Mom, Choose Between Me Or Your Wife! | KARAMO

Malcom is coming to the Karamo show with an ultimatum. He's ready for his mom Thalia to choose between him or her wife Kenya. Malcom says his mom is far from perfect but she has the potential to be amazing and deserves better than Kenya. Can Karamo help this mother and son repair their relationship?
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[@nicolesuniverse6061]

The IRONY in her saying he hasn’t missed a meal and she isn’t the skinniest in the world herself🌚

[@Oneeeofoneee]

Like who you think he got it from😂😂

[@qingtheb3785]

Everybody eating well

[@momonie4]

SHE HASN'T MISSED ANY MEALS EITHER!!!!

[@marathonbleu]

Yea a lot of fat parents sabotage their kids

[@quebochinche7086]

I know

[@anna-mariag5376]

No one made you lay down at 17 and have a child. How dare you make him feel like he is a burden. It was YOUR choice! You weren’t the only 17 year old back in the day. You knew what you were doing when you lay down with a man. Even at 17. She’s toxic. He deserves all the love in the world from his mother.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

And he has all the love in the world , you do not know everything from 10 mins of a show.

[@shaymarie344]

I was wondering who was gonna say something about that. Like how you mad at him cause you wanted to be grown. Love karamo but I do think he should of told her about that not just about being spoiled and disrespectful

[@anna-mariag5376]

@@shaymarie344 my thoughts exactly doll

[@emg.9246]

She def could of had an @b0rt!0n and she should of 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@aziza753]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nland yet here you are saying “he has all the love in the world.” the ignorancy and crap loaded in your brain is mind blowing.

[@Vidgamechx]

NGL, between the wife spilling tea, and the son checking the list down, this was hilarious. The mom is a whole mess saying she gave her life when he was raised by grandma. She created this MESS🤔😂😂😂❤🤦🏾‍♀️❤❤

[@Tpina305]

Exactly - she said she gave up her life but that her mom raised him and spoiled him…ummm which one is it? Doesn’t make any sense. She’s awful.

[@Meko2fun]

Boo yawww!!!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

No ma’am my mother did not raise him alone she stepped in and helped because I was a provider as a single parent, you can’t get my whole life story on a 10 min clip please don’t do too much

[@sekhmet5736]

​@ThailaDavis-lm8nl Word of advice. When you are on a TV show on National Television, you give people time to sit and judge your situation. If you know your Truth that's all that matters.

[@questionresearch8721]

She created the mess. She is blaming everyone and she was the one pitting her child and wife against each other.

[@nil.0110]

“You make me look like I’m a bad mother” no darling.. you’re doing that really great on your own

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Bad mother never he even agreed to that I’m a great mother

[@Only1Valleyval]

Facts!

[@user-mf2qq3ve5w]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlnot you delusional is what you are

[@testosterone912]

i mean it comes from the parents to grandparents she not wrong but damn it’s a cycle that’s why choices matter any decision one makes affects the future and the next generation that’s why we’re here now

[@xoangelicaf0523]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlhow you were acting and talking to him that doesn’t say good mother to me

[@IDK-JBC]

Rent is way too high now to move out at 21 😂

[@Regina11225]

ONG

[@shedoesntcare745]

Well, he needs to chill out and help her.

[@IDK-JBC]

@@shedoesntcare745 he literally said he works, I'm sure he was helping

[@DaGreatOne1979]

Act grown do grown things

[@IDK-JBC]

@@DaGreatOne1979 and people still struggle

[@sophiaandre139]

So she shames her son for being gay, when herself she is in a same-sex relationship?!? What?!? I'm confused

[@erikaemenyonu1956]

And the fat shaming! What!!!!!

[@l0rdapophis]

Could never be my mama. We'd be in the middle of the street 🤣

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

She's confused herself

[@goead]

Lesbians don’t like men no matter their sexuality

[@nyty9578]

Shes just projecting on to him how she feels about herself.

[@TuffTone516]

Speaking from a parents point of view….. who also had a kid at a somewhat young age, I would NEVER tell my son I gave up my life for him or throw it in his face …… we PARENTS! This what we supposed to do!!!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

No ma’am never blamed him I chose to put everything on hold to be his parent and now he’s 21 it’s my turn to live

[@janaebrown1258]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nl you don’t stop being a parent when your child is 18. Good parents know this

[@JamMasterKae]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlwhat exactly did you put on hold if his grandma raised him?

[@lei2731]

That part. They did not ask to be here we are the one who decided to be parents.

