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Modern Day Pilgrim

Modern Day Pilgrim

Күн бұрын

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@jazziered142
@jazziered142 8 ай бұрын
Libraries are free, they are climate controled, offer free wifi, and there's books. Lots of them.
@MargaretMargaretMargaret
@MargaretMargaretMargaret 25 күн бұрын
That's a great idea!
@ElwoodPDowd-ed7pc
@ElwoodPDowd-ed7pc 8 ай бұрын
… and when it’s time to sleep and you have picked out your stealthy spot, be certain you’ve done everything needed BEFORE you get to your sleeping spot. Install ALL your window covers (accept front windshield of course). Don’t plan on getting out / exiting your vehicle while you’re in the sleeping spot. Try your best to be as quick and quiet as possible. “Stealth” is the key word. Once you’re done with sleeping … LEAVE just as quickly and quietly as you arrived and leave NOTHING behind.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Right on! 🙌🏼😃💯
@EdisonBryan
@EdisonBryan 2 ай бұрын
Why not the front windshield?
@PersianImmortal514
@PersianImmortal514 2 ай бұрын
@@EdisonBryan He means doing this before driving to the desired spot. You want to be stealthy so doing this before would be ideal. All you would have to do when arriving to the spot is putting that windshield cover.
@rickcooper156
@rickcooper156 8 ай бұрын
I left a toxic marriage and moved into my SUV almost 4 years ago. I'm so happy and I wish I had done it years earlier. It's funny how sometimes the most terrible of life's events, like a divorce, lead us to where we were always meant to be. I frequently overnight in Planet Fitness parking lots. Most of them are open 24/7 and that gives me overnight access to a bathroom. People are constantly coming and going and that helps to keep the Bad Guys away. Also, if you can start Automobile Life with a sound Emergency Fund you'll be way better off...
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Hey there! Thanks for stopping in. And yes, sometimes devastating events need to happen in order for us to get to a better place. I am a firm believer in the Lord, and know that he goes before us. I I take comfort in knowing that. I’m so sorry to hear about the divorce, but I’m certainly sure if it could’ve been salvaged you would have made sure that happened. Thanks for the tip for everybody reading this, about the planet fitness is. And I totally agree, I normally stay in places that have a lot of in and out with vehicles. That’s great advice, having a little bit of an emergency fund so you have some financial stability for the transition. I wish you well, and hope you have a very Merry Christmas! Have a fantastic day!🎄🙌🏼💯😃
@BonesAndButtons
@BonesAndButtons 8 ай бұрын
This is an important video. Camping in your car for fun is one thing. Running for your life is different.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Exactly! Thanks for watching! I appreciate your support! 🙌🏼😃💯
@Steven-re7xt
@Steven-re7xt 2 ай бұрын
My sister is ill so I sold my house...gave 1/2 to other sister gave the remainder to other..staying for a year I did running and taxi work...then she goes and brings half wit nephew/pan handler in on the deal... he's a take over artist😢😢 23:54 Acting the marter. To get money. Told sis I'm not buying it ...with his hand out ...all the time.. sis said get out. So in the midst of putting my stuff in storage..hunting house... you have 0 time to get out. You won't make peace. So it's Willy's song on the road again(r) ...😊😊😊😊😊
@mygiddyjaunt
@mygiddyjaunt 8 ай бұрын
I'm currently in a tough situation that may lead me to car dwelling. Thank you for your clear cut, honest and life giving tips!
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a rough patch, but as long as you have a vehicle, you are not homeless. You have a roof over your head, and that is the most important thing. Check out my playlist, VAN CAMPING in Michigan for a lot of other very helpful ideas, tips and tricks. I wish you well, and know that you will be OK. Thank you for reaching out! Have a fantastic day!😃🙌🏼
@bchbum3802
@bchbum3802 5 ай бұрын
Your not alone. I've got just a few months then ill be out in the heat of summer im packing up and putting my stuff in storage keeping clothes toiletries accessible and me and the pets in the car..🙏🙏
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 5 ай бұрын
@bchbum3802 prayers coming your way. Hang in there. Live small. You will be ok. ❤️💯🙏🏼✝️
@Mandy-gz1xl
@Mandy-gz1xl 3 ай бұрын
It’s so nice to find a comment section where people are in my situation and get that when you’re being abused, you gotta get out. If I was healthy, I’d have been gone a long time ago. But I’m very ill. Please pray for me. Thank you, and I’m praying for everyone in tough situations. Much love to you all 😊💕❤️
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 3 ай бұрын
@Mandy-gz1xl Hi Mandy, I absolutely will be praying for you. Thank you for asking me to pray. I absolutely will. Hang in there, sister. ❤️💯✝️🙏🏼
@MarkMayhew
@MarkMayhew 4 ай бұрын
I put an ad on Craigslist to find a driveway for rent so I don't have to go thru alot of issues that people living in vehicles go through
@ryanslings6234
@ryanslings6234 3 ай бұрын
Any takers for the offer? How much are you offering/paying and for how much time?
