I'd spend the night seated on a chair, holding my kids as my hubby lay on our bed with his mistress

Judy Wairimu got pregnant while she was in form 3. Immediately after giving birth, she moved in with her man. The joy of her marriage was short-lived. She faced all manner of abuse from physical to psychological. 20 years ago, Judy remembers vividly how her ex-husband would bring other women into their one roomed house. Whenever the woman came, Judy would spend the night sitting on their only wooden chair, holding her 2 children while the husband lay on bed with his mistress. According to Judy, they would even be intimate as she watched! 20 years ago, Judy left the marriage and vowed never to remarry!

[@marthamuthoni8322]

I admire your patience and resilience, not many are like that. I congratulate you for leaving the right time, your patience of not getting yourself confused by another man; You are beautiful lady even now, God can give you a good man, you are not old. You deserve good company at your age.

[@missmalaikalee4646]

That's not mama's boy. He was a mean spirited ndurika. He did not just care

[@karimimiriti3827]

Haki Mimi mambo ingine wacha tuu nitembee na yesu You’re a great woman if you go through all that and still wait for him to change into a better man

[@exwairimu]

The more I watch these shows the less respect I have for men n marriages... to me marriages ISSA a scam

[@shikuliz4134]

It's an institution of slavery .kujichukia na kuinamilia binadamu badala ya mungu.mimi husema WA kuinamiliwa na mungu pekee..

[@marykariuki7381]

It’s not marriage, it’s the foundation. This marriage had a weak foundation from the start. It’s not all men, it’s when you miss and ignore the red flags 🚩.

[@exwairimu]

@@shikuliz4134 true

[@evangelistgrace5278]

Wàah 🤔! Woman go through so much in marriage, I hope woman could be empowered!

[@authenticeve]

Empower young ladies with education and consequently jobs and such dependencies on a man will be a thing of the past

[@authenticeve]

Also young girls should invest in themselves first before they consider marriage and kids..

[@annerose3310]

Exactly 💯

[@lynjulius3323]

Some women aki are devil ..how can someone come to another woman house and do stupid things when the children are there . You are strong

[@mamamaina6498]

Wachani kusema kudos to mother in-law kwani hakua anaona mjukuu hajaenda shule au vile Dota in-law vile amekonda

[@JUSTWANGUI]

Why do we vumilia for so long ladies aki this is so wrong sana , that we take in so much for the sake of marriage that is definitely not working, tujipende aki am so pissed listening to this story .

[@marykariuki7381]

Seems like the man’s parents forced him to get married after he made her pregnant. This man hated her so much when he’d beat her, he would not beg her to stay, he wanted her to go. On other hand, she stayed because she did not want the same of being a divorcee and a single mom or to bring shame to her family. Sad 😞.

[@marthakiiru8016]

She is soo beautiful...seems kakiwa kadem kalikuwa karembo sana na hiyo nugu imtese hivo. Amesema alikuwa nyarari naeza taka nimuone

[@jediandrewofficialpage8809]

Kagoni I wish can get the courage to narrate my story

[@MuigaSNjoki02]

Lakini some ladies pia wamerogwa yani utaenda kwa another woman's house utowe nguo na upate usingizi?🤧🤢ngai turirikane .walai Judy your strong mimi singeweza .

[@user-jn4on7ds3s]

Ukiona unapendwa sana na mother in law in some cases her son has a problem.

[@mimsbaibemimskim9556]

Ooh yu have passed alot aki ndoa zingine ni chungu i also passed alot but tym ya God ikifika unatoka kwa toxin marriage n God is our strength tukazane team single.

[@irenesteve9765]

Waaah ...ths lady is one in a million,can't wait mtu kunichapa na kuniletea mtu kwa nyumba 😨😨🙆🙆aje Sasa?🙅Tena ahurange ndimuhutu?izo nyama ningekuwa nazikula anichape kama niko full , though God is good she can smile again.

