Mom of 3. Has been preserving herself for husband. Make $50K and an extra $20K for each child he has

[@yungreem88]

Ma’am. Your husband is in your house EVERYDAY

[@kimishamadison4005]

😂😂😂😂

[@kbd261]

Yup!

[@gingerandspice1209]

I think he is married. That's what she didn't want to say.

[@MalevolentElephant]

Awaiting a husband after giving three kids to men you weren’t married to?

[@1lw2088]

Yes. Who are you to say she isn’t deserving of marriage. Who wants to be alone? You don’t have to marry her fine but your judgement is wrong you must be perfect

[@tmakjus]

Excellent point Kendra! He had 2 kids with her and adopted her son but wasnt worthy of marriage.

[@ChillWill12]

Fckn WILD!!!!

[@tjleland2670]

You can't make this shit up😂😂

[@jay4341]

Imagine that this is why they say the step daddy role is all liability

[@chealseamills7167]

Everyone has copied each others homework, when listing these flaws it’s the same things repeated 😂

[@shaylabrown6038]

And they all failed the test. That's why you don't copy boneheads

[@dondattaford5593]

Flaws don't sound good to MBW they usually think they are flawless you know the competition

[@lynne4948]

Every episode 😂😂! If I hear too nice and giving one mo time 😂😂😤

[@Celebeauti21]

So y’all went through the process of him adopting your child but no marriage? 😕

[@a.b5625]

Sounds odd indeed

[@ogi197]

Something is off with this one...she's pretty..tho...except for that Cow Ring..

[@sassygal7523]

I doubt there was a legal adoption through the courts and more like a hood adoption 😂

[@JDMHaze]

@@sassygal7523same lol

[@corasbloom]

He can't.

[@lediamond]

Girl: I’ve been preserving myself for him Kendra : what do you mean you have three kids? 😂

[@1lw2088]

That was unnecessary. Especially coming from a woman who’s eggs are expired at 45

[@nmmboy]

Lmao Well I’m trying to preserve my sanity while watching these videos, but it’s a constant struggle 😂🥴😮‍💨

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

She’s pretty but she seems like the type to use beauty as a weapon

[@BackCountryWolf]

Lol

[@elizabethclarke4981]

Chile 18 yr old messing with 30 yr old men due to foster care trauma 😮 oof hope she's getting therapy and also how these people are good mom and dad but not marriage material? Oof my head hurt 😂

[@nmmboy]

@@SylisDaGoldenPeachYeah no question. Beauty is the worst weapon, because it runs out real quick. The dude she’s looking for could find another her without the 3 kids and avoid the stress lol 😂

[@nmmboy]

⁠@@elizabethclarke4981 Lol right? A whole mess! She definitely has a lot of crap going on, and no sane person will hit her up 😂

[@cooblur]

Why not marry the man who adopted your kid...AND BTW you had children with!?!

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

Cuz they don’t want her

[@RahYisrael99]

That's the best turn on. A responsible man who is a good dad especially to your child that isn't biologically his. These women get on my nerve and I'm heterosexual.

[@TyroneLangam]

Preserve what? That's like dropping a pickle on the floor and putting it back in the jar, talm bout "fresh pickles lightly used" 😂 Maam please!

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

She better go sit down with that BS

[@Missperfectdiva92]

give me your phone 💀💀💀

[@spaceghost2473]

like cleaning out a used condom from the day before and putting it back on the next day, talbout it's clean. BW logic 🤣

[@prettykitty5416]

Acording to the bibl you can become a born again virgin so the slate has been wiped clean y’all 🤣💀😭.

[@Lilfacebignose]

​@prettykitty5416 I need chapter and verse for that nonsense statement.

[@itsstilljoose]

37 with a septum???? Nah

[@chiefofdc]

I am always surprised at women who have multiple children by multiple men. Then, I require the next man to have qualities and high standard. Mam you have already given you most precious gift to a man you did not require marriage from

[@gayleedwards318]

That part

[@j.daniels1548]

They would not be out here, screwing like alley cats, and having all of these children by random men if they actually valued themselves 😢

[@SunRiseEast365]

So women are not allowed to learn from their mistakes and choose better? 🤔

[@TheCharcoalTherapist]

​@@SunRiseEast365Having a child shouldn't be a "mistake". Choose your partner wisely and marry before you carry. It's as simple as that 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@chiefofdc]

@shamarbrown8274 You pay the ultimate price for not being a good Stewart of the ultimate gift. This gift of child birth

[@DexKnowz]

How do you have 2 kids with someone who doesn't share your values?