@susannordstrom5065
@susannordstrom5065 3 ай бұрын
What a great idea, it would help lots of people out
@debbies6192
@debbies6192 Ай бұрын
Brilliant idea!
@alylyn119
@alylyn119 3 ай бұрын
About to be a car dweller .. I’ve been falling behind rent for a long time.. I faced an eviction but they’re letting me go with a clean record. They’ll say I rented 7 years.. I don’t have enough for another apt .. grew up in foster care.. my family has passed on.. my ex won’t help me. Thank god when I had the means I got a Mazda. I’ve been watching these videos a lot.. to prepare. Of course a lot of mines going to storage. I’d advise anyone in my boat to also get a gym membership for showers and rec. your great for this .
@Showyouaroundme
@Showyouaroundme 2 ай бұрын
I really hope it works out well for you! I do the same in Seattle, working M-F.
@MaryDeMarce-vx1vm
@MaryDeMarce-vx1vm 7 ай бұрын
You are absolutely adorable! It's almost like you were BORN to teach. If University ever offered a class in Van Dwelling, you'd make an excellent professor! Great ideas too. Thanks for taking the time to share your knowledge!
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! And for that very kind comment. 😊 I appreciate your encouragement and support! 😊💯 Thanks for taking the time to comment, have a fantastic weekend!💯😃🙌🏼
@dalezygadlo9693
@dalezygadlo9693 7 ай бұрын
To cut down on condensation inside the vehicle you can use hanging bags of Damp Rid. I have a Jackery 1000 unit which I recharge using solar panels mounted on the roof of my van. Have used it for more than 2 years and it has worked perfectly with no problems. I power interior LED lights, a laptop, a Max Air roof fan, a phone signal booster, and recharge 24v power tool batteries with it. I choose the large Jackery because I would rather have more power than not enough. The Jackery can also be recharged via the auto cigarette plug or household plug. One can use the smaller lithium rechargeable phone type power packs and recharge them via a smaller solar panel that will fit on the car's dashboard. Several battery-operated power tool brands offer different attachments/tools such as fans, USB power packs, radios., etc. I use 24v versions of such and then recharge the batteries with a charger connected to the Jackery. A 5-gallon bucket w/ lid will double as a seat and toilet. Walmart and camping stores sell a camping type toilet seat w/lid which will fit the bucket. (rather expensive) Or one can simply use a pool noodle cut to fit the rim of the bucket for comfort. The Little Buddy heater does work well, and the larger models' grills can be removed, or a metal paint roller grill can be used for a cooking surface on the bigger models. Just be careful about placement to avoid tip overs. You can cook up hot meals this way. You can find collapsable water jugs w/attached spouts in the camping departments of many stores. Or simply repurpose 1 gallon plastic milk jugs for your water supply. Small silicon folding buckets/sink will work as a basin or a cutoff milk jug. There are a lot of videos you can check out on KZbin about these subjects. Perhaps what is MOST IMPORTANT is to have a positive mindset, be adaptative, think creatively, and open-mindedly. When you really can do so, your mindset will change, and things will become less complicated and easier.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 7 ай бұрын
I’m sure watching! And for all that fantastic information! I appreciate you taking the time to comment, but most of all I appreciate you willingness to help others with your knowledge. Have a fantastic day!🙌🏼😃💯
@mythicalnomadadventure969
@mythicalnomadadventure969 8 ай бұрын
You're right about the first one. Fast, complete privacy is the first thing you need in a vehicle you are living, dinning, & sleeping in. Needs to be fast deployment, "bulletproof" privacy ! 👍 Rock on 😊.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
🙌🏼😃💯
@KorumEmrys
@KorumEmrys 8 ай бұрын
Great Video!! Looking Forward To More!!! Stitch a queen size flat sheet after folding over like a tortilla. Insert sheet inside fleece sleep sack which is then inserted within Regular or Mummy shape Sleeping Bag. The inner sheet works to keep bag clean . I have 4 of these all light tan colored and rotate them throughout month., changing weekly. 😊
@winifredwalker6467
@winifredwalker6467 8 ай бұрын
You can take a picture of the sentimental things and put in scrapbook. You have a reminder , but it doesn’t take much space
@neilmckay8649
@neilmckay8649 6 ай бұрын
I've seen many minivan (short term?) campers with lots of space turned over to nik-naks. I do wonder where the more useful stuff fits in 😅 it's a balance, don't throw away sentimental items that you will likely miss later. Been there 😢
@gerald4nomads
@gerald4nomads 3 ай бұрын
I personally believe the best gear you need to live in a vehicle is the same gear hikers take when they go hiking. I strongly encourage people to look at hiking channels to get a general idea what they take when they go.
@terrajohnson1118
@terrajohnson1118 8 ай бұрын
Please, please leave that restroom clean that you washed in! Clean behind yourself everywhere.
