'I walked out of my marriage because my wife used to beat me'- Francis Kamara

[@MethayaKagoni]

Child upkeep, is it a responsibility of the man only? That's the question that Francis Kamara is asking in this show. Kindly keep your comments respectful and remember to SUBSCRIBE!

[@cookiecookie7634]

Upkeep ni 50/50

[@kokyfreddie332]

They should take it equal as for me oooh 🤔

[@creativelife254]

Raising children is a shared responsibility.

[@feliscuragi4779]

It's up to both partners, as in any relationship it's a two way traffic. It took both to procreate hence both Should take responsibility, period.

[@kimennjeri5248]

Francis give me that number plz i need it hiyo ya kiama gia athuri

[@dorcaschepkoech7605]

Pole Francis, I know him from brookside Eldoret such a humble man. May God see you through this.

[@annanmaramba4472]

Tell to stop sending 400 everyday,

[@monicahngarachu6762]

Thanks Monica for this great interview. So unfortunate what Francis has gone through. He appears genuine, kind, compassionate and committed to his family. I hope that he will be get a fair chance coz he's paying way too much for the upkeep of his family and other expenses. God will make a way for him.

[@annemwangi5609]

Thank you Monica for bringing this powerful show. Men also needs to be heard and considered as human beings who also go through marriage abuse. but there is something l noted Kamara said that his wife was acting that way anytime she gave birth. So we need also to consider his wife, she needs counseling. l dont see how l can go ahead and give birth to five children with a man l don't love. lets judge fairly.

[@feliscuragi4779]

Sometimes yoi want to comment but there aren't any right words to say.I pray for the best for you & your children, @FrancisKamara.

[@mimuwajesus9138]

Ooooh my God some ladies aky unapewa good husbands hivi but you take them for granted😢😢.I wish kupata bwana kama huyu 🙏

[@salokywambo3685]

AKY

[@carowanjiku3126]

God will bless us. We keep praying and trusting Him.

[@janeshangii7330]

Imgn

[@newankminspired7425]

Monica you are a very cheerful lady asking hard questions in very diplomatic way. To Mr. Kamara everything good for your family is not in vain. Be strong God is with you

[@rachelbongei9519]

This is so sad... Pole Sana Kamara.. God will see you through this

[@mercyfaith3021]

Waa n the way he s handsome n the smile locks the dental formula 👌😆🙈

[@esyy_kariuki]

Such a humble and good hearted man atumia amwe mwendaga atea.

[@philipnganga4159]

My classmate, pole sana, Francis is a cool guy back there 1993 to 1996 class thigio boys

[@mageembarikiwa2991]

Philip fran ari yur class mate,,?naniguo ena smile njega

[@mageembarikiwa2991]

Kamaaara ndimutumia. No tiwega mutumi agwikire heho aiii ona mucibi ungikimucutha naguo.......arume kwoguo ni murumagio ti itheru?

[@janewanjiru7817]

Karì wa Ndeiya?

[@yonesyones4810]

Nime wait tu Sana, finally thx team gulf like Zicam

[@ephantusnyika685]

Ooh!! Such a great honest, kind, and loving man going to waste. May the light of the Lord shine upon your face.

[@edithmugure3080]

Ucio mutumia lastly ata regret na wale wana m advise hawatamzaidia. May God bless this man to fulfil his desires Atumia angi marathukuma na Up keep ya ciana

[@carolshii8023]

Wooiye some women are heatless,,she was taking advantage of yr kindness,how I wish I can have him as my husband I can love him

[@costanzangunjiri8742]

Oooh my whatva wonderful man....May God bless u

[@janifferwanjiku3310]

wuuui pole Sana ngai niegukuonekanira noungiona mutumia urahura muthuri hau hatiri muturire nii ndateirwo na ciana inya niundu wa kuruara no ngai nimwega nindahonire na ciana ciakwa iriyaga naikanyua naigathoma nanditeithagio ni mundu kuoguo kamara wiyumiririe ngai niegukuhotanira

[@margaretkamau3095]

Pole sana Francis, women let's be responsible and stop stressing this men ,I'm a single mum have never bothered to request help from the dad of my kids,yet hes filthy rich.