[@radonspace2098]

By sleeping with the enemy.

[@ShutterSpeedGaming]

@@radonspace2098😂😂😂

[@brianal7143]

I feel for anyone who grew up in foster care. It sounds very traumatic and I can see how an 18 year old with no real guidance can be taken advantage of.

[@JAYWIL01]

She had her first child at 16.

[@brianal7143]

@@JAYWIL01She was in foster care. No real guidance there.

[@JAYWIL01]

@@brianal7143 That's a convenient excuse. OK.

[@jessyj1545]

@@JAYWIL01It’s a fact, 0 guidance at 16 can easily mess anyone up.

[@brianal7143]

@@JAYWIL01 💁🏾‍♀️I'm not on here to defend her, I just expressed empathy towards her early life circumstances. Everything isn't black and white.

[@a.b5625]

😭😭 seeking a man as young as 29 while her eldest is 21!!!! Im going bed fook this lol

[@awarepenguin3376]

Prolly shout each other out in COD lobbies.

[@Lord_God__]

She looking for D

[@hurleywilson7246]

How do you preserve yourself with "3 kids" by 2 different Fathers??? Is this the version of a new 2023 virgin?

[@rvandoom]

2024

[@Letstalk17]

Some Women think a wife comes with 3 kids already?? Wooooo 😮‍💨 what we gone do guys ?

[@RahYisrael99]

Some men think they are husbands and aren't providing the basics for themselves. Let alone their three children that the baby mama "won't let them see."

[@ghariiscool]

@@RahYisrael99 kool...that's not what we're talking about here

[@Letstalk17]

@@ghariiscool was literally about to say that but you beat me too it . 😂

[@Armyvet55]

😂😂😂😂😂exactly 💯 👏

[@kevinlee9929]

@@RahYisrael99 And women have no problems telling them about themselves. Especially on here.

[@iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT]

Her best option is to go back to her Baby Daddy.

[@j.daniels1548]

They hate hearing that it pisses them off royally 😢

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

That's right on the money!

[@waltwash]

She left a man who adopted her kid by another man? She couldn’t answer with any logic why she left him.

[@alisalindsey8311]

How does a man adopt a kid that he has no marriage attachment to?

[@DavidMartin-pg1qz]

Exactly

[@DavidMartin-pg1qz]

​@@alisalindsey8311exactly

[@kapasedo]

Right smh I actually think her whole story is a lie

[@greglane501]

And if she could do that to him, what chance does any other man stand?

[@FelixTheCourierGuy]

Preserving yourself after 3 kids😂😂😴

[@ES92-]

It's like putting chewed up meat back in the freezer to preserve it for later. Maybe cuz its been thru a lot, it might taste better 💀

[@jb9911]

😂😂😂

[@awarepenguin3376]

I, too, buy wrecked cars for new car prices. Sign me up! 😂

[@belafonte5519]

Unapologetically problematic

[@TyroneLangam]

She played herself

[@jdolo4670]

"Mom of three has been preserving herself for a Husband"................Cant make this up

[@AliciaMitchell]

son being 21 and saying she'll date 29 is crazy to me...

[@thelessons3768]

Why? Do women get emotional about adults dating adults?

[@Simply_Mimiii]

Felt the same way

[@thelessons3768]

@@Simply_Mimiii What "feeling" does it invoke and why?

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

I agree and would never disrespect my son like that....

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

​@@thelessons3768It's disrespectful to the adult child because that is basically their peer.... Why would you want to date someone your child's age? That's weird

[@stephen74gc]

We don't have the same values. Which means, She ain't listening to him. Red Flag

[@blacksource2101]

She better work it out with her kid's father because that's the only man that's gonna take this woman with 3 kids seriously

[@kane99560]

she saving herself tho 🤣

[@annaleemullings352]

Shut the f**k up. Having kids is not a death sentence. If a woman should feel ashamed for having a child then your mom should feel ashamed of having you!!

