SOLVING LDR: 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Long-Distance Relationship |

[@divine5582]

Loves this so much .. 1 For us communication is Key .. As my partner says " don't keep anything in your heart. Speak up 2. Don't rely so much on Google translation mostly is your from countries that speak different language . Be ready to also sacrifice in learning the language too. 3. Culture difference/ shock is huge! This can easily make or break the two of you. Be very sensitive when you communicate because it could be received differently. 4 . Listen to understand and not to respond.. don't be reactive , be responsive. 5. This should even be 1st.. Put God in it. Challenges will come, lots of paperwork, possible visa rejection 😔, unexpected turn of events ,negativity from family or friends.. Enjoy the moment , yes it's doable and possible All the best to all in LDR❤❤❤

[@thandoe0734]

I noticed that your points do not apply only on LDR, but on a relationship as a whole, those things are very important because even if you see your person everyday, trusting him in the time he is not with you can be hard, so those points apply to a short distance kinda relationship. Thank you Marie, you always pitch up hey❤❤❤❤❤

[@ItsNattybee]

You should start a podcast…your voice is soo relaxing

[@amcke8948]

Marie you are looking beautiful ❤❤ my man came to kenya after a long distance relationship and we got married within 2 months and i got my visa within 2 months im in Europe together .. good information ❤❤ you will be together with your man soon ❤❤❤

[@sharonpokuaa1948]

Have been in long distance relationship for 3years now and am Soo happy will meeting him in August after all these years am Soo Soo happy for closing the distance.....What really helps us through all these years is constant communication, he sometimes watched me sleep before he hung up and that really makes me feel special and Soo many things I can't talked about, with all that we have decided we will never give up on each other ❤.....Miss Mariie thanks for sharing yours with us❤

[@missmariie]

Awww..I love to hear this!! Congratulations girl, I'm so happy for you. And thank you for sharing this on the platform. I'm sure it's going to encourage somebody to keep going. Healthy consistent communication is definitely the key.

[@blancitakiwanga374]

Been a minute since you used "work hard on yourself than you do at your job" line.. its nice hearing it from you again. Thank you for the remainder as it has a positive impact to some of us😊

[@cynthiaadams7689]

Mariie I'm here for this series ; solving ldr. 😊 Noting all the points down. 💯 Thank you for doing this. ☺️

[@akullujanetanita7932]

Hi Miss Marie, looking great. Thanks for the great informative video. Its worth taking note of.

[@hajiranankoma4255]

So inspirational baby gal,big up to yourself ❤

[@oliviahongere]

Aww can't wait for this love love this keep going girl

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

You're looking great Marie💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼,and your setup is soo beautiful

[@missmariie]

Thanks so much❤❤❤

[@zara.smithwick]

This is very informative and real! Long distance relationships and or marriages are not for the faint hearted. But guys, its possible, its workable as long as you are both mature enough to commit, be honest, truthful and kind with each other!Thanks Mariie for wrapping it up so well❤❤❤

[@claudettepercival6875]

I enjoyed this article so much, Marie you're so extraordinary person I really hope that you and Eamon really able to have your heart desires to get everything work out.

[@missmariie]

Thank you so much💕. Those are very uplifting words. Blessings upon you and yours❤

[@ChipoMugari]

Thank you Dea for the advice ❤ much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

[@YvonneTempler]

Hello dear,all your points are on point.As someone in a long distance relationship,i can attest to all that.

[@anitakyei9162]

Yes marrie everything you've said is true LDR is not easy I'm also in the same thing and it's not easy at all thanks for your messages my dear

[@user-eo7vc9uz3c]

Like your setup for this video and tips for LDR super.Miss Marie you're glowing super good.am watching you from Nigeria 🇳🇬

[@lilith_maya]

Thanks mariie for replying will always be asking questions from you

[@ednakuwana-hx6fq]

Excellent advice, you looking great girl ❤

[@missmariie]

Thank you so much!

[@rahabpulanemakwala4447]

Good advice indeed Marie and you are glowing girl😘😍👌

[@missmariie]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@margaretmutune1902]

Thanks miss marrie ..looking forward to this new series.. I'm also in a long distance relationship for the past 12 months. My boyfriend is coming to Africa (Kenya,) to meet me for the very first time in July. . This is the most hardest thing I've ever had to do.. It's really hard

[@AnneKenya]

Thanks baby gal for enlightening us. I'm looking forward to being in one and I'm trusting God to give me a good partner. I'm really happy for you and wishing you the very best ❤

[@missmariie]

You are so welcome and Goodluck in your search. I'm sure your person will locate you soon. 💕

[@AnneKenya]

Wow..the set up is something else 🥰

[@stellahseeranabs6102]

You knowwww 😂❤

[@salonanamane8779]

Mariie you looking extremely beautiful hey. LDR is a problem to all even to those whose partners or spouses stay or work in different districts or counties within a country. Trust, commitment, and communication are key in any relationship ❤❤❤ key on hanging there, dear. The distance will soon close

[@caroline3117]

I love you miss Marie and how eloquent you're ❤❤I can watch you any day any time❤...And I pray you be the one who relocates to Australia ❤

[@missmariie]

Amen 🙏🙏

[@esthertizirai270]

Thank you so much you've really helped a lot ❤❤

[@missmariie]

Glad it helped!💕

[@Impilo_no_Zanele]

Notification gang🎉🎉, I love the set up🤍🤍🌻

[@missmariie]

Thank you love. It's an honor to have you here🥰💕

[@Impilo_no_Zanele]

@@missmariie ❤️❤️❤️

[@BlessingJoe680]

This is beautiful….

