'If i didn't leave my marriage, I'm sure I'd have been killed. In one beating, he broke my jaw.'

Faith Mwiraria was married for 13 years. She married the lover of her life immediately after college. However, their marriage didn't end with 'a happily ever after tale.' Faith remembers of constant beatings and numerous cases of infidelity.
In one instance, he hit her so hard that he broke her jaw!
When Faith made a decision to leave, she googled on divorce cases, wrote her own petition and represented herself!

[@keithndungo3437]

Mom, I saw everything. I can see how you are working hard to see us through school. You have taken me to the most prestigious school in the Republic. Mom you will be the most prestigious Mom very soon. My sister Cindy and Bro Adrian we have vowed to work hard. Give us time mom. You will testify be strong Mom. Your son, Keith.

[@MethayaKagoni]

Wow Keith!

[@madrinewakio9487]

Keith be blessed....waooooww you and your siblings work hard to make your mom proud. Keep up. .

[@DVISA]

Wow!

[@gracemakasi123]

Be blessed

[@agnesnkathamwongera8357]

Thanks for making mummy's life bearable.God bless you son

[@janetireri7955]

God help me to be a good parents to my children, this story teach me how supportive parents are blessing to their kids.

[@nancynderitu463]

With your story swts we sure we'll get our perfect matches..and take care of the lovely angles dear...

[@joykihuyu6038]

When will women learn to love themselves??? I'm tired just like his father was 🥺🥺🥺

[@Mimik70-w3t]

Her

[@bw4423]

you may not understand

[@charitykawirambaabu9747]

Inaitwa mapensi 😅😅😅🙆

[@margaretwanjiku3136]

Ignoring the red flags just because you want to see the best in people will cost you someday

[@judymburu8898]

✔️very correct

[@janetwairagu4462]

Normalise leaving when you see red flags , including emotional neglect (not abuse ) and financial manipulation NOT when he hits you. You don't owe him your entire life for him to waste . He owes you the aspect of being a good and honest partner . Love yourself .

[@mwaikadu7474]

The sweetest part of this interview is from 23:00-25:00 The lady is so beautiful Jamani and then she had to go through this. Kwahiûha kîûra rûga

[@tabbiemwas7478]

Mwai how do u do it highlighting the exact recorded time?

[@paulinekomu9010]

Faith your presentation is on point,, keep going mamaa You shall look back and give a testimony

[@emilywanjiku7221]

Faith is a beautiful woman who is well composed.there is God of another chance faith. Take care of those bundles of joy that God gave to you. Stay 💪💪

[@marykaritu138]

You are a very strong and intelligent woman Faith. You made the right choice.May God bless you abundantly my daughter . It shall be well with you and your children.

[@faithmwiraria4330]

@@marykaritu138 Thank you very much mum, I miss how I used to work for u in Chaka. Thanks for having supported my business. I miss u.

[@liznjoroge8406]

@@faithmwiraria4330 hi faith, please share your email. I want to reach out to you.

[@charitywambui1258]

Me too I went same in my ex husband he used to beat and kama singeamua kutoka kwake ata mimi ningekuwa nimekufa not once he tried to kill but God is Faithful niliweza kutoka

[@WanjiruMuya]

When a man hits you once run away because the next time he will kill you! There's no shame in leaving an abusive marriage or relationship 👏

[@abbiemumbi]

True true! Run and run for the hills gal!

[@jerimoses7071]

If only women would follow this advice, many lives would be saved. An abuser never changes

[@carolstephen5607]

True...am a victim too

[@christinewangechi7675]

Very very true... But I imagine it's easier said than done especially for marriage

[@joycembugua4584]

Am a victim but it's not easy.hawa wanaume toxic nikama shetani their have something ata ukijaribu kutoka unajipata tu unarudi.but pray pray pray and God will make a way.

[@jamiemo6568]

Thank you for having courage to share your story, it will save a woman stuck in a toxic marriage or relationship. We should normalize leaving when violence kicks in.Hugs n love🤗❤

[@margaretwangari5422]

Wooi the guest is beautiful and very composed

[@BK-qz8cm]

She's a brilliant lady.

[@rickiejohn9251]

Faith you are soo beautiful You have a bright future as you gave your story ,I related with a lot of it,I ran after 25 yrs of marriage and one day I will give my story it will build someone.

