So he cheats on you with your cousin and leaves you without a word, then they throw you on the street and ghost you, give you divorce papers to sign without a face to face conversation or explanation (very Christian of all of them), and now you ask if you should give them another chance ? This is insane get a restraining order from the police.
@meganjones9395 ай бұрын
What a culture where a cheater is rewarded for cheating
@Maninawig5 ай бұрын
They are also toying with any laws in the faith that I know of. I can't think of one saying "abandon your wife and turn your home into one of sin"
@Red-os8bg4 ай бұрын
Of course, he's a man. it's somewhat expected because they have a big sex drive. It's not his fault, I can assure they blamed the cousin but because she was pregnant they forgave her. Honestly, it's one reason I'm not a religious person anymore
@Jargonecius5 ай бұрын
If this ever happened to me, I would sue that police station into bankruptcy to the point where they'd have to instill a county sheriff or a state law department because the city wouldn't be able to afford a police department anymore. The fact that they gave out her email address is disgusting
@williamrosmer83815 ай бұрын
at best they'd get a slap on the wrist and you'd get a small payout if not thrown out. police in the usa are hard to sue
@hanyo1o1325 ай бұрын
It largely depends on if the divorce was finalized at that point in time. The timeline of events arent super clear. Just because the papers were signed does not mean it was complete. So as a legal spouse, they would have a legal right to the disclosure of that information. Then could pass it on to the family. Not saying its right to do so. But legally speaking, there is very little that can be done.
@mimiwhite19635 ай бұрын
Wow get out of that cult and never talk to any of those people again. Too bad your cheating ex wants you back. Cheaters will cheat again
@lindalanteigne89095 ай бұрын
Sue your mother for all the money she took from the trust fund after you moved out. She is a liar and a cheat.
@cheryljones88755 ай бұрын
I would never let any of them back into my life again if I could help it. That kind of betrayal runs DEEP.
@denis32085 ай бұрын
They didn't just betray her they also threw her out on the street and ghosted her, and she didn't even do anything, at least they could've talked with her like humans, they behaved like animals towards her, mind you I'm probably offending animals they don't do stuff like that.
@erickaennis27385 ай бұрын
Can Op sue the cops for giving out her information? Is that legal? I mean her life could've been in danger. They threw her away for her lying cheating husband and cousin. Now its like oops my bad. Come home. This is just wild. I wish her ex and family would leave her alone.
@Heydodoakskdkdjf5 ай бұрын
Likely that the story is fake. Most stories on these channels are.
@elseggs65045 ай бұрын
@@Heydodoakskdkdjf Just a tad bit of common sense can do that. I mean really, how is it everyone is on the pill, condoms, diaphragms, shots, whatever and still manage to get pregnant, while people who actually want them need weeks, if not months. These teenage girls need to come up with new tropes
@ashleymyers22145 ай бұрын
If it is it's an older fake story because I've actually heard this before. They've changed some things but it's definitely something I heard before on different channels. And from what I remember I'm pretty sure she lives in Texas and they go hard to protect the police so likely even if she did sue the best they would get is a slap on the wrist even news outlets probably would somehow turn it on her making her seem like a bitch for her family " just being concerned about her."
@emily.letsendbslintheuk5545 ай бұрын
I admit I'm shocked that the police gave her parents her contact details (yes it was only a email address but they can still harass her with it) before she had a change to talk to them, for all the police knew she was being abused and ran (which she was and did) they put her safety at risk to keep her abusers happy 🤬🤬🤬
@Maninawig5 ай бұрын
Luckily, from what I understand about police immunity, that would not be considered under "damages during the duty of service". Meaning OP can get the news involved and pressure the cops into charging the offending officer with "aiding and abiding of a crime" while a lawyer would win the civil case.
@lucarioshipper44985 ай бұрын
Nice story, would’ve added an alien invasion as well, but nice nonetheless.
@Darkspark065 ай бұрын
Just want entertainment:)
@Dillionthevillian5 ай бұрын
Run!!! Get yourself and you’re son and move If you’re dad mum gonna help you get a home move to her state
@Charzard7825 ай бұрын
Where did the "boyfriend" come from?
@peterjackson14305 ай бұрын
Must have meant bf bestfriend and the AI is inserting the word boyfriend.
@ondiekibresson5 ай бұрын
I wondered about that to. It went from boyfriend to ex-husband!! lol
@IkatashiPaku5 ай бұрын
No OP, no more chances. Both he and OP's Maternal family did a very big wrong. It is Christian to forgive them, but that doesn't mean they get to be a bigger part of OP's life then they're allowed.
@jeanetteporter81145 ай бұрын
I know a lot of commenters saying this is fake? Whether or not it is real someone out there is going through this. The advice commentary is giving them sound, safe and helpful advice to get out of these situations
@elseggs65045 ай бұрын
What situations lmao? Call me crazy, but I believe friends and family are generally more qualified than minors on Reddit
@jeanetteporter81145 ай бұрын
@elseggs6504 sometimes minors have more insight than adults, and no you aren't crazy, I see the comments and think some of the comments are from trolls, but hey it may give some people some good advice
@lucarioshipper44985 ай бұрын
@@jeanetteporter8114 I, too, will resort to Reddit when my family kicks me out of my own house because my cousin falsely claimed to be pregnant of my husband while in true I was the one pregnant all along on birth control. I really do hope somebody goes through this while having rich secret grandma out there maintaining my evil grandma that hold my entire family from even speaking my through text while I lived at my car so I know exactly how to deal with this totally happen situation when police discloses information on me after saying I don’t want for that to happen. You don’t go to Reddit for advice, btw. Terrible idea.
