MISS J apologises after humiliating her baby daddy on TikTok

[@rirhandzusambo]

Her childhood is following her,being scared to be alone and is playing a role in her life..she needs time out to herself and try to find her self and deal with self..thank God she's independent but she needs to stop making excuses for that men,he knows her weakness she just want to be love and be loved and have a loving family,which he's not ready to have with her at the moment and it's okay ❤ love and light mummy

[@pfulu]

For her saying she beat him first I’m starting to doubt it coz she’s here to paint the boyfriend with white paint but the colour is red .

[@ReshoketsweMthombeni]

She seems like she is a really good lady, I think she has some unresolved traumas. I hope she heals and slows down on the alcohol.

[@iddashivolo5366]

At 31. Sit , relax, raise your kids , reflect for a few years without man drama, you'll find a man who'll treat you right. Providing for a man is a no, no.

[@LeomProjects]

Why would she say she does not know why they argue is delusional to me. This man has been cheating on her...THERE. She needs to love and value herself first before she can offer that to others. Take time to ba alone and just focus on yourself and children. The alcohol intake will trigger all the anger that has built up inside, from childhood until now. Sisi... stop making excuses for this man, you are good enough as you are and you deserve better. Having three children with three different men is not a death sentence.

[@addedchannel696]

perhaps she should also find help for her drinking and start rebuilding , even saying it was ok for him to hit her back ?! yes she should not have hit him but neither should he have. she does need help , I wish these podcasters would find help for the people they interview , good luck to both of them

[@LeomProjects]

@addedchannel696 true

[@victoriabooise5250]

Yoh you so beautiful...heal mamma take the time to raise your kids and focus on yourself the right one that will come along and appreciate you

[@nelisamakanda1337]

She is so beautiful

[@RefiloeDhlamini-b9p]

I haven't started watching this episode but I already concluded that man of yours is wrong dump him

[@NtuthuM-J25]

Banna ba tlo le bethisa top weitse…it’s the going through of the phone all the time that will make u go crazy 😢😢

[@ntombee1818]

Girl you should consider going easy on the bottle...seek therapy alone without him and be honest. You are down playing the situation at home

[@LeomProjects]

There is a lot of childhood trauma and generational curses haunting her. She wanted a child to fill a void and probably wanted to be a better mother than hers. I hope she gives herself some time to heal and not rush into a relationship. Also must stay away or limit her alcohol intake, it triggers something in her and might destroy her...more like certain demons get elevated by the alcohol intake. Also her children are witnessing all of this dysfunction.

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

And she must also limit recording and putting her business out there nilly willy. Now she's doing damage control

[@amahlemaria4802]

I love how she takes accountability. We’re all human and we all make mistakes. She went through a lot from an early age. Hope you heal beautiful ❤

[@lufunoadelaide-l8r]

Loose every thing but never loose the ability to walk away from an abuse partner

[@ndivhudzannyimasianuga5770]

This lady should also consider to sober up for sometime as she takes time to reflect on this relationship and do an honest introspection about her future with the kids.Big ups for overcoming all the hard times, “ You’re more stronger than any man can ever make you feel “❤

[@leonicealexander644]

I can relate with her on soo many levels, she needs to do a work on herself and she will be fine ❤

[@gailmokwatlo]

This lady is trying to fill massive voids from her upbringing, starting from an absent father to being displaced and having to grow up so quickly post matric. The narrative of how she met this baby daddy is also just a huge red flag

[@naledindlovu976]

She looks sad 😢

[@nelisamakanda1337]

proud sis....May God restore this relationship.

[@addedchannel696]

props to Promise , she gave good advice here and was practical , it seems like a tough situation and she seems like she gave balanced advice criticized both and also tried to advise the woman, hope she gets the man on the show and perhaps does a follow up with the woman , hope she heals and her story can be an inspirations - some ideas for her producers

[@Christisthestandard]

Praying for thus beautiful soul and her family❤

[@nelisamakanda1337]

Definitely a spiritual thing.