[@ruthnyakio2918]

This girl has a big big heart. Wichunge muno muno, murimu wa muchoka. niguo, uriaga, mundu. wihoke, Ngai. Ngai, Ngai. Mundurume tiumwe. wimenyerere ona, riu, riu, no akuhenie. Na mithaiga. he, ciana uhoro, kiumburo, niguo, mahone.

[@gertrudeirungu2959]

Women it's high time when we see red flag for the first time just get out.We should live by principals and decisions.l lived In a toxic marriage for 25yrs and this story is similar to mine.l hard an accident and my legs were frustractured niliwekwa chuma anacome hos mpaka ananiitisha pesa ya fare na nimlevi.Ati unasema ati you are praying for a man to change he can't change at any cost.l decided and moved out. Thankyou for the courage of sharing your story you have saved someone's life

[@saisafaith7412]

Such a lovely story thank you for sharing faith. And women, if you meet a man that treats his wife like this and you think he will treat you any different, you are very mistaken

[@alicekimani4152]

Faith is beautiful ❤️, intelligent,bold and courageous,very hardworking, courageous and very very blessed.Am proud if her for making the right decision...You are the chosen one

[@jennifferwakuthii9748]

Faith there is God of another chance take heart my dear ..I wish one day I meet kagoni...to share God bless you abundantly kagoni

[@trizamaina5283]

Monicah kagoni

[@damar921]

Wao Faith...you are a strong woman. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@margaretmungai1924]

I agree with her, the best support is from parents

[@annwairimu3724]

Nimecheka hapo kwa 'ikara hau wanogoka niugucoka gwaku' your dad was already tired of you going back to the abusive hubby am glad you pulled out May God bless the work of your hands

[@sammyndekeindekei6581]

Faith is a lionesses by nature. So articulate. Congratulations for your simple and educative narration Faith and Monica

[@michukiann2401]

This is a very tough situation,may God visit all the people facing difficult situations.

[@marykariuki7381]

I think there are mistakes women make when in such situations. One decided to leave him but decided she wanted to have another child with him, that’s was unfair no child deserves to be brought in such set up, especially when you have already to decided to leave the man already. Secondly, blaming the other women, seriously the man hit her, broke her jaw, disrespected her family, cheated and she stayed all through. Obviously, her husband was a master manipulator, he got her to stay no matter what he did, surely he could have easily manipulated other women too!!!

[@mlokole254]

When she said baby no 3, I got done!!!!

[@antonynkanata1834]

Many men have the charm that take their partners minds hostage. Madam epic mistake came in way of bringing in the decision 2 have a third child with the abusive monster. The demon of death was hanging over her head.

[@magnam6807]

In abusive marriages it's children who suffer the most. It's not worth it

[@catherinenjeri2427]

I can relate to an abusive marriage please leave immediately. God will see you through. Nothing is worth it. Live for your children. This is because your children will suffer.

[@ndutak5690]

I'm 31 years old .got myself a good job and somewhat financially stable... I'm at soo much peace with myself that I'm scared to get married cause of all the stories that I keep seeing and actually cause of what some of my friends are going through in toxic relationships...May God bless this lady and her future and to all the women suffering in silence 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@user-hx5lf7et9t]

The fact is God has remnants, and good men's are there still.

[@ndutak5690]

Amen🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@lucykinyua8620]

Am not lucky too😥

[@josephcoolguy8286]

Karibu moyoni mwangu

[@danielwairimu7754]

@@lucykinyua8620 😣🕵🕵

[@shikohmuriithi5216]

That man was nothing but a user and a manipulator..

[@angiewamuchomba8106]

Faith ur Bold Brilliant and Beautiful,, Ur strong too I left my Marriage 7yrs Reke turere ciana God is there....

[@BK-qz8cm]

This lady sounds like she would be far ahead doing exploits in life had she not entangled herself in a messy marriage so early in life. But God is a restorer of life. I pray that her star rises and that she inspires many

[@familyhour351]

Waoh what a story.... Faith God will provide for you...and God will give you a partner at the right time🙏

[@elishibawangui7170]

You had very supportive parents..you indeed blessed despite the hard times you went through

[@wanjirunyambura2708]

Very crucial to have supportive parents coz most don't, in fact they insist you to stay in those abusive marriages and inthe end ukiuliwa wanaanza kulia 🤔🤔

[@catherinekariuki8692]

It's better to be single and happy than stayed in a abusive marriage,Beautiful lady🥰🥰🥰🥰don't worry trust in God he is the provider of everything.