@Caroline-ey9jr
@Caroline-ey9jr 7 ай бұрын
Lovely video. Blowing fan in your face is also a very effective way to reduce acute anxiety, which goes along with an unexpected car stay.
@kelseyreynolds8762
@kelseyreynolds8762 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the amazing video. No fancy "influencer" bs just solid, no nonsense, practical information. Im living in my Kia Sorento, by choice for 4 months/ I'll never go back. I do acknowledge I have a bunch of advantages, like a full-time job and a safe parking spot to sleep at night/ but this can be gone over night. Thank you for the tips...the fam and rain guards are so Important Safe travels (:
@leilal8053
@leilal8053 2 күн бұрын
Finally......someone who understands the importance of an emergency TOILET 4 the middle of the night.....and, that you don't have 2 take a shower every day to keep clean.. .bottle of warer on the dashboard to warm up in the sun, a washcloth, and UR good to go. 😊
@billdustywahlen
@billdustywahlen 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. You are like the mother I wish I had had!!!! I am fleeing a bad situation and just listening to you gives me the confidence that I too can live in my vehicle, comfortably and on a tight budget. Again, Thank you, for being you.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! This is probably the most meaningful comment I have ever received.🩵 You CAN do it and you can do it WELL! We need very little to survive. Just the basics. What’s your goal? Set it and stay the course. Live small now so you can live big when you reach your goal! Have a fantastic day! Thank you so much for taking the time to comment! 😊💯🙌🏼 P.s. everything is gonna be ok. 🙌🏼
@WandaWorley
@WandaWorley 4 ай бұрын
Oh my word. God Bless and yes, Very Helpful! I am going to be living out of my Nissan Car for close to 5 to 6 months to save many and buy a home. I have researched so much and will be buying things I need and preparing for the change. God Bless you from Fort Myers, Florida!!!
@lindahusband3893
@lindahusband3893 4 ай бұрын
what kind of nissan do you have? I have a nissan sentra. do you think that this is possible?
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 4 ай бұрын
@lindahusband3893 thanks for watching! I don’t have a Nissan, I have a 2019 Dodge grand Caravan. What are you asking your question about? Will what work?
@maudeweston402
@maudeweston402 3 ай бұрын
In Ft. Myers too, Wanda
@WandaWorley
@WandaWorley 3 ай бұрын
@@lindahusband3893 2015 Nissan Altima SL
@WandaWorley
@WandaWorley 3 ай бұрын
Within any car, SUV, Van, RV, etc... It's a challange to live even in a home. Within a car... First timers for myself... I learned to get off of my pedistal and pee in a cup or wood, LOL... The outlook is so much better and I am looking at life more LOVING and less PERSONAL within Materialistic.
@jesusreturning3003
@jesusreturning3003 8 ай бұрын
Just began watching, also note, a small bucket in the car is ideal for many things, u can use it to rinse your hair, shave, to use mild soap and water (w/face washer) to clean ur body in the car, to do some emergency hand washing (Such as undies, socks, cloths, for spot cleaning,etc..), cleaning dishes, good to use as a bin, or incase u feel nauseous, etc.. just a good idea for emergencies when u can't always find a public toilet, it will be feel like ur camping out 😊 Or, some ppl just use wet wipes to clean themselves or wash their dishes too. Great tips so far, need to play rest of video 😊 this will help many ppl, so many crisis situations, we are living in unstable times, and its a good idea to learn to live with less, just the basics is enough to get u thru a bad storm.. I'm not sure if u have mentioned this yet, but if ppl can get a hold of a car roof bag, this will give them plenty of space to add extras.. God bless you, will continue watching now 🙏 😇 PS: someone (A friend) also gave me an idea, for small spaces like cars, U can use a bedpan, it will work well for very small, cramped areas. Also it's not a bad idea to use paper in the bedpan, tissues or something like baking paper, so it's easier and cleaner to dispose of. Also look into a disinfectant spray to spray the car/room after finishing, and spray the bedpan.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! I appreciate your comment and support! Have a fantastic day!🙌🏼😃💯
@jocelynems5
@jocelynems5 7 ай бұрын
Wow.... never heard the bedpan idea mentioned before! How clever... especially on COLD WINDY WINTRY nights and you want to stay warm. It's worth a try!!! I'm making a note of it!