[@winniewayesu6876]

Ngai na vile nime lea watoii. pekeyangu like 6 years now no help to the he father 😭😭😭😭

[@mungaiann1642]

Good interview. Monica your words are well articulated na uko very beautiful

[@wawerunjenga2877]

I support that statement 💯🤗

[@lizjoseph4404]

Sure

[@warugongojnr1648]

@@lizjoseph4404 L moo ,H.j o

[@warugongojnr1648]

@@wawerunjenga2877 nolmlooloop. Op l

[@lizjoseph4404]

@@warugongojnr1648 🤷‍♀️

[@cyrosvlog780]

Thanks for a show based on mens rights being violated.kusoma kwa sana madam kagoni

[@saveme4551]

Wish some of us would have a husband with such a great personality and love for His kids.Francis u ar one of a kind.

[@irenekarimi692]

Am listening to this great man n am wondering wht women want.this is a great man oooh

[@tendermutiga1923]

Asking the same question

[@maishjunior4651]

Well done Kagoni 👏👏.. Reke tũigue cia arume ũmuthi

[@mjkinuthia386]

There are credible pointers to show that this happens more often than the public gets to know due to obvious societal and cultural reasons. ABUSE of any kind has no GENDER and MUST never be tolerated or swept under the rug. It is a CRIME inasmuch as it is EVIL. These abuses destabalize the FAMILY UNIT and unfortunately CHILDREN suffer the most.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

True.. waache ku excuse abuse because it's done by a woman.. Abuse is abuse!!!!

[@peninahruth2731]

Ndio nashangaa...the woman is the one cousing all this destruction but the end of the day the boychild is the one to carry all the burdens...why.....do finder leaders r nomal human being than bares children n can they wish their boychild go through all this things...lets look at both side...am a devircee n i dont bother anyone to care for my kids n God has blssd me...women lets b God fearing pple bcoc 2moro is the kids that r we r bringing up

[@mjkinuthia386]

@@peninahruth2731 Well said Peninah. Watu wakiona hawawezani heri kila mtu akanyage kubwa kubwa aende zake. Violence begets violence and we've seen too many of these abuses resulting in deaths. Pongezi for taking care of your kids. You are a strong woman @Peninah Ruth and how I wish there were more Peninahs out there. Cheers 👌👏👏👏👍

[@karisgaitho1972]

Asante Monica as always for beautiful show well, upbringing of kids it's a 50/50 responsibilities of both parents, period!

[@mutheekigwaci4871]

God bless you Monica Kagoni ..🎥📺👸🙏♥️♥️

[@puritynjeri5404]

Pole sana Francis u seem like a good hubby aki some women they don't appreciate what they have,.. I wish naweza pata kama uyu may God see u through

[@mamakedave]

Ingigia muthuri toyu ingimurora ta king😋😋😜😜😅😅. Wangu alikana hata mimba sio yake na hata sikushughulika 🙁🙁. 18 years ago na we have never met even once. Sahii nko gulf nalea watoto bila stress

[@veronice7268]

May God bless him,never luck anything for his children, also wife should support her children ,who said only a man care his children ,both parents should take Responsibility's

[@peninahnjeri1347]

Marriage foundation is build by God. God is the starter. Before men marry, pray. Before women get married, pray.

[@bw4423]

Sorry but u trying to say that only "unsaved" people separate -not true-or those who break up do not Pray

[@janekimofficial2899]

These women has come too much 😡😡. May the lord open New doors for you fransis

[@margaretkimani1602]

You need to be real and I am becoming impatient. Judge Mumbi Ngugi passed the judgement and please Kagoni follow up with the ruling and this man can benefit from that ruling. Lazy woman who is out to destroy this man that means he cannot even remarry or ever be happy. Very sad story.

[@susanapollo284]

Totally agree. Its evil

[@eunicegitimu8482]

Very handsome and wonderful man ❤❤

[@stellahnjagiakaemma9057]

Wakwa ndateithagia mwana ona ikumi no Ngai ndari areka aage na ndakareka..