[@MuigaSNjoki02]

Lakini some ladies pia wamerogwa yani utaenda kwa another woman's house utowe nguo na upate usingizi?🤧🤢ngai turirikane .walai Judy your strong mimi singeweza .

[@marynjoroge5894]

Gaiii that's a wicked man Yaani I just hate him... Haki thank God nowdays Girls are empowered!!!! I can't Imagine my Mum being beaten and disrespected like that... Mum Judy you are Strong!!!

[@mamakeangel3885]

Me my late dad told us ati ukishindwa na kwako just come back to your father's home always welcome and never wait for someone to take advantage of you leave him in peace and walk out

[@phyllismuthoni5258]

Monica nataka hiyo hood you look beautiful ❤️

[@nellygatama9173]

Hello ladies what l have learned is... You teach people how to treat you.

[@liliankariuki7708]

Exactly

[@elizabethwangui1575]

Very true

[@lucymuraya2285]

Exactly

[@monienjeri3042]

Volume please....

[@aleckimwangi1685]

I know this woman... Wairimu wa Jamaica..

[@1on1withjune81]

Ngai baba bless all the women who put up with abusive men. May the women who contribute to their tears never have peace!

[@marykimani1818]

Kudos to mother in law! She is one in a million

[@ruthretoe7232]

If she is a good mother in law hope she also remembers her grandchildren

[@janetmaina9903]

@@ruthretoe7232 how is a mother in law goodness gauged by remembering grand children

[@mamamaina6498]

Bona hakuona grand Dota hajaenda shule au vile Dota in-law amekonda huyo mother in-law sio mpoa

[@graciekimani1428]

Who is like God akii ona sasa kuku zenye zilikwa zinahesabiwa wasikule she got them and they can eat anytime... Wueh she's a strong woman indeed Ngai vitu zingine pangu siwezi ngoja kesho ati unawaosha mikono🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️ omaitu Wambui ndigehota maaa

[@lucywambui1672]

Such a humble and beautiful woman. May God continue blessing you.

[@gracenjeri7155]

Nanima wimuthaka

[@serahwandua]

I thought mine was bad but this one is worse NGAI BABA and the way you are beautiful

[@jamesgathaiya6450]

Ukai muigwe ndeto ataraga ngina tunyama mwathani naniguo mutumia uyu emuthaka maa arume amwe ni saitani maa

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

People can only treat you to the extend you allow you..women women lets stop normalizing Bad behavior from men...

[@virginiawamucii2228]

I blame her for allowing that man to treat her like that yet she had her home and mum still alive...you teach people how to treat you.

[@felihinga3112]

If you have never been in someone's shoe never judge or blame anyone for anything

[@winniengithi5696]

Hata huyu mrembo hivo niwakusumbuliwa na mwanaume?😭😭😭

[@lucynjenga9307]

This story related to mine wallai ile cku nilitoka nilihate that man until his death nilijaribu kumsamehee nikashidwa

[@sonyia7521]

Sio kama yako as such, yeye alisamehe😏. May God give you grace to forgive, its for you not him.

[@salomekihuga2256]

Kai guthiaga atia....mwathani!! Yaani a woman and her children Kwa kiti alafu nilale Kwa kitanda..... ndingihota!!!

[@davidkinyaki]

Ngai Mimi naweza kula mtoto wangu Akiwa ameniangalia Na Bibi yangu Akiwa Hapo?

[@duncanmwangi4350]

Ucio ndari muthuri yari njeege yetuite mundu

[@amosnjagi1989]

Vitu zingine watu hupitia 😢😢😢😢oh my goodness. Sijawahi nasioni kama nitajaribu kufanya kitu kaa hizo

[@Cate861]

Ati urugire mundu na ndurie hau Ngai ndeithia tondu ndingihota

[@jessenjuenjoka4440]

Kairitu,,Tamaka wee uri mutumia ngatha,,GOD BLESS YOU.