[@puritymumbi8791]

Faith thanks for ur courage to share it out.Ur one courageous lady.

[@monicahlishiarwangendo3178]

Monicah thanks alot.faith thanks for sharing your stry.

[@mawama6719]

It is not easy to leave a Narcissist

[@Princess-eq5ei]

Such a beautiful lady kweli beauty doesn't matter Kwa relationship she is very cute to have gone through all that

[@loisegitau4897]

In this world I've come to realise that my life is more important than anything else.

[@gracembugua9915]

Faith your story is quite informative. You are a strong woman.

[@franciskambo2018]

Kagoni thanks for all your stories especially this and this lady Faith let her focus on children now.

[@Gichiritrizah_Ke]

Very true. You might think you are staying for your children but you may die in the process. It's better to be single and alive. 💖

[@jekamash]

Very encouraging story.

[@johnrerai8219]

Pole Faith. Thank God u r alive and supporting your kids. God will walk with you. Monica asante sana 4 this interview. Barikiweni sana

[@CarolWK]

Beautiful hardworking Lady...truly, how people fail to appreciate the gift before them....is mind boggling...

[@tabithawairimu4262]

I know this lady very well she is my customer in Meru. Faith, am very sorry we talk a lot but you've never opened up to me, though you call me mum. From the way we talk I feel every thing is not okay. I now

[@faithmwiraria4330]

Mum nitakuja tuongee. Thnk for watching

[@winfredkagunda2410]

I know the lady very well...very handworking from chaka ..l didn't know she had gone through all that wah..hugs mami

[@rosekarimi7688]

Empower women to stand and voice to deal with issues going on in their lives...

[@BK-qz8cm]

This story has me shedding tears long after watching it. Many hugs to you and your babies. Salute to your daddy and mommy for their support.

[@catherinekamau9756]

waoh this lady is very composed I like her............thanks monic

[@irenegacheri8312]

Oooh my God I know this Lady very well from Chaka, Feei ulienda wapi, she used to carry my son when she was doing transport business. The hubby was a womanizer and a in Kiganjo Town. Feei you did well to walk out. We miss you gal come back to Chaka.

[@shikuhsymoh2859]

Woiye sad story 😢, mimi huona hivi naogopa kuolewa. Alfu l love her Hardworking ni wife material 4 sure.aki wababa wa saudi 🇸🇦 na wababa wa Qatar 🇶🇦 ni bure kabisa, wakikuja gulf wanasema ni singles alfu wana changes Wanawake kama nguo.makeboi wanawake woiye😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Alafu wives zao kenya wanakaa na dryspell so sad.Am happy for u mama atlst ulijitoa na uko sawa .be blessed 🙌. Madam monicah thanks kwa story atlst tunasoma kakitu.❤❤❤

[@reginahkagiri1333]

wah umeona hio game

[@simongitu7311]

Sio wote wako hivyo.Hiyo ni tabia ya walevi na malaya.There are good men out there kwanza huku Qatar who don't sleep around and care for their families back home.

[@shikuhsymoh2859]

@@reginahkagiri1333 imgne ni sad sana aki😭😭

[@shikuhsymoh2859]

@@simongitu7311 true dear but sio wengi dear, nd saudi arabia still kuna madem wako kwa kafil nd hawana hizo tabia.l feel 4 woman mwenye Ana date sai.🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️

[@reubenkariuki6637]

Never used the majority word..use man or woman...in life we have good women and man that all

[@rebecahnjuguna3336]

It’s not easy to leave a narcissist. This is a narcissist went through similar situation. Faith keep trusting in God. One day at a time one step at a time. You are on the right path you did the right thing.

[@annwangeci496]

Am a victim too...I leave en come back again I hate myself 😭😭😭

[@meerinjambi4626]

One day I'll gather courage to share my story

[@eunicechege1103]

Ngai akinyanerie

[@meerinjambi4626]

Amen

[@Cate861]

Please do it helps

[@kobifm]

Plz do i know it gonna help

[@aliciawangari393]

I hope you will dear mom

[@eunisonc7494]

Your dad loved you and tried to help you, but you were too blind to see. Some of the pain you went through was avoidable

[@lydiahrysh]

You are soo beautiful 👌 you don't deserve those treatment ❤️❤️wamucoka niguo uriaga mundu

[@lucykwendo1383]

I love your videos and I wish to meet you one day.May God bless you.

