I’m still living this life. I am still working the courage to leave. 20+ years of this shit!! I’m so glad you were able to get away and start anew.
@shouacha7863 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this lady my husband has a gambling problem too n I’m thinking leaving him too
@PapiChulo... Жыл бұрын
Let me get next
@TubLaibVaj Жыл бұрын
Good for you sister but a lesson for all Hmong people and many others is to not care about what others think or say about you. They ain’t paying your bills and have literally zero effect on your life so why even care what they think or say just to put yourself down. Live your life and f all the haters!
@heysoniher Жыл бұрын
Agreed! Hmong people care too much about what others think and say.
Xum nrauj nyias nyob nyias thiaj kaj siab, ntxov tso ces ntxov zoo thiaj tsis nkim sijhawm laus tas.
@phoebelor1173 Жыл бұрын
Cov txiv neej zoo li ko ces kav tsij nrauj sai ntxov nrauj ntxov dim xum ua poj nrauj Kaj siab dua os
@yepper1 Жыл бұрын
I can relate. No with the gambling but the drinking. My in-law do not like me either because I don't like their heavy drinking.
@dejnagxyooj1752 Жыл бұрын
Tus neeg twv txiaj ces tsis muaj dab tsi kho tau yog tias nws tsis lees kev Txhaum thiab nrhiav kev pab os me viv ncaus. Tsuas yog taum txhob thiab hlau xwb thiaj li kho tau nws os. Koj txoj neej neeg no yog kiag li kuv txoj thiab. Kuv twb raug liam tham hluas nraug ib yam li koj thiab os. Koj yog neeg zoo ces nws yuav xyav koj lub koob phem npaum li cas los kav tsij nyob ua neeg zoo li koj ua mog. Wish you the best.
@phoebelor1173 Жыл бұрын
Kuv tau ib tug txiv zoo li ko kuv twb muab nrauj kiag pov tseg kuv los ua poj nrauj kuv Kaj siab tshaj
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments Жыл бұрын
I'd say...leave the moment you realized you've married a corrupted family! Life is too short...
@ทีฆวัฒน์ท้าววัฒนากุล Жыл бұрын
ชอบล
@tvang8 Жыл бұрын
I’m surprised you and many women stayed so long in a marriage and kept having babies when they know they got a messed up husband
@ShouaTojsiab Жыл бұрын
Tsev neeg liam li no ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo. Mob hlwb tiag niam txiv tsis xyaum ua zoo tsis qhia tej tub ntxhais coj zoo tseem qhia tub ntxhais liam li nws thiab xwb.
@colleenchan9872 Жыл бұрын
Ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo os txhob cia puas credit tag neej piam tag rau txoj kev twv txiaj no os! Nrog koj zoo siab koj mus tau tus zoo hlub koj os mog..
@ntxhaisthojchannel4372 Жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo os phooj ywg kuv taug koom koj lwm os py 👍
@touyang3403 Жыл бұрын
Kav laus2 lawm, yog yuam kom nkhaus ces kawg lov. Neeg laus2 lawm, kom paub, ces lav lim thiaj tau xwb😂😂😂
@myadvantures0426 Жыл бұрын
Sister, I can relate to your pain and your story. I once lived a similar life like yours and I also got away from it. People will talk and people will hate but just remember that their words will only encourage you to be the best and the haters will never compare. What matters now is that you’re free and you’re happy.
@chuthaoa8278 Жыл бұрын
po
@chothi2600 Жыл бұрын
₫
@diannaxiong693 Жыл бұрын
Cov niag niam pog kws txw nws niag tub mas kuv tsi muaj tabsis kuv ntxub ntxub cov niag niam pog phem li lawv os lawv E.
@maikiaxiong9888 Жыл бұрын
Cov neeg quav txiaj ces yeej hais tsis tau os
@maipha8560 Жыл бұрын
Ladies, know your non-negotiables. Please add gambling and addiction as your non-negotiables. There's really no future with these behaviors. The sooner you leave, the better off you will be. Plus don't stay in these type relationships so your children can pick up these bad behaviors. Break that cycle, free yourself, and work hard to reach your goals. People like her ex are 100% loser and will not add any value to help you reach your life goals.
