Mixed Emotions From Guilt to Relief: How to Handle Being Pregnant and Anxious | Dr Lora Shahine

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Lora Shahine, MD

Lora Shahine, MD

Күн бұрын

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@katiethompson2214
@katiethompson2214 Жыл бұрын
This is all so true. Thank you for sharing. Sitting in the waiting room alone, surrounded by happy pregnant woment, after finding out my baby had died was so hard. Clinics need a separate room for mothers experiencing a loss.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry for your loss - agree with your recommendation 💯
@sscc6853
@sscc6853 Жыл бұрын
I also agree with your comment. I was sitting at my obgyn office for a follow-up appt 2 weeks after a d&c procedure for my loss. & was trying not to cry & sob while watching all the pregnant women walking by. Another women walked out from having an ultrasound sound done with her husband by her side, smiling and laughing holding their photos from the ultrasound, they just found out the gender. I felt like crap. Definitely emotionally hard. Wish they had a seperate waiting area.
@Mira_White
@Mira_White 4 ай бұрын
I had a miscarriage three months ago and am now about six weeks pregnant and it doesn't feel real. My husband is much more upbeat about it, happy about the "quick bounce back", but he wasn't there in the ultrasound room when I was completely blindsided by there being no heartbeat. Before it happened, it had literally never occurred to me that it wasn't just something that "happens to some people", but could happen to ME. the actual miscarriage happened two weeks later... the day before our anniversary. So, no, I am not excited right now. I am exhausted but can't fall asleep and doing my best to distract myself and not think about it for now.
@catinabox3048
@catinabox3048 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I'm 7 weeks pregnant after 4 miscarriages (2 from IVF) and I have never seen another video that so accurately describes everything I've been through. The part about you making the phone call to the patient especially stood out to me because just WHY don't OBGYNs and their staff get better training on things like this? There's nothing that angers me more than someone telling me congratulations at a positive pregnancy test. I don't want to hear congratulations, especially not when my numbers are already low or I'm at the OB's office to track them down to negative. Even when I haven't lost the pregnancy yet, there is nothing to congratulate because a positive pregnancy test means absolutely nothing. Please just tell me my numbers, ask if I have questions, tell me what the next steps are, maybe ask how I'm feeling if you want, and well wishes are always appreciated. But a blanket congratulations just feels like a mockery. It feels dismissive of how difficult it is to keep a pregnancy. It assumes that a pregnancy is something that leads somewhere, and not just a disappearing second line on a test followed by a period soon thereafter. It feels like whoever says it is coming from such a privileged and sheltered place to be able to say something like that. I'm glad you were self-aware enough to have recognized the situation on your own, but I wish it were a more systematic part of every provider's (and their assistants' and nurses' and even administrative staff's) training.
@hardtoimpress02
@hardtoimpress02 7 ай бұрын
I pray everything turns out okay with you and your baby! I’m 3 weeks pregnant now after a miscarriage and it definitely is hard looking forward to something that isn’t guaranteed . I pray that you get to meet your baby this year ❤
@earthangel2683
@earthangel2683 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for validating my feelings. Going through one and its tough to face the world after it. Praying for everyone struggling from infertility/miscarriage ptsd🙏🌈
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 11 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️
@thf_
@thf_ 3 ай бұрын
Good morning doctora, sorry for my English. Thank u so so much for the video. I remembered my first pregnancy after just 1 cycle of trying, we were over the moon, just moved to a new country, very excited to start a new chapter… and unfortunately a miscarriage, so strong… I thought I was going to literally die… natural miscarriage at the shower, saw even the umbilical cord. Traumatic. couldn’t try again until this July, fortunately after 1 cycle, pregnant . We didn’t even celebrate. 1 week after, today i had to go to ER because of brown spotting, i did see the sac but nothing inside. They told me it’s too early and my blood work was 22000 yesterday and today will do again. Just i came from the ER i was crying for hours. Pregnancy should be a happy moment and for me, us.. it’s pure anxiety. Thank u so much for the channel.