[@marykamau4790]

Waaaaaa Judy is a strong woman...her marriage was a movie by the name "escape from sobibor".......

[@maryannenjambi1879]

Such a nice humble woman. I just love her. Ungetupea number so we can promote her business.

[@daisymuthoni675]

Ooh my God some people are heartless n inhuman....may he never see peace!

[@catekatrinah7610]

I will Never and i repeat Never allow a man to lay hand on me Never even a slap i Will walk away that very day and no turning back

[@karuragirljustus5555]

I will leave too after I beat him up. This is why am empowering myself now.

[@liznyambu7909]

I also made the same promise to myself.

[@rachelmuthaura2775]

Self love ni muhimu

[@JoyJoy-xs1vx]

ooh. true same i always tell my husband the day he'll even slap me,that will be the end

[@zippystarkuimburuz4181]

Even me I made such decisions I will never let any man to lay a hand of me

[@marymaria947]

Strong mum kudos💪💪💪woow mungu azidi kukubariki sanaaa,thanks kagoni for this very encouraging,iyo kuvumilia yote aki🙆mimi kofi moja natoka uko mbii sana😂😂😂😂

[@njondeedwin1808]

I think being very young and with no income of her own completely made her kuvumilia such grave stuffs. You are a strong lady of valour.

[@floragitonga3768]

Surely some women are devil how now can you do that to your fellow woman wherever you're may you never hv peace gisaitan👹👹

[@serahnjoroge1069]

Judy, ulitulia too long. Mimi sigeweza tulia kwa mwanaume juu eti kwetu kusikuwe na haya. Haki, no way!! But, at last you managed kuturoka. Have and enjoy your lige. God bless!

[@serahnjoroge1069]

*Life*

[@warigiapurity8252]

Pole sana. I wish women could go with the first sign of a red flag especially beating. Beating may cause life long injuries. Run for your dear life don't wait to brutalized.

[@naomikinuthia4543]

I hate those advices parents usually told us ati vumilia

[@rebeccaetter1104]

Hi nií maya maundu dingihota

[@cessykaylynn3454]

90%of us women go through this but we never talk. We die ni pains inside

[@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557]

We allow them, i was slapped once, i slapped Him back and took a kitchen knife ,He never hit me ever again because i left with my two kids, 10 years down the line as i write this He is on 4th wife, and iam a very proud, successful single mother still. Atumia tigai kumereria matezo, we are strong mentaly.

[@janemwangi6932]

@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 kudos ata sijui nguvu hutoka wapi ya ku respond. Kupiga No No... I dnt advocate the same otherwise they respond differently bt i ndi wa ku hiukirwo especially kama sija kosea. ata jua hajui. Am a human being too and a grown. Asi nipige apigane na wanaume wenzake out there. Vita is for uncircumcised people.

[@bettywilliams6071]

@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 that's it never entertain nonsense. Mtu anakuonyesha madharau alafu anakupiga. Mimi husema wacha mtu anipige ya baridi lakini asiwahi niwekelea kidole.

[@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557]

@@janemwangi6932 true hata mwanaume awe circumcised 10x no women deserves kungogwa.

[@janemwangi6932]

@@wanjikumwangiproudoma7557 I mean vita is for uncivilised people people. 🤣🤣

[@liliankariuki7708]

Ngai kuna mwingine rafiki yangu bwana yake alikua hivyo nikaenda kwake sikujua sasa mimi ati na u beste nikapata amepika kuku nikaomba maini nikakula wee ,bwana yake kumbe alikua anaitisha kila piece akikula sasa maini ika miss aki alimuchapa karibu amuuue but mistake haikua yangu juu rafiki angeniambia vile kunakuanga singe kula but sasa alikua anaficha behaviour ya mumewe asidharauliwe

[@faithwangui7200]

Mutumia wa siku hizi hakuna gukiririria. Wacha familia ihaibike. Nikiuliwa ndio haitahaibika? Enda ukiendanga kabisa.

