Hey, Don't Be Mean To Yourself! (Insecure Listener ASMR)

[@Kokiri-Kid-07]

As a man who uses self deprecating humor I feel personally attacked lol

[@quentinhans4755]

@zombathinlostleghackercat5233…

[@blurryluigiphoto8569]

same

[@umaiman7752]

Bro same

[@Fox101st]

Nah bro if you think you're attacked Just remember that I exist.

[@FriendlyYouTubeCrusader]

Agreed

[@sightlylime1149]

The idea that someone outside of family could say this kind of and actually mean it is inconceivable to me

[@mindfulmessasmr]

No one should be mean to themselves, everyone is beautiful!! :3

[@kaitlynyaa]

@@Its_Captain_Jack_Sparrow same here lmfao

[@HeroGhost]

“You deserve to see yourself the way I see you” I’m trying every day to get there. I’m so grateful you’re here by my side when I’m struggling in the depths of my doubts. Beautifully heartfelt and very touching audio Mindful! Hope you have a fantastic day, stay safe and well-rested! An important message is woven into this beautiful audio. Hope you’re doing well Mindful!

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Thank you, I hope you are also doing well!!!

[@shadowdevil126]

That was a nice 10 minute break from the loneliness to bad it hurts a little more after it ends

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!

[@SlutForCynthia]

You either cry about it or move on. There's so many factors when it comes to loneliness. I recommend working on yourself. Stuff like working out is your bodies natural "no depression" pill. “He who has a why to live can bear almost anyhow.”

[@DubbleOboyz]

As someone who struggles with self worth. I NEEDED THIS! Thank you asmr girl

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope it helps!!! :3

[@calamoron1117]

You gotta thug that shi out🗣‼️

[@halfeatenapple0903]

real

[@Just2Comment789]

As an Insecurity Officer, I see this as a quality product of your effort 👏 thank you, miss

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I do what I can :3

[@shlimbop]

insecurity officer is so reative, you are funny

[@heisenbergpinkman2265]

I actually did mess up some stuff pretty bad at work...... and I just felt bad. this video helps alot with that. Thank you ❤ I'm getting teary now

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Awe, I hope you're okay!!!

[@chrisholland2016]

Wow this touched my 10 year emotional wound bottled up to myself. When it comes to having autism it gets extremely difficult and scary to express how I'm feeling. Wish I can have a girl's shoulder to cry on but I feel like a burden and such a waste of time when I do that. And of course I end up getting brutally hard on myself at work everytime I make a mistake. IDK I just beat myself up way too much. But this is one of the types of audios I needed to hear.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're doing okay!!!

[@Embersofthedark]

I understand, as I, have a brother who has autism and have helped him with it I thought him how to talk, but I had to learn an entirely different language he now calls "dumbass linguistics" P.S. he's my twin so we can read each other like an open book

[@bendalymckenna6271]

We all have days where we just need a kind voice to make us feel better. If people use a stern voice telling us to not be mean to ourselves because they love you.

[@rudyflorestheswitchblade4462]

"Hey, don't be mean to yourself". Me:🥺 *hugs

[@themarinefan]

"Don't be mean to yourself" Me and my variant about to start a lethal fist fight: cowabunga it is.

[@Bucket0rocks.]

Man, this video showed me how badly I needed reassurance like this…and probably a hug too. Thank you so much for the audio mindful, and previous audios too while I’m at it since I don’t comment often. …I don’t really know how to wrap this comment up so have a smiley face :)

[@HeroGhost]

I know a virtual hug doesn’t help much but I hope you’re doing okay and that things get better for you!

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you’re okay!!!

[@Bucket0rocks.]

I’m better, thank you both. Without getting into sob stories I’ve just moved a bunch and I guess constantly losing every friendship over time got to me. I promise I’m fine though, really. Not in the pretending to be fine way, I’ll honestly be okay. That probably doesn’t sound convincing at all since it’s difficult to convey tone over text and now the comment is just getting really long… TLDR: Thank you both for the concern, I’ll be okay.

[@HeroGhost]

@@Bucket0rocks. That’s completely understandable. Wishing you all the best. Take care and I hope things get better.