@sevdaakbarpor5817
@sevdaakbarpor5817 Жыл бұрын
I watched this video while I cried with every sentence you said. I remembered the day when my husband and I went for a check on ultrasound. It was week 19. We were so excited to see the baby's movements. But suddenly the doctor said that the heart is not beatting 😭. I won't forget the moment I experienced, and the days after that..
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for what you both went through!
@CocotheNut
@CocotheNut Жыл бұрын
I'm pregnant again after a 40 week stillbirth out of the blue and this is so relevant. I check for blood every time and I'm almost 30 weeks 😬 The anxiety just doesn't stop
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you so much love.
@CocotheNut
@CocotheNut Жыл бұрын
@@drlorashahine Thank you so much ❤️
@UzmaHaqqani
@UzmaHaqqani Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@menomeno69
@menomeno69 Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? I hope you all the best and good health
@CocotheNut
@CocotheNut Жыл бұрын
@@menomeno69 Thank you! We're doing great, my son is 3 months and he's super healthy ❤️
@vickeylouisy3050
@vickeylouisy3050 Жыл бұрын
I went for my 18th week Dr appointment on the 24th February and was told there's no heartbeat. I'm still hurting from that. That's 2 in a row. Last year I was supposed to be 8 weeks and baby stopped growing at 8 weeks which end up in a miscarriage. I'm so happy I came across your video. I'm still hurting especially when I see a pregnant person knowing I should be pregnant too, sometimes I still want to continue purchasing baby stuff maybe thinking it will remove my mind on losing my baby. I was feeling so confused until I came across your video.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
Hi Vickey. I'm so sorry for your loss. I truly empathize with you. I hope my video was of help. I really appreciate you for watching.
@laurenbrandom3892
@laurenbrandom3892 Жыл бұрын
This is really comforting. I miscarried in December and trying again. I know I will be feeling this was after such a traumatic experience with my first pregnancy. Hopeful for all of those mamas out there who are trying!
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for watching, I'm glad this video was of some comfort.
@MooreBasics
@MooreBasics 2 жыл бұрын
I just ordered both books. I've been wanting books similar to these but I've been overwhelmed with the options available. I miscarried last year at 11 weeks but I think my baby died at 6 weeks. In March I had a chemical pregnancy. I just found out I'm a little over 4 weeks. It's quite torturous to be pregnant. There is the battle of, will I trust God once more no matter the outcome? God tells us not to fear. It sure is hard not to when you've gone through the heart break and physical pain. Thank you for your compassion and for sharing. I wish we had doctors in our area that were like you. Unfortunately, finding a Dr who cares these days is hard.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry for your losses. Best wishes to you.
@Merbella
@Merbella 2 жыл бұрын
Well said. wishing you a peaceful pregnancy 🙏
@Carribean_gurl
@Carribean_gurl 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations hun..I pray you have a healthy pregnancy n healthy baby...🤰❤🙏
@THEMRS3000
@THEMRS3000 Жыл бұрын
@MooreBasics I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks but the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks as well. And I am currently going through a chemical pregnancy 2 months after that. We’ll try again next cicle. If you feel comfortable, could you share an update on your third pregnancy? Hope all is well! God bless you!
@MooreBasics
@MooreBasics Жыл бұрын
@SXYCRO2010 So sorry to hear this. The 3rd pregnancy was ectopic and I almost died. That was 6 months ago. I haven't been pregnant since.
@bettinalorincz495
@bettinalorincz495 Жыл бұрын
You are so graceful and a blessing! I miscarried in my eleventh week 3 months ago and will start IUI next week, but I am so worried. Thank you for making these free, but so valuable, educational videos available to us.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss Bettina. Thank you so much for your kind words. You got this!!
