Oh my goodness!!! Y’all I just did this and he text me back saying that this made him feel so good and that he’s not used to having someone talk to him like that!! MJ you are my secret sauce!! Love ya too much for all the gems!!! 💎 😊
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ exactly! This works. I’m glad that you saw successful so quickly from this technique.
@suleereviews17 күн бұрын
@ me too!! Thanks again💞💕
@lastnamefirst942313 күн бұрын
Which tip did you apply?
@tiffanymarie91769 күн бұрын
Guuuurrrrrlll☕🩵
@mellindamelanin16 күн бұрын
When the student is ready, the teacher will appear. Thank you for this. 💕
@MJHarrisSpeaks15 күн бұрын
You’re so welcome! 💖
@miekosimone873114 күн бұрын
I did this to my man and he immediately FaceTime’s me with the biggest smile on his face and he was so elated that he had this huge impact on me.
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
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@staywellandstrong419913 күн бұрын
MEN who feel: Masculine, Empowered, Needed = one happy love! With a Gratititude cherry on top. So True, with Many Thanks, MJ
@DearAmberrr17 күн бұрын
MJ!!! You are so correct. When you disclose traumatic stories men tend to bring it up when you come to them with an issue. I’ve had a guy tell me “I’m better than what you had before”. I took that as ok moving forward zip your lips!
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
I know, it's so frustrating! Zip those lips for sure!
@DearAmberrr17 күн бұрын
@ duly noted! Thank you for always giving us the tools we can use! 🥰
@Krazykat314116 күн бұрын
I met the man of my dreams when I was 65. He is 11 years younger than I am. He is super masculine and an old school OG. At that time, I was I-dont- need-a-man, Miss Independent. That caused some clashes in the beginning but now at 70, I learned to let that go over time and let him be my superman. I always let him know his much i appreciate what he has done for me. He takes such good care of me but it was hard in the beginning to let him do that. I was not used to that and i fought it early on. Now, i actually feel softer and more feminine after being such a tomboy and it really costs me nothing to put down my guard and let him in. I love your videos MJ! I like that you show us how men think. I can't put it in words how you have helped me.
@DivaDivine8816 күн бұрын
Better late than never! Congrats on your new love!
@HelloDarling7316 күн бұрын
Aww I love that. Gives me hope 😊
@psychedforlife717615 күн бұрын
That is such a cute love story! ❤ I’m happy for you. 🎉
@EMuro-wu7uy16 күн бұрын
I'm in a new relationship who is the best man I've ever dated. He makes me feel like a queen, if you want to be treated like a queen, treat your man like a king. I love this man. He empowers me to be the best version of myself.
@MJHarrisSpeaks16 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤ so happy for you!
@EMuro-wu7uy16 күн бұрын
I also have been on a very special journey to be my best self. I had my spouse pass away. I have worked very hard on past traumas that have came out that I thought I had passed. I did all this for myself, healing myself prior to this. I worked on giving myself validation, and treating myself the best. I wrote a list of what I wanted for my life. In this new relationship and he has all the qualities I wanted for myself and who I wanted to be. Even in my coworkers I treat them how I want to be treated as well. My life going so much better.
@lmnosir12 күн бұрын
You have to be with someone capable of being a King in order to be capable of treating you like a Queen. Don’t be wasting years of your life treating a man like a King who still will never return that favour!!! Only as he says do this for the ONES WHO DESERVE THAT TREATMENT 🎉
@ONLYmindYourBusiness12 күн бұрын
While reading this I was just of smirking 😏
@crystalanamericaninsicily4 күн бұрын
Invest in yourself...
@maximus254317 күн бұрын
This new shift in your videos are too good and refreshing. Thankyou for great quality content .Please do more videos on the same topic feminine energy.
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
You're welcome! More to come on feminine energy for sure. 💕
@jovictoria317 күн бұрын
MJ, listening to you is like having a chat with a girlfriend. I love it. Thanks so much for this video ❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
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@SistahJay2717 күн бұрын
I just wanna say you're helping me become more feminine 🤣🤣🤣 I am such a tomboy, gesh! I have to let you know you are needed. I'm learning how to be more of a woman thru you frfr.
@MJHarrisSpeaks16 күн бұрын
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@chozen.x17 күн бұрын
Listening to this and coming to the realization to why I am single 😅
@somedreamscometrue17 күн бұрын
this is so funny 😂
@tierrawashington851316 күн бұрын
😂😂. ❤
@abanachelsea988416 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@myintuitionshynes820916 күн бұрын
Gurrrl😂
@ONLYmindYourBusiness12 күн бұрын
😭👊😂😂
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
💬 Comment below: What’s one way you show appreciation in your relationships? Let’s share and inspire each other!
