Mistakes Men Make that make Them Unattractive

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Caitlin V

Caitlin V

Күн бұрын

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@one_punchline7478
@one_punchline7478 2 жыл бұрын
Hey love your videos! Eventhough I've been with my wife for 10 years I still appreciate all your wisdom and lessons. Have been watching your videos for the last few years and I can honestly say you've helped tremendously with our intimacy. Keep up the awesome work 🙌🏾
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 2 жыл бұрын
EVERY time, when I allowed myself to be vulnerable, it was used against me. Explain this please. Don't say pick other Women, it happened EVERY time.
@timothyvonvictory7105
@timothyvonvictory7105 2 жыл бұрын
The problem is in you. Do your shadow work.
@Blazervitch
@Blazervitch 2 жыл бұрын
don't appear vulnerable, that's the answer
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 2 жыл бұрын
@@Blazervitch I came up with the same conclusion.
@raymahannah4336
@raymahannah4336 2 жыл бұрын
Don't keep picking the same "type" of woman... Also, can depend on what your vulnerability is, and whether you were trying to conceal it before you owned up to it...
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 2 жыл бұрын
@@raymahannah4336 Are you saying I shouldn't have picked female Women? That's about the only commonality among them. Has your experience been different? Please share.
@icq208306
@icq208306 2 жыл бұрын
Starting with #5 the first mistake there was that the man sat across from the date where he should have sat next to the woman that way he could check in on signs like hand touching and leaning in, things hard to do when you sit across from each other like in the movies. Sitting next to or diagonally to the woman forces the man/woman to pay more attention to each other. I know it's a small thing but not talking across a table eases conversation and makes for a more intimate experience. Caitlin V, your full of great tips, thank you for all you do.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@icecoldchilipreppers
@icecoldchilipreppers 2 жыл бұрын
1. Showing off 2. Not showing off 3. Being too outgoing 4. Being too shy Lool
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
the fine art of BALANCE in a relationship!! good catch!!
@billboyle7886
@billboyle7886 2 жыл бұрын
Love your top 10, I have been guilty of many of those throughout the years. Overpriced restaurant, being one. Great outfit by the way, I just love the fingerless sleeves.
@justsomeguy6133
@justsomeguy6133 Жыл бұрын
I like the “be yourself” advice, since there’s no other person anyone can truly be happy being…but most guys are probably here because “being themselves” hasn’t resulted in success. Some people just have a personality and lifestyle that isn’t attractive or compatible with most prospective partners.
@lordjim6323
@lordjim6323 2 жыл бұрын
This is totally true. My wife is much younger than me but independent and mature. She'd kill me over any of these traits. I feel very fortunate. Respect and best wishes Ma'am:)
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@christopherevans6428
@christopherevans6428 2 жыл бұрын
She WILL get rid of you. Prepare yourself.
@lordjim6323
@lordjim6323 2 жыл бұрын
@@christopherevans6428 Mahahah! yup. Trust me. Been prepared since day one.
@BCSchmerker
@BCSchmerker 2 жыл бұрын
+CaitlinV *As the autistic adult child of a dysfunctional house of origin, I never learned how one should treat oneself and/or others, therefore have a tendency to come in too **_cold._* Lack of experience in singles events, which eluded me for three decades, doesn't help.
@trinsit
@trinsit Жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat different ocean. I am autistic, but I just thought I was being a good Christian by turning down any and all opportunities and hating myself for thinking pleasure was evil. Now I'm an atheist, but still have all this baggage keeping me from being comfortable doing anything with anyone.
@grouchyvince9688
@grouchyvince9688 2 күн бұрын
I just watched this one. I'll get this off my chest as to #9; I'm sick & tired of hearing how vulnerability makes for a better relationship. If one needs one's partner to be "vulnerable" for any reason for a more satisfying relationship or to feel safe/comfortable, then they want that partner to BELONG to them, not to BE WITH them. Wanting dominance or possession on any emotional level is not good. Period. If you have a question, ASK IT! If you don't like the answer or don't get one, then maybe that person is not right for you, and you move on. One should not demand of others what they are not willing to give up themselves. Nor should they expect others to act/react as you do. That's my 2 cents.
@dgrhm08
@dgrhm08 2 жыл бұрын
Seems like you need to make a video about men being vulnerable to women. I've found women freak out or lose interest when a man shows weakness.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
That’s a great subject thank you!!!
