missing people and situationships that hurt you | moving on and healing [matcha talks w tam ep.5]

[@Justtgaurii]

THE TIMING IS INSANE OMFG💀💀

[@Channel10-d1z1m]

Npc comment

[@Justtgaurii]

​@@Channel10-d1z1m uh?

[@FatterThanUsual]

Seriously

[@Moonlovesmelody]

THIS!

[@bca-2257]

Ikr!!!!!!

[@sushmitanaik1577]

It's not the person we miss...its emotional state we experienced with them....

[@amalitad6459]

That's how they come in our dreams because of the memories for Because of them

[@Thisismebutme2.0]

I experienced happiness, butterflies, excitement, feeling that we would be forever, love sacrifices, childish love, pure love, compassion, just love talking with a guy, my first date, real reciprocated love, showing my best self, hiding loser self, date ideas, convos in head, video calls. Bright stable rich future. Overall fullfillment. My first cinema movie. Drive with guy. Purse, clothes, heels, hair, facial. I felt confident to be seen with guy in public. I imagined dancing together,living togehter, celebrating together, fsmily together, workign togrther. Only to be brought back on earth. He was stuck on ex. Avoidant. Commitment issues. Just didnt work out. Now no warning no contact since 3 months. No word. No closure. Nothing. Idk what can happen now. I like him. But apparently he doesnt. Idk what he didnt like abt me. Could be many things. I wasnt so mature and relationship oriented before apparently. Never dated, never relationship. I just didnt know. But he broke my heart. I still cry today sometimes.

[@ruxarshekh]

This is what you miss....the love, hope and energy you have put into them

[@Ahze-u3x]

I hope you share more than an emotional state with someone in the future

[@aahelidutta]

Definitely it's the good times we spend with them and the memories

[@kitty970]

oh my goodness, the timing of this is crazy. i just yesterday cut off a best friend of 5 years because of how toxic and draining it was. thank you, tam

[@shimizunana4661]

Omg same bestie. Mine was 15 years, hope you are well and living your best life!!!❤

[@kitty970]

@@shimizunana4661 aww, you too! protect your peace 🍀💖

[@R_Edits_1]

Your videos timing is insane 🧿👀

[@Elegantem]

Girl I’ve been struggling with losing a best friend of 5 years too! Coincidentally!

[@Linnsjourney]

Same mine was 5 years and did it this morning ✨

[@Adelinaaazzzz]

Don’t settle for a situationship when you deserve a partnership. Love should never be ambiguous-choose clarity, respect, and someone who chooses you fully.

[@amalitad6459]

Girls uplifting other girls ❤❤❤❤❤

[@SaradaMukherjee-yh1ll]

I really needed that !! Thank you love 💌

[@Srishtii1010]

Excuse me?? 😭 Yesterday, I cried in front of God and asked him for a sign and guidance to heal me. And then my tam uploaded this video. I can't explain how much I feel grateful for tysm ily

[@UnapologeticallyAria]

The way I literally JUST LEFT THE HOUSE OF MY SITUATIONSHIP thinking “I think this could really be the last time we interact in an intimate way”…. Then this video pops up on my feed 🤯 The way you understood and executed the assignment of reading my mind and expressing a perspective shift to change the “missing” and “grieving” 😮‍💨 The affirmations are so fire that I wrote them down. Cheers to actioning in our self-worth without shame.

[@prabhmeetkaur-e7h]

How does this girl always know what I need in the moment , love you TAM👀🥰

[@tamkaur]

🤗

[@amalitad6459]

Exactly 💯💯💯

[@ajmpbangtanminyoongi]

THE TIMING IS SO RIGHT, I started missing my past situationships during ovulation 💀💀

[@SacredASMR]

in the process of healing from a recent breakup wow im gonna enjoy watching this

[@dafnecorrieritesi7723]

lots of love in your journey ❤

[@tia-szn]

us sister (assuming gender, sorrie). even though i broke up??????? and also got broken up with at the same time??????

[@kylielopez389]

me too! Just know that if u got disrespected. U DO NOT DESERVE IT.!!

[@ayaa11290]

Me too, i think we should have a group chat lol

[@friendofbts3398]

Hey,what happened ? Are you okay?

