Why Men CHASE Some Women: the Power of Dark Feminine Energy

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

💬 Comment below: Have you ever used your feminine energy to shift a dynamic in your favor? Let’s discuss and empower each other!

[@LadyNoRa_scorpio]

@@MJHarrisSpeaks to be honest I haven't, I've been chasing men away because I was trying to protect my space . Right now I have a friend from California, am so attracted but don't know what to do and don't want him to run away 😊

[@zarrahprodan]

Basically, don't be "easy"😎

[@laiken_poppy2025]

run tell that,lol!💯

[@KKP20111]

And play games. 😁

[@ThandekaMakhathini-g5d]

I have been applying your tips and they work ............ My man is hooked!!!!!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

That's amazing to hear! You go girl! 💪️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@RoseRose-hp4rq]

I always have intuitively made sure that I was not the first one to meet for a date. I specifically will go in after I already see him pull up, or go in a few minutes late nothing over five or six minutes though. When a man sees you walk in and catches the glimpse of you across the room and likes what he sees and realizes you’re coming closer to him. It is a massive ego boost, and then he feels Even more excited to be with you, especially if he saw other men looking at you on the way over. Also, I always ask a man to sit right beside me in the booth or I will sit with him on his side of the table and give him my absolute undivided attention. It really does work wonders.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

That's a great strategy! Creating that anticipation can definitely add an exciting dynamic to the date. It sounds like you really know how to make an impression!

[@user-zx1ii7vf2z]

I'm.intrested in knowing how this has worked for you? Did you get married?

[@RoseRose-hp4rq]

@ I’ve been married once, but I’ve been single for a while now. This tactic is simply for engaging with men while being in your feminine energy, bringing out his masculine qualities and ensuring that they are interested in you and having a second or third date. I just haven’t met the right person yet. Doesn’t matter how charming I am 🤣 if he’s not the one he’s not the one. But are men always intrigued with me? Yes !are men always feeling great when they’re around me ?yes! Have men commented to me that they feel great when they’re around me and love how I make them feel? Yes! So this tactic is still a great One. As soon as the right guy comes around, I will be sure to enchant him.

[@rensii-e8b]

@@RoseRose-hp4rq I love your mindset and response!!!

[@corneliusharris2955]

MJ I needed this advice for the new year because I struggled in 2024. This is a war and I know how vulnerable the feminine energy can be. Happy New Year beautiful.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Absolutely! Your feminine energy is powerful and extremely valuable. Use it deliberately!

[@zinhlemkhize2332]

I love the fact that you advise that we hold embrace our femininity and also empower their masculinity, it's not toxic femininity and bashing masculinity none of that

[@antonella5435]

Happy new year everyone!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Happy new year!! ❤

[@annetteprince9615]

I brought 2 of ur books!! 1 for a gift.... I'm reading it now while on vacay & loving it !!!!❤

[@Teir33]

Happy new years to you!

[@Zaphnath_Paaneah2]

Hopefully women can lose interest in relationships and romance enough to finally enjoy peace of mind, as well as mental and emotional stability. These men require wayyyyyyy too much work and even on their best days, they're not really worth it.

[@KKP20111]

💯💯💯

[@WildAntics13]

😂so true massive vampire sucker 😂

[@Mermaid03_03]

Agreed. I love these videos for content but I’m focused on me in 2025. I have things to do.

[@xbubbles10x]

THISSSS! 💯

[@JemIsMyName-o]

Yep! The second I started decentering men, the cloud lifted. I’m open to all possibilities but I’m riding the wave of life and loving myself more than ever ❤️

[@rensii-e8b]

Yes, masculine dominant energy is what I want. I honestly like how it feels! I was just telling one of my girlfriends I want to start wearing more pink again because I want to attract a masculine guy. Thank you for your tips! I will watch it several times. I hope you have a great new year! ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Love that!