@MrBooYa-yd5er
@MrBooYa-yd5er 2 жыл бұрын
My last name is Bannon as well.
@Baes_Theorem
@Baes_Theorem 2 жыл бұрын
There are right ways and wrong ways to be vulnerable, and unfortunately most men have not even considered what the difference is.
@therealkolit
@therealkolit 2 жыл бұрын
Yea. How to respond well when you open up and make yourself vulnerable. Sometimes partner doesn’t respond well to the weaknesses
@jameskavanagh7092
@jameskavanagh7092 2 жыл бұрын
I found number 9 confusing? When you hear dating advice it says that being vulnerable is a bad trait and it names you look like a 'Simp" and your women looses respect and trust in you, but sadly from my own personal experience, when I have been open and vulnerable that information has been used as ammunition, fired back at me to hurt me, so what is the right answer to this?
@Blazervitch
@Blazervitch 2 жыл бұрын
the right answer is don't be vulnerable.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
the only answer is be vulnerable IN THE RIGHT WAY!! :D
@3DJapan
@3DJapan 2 жыл бұрын
It takes conscious effort to not talk about an ex. With anyone else the ex might just pop up in conversation but with the new date, match, etc. You have to think before you speak and stop yourself before they come up.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE!! Thank you Phil!
@justsomeguy6133
@justsomeguy6133 Жыл бұрын
It depends on context, too. Saying “my ex was Bryant Gumbel’s cousin” is different than saying “my ex likes it when we did XXXXX”.
@coletrain644
@coletrain644 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to have to disagree with #9. Most women lose attraction to men all the time once they are vulnerable in front of them. Every guy either knows a guy it's happened to or they're the guy it's happened to. It's learned/conditioned behavior.
@scottp8214
@scottp8214 2 жыл бұрын
They will use it against men later!!
@raymahannah4336
@raymahannah4336 2 жыл бұрын
It really depends on the "type" of woman. Also, how long have you known her, what the vulnerability is, and if you tried to conceal it from her before...
@coletrain644
@coletrain644 2 жыл бұрын
@@raymahannah4336 the length of time you've know her is irrelevant. I personally know guys who were with their partners for a few months to a year and others that were with their partners for several years. Once they opened up and were vulnerable the women saw them differently in a negative way. They lost attraction to them. And the reason they were vulnerable was varied. Some was due to work stress, some a family member died, etc, etc. Same result. I'm not saying all women will react this way but enough of them will and that's enough for me and lots of other guys to be extremely overly cautious about opening up and being vulnerable with women.
@icq208306
@icq208306 2 жыл бұрын
@@raymahannah4336 in the video the guy David has been in a relationship with the woman for a while... Shouldn't she know most of his flaws by now? I bet by this time in the relationship she is farting in front of him and if that doesn't say she is comfortable with him and his vulnerabilities then they have other problems.
@Driv300mph
@Driv300mph 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, my wife of 6 years, partner of 11 years left me after I went through some physical trauma and resulting depression. I was nothing but transparent with my feelings and almost immediately she started seeing other men. Don't be vulnerable... it's a trap.
@jaredbuchanan286
@jaredbuchanan286 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate all of your content ( once I am financially able I will be signing up for your courses) but. I have been following you for only 2 week but my relationship ( personal and sexual) with my fiance have gotten better by leasing bounds. So once again thank you 🙌🙌
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
hell yes! Glad to hear that Jared and I look forward to seeing where you take this!
@ja-bv3lq
@ja-bv3lq 2 жыл бұрын
Kaitlyn - I totally agree with everything you've said. But I am built like an AN OGRE. I'm a physically BIG guy (not a euphemism). I've had soooo many women say my size was a problem for them because they feared "what I could do." - yet they haven't got to know me. What can I do beyond being stuck in the "friend zone" and hoping I get out of it?
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
aww my response got deleted! Anyway I had a client JUST YOUR SIZE and he had been 20+ years without sex and now he's dating (I can't remember.... maybe engaged to be married) SO DONT GIVE UP!