@rebeccajones862812 күн бұрын
Wow! Set the bar high. Excellent idea. Like a job interview. 👍
@kathrynmckee579316 күн бұрын
You get better and better; gratitude to you!!!
@lorraineolivera2416 күн бұрын
M.J. YOU are one of the most smartest intelligent men ive ever heard speak. I could listen to you all day! If only i had your brain lol im definitely learning ALOT from listening to YOU. THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH YOUR THE BEST! I also love that you always keep it 💯
@MJHarrisSpeaks16 күн бұрын
I'm so glad you're finding the content helpful! 💖 ❤❤❤❤
@rozdevin246817 күн бұрын
Do NOT follow these tips if he is a narc!!! I inflated the wrong truck tires
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
If he’s a narcissist, leave him. Period.
@sydneybanks810014 күн бұрын
😂
@MariHayward-Thomas13 күн бұрын
Yea I did this naturally with him and he only used and abused me 😂
@vicb51189 күн бұрын
@@MariHayward-Thomas then he was not healthy
@dixielandpatriot716013 күн бұрын
You're video is filled with wonderful suggestions and I wish I had known them sooner. I've been married fifteen years and my husband is a great guy and a great provider, but emotionally in physically he is just not there. Whenever I try to talk to him about it he shuts down even more. I know he is not cheating on me because we are together constantly. I would love to see more videos to help married women with emotionally detached husbands❤
@Holagracias114 күн бұрын
I swear your the best advice giver mj
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
Thank you, love!
@PresenceNyame12 күн бұрын
I appreciate the energy you bring and the value in the message! So many golden nuggets here!
@ChloeSpiritual3 күн бұрын
He’s so real for these videos 😂❤ thank you!!
@tiffanymarie917617 күн бұрын
Feminine is the being masculine is the doing
@stefanytellez22317 күн бұрын
Been waiting for thisssssss❤❤❤❤❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
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@rebeccajones862812 күн бұрын
I am ready and MJ appeared. HALLELUJAH....💕
@mongiekhumalo10606 күн бұрын
MJ I have learnt this over the years not just from you only babe but also from Stephen Speaks. ❤thanks a lot coz with such advise l have managed to get a great man who is down for me 💯. You are a gem 💎
@stellakamau699416 күн бұрын
MJ you look so good with that hair ❤
@Mythia_JКүн бұрын
Dropping Gems 💎 .
@carolinan.81312 күн бұрын
Great content and delivery! ❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks9 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! 💖
@AshaMaat17 күн бұрын
This is gold 💛
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
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@GoldieBrown-el2ud11 күн бұрын
Thankyou MJ youve changed my life for real... ❤
@ChefBlondeeExquisiteTaste19 күн бұрын
Happy Celebration of a New Year 🥂 Peace & Luv ❤️🔥
@MJHarrisSpeaks19 күн бұрын
Happy new year to you also!
@ChefBlondeeExquisiteTaste16 күн бұрын
@MJHarrisSpeaks Thank you, MJ 🎊 GoGo blast 🎊
@cutts576 күн бұрын
The best information❤❤❤❤❤
@keronw951015 күн бұрын
A perfect video! Perfect delivery and every single point is very valid. Thank you MJ❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks15 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm so glad you enjoyed it! 💖
@melissanorris606212 күн бұрын
MJ, I am LOVING the hair!!!You have BEAUTIFUL curls!!!❤(I'm a hairstylist😉 and it looks so good on you!)I love your new look also having the fun new hair color change too!!!❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks9 күн бұрын
Thank you, honey! You have great taste! 💖
@rochellesammy71769 күн бұрын
Your content is gold
@MJHarrisSpeaks9 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@yvonnerandolph409517 күн бұрын
You are telling the truth 👍🏽
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@Summeeeee14 күн бұрын
The way you end a sentence! The face! I absolutely love it!!!!
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
I'm so glad you love it! 💖
@debbiesantiago124317 күн бұрын
Happy New Year MJ ❤
@HydratedHunny17 күн бұрын
So thankful this graced my timeline. 🙏🙏🙏
@Melli5108 күн бұрын
Thank you MJ❤
@monicamorton609210 күн бұрын
I love the tips, I’m taking it and running with it! Thank you so much 😊
@MJHarrisSpeaks9 күн бұрын
Go for it! You got this! ❤
@gabriellasabertini13 күн бұрын
You did that!!! All the things you said was ON POINT!!