[@londynstl1963]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlBaby you’re not done being a mother at 18, that’s when they need you most, because they don’t know how to navigate the real world yet, you throwing him into the lion’s den

[@soniatenorio4438]

My daughter gave me a book for emotionally immature parents. I read it & I see patterns that we fall into as parents.

[@LaCreshiaify]

What was the name of the book?

[@malikacuffie]

Name???

[@shaunawilkerson5119]

What's the name of the book?

[@my3babies1038]

Give the name Sis!! 😂

[@kkpuffs16]

I need the name of the book Christmas is coming

[@_itsmecee]

Him punching her knees is crazy🤣🤣

[@briiuncensored]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@chelseabiggus3446]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@DoctorResults]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@charmelllinder4025]

😂😂😂

[@trippiegrl]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bingmarshall6937]

My son WAS my life. I LOVED every single minute of it! Hes now 30 yrs old and has a wife n child and we are still very close and i LOVE my daughter-in-law too. I wouldnt trade my life for anything 😊

[@Minnji-fc3zx]

This is so sweet ❤

[@reineuwase1445]

❤

[@JamMasterKae]

“i didn’t ask to have you!” let’s back up mamas. you laid down…

[@daishamaxwell461]

YOU LAID DOWN AND DID THE DO AND KNEW THE CONSEQUENCES COMMON NOW AT 17 I KNEW HOW BABIES ARE MADE SO NO EXCUSES

[@Princessgibbs]

this the one frfr‼️

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Who told you it was consensual? Y’all speak on everybody life but don’t know everything

[@sekhmet5736]

​​@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlThat's because you should had explained YOUR testimony. Not that you have to prove anything to anyone. But a testimony is nothing to be ashamed of. It is part of your life and probably made you become the strong women you are today. But you can not continue to tell your son those things. That would only make him feel as if you never wanted him or as if he was a heavy burden. That may be a reason why he acts out against you now. Work on building a better relationship with your son. Tomorrow is not promised.

[@questionresearch8721]

That's what got me in the preview. Ma'am unless someone graped you then you made a choice.

[@dayshialynette6699]

Lmaooo him checking the list is me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@voodoohead]

OMGGG!! That list check had me rolling!

[@scottrogue946]

It was all the way petty and took me out 😂

[@chard3582]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@benitanaluyima8520]

I tell you😂😂🤣

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

He definitely did his thing on that one

[@sharoncooper9615]

How did she give him everything when she didn’t raise him? She’s the narcissistic one.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Unfortunately you missed it I stopped living to be a parent and I started working to provide I wasn’t sleep while my mother had him I was working to provide for him. I never missed anything in his life I was the best mother and enforcer my mother helped raise him as most grandmother do

[@questionresearch8721]

I think she responded.

[@sharoncooper9615]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nl I didn’t miss anything. You provided material possession but clearly didn’t provide love, discipline, time and respect. In fact he even stated you only provided material possessions. Take a seat and don’t go in tv if you don’t want people commenting on what they see.

[@kingflavs9884]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlYou’re shameful, I feel for your son.

[@khaylasgranny]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nl it’s obvious you missed something. he most definitely didn’t get any emotional support from you

[@ms.porsche8816]

I LOVE how Karamo works with Black families. This is the healing energy we need ❤

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

"She threw her life away"....YOUR SON IS YOUR LIFE! Omg!! Having my sons saved me from many sorrows....We as Mothers to men need a stronger backbone as better character and far less anger and fighting. Raise your children, put extra folk out of your home and do the work, I cannot understand why have children when it's obvious you don't want them.

[@nekoalbury8606]

Thank you so much. She needs "Yeshua" Emmanuelle "Jesus" Christ in her life" I mean she saying she never asked for him well if that's the case then her legs should've stayed closed at 17 years old.

[@mentalhealingwithelaine]

Your children are apart of your life but they shouldn’t be your life. You are you life and your kids are their lives.

[@daishamaxwell461]

All kids should be ur life. Wanted anyways

[@RIPMatthias]

Her child isn't her life

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I appreciate your input I’m glad your children saved your life

[@scottrogue946]

Whew child the real tea is the mother and deadbeat wife 😅 ☠️

[@triece18]

I hate how Kamaro tried to push it as if his mother was doing him a favor by “giving her life for him” I really do. you’re SUPPOSED to do that as a mother. you chose to lay down and have him. how does he owe her..? It’s different to have recognition for things vs feeling entitled to them. yes she deserves props because being a mother is hard, but saying your son owes you for you choosing to be a mother is ridiculous

[@nekoalbury8606]

@@triece18 Exactly!!!!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

You misinterpreted what was said and that’s okay love he’s not speaking about his childhood, I was basically saying I did my job what more do you want from me

