Misogynistic things you didn’t know

[@emilyliles5991]

‘Babysitting’ their own children… I hate this one because a father doesn’t babysit his kids while the mother has some rest. He’s doing his duty as a parent and shouldn’t be praised for it anymore than any other parent.

[@skzsh00ter31]

this one makes so mad. how does one babysit their own child?? you’re a parent you’re taking care of your child, the one you birthed. i want to know who started this cuz they deserve a punch in the face

[@TheCuteInExecute]

@@skzsh00ter31 this pisses me off too because my sister goes through this with her husband

[@emilyliles5991]

@@TheCuteInExecute it’s awful! If it takes two to make the baby, then it takes two to raise it, and no parent should be praised more than the other if it’s equal.

[@devinreed5725]

Who actually says this?

[@meganbrady297]

The key is you said ‘anymore than other parents’ which is awesome because both parties praising each other for doing their responsibilities is much more productive

[@B3Dcool]

I remember the time me and my mom were going to the restrooms together at a restaurant and we saw a guy standing in the middle of the two doors that divide the women and men’s restrooms carrying a baby in his hands. Turns out the guy was a single father with his daughter and he needed to change her diaper but there wasn’t any stations on the men’s restrooms so he had been standing there for 30 minutes asking girls if they could please change his daughter’s diapers or just go in with him so that girls didn’t see him as a creep. My mom offered to change the baby’s diaper and gave the baby back to the guy, I did feel really bad about the guy because when he approached us to ask us he was in the verge of tears and when my mom accepted he looked like he was gonna start crying from happiness, I hope him and his daughter are okay :c

[@a.b.2850]

That’s heartbreaking. He should’ve just gone in! His baby needs to come first, always, in all situations. Reverse the role though. I would have gone in the man’s bathroom without thinking twice.. I actually did go in then men’s bathroom! 😂 my kids were young (were starting to use the public bathroom by themselves, but together) and one time they were taking long… I peeked in to ask them if everything was ok, and well, it wasn’t.. they needed my help, so I just went in, didn’t think twice. So why would it be different in this situation?

[@gamingmonkey340]

@@a.b.2850 because if a man randomly walked in the girl’s bathroom he would most likely be seen as a creep

[@acefeminist7259]

That's awful, I feel so bad for anyone who is in the same situation. Crush the patriarchy.

[@mariyaslonevskaya9322]

It's just rare for there to be single fathers....

[@B3Dcool]

@@mariyaslonevskaya9322 that doesn’t justify that a men’s restrooms doesn’t have changing stations

[@blended2795]

Not sure if shes covered this before, but it really irritates me when people say a guy is "babysitting" his own kids. It's called parenting.

[@smile5107]

Agreed!!!!

[@tadbitahistory9828]

Exactly, the fathers aren't the same as uncles or the mothers hest friend, the fathers need to have some actual responsibility aswell, before they soend their lives without having lifted a finger.

[@Theyfwbailey]

Ikr!

[@CyberMartian890]

Coz that's misandristic not misogynistic

[@blended2795]

@@CyberMartian890 actually it's a bit of both. Not only is it demeaning to men by implying they're unable to properly care for the kids but it also implies childcare is "women's work".

[@M83563]

The fact that diaper changing station only being in womens restrooms is honestly dumb, because what if a dad needs to change his kid, and its only him, but there are no changing stations he can use. Its also refurring that only women should do housework or take care of a baby.

[@tt7hvn]

As a single dad, the no diaper changing stations in men's bathrooms hit home for me. I've had to walk into women's bathrooms before to change my daughter. And in all honesty, I feel better that I have to because it's my daughter. The disparity between reactions I get is black and white, no gray area. It's either downright praise or disgust.

[@lostincredulity5369]

Agreed. It’s misandrist to have no nappy changing for dads. I am also a single dad.

[@LordLuciferKråka]

I hope that mens bathrooms get diaper changing stations. Father's in general should be normalized taking care of their children.

[@jjfan9313]

I guess it might just be that I live close to a city, but almost everywhere I go, in the Men’s bathroom is a changing station. I use to work in a grocery store and the Men’s bathroom had a changing station in it. And others I know like cinemas, restaurants, and mall bathrooms all have changing stations. I didn’t know this wasn’t a common thing

[@michaeldeacon7072]

@@jjfan9313 I agree with you and you beat me to it. Everywhere I go has a baby changing station in the men’s room. That’s in urban or rural areas. Could we say thats almost sexiest to say men’s rooms don’t have these?

[@naraiceylob]

Changing stations in the gender neutral wheelchair bathroom instead of either the Mens or the Women's bathrooms is beginning to come in here. Not sure about whether it's a good thing or not. The wheelchair bathroom is often underutilised but the wheelchair users aren't particularly happy about the facility being shared with parents.

[@TravelingTeachers]

My husband does most of the diaper changes. He was so excited when he realized there were changing stations in the men’s room at Disneyland.

[@audreym3908]

I don't know why but I found that cute

[@ferociouslioness]

That's actually adorable 💕

[@stronkmoosceles]

aww whys that so adorable 😭😭😭

[@alt._.syed17]

That's so cute yours should be happy that you got yourself a man that can clean dirty diapers

[@marialondonooo]

That’s so cute 💖🥰

[@lemonpeaches8314]

I feel like the changing room thing is also sexist towards men, because of the stereotype that all men are creeps and/or incapable of taking care of a child

[@e_N_n]

Yeah that one fucked w me

[@nrffilms1740]

Growing up there changing stations in guys bathroom. Not all of them, but a majority of the time I did. It’s either be in the sink or, more likely, be in the big stall. So I thought that was the norm. So I find it super interesting and odd.

[@LunaaaNT]

Yes! It's fucked up.

[@heavenIy1]

@@nrffilms1740 Best place to do coke

[@RainWelsh]

Honestly, a lot of sexist shit also affects men. The idea that women are nAtUrAL cArEgiVeRs is why so many men lose custody of their kids, even on occasions where they’d be the better parent. I know a really lovely guy who adores his daughter, and who almost lost all custody to his smackhead ex (who among other things abandoned the kid at a park on no less than three occasions) because “a girl needs her mother” according to the judge. He only got the kid full-time after this bitch was literally implicated in a murder ffs. The idea that women should be modest good girls who keep their legs shut against the universally horny men leads to women getting called names for enjoying sex, while male victims of sexual assault are just told there’s something wrong with them for not enjoying themselves. Talking about your feelings is “ewww girly”, asking for help is for bitches, so men commit suicide at a disproportionate rate and end up only seeing doctors when their cancer is too far along to treat (as evidenced by my now-dead hyper-masculine grandfather). Cutting out the whole cultural misogyny, hyper-masculinity bullshit will make things better for *everyone* who isn’t a sentient bin-bag.

[@Ender-wi5og]

Unattractive men are treated as creeps

[@donnaspahr5585]

Make your own video. This is about women.

[@Yesimreal1234]

Untrue from my pov. I know many dudes that I personally do not find attractive at ALL but they are close friends of mine and others that I barely know but still find funny and nice

[@CapedBaldy47]

@@donnaspahr5585bro what 💀

[@CapedBaldy47]

@@Yesimreal1234well same for my pov I know many unattractive girls but I’m still friends with them…

[@bennewbouldfitness217]

@@donnaspahr5585that’s kinda sexist icl

[@TheTrueHardcorefr3k]

Something creepy I noticed as a young adult is how sexualized high school cheerleaders/dance teams are. The more I notice it, the grosser it becomes.

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

I remember watching my school’s dance team twerk and roll around on the floor, and all the male high school teachers were watching intently. That’s just too much

[@thisjustakward5389]

They also sexualize the school uniforms 😒

[@punchn9001]

Wdym. You mean like just being a cheerleader and dancer is deemed as sexy like I don’t get it. Abs what about things like how young men on basketball and football teams are also sexualized by young adults ig how bout you throw that in there oh wait

[@user-bd6hn]

@@thisjustakward5389 i had to wear a skirt and high socks for high school since i wore uniform. I’d walk home and get honked at , and harassed every single time. so fucking gross i was literally like 14

[@thisjustakward5389]

@@user-bd6hn I feel bad 😬 you good?

[@theericbenson1692]

As a single father that had 2 baby girls with no changing table in mens restrooms, I saw it as semi sexist. But not for the reasons most people see it. It severely limited where i was willing to go shopping etc. A hatchback car became my changing table most outings. Dads have kids too.

[@nicolenewsome4863]

Yeah the car I do the changing diaper thing too. Because my little one is scared of the noise that the public restrooms have when the toilet flushes.

[@leiajiang7877]

But majority of the time women are expected to do so. Goes to mysogenistic practices towards harm men too.

[@miguelberetta7887]

I see them all the time in the men's restrooms, idk where y'all are going

[@22625223]

Well I seen plenty of diaper changing in man restroom but maybe that only in my state

[@Karamarika]

The back of your car is a far better place to change a baby's diaper. I have never seen a bathroom changing table get used in my life.

[@SustaJeno]

The fact that when a guy catcalls "unattractive" women, other men would say "she should be thankful that someone finds her attractive enough"

[@captainscott1096]

when?? where

[@ChibiCookiexX]

Lmao that's..messed up. Yeah women do the same thing when the guy is ugly inside and out. Then we just plain out ignore the guy and talk about him behind his back

[@mrpowderog8778]

Literally nobody does that

[@tiacuppe6681]

@@captainscott1096 Lots of times, around the world, kid.

[@tiacuppe6681]

@@mrpowderog8778 They do. Maybe not to you, but that doesn't mean it never happens. I've experienced it AND seen it happen so...

[@rumililla8679]

The "you are so much prettier when you smile" just gets me every time.

[@connor2298]

Fair, But how is it misogynistic?

[@Kavedelf_Kivler]

@@connor2298It comes from the past when women were just a decorative object for men, women were always told to smile because “it would make them look unattractive and none would ever marry them”

[@connor2298]

@@Kavedelf_Kivler That fairs. But honestly everyone looks better when they smile haha!

[@Kavedelf_Kivler]

@@connor2298 I know but people don’t like it because of the origin

[@Kneuma434]

Nah, how about “you only pretty when you smile”

[@amyamy8873]

When a guy only takes your “no” as a “no” when you told him you have a boyfriend

[@thatoneguy9816]

When a girl takes your no as a “you must be gay” and starts disrespecting you for turning her down.

[@Wsimard7]

Wait I am a little confused and this is proven me being stupid but wouldn’t taking “no” as “no” a good thing? That would mean they respect you and would back off right? If this is me being dumb than please correct me.

[@miya7629]

@@Wsimard7 I think op is saying how guys don’t stop until a girl says that they already have a partner. Usually saying “no” and being single doesn’t stop a guy from continuously bothering a them (though the same can go for some girls!) And you’re good dude, it can be confusing haha

[@Wsimard7]

@@miya7629 oh ok I understand, thanks for explaining!