[@barbiddd]

Affs ♡ It's natural to miss the parts of my life that got me here while I am in the process of building a better one. The discomfort I feel in the difficult decisions I have made is a sign of the growth I am embracing. I realize what no longer serves me and I welcome everything I deserve. I am so proud of myself for choosing the path of healing and self respect.

[@MaisaHossain-r9h]

•make a list of the bad things they did & why you don’t want them in your life •make a list of your standards •visualize your higher self & your new life. of what you want in your life, visualize in the morning or evening •emotional healing: therapy & EFT

[@codedcarla]

To add to the points made in 24:40 something I learned in yoga! Energy gets stuck in the hips so when you need to get energy out physically, doing hip focused yoga helps a lot !!!!

[@khu.shxx_]

Tamanna's timing😭 i cut off a relationship that was too manipulative and gosh I felt so bad after it. THANK YOU TAM💛

[@raeinwriting2474]

Timing is amazing , in the process of dealing with rejection (romantic feelings not reciprocated)

[@ShreyaDubey-f2h]

You guys don't even know how much I love this woman 😩

[@Anonymous_XD67]

She has a boyfriend gurl 😏 (jk)

[@ShreyaDubey-f2h]

@Anonymous_XD67 hehe ofcourse love their relationship too

[@cupcake4798]

the timing is crazy as hell, i just lost my best friend of 8 years this week. missing him loads but it's okay, people come and go, life moves on :(

[@athen_inj]

Girlll, u r so smart, i watch every single video of urs and everytime i am doing inner work but today i just for a moment actually got out of my body and was conscious and realized actually how smart u are, the knowledge and strategies u provide, real gem ❤

[@theycallmenoor]

She is healing million hearts which she didn’t break❤

[@twinkycharm8138]

Being in lot of friendship breakups, I can totally relate to each one she said. While watching this video, I am realizing how grateful I am like if not her i won't get answers or any change of perspectives on this complex things. Again, the timing is so perfect to the core.

[@Elegantem]

I wish every girlie and guy reading this the best friendships and relationships that are meant for them. ❤

[@chen-ql5ud]

Matcha talks must be my favorite content from Tam. She speaks about cases that hurt alot to talk and hear about in a sensitive and tender way, and helps you see how you can get through this stronger.

[@Criticalmoistsbeard]

The timing!! I cut of my bestie of 12 years bc she is so toxic and rude to me! she just used me and I was so drained with her, thank you girly :3

[@ArunimaMandal15]

My go to affirmation for this situation: "I let go of stories from the past that do not serve me anymore" ❤ Always helps me be cautious of my thoughts when I find myself dwelling in the past. Be kind to yourself, it's a habit you need to overcome. I have a whole list of affirmations on my pinterest board I look at when I am reminiscing the past

[@crownyb992]

The timing is actually incredible. Why are we all going through the same thing rn?

[@sophiaflores2181]

Omg I’m crying! I just lost everyone in the span of two months and I’ve been devastated heartbroken and so alone. I was literally abandoned at my lowest by my closest friends cause they didn’t believe me when I told them about a very bad relationship I needed help getting out of! I’m praying it supposed to get worse before it gets better !

[@anayabatool]

Getting rid of old things results in new happy biginning

[@Everlqrk_girlieৎ]

Hey tam I just wanted to say thank you. I was in a really bad place when I found your videos and you have inspired me so much to keep going. You have Helped me overcome many things like friendship loss and people pleasing behaviors and I honestly can’t thank you enough. You have don’t so much for me you have no idea. You are such an inspiration to me

[@YaldaKeshavarz-sd9gg]

I just broke up with my 19 year best friend,and she was the most toxic person you could know which damaged me lot of ways , it happened last night and now you post this! First of i should say ive been following all tam content for a year now and taking all her words into actions and the reason i broke up with her is that,and tam like big sister i never had supported me so i wasnt feeling bad but i was feeling so confident and proud, But still its not easy to close the book of a 19 year relationship with so many memories and challenges And then she posts this,girl you really feel it don ya

[@헿-4b]

I had a tough day because of this issue.. and when i came home to go to bed and try to forget about everything negative things, this video was uploaded 😭 I am a student living in Korea 🇰🇷 and Im always thankful for you, you always help me at my worst days and nights. I appreciate 🙏💛 My English is really bad, sorry❤ And love you always

[@srijitagiri1619]

The timing is so correct..i just had a break up and i was constantly missing that person and all the memories i had and always have an urge to text back or talk to that person that whether they moved on so easily and i am here still feeling bad about myself..but this video has taught me that its normal and i am not alone and this is just how our brain works and we can take control of it... thanks tam❤

[@irenecubides8243]

This is definitely one of my favorite videos that you have done. I have been watching you for years and i appreciate how much time ,thought,and dedication goes into every one of your videos.