@karenshinsky680
@karenshinsky680 8 ай бұрын
As always, but especially with this video, you had some fabulous information for people. Thank you so much for sharing.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! And for your kind comment and encouragement. I Appreciate your support. Have a fabulous Christmas! Thanks for taking the time to come in❤️🙌🏼😃🎄
@roseannarabia6461
@roseannarabia6461 Ай бұрын
I really appreciate how much time and effort you put in to make sure that you were inclusive to everybody's needs and really understood what you're putting out there before you said it. You have a lot of really great ideas in this video and I just want to thank you. ❤
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! I appreciate your kind words! We never know what people are going through. It’s always my hope that my videos willl be helpful to others in all situations. Have a fantastic day! And thanks for taking th time to comment. 😃🙌🏼💯🩵
@colleencarr3470
@colleencarr3470 7 ай бұрын
You can check ahead first w/ Cracker Barrel, Walmart, Loves & other truck stops, strip mall parking lots if no security, etc. Truck-stops have showers for a fee. Wide mouth containers work best for urine for women. I tried the cat litter way & realized human urine bc of its larger volume will not all be absorbed. Then bags can break & U have a mess. Headlamps are good to keep your light focused & right in front of you & it is stealthy. That was good advice for newbies. Thx
@underthetornado
@underthetornado 8 ай бұрын
I never thought I'd see the day when people would be broadcasting their life from their car to live!😂❤
@ghhtdesfh
@ghhtdesfh 4 ай бұрын
Livin’ in a van down by the river!
@jayburke1601
@jayburke1601 8 ай бұрын
Always great to see you Nancy Faye I'm loving all your new videos I love your practical logical approach to everything!! You are a kind sharing person and I just want to tell you the World Appreciates You !!!
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
🥹Thank you for this very kind comment. 🥹❤️ I appreciate you watching and taking the time to comment. Thank you so much for your support. Have a fantastic Christmas! 🎄❤️🙌🏼😃💯
@user-zi3md2yq7n
@user-zi3md2yq7n 8 ай бұрын
this girl is on to it, mrs bob wells id say,
@Terirn65
@Terirn65 8 ай бұрын
Planet Fitness has showers. $21-28 monthly. Goodwill has lots of great used stuff from bedding to containers, and many other things. Water bottles filled with hot water are great for put in bed with you to warm you up.
@johnbattles1002
@johnbattles1002 4 ай бұрын
I've been thinking about getting a Planet Fitness membership because I may be facing a "car dwelling" situation soon. Can you tell me if Planet Fitness has open showers/locker rooms or if they are privately individualized. I prefer the latter. Thanks.
@JoeT-re5ro
@JoeT-re5ro 2 ай бұрын
⁠@@johnbattles1002 they have locker rooms . Private changing area across from the shower . And the shower are privately individualized . It’s 25.00 a month and a yearly 59.00 maintenance fee . And for that you can use any of their locations.
@tryingndoing
@tryingndoing 4 ай бұрын
Hot water bottles, or whatever the old fashioned ones are called, are excellent for heating up your foot area bedding and keep your feet warm for hours. Grrat advice. Just subbed. Thank you. Blessongs!
@karinhart489
@karinhart489 8 ай бұрын
Good video. FYI, Hospital parking lots & garages near me are paid & expensive. Less of an issue in some suburban areas.
@TURKTURKiYE
@TURKTURKiYE 8 ай бұрын
Yes u r right
@hauk3839
@hauk3839 8 ай бұрын
Led book lights with c charger work great. They have clips clip every where even on ball cap.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Great tips for everyone to glean from. I appreciate you taking the time to share. Have a fantastic Christmas! 🎄🙌🏼😃💯
@wallysmith6344
@wallysmith6344 8 ай бұрын
Try a car seat warmer under your sleeping bag and or blankets for those cold winter days.
@Fdt172
@Fdt172 2 ай бұрын
Target has family bathrooms. They usually have a sink and they are only for one person.
@shoshishaw8762
@shoshishaw8762 7 ай бұрын
For the light, i found a lantern on Amazon, it's hand cranked so you put in a little elbow grease to charge it. It's got 3 modes, half of the light(so you don't totally blind yourself), whole light, and a hazard flashing red light. Plus it has usb ports so you can charge other things like your phone with it.
@debbies6192
@debbies6192 Ай бұрын
You can get a pole that hooks onto the hooks on each side of the van and hang clothes blankets etc.
@PrepperDale
@PrepperDale 8 ай бұрын
I have a Van same as yours . Great Tips ! Thanks!!😀
@paulakelly563
@paulakelly563 8 ай бұрын
Great video, so helpful to those who have to deal with very cold nights . A life saver , if you can’t sleep you can’t function next day and whole mental health breaks down . Wishing you good health going forward. As Xmas. Just passed 😊🎄, you have a roof you have a home yes😊👍
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! And thank you for the kind,. I travel in my van, but I do not live in my Van full-time. I have a home, husband, and four children! Three of which are grown and on their own. I appreciate you taking the time to comment! Have a fantastic evening!😃🙌🏼💯
@JH-ld4mx
@JH-ld4mx 7 ай бұрын
Jupiter Florida has free safe parking along the ocean,pet friendly,showers,fishing water sports the ocean is warm all year round the koolest blue color you have ever seen and there are a lot of jobs.
@jocelynems5
@jocelynems5 7 ай бұрын
Wow..... makes me want to move. Like, right now...
@sherrilaird6535
@sherrilaird6535 18 күн бұрын
Can you spend the night at the free safe parking along the ocean?
