Don't Do THIS (With A Man)! Dr. John Gray

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

**Get Dr. John Gray's Free Relationship Course HERE: www.marsvenus.com/gift **FREE10 Secrets Every Woman Needs To Know (About Men)! eBook and audio HERE: whatrealmenwant.com/

[@sallyannbest3728]

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[@lynnodonnell4764]

40 years ago I had a counselor say to me "NEVER MAKE YOUR BOYFRIEND YOUR GIRLFRIEND"

[@grannygear1001]

“A woman cannot make any man happier than he makes her.” Bill Taylor, (MIT) teaches and writes marriage books for Christians.

[@TashaVolovsek]

I love it when a man walks me to my car or door! Wow !

[@constitutionalcook4681]

Michelle I love your channel but especially when you have John on. I never get tired of listening and learning from you and John.

[@TheJCExperience915]

I live on being able to help my woman so ladies this is true what he is saying.

[@thejojojo1111]

It is YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY. You are not helping your wife. If you did it, then it IS YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY. Are you helping your wife when wash your hair and brush your teeth????

[@OhioGalReads]

I'm trying to remember this for when I get married.❤

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

Thank you so much for watching and for your comment too!

[@OhioGalReads]

​@MichelleMarchantJohnson I love your channel! I am a feminine woman and I am in love with a masculine man. We are very happy together. I am 53 and he is 58. You are never too old to find love. I'm so glad I found your channel around the same time we started dating!😊

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

@@OhioGalReads Aww! That's so sweet! I am so happy for both of you! Happy Valentine's Day and thanks so much for watching and for your kind words too! 🙂

[@ViorelaSoulCafe]

I write everything in my phone as a reminder, I will forget otherwise and this is priceless info😂❤

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

@@ViorelaSoulCafe Thanks for watching and for your comment too!

[@djuanaberuk9908]

This is so academic yet so simply put. Perfect for Valentine's Day!

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

Thanks so much for watching! I'm so happy you enjoyed it! 🙂

[@gabbypage6929]

I’ve never done this. Like my mum I’ve always been supportive in relationships. Unfortunately it wasn’t reciprocated. So I gave up.My mum was forced to leave an abusive relationship.

[@stanislavapertlikova9410]

3:35 journal prompts - note for myself

[@AnonymousSpirit]

Such a good one. Lots of important points to foster a healthy and happy dynamic

[@craftychick48]

This was a great interview. Dr. Gray was right! It's very easy to listen to you two interact. You ask the right questions, and summarize his points very well.

[@09280215]

Dear John Gray, I watched lots and lots of your videos, read your books, follow your incredible wise advices and now my dating is much better. I'm enjoying it, I'm not "buying a house", and it's working! Thank YOU, you're genius! ❤❤❤

[@rockycoast]

This video contains so many profound lessons....thank you so much Michelle and Dr. John Gray. You definitely are making a difference in the world!

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

Thanks for watching and for your comment too!

[@RacilleAshley-sf7yv]

Too much unnecessary work, woman need a vacation ALONE. A SERIOUS VACATION, FAR FAR AWAY. 🏖️

[@sept2866]

Sounds like you need to date women!😅

[@christinafinamore9506]

I feel like I’m never going to get it and it doesn’t feel fair. 😢

[@GenRN]

Why are women having to ask grown men to pick up after themselves? I don’t like the idea of “asking for help” when it is also their living space.

[@kris0369]

True l agree

[@jfdc8432]

Altho' I agree, some people don't care about mess. My ex didn't care about a messy house - altho' they did like it clean. My cousin (female) doesn't care about a messy house either... some ppl are just like that. Honestly, if someone doesn't care, you can't make them care. Just like if you don't care about his car, he can't make you care about his car (that's an example, you fill in the item, I just randomly chose cars). Just because you have a strong opinion about something (he SHOULD care and pick up after himself), doesn't mean your opinion is a fit for everyone. We're all human, we all have our preferences and priorities. When there's an issue I can't be flexible with, I try to find someone who has the same priorities. I hope you don't fall in love with someone who's ok with a messy house, if you're not willing to accept him as he is. Something I try to remember when I'm upset about something: Would I rather be 'right', or be in relationship? That thought always helps me come back to the present moment and realize it is what it is, and I can either make myself miserable by being upset about it, or I can just be ok with reality as it is. Hope that's helpful.

