Dating in VRChat

[@DaleTwokey]

As someone who had to study ERPs in University, the insert about Enterprise Resource Planning cracked me up.

[@XSaVaGe360]

I had to take marketing classes last semester and holy shit when I saw Enterprise Resource Planning it made me fold as well LMAO

[@enchantedplayer6168]

I like how vrchat is slowly becoming it's own separate thing from the rest of the world. It's got it's own culture, morals, and it's growing real experiences for people

[@david85111]

its interesting watching from afar

[@evytin9705]

people tried to contain it as well. although some parts do actually need to be contained, these good ones shall have no limits.

[@wisgarus]

Yea, it's like an evolution of the usual online internet communities, but more pronounced and (virtually) real thanks to VR.

[@CaptainMichaelJCaboose]

Vr chat has different groups you can easily identify 1. Spider lair kids-have no friends and have no taste in vr worlds 2. Mirrors dweller-Don't have friends either, looked down apon 3. Avatar collectors-Like rare avatars friendly but annoying 4.Erpers-Gross, Please touch grass 5.Roleplayers-Chill

[@CaptainMichaelJCaboose]

These are a couple examples

[@RickleVR]

I genuinely love your video essays on VRChat!

[@TwiceVR]

Thank you!

[@Wolfy-md9em]

Hey twice your not wrong about the among us, I found my bf in among us and almost a year later we are still together, even though we are far from one and another our love is still strong

[@TwiceVR]

I fucking knew it

[@Wolfy-md9em]

“Your goddamn right” ~ Heisenberg (breaking bad)

[@towarzyszmarcin474]

Sus.

[@Абдулло-щ3е9э]

Both you and your boyfriend are sussy wussy uwu.

[@SnekUnlistChannel]

@@TwiceVR ...

[@Juschlan]

I highly recommend reading the letter at 0:40 Such a small detail but such high potential, this type of content is way to under-appreciated.

[@wholesomeprofilepicture585]

the virtual head part was my favorite

[@Derpduck.]

That took a turn

[@jisenku]

You have to appreciate the clean handwriting and witty humor in the letter too. :)

[@hosewater-lb9hi]

I paused to read that shit.

[@shelbyKiraM]

Uh, you mean 0:42?

[@SlowbutPerfect]

I love that people date on VRC, but some people think that the only purpose the game has is dating and it often ends up in them being a depressed full-body mirror dweller.

[@thelordpotatoesorjtswagste1945]

A lot of people, even irl, have this idea that everyone needs to have a romantic relationship to be happy and it's, like, super toxic to have that mindset. You should do what you enjoy and make the most of life and let experiences come and go naturally, not try to force some kind of win condition like its yugioh

[@himedo1512]

@@thelordpotatoesorjtswagste1945 it's not a mindset based entirely in falsehood though. Studies have shown that an inability to achieve romance does negatively affect one's mental health. It should hardly be suprising that failing to achieve a base instinct of humanity can cause mental health problems.

[@prinstyrio0]

@@himedo1512 Yeah, it's definitely a thing. It's easy to get dragged out when you are shown before your eyes something you may want, which can simply be an intimate romantic relationship and love, which the latter I'd say all (or atleast majority) of us humans want. It's important to find means to deal with it. There's no easy life guide or love guru to fix this, advice and simple guides, perhaps, but ultimately nobody can judge or live your life, everyone's is unique with its own inequality and unfair situations and vice versa, so you shouldn't try to compare yours to someone else's. Do what you can for the moment, learn to love yourself and those around you, and then see where it leads you, that's all the advice I feel I can throw out without over generalizing everyone's lives.

[@TheErilaz]

The primary determining factors in dating are looks and socioeconomic status and personality in more or less that order, and thats not entirely black or white if anyone understands the therm. English is not my native language. Vrchat at least perhaps somewhat negates the looks bit, and things focuses more on socioeconomic status and personality. Thats at least my theory. Among American millennials, 15-30% men are involuntary celibate, roughly 51% do not have a steady partner, roughly 30% are often or always lonely, and roughly 22% have no friends. Many men thinks that the dating game is rigged, and after multiple failed attempts just gives up and decides to put their energy into hobbies, learning new skills, traveling and so on.. Because mastering a new skill is more fruitful to many than wasting time, energy and money into something that many men sees as fickle. They also perceive that as more safer,- there are no risk of false accusations ( ref J. Depp he luckily had the money to afford to defend himself, lawyers are not cheap! ), a unfair law system, social factors, a lack of services for male victims of domestic violence are also contributing factors.