[@susanwangui4181]

Watching from Saudi what a responsible man God will reward you

[@juliusnjuru8940]

Seems like this lady had post delivery depression which is very common especially if poor family planning arrangement.

[@johnkanyua5582]

Postpartum psychosis

[@wambuibwaweru6920]

true

[@catherinenjihia2083]

True

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Don't excuse her crazy behavior.. she was psychotic... How many women with post part bite off their man's ears

[@faith8508]

Soooo true, postpartum depression is real

[@TabithaLydia084]

😭😭😭😭Ngai na ndamenya riu miaka mugwanja yathira wakwa ndoi ciana iriaga kii kana kwihumba kana guthoma na ndimutindanagirira na akinyita mugunda akiendia nuthu na ndingimwitia onaki ndaugire nii tutigutangana tondu riu ingiri na stress taki but responsibility ibatii gukorwo ya both parents

[@janekchannel5074]

Niguo ndiroria ati kuri athuri mendete ciana🤔😳wui na ithui ni ithui ithe na nyina wao no. NGAI niatuteithagia

[@kokyfreddie332]

Waaah pole sana 🤔 u were on the same page with my mom am telling you 😭😭 but my mom didn't go she stayed...... but at this point she is saving the man that hot 🔥 food that he cooked for her......meza ilimbadirika ...I don't even know if to feel sorry for him or to say save's him right 🤦

[@milkanjoroge4994]

Ni miaka 9 na ndoi mariaga kana kuihumba kii

[@gladwelldaughterofzion9884]

Pole dada pia mimi for 14 years hata hajui watoto ukula nini ama usoma na nini but I thank God juu ananiwesesa

[@naomiwanjema3133]

Gladwell me too lkn God is good 👍

[@carolshii8023]

How can I get him pliz,he needs someone like me tujenge nyumba yetu iko na Amani na lots of love

[@wangariann6044]

Haujamalizia na hii😂😂😂😂😂

[@janenjenga5639]

Malizia

[@emilykiruku5516]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@loisewanjohi1624]

Wanjiru ni mundu wetha Na hinya uguo..atia no show ikirika

[@kokyfreddie332]

Yeah 😂🤣 if we marry such kind this world would be a better place..... that woman I think she was suffering from what only she knows 🤦🤦

[@sarahkiragu4556]

Very sad case , kamara you not supposed to pay 100% .You are entitled to spend time with your children , love of your children is key ...but don't let your ex take advantage .God loves them more if one is not working why should they live in Nairobi ? There is something called tough love ....talking from experience seeking counselling helps ..above all may God heal you .The incidences could have been related to postnatal depression/ psychosis. So forgive but be firm in sharing parental responsibilities 🙏🙏.Thanks for sharing , Amazing interview MK

[@risperladee5718]

Usijali my brother laana ya mungu isha mpata.. You can't do that to your hubby!

[@beatricemacharia4140]

pole sana mzee,,athuri taya monekaga kuu maa,,,ndamenya wakwa riu ni miaka kenda na dari uteithio ateithagia ciana naguo 😂😂😂,,no Ngai ni mwega tondu dari adiganiria thank you Lord

[@angiewamuchomba8106]

Postpartum depression is real,and if the partner is not aware it can be severe,However We should know and learn how to start marriage with God....

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Don't excuse her crazy behavior.. she was psychotic... How many women with post part bite off their man's ears

[@meditationgalore9171]

@@phillipsidhojapap1461 postpartum psychosis is a medical term. She was sick.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@meditationgalore9171 now you are justifying violence.. so people should go biting off other people's ears because they are psychotic. And if she is, isn't she a threat to others.? Shouldn't she be taken to a mental hospital and detained there until she becomes sane. Either be taken there or to prison. Ni justifying acts of violence.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@meditationgalore9171 now you are justifying violence.. so people should go biting off other people's ears because they are psychotic. And if she is, isn't she a threat to others.? Shouldn't she be taken to a mental hospital and detained there until she becomes sane. Either be taken there or to prison. Ni justifying acts of violence.