@MarySue1908
@MarySue1908 12 күн бұрын
You are so sweet
@LivegoodWilliam
@LivegoodWilliam 2 ай бұрын
In the UK for washing truck stops and most service stations have showers that are free to use
@anthonywilliams5475
@anthonywilliams5475 2 ай бұрын
This just saved my life
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Hang in there! You got this! 😃🙌🏼💯 Check out my playlist called “Van Camping in Michigan” lots of tips and tricks in there.
@markbajek2541
@markbajek2541 5 ай бұрын
I'd steer clear of hotel parking lots, as someone who uses hotels as a paying guest, seeing van dwellers, car campers etc using those parking spots (regardless if the hotel isn't full) leaves the impression that the property is leaning toward the sketchy side. (not good for business) and you'll sometimes see van dwellers , enter the hotel , use the restroom (which are not public, but for paying guests) and even grab food from the breakfast area. Hospitals at least in my area have rolling security and they tend to kick people off the property.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! I hear you on all accounts. I’ve never been detected as my van doesn’t look like a camper. I blend right in. That’s why I love this van. No one knows I’m in it. I’ve personally never entered a hotel where I’ve slept for any reason. When you “stealth camp” in the city, that’s the idea to slip in and slip out undetected, not drawing attention to yourself. I’ve never had a bad experience at any location I’ve stealth camped in and I believe it’s becoase “Im stealthy.” I slip in undetected and I slip out undetected. Hotels are a great place in my opinion, and they have worked out well for me. However, if there were vehicle dwellers that were there and it was obvious that they are sleeping in there vehicles I’d say that’s a bad practice. I agree that it’s not a good look if those types of campers are utilizing that lot. I am completely self sufficient in my van and need nothing. I don’t get out after I park and leave when I awake in the morning, normally early as that’s my normal routine at home. I appreciate you taking the time to comment and share your thoughts. Have a fantastic day! 😃💯🙌🏼
@Kimbers58
@Kimbers58 8 ай бұрын
Thank you yes this is All Helpful 😊 Merry Christmas to you and yours 🎄🎅
@AnnieGill7
@AnnieGill7 8 ай бұрын
Great video! Thanks for your insights! Merry Christmas!
@onibioh
@onibioh 6 ай бұрын
Glad to see someone doing this in Michigan.
@judyconnelly6919
@judyconnelly6919 8 ай бұрын
Great info! Thanks
@user-uy3dn6sh4w
@user-uy3dn6sh4w 8 ай бұрын
It's just great to see you again and this is such a informative video. How's your foot feeling?
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! And for the very kind comment! My foot is doing fantastic! I’m very pleased with the outcome, and am basically back to business! Still have to be thoughtful when doing things. It will take a full year to heal completely. I appreciate you asking! Have a fantastic Christmas!🙌🏼😃💯🎄
@rickstewart9716
@rickstewart9716 Ай бұрын
Just starting van life next week and I learned alot from your tips. Keep them coming...
@joecharbonneau2674
@joecharbonneau2674 8 ай бұрын
Awesome video, thank you for the information.
@susanwade9920
@susanwade9920 8 ай бұрын
Great overview! Thank you.
@christinagardener1889
@christinagardener1889 8 ай бұрын
Great ideas!
@wendyjo9267
@wendyjo9267 8 ай бұрын
Great video!!
@mindbodyfitness99
@mindbodyfitness99 3 ай бұрын
Wow! You really created a beautiful video here for people who are either living in their vehicle or are thinking about living in their vehicle, like me! Thank you so much❤
@claycarpenter8625
@claycarpenter8625 4 ай бұрын
I work local 50+ hours a week and chose to live in my car. I've done it while jobless and it was horrible. Now I have storage and the gym. I have a 24 vold battery cobalt fan for the hot nights. A 20° sleeping bag for the cold. Laser cut out windows coverings. I could afford rent but I want to save for an emergency the car can throw at me and enjoy thi gs I want to do that I couldn't otherwise.
@kyrieeleison7328
@kyrieeleison7328 8 ай бұрын
Very informative, well done video! Thank you Nancy!