[@pookie_brb]

THE TIMING IS DIVINEEEEE!!!!

[@mumbaigirl125]

Your timing is impeccable!!! I was literally thinking about a situationship I had 3 months ago and how I miss him.

[@Keo0kie]

The timing is crazy omg, i was missing my previous toxic friendship yesterday and i was having a complete breakdown and overthinking, and then i saw this video on my homepage, at first i didnt have the courage to click it, i wanted to "fix" it or "mend" it in some way so i didnt want to face it. But after thinking for a bit, i switched on yt, and this is the first thing i see, so i thought it was a sign. Thank you so much, tam

[@Ève-x3d]

I don’t usually write comments but this episode was so good that I just had to! Going through it right now but your videos help me so much, thanks a lot!

[@parul6117]

Oh. My. God. I've literally been crying and overthinking abt him for the past week. Thank you for posting this now🙏🙏

[@sagarika_ganapathi]

Just today i was crying over my ex looking at our pics together!! I've watched your how to get over a heartbreak video and this step I've not got myself to do yet, despite it being over a year since breakup!! But repeatedly watching your dating playlist I've realised although it'll take time, I'm better off without him. The timing of this video cannot be a coincidence but a feminine divine speaking to me about a better future❤✨ love you forever Tam, you've changed my life😭

[@friendofbts3398]

Omg girl how long have you been together ?

[@ArunimaMandal15]

Delete those pictures girl, they will only keep you stuck

[@aahelidutta]

The timing is really insane ❤❤❤ Thank you for this

[@uuuunnnnn]

GURRLL THE TIMING!!! im soo grateful for you!

[@OptimaskusBuddies-k9k]

Last night I was literally crying overthinking my life and people who hurt me and today here I am listening to her your timing is amazing tam. Thank you for such amazing advice⭐ I really appreciate you for making this vedio.....✨ Love you so much 💫

[@talkdeepwithg]

VERY timely wow!! Thanks for this message, sending all the love to you and You who read this - you deserve to be surrounded by those who see your greatness 🙏🕊️🤍✨

[@itsmoonlight2652]

YOU ARE GLOWING!! you become prettier every time you post a new video ❤❤❤

[@luana.pellegrini]

What you said in the first part about the love not going away, it's so beautiful 🥺 you said it in a way that actually made me emotional🥺💞 thank you for these beautiful words Tam, it's such a beautiful perspective!

[@NikitaJ78]

The timing couldn't have been more perfect for me. I am trying to heal myself from a breakup and start loving myself and Tam you have helped me alot. Its like i couldn't have been who i am without you. You are helping me with my healing journey. I Love you so much ❤❤❤

[@gurleens.6019]

Currently in the process of letting go of someone whom I wish to keep in my life, but I know that in doing so, it will give me nothing but heartbreak in the long run. It is incredibly painful, but it is a necessary one so that I can transform and evolve into the woman that I was always meant to be. To have the kind of love and respect that I truly deserve. Your timing was truly impeccable and I thank you for all the tips you have provided. I just need to trust the process and have more faith in myself that I will get through this. One day at a time, it will get better. I will get better.

[@aanchaljain]

Tam, this is by far the best video of yours. Everything you said, I am feeling that. Sometimes I feel hatred for my younger self not to walk away. But sometimes I try to forgive her because she was kind and she didn't know how to recognise the signs. Your affirmations are going to be my daily routine now. Sending lots of blessings and success to you, you deserve everything and more :)

[@aish_seojudin]

Tam at rescue always, I had liked this guy for a year now, but from past month he is been stuck to my head and I dunno why I can't overcome it. I am a person who overcame many though situation and when I was crying a mess and universe for help. Here I am watching her video again. Thank you Tam for being a big sis.

[@RealTalkwithLou]

Omg the Universe literally put this on my path ON TIME girl! A colleague whom I was friends with ghosted me and this shit hurt deep but now I know better. Thank you so much Tam!

[@Michelle-fr1fw]

i love how the timing was perf for us all!!!