[@sharitagregory9826]

Awesome video MJ❤ Thx

[@vcastro7990]

This was very insightful. For the ladies who say they already knew this, well, good on you. Not everyone was taught how to date... so be grateful you had that kind-of support in your life. The rest of us rely on these brothas and sistas to help us out

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

That part! ❤

[@TylerAshleyW]

❤Boundaries and having high self worth - self respect and integrity -great video Thankyou .love your content -found you on fb .

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm so glad you found it helpful! 💖

[@benjiw2178]

This video is GOLD!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm so glad you found it valuable! There's a lot to unpack when it comes to dark feminine energy.

[@nancykabik9581]

OMG, that was SO POWERFUL, THANK YOU!! I'm 40 and back on the dating market and really needed this cuz I'm working a guy that plays hard to get and I want to make sure I don't do the same mistakes I was doing when I was 20. Thank you so much, this is gold!!🙏🙏🙏

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm so glad you found it helpful! It's never too late to level up your dating game.

[@Alieortwo]

Men who are hard to get are trouble and play games.

[@andziagreen4922]

MJ you are my guru💜🤗🙏 thank you. You are changing my pity life. I'm 40+ and only now learning this stuff. When I think why neither of my parents or grandmothers never told me this to save me from domestic abuse and other traumas I start crying. I wish we could live in the same country so I could get in touch with you to coach me seriously to become the woman I should be.

[@rensii-e8b]

@@andziagreen4922 they never told us anything 😥 but here he is to teach us thank God!!

[@DiaBlaze-n7r]

"We are trying to be exceptional" -- I love u so much!!!

[@Darshie-c9b]

Thank you MJ ❤ I'm learning all of this late in life. Everything that your saying is soooo true, even in marriage. I used to be a pick me...I am learning to love myself everyday. Thank you for teaching on this subject ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

It's never too late to learn! You're going to love yourself even more.💖

[@ilona5746]

MJ, I am so happy that your channel found me. You are a GOLD MINE!! ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm so glad you found the channel! Your support means a lot to me!

[@feliciapeach3830]

Thank you so much, now I just need to get out there and meet men I'm 64, don't know where to begin...love you MJ...

[@kimrice664]

Sports bar. All kind of men are there. Good vibes great conversation and good food😊

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You're welcome! Just remember, confidence is key. You’ve got this, and I’m sure you’ll find the right connections out there!

[@maximus2543]

Please do more of this ! This is too good

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm glad you enjoyed it! There’s definitely more to explore on this topic, so stay tuned for future videos!

[@rensii-e8b]

@@maximus2543 I agree one of his best videos!!!

[@KKP20111]

It IS a game! 💯

[@k_y.unn24]

I enjoyed this video and WILL be rewatching🫡, I wanna say I have been delving in my dark feminine energy lately and I’m reveling in it, it helps me navigate relationships, things on the job, and even myself differently 🗣️.

[@Mermaid03_03]

Men love it. They just don’t know I’m avoidant and need more therapy. I’m really strict on my boundaries.

[@HoePetrea]

😂

[@sherrieaustin6422]

This was AMAZING!!!!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@kenyadaposey3907]

Babyyyyy 12:18 is the game changer for mehhh! Thank you love!

[@MAR-kb3bx]

Thank you for the valuable information ❤

[@angelicelevationtarot1]

MJ you’re really out here glowing

[@twalhaabdulkadir9754]

Love you! Have a Happy New Year, Mj. You're awesome😊

[@JasminePorter-l2e]

I took a dance class last night and dark feminine energy has been coming up but it was confirmed for me.. 2025 I'm stepping into my dark feminine energy. I'm embodying black cat vibes.

[@noluthandofaith2801]

I am newly into my Dark Feminine Energy and thank you for the tips and I need more of this❤❤ please!!!!!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You got it, girl! 😉

[@KandyRose-n3f]

I needed to hear this today !

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm glad this resonated with you! It's amazing how powerful understanding these dynamics can be.