@atlantafoodstar15 күн бұрын
Love you MJ. Just wanted to say happy new years 🎉
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
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@stefanytellez22317 күн бұрын
Please keep us informed for any pop ups, I would love to travel to see you and meet you and get an autograph. You are the best when it comes to anything. Thank you for being there for us always and for your amazing spirit.
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate you. ❤️
@Darshie-c9b17 күн бұрын
Inflate his tires ❤ I love it ❣️
@livingmybestlife120814 күн бұрын
MJ my favorite ❤ love your wisdom, stay great 👏🏼
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
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@butterfliitarot10 күн бұрын
Thank you for this I used to feel it was wrong to express gratitude due to societal standards but there’s nothing wrong with that! ❤️🙏🏾
@MJHarrisSpeaks9 күн бұрын
You're so welcome! ❤️🙏🏾
@daljitvirdi102410 күн бұрын
Thanks for this video 1st time on your channel here! I enjoyed this video! 😊💖😇🙏.
@lisastorey555717 күн бұрын
Thank you for all you do and listening to that still small voice and operating in the gifts you’ve been given. I discern that you have an anointing and are operating in your ministry Thank you for listening to your heart😘
@evaeggen692814 күн бұрын
I think this is good advices , a little sly perhaps, but I think it's smart to follow him s advices.
@dianaluna15758 күн бұрын
MJ you rock ! Thank you
@tikax208517 күн бұрын
This is so helpful! Thanks
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
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@ursulas.h.989617 күн бұрын
Hey MJ!!! I miss you and I will be taking this advice heavily!!!
@zainabrose9614 күн бұрын
Best! Been doing most of these, and I kid you not! Your tips are absolutely spot on!
@VictoryShallBMine17 күн бұрын
I love your content , You give me amazing advice . I don't think you get your flowers enough baby ! Thank you for your wisdom💋💗
@JRLM-e8m17 күн бұрын
Awesome advice as always from MJ our best friend!!
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed the video!🥰
@ShellyBrown-d9n7 күн бұрын
I feel like so many girls dont know the secrets we deserve to know. I found this book,'The Seduction Alchemy' by Sophie Carter and it’s literally life changer. Has anyone else heard of it?
@fynessesmith519717 күн бұрын
This was really good.. everything you said was facts and I know this cause I learned the hard way
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
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@laiken_poppy202516 күн бұрын
Mj KNOWS! trust me!😉🎯💯
@vstarr88816 күн бұрын
Happy new year, my fellow Pisces
@MJHarrisSpeaks16 күн бұрын
Happy New Year to you too! 💖
@nikkibae22313 күн бұрын
This video is gold!!!
@MJHarrisSpeaks13 күн бұрын
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@legaleagle49479 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@margarethnyamushonongora752217 күн бұрын
You are correct sir.
@MarianaCosta-y6r5 күн бұрын
Do you guys have a podcast you'd recommend? If so, please help a sis out 🙏🏼 God bless you guys 🤍🫂
@Melli5108 күн бұрын
MJ please cover how to communicate better with men?
@theetravelhippie17 күн бұрын
all this teaaaaa 📝 thank youuu❤
@karencalloway146817 күн бұрын
MJ,I'm your day one follower and as usual I'm taking notes lol Love you so much for being my blessing❣️❣️😘😘
@Just_Kamoni17 күн бұрын
When it comes to texting is it a bad thing to match their energy? (Ex: Them taking too long to respond and so on) Love you videos 💕✨
@becky1570717 күн бұрын
Depends on how long ? If they take longer than or 24hrs i stop responding . Until they get the memo
@soniaspence69616 күн бұрын
Always what you give ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love it bring it on more
@MJHarrisSpeaks16 күн бұрын
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@DizzyRock0915 күн бұрын
Thank you for the videos you make. They’re always helpful and I love your authenticity ❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks15 күн бұрын
You are so welcome! ❤
@hurkiz722517 күн бұрын
I do everything correct but the Trauma Stories! He asked me about my past bc he said „I want to understand which stories influence your love language today“. WHAT NOW
@nycqueenisme17 күн бұрын
MJ I LOVE Ur relationship videos!!🔥🔥💣💣👏🏼👏🏼Especially when U tell Us how to talk to/respond to them/how to compliment them/flirt with them etc. Please keep them coming!!
@Touch-4bc2 сағат бұрын
Good video
@Butterflyheart714 күн бұрын
Thank you for this advice ❤
@cleovernebaptiste27478 күн бұрын
I've glad I found you honey 👏👏
@angelicelevationtarot117 күн бұрын
Great video! I hope many young women come across this video.