[@RobinTheBot]

​@@himedo1512 the mindset might very well be what causes that negative effect. The study I found doesn't prove otherwise

[@lordtremor393]

I dont get why people think its so weird to have VRCouples...I personally met my significant other in Sovren's chill home. We've been together for almost a year now and we are thinking of meeting each other irl! The videos you do are great! Keep it up!

[@losero0658]

Considered a "freak" etc but tbf i find it weird to it seems a little... Pathetic

[@losero0658]

Personally I think there are multiple reasons such as you are to weak to meet someone irl, you don't feel accepted in ur current society, feel as if only someone online might understand you better because you'd be Edit: yt glitched out or smth sorry

[@bobbuild2417]

Pretty weird

[@allyma3]

Fr its pretty much just a ldr but i think vr chat is amazing for ldr since if u can develop phantom touch then its great

[@zenstranoff7166]

@@losero0658 hey there although it does seem abit weird to some people being couple through vrchat we cant really judge them as pathetic for not going on their way out at finding a love in real life considering todays society and all maybe they just dont fit in? Or the hobbies are different? Or even they arent just at the right enviroment with people they feel attracted to in the end its their love life and which way through irl, vrchat or other platform that fate brought them together also according to the interview above some of them even move in together in the end its just another social platform with more features than the others on interracting with people that had the same hobby playing vr chat more or less

[@HayenMill]

That was sneaky of you to use the Violet Evergarden OST to hit people like me in the feels

[@Zycthe]

fr man

[@quarreneverett4767]

Ikr..

[@quarreneverett4767]

Ty for reminding ne where it was from. The second i heard the first note it hit me i was like holy shit i know this. But where. Now im stuck with these damn emotions. After getting this feel good heart warming thing now im whoplash

[@PuppyGirlSerenity]

Currently in a long distance relationship atm. VRChat really helps me cope with being isolated and dating irl made my social anxiety spike. VRChat gave me a key to happiness, self love, and overall human life improvement. My girlfriend is also hard of hearing so I get to learn sign language from her and perhaps the VRChat community. The best people I've met in VRC have been the past year the reason for my overall mental health. Dating in VR has made me more open (Pansexual) The best players you meet are at the most un-optimal time zones. I mean VRChat can bring people together when you least expect it. Much

[@heiziiii]

yooo hi i'm oddtopsy from the video! it was rlly nice working with you (and hopefully namaku feels the same) and i loved how this all turned out. i hope to work with you again in the future! 💜

[@aezuki764]

THIS WAS SO CUTE!! Xyare and I were very happy to be apart of this!! ❤❤

[@Haydn-San]

me and my fiancé met on VRC about 2 years ago and she moved from the us to uk and now were living together, VRC is not a strange place to meet others and this just proves it

[@draginicus2867]

LMFAO, thats me in the first tiktok, i felt so wierd making it but im so happy with how it came out haha. nice video

[@Eth12]

The amount of effort put into these videos is crazy! Keep it up, loving the content!

[@vulpeszerdaa]

vrchat is slowly growing its like..its own country, you have laws, regulations, social norms and all sorts of people, it really starts to feel like its own world and gives a lot of experiences to people, especially those who struggle to IRL

[@jere2936]

I also met my girlfriend in vrchat back then. After 5 months we moved in together and have been together for over 1 year now :3 ♥

[@beeboyben]

i really like the editing on this video lmfao, and stream more please twice

[@beeboyben]

i didnt sub to you on twitch for no reason

[@kerrsapp9373]

I found a couple doing stuff in uno. It was myself and many others disgusted and were telling this dude who had his 3 girlfriends with him to go to a private world if he was gonna do that stuff

[@theweekendwarrior3504]

That man is down horrendously

[@Mitaiii]

It was awesome being part of this video, thanks to my gf and Twice for this opportunity!

[@ChroahCresta]

I met my gf in vr at and we're already making plans to move in together. Distance sucks yeah but in the long run, it'll be worth it as well as a fond memory. Just glad we have vrc to help bridge the gap in the meantime.

[@nowdoyouunderstandpain6066]

It should of been me

[@ChroahCresta]

Update: We're living together!

[@chrisgr9050]

@@ChroahCresta thats great man! A lot of ppl think its weird to e date but if you end up meeting each other irl and things work out it seems like it can be great

[@quarreneverett4767]

So hiws it goin

[@DexioCh]

This is my first time seeing your channel or your content in general, but damn. The production quality here is immense and honestly I'm probably going to be watching a lot more of your content. Great work.