[@dezereeglenn6799]

So boom 💥 storyline…. I did all of this and this man did a 360 and at the 90 days we were over 😂

[@kinda_secret]

I’m gonna try it . Thank u so much. I love your energy and the way u think and talk ❤️

[@iamdanikash]

This is a very good video! Ive recently fallen out of my dark feminine energy and trying to find my way back! Thank you for the gems

[@ourtimechildvisitation5598]

MJ..... please teach us how to flip it if we messed up and played our cards too soon. How do we get back our power??? He knows that I love him, I can't hide it, but I need him to step up and take over...

[@rozdevin2468]

Ladies, always to say, do, and act what is best for YOU!

[@joancarter4943]

Thanks for the reminders MJ! You’re the best. Happy New Year!❤️🥂🎆

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Happy New Year to you too! 💖🥂

[@stellaxx392]

A masterclass🙌🏿

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@JAYD1476]

Happy New year MJ ❤🎉Maaan I sooo needed this video. I tried twice applying at this capricorn boss's company .1st time got accepted but another girl sabotaged me and I never got the job bc she said I didn't pick up the phone. 2nd time we had a convo and it ended up in misunderstanding. 3rd time I went up and apologised ro him for all the misunderstandings and then I wished him a happy new year. He wouldn't let go of my hand and started caressing my upper arm while flashing a big smile and repeatedly telling me it's OK!😂I was told he is gay,so I don't see him that way but I did feel so squishy when he did that. Talking ab personal boundaries,I have a strict rule but I was so mesmerized when he did that 😂😂. What's wrong w me. Maybe he is just a touchy feely person

[@ms.ajones7168]

WOW! This was just what I needed. I love how you explain and clarify everything every time you speak! I'm 49 honey and wish I had this Information years ago😭But it's all good because I know now! AND will implement! Its a new year! new me! Thanks a bunch for always showing up with valuable Gems❣ 💎 Happy New Year 🥳

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm glad you're ready to step into your power! You've got this! 💪

[@katrinatate7235]

I appreciate starting off the New Year with this video. MJ you dropped GEMS in this video. You’re the best! I’m definitely taking your advice. Thank you so much! Happy New Year, Hun❤️🎊

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm so glad you found the video helpful! Here's to a fantastic New Year filled with growth and empowerment!

[@RogueWave626]

This video has an immense amount of value! Thank you!!!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You are so welcome!

[@nicolacollins1061]

I wished you were around with this advice in my 20s. You're on fire honey 😉😂 Happy New Year I hope it brings you joy, happiness and many blessings ❤✨️

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Happy new year!!

[@lexyhumanitarian9740]

Me too,I’ve learned to trust THÈÉ Process .. In accordance he’s right on Time for us Love 💕💕I just found his page A few days ago 🌹🌹

[@MR-pg6ru]

MJ! Where have you been all my life?! I just found you recently. Wow wow wow ~ I love your personality, energy and the way you teach. 💓

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

So glad you found me! 💕

[@tlm824]

I detect no lies!!! You just gave some great words of wisdom! I appreciate the gems knowledge to help me ignite and fuel my feminine energy !!! Thanks MJ ❣❣

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You are welcome! 🔥

[@sherekabell-t9s]

This lessons on dating are on point. So powerful and well received!

[@rubymcdaniel5851]

Thank you sooo much! For the information, this happened to me yesterday ! After I asked how he was doing it took him literally 6 hours to respond. So just now when he text me and said how was my day. I said Amazing! Hope yours was too. ❤ you MJ thank you😃

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm glad you recognized it! You're gonna make him work for it! 😉

[@brendaeskridge5688]

I always thought it was the weirdest thing to see couples sitting side by side in a restaurant. Welp, you learn something new every day.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I think it's pretty telling about how someone feels about their partner when they're sitting together like that. 😊

[@BlondieRoberson-cm9gf]

Did is the most educational, motivating and amazing video ever… thanks MJ for the love life saving gems… putting this in effect right now❤❤❤❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@sixx9639]

Oh my! I give advice to my friends when they are dating but you are beyond mastery. Oh boy you are good! I laughed listening to all that trickery because I know it works. Will be looking for more of your content for sure. I have no idea how I got to this video but I'm glad I found this.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

So glad you found it helpful! I'm sure you're already rocking it. 💪

[@taylorsalazar2717]

the point about competitive friends is so true oh my

[@MsDreamer215]

Thank you for breaking all of this down very clearly! You provided scenarios and examples, which is very helpful!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm glad you found it helpful!