@melodyh2939
@melodyh2939 11 ай бұрын
This video was so validating, thank you Dr. Shahine. I’m also reading Not Broken and that has been a helpful practical resource. I just had my D&C and now trying to move forward physically and emotionally. Even when you think you are prepared for a negative outcome you cannot possibly fathom how it feels until you go through it yourself. Now I’m terrified of both not being able to conceive again and also conceiving but having bad anxiety for 9 months worrying about what could happen. But I found some comfort in this video ❤
@empressmonica
@empressmonica 11 ай бұрын
I lost my baby boy 12 days ago after delivering him at 18w3d due to Incompetent Cervix. I didn’t get a d&c and I’m still having minimal bleeding. It’s truly a mental and physical struggle. I struggled with infertility off and on for years as I tried to conceive starting at age 20. After losing almost 100lbs I finally conceived naturally at 37 and this was my first ever pregnancy. I told myself the day I got the positive test that either way it goes I am happy to have conceive and would be grateful even if I didn’t make it. It was kinda like I knew it was too good to be true at the onset as sad as that sounds. I went in to have a heavy bleeding situation at 7w and it was at that moment that I knew I probably wouldn’t be ok if anything happened. I made it to 12w and was ecstatic because I’d beat the odds of when most miscarriages happens but was still on edge because I knew if anything happened my baby wasn’t yet at viability and my sister had PProm at around 21 weeks. Basically now I feel so empty and and wondering if it will take forever to happen again, time I don’t have since I’m 38 and if it does I know I’m going to be even more terrified the whole way through. No one talks about the terror that is pregnancy only the joy… don’t get me wrong that joy is undeniably the best feeling ever but the terror is real. Good luck to all mamas trying again after loss or currently going through a loss. We can do this!
@maysayay
@maysayay 2 жыл бұрын
We lost our daughter on the 18th week and are currently pregnant again (13th week). I sobbed and nodded through out the first half of this video. Every appointment I go expecting them to say my baby is dead. It's so hard to find joy again. Mostly I just try to take care and distract myself until the next appointment.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
May, I'm so sorry for you loss. No parent should ever have to go through that kind of pain.
@eliron9
@eliron9 7 ай бұрын
Hi Dr. Shahine, I did not know I needed to hear this video. As it put's into words, all my emotions with my infertility. I had two ectopic pregnancies. The first one, I got pregnant naturally, I was not even aware I was pregnant until it ruptured. I hemorrhage for hours, until my husband and I called an ambulance. The second time, I did the IUI process three times, and the last was a charm. I got pregnant, I was so excited, but it was discovered it was an ectopic pregnancy in my first ultra sound. After all this, I had my first biopsy, and it was discovered I have endometriosis. Now I am trying IVF and I am so happy and so scared at the same time. THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO!!! I cried watching it, but I am so glad you made it.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words. I am so sorry to for your losses💔💔. Best wishes to you!!
@lindseyl6925
@lindseyl6925 Жыл бұрын
This video really hits home for me. At my 19 week anatomy scan, we found out there was no longer a heartbeat and also that I had a complete previa. My dr had to call around to some MFMs and I was given the option to drive either 4 hours to Boise, ID or 6 hours to OHSU for a D&E. We chose Boise because it was closer but wish we hadn't. I was required to sign paperwork for the medication saying I was inducing an abortion. The whole experience was very surgical and very traumatizing. That dr left the state soon after due to the political climate. I just found out I am pregnant again which has given me sooo much anxiety. My therapist has also diagnosed me with ptsd. I appreciate your acknowledgement on this issue. I will check out those books. ❤
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love and support.
@Sneeze8588
@Sneeze8588 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It is very hard. I feel like I always think that the next milestone will put me at ease and then get disappointed when that doesn't happen. It is so difficult not knowing day to day if everything is still ok.
@simplymiraculous6494
@simplymiraculous6494 6 күн бұрын
I had a miscarriage about 3-4 months ago and im currently just now 7 weeks. I felt nausea all last week and had my peak in nausea and vomiting on Monday, but for the past 3 days ive not had much nausea, especially in comparison. Im definitely feeling the anxiety of it, especially since in my last pregnancy, my nausea suddenly went nearly completely away around the time my baby stopped developing (9 wks, had my appt at 11 wks, which is right when i started showing blood and found out). Im trying to not worry so much about it though, knowing that nausea can fluctuate differently each person and each pregnancy. I cant help but be anxious about it though 😫😥 so ive definitely been praising the Lord any brief moment i have felt nauseous bc it gives some reassurance. My husband and I plan to tell our parents of this news next week on Christmas.