[@bluemoon5053]

@@Wsimard7 they are saying only taking it as a no when the girl says she has a boyfriend. Meaning that the "no" before that fact was not taking seriously but it became a no because "it's someone's property" or because the guy respects her bf but not her

[@letsstartariot7982]

the fact that she had to end the video saying she wasn’t attacking men is another good example

[@hankhippopopalous5826]

How?

[@bread3987]

many men also do that so....

[@letsstartariot7982]

@@celestialbunny i hope you get picked man, really do

[@dustinbird9170]

No it isn't. Make a video critical of women in any way and see how fast you are called out. It goes both ways

[@letsstartariot7982]

@@dustinbird9170 it really doesn’t. all you have to do is say “my boyfriend cheated on me” and suddenly you get “chad🚘king shit👏” going on a rant about how women bad and not all men

[@LetiD_]

My step brother used to make fun of me all the time because I was “too girly.” He used to tell me that no one does and ever will like me because no one like a “girly girl.” For a 6-8 year old to hear, it really tore me down. Edit 2 years later: I’m soon graduating high school in a few days, me and my stepbrother are now on good terms. Life’s going well and I dress as girly as I want or as dressed down as I want. I’m not upset with him anymore and I’m perfectly happy with the way I am.

[@uh7671]

Same...i changed myself a lot n tried SO HARD to become a bruh girl. I ended up being a pick me bcs of that. But then...i stopped..cuz it was just stupid..and i wanna be honest with myself. I love pink, i love girly girly stuff and i especially love BEING MYSELF. People still insult me btw😍. But ofc i pretend not to hear. Most of them r pick mes LMAO. One of them r my mom...ily mom but no😍. It's not a sin to be girly so why stop me-

[@juliachanel1935]

My sister used to tell me that all the time also when i was 6-8 years old and it really messed me up to this day because i stopped dressing the way i wanted to and im scared to put on ,,too much“ makeup cause i don’t wanna get judged its rly horrible also i put down other little girls cause they were also ,,too girly“ as my sister said

[@wriothesley_cakefactory]

@@uh7671 go girl!!! I have a friend who is trying hard to be the cool girl ended up being her true self ,'a pick me girl' . During the early days it was tbh kinda annoying that she hate on 'pink ' for no absolute reason (I can think of). So it was sometimes like playing in a drama without a plot . Yeah well her true self is still kinda cringing to me at least its no more soap opera going on around . So yeah be yourself!!! 💞💞💞 You loving pink doesn't kill anyone so it's normal to be feminine

[@uh7671]

@@wriothesley_cakefactory THXX AND MAAM YOU'RE FRIEND IS LUCKY TO HAVE U

[@wriothesley_cakefactory]

@@uh7671 ur welcome 💞💞me and my friend we are both lucky to have each other as she is always the one who comforted when all my old classmates bullied me

[@strwberry_kittenz]

My opinions: 1. I agree. Its also vice versa. Respect everyone. 2. I agree again. Being girly or manly isnt a bad thing. 3. I partially agree. Liking something doesnt make you insane. 4. Idk, its a mans tool that only works for them. Its like if a man bought a bra that would also be bad. 5. I agree. If someone is telling you to cheer up, thats fine, but if they're doing it in a misogynistic way, then its bad, like saying "smile more" 6. That is weird. Its weird to assume women are always going to have a baby, and its also weird that men are assumed opposite. 7. I also agree that there is a lot of creepy both men and women out there.

[@Sergiopro2006]

We are gathered here today, to celebrate the size of this W

[@ominousSHELL]

Don't bother using your IQ on this girl. The things she mentioned are SEXIST at best not MISOGYNISTIC. SEXISM for the most part isn't bad, as they just boil down to steorotypes, rooted in BIOLOGY.

[@sj211]

why is a man buying a bra bad?

[@sj211]

also a condom is not a mans tool its contraception. a woman buying it could be even for her own toys or smth lol

[@emo_weeb_stanie1019]

The one about fangirls is so true, a teenage girl can't like ANYTHING without being bashed for it, why??

[@sgmahoney]

Because that’s how bullying works. They find the thing that makes you happy and they tear you down for liking it. It’s because it’s what you love, and if you really love it, it’s gotta hurt to see someone rip your heart to shreds over it.

[@fishramen5398]

@@sgmahoney true

[@faraishta]

Relate a freaking lot being a teenage army

[@carolinesun7645]

@@faraishta SAME which is why I’m not ashamed to admit I’m an Army “Ew you like Kpop??” “Yeah I do, go cry about it or something.” Also hello! 👋🏼

[@faraishta]

@@carolinesun7645 yasss you go girl! Hello!

[@alexandra6864]

why are men so obsessed with a woman’s smile? like what made them ever think it was socially appropriate to ask a total stranger to smile for them?

[@Smasho8000]

It's a thing about us thinking you're in a bad mood and we're trying to cheer you up. Obviously, it doesn't work but that's just how it is with us.

[@Sarablueunicorn]

Because they interpret a smile or laughter as a sign of attraction (for them). If the girl is not smiling it means she's not attracted to them and makes them feel insecure. Once a guy tried to force a kiss on me and i had to squirt my bubble tea on him to escape when i asked "what's wrong with you?" He said that i laughed so he thought i was up for kissing. Note: I laughed because he was making a funny face drinking the bubble tea while all the tapioca pearls were getting stuck. So, in their sick mind, if you are just smiling for the sake of being polite you are sending them "signs" you are interested and if you don't smile you are a rude cold biatx. Thats why a woman with a serious face is known for having a "resting biatx face".

[@NiiiK999]

well all people should smile more in general its just healthy and makes the mood of everyone better.. in case of people asking you to smile thats just weird imo

[@NiiiK999]

@@Sarablueunicorn thing with this situation is( and dont get me wrong i dont think its appropriate to randomly try to kiss someone) lets say you were interested he would have missed his opportunity to make a move Personally i never do something like that unless i am 99% sure that the other person would approve of it and i have also had lots of „backlash“ bc of that cuz i „didnt man up“ or „was a pussy for not making a move“ and thats not stuff that friends told me but the women i was „dating“ so its a really tricky situation sometimes. A very thin line between making a move and fucking something up hardcore :/ i hope you understand a lil of why he might have done this now :) its also possible he was a complete asshat tho not ruling that out

[@AV57]

Why are women attracted to brooding men, but view happy go lucky men as immature?

[@jivikakulkarni3481]

the fact that when a man does something (which is supposed to be done by everyone because its a basic necessity) its overly appreciated but when the same things are done by women its their duty?

[@bread3987]

hmm? women can literally be a not working and called an "independent" while men need to work their asses off with 14 hours work and wilk still he called as "weak"

[@shuhao2817]

yeah for example they could be taking care of their own baby and people would be like "oh my god you have such an amazing husband. you are so lucky" . but women never get praise for it

[@shuhao2817]

@@bread3987 I have not seen anyone call women "independent" for not working but yeah it's common that men are judged by it and women are sometimes not. judging men's capabilities on how much they work is wrong.

[@celestialbunny]

@@shuhao2817 my view is bc men are not seen as a caretaker that’s why they are praised when they do it. Even today (speaking from how it is in the west) it’s still so weird for men to be the stay at home parent and take care of the child(ren). It’s bc of societal standards. So the men who break out of that mold are praised, the same with women who are the ones who work and are independent are praised for it. That’s how i see it personally. Feel free to disagree.

[@shuhao2817]

@@celestialbunny I am not talking about homemaker husbands. I am talking about men just doing the simplest things like "babysitting" their kids for one day while mother is getting a free time outside or them just changing diapers. many people just go "oh you left your kid with your husband and you are shopping??? you husband is very nice to "babysit" the kids! he is amazing" like yes praise them for good parenting but these are always backhanded compliments which indicates how women shouldn't leave their kid alone or even get a free time. I even feel offended at vice versa too btw when women behave like men cannot take care of their own kids and they know how to do it better.

[@yunorezzy]

men are not praised for being “too manly” yall called that toxic masculinity

[@AdamPruett]

Yep, she's just regurgitating all the stuff that fills her empty head and makes her feel better about herself.

[@HPSFCali]

@@AdamPruettabsolutely true. This girl is crazy 😂

[@HPSFCali]

@Aren_that_gacha_creator she is absolutely delusional

[@Strangereditor3]

@@HPSFCali shut up

[@Kneuma434]

@Aren_that_gacha_creatorshe only makes videos on how women struggle, not once have i seen a video where she talks about mens struggles. Plus half this stuff isnt even true, no one gets praised for “being too manly”. If she’s talking about a physique or muscles, most men do it for themselves and not for others

[@edwindigital4598]

As a single father, I can confirm that there are plenty of men's restrooms that have changing stations.

[@garrettdelagrave2632]

Thank you.

[@dannydiamonds8682]

So many

[@artificiallyunintelligent4537]

And if they weren’t wouldn’t that be more misandrist than misogynist? Like, why shouldn’t men be able to change their baby

[@zeflona2]

My issue is (atleast in my area) they are far and few between, so im left having to change the kids on a suitable surface where ever is private enough. Good thing for portable mats eh...

[@edwindigital4598]

@@zeflona2 I haven't had to use many (thanking my kid for his timing 😂), but when I needed them, they were available.

[@schrodingersgay6167]

When someone tells me to smile more, I put on the CREEPIEST smile ever and stare at them UNBLINKING until they walk away like "wtf?"

[@ManoverSuperman]

Who actually does that? Old men?

[@schrodingersgay6167]

@@ManoverSuperman Mainly, yeah. Occasionally another girl says it, usually to be a b*tch, like "you'd be prettier if you smiled more" but really just those 2 types of people

[@lilgrogu1187]

Bro- this is honestly a good tip. It’s one of the reasons why I dont mind masks because I haven’t been asked that since😹

[@typicallyusual6984]

Pulling the Wednesday Addams, solid 👌

[@kaitlinmontgomery8166]

HAHA me too I'm happy I'm not the only one 💀🤣💜

[@Blue-ow3ns]

“when guys only respect girls they find attractive” i’m sure this works the other way too, it’s called pretty privilege and it’s very real

[@grizzlybear2702]

It’s called the halo effect. Women define sexual harassment and flirting purely based on how attractive the man is

[@BlakRainbow39]

Right, but men do it more and women are valued more (societally) based on their looks. So, when it’s done to women (by both women and men) it compounds ideas about women’s value.

[@prashand4899]

@@BlakRainbow39 well, men are valued more on their wealth. Same thing opposite gender. It's nature. No point bitching about it

[@Blue-ow3ns]

Alex Sandoval why do u think this girl has 1 million views on tik tok, she’s not ugly is she

[@shaii5526]

Yeah like when TikTok was simping over a guy that killed a mother and her baby saying 'he doesn't seems bad he needs another oportunity :(" because he is handsome lol Just realized I wrote like 3 things wrong, I was sleep deprived sorry

[@brandonnowonline6533]

We call those men "fanboys", more stores are adopting family restrooms, Attractive men are also more "respected", buying condoms is an awkward experience for all parties involved, im sure it would be just as weird if you saw a man buy birth control or tampons, going out at nighttime isn't safe for anyone, it doesn't matter where you are going or what you are doing EVERYONE needs to bring a friend, Swimming, hiking, sitting in a hot tub ALL of these things could turn into a tragedy, bring a friend. These things are only misogynistic if you view them as such, twist them into positives and try to live your life away from negativity.