@RoadThruGrace
@RoadThruGrace 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video and for the information you shared. I have a mid-sized SUV that I plan on using to travel/live in. I also have a 70-pound service/assistance dog to help pick up things that I drop and to help me keep steady when I get dizzy. Currently I am in Florida and highly motivated to get out of my living situation. My roommate can be very stern with me and raises her voice a lot, like I’m a child. My mental health is taking a beating right now. And I’m feeling like I’m at fault all the time. She is waiting for a hip replacement and cannot walk very well. I’m also feeling guilty for my desire to leave. I have tried to tell her that I’m leaving. Whenever I’ve started talking about it she gets really upset with me. It will take me a couple of months to be able to leave as my finances need improvement. I have a problem saying no to her because it leads to conflict. I hate conflict as it makes me truly anxious and depressed. I’ve prayed to God about it. Thank you for posting your videos. ❤️😊Brenda & Blue🐕‍🦺❤️
@deekauzlar5475
@deekauzlar5475 2 ай бұрын
You are extremely empathetic, and your roommate is taking advantage of that. Also, the enemy of your soul is the one making you feel guilty all of the time. Take EVERY thought captive, right? Our heavenly family is encouraging, not accusing. Who is the Accuser? Everyone else has a right to take care of themselves. Why not you? You are a child of the King. Stand tall. Make BOUNDARIES and when the malcontents cross them, shut the door. Remain in forgiveness, for you and your spiritual walk. Forgiveness does not mean allowing others to continue to hurt us. My own mother and father were massively abusive growing up. I've forgiven them. They may never know this. I made a boundary. I drew a line in the sand. I made my boundary known. When they crossed the line I drew in the sand, I did not step back and redraw my line. That was it. I do not know if they are alive. I made it clear that I am here if they WANT to change. Its been years, and no word. I'm happier now than I have ever been. One of your primary caregivers growing up was most assuredly a narcissist. You are showing signs of narcissistic abuse. There are many channels that help those of us suffering from this. You must be extremely careful with meeting people. Narcissists are EVERYWHERE. They "love bomb", then devalue. They also gas light, to make you question reality. The ONE THING all Narcissistic Abuse Victims share is that we do not know WHO WE ARE. We do not know our worth. We were told we were LESS THAN in our programmed upbringing. That caused self-rejection. I would suggest that you memorize the scriptures that tell you WHO YOU ARE. Make sure that this is embedded in your DNA. I AM a child of the Most High. I AM a vine of the true branch. I also read Psalm 91, putting my own name in. I, Renae, who dwells in the most High, will rest in the shadow of the Most High. I will say to the Lord..." Always remember, the people who love you will celebrate your boundaries. People who want to destroy you will hate your boundaries. That is across the board, parents and children alike. You DESERVE more. Go on now.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 2 ай бұрын
@deekauzlar5475 🤍 I hope this comment is helpful to 1000’s of people. I concur 100% on every level of your response. Thank you for taking the time to comment. Have a fantastic day!🙏🏼❤️😊💯 Proverbs 3:5-6, Psalms 46:10 ✝️
@deekauzlar5475
@deekauzlar5475 2 ай бұрын
@@ModernDayPilgrim Thank you. Me too. There are so many of us out there. We do not know that the opposite of what we heard about ourselves growing up is true. Have a blessed and safe day.
@Mooniicky
@Mooniicky 8 ай бұрын
Great video 👏 lots of practical info.
@Lizapendleton
@Lizapendleton 8 ай бұрын
Check out "bog in a bag". Its a folding tripod stool, very small, with a hole in the seat for a bag to put absorbent material (sawdust, gel etc) in. Folds up very compact.
@denisedevaughn544
@denisedevaughn544 4 ай бұрын
I tent camp in the winter. Do not use a buddy heater in a car ever.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! You can use them in a closed space if you have proper. Ventilation. You must have your windows cracked for sure. I personally don’t sleep with it on during the night but do waste up my space before I go to bed and when I wake up. It makes for a comfortable van camping adventure in the winter. Thabks for taking the time to comment. Have a fantastic day! 😃💯🙌🏼
@ThriftTea
@ThriftTea 7 ай бұрын
Exceptional video & information. thank you so much, & God bless you!!
@greenviolist34
@greenviolist34 27 күн бұрын
❤ Thank you. You made me feel ok and your advice makes me feel ok being homeless 14:40 You're right. And in the USA there are laws governing how many parking spots are required for any building and the requirement is always more than the building would ever need.
@EricaChavira-on4oz
@EricaChavira-on4oz 28 күн бұрын
How are you so positive? You are so inspiring and seem so strong. I wish I could be more like you, as the years have gone on, my strength and positivity have drastically diminished.
@user-vk8fc6xz1f
@user-vk8fc6xz1f 29 күн бұрын
Thank You For The Video, Take Care.
@stacyclark5910
@stacyclark5910 2 ай бұрын
Hi! Thanks for sharing the things you have learned…. God Bless!
@TransVangal
@TransVangal 8 ай бұрын
❤I live in a Chrysler Town & country van, I make it my own and I don't have to worry about rent it's the best feeling also I did a lot of research to get the essentials that I needed a lot of things plugged into USB to save energy.cool video 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Absolutely! Everything I have in this van is USB charged and powered. It’s fantastic! I’m glad you’re making it work in your van! That’s awesome! Have a fantastic evening, and merry Christmas!😃🙌🏼💯🎄
@charlesarmstrong4013
@charlesarmstrong4013 Ай бұрын
Lots of information, great content.
@freethinker3716
@freethinker3716 4 ай бұрын
Organization is key
@shirleymyahs_dghtr8182
@shirleymyahs_dghtr8182 5 ай бұрын
That was great. Thank you very much. Stay well.