[@annmaina1347]

Waah,so sad, I didn't know that she was going through hell,bearing in mind that she was married in a very wealthy family..actually we used to admire her!Kumbe..that was a very good decision..Judy may God bless you and your kids...

[@DM-rh7ul]

The men end up very unhappy at the end

[@mamacarlos7727]

Respect single mothers we are strong and we need support not stress,,hug judy🤗😘

[@mimoojoyce]

True

[@samuelnjugunakimata5576]

I am so sorry for these women who are abused by my gender. Some of these men are beasts in shirts and trousers. Kĩũra kaba kũrũga maũndũ makinya hau

[@nectarblue]

Women need to learn to love themselves. Walk away from Psychos. The Trauma of growing in a Toxic relationship affects your your children lasts a lifetime. Please leave the crazies alone walk away.

[@Pauline77203]

Mm niliambiwaa niolewe na babake mdogoo 😭😭😭mweyee hajaoa akiiwaa hapoo 😭😭😭

[@marywambui8612]

There is one thing I have learned, when you start seeing red flag, never wait for a person to change because he will never change just move on.

[@patriciahnjeri8023]

They never change

[@estherkomu3994]

Ngai nii ndingika maundu ta masio oooh wee kiura ruga

[@kaibungarose4207]

My mum always told me ukikataa kusoma utabeba mtoto na kamithi,empower the girl child through education

[@sarahprecious4145]

Mimi aki siwezi vumilia vitu zingine aki mtu hawezi nilitea mwanamke kwangu ,it’seither niwaue ama waniue ama nitoke niende

[@dorcaskui2634]

Nii njiguaga maundu maria andu magereire ngera Ngai niwega niguthara ugwatiini o tene

[@estherkibui3710]

Parents of girls. Please I implore you. Your daughter should know that home is always open not vumilia. Vumilia till when? When they are killed? This nonsense of what will people say? Let them talk she is suffering so much but is scared to go home. This is the gazzilionth story of vumilia. This is so sad. She did not deserve that. God has you.

[@florawaithera4687]

Congrats to Metha ya Kagoni ,i have learnt something from that lady

[@wangaregatuhi5507]

May the good Lord Bless your Brother Judy and please ask your daughter after graduation to say Thanks to Auncle Love you Judy , please don't go back to that Monister of the so called Husband I'm sure he is regretting😡😡🙏🙏🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@susanmwangi9131]

Monica Maya maundu 😚😚 watching from Saudi Arabia

[@mercykagure2978]

All I can say is, marriage is not for the faint hearted.

[@susanmuthoni5482]

What a happy ending❤️ forgiveness ni muhimu.God listens to our prayers.

[@amosmurithi9494]

Amen, sure

[@marykariuki7381]

You can’t teach someone how to treat you. But you can choose people who treat you better or if you find yourself in such a relationship walk away. Anyway, parents teach your kids to put themselves not you first.

[@verahshee9573]

She was young and naive, now she know better

[@kenyamoto3510]

Nii ma ndiyendete,no wonder am a senior single mother

[@wanjiramwihia2455]

Uhana tanie ma

[@priscillanjeri968]

Aishhh .....me I can't ANYBODY mistreat me...I AM A CHILD OF GOD NOT RUBBISH 🙏🏿

[@DennisMunene-pc4zr]

Kagoni l also my husband slept with my friends in my bed

[@estherkibui3710]

Please don't ever go back. Please.Shame on people who watch abuse and do nothing to help.