[@TrentonF505]

Yeah buying condoms is just awkward for everyone and there’s no getting around it unless you buy online lol. One time I was buying a big box of condoms for me and my gf and I ran into my mom at the store 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@The_Indo_Aryan]

You're the only person with common sense.

[@petemuganeafrica7312]

You've spoken with logic. I don't know what world these women think we live in 😂

[@MentalDeviant]

There is a bias of seeing attractive people as good people. But I don't understand this because she says that attractive women are more respected but sometimes that's not the case they're actually look down upon because people assume that they only have good looks but no brains.

[@petemuganeafrica7312]

@@MentalDeviant Everyone has it bad in some contexts and in their own way. So all we can do is respect ourselves.. surround ourselves with people who respect us and reciprocate the respect. They'll always be people coming in with whatever bs but we don't have to entertain any of that.

[@af8kj770]

That fangirls thing is so on point.They literally riot for their sports team and think thats cool?how do they even have the audacity to point at fangirls?it is delusion and narcissism for me

[@af8kj770]

@Mr. Khan yes and the over obsession is really disgusting but thats not the point here. the difference is one is used to derrogate a whole gender while the other is blamed on testosterone and apparently seen as manly and "cool" and dont get me started on those twitch simps.

[@af8kj770]

@Mr. Khan ofc I have heard about them and I started my sentence how over obsession is disgusting. But the thing is the shit women get for this kinda beahviour (Whether they are a obsessed fan girl or not) is nowhere near what a man would ever get beacause that is so normalised when there is nothing normal about them.As a woman even if you love any sports people just assume you are there to simp but not simply love the sports or a fan of a singer or another artist.As if there is no in-between for us

[@af8kj770]

@Mr. Khan you may face things but that would not hold a candle to what we face on a daily basis.When it comes to victim definitely we are the majority and the video is about educating woman of what is absolutely not okay to be treated like as these kinda behaviour are so normalized.again I am definitely not dismissing whatever you guys face.Also please look how many men got triggered and the publisher even had to say to not be offended.Like nobody just wants to acknowledge the struggles but have to drag out their own agenda.

[@af8kj770]

@Mr. Khan the topic of this video is agenda for sure and that is being women.Dont tell me you didnt know the video is about women.And yes from the part of the world I am from women suffer far more than men.Regardless you are entitled to your opinion. So be it.Iwill not reply anymore clearly you have not gotten my point or i was unable to deliver my point across.

[@af8kj770]

@Mr. Khan regarding the rape allegation yeah some memn suffer because of false allegations and I am really sorry.But what about the thousands rape victim who go unnoticed.my parents fear for my safety everyday in this monster patriarchal society when people try to dehuamnize us women in disguise of "religion". Not to mention those mfs ignore their religion regardless and go out harass women any chance they would get.I can go on and on allday.It is not 50's for you guys not for us.trust me it feels like jaheli era sometimes here(assuming you are Muslim. Correct me if I am wrong)

[@unez1312]

Being a man I absolutely agree with the first fact, we shouldn't respect 'only' the girls that we find attractive, INSTEAD we shouldn't respect any girl at all, or any man for that matter, we should respect the person who deserves it without being disrespectful to anyone we don't know of.

[@plantedlife]

Well said

[@roshill2010]

Earning respect is the way to go. If someone shows respect to me I show them the same courtesy.

[@Venusflytrap-f2z]

Indeed, people are people no matter what they look like.

[@scotthartley5879]

🙏🏼

[@villyintheflesh]

@@roshill2010 "im just going to wait around for people to respect me and only then will i respect them back"

[@justagirl6316]

The 'too girly' bit is so on point. Girls CAN'T even be too much of what they are born as 🤦

[@kat3217]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies … not really… the term “girly girl” refers to a girl/woman who is into typically girly things nothing to do w age. Man-child implies age. I’ve never heard anyone say that liking makeup and stuff is “womanly” lmao. The word is girly

[@justagirl6316]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies the point is that its not fine to demean people when they behave according to thier very own nature, both in case of men and women.

[@yougauurt]

@@elegantwizard9670 because she was responding to a previous comment that mentioned age. 🙄 prove the point more please

[@thehamoodiandoctor5792]

@@elegantwizard9670 Oml mate, can’t you read? “Girly is more like man-child…” Man-CHILD.

[@TeamTwiistz]

Not remotely true. Girly and cute personalities are massive in popculture.

[@cinephile0620]

Men are not praised for being called “overmanly”. They’re actually insulted and called toxic

[@biglaw3216]

Fax

[@Asdf11074]

So true

[@keithnandin1053]

Yea I honestly don’t know what society women think we are living in….

[@EnigmaticAnamoly]

This lady is off her rocker. She's actually projecting her own shitty perceptions on everyone else.

[@Chinguun-hp1cu]

​@@keithnandin1053 1st class or nobility

[@caleightilson8030]

The diaper changing stations for sure should also be in mens restrooms. There are single fathers out there that would benefit greatly from the addition of a changing station in the men's room

[@jeffgayzose8129]

I've been in plenty of mens rooms with diper changing stations

[@itsalex8520]

Most places have that in men’s bathrooms too

[@martinusca1671]

Not only single fathers change their kids diapers lol

[@disgusted2704]

@@martinusca1671 That's your words not the commenter's

[@Dabawz_Lafrance]

Indeed

[@lovemusic6218]

Since I’ve started working at Walgreens I’ve noticed there are diaper changing stations in the men’s bathrooms and not just the women. Walgreens is very good at being diverse and helping others to feel seen and heard.

lol diVerSiTy

[@yasminnegash3968]

@ ?

[@dontburstmybubble686]

@ he's racist and sexist, neat.

[@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe]

How much did Walgreens pay you to say this?

[@wowMush]

😂 diverse. You’ve got to be kidding me.

[@disappeared3803]

When someone tells me that I need to smile more i just say "i can't when you're around"

[@kati192]

I ask them to tell me a joke or something funny then 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Koldyuki]

That's just rude , if someone says " you should smile more " , it's just a gesture why do people take it so seriously, I don't have a very friendly face cause of marks and most of my friends tell me to smile as it's cuter , I still don't smile but I get what they mean instead of getting offended 🤷

[@disappeared3803]

@@Koldyuki don't always assume that everyone means well. I tell them because I know they are a dick.

[@Koldyuki]

@@disappeared3803 if you know they are a dick , you are free to not give them a smile , but saying " I can't when you're around " makes you the very thing you despise , secondly you can avoid drama by just giving a slight smile and move on , results ? No fight , no drama and Voila your day isn't ruined

[@elle7981]

@@Koldyuki ​ that happened when I was a cashier as a 16 year old, a fat ugly 40 yr man came up to me and yelled SMILE, smile!!!! like mocking me and he wasn’t even smiling his face was just like this 😐 so maybe he should take his own advice

[@Compulsive-Productions]

I respect your opinions and I respect that at the end of the conversation u clarify that it's not an attack on men but civilizations have survived for years because people have different back grounds different beliefs and different cultural ethics it's what makes us unique and diverse from each other ,the problem with ours is everyone believes their opinons should be facts and accepted and we all must merge in this robotic mindset, I apologize to be the one to tell everyone your entitled to your opinion but keep them as that YOUR OPINONS. As not because it's triggers you it means everyone should be triggered by it thanks .

[@Compulsive-Productions]

I honestly think we need some common sense maybe I should start a podcast😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JacNyi.2010]

@@Compulsive-Productions pls do these women who never stop complaining are really pissing me off

[@lilatm840]

I feel like the diaper changing stations only being in women's bathrooms is also misandristic as it kinda implies that men can't be fathers.

[@wolfiiu]

absolutely !! they’re perfectly capable of looking after children and it shouldn’t just be assumed that the woman has to/is the only one who would want to take care of them:(

[@salemend6891]

But they won't talk about that.Some women just want to be on the victim end.

[@Foffgoogleistg]

It doesn’t imply that men can’t be fathers it implies that men shouldn’t have to look after the children, only work. That’s misogyny.

[@lilatm840]

@@Foffgoogleistg why does it only have to be a woman’s issue? You do know that single fathers exist, right? I never said it wasn’t misogynistic, I just implied that it’s also a men’s problem.

[@Foffgoogleistg]

@@lilatm840 I think we’re both thinking the same thing. My point is that society puts pressure on women to be the ones to look after the baby when as you said it should be equal or equally acceptable for men to do it. What I’m saying and what the video was saying is that the misogyny comes in when most women are expected to do these things and obviously single fathers and gay fathers find it hard because of these expectations.

[@teru_9921]

So last semester in college, I was close to this beautiful girl. She's stylish, mature, friendly... so as someone who didn't care much to put on make up and picks up whatever I can wear for the day, I was DULL compared to her. And that was more obvious when we were talking with a guy during lunch. The guy seemed so into whatever it was that she was talking about, meanwhile, whenever it's my turn, he didn't even look at me and kept talking over me as if I don't exist. Meanwhile my friend was visibly uncomfortable with the way he treated me, but I signaled her not to say anything. And then there was another instance where a guy blew smoke on my face as we were sitting at a cafe surrounded by my new college friends. Noone did anything and I just took it. It's sad that some people would put a lot of effort into making sure they're not attracted to someone. All I did was being nice and polite, I wasn't hitting on them at all. But at least that's how I can tell the difference between men who are worthy of respect and affection, and those who aren't

[@hereforthechaos7614]

I feel that. I was a wallflower and a tomboy until 19, then I started wearing dresses and skirts because I gained more self confidence. And all of a sudden, I would start getting catcalled, and have strangers cone to me and ask for my number out of the blue. I hate it.

[@elefent4642]

where i work one girl smiles a lot naturally and also has a nice smile. When I serve a customer at the till, I've heard like mid 20 yo dudes saying disgusting things about to her to me which implied that only because she had a nice smile (and looked like the girl next to, kind of normal etc) they thought she would be open to sexual.things or like a girl who is in private very sexual and.hot etc. Crazy how they tell me, a female, what they think about my coworker as if it's normal. I'm glad I'm not that attractive as creeps won't notice me.

[@Danny_V272]

He isn’t trying to fuck you so why bother, it’s just efficient he’s a busy guy, he’s got places to be and things to do

[@annakalii]

@@Danny_V272 wtf man

[@imsomething4432]

Same thing if you are a ugly guy too, girls won’t talk to you too. Not just a guy thing.

[@ava130]

I was just thinking about the fan girl thing the other day. Like my dad constantly shouts at the tv when watching sports and even though it’s annoying he isn’t called crazy. But when my sister watches a Harry styles concert clip and gets excited she’s a crazy fan girl??? Make it make sense. The amount of hate teen girls get for NO REASON is insane. Stop it.

[@vibez2806]

Nahh y'all fan girls are crazy.. y'all send dead threats and all... And yes fanboys are crazy too

[@gquiroz3291]

@@vibez2806 sports fans do that too though 🧐 don’t play stupid.