@susbcusthao7151 Жыл бұрын
Ab… cas yus tsis muaj peev xwm li tus viv ncaus no ne? Nyob lub neeg yuab siab ua luab. Kuv nyob kiag lub neeg li no nas. Thov ntuj los tsis paub li os nkawg aw😢 Tsis liam leeg twg os, tiv yus mus tsis tau xwb. 😢
@Hmoobkuali Жыл бұрын
Thaum nw tau tsuaj lawm ma txau ntshai heev lis os
@melymely9116 Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@xwmkabyang354 Жыл бұрын
tau txiv quav txiaj ces lub neej kawg xyob txhiaj, tau nyab xyob txhiaj los yog vim kev twv txiaj, ua neej tsis sib hlub ces txhob yug ntxhais yug tub. yus mus khaws noj luag qub zaub ces zaum no yus paub tsis paub hahaha.
@wisteria4550 Жыл бұрын
Why still give him $6000? He owed your parents money. You should give that money to your parents.
@toukuechannel9673 Жыл бұрын
My thought exactly!
@maikervang3765 Жыл бұрын
Tus sister aws cas koj lub neej thiab kuv lub neej es nim zoo ib yam os kuv nrauj kuv tus txiv vim kev tuv txiaj tabsis nws tseem coj kuv mus hais tias yog kuv tham hluas es thiaj khiav nws thiab no tiag tabsis kuv tsis k xwb cov neeg twv txiaj qub neeg qub siab yeej hloov tsis tau cia nws ua nws es hlau thiab taum txhob mam hloov nws xwb os
@saykaomee Жыл бұрын
Ua cas es cov txiv neej uas nej qhuas qhuas thiab ntshaw ntshaw es zoo li tsuas yog cov normal txiv tsev xwb. Puas yog tsis muaj cov zoo lawm?
@LubneejTiag1419 Жыл бұрын
Mloog ua ke os❤❤🎉
@neejkhuamsiabchannel Жыл бұрын
Hai tau zoo heev
@microbiologist50 Жыл бұрын
Good luck helping relatives every weekends.
@MissWeiLun Жыл бұрын
I love how the only thing other people have to say when women are tired of years of BS while being patient and is now ready to leave is that the woman was "cheating" 😂.
@panenglor8294 Жыл бұрын
We are all looking for something we don't have, lol you looking for money so that's what you found. The lady is looking for love so that's what she got
@Loves_GodSR Жыл бұрын
When we are going through our trails, people will believe the ex's lies. It's always the wifec was cheating. 😆 But it's the inside chapter that counts. Cus that's when their true colors will come out. I'm glad you found a better life and much happier. He doesn't deserve you.
@jennyyang269 Жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo nawb me Nyab kuv mas niaj hnub hnoos koj os yog li tus viv ncau ntawv hai lawm nawb yom
@amazinggrace8136 Жыл бұрын
I’m not going to take advice from a mother who can have their own baby murdered. You have blood on your hands now, repent and trust Jesus to have your sins forgiven.
@suxiong2240 Жыл бұрын
U own him and this family tiam ta los. Ha ha ha 😂😂😂😂
@lenathao6501 Жыл бұрын
Lawv tus tub ua phem npaub li cas los yeej zoo rau niam pog thiab cov muam. Hnub twg yus pib hais ces yus tseem Yog tus phem ntag. Yog yus ua npau li mas ntse lawv twb muab yus xa peb caug hnub nram ntej laws os.
@ThePrincessWorrior Жыл бұрын
Yog kuv los yeej dhuav koj thiab las mas. Niaj hnub nyob qaj nyob qauj foob thaub rau ub rau no tau 10 tawm xyoo. Koj twb paub hnub 1 koj nkag mus lawm na, es koj tseem nyob txog xyoo 10+ thiab 5 plab o diam na. Mloog xwb twb ntxim dhuav lawm, es yuav hais lawv tsev neeg dhuav koj naw. You were willing, no need to complain 😂
@brucehawj3306 Жыл бұрын
Koj tsis nco qab txog koj cov kwv tug meska. Cov dev liam zoo li koj tus ntawv ces tuamtxob thiab hlau thiaj pab tau lawm xwb.