[@rubymcdaniel5851]

Yes MJ he just on texting more today than ever before 😃

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

That’s interesting to hear! It sounds like the dynamics are shifting for you. Communication can really change the game.

[@d.elisabethmarshall3290]

Listen! I loved this so much! Thank you!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You’re welcome! 🥰

[@LadyNoRa_scorpio]

MJ you are my hero 😂😂 I'ma take your advice 👌🏿❤️🤗💐

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You got it, girl! 😎

[@lolajewels2176]

Love you so much!!

[@Chocolate_pepper-1]

I just love you so much ❤ thank you ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you for your support! 💕

[@hersheys24]

Happy New Year Mj I apply your love tips and it works really well, I enjoy watching your videos especially when you are talking about how to use feminine energy and let men chase you

[@tracysmith4242]

Your hair looks great!

[@maryshannon5066]

🎉hi. MJ happy new year 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Happy new year to you too! 💖

[@makeishainniss2440]

The slight head roll killed me

[@NicoleRobinson-z3p]

Dark feminine energy that Pisces is speaking of is almost what I like to believe is the male version of masculine in away but he us absolutely right.. I alwas listen to him for my little touch ups because I run right in between.. But Women need not to forget listening to this doesn't always Mean every Man will follow this because they just might not Like you to do it.. Go where you can be loved and held high by The right Man and not Tolerated in Actions just to say you got someone.

[@makeishainniss2440]

This video is perfectly explained on courtship 🎉

[@berliemagan3944]

Thank you for the videos. I hope you can also make video regarding how men to chase you.. i feel like my guy losing interest atm. Thank you in advance

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I’ve got you girl! 😉

[@Estephannye888]

Why you looking so youthful 🤩 ouuuuuuuu 🥂. Thank you 🎧

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@tammyhaskin9037]

This is really good

[@ItsZalliah]

LOVE THIS !!! 😫😭✨

[@jessicagraves8466]

Happiest New Year MJ ❤🎉. Love all of your content. Has helped me so much. Can you do a video on keeping yourself up and self-image?

[@firstnamelastname-ve9gj]

4:00 the problem with this is that as soon as you become interested in them and are sure of it, they back off

[@DonnaPaul-y4y]

New year blessings my brother

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Happy new year!!

[@katrinatate7235]

I’ve saved this video. I’m waiting on the next video MJ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You’re gonna love it! 😉

[@katrinatate7235]

@ awesome. 👏🏾 ❤️

[@SallyWalkerrr]

Great video!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Glad you liked it!

[@chastityconnor4148]

I really like this video the push pull dating tips so we don't look desperate thank you MJ

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm glad you found it helpful!

[@truthlifepath33]

Love you MJ! ( consider covering other topics in your videos as well, there is A LOT going on right now, and ppl aren’t thinking about getting a man right now, ufos, drones/ aliens etc. )

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Hey love!! Thanks for the recommendation ❤. I’m definitely open to diversifying my topics.

[@athena6307]

" You invited him into our spider web" that was so good! 😊😅

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@pumpkin3731]

This is such good stuff. ❤

[@rani1634]

This video is so helpful to find a good man very interesting

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm glad you found it insightful! 😉

[@Sara-x6t3s]

So basically tease them... lol we learned this in second grade hun. Playing hard to get is exactly ground breaking! I cannot believe I listened to this🤣

[@BreJax]

I Love these topics from men. It's simple essential game for the girlies. It's kinda like after the pandemy everyone just kinda lost their rizz. Love & light ❤

[@rensii-e8b]

@@BreJax they really did lol fizzled all the way out

[@corylynn918]

Happy New Year! Your tan is gorgeous😊

[@Jammiealleñde]

Love this so much you are very wise MJ thank you for your wisdom and amazing advice ❤

[@mnmz9304]

I appreciate your advice so much!❤️‍🔥 But I was wondering if you have an insight into men who are not masculine to this degree described here. I think not all men are created equal in this respect!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment! You're absolutely right; every individual is unique, and not all men embody the same traits. It's important to consider different personalities and experiences when discussing relationships.