[@vibez2806]

@@gquiroz3291 nahh fanboys...hence what I said. Plus whataboutism. Y'all still crazy, nice try

[@cheeryberrie]

@@vibez2806 and fanboys are more violent, nice try tho

[@vibez2806]

@@cheeryberrie yeah first of all no and that literally don't change fangirl craziness.... Are you incapable of understanding simple logic??

[@wit-q5k]

as a guy, heres the answers to all these "misogynistic things" 1.It's called pretty privilege, and it's the exact same for both genders. 2. being called too girly is an insult as a way of saying you're a b*tch or too feminine, too manly is a way of saying you're toxic or too masculine. 3.fan girls are called crazy, and so are fan boys. The context of both are usually used when people idolize k-pop singers or anime. 4. It's considered a good thing because yes hes being safe, but when a woman does it its considered the same but assumptions can be made that shes a $lut because it can be used on several people whereas the man buying the condom can only be used on himself, basically all assumptions and no actual basis to this. 5. I literally dont even know, how is this considered misogynistic? 6. Duh, most people assume that the baby will be with the woman. Also if its only in women's bathrooms isn't that misandry? 7. Men also can't go out at night time, don't be stupid. But it is for different reasons that being getting mugged whereas women fear getting kidnapped. By the way, if the person who made this happens to see this, maybe think more logically before making a video about "misogyny" when literally all of these were just completely normal things or just assumptions by society.

[@wit-q5k]

@@officialmilkman491 when have you seen a male pro$titute? rarely if ever. Its literally more likely that the woman is going to use it for multiple people. The point of 4 isn't to say only woman do it its to say thats why its a sterotype. And what do you see at the end of it? "all assumptions and no basis".

[@uj12678]

fanboys are way more normalised, like music or rap fans and football versus Kpop or harry style fangirls. its pretty privilege but ppl only act like attractive men and unattractive men exist versus just attractive women, completely ignoring the unattractive women's existence. makes no sense because a man can use condoms with multiple people. that's a terrible reach and im sure you know it too. that's the issue - baby's are not only a woman responsibility. you try so hard to 'debunk' everything that you couldn't just use a bit more nuance instead of being annoying and combative

[@EricaRichter28]

Did you need to call her stupid?

[@wit-q5k]

@@EricaRichter28 I don't recall explicitly calling her stupid. Just because someone makes bad points and I tell them to think about what they say before they do say it doesn't mean they're stupid just means they didn't think about it twice before saying it.

[@thebandicootgamer]

@@EricaRichter28no, he’s just pointing a couple things out…

[@RimaEln]

Also, if a woman sits alone at a park, it's assumed she's a mother; but if a man sits alone at a park, it's assumed he's a creep. If a woman cries, she's strong. If a man cries, he's weak. When men speak up about ab*se, they are ridiculed and ignored. I'm a woman myself, but still know that *prejudice affects everyone equally. Edit: *grammar

[@regulatedfreestylevideos]

you realize much of these pressures on men you’re describing are due to other men’s reactions... important distinction

[@bpracer14able]

@@regulatedfreestylevideos you do realize that the women ridicule and put down other women way more than men do. Its not men talking shit behind your back you need to worrie about its that so called bestie.

[@regulatedfreestylevideos]

@@bpracer14able I don't disagree that women are often bitches to other women for a multitude of reasons.. but that's all super off-topic with what we were talking about so let's focus: my reply to OP's comment is explaining that the vast majority of people who would call a man weak for crying or speaking out on abuse... is other men. it's mostly other men perpetuating the 'sensitive man is weak alpha pansy' shit IRL and online.

[@johnnystella1964]

Yessssss that's a fact

[@layang2528]

@@regulatedfreestylevideos so true

[@brynnsoren1291]

In Australia we have separate rooms for changing babies diapers they are like parent rooms and they sometimes have play areas inside them.

[@aestori6567]

That’s so smart.

[@amyhorne5572]

We have family bathrooms in most big businesses, her in the states

[@ananya.dey19]

this is the way.

[@teresa123343]

We have the same here in the UK

[@mimig4378]

I saw that in France too not everywhere but in general it's a room in itself

[@kooshamokhbery]

Breaks me to always hear “ the fact that I can’t go out alone”. So unbelievably horrible to feel like you have to be on edge, almost paranoid, every second of your life that a girl spends alone. Edit: thank you so much for all the likes😭❤️

yeah it's such a dumb lie to believe because the media only covers crimes against women cause they wanna make women the victim even though men are more likely to experience violence

[@kooshamokhbery]

@ I mean I was more on women’s side tbh. I would say both women and men have difficulties, but some issues are uncomparable, like this. I’m just acknowledging the sh** most, if not all girls go through, on a day to day basis.

[@zoeywilliams4848]

@ I’ve seen you in several other response threads and all you’ve been saying is a lot of negative crap discrediting any source that says women are dealing with things differently than men, insisting that women are the problem. You’re just spreading your negativity and toxic masculinity everywhere just because you want someone to argue with you. Everyone knows the game you’re playing and you need to chill out and stop being an attention seeker🙄

[@zoeywilliams4848]

@Koosha Mohkbery the amount of respect I have for you is astronomical

[@meadowyj]

@ exactly lol, I've never been scared to go out alone, and I go out alone ALL the time

[@carlosblank6629]

Everyone tends to respect attractive people more than others...

[@biglaw3216]

Well duh

[@MentalDeviant]

Exactly, I think it's called the halo effect

[@LightningIgnis]

Yeah i mean that’s called judging a book by its cover and don’t lie everyone does attractive people are seen as more approachable

[@Kneuma434]

Spencer is an example. Everyone’s agreeing because she’s pretty

[@superchargedpetrolhead]

It is fascinating to see someone who is wrong yet so confident in their stupidity... Do you also believe that the entire world goes dark when you close your eyes???

[@gk7720]

Are u talking about urself or

[@davidkekstroll5836]

@@gk7720 why should the person? Haven't you watched this extremely stupid clip?

[@mrnoack3100]

Seem her pop up a few times always saying ridiculous things

[@inioluwaedema8973]

Well u people are all guys u don't expect u to find what she is saying smart

[@cleverchad8794]

@@inioluwaedema8973 wtf r u talking bout 😂

[@jamesstark1534]

I always felt that it was demeaning towards men that they only ever had diaper stations in women's or "family" restrooms, like they don't trust a man alone with his own child

[@anxioussartist7557]

I also think for a while when they first had the idea of having changing tables in womens restrooms, they didn’t consider the fact or it wasn’t common at the time period that there were single dads. Places should for sure update their mens rooms for this.

[@Emilia-dd3qh]

@@anxioussartist7557 the man doesn’t have to be a single dad to change his kids diaper

[@daddyrammus]

well, it really is that, but women will find a way to be victims of everything :)

[@420Witchling]

@@Emilia-dd3qh it really is about time periods. Back in the day it was considered “women’s work” to raise/care for your child 🙄 so nice, eh?

[@420Witchling]

@@daddyrammus where…. Where the f did that come from? He didn’t say anything even about women. You okay bud?

[@ErenShouldveDucked]

Respecting someone because they’re “attractive” goes both ways

[@AGuy-s5v]

Was literally saying the exact same thing. Why would you want to talk to me when the other dude looks like a femboy k-pop idol?

[@Gugugaga1673]

@@AGuy-s5v femboy k pop idol?

[@AGuy-s5v]

@@Gugugaga1673 You'd be surprised over the amount of women that will wet themselves over (what I can presume are grown men) males that look like women.

[@ydo3046]

Sadly but yes 😑

[@andyli3608]

@@AGuy-s5v how do they look like women?

[@cafdodo5629]

Men respect attractive women for the same reason women respect attractive men; it shows you are mature and take care of yourself. #2: Too girly is an insult because 'girl' is a younger and more immature term; think of it like being called too boyish. 'Man' is a term that is more adult and respectable & the same for goes for 'woman'. Idk abt the 3rd one, & I mostly agree on #4, but saying "you should smile more" could be condescending, but it's usually a genuine compliment; when girls tell me to "smile more" I smile & say "thanks", & I think most men would agree. #6 abt the diapers, that's where the urinals go. #7 get a gun, learn to use it, LEARN TO BE RESPONSIBLE, and no more trouble.

[@toptierprocrastinator]

How does being attractive in any world equate to hygiene? Because, sure, things like showering, skincare, fitness and good diet may be able to change SOME things about your appearance, but it cannot alter your genetics (especially your facial bone structure!) unless you get altering surgery.

[@cafdodo5629]

@@toptierprocrastinator Honestly, you kinda answered your own question. Hygiene plays a massive role in both how you physically look, (clean skin, hair, nails, clean shave, all that) but also how people subconsciously perceive you. No matter how good you look, if you're the smelly guy/girl, then people won't take you seriously and they'll think of you as sloppy, because, well, you most likely are. And on the facial structure one, obviously a lot of it is genetics, but there is also plenty that you can change for yourself. Start chewing gum throughout the day in order to exercise your facial muscles, and keep your jaw from sinking in towards your neck. You can also improve your mouth posture through mewing, the thing where you position your tongue to fill out the roof of your mouth. I've done all these things, from exercise, to improved hygiene, and overall posture, and I can honestly say they've all worked to make more attractive and respectable.

[@adrihudson8988]

A literal 11 year old whistled at me at a 4th of a July party. His dad looked proud. I will never forget that day.

[@Saki_World]

“Gotta teach ‘em young” 👨🏻‍🦰🍺 No but in all seriousness I would have gotten the fvck out of there like *that* Like HELL NO B!TCH

[@Shnitzel_Affe]

Bro wtf, also who the hell whistles at people. As a male I dont accept him

[@MarigoldHakaro]

@Inxception 😐

[@whyismyimageunavailable2378]

@Inxception your pfp says everything 🗿

[@blair7828]

Yo slap him in da face Asian techniques always work for broken things

[@winny7850]

I remember growing up and being so proud of my dad. He threw such a huge fit at the hospital that he worked at because of the diaper stations only being in the women’s restroom. Eventually they got tired of him complaining so they put one in every one of male restrooms.

[@agosesco7134]

That's king shit props to your dad

[@vernonscheekbones]

What a king

[@izzaghassani7187]

I agree with both "your dad is a chad" and "your dad is a king"

[@pinkdiamond1847]

You dad is cool

[@ChibiCookiexX]

Sometimes you need to raise your voice so people can finally realize the errors. Your dad is a total boss

[@matchaaalie]

And how gaming is a masculine hobby? I recently heard a story of a girl who genuinely loved gaming became gaming friends with a popular dude. After a while, her classmates started talking bad about her, calling her a pick-me, saying that she was just gaming because she liked that dude and wanted to flirt. And the funny thing is, the dude heard all that crap, thought the same and left her. She didn't care. Gaming is just a form of entertainment, why gender it? As someone who currently aiming for the game industry, this shit is just weird.

