SOLVING LDR: "Help! I think I am self-sabotaging my relationship because my ex was mentally ill"

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Miss mariie

Ай бұрын

HELP! I think I am self-sabotaging my relationship because my ex was mentally ill, please

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@divine5582 Ай бұрын

Hey Girl, this was a nice one. I call it grass hoping from one relationship to the other! It will do you more harm than good if you dont heal first. Youll always keep judging, questioning every action made or word said and that's not fair to both parties. With LDR, you need patience - lots of it, be intentional, focus and avoid destructions. Dont be so quick to judge. Also if youre not sure or ready take a break, re evaluate your previous relationships then make a move when ready. Live, Love Laugh.. thats my mantra! Live thr moment 😊

@KellyCartney Ай бұрын

Heeey Beautiful❤ You're such a vibe!Absolutely agree with you on this one,within the same school of thought 💯 Self-forginess&Healing must be a preliquisite stage before going into a new relationship relationship.Let her think about this.Let her think about actions that would yield a better result or what would make it unable for them to give their best.Great relationship are made from Teamwork.For instance,an Injured Player can't run back to the pitch with the foot bleeding.. they have to accept that they're not fit enough for the game,take time off to visit the doctor,get treatment& prescription,heal first then try they go resume playing when they're fit healthy n strong or else they'd go bleeding on other teammates in the pitch which might limit the overall team energy and winning chances🥹💪🏾🥳Keep the episodes comes.They come in handy😇🔥👏🏾

@cynthiaadams7689 Ай бұрын

Mariie you have amazing advice. 😊 You spoke what was on my mind. Girl you're oozing wise words. 🙌

@jackiebenjamin8772 Ай бұрын

Exactly, if she was only speaking to someone, for a short time what future could she have planned with the person. The first time someone meet you they are not going to tell you their inner most secret. That wasn't a relationship. Then the second guy, she should only be having a conversation with him, to learn about him. I agree with every advice you have given, the young lady because we were all like her once, until we realised, we were the problem. We had to fix us, by looking into our mirrors everyday and have conversations with ourselves.

@hajiranankoma4255 Ай бұрын

Watching you from the pearl of Africa Uganda much love sis

@hajiranankoma4255 Ай бұрын

This is amazing gal ,so inspirational

@theresasmith2302 Ай бұрын

Hi Mariie, as always you hit the ball out the park with this video. The advice here is golden and can really help to alot of broken hearts. Kudos my dear for a job well done❤️🥰❤️.

@ShekilaZawadi Ай бұрын

Woow this has really helped me alot. It's now 7 months being single I feel and I need to be loved and be in a serious relationship but still I have fear in trust issues and i can talk to someone and end up getting bored especially when I see I don't feel the vibe cause I love communication from the other side not only me communicating but now it's time for me to take it easy and try give myself a chance again

@missmariie Ай бұрын

Take it easy dear..don't be too hard on yourself. The beauty about connections is, you'll know when you're ready. It won't be forced. For now, enjoy getting to know your dating preferences. It's really important for you to be able to build a genuine relationship. Goodluck dear. You will find what you're looking for. And you'll know when you do.

@Salvation123.. Ай бұрын

Self reflection and healing is important before moving too quickly. We must learn to listen to our emotiong ladies. Seeimg a therapist is very helpful. By the way, I have requested to join the group...Am not yet in an exclusive LDR. But we are progressing in a good friendship for now, so I wanna learn more from the other ladies ❤

@missmariie Ай бұрын

You're very much welcome into the group. There is so much to learn from the ladies.