@jonthomas9708
@jonthomas9708 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a woman but I think being a big brute of a man can be a positive advantage with more than a few women. A feeling of safety, rather than danger being with you. With low class females a license to behave outrageously badly towards others without consequence. If you have some rough edges about your manner, a habit of cussing and swearing for example, knock that off. If you're loud, tone it down. If you're inclined to be angry then you need to do some work. A smooth and considerate manner combined with a potentially terrifying physical presence will work very well for you imo
@petenicholson1323
@petenicholson1323 2 жыл бұрын
Love the top Caitlin. The seams on the sleeves are fab ... and I still managed to remain 'present' through another great vid. Thanks
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Nice work and thank you for commenting Pete :))
@sasapetroski981
@sasapetroski981 8 ай бұрын
Not been present on date is most worst thing, without eyes contact start to be more tense and feeling... I want to runaway. So look at her/his eyes, watch body leanguage, everything what you talking must be on natural way without pretending and everything will be ok
@jodie-louise
@jodie-louise 2 жыл бұрын
love this
@3DJapan
@3DJapan 2 жыл бұрын
There's a fine line between first date and job interview. 😂
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your kind words and thank you very much
@trinsit
@trinsit Жыл бұрын
Don't think coaching will do me any good while still living with family. I don't think the situation matters. If you live with family, there is no moving forward. 😔
@billboyle7886
@billboyle7886 2 жыл бұрын
Great top 10, it’s a great point to keep trying new ways to be intimate Great outfit also!!!
@EricB256
@EricB256 2 жыл бұрын
I love your avantgarde outfit. The color contrast of the seams on the sleeves and the hint at gloves. Wow. What brand is it?
@JonathanBaltzly
@JonathanBaltzly 5 ай бұрын
I love your shirt!
@williamstafford8324
@williamstafford8324 2 жыл бұрын
Hey girl what's up hope your weeks going good and you're the coolest girl I know helping us out like this ❤❤❤❤❤
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@blackmcbain3145
@blackmcbain3145 2 жыл бұрын
Amber heard shows us all the danger of being "vulnerable" 😮‍💨
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely failed to define vulnerability well, here's what Mark Manson said "Vulnerability is consciously choosing to NOT hide your emotions or desires from others... You just freely express your thoughts, feelings, desires, and opinions regardless of what others might think of you."
@Patriotforever32
@Patriotforever32 2 жыл бұрын
Love your top. It’s awesome!
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@banksofbarcelona3893
@banksofbarcelona3893 2 жыл бұрын
You're the teacher teaching the lesson to be heard, that's word with a purpose
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you and this comment is poetry!
@banksofbarcelona3893
@banksofbarcelona3893 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV Yup! And I'd do more when you inspire me like you do!
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
I do understand that and I've tried watching the other channels and stuff and I understand what you saying I appreciate that
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you and for commenting! I do my best and always trying to improve :)
@arezakkhoshmilan5793
@arezakkhoshmilan5793 Жыл бұрын
Good advice
@dianethorburn9164
@dianethorburn9164 2 жыл бұрын
The first date you were on the money but forgot one thing. The guy asks you out, but than says where do you want to go? It is nice but have at least a suggestion. It makes woman feel he has put no thought into it. What do you think?
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74
@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 2 жыл бұрын
What I think works best is to say: "I'm going to this place at this time. Would you like to join me?" Decisive, assertive, and Masculine without being demanding. If she says "No" because she wants something else or is busy then but is interested, she will suggest something else.
@dianethorburn9164
@dianethorburn9164 2 жыл бұрын
@@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 perfect! That is the way to do it.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I love when a guy is decisive about dates so that's my vote. Be decisive but flexible :)
@dianethorburn9164
@dianethorburn9164 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV Definitely!!!!
@MrZZooh
@MrZZooh 2 жыл бұрын
Good advice. Listening to this stuff makes me realize how far I am from most guys' experiences my age. All I know are the hookers since last year. No girlfriends or dates. It's tragic but kinda funny at the same time. Shit.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn't sound tragic sounds smart to me!!
@MrZZooh
@MrZZooh 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV thanks for having a sense of humor. I so can't relate when someone talks about their ex or relationship, because I never had one.
@Davidpostingshid
@Davidpostingshid Жыл бұрын
It’s never too late. I lost my virginity to a hooker when I was 20, and only ever saw hookers and not date. But at 26 I had my first sexual encounter with a woman that was actually attracted to me and that I didn’t have to give money to.