[@lonyaeterrell2351]

Right and he adopted her son? That would do it for me!

[@London2ATL]

No let her sisters tell her, she can get herself a WM that would embrace all her kids.

[@shanasteele6894]

@@London2ATLI mean that could be a possibility and nothing wrong with it. She’s beautiful and has her s*** together. There are men who would accept her and her kids.

[@DemonLordMD]

So if a guy has 1 child she wants him to make 70K. So using her logic that means since she got 3 kids she should be making 110K.

[@ChillWill12]

🤦🏾‍♂️

[@peterlewis2881]

The only reason that a man needs to earn $20K extra per child is that he is saving for the child's college fund.

[@SweetEssie]

She probably is. She owns a home health agency, and she has other forms of income like investing in real estate. That takes a lot of capital. If she doesn't make that, something is wrong

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

If a guy has 1 child he needs to marry a woman with 1 child but again modern men don't like marriages.

[@a-mc]

@@loyalandkindsunshine3382exactly…..😂😂😂😂

[@freudianslip2192]

When will this bullring fashion trend end? It’s revolting to look at.

[@brianfreckles8542]

100%

[@elizabethclarke4981]

Ikr so ugly 😂 same with neck and chest tattoos

[@galeriejms4174]

Damn! Ppl can’t do what they want with THEIR body without judgmental comments!?

[@JAYWIL01]

30 plus you should have grown out of that trend. Men won’t have an issue with hitting and quitting it though.

[@galeriejms4174]

Y’all worried about the wrong things. Most notably what ppl should and should not be doing with their own bodies. Weirdos.

[@l.w3889]

She wanted him when she was down, but now she thinks she is up. He not good enough.

[@jim3565]

Wait Pookie can’t sag but you can be a 3x baby momma???

[@JDMHaze]

yea 😀

[@Jman109]

Mom of 3 “preserving herself” for her husband? Never been married and has two baby daddy’s. Ok 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@mhomesgroup]

She said AMBITIOUS-less-ness = lacking ambition 😂

[@AjaAPryor]

She clearly needed an education at 18

[@jaessoda]

Restlessness.

[@Jame6999]

She tried to sound smart but failed. Can't get over extra caricular cavities 😅

[@A-Thomas]

@@sammajor2075🤣🤣🤣 you’re a fool

[@A-Thomas]

@@Jame6999Yet most of the women in the comments are calling her smart…SMH

[@kane99560]

women really dont think much of men. its the only rationale for some of this non-sense they verbalize.🙄

[@simeonhibbert7462]

Giant Red Flag, Her Looks and Her average body do not make up for having 3 kids and a lack of respect for the Man She chose and the Trauma She will put a Man threw. She wants more than what's She is worth🤔

[@NightRidah777]

I've stopped trying to make any sense of this madness. Just enjoying the shitshow.

[@Jame6999]

😅😅😅 that's the best option. Grab the popcorn 🍿 and some 🍷 and watch the chaos unfold

[@jay-t1030]

Same here 🍿🤣

[@aponteaida913]

Well said! Getting a headache trying to understand her!

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

Been a mom her whole life. Proud of her for working so hard. ❤ she should still unpack that childhood with a therapist I’m sure it was a lot for someone. Very pretty girl. I hope she finds someone.

[@majorenlightenment2291]

Not her brokenness.... only another fatherless child can come out of this situation.... and then he'll be labeled as a deadbeat as well.

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

We have to do better (as a community )when it comes to family planning

[@christophercatchings162]

All you can do is control your actions and try to offer guidance to young people, but the finger wagging does nothing for anyone

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

Y'all still calling this a community it's tainted.

[@bruceleroy838]

You have to be doing something to do better . BW are doing anything except laying down

[@bruceleroy838]

You have to remember 80% of BW don’t come from intact families. So planning is out of the question

[@bruceleroy838]

We have war zones not communities

[@raylemar2386]

The ex is in her life everyday. No way am I dealing with that.

[@AndyinMTL]

hell no

[@KWin-ik5cl]

He adopted your child and y’all didn’t marry? Why would a man adopt HER child and they not be married. Gave a man two (3) kids and he’s on top of his dad game and all of a sudden y’all don’t have the same values? I need her to stop runnin he hands thru the weave and make this make sense.