[@makaniistorm8664]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies Games is a huge range as well, got games targeted to boys, girls and everyone. Like COD is obviously designed for men but a girl can definitely be into what men like. I’m both neutral and into men stuff.

[@aaiemee]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies lmao what- cars, guns, explosives is a gender thing lmaoooooooooooooo

[@aaiemee]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies How to tell people youre a misogynist without saying youre a misogynist >.>

[@kat3217]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies you’re seriously replying to like every single comment. Found the triggered male everyone

[@daisy3869]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies Psychological studies show that those things are learned, not inherent. Only an idiot would really think "liking dolls and trucks, both recent creations" is something that would be encoded in chromosomes from thousands of years ago.

[@subar2010]

If a guy is too boyish it is an insult and if a gal is to too womanly it is a complement woman, man and boy, girl are levels of maturity

[@AdamPruett]

Yep

[@katiequinn2012]

In Australia we have a separate room entirely for nappy changes, we call it the family room. It’s for both genders

[@helenejapa]

Same in Brazil. But we call it "Fraldário" (something like "diaper room"). There's "family restrooms" too for parents to take the small children that no longer use diapers, but still can't go alone.

[@hmscience7944]

yeh!!

[@PosumPerson]

In America a lot of gas stations have those too and changing tables in mens restroom too.

[@EoinCarolan7]

Makes sense

[@latifamthembu4372]

Oh yes, in South Africa too

[@Grayment]

I‘m a dude and I have a story that kinda triggers me to this day: We‘ve made surveys for our graduation book and in the category „Who is the funniest ?“ just dudes were voted. Even though a girlfriend of mine who was pretty popular as well was such a genuinely funny person with a great sense of humor while the dudes were just making stupid Insta-Memes jokes and acted like clowns or annoyed the teacher with some bullshit. 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@choosei588]

yeah unfortunately not surprised

[@Olivertwiztd]

I’m literally in the top 3 funniest people that I know. I definitely have noticed that a lot of guys feel insecure when I make a really good joke bc they’re intimidated that I’m funnier than them lol. I’m glad you pointed this out, men love to claim women aren’t funny when literally the funniest, most wickedly clever and hilarious motherfuckers in my life are women

[@mina-simp]

Nooooo but women not funny because cant be funny If women funny, then what men? If women make joke, then joke girly, so men not do unless gay Only gay do only girl thing Joke man thing (This whole paragraph was /s(sarcasm) if you couldn’t tell)

[@AbcAbc-sp1od]

@@mina-simp okay, but was it english?

[@GarglingDischarge]

Or people could just believe they're funny... is it wrong to have an opinion of someone or something?

[@abillionlives_abl]

Define misogynistic. NONE OF THAT DEFINES misogynistic. You defined double standards

[@ABsirur]

They don’t even know what it means

[@PapaBigFlame]

Thank you lol

[@darrenattom659]

thank you i though i was the only one that thought this

[@swaee3]

Respect!!!

[@krisman1898]

Thank you.

[@MM3OG]

This whole video displayed misandry and disproved mysogny 😂

[@lance5511]

As a dad who was just talking about men's rooms not having changing tables, I agree. I've definitely seen changing tables in the men's rooms (usually at larger places like Walmart, Home Depot, Sears, etc) but most places don't have them in the men's room, and some don't have them in either, which really sucks.

[@animalistic670]

Your comment shall never get as many likes as the other changing table comment.

[@SHOOKgemini]

In Australia we have "parent rooms" which are completely seperate from the men's and women's bathrooms.

[@ahhh4117]

I worry about this issue when i get married and have kids. Im gay so we'll be 2 dads without a changing station. I remember when I worked at an establishment and this was an issue for several fathers. Not even just babies at a changing station like having to help young daughters was rough bc of how it looks to bring a child into the men's room. My heart goes out to you tho dude

[@verycoolguy5947]

You can just keep your baby at home how bout dat

[@shadeenah8791]

I never thought about this because I’ve never been inside a men’s bathroom.

[@mikejunior3373]

"When guys only respect women they find attractive" that definitely works both ways!!

[@ronlundstrom6456]

Outdated and simplistic

[@Alyson542]

It would if women did that but they dont. Maybe Ill start :) thanks for the inspiration

[@christianreynolds667]

@@Alyson542 Definitly works both ways!! I myself dont base my respect on attractiveness, but I have experienced numerous occasions where a woman has no respect for me because she does not find me attractive and I have seen men do it to ugly women. So ya you're clearly egocentric/self-centered

[@jd2161]

@@Alyson542 bulllllllllllll.

[@daniell6466]

So true

[@03dboy79]

I love how women are completely fine with double standards when it benefits them but when they benefit men it’s not right at all 😂

[@DLane-vo8qo]

Exactly.

[@yungactivist]

Yup

[@DangerWildman420]

Facts

[@rafaeldavi6125]

@@DangerWildman420 dax

[@jchannel7486]

What do you mean with double standards?

[@ChrisR2020]

First things first, we don't even see women we don't find attractive. You are invisible to us. By the way, respect is not a default position. Respect is earned, even to those we do find attractive. We might flirt with an attractive girl, but that does not mean she has our respect yet.

[@misspanda9078]

As a girl who accidentally went into a man's bathroom at the mall, they do have a diaper changing station.

[@themanwholivedv275]

I guess she doesn’t have the brain power to remember. They are in every bathroom

[@fruitloops3718]

She's spewing the propaganda she was indoctrinated with by her gender studies class.

[@KingOfTheSeas_]

I believe it's a law in the United States that they are in every bathroom. But I'm sure she knew that 🙄

[@MTBgiant2009]

@@KingOfTheSeas_ yeah its the same thing up here in Canada, least every bathroom I've been in had them.

[@h.f6364]

@@fruitloops3718 let me guess, you lost custody babe?

[@angelgirlcaitie]

it's amazing how many ppl think equal rights have been achieved, that this is "just the way things are", and just generally resisting/tuning someone out or debating equality. I really don't think it's that hard and I envy certain movements because we've been fighting for equal rights for literally half the human populace for over 100 years and haven't come as far as some of them. Human beings, despite superficial differences, have the same value as one another - period.

as women gain rights their happiness decrease, and it wasn't only woman fighting for rights, and you talk as if women don't have the same rights even today lol, you have the same rights and you don't ever needed to go to war or get drafted, literally the privileged sex

[@Undeadsweater]

@ An extremely popular and likely theory as to why women’s happiness has declined as their rights have grown is that societal expectations have not changed as much as legal rights. This means that many women today have jobs, yet are still expected to shoulder nearly the entire burden of raising kids and doing housework, while their male partner has a job and doesn’t do as many domestic duties. This unequal and unfair distribution of labor in the home inevitably leaves women less happy. If we want women to be happier, we must stop enforcing the idea that moms are automatically responsible for all domestic duties regardless of employment status. Another reason women are less happy is because as they have more rights, their expectation of treatment becomes higher. This is like an abused child growing up and realizing that their treatment is wrong. They may report higher happiness as a child while they are unaware how much better they could/should have it, and as an adult once they escape the bad conditions they may report lower happiness due to new found awareness of how fucked up their life is/was. People who have higher expectations and are more critical of the world are more likely to report lower happiness, but that doesn’t mean that their criticisms aren’t valid. Also, there are some ways in which women still have it harder legally in the US, including abortion rights being curtailed in some states. But overall I would agree that in America (and Canada and some European nations) women have equal rights. I do think it’s unfair that women are not required to sign up for the draft, and would be fine with that changing. Women also are more likely to gain custody of their children in family court, regardless of wether or not they’re the better parent. This assumption of moms being by default the “domestic” parent hurts both women and men in many ways. Even though some countries have equal legal rights for women, there are more complex societal systems that keep women in disempowered positions. Women are more likely to be human trafficked, face abuse when they go into the military, be r*ped/sexually assaulted, be brushed off by doctors as overreacting when reporting health issues, face certain forms of undermining and emotional manipulation in relationships, have body dysmorphia or eating disorders, and much more. Obviously these are all due to unfair societal standards (that also hurt men), and we should work to change them. Inequality does not stop at legal rights. Don’t act like culture doesn’t matter. If a culture is toxic, people SHOULD work to change it, and not just be complacent because legal rights are there. (Also, if you look globally, most countries do NOT have equal rights for women.)

[@dontburstmybubble686]

@@Undeadsweater let's not even mention that a man probably defined the operational definition of "women's happiness"

[@solus8685]

And don't even get me started with those guys who say "women live life on easy mode" 💀 I've unfortunately met way too many of them

[@DreamDear]

@@solus8685 it’s truly unfortunate how many of them. I’m thankful I have good friends who arent like that though. I would never keep sexist guys like those in my life 😷

[@Xingaling]

Or like how when women are taking care of their children they’re “taking care of their children” but when men take care of their children they’re “babysitting” like no. He’s taking care of his child. He’s ✨parenting✨.

[@jessicam2840]

Men with children are simultaneously either father of the year for doing any active parenting, or they're treated with suspicion as predators for being with/around kids at all. Then on the flipside, remember when there were a ton of daytime talk shows that moms who left their kids with dad for even a little bit or worked outside the home were seen as horrible and abandoning and responsible for everything from autism to the downfall of civilization? We're so alienated even within the family, it's really sad. =T

[@Shmitty_A]

Omgg Yess!!

[@Nahhh_ru]

What

[@dylan_was_taken]

@@bryanperez9020 You're*, and no he isn't.

[@bryanperez9020]

@@dylan_was_taken Don’t give a fuck about the spelling correction mate it’s a KZbin comment section not next weeks school paper. I misread the original comment so apologies.

[@Definitely.not.Ana.2013]

Bro some guy in my class told a girl that she is gay because she is skinny and my blood was boiling because that just got me so mad and she didn’t even do nothing to him but all I’m saying is that people need to stop coming for bodies like just stop because it’s really getting annoying and I’m not trying to offend nobody and I’m really sorry I’m I did❤❤❤

[@kidsythe]

Trust me everybody treats attractive people different. I lost over 100lbs once, it was like a light switch suddenly I was the man. Also diaper changing stations are in men restrooms where I'm at.

[@interestedbystander196]

Agreed, or in special unisex restrooms, or dedicated change rooms (I.e. not in with the toilets).

[@Clearskies3848]

That’s very good. Your area is very open. Allot of places in my city doesn’t have diaper changing stations in male bathrooms. Heck they barely even have toilets in the male bathrooms. It’s almost all stalls

[@Madoka_The_Witch]

Not to be that guy but i couldnt care less if anyone looked ugly or beutiful just if theyre a good person

[@Clearskies3848]

@@Madoka_The_Witch no one asked

[@Madoka_The_Witch]

@@Clearskies3848 wow you are just a very fun person arent ya so how many friends ya got?

[@bestboykoo]

As a fangirl, its so true. We get literally SO MUCH hate for NOTHING.

[@karlhans4116]

🤣🤣🤣 fan girls are of course crazy

[@keziagreste]

Exactly... The examples are just everywhere 🙂 Of course they gotta judge us as if they are the perfect snowflake❄️

[@guy7026]

The fan girl thing is because I've seen fan girls chase a celebrity so they can drink out of their empty water bottles that they recycled

[@AyushBhadouria]

Said by another crazy Stan 🗿

[@citris_runaway]

But we are definitely crazy.