[@mamaboys7195]

My mum always tells me hatakama mwaume nikiwete usiwai mweka mkono nanikirumi kama umechoka enda... 😂 Thi how I ended up kuchapwa kama ndarama hata singempoint and it was hard to move on alone with 2kids... But now I thank GOD imaged and I'm hpply single suching 4 Samone matured 😁😁ama nihuyu wasee😀😀niangushiwe number

[@Jenniferspace]

My mama used to tel us same

[@sarahngugi7122]

I wish those kids will one day stand by you

[@kokyfreddie332]

To good to be true 🤔🤔I need husband of such kind 🙏🙏c wakundunga kisu 🙅🙅God forbid

[@matunda2008]

Huyo wife alikua anashikwa na post natal depression after every child..

[@bw4423]

mhhh lets call out violence no special treatment for either gender,,no justifications

[@francwandee5184]

Kindly also host Maureen wanjaro wife to the late musician legend mwalimu George wanjaro usikie maajabu ya musa about what she had been going through since the burial day

[@allaboutmmm231]

oh no

[@meriothgraceofficial.]

Oooh God

[@mercyfaith3021]

Find her story at reke ciume na ene

[@Mercyy734]

You are requesting this on every interview. What else do you want to hear? smh!

[@francwandee5184]

@@Mercyy734 devil should be ashamed everywhere, what are u fearing to hear??? kindly send ua request n then leave the management to decide who to bring please!

[@maasaiwaku1637]

if you stay with a violent wife or husband, you are likely to be killed or you kill in self defence.. The earlier you run for your dear life the better.

[@teresiawachira1034]

The government needs to encourage women to contribute to her children upkeep. Why would the government put all burden to the father even after separation? Why don't they give the father full custody of the children then? The mother can come to visit the children until she's financially stable too.

[@muthonimacharia-nganga8026]

I agree. Our men are seriously abused esp financially. Am scared for my boy's future.

[@florencewilson5676]

The woman most likely suffered from PPD.

[@kimennjeri5248]

True my son is facing the same problems sms all the time.Everytime police etc woii boychild God see you thro

[@mayriejidraph3538]

It's like that lady was suffering from postpartum depression,pole sana

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Don't excuse her crazy behavior.. she was psychotic... How many women with post part bite off their man's ears

[@tinanjoki3339]

Go to court, the new rule is 50/50 to child upkeep. Women need to style up. This guy was clear he didn't want more kids..ai..now with 5 kids what will the do coz again 15k ni kidogo for 6 stomachs

[@nickmachogu4199]

Huyo mama ni mnjanja kama sungura. Alikuwa anamkazia mali na kujiachilia tu wakati ananjua ako tayari to conceive.

[@hermanwaithaka5192]

So sad. But humble Man. May GOD open here door for work

[@kidsentertainmenthub4126]

I know there are many men going thru such lakini juu huwa wanaambiwa ety mwanaume ni kujikaza as if wao sio watu hawaongei, speak up and don't mind about pole judging you it's for the best of your mental,emotional health...boychild needs help.

[@damarisnjerichege100]

Woi too bad....I feel for u man.....I thank God u were not killed.....afathali mguu niponye than saying navumilia the situation will one day change...u will end up be killed ooooh.

[@veronicakahura111]

Children upkeep should be a joint responsibility....it should be shared depending on the incomes of the two partners. Its so sad how this man has suffered in his marriage. May God remember him

[@elizabethkiriba4300]

Go for a DNA test first probably some of these children are not yours. Why not share the responsibility?

[@catefavoured5019]

Inspiring story but funny vile kagoni anasema 'warumwo moni yateo thi'

[@johnkanyua5582]

Can't live with such a woman...Acha nilee watoto peke yangu ama niwasaidie akiwa na wao. sharing responsibilities while apart

[@peninahruth2731]

Lets b God fearing pple even after devorcing if we need the better 2moro of our kids n this is why unakuta mauaji hapa na pale niathuri kuhinyiririo ni sheria n sometimes hana mapato mazuri...lets just remember today u r mistreating ua husband or wife but remember tomoro is ua bbygal n bbyboy

[@paultoday610]

I thank God I've both my ears even though I was in a crisis.