[@dorianthompson9590]

⁠@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlit’s obvious that is what you meant…. Don’t feed into these shallow minded comments

[@mariangreenwood748]

She is not missing a meal herself to say that to her son is hurtful

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Neither one of us have we never will

[@ashleyj7011]

Exactly 💯💯💯

[@questionresearch8721]

The mother is clearly the problem. I believe the wife and the son. The mother blames everyone. No accountability.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Lol you tried it

[@PeaceLoveAndJoy]

Did we watch the same episode? Mom clearly took accountability. Mom is frustrated with having two kids, her wife and her actual son. I wish the mother well. Get that wife out of your house as she is half of the stress and then work on your relationship with your son. Best wishes to them.

[@questionresearch8721]

@@PeaceLoveAndJoy Yes, we did. She was shaming him and saying all this crazy mess coming out her mouth. She talked about him being gay but she married a woman and I gave up my life sounding like she is Jesus on the cross. Ma'am laid down and sex and had him. Shamed him for not being in school but she was pregnant in high school.

[@questionresearch8721]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nl You must be the mother on the show. 🤣🤣🤣You tried it with that line I gave up my life and he is suppose to be in school at his age. Were in school at 17?Shamed him for being gay but you are married to a woman. I don't get it.

[@JamMasterKae]

@@questionresearch8721better yet, was she in college at 21?

[@blahlove44]

When he started checking that list off I lost it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sieira12]

Lmfaoooo

[@lindamccants6418]

Funnayy..😂

[@user-xk7qx6eg9v]

I always love the way Karamo handles these situations!!

[@Pjsixty60]

Me too, with his handsome self 😍

[@cherililly6378]

How did she give up her life, if his grandma raised him?

[@khaylasgranny]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I gave up my life by not continuing to be a child, I stopped going to school to work and when I was able and he was older I decided to further my education. He isn’t speaking about his childhood he is complaining about his now at 21 years old when he turned 18 after graduating top of his class I started living for me and he wasn’t ready for that part of life. But thank you for your input

[@khaylasgranny]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nl as you were supposed to do, since you’re his mother and chose to have him.. We don’t get flowers and cookies for doing our job. Kids don’t ask to be born

[@neetwotimess]

😂😂😂🤷🏽‍♀️

[@aryannawooten3283]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlyou domt get a clap for doing the bare minimum babe. you laid down to make this child, you had to raise him.

[@KWin-ik5cl]

The mother is still 17 yrs old. He didn’t ask to be there and he owes her nothin. If she had an issue w/the grandmother she should’ve taken her son and raised him like she was supposed to. How she so damn tired with 1 grown child?

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

No honey I’m 39 and no he didn’t ask to be here that’s why I did what was required to provide a great life for him private schools, never struggled for anything in his life but it’s my turn he not talking about his childhood he talking about life as a 21 year old honey

[@teramccorvey1989]

No boo you act like he the problem ma’am and you are..His grandmother raised him not you.If it was such an issue you should’ve raise him your damn self..You need to grow up and you should’ve kept your legs shut..Take some accountability boo because I see you not

[@ashleyj7011]

💯💯💯💯

[@starsonapollo2]

​@@ThailaDavis-lm8nldamn near 40 and arguing with people that can see you belittling and demeaning him bffr

[@ronniejackson9228]

Karamo was 100% right on everything he said. I wonder if this dude is a family/relationship counselor?

[@jahmalrichardson4048]

I believe he has a degree in social work. They take similar course work as counselors or therapists

[@following_auras8830]

@@jahmalrichardson4048clinical social workers are therapist and go through a more rigorous training and study program. I am a therapist, LMSW lol so yes he is a legitimate therapist doing family/couple counseling

[@mervinbrandy4935]

He is an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker). He is trained to do therapy, clinical assessments and counseling.

[@jahmalrichardson4048]

@@mervinbrandy4935 makes sense. To be an LCSW, would require a minimum of a masters degree in social work. So figures

[@tristyy404]

He just wanted to call out her wife on TV cause baybeeee THAT was the show!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I was totally blindsided I had no clue I was coming on there for a ultimatum

[@questionresearch8721]

That was the show😂😂😂😂

[@Prev8ster]

When she said “girl you was in jail for 3 days” I lost it 🤣🤣

[@CrystalBreMusic]

A WHOLE WEEK lol

[@Beloved1144]

😂😂

[@Prev8ster]

@@CrystalBreMusic right like hold up gangsta don’t hurt nobody 😅

[@notlikeleonte]

I hate when parent tell their children that. You made the decision to have a child, they didn’t ask to be here!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I wasn’t saying like that I was basically saying I gave you my life already you grown now it’s my time