[@theinternettrashcan]

i've never understood the whole men's restrooms not having changing tables thing. like hello? there's something called single dads?? i am aware that some men's bathrooms have changing stations. (although all the men's bathrooms i've been in have not, maybe it's just where i live 🤷🏻‍♀️) i am just saying that ALL of them should have changing stations, like women's does.

[@sergiozambonino372]

Have you ever enter the men’s bathroom? Lol the mall on my city has one in our bathroom

[@pro_x_ninja1382]

@@sergiozambonino372 ong idk what they are talking I’ve seen plenty of changing stations in men’s bathrooms

[@mariomio8651]

Where do you live? Every place of business i know has a baby changing station in the mens room

[@jaredmelseth9456]

Literlly, every single bathroom on my college campus has one

[@ryantusmc]

As a single dad of 2 I wanted to scream at so many different establishments for not having a changing table in the men's room. Better not be giving me shit when I'm changing my baby in the backseat of my car in the parking lot :)

[@eathh_23]

The last 1 is the same for men, it just depends on your neighborhood. A guy is in risk getting attacked at 02:00 walking alone as much as a woman does

[@illegirl2819]

Attacked by OTHER MEN. That's what the point is honey

[@eathh_23]

@illegirl2819 stop victim blaming honey. Innocent men shouldn't take the blame for the behavior of dangerous men honey...

[@illegirl2819]

@@eathh_23 Did the point flew over your head?💀

[@eathh_23]

​@illegirl2819 no it didn't, it fly over my head, because I don't care about the gender of the perpetrator unlike you. I don't disregard the victim based on gender unlike you.

[@illegirl2819]

@@eathh_23 You're so dumb 💀 Do watch the video again and read the whole thing

[@herecomesfreshfire1291]

When you have good leadership skills as a man you get told you’re strong and independent. But if you’re a woman you’re ‘bossy’ We cant do anything right

[@inski666]

Thats so right. Like, whatever FACE youre making when just literally doing nothing is bad. (I'm referring to the "resting bitch face" but idk if thats really the same)

[@IvanVujić-r5h]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies And it's making them whine over the tiniest of things that are one-sided.

[@kat3217]

@Anarchy Supreme w/ Anchovies dude if you’re gna try to make a neutral sounding point maybe try not to end it w a sexist blanket statement

[@Hedge_witch]

Taylor Swift said it best "Men react to something, a woman can only ever overreact". There are so many double standards and a whole different language for women.

[@cheekyrickydicky]

That's bullshit

[@elliepape6755]

I was in a winners and a man had to change his baby. This poor man had to leave the door open a crack so no one would think he was in there for the wrong reasons. He seemed kind of stressed but also not like it’s the first time he had to do that. The poor man just wanted to change his baby

[@michaelbusch3075]

This, people seem to think it’s somehow an attack on woman that they’re only in the woman’s bathroom. That literally only has negative consequences for men. If you’re a woman, be glad it’s even there for you

[@elliepape6755]

@@michaelbusch3075 it’s misogynistic because it’s only in women’s bathrooms. Women want them everywhere because it’s not only women’s responsibility to handle babies. Women want them to be in every bathroom

[@michaelbusch3075]

@@elliepape6755 the metal discomfort this may cause you is nowhere near the physical discomfort a man and or the baby feels when he literally can’t even change his own child’s diaper. I understand your point, but this issue doesn’t actually change you or any other woman’s life in any way.

[@elliepape6755]

@@michaelbusch3075 I understand, but the whole idea that only women are taking care of babies is the bad idea. It may not affect us physically, but mentally misogyny that women battle everyday

[@michaelbusch3075]

@@elliepape6755 it’s a discussion worth having, but you have to be careful you don’t use that to overlook a bigger issue. For example, one could say it’s very sexist that men are expected and are pressured by society to provide because men have a disproportional amount of high paying jobs. Yes that’s an issue, but the real issue is workplace prejudices against woman. So if you saw a group of men acting like victims for having a high paying job, you’d tell them to be happy they at least have a high paying job. It’s not a perfect analogy but I think you get my point

[@ola171]

A guy respecting you only afte they find out that you have a bf, mostly when the bf is around (and technically the guy isn't respecting you but rather your boyfriend and his "property"...)

[@ManoverSuperman]

That’s the most fabricated sh*t I’ve ever heard.

[@ola171]

@@ManoverSuperman Good for you, you haven't met guys like that 😊👍🏽 A majority of the guys are chill tho. Jus like a majority of the girls.

[@probablypositivity8918]

Yup, or respecting "I have a boyfriend" and not respecting "I'm not interested." There doesn't need to be a "why" or pestering and nagging. A simple no should be enough, you shouldn't need another man to claim you to be listened to. Me saying no makes me just as off limits as when I have a boyfriend. It seems like so many guys don't understand that.

[@Sarablueunicorn]

@@ManoverSuperman It's not. I was isolated and held by a dude in a club on my way to the bathroom. He hold my arms and said i should stay with him, so i told him "ok i will stay with you but i will have to tell my friends because if i take too long they will come looking for me". The guy let me go and said "comeback in 5 minutes". When i reached my friends and told what happened, the male friend in the group thought i was exaggerating and the guy was just flirting with me. Until the dude popped up and punched the wall next to me saying "i told you to he back in 5 minutes". My male friend was horrified and hold his arm down "Don't touch her!!" and the dude was like (to my friend) "oh is she your girlfriend? If she is I'm sorry dude." And my friend said "yeah I'm her boyfriend so get out" and the creep still turned to me "Is he really your boyfriend?". My friend just pushed him away and said "don't talk to her and get out". He just apologized to my fake "boyfriend". Interesting, is when i told what happened i wasnt taken seriously and i was overreacting and the guy was just "flirting", until he saw with his own eyes the guy punching the wall next to me and ordering me. Men always think we are exaggerating or that we gave the guy "hints". I didn't know the dude from anywhere, he just took the chance i got away from the group to use the bathroom and isolated me. Hate clubs with my gut.

[@jesaea]

@@Sarablueunicorn that's horrible, I hope you're feeling better now. And no, you didn't do anything wrong

[@MickeyRosa-41169]

My boyfriend literally practices changing our daughter's diaper blind fold at home so he can change her diaper in public. He has so many women come up to him saying he does a GREAT job babysitting. He absolutely LOVES telling them that he isn't babysitting he's parenting. And his the stay at home parent. People say he was prash in to doing this cause he got a girl pregnant at the age of 17 . He just says he isn't the one who got me pregnant to begin with. It's not a chore his made to do because of a mistake, it's a give he chose! I love this guy!❤❤❤

[@Kamronavirus]

When has anyone ever been praised for being “too manly”?

[@stardust628]

Which world you're living in?

[@Urmumbigfatgay]

@@stardust628 the real world

[@plaguetheair8975]

A man is never to manly lmfao unless you’re Keanu Reeves

[@trentflood903]

Ron Swanson.

[@kin9ky407]

“Too” manly…nah never heard that one

[@velocityedits4369]

The fact that when a girl "friend zones" a guy she doesn't like its ok but when a guy rejects a girl its considered as "he's playing her"

[@cacapeepeepoopoohead1632]

@@KC-pw7vr it works both ways dude..

[@valeriapereda9809]

Is it ok though? In my experience guys tend to victimize and say "that girl doesn't appreciate boys with good feelings and intentions, she's so mean"

[@yoitwasntme]

I have never ever heard of this 😂 Every time I have heard a guy use the term “friend zone” is they think that because they like a girl she should want to be with him and when he isn’t he uses the term “friend zoned” to throw himself a pity party. Only time I’ve ever seen a guy reject a girl and it’s considered a “player” move is in the movies or from actual guys saying they are playing her and are too full of themselves. Normal people take rejection and move on. Even if it kinda sucks, it’s just a rejection.

[@allencroud9505]

Double standards

[@Emiturbina]

@@valeriapereda9809 Exactly, people aren't mature enough to start a relationship and that shows it

[@Wbc1811]

I love how the things she is pointing out, girls do to guys too. Especially only respecting the beautiful ones

[@jonvaldez8741]

Exactly…she is so brainwashed!

[@Empty_bag]

Exactly she’s just another slave to the matrix

[@josephvodo4868]

one who lives in a glass house shouldn't throw stones

[@josephvodo4868]

or pot calling the kettle black

[@NY-or5hh]

shes talking about misogynistic stuff she never said women don't do that

[@Ilikecatsalot1]

Video is about misogyny and the struggles women go thru Comments are mad men crying about how ‘we struggle too’

[@_mar1elle_edits]

REAL LMAO LIKE IF YOURE SO PRESSED GO WATCH A MENS VERSION

[@Lolwoo12]

Fr bro the men can’t everyone that women have problems too 😭

[@thebandicootgamer]

I mean hey both genders do struggle, you gotta see both sides 🤷

[@BrookIsDead]

Actually, ik you made this 2 months ago so it might be different, but most the comments I see are men and women agreeing, or sharing that personal experience, like there was one shared that him and his mom went to a public restroom and saw a man sitting in between the two stalls that separated the men and women’s whilst holding a baby, it turned out the baby needed a diaper change, but there was no changing station in the male one, so he just sat there for 30 mins asking females if they could change the baby for him or go in with him so it doesn’t seem creepy, he asked the mom and she said yes.

[@CapedBaldy47]

None of the men are mad there just stating there experiences but crappy women like you into care to think that women are the only ones that struggle. Probably grew up without parents if that’s your out look on everything

[@noname-nk7zk]

May I also say, when a girl is polite to a boy, she has a crush on him. When a boy is polite to a girl, they’re just being respectful. Like-? I can’t tell someone what page to flip to during school because everyone will think I have a crush on them. It’s so stupid

[@daviddowling2822]

Not really depends on the people.

[@olaffrencken4511]

Maybe this is on your school, but on my school is it reversed.

[@grizzlybear2702]

Assuming a girl is interested in you because she is polite is far to optimistic. The reason they may feel that way is because they were so deprived of affection that they become overly optimistic.

[@hunacean]

When I was in Highschool, and to an extent even today, I did this too. I was just so starved for affection, and so rarely did people show ot for me that even common politness from girls made my week.

[@marleesgrace]

Yeah I mean I have this friend from like 4th grade and he like men more than women and my neighbor saw his name on my phone and was like “YoU DoNt NeeD To Be CaLlinG No boyS” like- sir- I’m gay first of all and we’re children stop romanticizing us that’s creepy ty

[@dnveas4571]

My husband and I get so frustrated that there are no changing stations in the mens restrooms, he likes to tae the kiddos everywhere but had to start only taking them to places that had changing stations he could get to, thankfully more places have started making “family restrooms” which is incredibly helpful for both mom and dad!

[@Harshit-zf3fb]

You have changing stations!!? In India , you can be so trapped with a child. Strollers are fancy in itself , changing station are luxury.