@user-mj9hq6vm1g
@user-mj9hq6vm1g 2 ай бұрын
God Bless You ❤
@bluebirddaysandcatholenigh2483
@bluebirddaysandcatholenigh2483 4 ай бұрын
Great information!
@lyndamaewilson3453
@lyndamaewilson3453 8 ай бұрын
Awesome information
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 6 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!😃🙌🏼💯
@kenniegarner3848
@kenniegarner3848 8 ай бұрын
I love living out of my runner during the winter. It is the summer that is really hard to deal with.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 6 ай бұрын
Yes, sometimes, depending on where you live, Summers can be ruthless! I happen to live in Michigan, and our temperatures fluctuate a lot, but they’re not overly hot for the most part, and they’re not the freezing tundra either. But a lot of in between. I appreciate you taking the time to comment. Have a fantastic day!😃🙌🏼💯
@RoadThruGrace
@RoadThruGrace 6 ай бұрын
@@ModernDayPilgrimI haven’t yet been to Michigan. Is the UP weather better than lower Michigan? I’ve got another comment to make by itself. So I’ll get busy watching some of your other videos. Enjoy your day!
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 6 ай бұрын
@@RoadThruGrace thanks for watching! The upper peninsula weather is a lot more harsh in the winter than the lower peninsula. The upper peninsula can be a lot more mild in summer, however, there have been times when it’s been smoking hot up there as well. Being near Lake Superior can be a lot cooler as well. Have a fantastic day! 😃💯🙌🏼
@gjonesii
@gjonesii 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for an informative and useful video 😊
@venivendivici888
@venivendivici888 3 ай бұрын
Great advice, thank you.
@kathryngganderson8636
@kathryngganderson8636 2 ай бұрын
Very helpful, thank you!
@drivingdaily582
@drivingdaily582 2 ай бұрын
Lots of good points 👍
@Sandra-dk4lv
@Sandra-dk4lv 3 ай бұрын
Love this video… good job!
@Trippyboho
@Trippyboho 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the tips kinda being forced out of my moms place so figured it's time to start preparing for my car move in
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Hang in there! Everything‘s gonna be OK.🙏🏼 as long as you have a roof over your head, you’re good. Don’t over think it. 😊💯🙌🏼🙏🏼
@Trippyboho
@Trippyboho 2 ай бұрын
@@ModernDayPilgrim I will, thanks 🙏🏽😌
@vickilindberg6336
@vickilindberg6336 3 ай бұрын
Besides draping a wool blanket, you can use the little metalic sheets that reflect your bidy heat hack to you. They're less than han $5 apiece.
@1977drz
@1977drz 2 ай бұрын
Thanks Best regards
@MarkMayhew
@MarkMayhew 4 ай бұрын
For security, i keep pepper spray in my vehicle, I've never had to use it thankfully
@erickroeger1161
@erickroeger1161 Ай бұрын
point of interests are library, chamber of commence, town hall HR, salvation army, churches, campsites, laundry mats, thrifts meet people! build your reputation for references, hygiene is everything If you don't have access a shower use baby wipes move to a place that is highly industrialized with big name brands; lots of temp agencies too. cast a wide net apply for all of them
@jameswhite1319
@jameswhite1319 7 ай бұрын
Excellent advice
@TheWookieesWife
@TheWookieesWife Ай бұрын
I had surgery when I was in my 20s and my doc told me to use a “she-pee.” Talk about lifesaving! I’ve owned that thing (I call it “my girly penis”) for 20 years now and I can’t even tell you how many thousands of pees it’s lasted. Obviously if I hafta poo, that’s another issue. That’s where public bathrooms come in. That’s why I always park at truck stops when I can. They don’t mind overnight parking, it’s cheap to buy a shower, and they’re kind most of the time.
@xxlalbatross3287
@xxlalbatross3287 8 ай бұрын
👍
@gina_dee.1111
@gina_dee.1111 Ай бұрын
I think I had seen window coverings for sale online in the Walmart app
@racquellevias9297
@racquellevias9297 4 ай бұрын
I'm sending this video to my son.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! And thanks for sharing my video with your son! I’m glad you find it helpful and valuable. If he has any questions, have them reach out, I’m happy to help. I hope you’re having a fantastic day, and thanks again for your kind comment! 😃💯🙌🏼
@TwoWheelsBackroads
@TwoWheelsBackroads 8 ай бұрын
Just found your channel. Really great content! Wish I had a vehicle I could stretch out in and I'm by no means tall.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! I appreciate your encouragement and support! Yes, it is nice to be able to have a regular bed in a van. It definitely lends itself to multiple Van set up! I have a few, lol. I appreciate you taking the time to comment, have a fantastic week, and merry Christmas!🎄😃🙌🏼💯
@Steven-re7xt
@Steven-re7xt 2 ай бұрын
You got it a radio... rechargable battery's.. small dc fan fans.. a tent when flat ground is available...truck stops...Wally world despite trucks getting too nosie. And for helping some body else.... I got the boot......starting with sniffing my car through the windows then finding nothing. To issueing a exit warning.... Oh hand/foot warmers run w/o fire and rem some younger security jerks get off on this..😮😮 PS churchs better...dome lights??? Never... "tattle tale" a solar panel folding type...twice the output. And recharge sticks to store I use a very small fridge 110/12 for meds yes all want hear about this subject...