[@ashleyj7011]

💯💯💯

[@makeupbyxandy9293]

5:34 BAHAHAHAHA HOW DID HE TRY TO UNALIVE YOU BY PUNCHING YOUR KNEEWS 😂

[@q.oliviarivers1493]

😂😂

[@Kwalo_Tse_Boitshepo]

She did clarify though. Like a typical mother she does exaggerate a bit lol

[@444Baddies]

The way he handles these problems within the relationships amazes me cause I could never.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

He is absolutely amazing and we are grateful for him and we have been doing the work and things are much better so far

[@This.is.my.family]

U lost me I don't even know what your saying

[@mamasouljah]

This young man must get his own place to live and let his mum be in her own place. If he wants to help then do that. But Mum must not be his bully.🙏🏽😘💐

[@thebeautiful_NaomiAli]

Babayyyyyyyyyyy that unscripted tea was HOT 🥵 😂

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I missed the tea what was it

[@Icannotlose]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlgirl with you and your wife arguing unscripted. Stop acting crazy. 😂🤣

[@stephsays-503]

As the parent of an adult child who I gave birth to as a teenager I would NEVER tell my son that I gave up my life when I had him, kids DON'T ask to be born and people have OPTIONS. I CHOSE to give birth therefore I made the choice to be a Mom and deal with everything that comes with it!!

[@yaniquehayes214]

❤👏🏾 facts

[@proudmganda1159]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@poeticlovee]

Doesn’t mean it isn’t hard.

[@michellefreeman9886]

Amen, it's not easy, but something in us will never let us give up on our children.

[@yme9953]

I’ve been a mum since I was 18. If you can call them sacrifices I made them gladly and was honoured to do so to ensure my child’s right to a great life.

[@kevonabltmr]

Facts. Me too. Best decision I ever made

[@Morenitasracing_co]

I know that’s right. I was 19 and when I say my whole life revolved around that lil girl it did and I did that happily.

[@ZaniyaKeyria]

This‼️

[@yme9953]

Yes ladies! Love you ❤️

[@jakayladawson4988]

I was 16… she ah b ok

[@nl8128]

This Malcolm boy is adorable!! And his mother too. She looks like she has a nice personality but never had a chance to express and share it with the right people!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Thank you so much, I appreciate you bringing some positivity. Malcolm is absolutely amazing young man and I cherish everything about him.

[@cateyes4030]

This chic annoying...who is the right people? Lord all the excuses and praising bad behavior is exactly why the world is the fuxxed up

[@dijonay971]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nl What I love is how quickly you both apologised to each other and said it with ease. Y’all were sincere and hugged it out and from that interaction alone, I can see how much you do both love each other. Wishing you all the very best. ❤️

[@Adventures_with_GEOFFERY]

*”THE LIST IS CHECKED DOWN” 😭😂 bye*

[@ladyteka2430]

The mom is not really taking accountability and is gaslighting. I could imagine the grandmother spoiled him (partly) to compensate for the mom not raising him.

[@Aalv.yah417]

Sometimes an apology can never heal anything if people dont try to be better

[@K29410x]

Yup apologies don’t mean a thing if you don’t never fix it!

[@judithmurray4762]

I can understand why she is frustrated with the pair of them…she just doesn’t get enough support from either of them 😢

[@shaunawilkerson5119]

Huh? Clearly she's the problem...

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Thank you so much for your defense, people will never know the full story from 10 mins

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

How am I the problem Elaborate please?

[@ashleyj7011]

💯💯💯

[@luvbombz]

I’m sorry i almost fell to the floor when he said he punch his momma knees because that’s her weakness lol and his momma said he was trying to unalive her

[@anissagr523]

I’m 24 & baby I ain’t going anywhere anytime soon. It’s hard ash out here & I’m glad my mother has never made me feel like I had to

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

Well I hope you're nowhere near as disrespectful as he was to his mother and understand that while you are still at home, you're grown! Your mother's life is hers and she should be able to live it without u making her feel as though she's less than a mother for doing so!

[@Ashleyomega07]

Same I just turned 25 & my dad is always telling us stay as long as we want because its a cold world out here

[@cherililly6378]

Him checking the list off😭😭😭

[@juliatrapp5733]

He is the problem

[@eggy315]

i feel for this guy. She’s the mother. She should’ve chose her son over a random man and help him better his future. most 20 yr olds are in school and or working. I hate when parents bring up that “most kids your age…” bs cus how is that relevant what the next 20 yr old is doing in their life? 😂💀 it isnt. Also most normal people don’t compare their lives with other people because everyone is on their own path. I hope he’s doing okay and distance himself from toxic people

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Honey know facts my son works full time and is the owner of his own clothing line that I funded I have and will always make my son top priority that’s one of the reason we were having issues in our marriage but we good now love

[@user-mu1lh9dy7k]

The audacity! She did ask to have him when she made an adult decision.