[@501BlakeG]

I’ve seen diaper stations in many bathrooms! Maybe it’s area specific, or maybe there r a lot of single fathers where I’m at, but I’ve seen them in most bathrooms.

[@TheRosaskye]

When I had my son my husband brought our daughter to see me. He had to wait till he got to the hospital to change her

[@Eucis93]

Why not just go to the changing station anyway? I’m assuming they’re in a single toilet bathroom with a lock like it should be, otherwise the problem isn’t the gendered bathroom but rather expecting people to strip their babies in front of strangers

[@TheUnplannedLove]

@@Eucis93 most changing stations are in the women’s only bathroom and within a step or two from the sinks. In my area they have changing stations in the men’s bathrooms as well, but still are outside of a stall.

[@cortroxx85]

Ugh- the “you should really smile more” I felt that.

[@schae1298]

Same here, I don't know how to feel about it :'(

[@soumya5832]

Me too ✋

[@ManoverSuperman]

Like in what context does anyone say that to you? Some old dude at Denny’s?

[@kmhoov19]

I like to think that I can reply with "You should talk less, maybe global warming wouldn't be so bad".

[@lilgrogu1187]

@@ManoverSuperman it really could be anyone. I get told that by young guys, older guys, daytime or night time. They usually try to stop me and get my number and it’s just annoying. It’s like a form of negging (to insult someone then compliment them it’s fucking weird) like usually they say, “you’d be prettier if your smiled” and it’s just like… no one fucking asked??😹 but since the pandemic I haven’t been told that so that’s pretty cool lol

[@lemon-s5l]

Girrrl your sooooo right ,and I like how she respectful at the same time❤

[@josephvillacres8277]

When a woman is beating up a man in public, people mind their business(seen this happen very often)… but if the guy pushes the woman to get her off or tell her to stop in an aggressive tone people are quick to ask the woman if she is okay/ ready to defend her from the man…it goes both ways and it will most likely never stop

[@rasa.s.b.z]

At least someone has our back

[@S6carguy]

@@rasa.s.b.z if you’re a girl fuck you a girl chucked a brick at me but when i fought back onononono

[@Sidon-b1k]

Bruh im dead💀 nigga said chucked a brick🤣🤣

[@Clapts]

@@Sidon-b1k he from the UK 😂

[@anele4246]

This reply is a problem the creator is raising awareness on misogyny and then you do the opposite.

[@gehadsamir5663]

Respecting someone who you think is attractive is soooo on point! And it goes both ways actually, it's so frustrating and I wish I could punch every single person who does this

[@ThanoSalt]

Finally someon who respects that this happens to everyone and shouldn't be an issue to be noticed and acknowledged to happen to one gender.

[@mingolaflare6224]

I have noticed this too. I try to be respectful to everyone, whether I find them attractive or not. I unfortunately do notice I will generally pay more attention to an attractive girl over one I don’t find attractive, but I still am as respectful as possible to both. I went from fat as a kid/teen to fit and tall. I see the difference in how people treat me. Men listen to me and respect more now because I’m 9/10 times the bigger guy, and to women I’m apparently “funnier”, “smarter”, or “more interesting” now because I’m more attractive. Unfortunately, it’s not just misogynistic. It’s a problem on both sides.

[@SloppyPuppy]

@@mingolaflare6224 Likewise but evolution made you that way, i personally do that however more rarely due to physical attraction but rather due to intellectual. So it is normal, the only question is what are you doing not to rely only on one trait of your existence.

[@roshill2010]

You have to earn respect. Even if a person is hot Af and is disrespectful to everyone around them has no respect form me.

[@virgorisingtheory]

@@roshill2010 Nope. Respect is bare minimum. You don't go around being disrespectful to people and then tell them "well you have to earn it" if you want respect, you give it, until someone does something that requires you to take it away. Respect is a given.

[@marleesgrace]

The diaper changing station is not JUST misandry or misogyny. It’s both. Honestly you guys need to open your mindset to everyone’s perspective, not just you and your experience. Mysogony: It reinforced the stigma that women have to have children and that’s why there here AND it reinforces housewife. Misandry: It’s a huge disadvantage for men who have kids and men that have kids would be seen as odd.

[@marleesgrace]

@Acolyte of Dagon excuse me?

[@marleesgrace]

@Acolyte of Dagon No.. she’s a feminist? Idk if your trying to project your insecurities onto her or something but she cares about people. Have you seen her other posts? She constantly helps people love themselves, and she clearly means it.

[@marleesgrace]

@Acolyte of Dagon I mean I don’t think so, she’s really kind to a lot of her followers. You do you

[@KuromiLaBella]

@Acolyte of Dagon who hurt you?

[@izzebreezy1554]

@Acolyte of Dagon sorry let me just over analyze your eyes to see if you mean what you say when talking to a phone. You can't really tell emotion in someone's eyes unless it's drastic Plus it's scripted because she came up with the idea before filming so the thoughts aren't fresh.

[@_thebigsteve]

Agreed on almost every aspect of this completely and it should go the other way around as well. The one difference I could point to would be the fan girl/ sports fan comparison. For the context of fan girl that often is in the context of an individual or group of men like a boybqnd or celebrities that women have sexual attraction for. Most men (at least to my knowledge) dont have the sexual attraction for their sports team. A better example would be fangirling for a boyband being shunned but fanboying for celeberity women or a female musician pubically being accepted or encouraged hypocritically. Other than that on point.

[@missticwolf7659]

I remember in my first relationship, the looks I would get when I bought condoms because my ex didn’t want to use protection, but I wanted to protect myself. Now with my current partner who treats me so much better, I realized it was so wrong and ladies don’t stay in a relationship if you’re words aren’t heard.

[@nicolenewsome4863]

Very true. I got the same looks.

[@comosediceesoo681]

Well it's probably that it looks kinda shocking those things look like coffee filters

[@Jonathan-tw4xm]

Can't believe you gave your first time to him. Seems like he was kinda trash

[@comosediceesoo681]

@@Jonathan-tw4xm so she should have gave it to you right ?

[@nicolenewsome4863]

@@comosediceesoo681 lol.

[@littlemissuniverse8467]

Can we also talk about how more stores like Walmart and Target should have family room? A family room is NOT a restroom, but a room were parents with babies can go to change diapers, feed the baby, and let the baby take a nap. There's one in a Walmart I go to, but it's currently labeled as a Maternity room

[@cinderella9202003]

Go in it anyways. They won’t kick you out. I’ve actually seen quite a few family bathrooms in different stores. It’s hard because if a store was set up originally one way then they have to do a major remodel which can cost a lot of money to accommodate the changing demographic which will then reflect in prices. They have to weight if they are going to get their investment back. A lot of the older stores were built in times where parents didn’t really take their kids shopping. I remember going with my mom a few times as a kids but often times we stayed home or went to my grandmas. In the times I did go, there weren’t really any kids in the grocery store. It was pretty much all adults. So there wasn’t really a need for the family restrooms. Men’s and women’s were enough

[@sweetfreeze5528]

Why would I want my baby to take a nap at Walmart? I understand a space for changing and nursing, but a nap?

[@littlemissuniverse8467]

@@sweetfreeze5528 you don't leave your child in there, and only one family can use it at a time. It especially helpful for new parents who are also tired from lack of sleep. You go in, lock the door, and there is a cot in there for your baby. And in case there is any confusion, there's no toilet in there, it's not a restroom

[@littlemissuniverse8467]

@@cinderella9202003 a family room isn't a restroom, there are no toilets or sinks in there. There is a chair, a cot for the baby, a mini fridge, and a shelf

[@cinderella9202003]

@@littlemissuniverse8467 wow I’ve never seen that before. Any Walmart I’ve ever been in it’s a family restroom. I’ve never seen a Maternity Room in a store before but definitely not with a place for baby to sleep. That’s pretty odd

[@ghostofnothing123]

When a guy tells me to smile more I like to say "I smile a lot, just not at you"

[@MsLenepigen]

😹👍

[@fridaal634]

I'll use that from now on 👌🏿

[@joseortegaa2349]

Is it ok if I tell a friend that is a girl that she should smile more. I genuinely want them to cheer up. There’s nothing more to it. I’m confused by hearing that it’s misogynistic, 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤔

[@fallpetals]

@@joseortegaa2349 I think if you have good intentions, and say it in a way where it’s not just like “oh, but I like your smile!” rather, “The others, including me, wont be able to see that smile we love seeing!”

[@joseortegaa2349]

@@fallpetals thanks for the advice. I never knew random dudes went up to girls and said that. But then again guys can be creeps so idk what I expected.

[@lucaswells933]

“When guys only respect women they find attractive” women do the exact same.

[@Dutiyf]

no? A misogynistic man only looks at them in a relationship where he is only physically attracted to a woman and cannot love her emotionally as a person. I understand that you want to try to point out your problems, but you can make a video about it instead of complaining here, and remember this is targeting a specific group of men.

[@D402S]

​@@DutiyfWomen literally do the exact same thing. Stop deflecting. I have seen loads and loads of women only wanting korean guys regardless of their personalities, etc just because they look good. Stop being a misandrist. Women and men both are shallow creatures. Women aren't any angelic creatures.

[@incative]

@@Dutiyf Thats such a stupid point, in reality looks determine if you take care of yoursef or not. If i see someone overweight ect and they CLEARLY dont take care of them selves why would i want to be with them?

[@Dutiyf]

@@incative LMFAO?? Alr u don't wanna date a fat person, don't, these are ur standards why are you acting like crazy bro 😂 Basically this isn't related to my point

[@Dutiyf]

@@incative LMFAO?? Alr u don't wanna date a fat person, don't, these are your standards, why are you acting like crazy bro 😂 Basically this isn't related to my point

[@samanthasmiles9112]

I'm proud to say that - at my work place - a stay at home Dad came to me and told me that their are no changing stations in any of the men's restroom. I told him "you're kidding me". I don't go into the men's restrooms within our community (I'm a female) so the next day I arrived to work early and checked. He was right. I petitioned to have changing stations put in EVERY restroom. It was approved. I couldn't believe it though.

[@muhdmukhleess9313]

@Michael B Brilliant 😂

[@mazwrld]

At my work place they have in both bathrooms. I’m im Canada maybe that’s why???

[@hollywooddc1708]

Anybody else think this girl suffers from entitled tik tok white girl syndrome? You can't get more privileged than that

[@ScarletTsubasa]

Not being able to eat an ice cream cone without hearing certain kinds of disgusting nonsense is definitely something that needs to stop Women being expected to clean up while the men and boys get to sit down and relax after a meal at family get togethers. The excuse was that they work hard. Um, women have jobs too Disclaimers on videos in an attempt to remind people it's "Not ALL men", only to still attracted that crowd anyway Women at work expected to clean and tidy up the work space, make coffee, etc even when it is not apart of their job description

[@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe]

Men most definitely are expected to clean and tidy up their workspace just as women are expected to as well. I have never seen a woman cleaning up another person’s workspace before. There are many families that have women doing housework while the men go out and work. It’s a give and take situation. Sure, many women have jobs but in that instance the dynamic is always different in the family. Still a give and take situation, but different. What seems to be implied in your comment is that men just sit around all day and women are expected to clean up when that is not the case.