[@ogi197]

I'm telling yall...something is off with this one...

[@sassygal7523]

I doubt it was a legal adoption and more like a hood adoption.

[@SweetEssie]

​@@sassygal7523I was thinking maybe it was so he can claim the oldest on taxes

[@JaysRandomnessChannel]

Man I'm moving to Cambodia...they done lost they GATDAMN minds over here 🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂😂

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

Safe travels 😂

[@tyragotbanks5042]

Did Webster’s change the definition of preserve?

[@Chief_KP]

Hell naw😂!!!

[@WordsMatter1982]

Words don't have concrete definitions in the Black woman-verse.

[@Lord_God__]

Maybe just the new trendy lie

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

She's preserving herself while Pookie slips in at 3 in the morning. Gotcha..😮

[@Armyvet55]

😂😂😂😂right

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

@@Armyvet55 😀

[@HumesDeliveryService]

The guy that “adopted” the non biological child and got you pregnant 2x, he comes over every day but he doesn’t have the same values as you…however you are expecting another guy to come into this and deal with your 3 kids and their dad. No man at any income level will marry you under those conditions.

[@Magnolia3720Slim]

If she's a wife, I'm Optimus Prime. "Autobots! Roll out!" 😂😂😂

[@tpoppy9303]

Besides the obvious because all dudes nowadays gonna say her having kids, what else makes her not marriage material?? Im starting to think mad undercover brothers be on here.

[@JDMHaze]

@@tpoppy9303 It’s not the women having kids it’s the origin behind how the kids came… principle matters ….A woman with two kids by her husband that his widow is not looked at the same as a woman with 2kids/2 baby daddies

[@Firecracker876]

Lmfao shut up 😂😂😂😂😂

[@echotango4911]

@@tpoppy9303so men are gay because they don’t want to date a woman with a bunch of kids by different men?

[@edwardthomas7561]

@@tpoppy9303 first sign she’s not a wife. Having kids out of wedlock. We already know she wasn’t raised to be because of her situation and childhood trauma. Most modern women can relate to her. Then y’all assume you’re the prize.

[@ivyunnanelson]

Preserving but has 3 children 😂😂😂😂

[@yawahanbansharyahawadah1180]

Once you see a Septum ring in they nose RUUUNNN🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@_dj_dubz_]

props to her for thriving as a foster kid though

[@j.daniels1548]

If you consider having multiple children by multiple men out of wedlock, then I guess she is thriving

[@brownmamba6538]

Plenty of foster kids who don't end up having multiple kids out of wedlock

[@daniella8400]

@@j.daniels1548a 30 year old man dating an 18 year old should have made her a wife

[@_dj_dubz_]

@@j.daniels1548 she could have ended up a prostitute or dead or in jail have some fkn compassion she grew up alone and is functioning adult who had no support

[@_dj_dubz_]

@@brownmamba6538 a lot of people in and out of jails are from foster homes you should read about it

[@Donmecca415]

I had to re read the title over & over. So it’s a guy RIGHT IN THE HOUSE! And she’s on here thinking she’s gonna find another ready to take his place. Lady, go in that other room with that man & take him out on a date. That’s the best you going to get.

[@mainplaya]

What a wonderfully presenting lady. I wish her the best of success in finding a great life partner / husband

[@ErixClose]

2 baby daddies & looking for # 3. Sad world.

[@samueldixie26]

"We don't have the same values"......meanwhile i'll give this man, who doesn't have the same values i want, 2 children and let him adopt a third, so he can pass his values, that i dont share, onto my children.....

[@iamBlackTech95]

I think I just found her page. If I'm not mistaken her son was playing Beethoven effortless. It's quite impressive.

[@saraliburd7752]

The word is effortlessly

[@iamBlackTech95]

@@saraliburd7752 you can eat a 🍆 effortlessly. Did I use that in a sentence properly?

[@myseville1976]

and you point is what?

[@CTExcursion]

Sounds like she’s trying to do a course correction. It’s never too late for that.