[@AnIdiotOnYT00]

:))

[@SansAU-ef2rb]

As a guy who got bully when I was little,I got bully from elementary school to high school,sadly,I also had Tourette Syndrome,this audio saves me😢, You are a kind guy Hope you have a wonderful day.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm a girl, but thank you!! :3 I hope you also have a wonderful day!!! I hope you have someone you can reach out to and talk about this with

[@ryderweaver9621]

Bro this made my spine shiver

[@christofferthorsson607]

Feel like we could all use these kinds of people in our lives. I know I would

[@Boogieman23905]

solid cry , ill rate it 6/10

[@Orion69_34]

Thank you. I feel asleep for the first time in 30+ hours listening to this. I hardly ever get a real break that's not just me feeling like crap for the time I have off. I don't think it will ever end but it's nice to get a break from the insecurities and the loneliness for a while.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're doing okay!!!

[@Orion69_34]

@@mindfulmessasmr Thanks, made it this far

[@bill6]

Trees that smile? Sounds spooky

[@dudepop1456]

I wish I could have a girl's shoulder to cry on,but I would feel like a burden. I have been going from video to video crying my eyes out listening to people tell me that it's okay. So thank you

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@osuisdabomb1]

No, you don’t because she will use everything you cried about against you in the future. Or outright leave you because she thinks your a pansy

[@churchilltank659]

This is the first of your audios I’ve ever listened to but it was nice it was very chill and you’ve got a great voice for it it’s 3am and I still can’t sleep but this made me a little bit more sleepy even if it didn’t help my horrible self esteem so thank you for that oh and happy new year too!

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Happy New Year!! I’m sorry it didn’t help you’re self esteem, but I think you’re wonderful!! Being human is hard, so I admire people who can get through the day

[@churchilltank659]

@@mindfulmessasmr thank you for your kind words

[@arcwiz]

It's hard to not be insecure tho

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I’m sorry, I hope you’re okay!!

[@iluv_lyfe]

Ik it’s hard bro but focus on the things u can improve about yourself and trust me it helps

[@maskedherophil5405]

Thank you for always being here with me. Your kindness has touched my heart with comfort and warmth. As you cuddle me in your arms and kiss your forehead. Hold me tight as I rest my head on your shoulder my loving sweetheart.

[@JP5150_]

People need to understand that low self-esteem is not a bad thing. It shows that even though I put myself down I am actually ensuring everyone else around me is elevated higher than me. It's just truthful statements disguised as insecurities, personally I don't think its wrong to have low self-esteem. I have lived with it for 20+ years and even though each day feels worse than the last, at least everyone else is better than me. And that's not being insecure, its admitting my own flaws and acknowledging that I am meant to become lesser than so others feel uplifted, truthfully that makes me happy.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Uplifting others by putting yourself down is not healthy and can hurt your overall wellness. I hope you can find someone to talk to about this!!! There are ways to make others feel good about themselves without harming your own self-image!!!

[@justhuman963]

I always set unrealistic expectations for myself and then destroy myself if I don’t reach them.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Oh no!!! It's okay to not reach certain goals/expectations, life can be difficult :3 but there are still so many wonderful things to enjoy!!!

[@bright1359]

All I do is be mean to myself constantly and it is gonna take a hell of a lot to change that but this helps, even if its just a little it still helps.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you’re okay!!!

[@bright1359]

@@mindfulmessasmr I think I'm ok for now. Thank you for your concern, it makes me feel as though someone actually cares lol

[@callmebarry]

I'm cooked. Cooked beyond ashes.

[@nitricacid2516]

Man this hits close to home

[@CrimsoNolf]

I always am willing to bring comfort to my friends, but the minute people try to cure my inner lonliness and lack of confidence i feel scared, scared ill scare away my only friends with my problems, its happened before and im aware it might happen again, yet despite that fear, theres still the part of me thats desperate for SOME form of love

[@leeryarch3523]

Thank you so much for this. First cry to an ASMR, and for a long time in general. I really needed this.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm glad it was helpful!!!

[@cherrylimester8105]

Thank you truly this means a lot even as just a video, hope you’re having a better day whomever is reading this

[@mindfulmessasmr]

@@cherrylimester8105 I hope you’re doing okay!!!

[@SuperSpike47]

Wonderful audio. I hope you are having a great day 🐰

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Thank you, I hope you’re having a great day as well!!!

[@justaforklift2155]

I am a forklift that has left mayoral office, and has since written a best selling autobiography!