[@justdruofficial]

My married self was watching this video and wondering why, then I heard “Where do lions hunt at?”. Answer: The Savannah. That’s why God let me hit play. I found out why I’m here after that question 😂

[@Butterflyheart7]

Thank you for this advice it was very good and made sense ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Glad it was helpful!

[@user-kd6tb2qx6v]

Thank you and happy 2025. 🎉❤ How to get clarity on the state of relationship without asking dirrectly? Met 8 months ago, were texting, dating last 5. First bedroom 3 months ago. Bussy man, company owner. A true gentleman. When we're meeting everything is taken care of. Imbetween not much communication. We kiss in public, he introduceed me to few friends already but not saying girlfriend or partner. I'd love a way to get clarity without dirrectly askung "what are we'. Maybe like the example with weekend plans - a hint and tham his turn. Or whatever way but not asking. Many thanks to any ideas and suggestions MJ and the community ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

It's great to hear you're enjoying the content! Getting clarity in a relationship can be tricky. Maybe try casually bringing up future plans together and see how he responds. Communication is key, even in subtle ways!

[@user-kd6tb2qx6v]

@MJHarrisSpeaks thank you for your reply 💛✨️

[@amarie6223]

Where have you been all my life!? I wish I knew this kind of advice on my teens or early 20s 😩.

[@kerry-leeslamat252]

Compliments of the Season and New Year to you MJ 🙋🏻‍♀️💐🎊🙌🏼☺️🙏🏻👏🏼✨️🍾🫧. Wishing you an amazing and incredible 2025 🎉🎉🎉. Thank you for this AWESOME Video. You are coaching us 💯💯💯💯

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Happy New Year to you too! 🎉 So glad you enjoyed the video!

[@kerry-leeslamat252]

@MJHarrisSpeaks Thank you ☺️💯👌🏼. I really enjoy your posts! Keep up the great work and coaching for us 💯♥️

[@Kelsky1]

I just love you. Thank you

[@aprilsochic]

Great video Mj, i’m going on a date soon and I will be using these tools. Thank you. Also, can you please do a video on how to show a man you want them and need them?

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Great suggestion!

[@MrsAnaelimont]

I literally do allllll you mentioned however ... most times it doesn't get to the date as the men I'm attracting keep saying I don't " show enough interest " and are confused if I like them. And these were all apparently masculine high accomplishmed men... it's frustrating as I felt in the 90s...men were more masculine...I'm finding that men are becoming more insecure.

[@nufaithjournee]

This is wonderful. You are my best friend in life.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

You are too kind! Thank you for your support.

[@TheTrevifountain]

Nice!!❤

[@MsPentek13]

I wonder where you get all this wisdom from😂. You are so amazing❤!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you found the insights valuable.

[@EdenYork_010]

I’m starting over, moved from big city born and raised to a small town - I need that friend who won’t sabotage like you said in the video, but I cannot find them. Any advice??

[@kenyadaposey3907]

Where you're from and where did you move too? I moved from Montgomery al and now live in Philly.

[@jamerson777]

More of this content please😊

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I got you boo!

[@lexaneli]

So very true!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@livingmybestlife1208]

Happy New year my favorite ❤️! Stay blessed and wise❤2025

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Happy new year!!

[@RK-hh8qq]

U r SO funny that u r so on point! 😂❤❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thanks for the compliment! I'm glad you enjoyed the video and found it insightful!

[@heythereliila5918]

That shirt is tea friend ♥️

[@sofia-fx4vl]

Omg not even 10 minutes I had to subscribe

[@PatriceBeck-vk7jc]

🩵✨Awesome Master Class 🌸