[@shigitau910]

Atumia aria moi guthukuma arume na aria mahuraga athuri ao mamenyage moinaga watho wa Ngai

[@graceagape2807]

Nima

[@teresakiruthi4261]

Ona athuri tiatige nathutha haduini hau

[@HsHs-kr7si]

Very true

[@shigitau910]

@@teresakiruthi4261 Ngai ombite muthuri ahana Ngai koguo atumia acio mahutagia Ngai wa guku thi

[@peterkamau7608]

KUDOS METHA YA KAGONI FOR BRINGING THAT SPECIAL GUEST..KAMARA.

[@janemwangi6065]

Good evening kagoni? Nikuri atumia macaragia ha kwinyitirira but ndari na Bata wa kihiko wira wake nikunyamaria muthuri, but wathii urihagirwo thi.

[@susanapollo284]

Very true. This man can not even remarry under such situation. Fidda is also meant to destroy men. Weakening men in the society is evil. It is spiritual war against men. The devil wants to make women heads of house against Gods will. May God give him a loving wife

[@marthamwangi6847]

There is some women who usually go through postmortem depression and so many ppl don't understand them.

[@lizzywriter]

true

[@chibandamwende3676]

I like the way when a woman is abusive we find a diagnosis very fast,so 😭 sad

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Very sad indeed.. Im saddened by the comments here.!!!

[@milkahwatene3798]

Waa Kai andu mendaga atia.muthuri ta uyu mundu agatinga.

[@rosemarbot5703]

My God. Wewe kweli, mbona ulikua umefungwa macho

[@cytkl]

Woi atumia lets love our kings. Weusi tupendane tuache kutesana.

[@KADJAKENYATV]

Mum hii nayo ni kali...... Ati my wife used to do what? Aki i kifap.... Nice one

[@janenjenga5639]

Vita mpaka you surrender 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

[@KADJAKENYATV]

@@janenjenga5639 i will kol police

[@sheena8868]

🥳 Ngai Baba,Jamani I feel for him,Ngai!Ucio ni orogi

[@emilykimani419]

Ooh my lord,this is so painful story,so sorry brother:::😢

[@jennyrhein3031]

That's true...this has become a business to some of which responsibility should be for both.

[@wanjirunduta5346]

In most cases most Men take the BLAME when it happens that parents need to part ways. From my point of view; the 'societal pressure' and 'belief' that every man should take the responsibility of their children has carried it all. It's a high time that the laws concerning children care should be reviewed so as to ensure that there is fairness when responsibilities are being delegated regarding 'how a child should be raised when such issues arise' and 'who plays which role' otherwise one person will suffer and carry the burden alone which is not fair. I think it's the responsibility of both parents not 'One' when it comes to child care or rather upkeep so hapa naona ni kama kuna place haikuenda poa. In the meantime; MK Keep up the good work and guys let's continue subscribing tuhit at least 100K by the end of 2020; for the most inspiring show with a consistent and professional presenter.

[@wambuibwaweru6920]

true, we should also teach our girls kuwa responsible, pesa ya mtu mmoja haiwezi tosha

[@wanjirunduta5346]

@@wambuibwaweru6920 That is true; we should not try/look for a way to run away from responsibility. Thanks fro highlighting this dear.

[@kanyigipro3208]

Wuuuuuiii.. my neighbour ..watching from diaspora

[@monnydaniel476]

Is he a good man ama nikujitetea

[@kanyigipro3208]

He is a humble man..very good

[@johnkanyua5582]

The lady might have been suffering from Postpartum psychosis....but ata kama siezi ishi na mwanamke Aina hiyo....peace of mind is paramount

[@mimsbaibe6mimsgul737]

Waiting kwa hiuha kiura ruga me to reke nemwo kafa thayu bro

[@Lucystevealice]

Mimi nilikataa hizo cases mony I do pay their bills I was advised to take him but for me I decided I don't want anything to do with him not even his own money nobody from his family followed us to know where we are I thank God he has been a father to my sons

[@stankirubi1182]