@ibahnasy1
@ibahnasy1 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree with mistake number one you mention , as in principle Women like elegant guys who take care of their look, having good watch and good car is always a plus
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Icing on the cake for sure, but the car doesn't matter if the guy inside is rotten
@ibahnasy1
@ibahnasy1 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV icing on the cake , makes her tempeting to taste the cake , and willing to know if the cake is good or rotten inside, and that is the most difficult part, which is attract her attention and make her willing to know more and give the man chance to work his magic ☺️☺️☺️
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 2 жыл бұрын
I already know there's no such thing as fairness and never has been and never will be, but I know that one of the things I hate about being born male, born a guy, is how guys or men can easily or unfortunately be labeled creepy or weird in social situations or interactions. A lot of guys can unfortunately be labeled that even when they never meant any harm and were never trying to hurt anybody. We were just trying to attempting to be social and making new friends and possibly trying to get a date or get a girlfriend. It sucks because many of us are just never specifically taught in our adolescent years, teenage years, as to what is creepy behavior or what is creepy and what is not creepy, we just never learned, so people and society shouldn't be so hard on people who make dumb social mistakes that causes them to get labeled creepy or weird because they just never learned, they were never specifically taught or told as to what is creepy behavior and what is not creepy. We just never learned, they never learned, was someone supposed to teach them that? And women have the luxury of never having to be labeled creepy or weird in social interactions or social situations like men do, it makes sense as to why women never have to worry about being labeled that is because, since guys or men are physically bigger or on average a little bit stronger than women, that means in a woman's perspective, a guy can be perceived or interpreted as a possible threat or a danger, the reverse is never true, and since men have always had the burden of having to make advances towards a woman, that makes men at risk of being labeled that unfortunately.
@luisenriquedelapena1046
@luisenriquedelapena1046 2 жыл бұрын
Greetings, Caitlin. I have a question. How can I tell the difference when a woman just wants to be friends rather than being "friends with benefits"? I can never tell when a woman just wants to sleep with me, so I get the wrong message and believe it could become something more. Could you post a video about the signals or things women say and do to tell men they just want to be friends with benefits, please? I'd really appreciate it.
@madmaddy174
@madmaddy174 2 жыл бұрын
Simple, ask her
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
yeah asking her is the best route! no other way around it I'm afraid :)
@user-jo5fz8iw3b
@user-jo5fz8iw3b 2 жыл бұрын
Im in the same position. One of my friends an i were out bar hopping about 10 yrs ago and i met a beautiful thick Italian dark skinned girl - my buddy cam over and "cock-blocked" me that night 10 yrs ago and he ultimately married her. Over the years she always brought up that night and how she wanted both of us. Soo now, shes been kinda hitting on me in a sexual joking manner. How do i tell her i really love her alot as a friend but will not ruin my 30+ yr friendship with my buddy over a girl/sex.
@luisenriquedelapena1046
@luisenriquedelapena1046 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV I tried that once and the girl just avoided the topic maybe because she thought I wanted a serious relationship. We (men or some men) are kinda ignorant (or stupid) when it comes to reading women's signals and we don't know if they're flirting because they like being flirty, they're playing with our feelings, they just wanna have sex or they want a serious relationship. I was hoping to get your advice but I guess that's not possible. Thank you for replying, keep up with the great work and God bless you.
@luisenriquedelapena1046
@luisenriquedelapena1046 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-jo5fz8iw3b That is exactly my point, man. I don't wanna ruin a "friendship" with a woman because I got mixed messages, thinking that she was flirting with me when in reality she just was kidding or being playful. Nowadays, I'm afraid to ask women what they want because I don't want them to think I'm a creepy man. That's why I reached out to Caitlin; see or tell if there are some signals to tell the difference when a woman is just being nice, flirty, toying with a man's feelings or just wants to sleep with him. Thank you for your reply and take care, man.
@swing2gether
@swing2gether 2 жыл бұрын
Number 10, IMO, isnt a matter of him not learning so much, but rather her not communicating what she'd like.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I can see it that way, thanks for the comment!
@beatingaroundbush
@beatingaroundbush 2 жыл бұрын
Hmm, I get what your saying. But maybe women also need to be educated on the mistakes they make. And yea, everyone makes mistakes.