[@ScarletTsubasa]

@@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe It is fortunate that you never experienced what I have then. However, this is my truth, what I have personally lived. Judging by the number of likes, it seems many others also share at least some of these experiences

[@Miasofia101]

@@ScarletTsubasa I agree with you. I’ve lived all my life expecting to clean up the mens mess in my family. While they do wtv they do. It’s very sad and watching these makes me see what I really go through while growing up.

[@wowMush]

It’s not my fault that I get excited over seeing an 80 year old woman enjoy a nice frozen custard in a waffle cone..

[@Miasofia101]

@@wowMush …

[@Zazabazaa]

I agree with all of it and I also don't think it's hating on men to say "hey, dads exist too and they change diapers, give them a diaper changing station" Personally I liked it when public restrooms would have the changing station in the disabled stall because that meant either or both parents had access to it

[@romellpoellinetz7435]

I have barely seen any male restrooms without changing stations in the handicap stall

[@Kasyom]

I started balling 🤣🤣 at her first point: 1. Men only respect women that they find attractive - Bitch, like as if she would entertain the nerd working at Best Buy. To be fair she could be really into how AMD is better than Intel, and how cool that guys Anime and Manga collection is. But when you realistically think about it... I am just saying... In your heart of hearts do you think this woman would, [a.] Call him later to get to know him or [b.] Report him for sexual harrasment These are the same women who say "Women deserve better", and preach that "woman should not lower thair standards". I wonder if she heard of the principal "practice what you preach"? I don't claim to follow that principal, but neither do I preach self righteous bullcrap.

[@dankmoon949]

Alot of what she said applies to both genders only one that doesn't is the diper In one bathroom no man feels safe outside I'm sure other men arent comfortable buying condoms after all we basically show the cashier out d*ck size many men/boys are told to smile more and you cant tell me women dont treat better looking men well better if a handsome man said "hey baby why dont u some sit over here" it would most likely be taken as flirting when if a not so good looking guy said the same thing he would be a pervert/loser/creep this video is only looking at it thru 1 sec of eyes without asking about the other side basically just assuming so she cam prove point without research edit: just so this isnt pointed out as something only one sided no one likes fanboys just like no one likes fan girls and being too manly also has bad associations with it basically meaning ur a roided out meat head and even so saying someone is girly/ manly isn't an insult a man can be girly just like a woman can be manly same concept of how a woman can be handsome and a man can be beautiful it's just personality/ looks I haven't heard that as an insult since 2nd grade with girly cooties

[@Ellie-bj2uw]

I would never entertain the nerd working at best buy because that's not where I go to mingle or flirt. When I'm at best buy, I'm not thinking about the geek, I'm thinking about buying stuff and I'm thinking he's just doing his job. Idk, usually I'm at best buy for any reason other then guys so I probably would care more about buying the shit I need and going home, not flirting. If it was any other casualer setting, maybe but at a store tryna buy shit nah.

[@joegormley9292]

Lots of mens bathrooms have diaper changing stations… don’t know what she’s on about

[@gauloiseguy]

Imagine being a responsible dad who does his own share and goes out alone with his infant. Now this infant needs a diaper change and the only place to do so is the ladies bathroom. It's not just mysoginist, it's also sending very bad signals to men. Luckily it's changing fast where I live. Either in the public section of the bathroom or both at the ladies and gentlemen section.

[@memeju1ce]

this is why feminism is for everyone. misogyny affects men too!

[@elenafari_]

the diaper thing is just too important. i was once just washing my hands in a restroom and a man entered super embarrassed and worried and asked me where he could change his baby. it was really sad to me to see that, men should have the opportunity to change their babies as much as women

[@anxioussartist7557]

Right like what if it’s a single dad or maybe the mom is working or taking a little break for the day? It’s a real shame.

[@Mermayydman]

It's hilarious her double standards on what actually goes on.

[@Contrarian-v7p]

Sad thing is there are actual issues she could address but all of these pop feminism points that have long been deunked still make the rounds.

[@Mermayydman]

@@Contrarian-v7p truth

[@tonyricca279]

Shes drunk

[@SoySaucing]

Fr

[@prettyme4387]

@@Contrarian-v7p … i didn’t find the first and last points pop feminism but ok

[@chonkychonk]

Heres some misandry that you probably didn’t know: When a woman hits a man people usually over-look it, even at times laugh. Men are rarely ever addressed when they’ve been sexual assaulted and are usually never covered as much by the media. You can buy t-shirts on amazon that say “boys are stupid throw rocks at them”. Everyone assumes we love sports. its not frowned upon to be a “man-hater”, but if you’re a “woman-hater” then you’re sexist. Theres also the Duluth model, where law enforcement have to always assume that men are guilty in any domestic abuse issue.

[@aspenindenial]

You're right but this shouldn't be a war on who is got bigger problems, we can all agree that society as of rn is in a more equal place than before but we still have a long way to go, both sides.

[@djtlfox]

@@aspenindenial completely agree. definitely needs improvement. We need more men in colleges, more men graduating college, less work place deaths for men and lower suicide rate for men also. More government agencies that represent men. Woman have 7 federal agencies while men have 0. More reproductive rights for men. Higher child support/alimony payments from deadbeat mothers. I could go on forever.

[@Puffdamagi]

This shit needs to stop. You are hating on men

[@falconeer4382]

Also i love kids and would have loved to babysit when i was a teen, like i did my little brother, but male babysitters are just termed creepy even when just a teen

[@nathansherman5684]

@@aspenindenial true

[@1776_Livin-Free]

Aye, at least there's still such thing as men and women. I'm a 13 year old boy, I try to be as respectful around every woman or girl around. I'll admit, there's that extra bonus for girls I find attractive, but besides that I'm a gentleman❤

[@DaCurlyFella]

"Diaper Changing Stations only being in women's restrooms". She's clearly never seen a market/restaurant's men's bathroom. I see those things all the time.

[@redbearworkshop3219]

Most the time these people dont have that thought or even read the signs on the door.

[@azurezerox8392]

Right, like was she walking into men's restrooms to verify this? Obviously not. But it's a funny thought.

[@redbearworkshop3219]

@@azurezerox8392 they actually have signs on the doors saying baby changing stations

[@Dr.Westside]

Those things are in damn near every rest stop across the United States . I was probably changing my son's diapers on one before she was born .

[@jessicaward5315]

But this is legit an issue. I've heard so many single and partnered dad's complain about this.

[@jokaasama1529]

"When guys respect women when they find them attractive", yet she forgets to note that women do the same thing, when a guy approaches you and hes attractive you find him friendly or flirty, but when the guy isnt attractive you call him creepy for doing that.

[@randomduck2418]

Ikr (this is gonna sound hypocritical bc I’m female) but it works both ways, it’s just how society is. It’s how people were raised, believe it or not, everyone is judgmental

[@galiltm5168]

Shes been hurt and taking it out on all men. Shes just venting not thinking

[@anonymoususername834]

I do agree but it's mainly about the fact it's 99% women.

[@AnimeFreakish78]

@@randomduck2418 its not really about how people were raised but because of evolution. When men look at attractive women their dopamine receptors fire off which puts them in a really good mood. The same thing happens when they actively avoid looking at "ugly" women. Humans evolved to treat other good looking humans better than others because it helps prolong our species. Also if you didnt know beautiful people are genetically healthier. Thats why we see them as attractive and treat them better

[@anita42853]

@@galiltm5168 dude if u rlly think like this then I doubd you will ever consider a woman capable of thinking bc then qhen a guy posts his videos ab nos getting a girl he catcalled and him feeling insulted I'm gonna say the same, according to your peabrain logic, amrite?

[@hioman]

"The fact that changing stations are only in women's bathrooms" Well, thank you for never going into a man's bathroom... but I'll just tell you, we do

[@folpthecrow]

the bathrooms i’ve been in dont have changing stations, maybe it’s because they dont exist in the states i’ve lived in or im blind

[@everythingsfinett3903]

I my country they don't

[@michaelmelro6641]

Yeah, in Canada I’ve seen changing stations in men’s washrooms plenty of times.

[@alexmcintosh7370]

Their here in New york for a heads up

[@Clapts]

@@folpthecrow no way to know if it's only the men's bathroom if you don't check both each time

[@QuixkRedsk8]

I respect everyone because I believe everyone isn’t what they seem, that “perfect angel” could be satan in disguise and the “ugly person” could be the person to hire you or one day give you a chance at something, be kind to everyone it pays off

[@daemusic3021]

Also important to mention; Misogony and Misandry can be perpetrated but anyone, no matter their gender identity.

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

Yes, often times we excuse women being misogynistic or men being misandrists. My mother in law for example has a lot of misogynistic views and teaches her 6 sons that they should be taken care of, and that it’s the woman’s responsibility not to antagonize them as men, tempt them, etc. nobody calls her out on it bc she’s a very feminine woman.

[@ultimategaming4265]

@@moodsofkiwi9285 you have misogynistic and misandrist backwards. That is all. But yeah I agree.

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

@@ultimategaming4265 oh I meant women who have contempt for other women, and men who have contempt for other men

[@blueskeletonking2701]

@@moodsofkiwi9285 no the grandma sounds like a good grandma honestly she’s trying to prepare her 6 grand sons for success. Trust me I have seen what an antagonistic woman does to a man over the course of years no man in their right mind wants to come home to that every single day after work.

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

@@blueskeletonking2701 I agree with you. But the grandma goes too far with it. She tells the girls never to bother him with her feelings, ask him for help, confront him with issues she’s upset about. Stifling things, not just the really reasonable things girls shouldn’t do like nag or berate or disrespect

[@billyum1268]

This girl is insane. Godspeed to whatever champ toughs it out with her…

[@leafq]

This woman is not insane. She really just stating facts.

[@Ezekiel-2150]

@@leafq lol good one 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂

[@leafq]

@@Ezekiel-2150 I'm not joking. But if you to hear something then right now at this moment I have 69 notifications.

[@Ezekiel-2150]

@@leafq 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 Stop...Stop.....you're hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@boxkicker7784]

@@leafq holy fuck how did you come up with that 😂😂😂😭😭👍🏼👍🏼😆😆🤣

[@jeanellrushing5767]

I always call myself a "girly girl." I totally love pink, lace, ribbons & all of that stuff. Btw, I'm 55.

[@aldubm2234]

That’s perfectly fine too, I’ve never seen it as a style I liked but I know amazing people who love it.

[@BizarreAndrogynous]

You do you gurl! 💖

[@princess_selfimprovement]

I love that

[@ginandromeda1618]

Being extremely feminine in a society that villainizes femininity and sees it as "weak" is the best decision you can make, luv. That's also feminism, making the choices for yourself and no one else!

[@ihssansej]

yes queen!

[@Sanyahs]

This queen is so real

[@qwertyuiop2161]

queen means nothing these days apparently

[@biglaw3216]

Nothing she said was misogynistic