[@vgeegodseed1720]

That was painful 😭 imeniuma Sana .why sasa Kwa mrembo mhumble kama huyu akih 🤔.......strong 💪 beautiful mum live long joyful live 🙏

[@emilylaizer6799]

Imagine!🤔

[@NJUGUNAMARYNJERI1995]

Na vnye huyu mama ni mrembo aki

[@lizahmwangi6313]

Imagine Ata mimi hukua na that patient my ex alikua anakula fish my daughter akiwa hapo and hagempatie nilikua napikia mtoi wangu Chai ya strugi na ugali and now my daughter ako form 2 Gitugi girl's high school I really thanks for everything na nili forgive my ex

[@georgekamau3541]

Ni vizuri kucheka sometimes 🤣🤣🤣 Mimi nkibuy kitu watoto wakose kukula nashdwa Kula🥺

[@draah3]

Woow Judy... Besides all you went through you are so blessed....

[@faithwangui7200]

Unaacha mpaka shule juu punda kama hii

[@faithgitau780]

Some women allows men to treat them badly then abuse single ladies eti mm nimeolewa na kumbe anavumilia ujinga zote kwa ndoa......senji sana

[@janenkanata9686]

Thank God for creating me the way i am. I would not want that softness

[@susanmurimi1303]

I swear mtu akanichapa hivyo I can kill them! May God keep me away from abusive men sitaki kujipata lang'ata for manslaughter

[@kidsentertainmenthub4126]

Me too,hasira zangu aki.

[@esthernjiiri4632]

Aki hizi story 😢

[@peterlonyait4101]

Nimekuona murang'a town Leo😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gracerobertson6399]

Why wait for this kind of an abuse….please please women get out of this abusive relationships.

[@inkcity_nairobi5239]

Judy you are strong woman.may God bless you Abundantly

[@mimskimmimsgul768]

Great job kwahiuha kiura ruga sio kuvumilia unakufa bure ju ya pressure forward ever team single 14yrs n loading kafa thayu.

[@maryannmwauravlogs9970]

Woiyeh weee hii kukaa kwa ndoa ufurahishe wengine aki mm nilishidwa she's very beautiful woman and seems hardworking ♥️ all the best mama to you and your children...alafu there good are good men out there single and searching si mcheze ki nyinyi mama akae maisha ya furaha zaidi❤️😁

[@joycemwangi1232]

Huyu ni wa home kabisa

[@njerifaith7538]

She is a strong women n big up to mother in low

[@rebeccaetter1104]

Watching from Switzerland 🇨🇭

[@nyaxjosh]

Uyu ne Definition Ya uria kwiraguo mutumia ngatha 🙌🙌🙌

[@fhhfd8449]

Nie muthuri wakwa akuire 14 years ago na ndire ndeciria ona kuhika tondu ninyonaga ndingiona muthuri mwega tocio ndari nake, nie nderire ngai ahe ugima wa mwiri na ndakananyime wira, no ngai niaigure mahoya makwa ndari anyima wira na riu ninjakite plot igiri, ningenaga nigukorwo ndi single muno tondu ndingienda gathia ya kungia hakiri ciakwa

[@zacharymuohi6022]

yani mundu akaria nyama ciana ciake citekuria, ona nyamu cia githaka itingigika uguo

[@jephriceayitso3167]

Like the show though I don't understand kikuyu very well

[@salomewanjikuwoi7637]

Imagine ciana itumaga mũndũ omiririe mathina maingi mũno korwo ni ndoi ati ati ingiuma haro ini noikure ndingiikiriririe but nashukulu mungu iliisha na wakakua

[@gracekariuki6688]

You are a strong lady and am glad you took that step of moving from an abusive marriage. May God continue opening doors for you. Am thankful that God saved you. You ex was not mature enough to handle a home.

[@lizmunyaga7314]

Listening to most of this "why are you single episodes"one thing is for sure murang'a ladies are the ones mostly mistreated by men

[@kinjowadad2422]

Hawapendi divorce.

[@wangarimacharia1027]

it takes seven times to leave a narcissist ,,,some men,,who bde born em oh ,

[@joycepatient4290]

She is very strong lady, may she go far in Jesus Name 🙏

[@carolwahu8096]

bars and pooltables ni kama zinakuwanga na uchawi.

[@bettymwangi9069]

Nice hood...I need one Monica