[@rainbleed8049]

Marvin always making the video top notch quality. Lmao good video my mans, loved the quality of this one, was worth the wait!

[@Draxco24]

Hey twice I just wanted to say that I really like ur videos and ur the reason why I’m in love with vr keep making the goated vr vids

[@halomaster3155]

Dude the quality of these interviews is just… amazing. Not too long, on point and very sympathetic!

[@moosekai9726]

i just wanted to say thank you for putting all the music used in the description

[@Fredomnom]

BRO THE VIOLET EVERGARDEN ENDING GOT ME CRYING 😭😭

[@Firebolt68]

Great video man, a lot of cool stuff talked about in these interviews.

[@jaywils1078]

Once managed to break into a locked, like, one of those hotel room things. *Im not the same*

[@Novaruu]

i’ve met up with most of the people i’ve i known in vr and the connections i’ve had with people feel so much more meaningful because you are going off their personality more than their looks.

[@goestheboom5211]

Yeah that’s what makes it even harder tho when most people on vrchat are only there to use you to gratify their sexual desires and their need for attention then throw you to the side it hurts a lot worse cause it’s to do with who you are as a person and not how you look and that’s hurts worse

[@mctrollin4109]

I only play VRchat to occasionally hop into some silly mini games with my friends yet I found myself completely sucked into this video giving it my full attention. Great content.

[@hachi1698]

Hey Twice! It's Hachi. I'm super impressed with your video quality man. Keep it up and tyfys.

[@Kuzumii-]

i find it better in some aspects because you more fall in love with there personality and Who they are more then what do you look like

[@marianav6213]

This is actually a really great video, this one a couple others should be mandatory to watch before jumping in! So informative

[@Susy773]

I have many crazy personal experiences in vrc it’s crazy hearing this

[@susiepazoosie2401]

I met my girlfriend 6 months ago on VRC, and we've been together since. It's not complicated, we just met, and we clicked. Neither of us was looking for anything, and she herself just got out of a very one way relationship. The two of us are going strong, and our plans are to move in together in a year or so. And yes, we ERP. We're adult humans with urges. It's not hard to imagine what couples get up to lol.

[@platinumsky845]

Today is actually six months on the dot from the day I met my now girlfriend on VRC. We met IRL just a month ago and she's the best thing to ever happen to me. Almost identical story to yours believe it or not lol

[@red_reaper1729]

Me: *exists by themself*

[@quarreneverett4767]

@@red_reaper1729 its okay bro

[@pan2663]

damn twice commentary and violet evergarden ost goes crazy

[@TwiceVR]

It fit perfectly for this video!

[@BlooperStupid]

Desktop ERP must be a trip

[@imxangi]

This is the best thing I’ve ever watched ! ♡ can’t wait to see more ^^

[@KolehmainenBeats]

Bro VR be it's own reality nowadays. Like people be spending more of they're time there than in the real, physical world.

[@Phoenix_is_god]

This is sad

[@KanekoGames]

I knew someone in VRC for a long time, ever since not long after I first started playing, and I had unfriended him for a while mostly because of his friend group. Then we met again off a mutual friend and I caught feelings real quick. Apparently he had caught feelings around when we first met. To make a long story short, he broke up with the dip he was with for me and we got together and we've been together for over a year. March 26th marks our anniversary.

[@Anlx-y3b]

Though it has a sense of sarcasm to the video. But the interview part is legit so warming. Vrchat did bring E-date into a whole new level. Parents from before the 2000s might not be understanding how it works and think it's dangerous to meet stranger. But that is the how it works for real life as well, your loved one was once a stranger at some point. It's just E-date was on the digital world.

[@jt3000o]

Me and my wife met in VR chat in November 2018 she's such a great thoughtful person we got married in vrchat September 17 2019 and are still together till this day coming up on 4 years together and I wouldn't have it any other way

[@chrisgr9050]

Did you meet irl?

[@jt3000o]

@@chrisgr9050 yeah we live together

[@quarreneverett4767]

Cool

[@Y__umeko]

I think once you've kinda gotten into vrchat it becomes impossible to view it as a game. Its just a completely different world. It has cultures, different kinds of people with different kinds of interest and so much possibilities because the game is driven by the community instead of the developers. I love it. It just a one of a kind platform. Its justa better social media.❤

[@VibeRBLX]

gah dayum quality on these videos is absolutely stunning, good work

[@kuya_joshjosh]

Hey man, thank you for your service! I'm also in the AF and got into VR because of the loneliness of the dorms at tech school haha. Saw in your other video you're going to Korea- and I hope everything goes well for you. Subscribed!