[@takeishataylor3328]

I feel what she saying she wants to live her life and he still holds on like a kid

[@daughteroftheking6075]

That's exactly how I took it, too. People have read between the lines sometimes.

[@chalameasewalton587]

How does that work? "I stop messing with men so you wouldn't" huuuuuh???

[@ShayMiW]

That's what I said 😂 so the way you made sure your son wouldn't be gay is to enter a homosexual relationship??

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I basically wanted my son to see a man in our home so I left my girlfriend who was helping raise him as well and started dating a man because my brothers said I needed to give him a chance

[@dorianthompson9590]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlstop explaining yourself….

[@Sheisneika0976]

Now we getting to the meat and potatoes - the mother is burnt the hell out!!!!!! She isn’t the bad guy she is just tired of working and taking care of everyone!!!!!

[@domdom2215]

Exactly she took care of her son and she worked and her momma helped her. She’s tired the son has to understand her feelings but she definitely needs to understand his feelings. I liked this episode alottt because I completely understand both sides and the mom and son are beautiful. I pray they work out these issues.

[@ruthaiyana]

Yessss literally!!

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

BINGO!!

[@marvellespiller63]

The girlfriend said I DONT NEED YOU HONEY 😮😂😂😂

[@Ebonylocks-ex9nc]

Clearly they love each other. They need to have lunch from time to time at someplace special.

[@TinaB111]

And avoid each other everytime after that...

[@AlanaGurl]

Karamo handled this wonderfully 🙌🏾

[@nekoalbury8606]

He sure did this time.

[@OfficialDaikey]

I feel he could’ve got more on the mom fr

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

​@@OfficialDaikeyFor what??

[@hartlakia2896]

No excuse I had mine at 16 and i could never say I gave up my life for her. I altered shit and made shit work for us. We’ve grown together. Not only am I her protector, her therapist, her best friend, her confidant, and she’s everything in the world to me.

[@glennbean804]

Okay! Your best one yet Karamo! You called it all right!!! Fair, honest and correct! You HEARD everybody. Even in the chaos!! And you gave sound and practical advice. Ok - we see you!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Yes, he was absolutely amazing we appreciate him so much and we are all here doing much better.

[@shaniabrown6390]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlhi mama do you have an instagram or anything ? wanted to give you some support and advice.

[@destineemarie4799]

Children really don’t understand the sacrifices parents make, I didn’t get it until my mom passed away 😞💯💯

[@opulence_prime]

Y’all. This took a turn I didn’t see coming. Yesh.

[@kaitlynnAmos28]

Having my kids changed my whole life, my kids are my whole world frfr!! I didn’t give up my life my kids gave me my life

[@debineyhall1353]

Him checking off this list got me. Crazy how the whole situation turns into them (mom and wife) going back and forth

[@PrettiGirlKesha]

For moms wife to say “you can’t be tired as a parent” she clearly has no kids. We absolutely can be tired as a parent. This is why we take time out in our car before going in the house, why we spend extra time in the bathroom. We get tired and just need a minute. She didn’t mean she didn’t want to be his mom anymore.

[@lifewithangelina92]

I agree but sometimes as parents or ppl in general you have to be mindful of what you say to others.

[@shawneegirl1980]

I feel seen 😂

[@nakiajones8794]

Just because she doesn’t have kids doesn’t mean her point is not valid. Being a biological mom doesn’t make you right!

[@lifewithangelina92]

@@nakiajones8794 what??

[@PrettiGirlKesha]

@@nakiajones8794 It means she doesn’t know what it is to be a parent and be tired!…..a single parent at that. She can’t speak on something that she has no clue about. Parents (fathers as well) get tired…period.

[@KrisKalema]

“u ain missed a meal” LOL!!!!