@HlubKoj-ke6xj Жыл бұрын
Kv xav muab kV zaj rau kj piav thiab😭
@lenayang8331 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@MrsKervang Жыл бұрын
Know your worth! Don't gamble your life away...pun intended!! It's a waste of energy on these toxic people.
@lenalor5651 Жыл бұрын
That is true. You did the right thing.
@gaosayvu6554 Жыл бұрын
Neeg phem ces ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo xwb mas
@jiaxiong8991 Жыл бұрын
Don’t waste your time on this kind of life sister, you deserve way better than that! All they do is perpetrate you as this bad person and lie to others about you. They’re the ones that gamble and steal, lie and cheat. To hell with them! They can say all they want but a lot of people already know the truth. Karma did it’s job!
@Doodoo578 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@Neejtshia Жыл бұрын
My favorite. I wear the same shoes. Life ended with two separate routes.
@myprecious6751 Жыл бұрын
Why don't you get a restraining order against him and his whole family? That family is one screw up family. They're the one who told you to leave. But yet they're gonna turned around and blamed and lie about you. Well, glad you finally left and divorced him. That bullshit hmong men can cheat and do everything they want to do but the woman can't do.
@MissPeachie Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe you allowed him to gamble with your father’s money. I would be so upset and make him pay back every penny. Good thing you didn’t follow him and become an addict too. My husband and I only go to the casino once a year and I hate it when we lose more than $100. You can get a nice meal or shoes with that!
@akulathao4654 Жыл бұрын
He must have a diamond D 😂😂😂
@mus33k Жыл бұрын
She didn’t allow him to, he ripped it out of her hands as she was driving
@heymaiv Жыл бұрын
When their addiction is real, no one can stop him or force him to pay back
@misstaytay9694 Жыл бұрын
I swear Hmong people are the worse when it comes to victim blaming.
@444902720xv Жыл бұрын
Cov txiv dev zoo li no xwb es ua cas nej cov niam yuav mus uv tau ntev ua luaj li. Kav tsij muab ntsawv thoob khib nyiab xwb..
@khoantai2992 Жыл бұрын
Thov nb mog kv maj maj lm os
@นารีวรรณแซ่เฮ้อ Жыл бұрын
ม
@ThamLosZam Жыл бұрын
You wait too long.....
@maivntxawmyajtv9824 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@Lee-zw9rn Жыл бұрын
Get help!
@paullor1398 Жыл бұрын
Twb paub tias g hlub yus los yus kuj cuab nplib rau nws nthawv tas zog thiab, tub ceevxwm cab nws rau nkuaj xwb mas!
@hmongremark2686 Жыл бұрын
Most Hmong youtubers do not even know how to write correct Hmong phrases for their story titles. The title of this story must be used the word "mas" or "ces" between the words "Koj Koj". Nyob rau hauv kuv cov kwv tij tau muaj tshaj 3 families sib nrauj ces cov txiv tsev tsis muaj chaw nyob vim txoj kev twv txiaj rau cov poj niam tiv tsis taus txoj kev txom nyem.
@mileslee6426 Жыл бұрын
Ok teacher!! lol
@jackievang4891 Жыл бұрын
It’s how you read it: Mos koj, koj thiaj paub. It’s the punctuation(s) that is missing 🤦♀️
@mainenglee-xiong3344 Жыл бұрын
I don’t feel sorry for you. You killed a fetus? You could have divorced in the 1st month of marriage and not continue this agony for so many years. Why?
@kuvxwb9555 Жыл бұрын
It's good you did what you did but I would have got rid of his candy ass years ago.
@Doodoo578 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why this lady care so much about their gossip?....i would not care...it is america....you should have reported to the police...