@chicpeachaf
@chicpeachaf Жыл бұрын
We have a two year old at home and I lost my son at my second ultrasound around 11 weeks. We've been trying for approximately 7-8 months now since the loss, and it has been very tough. I just had an HSG procedure today and got both of my tubes unblocked due to endometreosis. I feel a little hope now, and just hoping that this is it. ♥Although I have some new hope, I'm very nervous for what is to come. Best wishes to all of the mamas on here trying to conceive! 🌈
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love
@nmg6248
@nmg6248 7 ай бұрын
I’m saddened to realize I didn’t understand at all the fear my daughter was going through. I had three successful pregnancies and live births. A miscarriage or stillbirth was never even a fear of mine. I took it for granted that she would too. But she could feel something was wrong the whole time and just wanted people to recognize that she knew something was wrong even as she was finding reasons not to be scared. It didn’t occur to me what she would be going through if she lost the baby. She was 1500 miles away and so scared and alone. I will never take someone’s pregnancy for granted or how devastating a miscarriage is.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 7 ай бұрын
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending love to you, your daughter, and your family❤️
@GingerHoliday
@GingerHoliday 6 ай бұрын
Yeah I was so excited when I first found out I was pregnant, had sickness and finally went to my first apt at 9 weeks to find out it was going to be a missed miscarriage. Then I bleed so badly I was hospitalized. The. A few weeks of bleeding I got an infection and was hospitalized again. And now, 6 months of ttc and nothing. It’s so surreal, it’s like it never happened.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 6 ай бұрын
💔 I am so sorry for your loss and traumatic recovery. Consider consult with a hematologist ?bleeding disorder and trauma recovery emotional support❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@michaelapharand6334
@michaelapharand6334 Ай бұрын
@GingerHoliday This was my first pregnancy after trying for a year and a half to conceive. I went to my 9 week first ultrasound yesterday and got the heartbreaking news that there was no heartbeat and it probably was lost at 6 weeks. I haven't had the miscarriage yet and I'm not sure how I'm going to be able to pull myself together enough to make it to my full-time job especially when I don't know when the cramps or bleeding will start. I feel very vulnerable. 💔
@mariamm6387
@mariamm6387 Жыл бұрын
This make me cry 😢 I wish every woman get what she really want ❤
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I wish for that too! Thank you for watching!
@eamsee657
@eamsee657 Жыл бұрын
My previous pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage. I just found out that I am currently pregnant at about 5 weeks. I'm absolutely terrified to be happy and dreading that first ultrasound at 9 weeks. It was at an ultrasound appointment where I found out about the missed miscarriage and I'm trying so hard to stay positive. The fear and anxiety are overwhelming and I have a therapy appointment on the books, but geez this is one heck of an emotional rollercoaster.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing your experience with us. Congratulations on your pregnancy and I wish you all the best on your journey. Thank you for watching.
@eamsee657
@eamsee657 Жыл бұрын
@@drlorashahine Unfortunately, I miscarried again.
@kajalpandey4717
@kajalpandey4717 Жыл бұрын
​@@eamsee657have you any prblm in your blood report plz reply?
@eamsee657
@eamsee657 Жыл бұрын
@@kajalpandey4717 I never made it that far. I miscarried a week later at 6 weeks spontaneously at home. I am currently pregnant again at 10 weeks, so we'll see.
@JG-lv1wq
@JG-lv1wq Жыл бұрын
@@eamsee657 ❤️
@rachelsylver9428
@rachelsylver9428 2 жыл бұрын
This was super comforting. Thank you!
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@AccidentallyAwesome1
@AccidentallyAwesome1 Ай бұрын
Super helpful. Thanks you.
@jackiethomas325
@jackiethomas325 4 ай бұрын
After 4 miscarriages with IVF (embryos were PGT tested to try and avoid miscarriages). I am so anxious about the next pregnancy. I can’t seem to get passed 8 weeks, it’s been really difficult after so many knock backs. But there’s always this hope that this time it will work.
@SHOETZL
@SHOETZL 9 ай бұрын
Thank you. It's nice to be seen.