[@ashantizanele5268]

He is abusive, just not physical yet!

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

When I saw the video the first time i immediately realised something was off with her narrative. It was just sensation of wanting to paint this man bad and record it. These kinds of people just annoy me because they destroy their partners' lives on social media and then regret it. Just like Katlego Maboe. I'm just annoyed.

[@lebogangkgatle3578]

Aaaiii let me listen and not judge 😅

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

😂Some things don't add up.

[@mziwandamangwane2320]

Thanks girl for being honest, God bless. I lot of men are in jail because of the so called GBV. One of my cousin for rapping his jealous girlfriend.

[@khetimthembu5713]

how do you know your cousin is innocent ?? and what evidence was presented for him to be prosecuted ?? Hope he reaches out to the relevant people for help

[@pfulu]

Is he ticking the boxes for you Mara , It’s like she’s scared of being alone, you are only 31 you can start your life alone .😢

[@shauneseneecy5329]

Proud of you ❤

[@pfulu]

Is she saying that even if he stabbed her with knife, she’s still going to say I’m sorry for making you look like a monster?

[@QuenitaNkopane]

Smthn is nt mkin sure hre 😊😊u apologies y

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

She's doing damage control here. That video she posted was just stupid. She kept on talking about bwong a coloured and recording tje man packing clothes, then crying GBV.

[@ThembisoMhlauli]

No 1

[@ThembisoMhlauli]

First comment 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

@@ThembisoMhlauliwe love you❤️

[@mpumymahlangu9903]

So much work on self needs to be done here

[@maryselosebe6078]

That man doesn't love her, he just like the fact That she can provide and she understands... Girl is taking care of everything financially that's why guy is able to sustain his side chicks.... Girl deal with your childhood traumas and stop playing victim in that relationship you started the fight so go and apologize.. As for cheating cheat back rena a re Sana di advice monna wago se cheat o dirapeng wago phela okase mo humane

[@RaisibeNthelebofu]

@maryselosebe😂😂😂😂😂 we really ran out of advices srs. All we can say is men always choose themselves and happiness 😊

[@Gabisilepeggy1278]

@@RaisibeNthelebofu Amen

[@maryselosebe6078]

@@RaisibeNthelebofu ya, le gona a kanwa di pills txa bipolar a fetxa anwa bjala obvious otlo lwa le batho ase tsebe gore ntwa e thomile kae

[@alexMessi982]

😂😂😂😂😂😂o ngwana mang mara wena ❤❤😂😂

[@maryselosebe6078]

@@alexMessi982 wa mohu jane😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@QuenitaNkopane]

U prtct de guy cc u ar scrd hore ao siye ka ngwana shym bcz 2 baby daddy lft u😢

[@pfulu]

Is she married or still a boyfriend?

[@sandilehlophe4535]

So the guy took in 2 kids that are not his and people are making it seem like he is a bad guy. Bro dodged a bullet.

[@reflioekheswa6314]

What a distasteful comment, if you love someone you love them there is no bullet being dodged. You make it sound like he made her a favou for dating her while she had 2 kids.

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

I think so too. The reason she came to the podcast is she's realised that her video can destroy the man, like Katlego Maboe, and now she's scared and regretful. Some things don't need to be recorded. That guy was packing clothes leaving, so there's more that happens when she's not taking videos. She's insecure.

[@sandilehlophe4535]

@@reflioekheswa6314 He did do her a favour. A guy with a decent salary, house and a car taking in a mother of 2 with her kids. That a huge favour

[@pinkunicorn3132]

​@@sandilehlophe4535 If he CHOSE to be with her.. its not a favour and if anybody see's it at that? Then there's something wrong with them because if you can CHOOSE to do better, why don't you do better? There's no favour

[@reflioekheswa6314]

@@sandilehlophe4535 that's nonsense man are provider's it's not a miracle that his providing. He can go to those who are working, I wonder who would be doing who a favour than