[@shikswaJesus5451]

Ngai tuiguire thaa....wenye hatujaolewa tunaogopa doa .kulingana na visanga zilizo ko......ihikoini gutiri thayu Ngai aguteithie😰😥

[@solomonmugambi8684]

What! I know Faith in person but I have never known all this. Faith is full of live, hardworking and loves her kids with all her energy, so this is the reason. I know her son who went to Mangu High School after exemplary performance. Faith be strong! There is a reason for everything. God will reward you in double portions even another Marriage be patient.

[@janewanjira4155]

Whenever I see such situations women go through I always pray that the generation we are bringing up should be taught both genders how to treat each other so as to avoid such situations

[@carolynekipkosgei5555]

Faith i comment you for walking away and sharing your story. Keep shining mama

[@millyshirugithaigaofficial7156]

Faith is such a strong woman. May God keep you.

[@saudipesa9902]

Great information girl. Good work

[@charitykawirambaabu9747]

Wanawake na kuvumilia ndoa juu ya watoto aki 🙆😢😢

[@ethanngugi1743]

Sound quality is excellent

[@elizabethkibuku3373]

Very good gal. Nimepitia mengi kuliko yake. But better put our trust in God.

[@elizabethndungu3956]

This Narcissistic people -land in the hands of good women who they end up messing up and mistreating.Pole for what you went through...

[@margaretwarorua1041]

Faith was married to a narcissist.

[@maryfeddy2798]

Very true

[@MsTabithak]

I thought so too

[@susanm3103]

That's it and the husbands family was narcissistic as well very dangerous and dramatic people... Its good she decided to walk away otherwise it would have ended worse than what she already went through coz narcissists don't change ni drama after drama which feed narcissistic supply

[@petermuriuki7735]

nope i doubt ,nilisoma na hawa wawili in high school she was the head girl na yeye alikuwa headboy i tyhink he should be given a chance for him to talk

[@gladysndungu3447]

The guest is gorgeous.

[@wanjirunduta5346]

The pain women go through [or one partner] before they leave marriage is too much. Let us stop waiting till death. I'm glad that Faith Mwiraria came out of this. May the Lord remember all families. Keep up the good work @Monica Kagoni.

[@Bellanna100]

Madem walizaliwa 80s wana shine kuliko hawa watoto wa 90s😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@teresakiruthi4261]

Women should avoid being desperate for love.alafu always look for red flags...and once you leave dont ever come back..finally asiyeskia la mkuu huvunjika guu

[@marykariuki7381]

Desperate is the key word. Even her father in law asked, why should we come when we know atajirudisha tu!!!

[@davidkinyaki]

Why good people who have golden heart meet bad people

[@doreenshii563]

I never understood

[@judymburu8898]

They are a good catch for the enemy...who comes to kill, steal and destroy.

[@davidkinyaki]

@@doreenshii563 ata Mimi Naishindwa kwanini

[@esthernyoike4363]

@@davidkinyaki i never understood this

[@hannahmugechi4205]

I think some pple are created to help others live. But most of the times,they end up suffering.

[@florecewairimukamau1865]

That story is so sad but interesting

[@judymburu8898]

This story is a replica of my current situation....weird enough.... my ex is also from Mweiga

[@estherkirigo4113]

One day I will my story😥😥😥

[@irenejoyce8456]

This lady is very intelligent & enterprising

[@huromwangi6163]

Wah, I knew something about the couple but not all this. They were my neighbours in Chaka, all the best Faith

[@faithmwonjirumwiraria1030]

Hi Huro, congratulations on ur new appointment I heard about it. Say hi to mum I love and miss u guys in Chaka.. Friends forever!!

[@huromwangi6163]

@@faithmwonjirumwiraria1030 Thank you so much, I will pass the greetings, salimia watoto sana. More love

[@agneswanjau559]

Kagoni you are doing a good job. No riding jaw nditagwo kini tondu "kini is gum". "Jaw itagwo ruthia"

[@abbiemumbi]

The context in which abuse happens is what maintains and sustains it. The manipulation and mind games makes it very hard for victims to break loose. But love to blame victims.