@anhan7316
@anhan7316 Жыл бұрын
omg her shirt has fingers. im subbing
@azthundercloud
@azthundercloud 2 жыл бұрын
I always take a few flowers for my date. If she smirks or rolls her eyes i excuse myself saying i forgot something in my car. I leave and dont look back.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
This is not a bad strategy!! But i LOVE flowers so I'd be over the moon
@jjtiojohn12
@jjtiojohn12 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I rarely take dating advice from women, fickle and insatiable one minute you want a strong man the next minute you want a vulnerable man who expresses his feelings. One minute you want a guy who is considerate the next you want a strong man who doesn't take shit and is a bad ass. Make up your mind! Oh you can't.... because you change anywhere the wind blows! That's exactly why your single into your 30's!
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
You are cracking me upppppp dude!! Yes we want a man who CAN DO BOTH!! Be strong AND vulnerable. At the right time, and in balance. This is pretty straight forward. Also I am married, have been since my 20s, and my husband is a great example of a man who can do both. I believe you can too!! Don’t give up!!
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
I hear what you're saying it's sometimes I get frustrated because women won't talk back let you know what they're feeling they keep it all inside and I can't read your mind
@marvinthemartian9584
@marvinthemartian9584 2 жыл бұрын
#4 There he is CENSORED wearing his horrible loafers and shit. lol
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
LOL thanks for commenting Marvin!
@pinkahboo925
@pinkahboo925 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! The hiding 🤣🤣🤣 we know ok, we know more then you think.
@imuniverse7500
@imuniverse7500 2 жыл бұрын
Hey! You are a great female. You look nice. I realy like your job. THX.
@francescobruno-bossio537
@francescobruno-bossio537 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of these are moot points. Many men just can't get beyond the initial screening on dating apps- if they even get that far. There's a lot that a woman just won't tell us- and it's not so much we are playing games with her to meet the marks of some system we have- but we are playing a game to try to figure out what this person we do not know in front of us is after. I've never met a woman who did not put up a front of ambiguity. It's very hard not to just simply mirror the one you're with. Often, out of real genuine embarrassment, you are forced to talk about yourself because there's nothing more painful than awkward silence. I do not know if women know about awkward silences and like to weaponize it or the ones I've been with were just lazy characters.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Dating apps have definitely changed the game for the worse, especially for average-looking men. The truth is you find people who are attracted to what you're putting out, so you might want to ask what about your dating method is attracting ambiguity?
@Davidpostingshid
@Davidpostingshid Жыл бұрын
I think it’s okay to have at least 1 shirtless pic on Tinder. As long as it’s like the 3rd or 4th image
@toddmurat2673
@toddmurat2673 2 жыл бұрын
You are one of a kind, but I wish all of us guys had a big sister like you. Would have made life so much easier. Oh well, better late than never. lol
@williamhardes8081
@williamhardes8081 2 жыл бұрын
if i had a big sister like her i would have trouble not having the sorts of evil thoughts you just shouldn't have about your sister.
@toddmurat2673
@toddmurat2673 2 жыл бұрын
@@williamhardes8081 Well, that's on you buddy. Maybe you should learn to separate sex from friendship. If you cannot be friends with a woman without having evil thoughts - especially family, you are simply being immature and lack self control. Dude, your sister? Really? WTF is wrong with you?
@heshistamps3108
@heshistamps3108 2 жыл бұрын
Every time I talk to my sexual partners about sex. What more I can do to improve and diversify the experience. They always tell me they like what I’m doing. Now I am no stranger to a fake orgasm or to the multiple mind bending squiring orgasms. Regardless I always want to improve. Not every woman is comfortable talking about sex even to people they’re having sex. Do you have any advice on how to approach The conversation with these types of individuals?
@rogerdepoller2124
@rogerdepoller2124 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to disagree on the opening up one, It could work with a certain kind of woman, but it's generally a bad idea. Use your friends for that. And maybe, if you feel the girl you're with would understand, do it. But I can't count the times I've been asked to be vulnerable, just to be dismissed 30 seconds later. I get it's too much for them to cope with. I'm a bit sensitive, I have a sad back story. But I'm fine with it, I'm over it, so why bother?
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely failed to define vulnerability well, here's what Mark Manson said "Vulnerability is consciously choosing to NOT hide your emotions or desires from others... You just freely express your thoughts, feelings, desires, and opinions regardless of what others might think of you."
@rogerdepoller2124
@rogerdepoller2124 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV I never thought Caitlin would read it, but I can definitely agree on that definition. We all probably just assumed the meaning, anyway.
@byronmartin4511
@byronmartin4511 2 жыл бұрын
byron yes
@MsTiger6969
@MsTiger6969 2 жыл бұрын
You do know a relationship is a 2 way street !