@taxitimet677313 күн бұрын
LISTEN. this handsome man is RIGHT. just take notes n practice
@keke229617 күн бұрын
Omg great advice ❤
@moodybluefarmstead344814 күн бұрын
So true!! Just stumbled across your channel...loveless your videos and your delivery. You're awesome! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and opinions. They are on point!!!❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm so happy you're enjoying the content! 💖
@alexissharlae16 күн бұрын
I’ve been doing it all wrong 😭 How can I establish this if distance is a factor?
@theteal12317 күн бұрын
Could you do a topic on being sick with a bad cold on the first date and not being nice to him when he drove 3 hours to meet me and me wondering how I can try this again.
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
Being sick happens! If you're interested in him, reach out, apologize for not being your best that day, and let him know you'd like to meet again. Honesty and a little effort can go a long way!
@theteal12317 күн бұрын
@@MJHarrisSpeaks Love your personality and your super smart advice! Thank you!
@vickieslaughter952717 күн бұрын
Wow? 🤗You really gave us the fact and very correct in the thing you say love it ❤ keep it coming because I will be listening 🙏👏👏👏👏👏
@kellyKellz964716 күн бұрын
Lol that's me " I'm not treating no man like a King"😂. Ok you right I'm listening!❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks16 күн бұрын
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@kellyKellz964716 күн бұрын
Can u make a video on a masculine man who says he is never gonna be in a relationship with anyone and only believes in having multiple women.
@kellyKellz964716 күн бұрын
Oh and who's tires are fully inflated. He's very confident
@mermaidmonroe194714 күн бұрын
Love the hair. You look beautiful 😍
@MJHarrisSpeaks13 күн бұрын
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@inamitchell689014 күн бұрын
thank you for your input on relationships. Really! you need to write a book for young women and the next Generation. GREAT INFORMATION
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I’m the best selling author, you can get my book at www.mjharrisbook.com
@talkfacts598017 күн бұрын
Have a safe and happy New Year’s best friend🎉❤👼🏽
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
Wishing you a beautiful new year filled with love and joy! ❤
@queenbpryer257716 күн бұрын
I absolutely adore you. Ive followed you on instagram for years. So so that girl and wise I literally replay these dark feminine energy and this video back through and through 😂😂
@MJHarrisSpeaks15 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm so happy you're finding the content helpful! ❤️❤️❤️
@DearAmberrr18 күн бұрын
Can’t wait 😊
@MJHarrisSpeaks18 күн бұрын
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@leslieransome67116 күн бұрын
Well done MJ 😊
@brandiloverofgod103317 күн бұрын
Hey everyone happy bee year 🎉
@krystaltaylor863417 күн бұрын
MJ you are not wrong. Im willing to do it. Problem for me is finding the man that deserves it. Better yet him finding me because I dont hunt or pursue. My other nistakes is talking too positively about my ex. It created a bar that he never felt he could meet...
@cletang8815 күн бұрын
This was GREAT advice
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
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@HelloDarling7316 күн бұрын
And we are back! ❤😊
@JudyWright-lp3mc15 күн бұрын
God bless you mj ❤
@MJHarrisSpeaks15 күн бұрын
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@MissSheriEll12 күн бұрын
thank you MJ🥰 ive been wanting this info! its wild because i follow you on all social media platforms unaware of KZbin. so thank you universe. question, i like limiting info on the Ex but what if theres something he , the interest, should know ? i.e i have a perpetual agreement(restraining order) against the ex. the Ex is not a physical danger but you never know. Do you weave that in for "protection"?
@bleedingroses597415 күн бұрын
I needed to hear this 😅
@MJHarrisSpeaks14 күн бұрын
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@elizabetharias831316 күн бұрын
Haven’t watch good videos recently! You looking good love that look on you
@MJHarrisSpeaks16 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@chadiasaadellaoui349117 күн бұрын
Number 1 im the most 2 man man man ???? And money and You ? War is MJ 💙💙💙💙💙
@janinepolanco31917 күн бұрын
I need to start dating so I can try all of this lol
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 go for it!
@CherieChrist17 күн бұрын
Same😂😂
@claudiaedwards598217 күн бұрын
Thank you
@MJHarrisSpeaks17 күн бұрын
You're welcome! 💖
@stefanytellez22317 күн бұрын
Speak it upppppp MJ!!!!!!!
@venitajackson55617 күн бұрын
MJ thank you so much for what you do, and how you give the best examples. I am always learning something new from you. I also appreciate a lesson already known delivered by you in the MJ way. I use your SERVICES in my personal, business and professional life ❤️