394]

@@Burlykim13 That was clearly the point 🥴

[@Burlykim13]

@@kanariepotts3394 exactly, which is precisely why I don’t think anyone needed that fact highlighted. It came off as mocking the child for their reaction.

[@LaiZhanaiAllbritton]

The son felt awkward. And you can tell Mandeecees was getting irritated and emotional.