[@dorinechesire6993]

I love you and your content 💕

[@missmariie]

I love you too💕💕😍

[@tabbiaachieng2023]

Am soo proud of you. This is great... you must have really done alot of research. Wishing you all the best

[@missmariie]

Thank you so much 💕

[@denisealexis4261]

Hi ms mariie i miss some of your videos i have to go back an watch all of them .how are you doing. I was but i could not take it anymore an i decided to leave .i could not trust him anymore. I know my girl i love my own company its a tuff one i can relate .good to see you my dear girl

[@Soso-uy3wp]

Thank you miss Marrie Much appreciated Thank you for kindness to share such vital information Very very helpful indeed Thank you for starting this platform LDR is hard and without advise and wisdom you can miss a chance to meet your future husband Please continue with more points lm sure they are more than 10 😂 Thank you

[@donabengochea8626]

You look very beautiful marie,you look very professional

[@missmariie]

Thank you so much!

[@Leakenvlogs]

Ooh im in love with your content so much nikiingia KZbin lazima ni ku search 😂 this is fetish or obsession jamani , your fullof positive vibes 🌹🌹🌹🌹 and im excited to watch this video juu ata mm naona nikona issues za LDR

[@missmariie]

Awww🥰🥰🥰I'm humbled!! You're such a sweet soul. You can set camp here any day any time.💕

[@lucyachieng3271]

I'm stressed with communication but I'm working on it

[@christinesitawa6334]

This is great piece of advice. Would you share some online tools/articles on building intimacy in LDR?

[@missmariie]

Thank you,, I definitely will do that💯

[@nontokozongwenya2660]

looking beautiful ❤❤❤

[@enealiceitodo8542]

You are glowing babe❤

[@missmariie]

Thank you🥰💕💕💕

[@Inloveandbeyond]

I’m super excited about meeting my partner soon. I’m also nervous. Hopefully God makes this successful cos the distance is crazy. I love your new series Mariie. Much love to you and everyone else in long distance relationship ❤we will pull through

[@leoniewinobo6313]

Thankyou marie for some advise my ldr is 2years now we dont meet yet thankyou i love your advise

[@missmariie]

Best of luck!💕

[@hellendoisi7511]

Looking beautiful

[@missmariie]

Thank you 😊

[@zolekanyathi8153]

Please don't forget to wear you ring

[@lilith_maya]

Hello miss mariie,,,first time commenting but a full time subscriber,,, while back before you even met your fiance,,, have been on your channel from the beginning,,, I hope you answer this for me,,, how do you do to accommodate your fiance in your house,,, cause i think they book hotels before even having there flight or am i wrong,,,i just need to know how i can accommodate him,, without him booking an hotel,,, plus he wants to sent money but we don't even know how to go about all,,, please help a sister,,,i asked so many and no answer hopefully you won't disappoint a sister and a fan of your sweet journey

[@missmariie]

Hey beautiful, thank you so much for the support. You guys are the reason I'm here🥰🥰 I don't take it for granted 💞. They don't have to book accommodation at a hotel before booking their flights, all they have to do is provide an address for where they are going to stay while in your country. Send him your current address to use when booking flights and applying for the visa. That should work just fine. As for money, he uses the Remitly app so he can send money directly to my mpesa account. Its the quickest. There's also the option of PayPal but it's alittle bit more expensive and less dependable in my opinion. I hope that helps.

[@angellakisakye5076]

Iam 48 years old woman can I get a lover on dating app??

[@missmariie]

Yes dear. Love can find you anywhere, anytime and at any age💕

[@mosy2049]

You mean a 48 year bouncing baby girl? Of course! You only need to believe that you deserve to be loved. Everything else falls into place. Look good and put yourself out there. ❤️All the best Hun.

[@carolinencube7912]

Please wear your ring, l am saying this out of love ❤❤❤❤

[@missmariie]

Thanks for the concern 😊

[@Christinekiama]

Miss marie my biggest problem has been when they want to explore the sexual connection and how far should one go as i don't want to trust the wrong person as some want you to engage in the "things" with video call or sharing explicit pictures ? Kindly advise as that is where i fall out with most being seductive to what point would you advise?

[@missmariie]

From my experience, as long as it doesn't feel right or comfortable, it's too soon or it's the wrong person. Always trust your gut feeling when it comes to online dating. These are the questions to ask yourself, are you comfortable engaging on that level? Do you feel like he's coming on too strong? Do you have a connection besides the sexual stuff? Does it feel good pursuing this sexual connection or do you feel forced? If any of your answers to these questions is a no then it's either the wrong timing or the wrong person.

[@Christinekiama]

@@missmariie thanks for the heads up as I feel some come too strong and you really haven't gained each other trust

[@Christinekiama]

@@missmariie but atleast I know if he is serious he will be patient till we are on the same page

[@missmariie]

The sexy talk should not start until you have established that you have a connection with this person and that it's somebody you're interested to pursue something more with. That should be atleast a month in. If you start talking and a couple of texts in he is already asking for nudes and videos then Run! He's gonna ghost you as soon as you send those nudes. Also as a side note, never send any nude photos or videos to a random person on the internet. Those are privileges he can only get when there's a commitment already made i.e, you have physically met, he has officially asked you to be his girlfriend, he has ringed the finger etc...

[@Christinekiama]

@@missmariie yes this is it coz I always ask the person we can flat and all that but we have to meet and be sure of what we doing before doing some things but I love that now I see then am not the wrong one been feeling kinda some way lost n the fact that I know I want to be with someone from a different country and I know it's something I will have to get through it.... Thanks for the girl keep encouraging us into this as we keep looking forward to this definitely I will give you feedback by the end of it

[@Inloveandbeyond]

Most times expiration date depends solely on the immigration 🥹and it can get frustrated sometimes 😢