School fees ,food,children up keep and other unseen is must whether their is divorce or not .kamara jikakamue watoto ni wako ,ihave faced the some nanimetoboa

[@lilianrhyner2570]

Waiting from Switzerland 🇨🇭

[@prettysue4318]

Aki siunipee connection za huko

[@rosamariewanjiru8659]

Before we condemn the lady, she should be evaluated for postpartum depression. I will not believe the man alone.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

We condemn the abuse she did to this man.!!! If you were a victim as a woman what would you feel if we excused your man's behavior?? I hate people who take partial positions about evil

[@damg4332]

Bona kunakuanga hivi, wanaume wazuri hupatana na wanawake wabaya,wanawake wazuri hupatana na wanaume kutupa🙄

[@kensu7257]

It is sad

[@annekibarita4981]

What happened to this case?

[@bettydanielz9084]

Please bring the wife too n listen to the other side of the story

[@elizamwihaki7858]

Woi my boss is going through this wish I can help him.bibi huenda job akitokea anaenda kulewa anakuja 12 ,mzee anapika na kuangalia mtoi .may God give this man peace .

[@annanmaramba4472]

Kindly tell him to cheat his wife.

[@elizamwihaki7858]

@@annanmaramba4472 wish he can

[@annanmaramba4472]

@@elizamwihaki7858 help him cheat please

[@peterkamau7608]

Francis kamara thank you for coming forward and opening up ABOUT all the shenanigans u went thru with wifey.Definietly other men might follow SUIT. Stay strong tho my brah.

[@BeyHappiness]

Wow the lady was getting postpartum depression and getting phychotic whenever she had a baby ! She needed medical attention

[@janenjenga5639]

Following from Washington DC mwihoko.athuri marakua nikwaga kwiyaria matigacambe.

[@mombasakenya3971]

Ukweli

[@mutheekigwaci4871]

Monica I love your voice ..💋💋💋♥️🙏♥️

[@margaretnduta4495]

This also happened with my brother the wife was the same not giving him food when he don't have money

[@mombasakenya3971]

Soo sad

[@zipporahkagiri5183]

My uncle too went through it

[@estherpat4227]

I know a woman who married with a small baby girl... he had six of his own but he loved the 1st one and the girl was bright in school... she is the only one who went up to university... when the parents retired, this girl stood with her adopted family... she educated young siblings.. she is very rich and to date she helps all... sometimes those children are the blessings in your home... y

[@annmweya1198]

Kagoni wamama ni wengi wameachiwa watoto....ju wanafaa wasaidiane.but wanaume wanatuachia mizigo yote

[@grasgras9889]

Niruo ruingi muno ukiona mwana waku kuhurwoni mutumia.no uyu mwanake niaroneka kuma unyinyi wake ti mundu wa haro .he look so cool calm n humble

[@wangarewakungu9753]

Postpartum depression. Unfortunately due to lack of information they had to go through this

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Don't excuse her crazy behavior.. she was psychotic... How many women with post part bite off their man's ears

[@marygathigiagithinji1425]

🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️I have three n no one helps me I wish Francis was my husband

[@winnemarangu2569]

Child up keeping is for both ,but me my side I can say that some women take advantage ,and the other side some men take advantage too ,coz my hub he doesn't want to know about my kid venue wanaedele nimetumma na watoto wangu pekee yangu

[@Jane-ie9ul]

If he said a child born out of wedlock should be taken care of by his father how about a mother who was raped or a mother who doesn't know where the father of his child disappeared to, what happens to that child if his or her mother gets married and got other children. If those children will be helped by their father, what happens then to that child born out of wedlock with no father?

[@marymuthoni3602]

Haiya wa uga ndukuenda pp naniguo kwetereire uheyane no kuethe .....

[@prettysue4318]

😂😂😂😂

[@maryhebrew9480]

Hahaha navile ako muhandii

[@teresakiruthi4261]

Huyu amelearn thru experience.....nietigira andu aya

[@MaggieG276]

Woi boyshaod,Ngai matetere ona haria.

[@teresakiruthi4261]

Wooiiee...boy child.😔😔😢😢..but this is what many men are going thru..but as usual they dont come out to speak out