@ashleytriana5984
@ashleytriana5984 Жыл бұрын
This was the most helpful and heartfelt video I watched on this topic. Thank you ❤️
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@cathymoodliar7550
@cathymoodliar7550 Жыл бұрын
After 8 Ivfs I fell pregnant.Last week at 16 weeks I had a mis miscarriage. Thank you for this video.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@grlfromtx09
@grlfromtx09 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much for this ❤️❤️❤️ it really hit home.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@lhanzom4878
@lhanzom4878 Жыл бұрын
This made me cry more 😢😅your every word is what I felt. It’s painful
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! But thank you so much for watching
@tfaj17
@tfaj17 10 ай бұрын
I am pregnant after 14 years of 1 stillbirth, 7 miscarriages and 3 failed ART. I am so glad I found your video because I have been so scared since I got a positive pregnancy test result last weekend. I have been so so terrified
@shannonprice2325
@shannonprice2325 Жыл бұрын
I’m 6 weeks and 1 day today I started passing clots and bled for two days this past mon n Tuesday and after wed I am barely spotting and my hcg levels doubled I thought I miscarried but I go for a prenatal appt this coming wed I can’t wait I had a miscarriage this past April and I am absolutely horrified it def took the joy away. I leave it in gods hands but I still worry Ty for this video
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best on your journey. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
@edinagaspar722
@edinagaspar722 8 ай бұрын
I had a missed carriage just before Xmas...first I did not even grasp what I was told, it took a couple of minutes to comprehend what I was told... I was all by myself...and when I left the room, I saw happy pregnant women. I still struggle with this loss...guilt, losing a dream (I've always wanted to have children...since I myself was a kid), the thoughts of not being able to fulfill what my body was meant to do and so many other thoughts
@thisnaturalgirlislocd
@thisnaturalgirlislocd 8 ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@adrianabravo5385
@adrianabravo5385 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video! THANK YOU!
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment. Please let me know if there’s any other topics you’d like me to cover.
@helenefollesdal479
@helenefollesdal479 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for sharing this video. So spot on for me :/
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@TheWinterqueen1
@TheWinterqueen1 9 ай бұрын
It's been 5 yrs since I had a miscarriage, I was 4 weeks 😢. I don't think Ive been able to grieve properly and haven't had the support I needed and wanted. Trying to live life everyday and move on from the lost but when I'm reminded just sitting alone. I'm hurting all over again like it was yesterday.
@dianeclarke3392
@dianeclarke3392 2 жыл бұрын
As a mother it is so brutal not being able to comfort our daughter who is on an infertility journey with two pregnancy losses. In a way I feel I have lost a daughter as she pushes me away in her self care and grief. Any advice? We send flowers, make meals, but she does not pick up the phone calls and does not reach out. This is isolating for her and her family.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you. It sounds like you are gently letting her know that you care and you are there to help when she's ready. Its all grief and grief comes with all the emotions and coping strategies - even isolation for time to heal. I did write a book specially for people to give their loved ones with miscarriage - it's 'Not Broken Illustrated: A Gift' - it helps loved ones who struggle to find the 'right words' - that doesn't sound like exactly what you need but sharing in case. Take care.
@user-sm6gg4gf4v
@user-sm6gg4gf4v 7 ай бұрын
Thank you! I have a 2 year old son. I am pregnant again. I had a miscarriage in January I was 8 weeks. I’m trying so hard not to worry and have anxiety. Every time I have a cramp I get paranoid. I remember my first pregnancy with my son I had no doubts. I wish I could feel the same way for this one. Thank you for the tools and everything you said. I don’t feel alone.