[@beyfree]

Why would she say that? lmfaoo

[@Mitsubachi2529]

Has she walked past a mirror? 😝🤣🤣🤣

[@tiffyfittaz6550]

I mean 😂

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Yes ma’am I walked it daily

[@ashleyj7011]

​@@Mitsubachi2529Really 😂😂😂

[@rakn752]

My daughter is 25 and my grandson 3! I love them munchkins more than air! I am naturally a nurturer so it’s second nature to be there even though my daughter stands on her own two feet and does an amazing job with my grandson because she receives nothing less from her own mom! God bless this dysfunction🙏🏽

[@guccilady1017]

I’ve been out of my moms house since I was 17. I went to college and got my own and I can honestly say I feel if I would have been able to return home after college I’d be much more stable right now. Other race’s embrace having their children come home and save. They have whole down payments for home ownership saved instead of paying rent to the other race. Black parents are the main one’s encouraging kids to get their own after 18. I could’ve saved and avoided debt. I’m now working my ass off to repay student loans and bad financial choices. I will allow my daughter to stay home as long as she needs as long as she is working towards a goal.

[@MeThatGirl01]

Like Haitians does ❤

[@HoldTight_]

I feel the same way! I told my three as long as they are doing something constructive (college, trade school, working) they can stay as long as they need to.

[@yagirlshon]

Amen

[@mizzjcj88]

I definitely need an update on how things are going with them since the show!!!

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Here’s your update everything is going fine with me and my son we are still a dynamic duo. Me and my wife are working on our marriage

[@lilmamayk773]

​@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlThat is awesome to hear. Stay blessed mom

[@raindrops4284]

He's only 21. My son is 21 and he on and off with jobs but he's trying and working towards being stable he did graduate highschool. Im still working on my child transitioning into a man. Either work on being a family unit or separate.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Thank you so much for your input. We are working on being better towards each other

[@elizabethprouddolllover641]

This is that moment when everyone can breed, but it don't mean they are parents

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Whew Chile you tried it!!!

[@cmj1434]

His mother is very beautiful I pray they can rekindle their relationship and move forward ❤

[@cherililly6378]

They both really leaching off her .. I understand her when she says she tired

[@shaunawilkerson5119]

She's tired off of the choices she made.... She chose to lay down and have a baby at 17 and she chose to marry someone after 1 week.... Omg where is the accountability

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I’m not tired of my child are you okay do y’all see a child he’s an adult

[@cherililly6378]

@@shaunawilkerson5119 you right didn’t think of it like that

[@TraciTalent]

⁠@@ThailaDavis-lm8nlyou kept saying you were tired though. He’s a product of his environment. He’s a reflection of You. So when you make comments like he’s not missing a meal, and you tired of being his mom, that’s toxic parenting. And it shows your character. Especially on the World Wide Web. People going to comment and you trying to defend yourself. I’m saying this out of love, be accountable. Show your son no matter what age, what taking accountability looks like? Both of you look like y’all need some maturity, and need to learn healthy communication. My prayers to both of you.

[@vita_v4981]

She say he clearly doesn't miss a meal😂 girl you could stand to lose a few pounds also, you clearly aint miss a meal either

[@ericawilson7567]

I love how Karamo just sits back and let the guest go at it, then he comes in with a clear, concise analysis that’s always spot on.

[@patienceisavirtue]

She is disgusting. I had my kid as a teen and I have never ever thought I was giving my life to my kid. It was an honor and a pleasure to raise her. It was my actions why my kid was born so automatically like any parent no matter the age it’s our responsibility to raise them. Ugh! I hate unaccountability in humans.

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

She wasn't complaining about raising him! She's allowed to have a life though bc he's now grown. That's the problem HE'S having! Yeah the wife is problematic also but as u can see, she's also tired of her!

[@bremass851]

​@latrelleberrian1979 The way the mother was saying I had you at 17 it sounded as if she was complaining about having him at 17.

[@Ani-hq3qh]

I LOST it when she said that lady was in jail for 3 days 😂😂 like how was that stopping you from getting a job before

[@yprimrose]

21 year olds today are not ready to live on their own. I totally understand having your own space because I moved out at 19, but that was decades ago. You have to be mature emotionally, understand sacrifice, budgeting, and working a job even when you don't want to because you have bills to pay. To many young adult, shut even older adults, are use to someone bailing them out when a financial crisis comes. That's why colleges are offering adulting classes. Those classes teach things that adults didn't learn before leaving home. Things like budgeting, setting up accounts like lights/gas/insurance, types of accounts saving/checking, even still meals, etc.

[@RosalynnAnne]

The kids definitely determine if you’re a bad parent or not. Different kids have different needs.

[@keeshamcmillon4282]

No they don’t every situation is different

[@RosalynnAnne]

@@keeshamcmillon4282 the child most definitely does. You can think you’re doing what you need to do but the specific child determines how good of a parent you are. I’m not here to debate anything. We’ll just have to disagree.

[@Madamzae]

Even though him and his mom have differences. I do love that the mother takes up for her son when it came to checking her partner. Family can have differences but never let an outsider disrespect ur blood.