[@a-mc]

Huh

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“We do not have the same values”, yet both valued having children and living together without being married. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@gemeaux2000]

💯💯.. She really lost me with that BS excuse

[@tpoppy9303]

like the MAJORITY of the black community

[@dekev7503]

@@Mocha_Dimples she had her 2 younger kids with the man much later in life. That “ l was young and naive “ excuse doesn’t hold water.

[@SweetEssie]

I feel like that was code to "his values didn't include being a family man and sticking around for the kids" or maybe his values were that he's a cheater

[@gemeaux2000]

@@Mocha_Dimples If we are talking about the first Baby-Daddy, then your point is valid....... HOWEVER, what about the second Baby-Daddy? She way was older enough to stay in a 9 year relationship, making babies without requiring marriage; and now she is expecting a SUCKER to come in and play STEPDADDY? She better takes her delusional a$$ back to the second BD( the same amazing guy who "adopted" her older child)

[@Chief_KP]

3 out of 5 RED FLAGS 🚩 🚩🚩. The nose ring and these stupid “make $50k with no kids” crap… what about character, morals, values! And she not telling the truth about the last time she was intimate with someone. Ladies NOSE RINGS and EXCESSIVE TATTOOS are not cute!!

[@thelilbignateshowtoo2824]

Wives dont have door knocker septum piercings for Christs sake!

[@iceman_2360]

Lets get one thing clear. There's no such thing as a born again virgin.

[@tmakjus]

Ofcourse her standards are higher for the new guy then the man she gave 2 children to. Makes alot of sense

[@myseville1976]

LOL LOL

[@thebenevolentpatriarch424]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tmakjus]

@@thebenevolentpatriarch424 its reality honey, men are not rescuing low value women from their mistakes. Get over it

[@Powerdriver777]

Omg she grew up in foster care. I feel so bad for these kids. They are usually treated badly by foster parents and have all types of insecurities and trauma.

[@freudianslip2192]

They are usually treated well. You only hear about when they are treated poorly.

[@Powerdriver777]

@freudianslip2192 look at the stats on foster kids or orpans in the prison system

[@prettykitty5416]

@@freudianslip2192HUH? Iv had friends that grew up foster care and they were put through the wringer. Unspeakable things happen to those children. The foster and Cps system is a complete joke. Do some research.

[@thewinzerfam]

@@freudianslip2192don’t speak on foster kids and the system if u never experienced being shuffled from home to home not knowing where the fuck you are going to end up.

[@bruceleroy838]

Bullseye 🎯 I just said that.

[@djkidas]

Adopting about another man's kids is just plain silly. Now he's on the hook for child support and she dumped him. Guys, please start using some common sense.

[@blackingingerpurrin]

That man was a predator she was 18 and he was 30

[@IfUdntknwMebynow]

She didn't n don't want to submit. She's masculine

[@halftimehomes]

“He’s here every single day with the kids,” meanwhile she’s accepting step dummy applications

[@brianfreckles8542]

You know she's smashing him every now and then , screw the "we don't have the same values "

[@dlebb8322]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@longbeachmaumba7059]

"Step Dummy" 😂😂😂😂

[@halftimehomes]

I can hear the “You’re not my dad” already

[@RahYisrael99]

Yeah, no good man is going for that.

[@brandoncameron5494]

Hey pick me, pick me! I’d love to be a step dad to your 3 kids!! Sounds like a real hoot!

[@NightRidah777]

If you aren't gonna slide Pookie a 20 when he comes over then application denied!!

[@Lilfacebignose]

You gotta beat me to her first. I got my Superman simp cape out of the cleaners yesterday.

[@yeslia2010Godis]

@Draihall2 Ya'll are the meanest😅😅

[@lightel652]

​@Draihall2 you guys got my crackin up lol

[@mrakw7364]

Pray to the Ciara Goddess with the Ciara prayer for a russell wilson simp

[@lennylink8772]

I would love to spend every day with her baby daddy, his kids and her 😂😂😂😂

[@RahYisrael99]

Right, that's the part that's crazy to me. Dad would be taking the kids to his place. What potential husband would deal with that?