@agatatakmeneva8394
@agatatakmeneva8394 6 ай бұрын
I’m pregnant again after loosing my pregnancy at 6 weeks in March. I felt so happy at first but now I’m so anxious. We decided not to tell anyone until later, because last time we told the family very early on and it was devastating. But I just feel like I’m loosing my mind. Very scared. I feel like it’s gonna ruin me this time if it goes bad.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 6 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss 🫂❤️ I'm wishing you all the success during your pregnancy ❤️
@agatatakmeneva8394
@agatatakmeneva8394 6 ай бұрын
@@drlorashahine lost it unfortunately. But thank you for your kind words. 🩷
@loveobviously
@loveobviously 2 жыл бұрын
We lost our first and only baby last week at 10weeks due to a missed miscarriage…We’re so broken about.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry for your loss - it's heart breaking! Sending you best wishes
@loveobviously
@loveobviously 2 жыл бұрын
We’re pregnant again just found out today. Let’s hope this one sticks this time, what are the chances of it being successful after our recent lost last month?
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
@@loveobviously every pregnancy is a new opportunity! Chances of miscarriage are approximately 1 in 4 clinically recognized pregnancies.❤️
@mounikaabbaraju3605
@mounikaabbaraju3605 2 жыл бұрын
@@loveobviously please help me out. ..after how many months did you try again
@litabears
@litabears 2 жыл бұрын
@@loveobviously hi i am excited for you guys and wishing u the best! Can i ask you if you were trying right after? I also had a miscarriage may 31st and just got my first period after my miscarriage.
@Maemaelove1215
@Maemaelove1215 Жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage 4 months ago just test positive with my rainbow baby I’m happy but I’m so nervous
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 11 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss! I wish you all the best on your beautiful journey ❤️
@julianna7673
@julianna7673 11 ай бұрын
I hope all it well! I wondered where did you find the strength to even try again? If there any left so I can grab some ((
@lilmimi018232
@lilmimi018232 3 ай бұрын
I had 6 miscarriages and hurts keep loosing them and breaks my heart so much. I am trying for healthy pregnancy...
@julianna7673
@julianna7673 11 ай бұрын
I wondered HOW the heck do women find the strength and courage to even try to get pregnant again? What kind of help did you have? I only had an early miscarriage and I literally think as a fact that if I try again that will NO DOUBT end even worse. I am ready to just say I chose to never try but it feels wrong. Torn apart.
@thisnaturalgirlislocd
@thisnaturalgirlislocd 8 ай бұрын
This is exactly my thoughts/feelings. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏽
@savannamcdaniel7126
@savannamcdaniel7126 10 ай бұрын
Hi Doc, I recently had a missed miscarriage in December of 2023. I found out I was pregnant again in February 2024. Went for ultrasound on the 15 and found out I’m 5W 6D. Everything was seen except the heart beat.. I’m extremely nervous and to make it worse I have no pregnancy symptoms no sore boobs NOTHING! I’m trying to stay positive I just don’t want to give my hopes up. Is it normal not to see heart beat at this stage?
@thisnaturalgirlislocd
@thisnaturalgirlislocd 8 ай бұрын
Recently miscarried in February right before 12wks with my first pregnancy and while I want and would love to have a child I'm afraid to hope/try again as I'm in my early 40s. It's definitely a gut-wrenching loss
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss 🫂❤️
@thisnaturalgirlislocd
@thisnaturalgirlislocd 7 ай бұрын
@@drlorashahine Thank you! ❤️
@charliefrances7568
@charliefrances7568 Жыл бұрын
I lost my baby last week. It was horrifying. I'm either sleeping or crying, everything feels difficult. My mother in law had a stroke in Jan and died in Feb. Found out pregnant beginning of March and went to tell my parents about the baby. My mum collapsed that same day and found out she has a massive brain tumour. Now in April I've lost my baby. I'm heartbroken. Everything is going wrong, I'm to scared to try again.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. It is so common to be nervous about trying again. Please find support and try when you’re ready❤️
@Selamawit79
@Selamawit79 2 жыл бұрын
I really hope full thank you
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 2 жыл бұрын
Keep the hope alive Goku!
@BigNovemberScorpio
@BigNovemberScorpio 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video i had a miscarriage 2 years ago for the fist time and had to get surgery I'm still not over it crying and angry at myself i want to seek therapy
@libbydemetriou9545
@libbydemetriou9545 Жыл бұрын
Thank you that helped a lot. I miscarried at 13 weeks back in October, and It was traumatic, so much bleeding and had to have ops. I found out I was pregnant yesterday at a scan for another problem I had and I had no idea and it's about 5-6weeks now. I saw the tiny heartbeat which I didn't get to see the first time round and I can't get it out of my head but I so terrified.... Iv never been so scared about anything in life 😭 x
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for the loss you went through! I wish you all the best on your journey.