@shady610
@shady610 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe a second video coming? ?
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
This is a channel for men so that's who I address the videos to! But there are videos like that for women both by male and female youtubers :)
@jacobglick9303
@jacobglick9303 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@Cryptonymicus
@Cryptonymicus 2 жыл бұрын
Videos like this make relationships seem like just another job.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
they take work but the benefits are pretty much unbeatable
@ImranKhan-tj3dr
@ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV I love u Really I like u I m intrested you 👧😍❤🌷
@madmaddy174
@madmaddy174 2 жыл бұрын
1 mistake. Are you forgettin Tinder swindler 😂😂
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
there are exceptions and he is one of them
@patjohnston4047
@patjohnston4047 2 жыл бұрын
Apparently bringing a dog into the relationship is something she needed to ease into...
@blainetrahan8883
@blainetrahan8883 2 жыл бұрын
Again. You cannot let a woman know your true feelings. She will use it against us. Great video
@waltergreen6981
@waltergreen6981 2 жыл бұрын
Yup I know how to do that both ways but need to have more to get off scammers and con artists away please help
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely failed to define vulnerability well, here's what Mark Manson said "Vulnerability is consciously choosing to NOT hide your emotions or desires from others... You just freely express your thoughts, feelings, desires, and opinions regardless of what others might think of you."
@jamesberry2083
@jamesberry2083 2 жыл бұрын
My feeling ❤️ is adoration towards you 😊.
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not trying to be a jerk nothing but be open and honest and she can't be open and honest
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I get that! I totally understand Frank, it's not easy being the leader and having to go first in relationships, it's draining and thankless for most men and I wish it wasn't the case
@stevewright2972
@stevewright2972 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I subscribed to this channel because it makes for Good Comedy. I'm 58 and I found this video amusing to say the least. Right out of the gate Caitlin says that women don't want a man for what He has. That basically negated the rest of the video. I've met a ton of women in my lifetime and vanity is key to getting anything out of a female. Peace.
@shady610
@shady610 2 жыл бұрын
You need to meet better women or let go of your anger towards them.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that you're getting something out my videos :) Thank you for commenting!
@stevewright2972
@stevewright2972 2 жыл бұрын
@@shady610 I'm not angry towards anything. You must vote Democrat.
@shady610
@shady610 2 жыл бұрын
@@stevewright2972 nope. Never voted for one a day in my life. But I can see your anger in general.
@stevewright2972
@stevewright2972 2 жыл бұрын
@@shady610 Anger has not been in my program for 58 years but I'll end it there. You have the wrong "handle" BTW.
@alexsaunders4156
@alexsaunders4156 2 жыл бұрын
But what if I'm ugly
@danavest
@danavest 2 жыл бұрын
Ten years sexless marriage and my wife moved into another bedroom and I bought a life like sexless doll she found out and said she’s never having sex with me ever again
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry Dana that sounds painful and I am sorry you’re dealing with that. I am glad you took care of your needs by getting the doll!
@danavest
@danavest 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV thank you
@beatingaroundbush
@beatingaroundbush 2 жыл бұрын
Also you want guys to be open and honest about what they want?? What about women being open about what they want?? Instead of being secretive and letting guys crumble to Try make the happy??
@jamesberry2083
@jamesberry2083 2 жыл бұрын
Not only why be lonely. ? Huh 🥺 lol 😆
@ununbeliebt
@ununbeliebt 2 жыл бұрын
10:50 well maybe she shouldnt fake having a good time then...
@wenthulk8439
@wenthulk8439 10 ай бұрын
Unless you show too much vulnerability……
@wenthulk8439
@wenthulk8439 10 ай бұрын
So I’ve heard
@byronmartin4511
@byronmartin4511 2 жыл бұрын
yes y call
@blackmcbain3145
@blackmcbain3145 2 жыл бұрын
Next do things women do that turn men off. Let's do a 3 pt series
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I could write an encyclopedia of things I do to turn men off just based on my KZbin comments. But that’s for another coach’s KZbin channel 😂
@richardbutch7342
@richardbutch7342 2 жыл бұрын
She would never do a video helping woman understand what they do wrong as far as men go because ....women do really give a shit what men want and how they want to be treated. If women actually were to watch the video they would pause for a moment and say ......screw that!