@thomassvec3771
@thomassvec3771 3 ай бұрын
Very good advice, seems like this gal has done this many times before...😅
@user-wh5pd4fs3c
@user-wh5pd4fs3c 18 күн бұрын
Window covers in the city while stealth camping is an OXYMORON! It is a total giveaway! Rather arrive late at night and go to the back into your bed immediately. DON’T turn on ANY lights! Then leave quietly very early the following morning, period!
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 18 күн бұрын
@@user-wh5pd4fs3c hi! Thanks for watching! I can see that that would work if you chose to just go straight to bed when you got to your destination. However, that doesn’t work for everybody. I do slip in after darkness, put my window covers up, turn a little light on, brush my teeth, take a sponge bath, change my clothes and make videos for you guys! Lol I’ve never had an issue with using window covers when I stealth camp. Now I suppose if you had windows that were not tinted, and you put silver reflected in your windows that would be a dead giveaway. I have very darkened windows, and I use blackout curtains in the front part of my van, and I do have a regular windshield cover, which are very normal to use to keep sun off of dashboards. I am picking up what you’re laying down but I don’t think it’s a one size fits all situation. Thanks for taking time to comment! Have a fantastic day! 😃🙌🏼💯
@willow4174
@willow4174 3 ай бұрын
I go to a fitness place. They welcome all, and it’s cheap.
@user-mt1rx3sd7n
@user-mt1rx3sd7n 6 ай бұрын
Cat litter is horrible I use cedar savings, ( for pet beds ) works great
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Yes, cat litter isn’t the best. I’ve since changed over to rabbit, pellets, or horse pellets. They work wonderfully!😃🙌🏼💯
@diannesumone2814
@diannesumone2814 8 ай бұрын
Hi from Australia 🙋‍♀️ 🤔 How do you recharge your Jackery power box, do you have a solar panel on your vehicle? Thankyou for all your helpful info 😊
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 8 ай бұрын
Hello! And thank you so much for taking the time to comment! Australia! How’s the weather?😂💯 My is constantly being charged by my vehicle when I drive. In the event that I am parked or camping for an extended period of time, I would just start my car and charge my battery that way. And drive around a little bit. I do not have solar at this time, as I have not had need for it. But I have thought about it and may actually get at least one 100 W panel. I hope you are doing well, and have a fabulous Christmas!😃🙌🏼💯🎄
@coryrakatau4656
@coryrakatau4656 8 ай бұрын
Ecoflow are very good.. only takes 40 mins to charge 80%.. I use my van to charge mine
@jewellynn9178
@jewellynn9178 7 ай бұрын
Very informative video. I am concerned though that some people do not know it can be dangerous to run the car's engine to use the heater.
@jocelynems5
@jocelynems5 7 ай бұрын
True... good point.
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 6 ай бұрын
Well, people most likely will search it out, Google search, if it is or not. But for the most part, if you have a window cracked, you can heat your vehicle with elements, or have your van running. Have a fantastic week!🙌🏼😃💯
@montanamvk
@montanamvk 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. Question re window covers; doesn't it attract attention? And we're not allowed to drive w/ them (on side windows of course), right? I'm totally confused about them and I'm sorry for the silly question! No idea where to go aside Walmart either, ugh!! Again, THANK YOU!!
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 7 ай бұрын
Yes, sometimes window covers can cause attention. Depending on what they are. I have pretty dark windows and you can’t really see the reflecting through them very well. But you can also get black material and put it over one side with reflex because they can be interchangeable left to right if they’re the same shape. So one side can be black in the other one reflected, depending on what season it is. But otherwise, they work out well. I don’t know where you live, so I’m not sure of your surroundings to tell you where to park. Try hotels, hospital, parking lots, that’s what I do. Thanks for watching! Have a fantastic day!😃💯🙌🏼
@willow4174
@willow4174 3 ай бұрын
Collapsible toilet and change the bag when you want, every time or not
@kimmancha4314
@kimmancha4314 4 ай бұрын
I think people also need a mailing address, a place to receive mail and use for other purposes.
@ellemeno0
@ellemeno0 8 ай бұрын
I'm trying to shop for a vehicle, I will need to be out of my apartment end of month and I am ok with vehicle living but not in my old mini cooper
@ModernDayPilgrim
@ModernDayPilgrim 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! So sorry for the delayed response. I have 100 of comments that I’m just getting through them. Did you ever find a vehicle? How are things going? Have a fabulous weekend!🙌🏼💯😃
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