@MilkAtTheDisco
@MilkAtTheDisco Жыл бұрын
Ive been trying to get pregnant for 2.5 years since my miscarriage. Im hoping losing more weight will help. It makes me so depressed.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you ❤️. I hope you’re gentle with yourself about weight - people can be fertile at different weights and we can be very hard on ourselves with miscarriage and weight - listen to my Baby or Bust fertility podcast episode with Dr. Stephanie Fein for more info ❤️❤️
@mrafiq540
@mrafiq540 Жыл бұрын
Scrolling through videos i can relate. A chemical pregnancy in February and after having 2 ultrasounds where everything was normal and hearing the hearts beat twice at 6 weeks and 8 weeks at my 9 week appointment there was no heartbeat and went through a miscarriage not even a week later. Finding a therapist its hard when you keep things normally to yourself. How do you even approach therapy?
@maddiefranken8896
@maddiefranken8896 Ай бұрын
I had my first miscarriage and I felt so sad about it and depressed how can I handle the loss
@elymejia7898
@elymejia7898 10 ай бұрын
Omg she just described me 😢 2 miscarriage and this March, we will try again .. I'm so scare
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 10 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️
@saniahussain698
@saniahussain698 10 ай бұрын
I'm expecting after 2 miscarriages about 7 week No nausea vomiting sometimes acidity No pain and any other symptoms Im active in household like cooking No mood swings is it okay? Im relax and less anxious.? Kindly tell dr lora
@shazanakhan9807
@shazanakhan9807 Жыл бұрын
After my CM at 5 wks, i am ttc for 5month now and its negative. Im tracking my ovulation and cycles, and doing everything right during the fertility window. I don't know whats happening, i use to get pregnant withtin the month of trying, since the miscarriage in June something probably happened inside.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. I would advise you to consult your medical provider, as I can't give medical advice to personal situations on social media.
@AyeshaKhan-di2ek
@AyeshaKhan-di2ek 10 ай бұрын
I had a miscarriage in December 2023. Now again I am trying to conceive. Its very difficult. Emotionally tiring.
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 9 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️
@hafizakiran4381
@hafizakiran4381 6 ай бұрын
Sis pregnancy hui apko?
@AyeshaKhan-di2ek
@AyeshaKhan-di2ek 4 ай бұрын
Not yet. Please pray for me 🙏🏻
@janeshq4198
@janeshq4198 9 ай бұрын
I had two miscarriages it is so disappointing 😢and now I’m trying to get pregnant again .😞
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 9 ай бұрын
I am so very sorry 💔💔 every pregnancy is a new opportunity
@nakylahhayes4569
@nakylahhayes4569 3 ай бұрын
I recently had a miscarriage. I was 8 weeks.
@wolfgod-zq9vp
@wolfgod-zq9vp Жыл бұрын
Can glucose drink my cause miscarriage
@kazhaljamal3684
@kazhaljamal3684 9 ай бұрын
I had two miscarriages wthin 6 months.i m afraid too much
@drlorashahine
@drlorashahine 8 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss 🫂 I have resources I share with my patients. See my website drlorashahine.com for links to 1. My book ‘Not Broken: An approachable guide to miscarriage and recurrent pregnancy loss’ at amazon.com 2. KZbin videos on the topic 4. My blog posts Hope these resources help! Best wishes ❤️🤞🍍
@Selamawit79
@Selamawit79 2 жыл бұрын
I f I see your program I have hope
@KariAlexander-ew3gu
@KariAlexander-ew3gu 7 ай бұрын
Wow thanks, no matter if you’re 40 or whatever, after reading Dobbie Nerkstrol's guide, I ended up pleasantly surprised. Within 60 days anyone can get pregnant, feeling the changes in your body the first few weeks. After go’ogling her I understood it's not a miracle kind of thing like the title suggests, but you can bet you'll boost your chances.
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