[@celticrose2260]

Tam, this was EXACTLY what I needed right now! I have felt so stuck in life and I finally feel I am able to move on for good. Thank you Queen! I love your book and can’t wait to start manifesting my best life in your journal 📓 You are an inspiration and love your content ❤✨💅

[@halcyia]

THE TIMING OMG. I NEEDED THIS TYSM

[@theodoratilda]

Oh Tam you're very inspirational as always. My January experience was very toxic and draining to me because of my relationship. It was too much for me that I abused my emotions and physical self to make myself feel immune to the pain. But in the process I've accepted the mistakes of it and moved on with heavy heart. I'm currently on healing myself for it and this video made me feel even more inspired and gave me more practical ways to deal with things I have been through. Please keep up this positivity until the end! I love you❤❤❤

[@She_shiness]

Thank you so much tam❤, just a few days ago i asked the universe to help me and today while scrolling through Instagram your KZbin was recommended. And god knows how this video was the one that i actually needed the most cuz i have been seeing people from the past in my dreams which is actually been leaving me in a blank road. I didn't know why I've been seeing them although I've cut ties off. Now i know why and what i have to do going ahead. I just needed motivation to leave this still life.

[@vicsolimo]

Wow, you really helped me look at this topic in a whole new light. I never thought of things this way. I now have a new perspective and understanding. Can you make a video on how to maintain your boundaries while you're grieving?

[@anayabatool]

Few days back i started talking less to my Friend, cause I felt disrespected and wanted to break that bond with him, the always say I don't care about him etc or I ignore him even when I was genuinely busy but now I was just done with those complains or validation I give him whenever he questions our friendship bond, Now I am going to get rid of him , even when I miss those magical moments we had, and the point tam discussed that we miss the emotional state we were in when we were with that person, so its clear now, I am now going to give that love , care , validation and affection back to me ❤ , thanks Tam u helped me with this comfusion that I miss him and want him back .

[@superstudentpk]

MY GOODNESS! TAM ARE YOU SPYING ON US? I decided for my self for a situationship “ i do not deserve this, i will make space for right one, i do not need to stay connected to this person coz of shared history” & you posted THIS!!! You are godsend, Tam!!!!

[@estherpearl3034]

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAM❤

[@leeleelyy5615]

THE TIMING OML I had confessed to someone who pulled away from me only to hear what I was expecting: he gave up on me, he did not try. That is the closure I needed, but damn, it damm hurts 😭😭

[@meharvohra1856]

Last night I had a dream of my toxic ex, and today I was thinking about him (not missing him), and I just now saw Tam's video! Watching this video put some sense into my brain that, let alone missing him, I cannot even afford to think about him cause I have finally raised my standards and I am not stupid anymore :)

[@SerenaOkey]

This came at the right time 😮 I was literally crying and my old narcissistic best friend and I'm actually missing her😢

[@reshamkhan6448]

I usually never comment on videos but really the timing is insane I was really searching for this video and thinking how should I put my words together and as soon as I opened youtube found your video ❤️ you're really so inspiring 💗💗

[@kimshane903]

I feel like you Tam always know what to post and in what time to post! ❤ It makes me feel actually connected to you and your Channel 😙 Thank you Sister 🙏💕

[@sw4mini111]

i was literally struggling with the same situation 😭 and tam posted this video literally one day later! manifested 💋

[@ananyawalunjkar]

I follow u as well @sw4mini111 State board student here😂

[@111lxx5]

As a lot are saying too, the timinggg is perfect. My heart hurts for someone that doesnt seem to care. Cant wait to watch this

[@MansheenKaur]

Tam I loved how you said sometimes we miss the version we need to shed in order to let them go!!🎀

[@Riya_23_Gupta]

Things that no one talks about tam brings to light ❤

[@JayaKumari-t9g]

"So excited to finally watch this! I was swamped with work earlier, but I made time for this masterpiece. ❤️"Love you tam 😍

[@Angellibra777]

A divine timing type of video. Never knew I needed to hear and watch a video so clear in my life. ❤

[@saihajsran7892]

OMG. how did she know i needed this today

[@oksi_h9]

THE TIMING GIRL. I CANNOT

[@eriiinnn]

You’re really the big sis we need in life! Thank you, Tam! 😘💛

[@filledwithlovex]

The view, the vibe, the comfort love itttt

[@Jackie-d5e]

So we all needed this right now, huh?