[@mmapinkall]

She's a whole round bouncy ball, talking about her son's never missed a meal😂

[@mandyjose8003]

Personally I think the mum and the wife should divorce cause it seems very toxic

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

We are doing great

[@juliatrapp5733]

If the son stay out there business they probably be just fine

[@baddabing-badaboom]

​@juliatrapp5733 unemployed, where your wife has two busted knees and driving amazon delivery? No, she needs to go regardless of Malcom.

[@platt690]

I think the problem with our parents is they raise us with the notion that raising us is doing a favor, bringing us into the world is doing us a favor... a favor that we have to return by accepting and thanking them for every good AND bad thing they do to us... Same as when you start working, all of your money "HAS" to go to them because you're paying them back for being a parent... I'm struggling right now at 30, having to "take care" of my parents because they "took care" of me. And with everyday i question when will my life start... i didnt ask to be born... so i have to pay black tax because they did me a favor by giving birth to me. I don't have kids yet and I'm terrified of becoming the parent my child/ children need to heal from. This woman didn't give up her life for him... and that's where she's got it wrong.

[@lql1094]

This woman DOES talk like raising a child she had the choice NOT TO MAKE, means that child owes her something. She really needs to get off the imaginary pedestal she puts herself on for doing the job she created for herself.

[@enhvisualz5808]

This needed a part 2. But on the other note, I don’t think his mom is a bad person. I genuinely believe that momma bear is exhausted and the son needs to be more independent to lighten his moms load.

[@teramccorvey1989]

How is she exhausted, grandma did her job for her..

[@enhvisualz5808]

@@teramccorvey1989 and it’s exhausting taking care of a grown man even if it’s your son. I’m not excusing the mom’s absence but you can tell she’s tired.

[@teramccorvey1989]

@@enhvisualz5808 she shouldn’t be talking about his weight neither because ain’t nothin skinny about her..I think when he moves out he ain’t gonna talk to her at all..She takes no accountability like her wife says..You can’t talk about you child being gay and you the same way

[@kiimlove]

she still didn't have any right to tell her son that she threw her life away for him, isn't that what ur supposed to do? parents want to be praised for the bare minimum and its hilarious to me

[@jasonolafami4528]

​@@enhvisualz5808his grandma raised him tho

[@doranazareth5434]

In all fairness to his mom, she meant quite the opposite of what the majority would interpret her words. She's only saying that he is well fed and doesn't appear to be starving. She's also well fed. However, she wasn't talking about herself. People are too trivial in this world. Mom and son have some wrinkles to iron out but will make it. Show me a family in this world that doesn't have or face a little ups and downs.

[@loretoquintiliano1499]

Karamo want him to move out, then write him a check.

[@teest.v3054]

My life started once I had my sun ! I love every day and moment with him

[@cmfocusproductions2147]

Mama was hard as can be, then the SOFTEST toned apology ever.

[@kianakettenring5742]

I hate when parents say that “there is no handbook for how to be a parent” when there are so many books, guides, videos, courses lol etc

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

Please go away! Can't no book tell u how to raise your kid! Every child is different!

[@ashleelewis2183]

And they're usually written by people with no kids. No book can teach you how to be a parent. It's a learning experience

[@denfolo5224]

​​@@ashleelewis2183Practice and simulations are still better than nothing. But people like to play the martyr.

[@realmnthrwknives]

Yeah nah everybody need to leave the mom alone tbh. They all have issues but it seems like everyone is relying on her -her house, her job, her money. She needs to dump the wife and the son needs to move out and act like an adult. Then mom needs to work on herself.

[@Teagansaqui]

um anit thats what your mama supposed to do? and have you seen the economy to be moving out. girl you have lost it

[@realmnthrwknives]

@@Teagansaqui thats what your mama supposed to do when you're a CHILD. He's 21! Not in school either so he needs to work on getting a good job and move out when he can. Roommates exist for a reason. That's not a crazy ask at all like you're not making sense. If he can't move out then he helps out, period! Pay some bills, pay for groceries, SOMETHING.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I appreciate you so much, I will never ask my son to move out but he does need to respect me and my house and if I’m doing something in my house he doesn’t like as an adult than he can leave. Thank you so much though

[@realmnthrwknives]

@@ThailaDavis-lm8nl You got this! I really believe that yall can work through this and have a great relationship

[@HottieCamille1]

I agree with the wife and it’s clear the mom is playing both sides and victim 😒and the wife’s face at the end tells me she’s done with the both of them 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@user-jc1ct1bi9m]

Bottom line she is the mother stop blaming everyone else!! Stop making your son feel uncomfortable! You aren't 17 anymore. Motherhood is for LIfe!!