[@taolin9445]

Wish i have a friend like this irl ❤

[@yoxhi5044]

Algorithms be damned. I needed this regardless, thank you

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm glad this was helpful!!! :3

[@JayMazzitelli]

Thankyou So Much For This Video, Even if it Was Only For 10 Minutes it Really Touched My Heart Hearing All These Beautiful Words From You. ❤😊

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm glad you enjoyed!!!

[@eds7012]

As someone who *_L O A T H E S_* themselves with absolute *_CONTEMPT_* ,this helps me through the harder times

[@pizzam4nn]

Cool char design.

[@zzqqz4331]

You have very peaceful voice like an angel ❤

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Awe, thank you!!!

[@mvt289]

some people are really selfish. so there is this friend that i told I'd help him do some (absolutely not important it's just some bs) things, then the next day i got a call that i had to be at school because of a test and that was the same day i was supposed to go to my friend's house and help him with that thing, the same day i fell sick, i had to skip school and told my friend i couldn't be there, dude gets mad because i just ditched him like that, dude didn't even care i was sick he just straight up started yelling at the phone, although it lasted 2 minutes, that truly took a toll on my emotions, this happened yesterday and since yesterday my whole brain has fogged up, literally couldn't even have lunch nor dinner, it's 10 am in the morning and I haven't ate since yesterday. some people really aren't worth it and he's one of those people, small words do big damage :(

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@Akiduy]

I am dumb! Almost 3 Years ago I lost my scholarship cuz I can't maintain high grades. And I hate myself cuz deep inside me I feel like I intentionally fail some tests. I feel stupid, I was stuck, I just can't... learn anything even tho I study everyday. I was tired. At that time I didn't think anything of it. And now I regret it so much. That was the first time in my life that I failed something and probably dissapointed my family. I still cry whenever think about it to this day. It's one of the reasons why I'm still unemployed.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Please find someone you can reach out to and talk about these feelings!!!

[@artratengo]

literally me failing my hs graduation both times, couldn't learn to speak the nation's language because I've been enrolled in minority language speaking school all my life and had no friends outside the school, who i could practice and gain understanding with.. and to use the school's diploma in electrician field i would have to know the language and the technical stuff in it too..

[@epicsandvich014]

As someone who uses self depreciating humor often and has self worth issues, I’ve heard a lot of things somewhat similar to this from some people I know.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're doing okay!!

[@epicsandvich014]

@@mindfulmessasmr thank you, it means a lot to hear. I’m managing. A lot of the negative things I hear about myself and say about myself have really just become things I believe, but I’m trying to work through it with some very good friends of mine

[@ShadowNinja9620]

“..My name’s Blurryface and I, care what you think…”

[@walterknilsson7129]

How lonely do i have to be to listen to this and cry into a pillow

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@camtendo64]

MY BLOODLINE ENDS WITH ME LET’S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@JakeSm4sh]

If M were to reply what would she say Thanks for bringing my idea to fruition here since you did my idea here this is for you🐰🐰🐇🐇 and you did it in my favorite voice you high-pitched one yay I'm excited

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I do what I can :3

[@JakeSm4sh]

@@mindfulmessasmr I'm glad you do what you do to make us happy

[@-Lucifer__]

Amazing idea, and amazing person 🫡

[@JakeSm4sh]

@@-Lucifer__ Awww you flatter me too much Lucy

[@HeroGhost]

The idea turned out beautifully! Great suggestion!

[@nather5509]

Woah... I am seriously rethinking my anger issues and social problems now thank you

[@crazedbutcher6672]

Am I broken to have heard this entire thing and to still think that I'm absolutely worth nothing and don't deserve anything either?

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're doing okay!!!

[@crazedbutcher6672]

@@mindfulmessasmr I'm really not but that's okay

[@odin0707]

Very nice

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Thanks!!!

[@Antonio-is2cn]

Thanks for looking out for me!

[@sveninatorsw]

You made me cry 😢

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm sorry!!!

[@dragonjames4500]

Don't be mean to myself... It's not easy but it never hurts to try.

[@angelw1ngs_]

“your not stupid” my dad doesnt think that 🥲

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you’re okay!!!

[@angelw1ngs_]

trucking along also i live your audios they make me very happy 😊

[@wavezics]

IVE HAD A FUCKINTG TERRIBLE DAY THANK YOU FOR THIS VIODEO I NEEDED THIS

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I HOPE YOU ARE FEELING BETTER!!!

[@wavezics]

@@mindfulmessasmr i love you.