@lylez00
@lylez00 2 жыл бұрын
Have you seen the average woman's Instagram account lately??
@LeChevalierNoir4474
@LeChevalierNoir4474 2 жыл бұрын
Just plain common sense.
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
So you do talk to Raymond to why don't you make pamphlet for women to be more open and honest with men
@richardbutch7342
@richardbutch7342 2 жыл бұрын
They aren't truly open and honest because women feel that men are to be manipulated and controlled so what they say is usually some kind of test which you must pass or suffer the consequences.
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your comments thank you
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Dude I am so sorry that women hurt you this bad!!! She didn't deserve you, and I hope you will be able to move on and heal this hurt eventually
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
No when I was a kid 7 years old and older lady messed with me and my mother was very very very abusive and I'm 56 and I've never been married had no kids and I haven't interacted with people for 22 years
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
But you know I do appreciate your program
@einarreriksson4598
@einarreriksson4598 2 жыл бұрын
If you have money, don't show off! You will be a gold digger magnet.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
lol there's some truth to this for sure
@einarreriksson4598
@einarreriksson4598 2 жыл бұрын
​@@CaitlinV Good thing that I met my wife back when the vault was empty.
@frankboone8380
@frankboone8380 2 жыл бұрын
You say women talk to you why don't you sell this stuff to women to
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I don't sell stuff to women because load of other people do that already but there's not much quality stuff out here for guys!! This KZbin channel is my labor of love for men and the women they love
@rhyswaterman4951
@rhyswaterman4951 2 жыл бұрын
I paused at 7 minutes 49 seconds to cringe a little David dude no!! 😬
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
LOL thank you for commenting Rhys!!
@DuaLeaD
@DuaLeaD 2 жыл бұрын
Gents, ever notice how you never see a video for "Mistakes Women Make Them Unattractive to Men" ? She can't do no wrong because she has OPTIONS and society puts all this shit on single guys because we aren't in the right victim group....
@richardbutch7342
@richardbutch7342 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely the worst advise. Don't ask a fish how to fish. ....ask a fisherman. Do you ever notice how much pressure that a man is under to win a woman's affection? Way too much work. It's because woman are not pleasable. Listen to all these damn rules. Doesn't this say everything you need to know? Modern statistics say mens' drives have dropped 44%. Why is that? You know why.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
Because of... fish? Actually I love this comment thank you Richard.
@kendopowell7902
@kendopowell7902 2 жыл бұрын
Not true woman love money
@michellemorgan9832
@michellemorgan9832 2 жыл бұрын
Can you help me find your gspot!??
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I can help YOU find YOUR g-spot!
@michellemorgan9832
@michellemorgan9832 2 жыл бұрын
@@CaitlinV HaHa, Love it
@khabir2869
@khabir2869 2 жыл бұрын
Why you shake your hands so much!
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know... maybe cuz the dress has finger holes?
@michaelcassidy9577
@michaelcassidy9577 2 жыл бұрын
lol! Alpha's don't care.
@sasukesan96
@sasukesan96 2 жыл бұрын
this videos is kind of an L
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
sorry you feel that way, always trying to improve week over week :)
@oliguayasebesteves166
@oliguayasebesteves166 2 жыл бұрын
Too much hard work. What mistakes do you make girls? Stupidity is reaching new levels.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
This channel is for men! I'm 100000% sure that video exists on someone else's channel!
@LuchadorMasque
@LuchadorMasque 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God you got rid of that saftey pin shirt thing. Christ.
@azthundercloud
@azthundercloud 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting for the day when she wears a wicked weasel outfit.
@jncn1490
@jncn1490 2 жыл бұрын
Love that shirt, needs longer safety pins
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
please... clarify... I think I want to know...?
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
LOL y'all know I wear it just to see what y'all say about it right?!?! Thank you for commenting!!
@LuchadorMasque
@LuchadorMasque 2 жыл бұрын
@@azthundercloud what's a wicked weasle?
@christopherevans6428
@christopherevans6428 2 жыл бұрын
So women don’t have any selfies no of course not 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@DogWaterPlayz1
@DogWaterPlayz1 2 жыл бұрын
1st
@Fush1234
@Fush1234 2 жыл бұрын
Weird clothes u have
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV 2 жыл бұрын
lol thank you I do have eccentric taste!
@Allan_aka_RocKITEman
@Allan_aka_RocKITEman Жыл бұрын
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