[@reyluna0]

He's a phantom! Love your wholesome content Twice! Glad you are back

[@Antigonex]

YESSSSS YOU DIID ITT😭🤣👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼thank youu, i was soo hyped i love your videos i showed my bf like look dood he actually made the erp part🤣yeeeee youre soo funnyyy

[@zachgortag]

I know about a couple that are furries that met in vr chat, then got married and moved in with each other, and are now having a kid.

[@OnegaiShi]

THE ENDING OF THE VIDEO OMG THE SONG!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD JOB ON THE VIDEO KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

[@driesverhaag8955]

I loved that Danny phantom music

[@DrearyTV]

I honestly was laughing at the every king needs his queen TikTok for a solid minute

[@SD_48]

1:54 Great delivery and framing ! Really appreciated the authenticity as well as the natural and cheeky professionalism : )

[@orangeade8426]

man, how far you've come. so good to see you're doing great twice!

[@AWS]

you're video essays are amazing! so enjoyable to watch :D excited for more in the future!

[@Casavo]

Well i meet my partner in vrc through some mutual friends and she came 1800 miles to live with me. We been together for a year. I think allowing us to get to know each other in vrc and through discord in a very safe environment was a great thing.

[@vrchatxander319]

a few months back i participated in a vr chat wedding with two grownups and they were actually serious about it they had me read a entire book and everthing

[@cadelisowe4887]

I like this channel. hoping it will blow up in popularity! 👍

[@novaspark59]

I have phantom sense even when not in VR. I played Vrchat on PC and my friend pat my head and i felt his hand on top my head. It was a weird warm tingle sensation, but very comforting.

[@thundertm]

first 3 min of the video I've never gringed so hard form something I have experienced and seen first hand

[@BodenPflanze]

Your giving me nostalgy with the Viollet Evergarden music in the background

[@RenOnGames]

as a man that plays vr chat i no longer want to play vr chat anymore

[@crazilyryan6274]

I’m pretty sure I have mild phantom sense in my face because whenever I put an object close to my face I can feel it actually touching my face. I’ve never had anyone try to touch my face in VRC, though.

[@sxneze]

me too. it was warm, fuzzy, tingly when i put a minecraft steak into my face

[@jooscyy.3203]

@@sxneze Lmaoo thats such a random sentence

[@allyma3]

There was this roach guy in vrc and i literally freaked out each time he sat on my face i hate ROACHES

[@Maxygamez]

How have you not been touched in face yet? I feel like I get a nose boop at least once everytime I’m on

[@jooscyy.3203]

@@Maxygamez When someone waves both of their hands across your face, its literally so weird to me

[@nothingherebro1]

I thought it was gonna just be an erp vid, but this makes more sense lol

[@justnotreal]

I date in VRChat. The only reason I do it is because I am in college abroad and I use VRChat in a way to feel close to my fiancé back at home

[@adhdTrucker]

I "date" in VR chat with my fiancé even though we live together just to switch to things up and explore new worlds. Never going to try ERP though 😂

[@M0istBread]

Wait is your fiancé the one you are dating because isn’t that cheating if you are dating other people???

[@justnotreal]

@@M0istBread You misread my comment aha. I said I was dating my fiancé in VRChat because of me being abroad for studying 😅

[@M0istBread]

@@justnotreal ohhh gotcha im sorry yeah I misread 😅

[@justnotreal]

@@M0istBread Haha iss ok :)

[@DrReginaldFinleySr]

Oh to be young. lol. America Online Dating and Yahoo Dating were some of the first. :-) I have phantom sense on just PC. I'm looking forward to getting full VR. Nice video. Thanks for sharing.

[@GhostQuartz]

This was the funniest video I've seen in a while. Inspirational even. Easy Subscribe.

[@VReemy20]

Look who’s back with good content👍

[@arix7745]

Bruh, How the hell do you not have more subscribers? You're hilarious and make high-quality videos. Stay strong because your futures bright

[@PingooProducts]

Twice is slowly becoming the VRChat equivalent of Inside Edition.

[@nukawolfgaming69420]

I met my boyfriend in vrchat through a dnd game and we've been living together for about 4 months now and our 1 year is coming up on October 6th

[@mitskyluv]

i’ve been wanting a video like this from your channel for so long. i need other peoples thoughts. + also, i stopped by your stream for the first time and it was great! :D

[@gunnssaj2813]

i know a marriage that worked out from VR it's so cute

[@animerules]

That letter had me in tears by the end. I hope we get to meet vanessa soon.