[@josephinejosephine420]

Faith you will go far.l say like Dr Anne Muratha kiura ruga

[@anitahdarling7233]

tuned in well well nikiwa Doha 🇶🇦🇶🇦 one slap kiura ruga ruuuuuuuun gal run for your dear life. better be single alive and healthy than staying in an abusive marriage

[@annthuku451]

Wow very inspiring... I have been there not accepting the red flag but now i made a decision to move on

[@sophiawamaitha6167]

Wanakuwanga wababa wa Saudi unapata na mtu anakushow hana wife bt Huyu mtu hapa nikukula 2 na umalaya mingi na watoto wanakapitia I really fell that pain to faith mama their another chance God ako na ww mama utasomesha watoi wachana na yy maybe kuna reason why God amekuondoa hapo 🇲🇴🇲🇴

[@marykio2930]

omG?tha man is narcissist.may GOD HELP FAITH.faith as much as women have kids at there heart you got your life.thanks for sharing the story.

[@brianmwiti759]

That man was a devil himself.. Our girls in Meru are good wives.

[@favournganga4258]

You are Avery patient,wise and a strong woman, God will restore to you all you lost including a happy marriage.

[@faithmwiraria4330]

Amen. God is not a man to forget, I trust in him fully.

[@antonynkanata1834]

U are one lucky girl now that u are alive. Not many ladies live 2 tell the story and now that u are go 4 ua goals and fly high like an eagle. 'Amegok mpaka bunduki afande,hii mtu jangili,alshaabab....piga risasi ghasia hii..' When either spouse has support from parents on his or her abusive ways its trouble in capital 'T' ooups!

[@josephkithinji8560]

I would like to hear the other side of the story i cant believe it until i hear

[@mercykimani9741]

Thanx 4 the medic he was a good Samaritan God bless him ever

[@faithmwiraria4330]

Yes, Jidraff God bless u.

[@wambukidstv2987]

Mimi nimestuka Sana na sitasema kitu but God 🙏 guide our children

[@njeriwakarongo9069]

You are soo beautiful..lea watoi wako they will b your greatest pillar in future

[@gracemuthoni2988]

Wanahamam kwisha... Waschana wa Saudia kemboi I die now 😭😭😭😭😭

[@mercy32310]

Love love your shows please interview Mumbi Kibathi too

[@shirowkihara2654]

Haki parents who tell their daughters not to come back with their children really make things even difficult for us coz sio rahisi kuacha watoto I will never understand why they say to leave children with an abusive husband

[@wairimumusembirenee4598]

You r such a beautiful woman trust God for ur life Faith.

[@faithmwiraria4330]

thnks Mum

[@felistafrancis1162]

Eagerly awaiting for it monic

[@akishajoseph6876]

Woiye 😭😭😭women go through alot in their marriage. All because you want to make it work. Sorry for going through alot may God see you through ur a strong woman but the best thing you are alive and you have supportive parents

[@Luizahwainaina5246]

Good show so encouraging nake host soft n good listener

[@jlmchannel5579]

Till death do us part ,is not in violent toxic(emotional , physical and mental ) relationship or marriage .women and men please leave when it comes to this point. You will thank yourself in years to come.

[@pendochristfarian2606]

Wah her story is almost mine, me pia sahii labda ngekua dead if I never worked out with my 2kids....

[@ruthnyakio2918]

Wazazi, wa kijana ni mapepo. waliharibu, nyumba, ya, kijana, wao. Parents from hell. Wauaji.

[@marykariuki7381]

I was saddened by the story until she made that statement about Kenyan girls being murdered in Saudi. She painted them all by the same brush by implied they are murdered because they throw themselves at Saudi men. Okay, no one deserves to be murdered why not just deport them. Secondly, she judged them harshly only because her husband was sleeping with one or many in Saudi. And to add insult to injury she used said her husband told her, and she quoted him, why aren’t men killed in Saudi? What a stupid question? As a victim of abuse herself would she really believe that other women deserved such abuse. To start with her husband was prostituting himself in Saudi, didn’t he deserve death as well? Secondly, men don’t work as house help or come into close contact with Saudi women as the laws are very strict for Saudi women interacting with foreign and other men. In his truck delivery job how many Saudi wives does he deal with… zero!!!! It’s not okay to condemn other women to death just because your husband has loose morals 😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@nancywanjeri3953]

I hear you Mary. Her story is tough and I admire her courage, yet the statement went a bit far, not excusable.

[@marykariuki7381]

@@nancywanjeri3953 yes it did!

[@lucywambui604]

Take it easy....ameteleza tu🤷

[@margaretwanjiku3136]

Nikuteleza ulimi

[@carolstephen5607]

Take it easy ameteleza ju ya machungu