[@GenRN]

@@jfdc8432 I’m not a neat freak but my husband would take off his socks and throw them wherever and I finally just left them there for WEEKS. The bottom line is it is about respect. He just didn’t care but he knew I cared. He just didn’t want to pick up after himself so he didn’t. Wouldn’t it be great if it was socially acceptable for us all to do that?

[@babajaiy8246]

"Why are women having to ask grown men to pick up after themselves?" Why do women expect men to live domestically like their preferences? That's a rhetorical question to highlight something deeper - Because you are making assumptions. And btw - I've had the same experience with a partner but it was more extreme - And I had to pick up/clean after them if I wanted a more orderly/clean household - They just couldn't do it, it wasn't in them.

[@marymastandrea2640]

I agree, it's like asking a child. Nope

[@cherryb6105]

Thank you so much.

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

Thank you so much for watching and for your comment too, Cherry! 🙂

[@sandramichaud8033]

I always learn something from Dr. Gray. Sometimes it’s just reminders or rephrasing of important information. Thank you for allowing him to talk and being a great listener. ❤. I had a man not come to visit for 3 weeks., he was at his camp 3 hrs away and he said, “you must be mad because I havent seen you for 3 weeks. I said, no, I know you were having a good time…and I’ve been busy too. I could see his sense of relief that I wasn’t upset.

[@mamamoj]

Your channel is awesome, Michelle. John is right, y'all do great interviews together. Side note-your skin is gorgeous!

[@MiaBellaCollection]

This is my Valentine's Day "must listen together" video in the tub as we bond in dialog and bubbles!

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

Love that! Thanks for watching and for your comments too!

[@ALMAENCASA]

Easier said than done.. To be madly in love ..heart open...and wanting more of him...of fusion..and he needs to pull away..🤣 exactly when l.most need him...? Maybe l need a woman

[@chandraprabhanaik5201]

I agree

[@jackdeniston6150]

Lesbian divorce rate are highest. The problem is always women.

[@ThePlatformSA-jq3lr]

Riiight!? Like what do you mean I need to be ok with the distance when I actually want to have him around!?

[@annlaughren9060]

😊 thank you😊 I always learning😊

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

Thank you for watching and for your comment too Ann!

[@posttenebraslux7571]

Thanks a lot Dr. John Gray 😢❤😍

[@deezed6478]

But then how do we talk about things that ARE a big deal?

[@MariaBanholzer]

Merci from South of France 💖

[@JJS-33]

Good advice for mum of a son also😁🥰🤣

[@wathah323]

Ya when he comes back he is using you.

[@joannesmith7753]

I love John Gray’s interviews with Michelle. But sometimes I think he’s asking women to treat a man like a child. Children make a mess and don’t want to tidy up. I want him to coach men to change and grow up.

[@MargaretEibl]

Quite frankly, I have never known of any man that cleans up after him or picks up dirty laundry. Do you know of any?

[@SR71-s9x]

Michelle, I think it will help woman listening to hear John talk also what he teaches men in each situation otherwise he sounds bias. Also you would be attracting more couples.❤

[@MichelleMarchantJohnson]

This channel is geared toward women. John does teach men and all of his books provide content for men and women. I work with women, so my channel has content mainly for women. Thanks for watching! I appreciate it!

[@lmiller1413]

How does a woman bring up and explain porn's destructive impact on relationships?

[@OrvalRussell]

Use the latest science as John presents it.

[@JJS-33]

bring it up , be direct about wanting to communicate something. and ask him "what would you do if you were me?, what do you think about how this affects our marriage or relationship?. men respond to thinking q's not feeling q's

[@alinagabrielamilosan8878]

Would I (woman) be in my male side if I’d have moved the laundry bin just where he dropped thetshirts? It seems like solving a problem by me, a woman

[@MariaBanholzer]

🌟💙🩵💚♥️💫🪷🫶🌟💐🌻💖🧡♥️💫🥰. I want have a partner like you!!!!!!!! 💖From South of France 🌞

[@lihong9389]

This guy is God

[@MargaretEibl]

Do not ever say that ever again. he is NOT GOD. Repent on your knees for saying that. Do it before it is too late. Never ever mock God. God is not mocked. You can be wiped off of this earth in a blink of an eye.

[@christineosullivan5061]

why is it so hard for the guy just to put the tshirt in the hamper without having to be cajoled into it..sounds ridiculous 😅

[@MarinaG-i6w]

Great advice, there's so many tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

[@MargaretEibl]

You can be thankful for him but do not worship him. It is not him. You are the problem.