[@juustally]

I had my baby at 18 and I TAKE CARE OF HIM, girl you never grew up!!!

[@nesiacoffin8775]

I think she was honest about her feelings and moms should be able to. It doesn’t feel good and it’s hard to hear as a child but it’s true .

[@kay22100]

You got pregnant and blaming HIM?? You knew at 17 that opening your legs could possibly result in pregnancy. And how was your life ruined if grandma raised him? 🤔 My mom had me at 14 and was a great parent. Some hiccups but did not give me any trauma and I never doubted her love for me.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

You missed what I was saying I clearly said I gave him my life already now let me have the rest of it from 17 years old I never put me first and I’m doing that now still considering him though

[@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t]

I LOOOOOOVE that this mom is in the comments, giving us the business lololol

[@fuller8705]

And she still wrong!

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

​@@fuller8705She's not though! Even Karamo couldn't call her wrong!

[@ashleyj7011]

​@@fuller8705definitely 💯💯💯

[@terry4161]

The son and the wife both need to get a job. They are depending on the mom. So she tired of both of them.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

My son definitely works but he doesn’t take care of the household I do he has one bill now my wife on the other she definitely do

[@gboii08]

The mother takes no accountability, and she's so selfish. I cannot believe she blamed him for getting pregnant at the age of 17.

[@tiawitcher9461]

my mom had 3 kids before she was 21 and still did what she had to do. even though she was a single parent with no one to help her except my aunt (god rest her soul) and had 2 more in her 30’s still did her thing so there’s no excuse.

[@poeticlovee]

This isn’t the flex you think it is.

[@zoe-mv6ji]

@@poeticloveeso bitter

[@cher.cvhfairrycemelchor7813]

I may be different from the rest but I will never stop being a mom no matter how old my kids get the fact that I pushed them out it just makes it impossible to look at them and have to choose between them and someone else my spouse can't make me choose we have to coexist

[@msladycmo]

The way she told him to calm his tone and he just trying to express himself! I can see where the argument starts. She's still trying to control him as an adult. He needs to move out cause his mother will not let him grow if he continues to live under her roof

[@greatlakezgirl649]

At 11:46 I have this urge to give Mama a hug. I feel she is really hurting. And yes her son need to get his own place. There is alot of pain here and healing needs to start 😢

[@home4life505]

She'll reduce the hurt by getting rid od a jobless souse that disrespects hee kid.

[@tghamilton1079]

The reality is that things are way more expensive now. Its hard for young people to move out. If that's what is needed and wanted, get a plan together with tasks and dates. No need to holler snd scream. It is her house. There need to be ground rules that they agree to and he sticks to. Nothing makes you move out faster than paying rent where you don't call the shots. Make him pay a bill or chip in on the rent. If you buy him a gift, make it a household one, like dishes. 😊

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

Amen!😂

[@yujairapineda3656]

The disrespect!! “Im tired of being ur mom” the fucken disrespect!!

[@Padel78]

She is honest

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

I would always be his parent as I said I was saying I never missed a beat being your mother but at 21 I should be able to live a little now since I’ve done this my whole life

[@kormasamaloe]

Malcolm checking the list is really getting me lmaooooo. he said "check, check, check, check"

[@questionresearch8721]

The mother is clearly in the comments responding to us all.

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

Yes I am, I wasn’t going to do this but I am appalled at how I am being attacked by people. I opened up my toxic family drama to this show for help not to be criticized and trolled

[@t.c.5456]

She is calling him fat?!?!? 😂😂😂😂 heyyyy POT meet KETTLE😂😂😂😂 - the nerve

[@malikjw1]

Karamo's 👀 as the 🍵 spills!...#Classic 😂

[@lunacy3]

Growing up with an emotionally immature mother is sooo draining and I hope they get over those hurdles

[@PositivitySpeaks101]

I see what she was trying to say! Because I feel the same way my kids are from 31-18 and the other day I was on the phone with a man and my son pushed through my door acting like I’m cheating on him.. he is 24 and he is the only one lives at home with me.. damn he need to leave and get his life and let me live mine.. after I divorced I didn’t bring men around my kids so they never seen me with anyone but there father

[@ThailaDavis-lm8nl]

When I said I gave him my life I meant I took care of you already now it’s my turn to live

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

And the fact that people are acting like this isn't a real thing is crazy!! It happens A LOT!

[@dpeachy6790]

His mom is right! Idk why everyone coming for her she seems sweet he’s 21 he needs to grow up! Even if she said she was a bad mom she took accountability she was 17 years old. They love each other A lot mom & son duo ❤️