[@mooncakegiggity4969]

I know those socks, having full body with base stations in the barracks create interesting conversations during room inspections lol

[@uhmaniacc]

MY FRIENDS GOT MARRIED IN VRC THEN GOT ENGAGED IN REAl life there wedding is next week

[@XSaVaGe360]

A bizarre, yet interesting world, VRChat is. You can find yourself in a lot of weird, different situations that can grow into something more down the line if you let it, like a relationship in this case. It's happened with me, and I'm sure it's happened with most of you guys as well. It just happens; all because of the connections and bonds that form from the interactions made between you and them. If I can say one thing, the game certainly does a great job at fulfilling its purpose of bringing people together, whether it's through talking, playing games or drinking until your liver gives in with a good ol' friend. Great video, Twice!

[@Scello_]

I remember something about my brothers friends getting married in vrchat, as that was obviously a funny joke they actually DID get married in the end

[@reise04]

didn't think the last part was a thing, you learn smtg new everyday

[@s7ezy]

this reminded me of Anthony Padilla's "i spent a day with" videos

[@SmackedByJack]

Same

[@w0mei]

i love these videos so much bro keep up the great work

[@DarkBandit141]

Every relationship I've ever had in vrc crashed and burned in the worst way. So like every relationship I've ever had. So like 2.

[@sonicfan258]

i have been playing VRC since early 2018 and I can confirm, I have met people who met in vr, dated, moved in and then got married later on. To my knowledge, the married couples that met in vr are still together. :) It definitely has and can happen.

[@wgid_shadow3668]

When they were talking about living together I thought it was in game and I’m like “ okay weird, don’t know how that works” but nah this IRL!

[@randomess61]

yoooooooo!! can we talk about that cinematography though???? fun video!

[@Fedico7000]

Man, a vrc set up sounds so cool. Neat to hear about all these player's experiences though.

[@JHINYT]

Dating in vrchat > Dating in roblox.

[@stupidflandrs4856]

11:11 Okay I'm subscribing, that comedic timing was golden

[@Roxy_7699]

I met a nice group of friends in vrc among us and I started dating one of my closer friends in the group and our 1 year anniversary is soon

[@Reis-san]

I met my now fiancé in Vrchat. She’s from Canada and I’m from Sweden in Europe, 6hrs apart. She moved to me and we’ve been engaged for a year now ❤️🥰

[@vampyboyf7723]

my bf and i didn't meet in vrchat. we actually met in an overwatch lobby and i liked his name so i friended him. He was awkward and shy and would only "talk" to me through the emote wheel, it was only after like a year that he talked to me for he first time. We went long distance for years as friends and played vrchat togetehr so he can 'physically bond' with me since he is so shy and doesn't like talking. four years later we started dating and just moved in together. It'll be a year in September.

[@seayub9168]

I never intended to fall for my current boyfriend when we met over a year ago by random chance, but I couldn't help how I felt. We've met irl several times as well as each other's families and are planning on moving in together 💜 it's possible. You have to be careful out there but I now know what I would've missed out on if vr had not existed, xo

[@hgshdwdwasdawdhsadw6402]

Yo twice, your vids are fire dude. Keep it up :)

[@HonaLuluVTuber]

I just realized that there is a clip of me and a few friends in this vid, cool! And thanks!

[@chalupasupremegordito5251]

I love the detail of you going as far as to write a break up letter to Shawty/babygirl LMAO

[@Jestloo]

My best friend and I worked together for about 5 years. Then I moved states. We both got Quest 2s and used VRChat as our means of “hanging out.” After a year in VR, I finally confessed to him that I loved him. My case is a bit different, since we built our friendship in real life first and used VRChat to keep and grow it after I moved. We’re not doing anything until he moves to where I am and we marry, tho.

[@gunns4hire224]

I've have been playing vrchat for about 3 years and seen and done a lot made lots of wonderful friends and even have built relationships and gotten married 2 times and hope to in the future marry my soon to be bf in vr and irl and last but not least love your videos man keep being you

[@Str_obes]

This one really got me "what game are you playing" "beat saber" 😅

[@djdemonic666]

My girlfriend and i met through VRChat, its been, idk now, a month? Time flies. She was very outgoing and i liked how assertive she was when we met. Tbh, i dont know how my life would be like both IRL and in the game without her.

[@Reedkid33]

So much love to see in these comments currently I am feeling the same way and just don’t know how to ask them without a lot of friends there

[@falconstarr2146]

Dude your editing has leveled up