[@Ghillie_Dhu_]

I dont know what happened, I was going really well and then things messed up, I thought I knew the solution but I'm sure I've made it worse.

[@paulekechukwu8481]

Nothing matters,not even me everything is negative 🖤asmr is saving my life on the line not to kill myself

[@mindfulmessasmr]

@@paulekechukwu8481 everyone matters!!!

[@humor_n]

I have a creepy image of a smiley tree in my head, naah ty fam.

[@Tulf42]

I can relate at 5:23. One time I made a mistake, I'm not sure if I should say on here about specifics, but I acknowledged that it was my fault and was okay with it, but my Dad was so p***ed off that he really made me feel guilty as if I had committed murder or thrown a fortune away, and he refused to lose the argument even if I said it was an accident with the little breath I had left before I had to cry in my room for the rest of the night.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@Tulf42]

@@mindfulmessasmr I'm better now than I was at the time, thanks, but I find it hard to look at the broken family antique whenever I walk past it.

[@JyrTheCrumbling]

WE ARE STARTING TO BREAK APART WITH THIS ONE 🗣️🗣️🗣️📣📣🔥💯‼️💯💯

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@peanutman2784]

I'm such a fool🤣 I hate myself too much to believe this

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@halfeatenapple0903]

real

[@Omixity]

Same

[@Strawb_milk5]

❤❤❤

[@sogeking4541]

Hey M i hope yor doing alright Recently I've got this feeling that ... I'm not a good person, and the more I think about it the more I see the bad guy in my personality I don't have someone to talk about this with him Soo that's why im commenting this Im not saying that I'm going full villein mode, but the fact that im a bad person is just annoying me.i don't wanna take your time with a reply ,You reading this is good enough for me 💙 I just wanted to talk about it to get it out of my head . :)

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I’m sorry you’re going through this, I hope you can reach out to someone who can help and talk about this with you

[@CassieAngelica]

Thank you❤ I have been coming back here for some time now. You’re just generally amazing.💖❤️‍🩹💐

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Awe, thank you!!! x3

[@lostsoup]

Oh trust me I have already hurt my own feelings way to many times......I know everyone messes up sometimes but the biggest mistake anyone could of made was having me.........

[@AdderoYuu]

This morning I was having some sort of dream about being locked in a house with someone and they were talking to me and reassuring me, I don't even remember what the circumstance was but it was your voice because this video started playing while I was asleep

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Cool :3

[@endergem957]

Hey! I use self deprecating humor to cope with my internal self deprecation.

[@TiT0.]

🖤✨

[@varsame]

Sweet lord how down bad am I

[@JosEngel-po7js]

Everyone was rude to me in the past and now it beacame worse my friends dont play i dont see them so i got no friends and i feel like that i hate my self like my stress is so bad and depression too that i dont know what exitment and love and comfront and attention feels like and i never feel these 😐😢

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you have someone to talk to about these feelings!!!

[@banana_pancake7171]

Eh, too bad, I am not willing to change myself enough to feel promptly satisfied, so I just excuse myself in my own little pity party of pathetic excuses to keep my ego down instead of dealing with the fact that I just hate myself and changing for the better. I am not willing to be a better person, I find comfort in the familiarity of Sadness and the shallow praise I receive from putting the bit of effort others are not willing to so I have something to boast about to myself. No, I was not a good student because I really put that much effort, nor do I do well at my job because I am particularly smart or charismatic, I am just functional, and that seems to be enough for most.

[@banana_pancake7171]

Oh man, that's embarrassing.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you have someone you can talk to about this!!!

[@banana_pancake7171]

My therapist.

[@thecmoose4754]

3 AM gang wya?

[@prufilioyiftheg8615]

I hate that ive fallen so low as to seek comfort through asmr roleplays

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're doing okay!!!

[@prufilioyiftheg8615]

@@mindfulmessasmr it's okay, hope you have a good day or night

[@TheGreatMcPain]

I'm at the point where I just assume that people don't want to interact with me. Even if someone tries to get my attention I just assume they're talking to someone else with the same name. I do get compliments sometimes, but I don't take them even if they slapped me in the face. Even videos like these don't really do much for me anymore.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm sorry, I hope you're doing okay!!!

[@muhzanast]

on my lowest dawg

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@lonewolfgamingplus379]

As a guy who complies his existence every day, and has the lowest self-esteem, and self-worth every day. Thanks, I guess. I'll just go on to going into the shadows as I always do.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you’re okay!!!