[@MrTrotter87]

Seriously, the timing...I feel blessed.🎉

[@aditithakur5771]

I LOVED THIS VIDEO AND I LOVE YOUU SOO SO MUCH TAM!♥️😭THIS VIDEO FELT LIKE A WARM HUG AND I REALLY NEEDED SOMEONE TO SAY THIS TO ME! THANKYOU FOR THIS🌟🫶

[@SolRuiz-tg6gl]

THANK YOU TAM ❤❤❤❤

[@asthanarayan7197]

THE TIMING IS ABSOLUTELY CRAZY

[@lansbalans2703]

Thank you Tam. Each and every time I watched your video it came at the exact time when I needed it. Once again thank you for sharing your experiences and thoughts. I wish you all the best in life because you are making my life better each day!

[@deekshan.s4033]

OMMFGGG TAM , UR TIMINNG IS INSANEE !!!!!

[@emamorina2736]

Tam thank you so much.I've been questioning myself for these situations that happend to me with my bestfriend and i thought i was the problem or that something .Thank your for helping me.

[@shubhangityagi2692]

The timing is insane💀 I was just thinking about my best friend of 7 years who ghosted me out of nowhere and the toxic situations I've had and then your video showed up🤌

[@catsmeow19]

YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH I NEEDED THIS ONE TAM

[@sakshipancholey2509]

thankyou for always sharing the best advice in this series! also your affirmations are SO good, always helps :,)

[@vidyatripathi9317]

Tam you are on my vision board❤.I really really adore you

[@vidyatripathi9317]

OMG I am crying 😭. Did she just like my comment❤❤❤❤

[@stepstosync_srishti]

hey tam i normally never comment on videos but u just keep on making good videos that resonate w me its so amazing. ilysm

[@Sarulieee]

I opened KZbin and I NEEDED THIS LIKE THANK YOU😭❤️

[@Kiki2005newme]

I love the fact that you never try to ignore the feelings and Give us courage to face them 🪗🥧✨️

[@udaniirunika1037]

Gosh the timing 😭. Yesterday I was crying asking god to send something to get me out of this

[@Elizabeth-o4v8k]

insane timing. exactly what I needed right now. was shocked when I got notification. 💛

[@melmel8343]

Tam, i have a narcissist parent that i found out recently. Can you make a video on how to deal with it? I'm certain that it will help alot of young girls out there who are struggling like me.

[@vishakhaupmanyu]

This video is exactly what I needed at this point!

[@varshadharmwani9752]

Ahhhhh Girlll loving this series 'Matcha Talks'!! You know you literally saved mee. You are helping me in my self development journey!! Like gurll yess you slayinggggggg!!!!🎀💗💗💗💗

[@Sparklesphery]

This is a masterpiece! 💚💚💚 wishing all of us the self-respect and strength to move on from unhealthy situations!

[@pooh7448]

God the timing. I thought I was over it. Haven’t pondered over him for weeks if not months. Suddenly it’s all coming back now. Thank you for this🤍

[@pooh7448]

And mind you it has been over an year we broke up

[@BhumiGarg-jb3nf]

CRAZY TIMINGGG LIKE SERIOUSLY I JUST HAD A BREAK UP😭🎀

[@Ankitha0607]

Heyy Tam! Can you please make an entire video of affirmations? The one we can use everyday Thanks a lott! I love the matcha talks, its very comfy to watch and listen to ❤

[@Kiwionthetree]

The timing is immaculate

[@amyra789_03]

Okkk...I needed that and wlahhh u posted it ... timing is so insane

[@Twinkle-dd1cy]

Love the video. Would be making a vision board video for this year?

[@Blue-2b]

Damn girl its so real!!! Rn i am also letting go of a friend of mine i had loved and cared for so much and willing to keep her in my life forever but now that she is showing me how she truly feels about me and doesnt want me in her life and damn fr like just because they are now being mean to you we cant just stop our feelings right away and it takes hella lot of time and they be saying girl you never learn and repeating mistakes but finally i am working on not falling in those toxic oatterns again it makes me look obsessive and a stalker, it truly sucks when your intentions were pure and thought i am just saving a connection by not giving up even when they are angry or disrespectful cuz we are always waiting for them to change but it just cant be, the Friendship cant be.

[@sumanxmandal]

You understand me like no one else, i love youu

[@meenakshhii]

genuinely needed🥹