@carolynperry71343 ай бұрын
Heard this story before except there was no boyfriend in the story.
@dipshikhabepary72685 ай бұрын
Going back to him and reconciling with his family is the worst possible way for op yo f up her life.
@margaretsnewtoylynnparks53365 ай бұрын
Some family’s LOVE their SIL/DIL’s over their own children!!!! Say you wanted a daughter-got a SON-he grows up marries a beautiful GIRL! (Your dream child)! SHE/HE can do no wrong!!!
@dustysimpson78645 ай бұрын
1- hell no. he had his chance and blew it. move on.
@giummatos5 ай бұрын
This story had me going until the trust fund started. There is no way this girl has a trust fund and needs child support. Don't get me wrong, but if this story was real she would NEVER ask for child support because who would invite those horrible people to their life again? Also HOW MANY STORIES IN THIS ONE VIDEO??? Makes no sense.
@Maninawig5 ай бұрын
Good quote, OP
@DarkHeartTheEmo5 ай бұрын
I hope that OP doesn't go back to him, he shouldn't be able to see the baby, is the father of the baby by blood, but that is all.
@eleanorturner46515 ай бұрын
yes he's the father of your child and yes I'm sure he's very sorry but he cheated with your cousin he knowingly knew what he did he didn't accidentally trip and fall into it he did it purposely let him help parent to child co-parent your child be civil to one another!!but move on with your life!!and take care of your precious little bundle of joy
@N3yo1005 ай бұрын
I Am a dad and i will say his concerns should be to be a good father and a decent human being and good things will work out for you after that
@Aniweb05 ай бұрын
Here the kicker
@Mswhatsittoya5 ай бұрын
“Should I get back with him? HeS tHE FATheR oF My ChILD”(SpongeBob Meme) girl he was messing wit ya cousin almost got her pregnant left u to be with her now ur second guessing yourself? Now what if she was really pregnant then found out u was pregnant and still chose her
@RudOby5 ай бұрын
Is he your boyfriend or husband or what???
@johnchen9975 ай бұрын
Every op are so stupid and soft. Questioning am I the ahole or did I go too far? No you didn't. If anything you didn't go far enough.
@VideoFan48965 ай бұрын
It's often risky to give someone who has betrayed you a second chance, as they may be more likely to repeat their actions, especially if they think they've gotten away with it.
@SwagatikaBehera55 ай бұрын
Ex husband, ex boyfriend ex fiancee? Wtf
@guessthomas5 ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure op used bf as best friend but the ai saw it as boy friend
@Mamakaymmkay5 ай бұрын
It devestates me when other parents have to go through this. My son spent 9 months in the hospital after he was born. 16 weeks being NICU. His first year of life involved several surgeries as well. He needs a liver transplant and will need a bone marrow transplant eventually as well. Hes almost 3, but too also needs oxygen monitor and oxygen every night at bed time!! We are strong OP, we're a different breed!!
@Maninawig5 ай бұрын
A liver transplant at 3? Wow, that is really sucky... I mean, it would suck at any age, but the size must be an extra issue.
@Mamakaymmkay5 ай бұрын
He's been on the list since he was 6 months old, he does have a lot of health issues and due to a rare genetic blood disorder (only 60 people in the US have this disorder) he will eventually need a bone marrow transplant as well. He's a hella strong tiny human though!!
@Maninawig5 ай бұрын
@@Mamakaymmkay I will keep your son's health in my prayers and your success in my hopes.
@Mamakaymmkay5 ай бұрын
@@Maninawig thank you so much ❤️🩹
@moistikal5 ай бұрын
Is the ex husband her brother? Wtf. How are your parents going to side with your cheating husband if the husband isn’t also their son? Story sounds far fetched to say the least.
@evees13465 ай бұрын
I am so confused with this story, i felt like i read 3 different stories at once By the end, is it the same as the wife who was cheated?
@carterbentonjr3995 ай бұрын
Keep him in your son's life but don't get back with him. Once a cheater always a cheater.
@untiedshoelaces25885 ай бұрын
Heard this across multiple channels over the past year. A bit disappointed that there hasn't been any further updates because OP deserves better than these people.
@koketso_dithipe5 ай бұрын
... i think i missed something, what happened to the wedding? That lawyer let those cops off for breaching OP's privacy?
@RealSheng4 ай бұрын
Boyfriend? Ex fiance? This AI is confusing 😂
@savantfool71235 ай бұрын
None of this ever happened
@donnasilvio39744 ай бұрын
1. Why in the hell did the police give out her email address to her family?!?! 2. Why did the narrative change from first person to third person partway through the video & then back to first person? It's a bit confusing.
@leighnisbett96914 ай бұрын
Last story update , Op go through the courts to set up a visitation schedule for your ex and try to get the courts communication app that parents use to communicate effectively through and best of all the app is court monitored . This gives you a control system that you can use in any further court dates going forward and it protects both parents and acts as a gateway for family communication between the two parents ,plus should he continue to harass you into getting back together ,then the courts can notify him about his behaviour .NTA
@Scott-v8k4 ай бұрын
Un-christian? Religiously speaking, infidelity is the only acceptable reason for divorce. Your mil can get lost.