[@presleynotalt5530]

Like at this point I'm good at being insecure. At least I finally did something right in my life 😆

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Oh I hope you're not being mean to yourself!!! Everyone is absolutely wonderful :3

[@absbee98]

No one would every feel like this towards me , I'm done of trying, my loneliness is done. Thank you for the asmr.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

You can find your person one day!!!

[@mylife8806]

Real

[@leosamurai1910]

No offense or anything, but the fact that i needed this video shows how messed up and lonely i am. Anyway, still, good video, im glad you are helping me and other with it.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're okay!!!

[@spidergalva]

But being means easier than being nice!

[@mindfulmessasmr]

True, but nice is nice :3

[@vormic]

"Close the door and pretend it's not there" as the old ones say "out of sight out of mind" If M where to say what are her favorite 6 words of the day?

[@mindfulmessasmr]

The wind howls very loud tonight

[@sgtforcenico]

How do i find a girl that is even close to being like you?! ❤🥺

[@topoo-kw8zr]

Listening to this makes me feel like validating my inability to do things. I'm talentless, worthless. Man i hate my mind.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

No one is worthless!!

[@RaidFlint94]

❤️👍

[@-Lucifer__]

👋.

[@JakeSm4sh]

👋

[@meowmers504]

Anyone else up at three in the morning dreading tomorrow doesn’t come… :)

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you're doing okay!!!

[@meowmers504]

@@mindfulmessasmr thank you I’m just having mental health issues

[@benmoore4697]

But what if i dont deserve to be positive about myself

[@mindfulmessasmr]

It may seem that way, but I'm sure there's something positive or happy or even just pleasant that you can admire about yourself!!! :3 We are our own worst critics, so you may see yourself entirely different from how others see you

[@Scarecrow7274]

im tryna go ghost and just disappear gng

[@JosEngel-po7js]

Actely people where alot mean to me and now worse so i feel like um ugly and trash and i never smile

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!

[@shaferhilke1193]

If mindful was to respond, how would she feel if she was the Lorax?

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I do care about the environment, but I wouldn’t like being the Lorax xD

[@shaferhilke1193]

@@mindfulmessasmr xD

[@G.S.Productions]

I’m hoping you’re not talking about the one voiced by Danny DeVito.

[@venom890]

🥺🥺🥺

[@Embersofthedark]

As a man who thinks mistakes make me useless, i feel attacked by you (im not upset its funny to me

[@NoelShire93]

Fibromyalgia is ruining my life

[@somedragondood7884]

I feel like every day my relationship with my girlfriend worsens. We argue a lot and I do so many things that I know irritate her. She barely lets on but I know she's getting tired of me. I don't know what I'm doing, I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing, and I don't know how to do it right. I feel lost and alone, but I don't know if I can turn to anybody. I feel like a walking disaster, and I seem to make everything I do worse. I just don't know anymore. But who cares fuck it we ball 🗿

[@mindfulmessasmr]

I hope you have the chance to sit down with your girlfriend and talk to see what's going on!!!

[@lol-2247]

Hello there,

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Heyo

[@GUMGUM_LUFFY84]

I dont need a girl to tale that im not stupid im a sigma 🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿.

[@pauloackerman2003]

Like 😊

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Yayyy!!!!

[@halfeatenapple0903]

I just want someone to talk to

[@Juany1985]

😢

[@a.r.5604]

It's an interesting paradox - people don't like me because I don't like myself and I don't like myself because people don't like me. Those words you say about the listener being wonderful, beautiful and all that - no one has ever said even remotely to those words to me. I'm trying so hard, but people have rejected me over and over again, not to mention girls have avoided me in a wide arch for as long as I can remember. In 23 years of my existence, no one has ever shown a sliver of interest in me. I mean, how could they? I understand I'm ugly and unattractive. Still, knowing that doesn't make it much easier. Acknowledgement can be liberating, but it can, and in most cases is, very frustrating. A good job on the audio regardless, it was an enjoyable recording even though I cannot really believe what's being said in it to the listener.

[@mindfulmessasmr]

Thank you!! And you have to be nicer to yourself!!!

[@donkay.9928]

But fucking up too much is not normal

[@mindfulmessasmr]

To some people it is, there isn't really such a thing as normal :3