[@bellamonroe7322]

Exactly try the blended family thing 😂😂😂😂

[@Ndrreed]

You’re going to have to fight me for the honor of marrying this 3X baby momma. I want to be the dummy who gets to play paper/rock/scissors with her baby daddy every day to decide who gets to run the household. 😂😂😂

[@Issey_B_Devo]

Welcome to her “Concubine” where you shall spend the rest of your days laboring as her “Concu-Serve” how splendid 😂

[@_dj_dubz_]

one big happy family lol

[@AshleyyTolbert]

Kendras hair looks really nice 😍

[@rodirogue8187]

These Single mothers with several baby daddies are keeping Kendra in business. Kendra is just raking in money from her channel showcasing these women SMH

[@bboss7874]

He adopted the child and now he's the ex.🤦🏿‍♂️😂😂

[@JDMHaze]

jackpot !!! 😃

[@kbd261]

Damn! Ikr!

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Never date single moms

[@monifat2766]

He probably pay child support lol

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

*Name a product that gains value with age and use* - KS Im glad shes not throwing it around, thats smart, it isnt however all that valuable to a man looking for wife & mother

[@analyticalchick3064]

House

[@naika9101]

She’s beautiful and a survivor I hope she meets the man of her dreams ❤️🤞🏾

[@Pharmasuitical]

She already did. He adopted her kid, was good father and husband and she still left. Alot of women don't get 1 good man in a lifetime let alone multiple. Sad situation.

[@bruceleroy838]

And the woman of his nightmares

[@thelessons3768]

She did already. With your comment we see how women are easily finessed. All a woman has to do is tell a little bit of a sad story (we empathize) and women gush and immediately go to (simp)athy mode. And ignore all the other red flags only to "wish her the best." This is wild, female nature is a crazy beast.

[@nickysunshine8734]

My gut feeling…She’s NOT “heading out” , but just wanted to present herself well in case she was picked. I actually think it was a great thing to be prepared and looking your best for the show.

[@tmakjus]

DAMN! KENDRA ON POINT AGAIN! thank god we have an adult in the room

[@JackOBee29]

Flaws, she's late, impatient, gives little grace. Those are tough, because the man who marries her will have to be patient with her and give her grace. This show is wild.

[@Issey_B_Devo]

The pure absurdity never disappoints 😂

[@Fabrizio7171]

The only women i know who aren’t impatient are dead.

[@brandonlongdikjones8117]

​@@Issey_B_Devo🎉, 🏆 indeed.

[@Issey_B_Devo]

@@Fabrizio7171 Damn. 😂

[@lovette7684]

She is honest and self aware. I'm sure you'll find many who you realise are the same way after you get with them.

[@Kharris2368]

The guy was good enough to adopt her child. But not good enough to marry?

[@miannalee1616]

Where can I order this audacity ??? cuz y’all got it in BULK 😂😂😂

[@TheDiaryofDestaney]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kaykaye]

Her last statement exposed why she is single ....... basically what she is saying is, you have to "deserve" it for her to give to you 🤷🏾‍♂️ In my opinion, if your heart is PURE you will give regardless of "out comes" Real men AVOID women like this.......she will always get a Pookie or Ray Ray though 💯

[@ls3306]

Dam she said she hit reset on her 😹 i have heard it all.... She seems nice, but poor 😹 management....

[@jaywill1868]

All these businesses, no employees. But saying.

[@Iceberg_Mac]

She’s never been married 😂😂😂😂😂

[@luvoshun]

She’s beautiful and I appreciate that she came on looking presentable. Having a man adopt your kid and not require marriage is crazy. But when she explained her background it made sense.

[@sidehustlevikki1066]

I really like her as well but I think there may be more to the story. I would assume she pushed the second baby daddy to adopt her other child but did not push him to marry her. Most men aint just walking around ready to adopt your kid. She most likely was looking for a step dad and not a husband. So her priorities may be out of wack.

[@augustbaby8254]

Think she’ll have a better chance with an older gentleman with 3-5 kids by simply removing the bull ring and tone down on a few of the requirements.

[@luvoshun]

@@sidehustlevikki1066 True. But I blame the grown 30 year old man who took advantage of an 18 year old more than her. Of course her priorities were out of wack she was a kid in survival mode.

[@chaneza]

@@augustbaby8254 what requirement do you think she should tone down?

[@KingRahiem]

These Born Again Virgins kill me😂😂😂😂

[@kaheaisaac1]

Y? People can change

[@KingRahiem]

@@kaheaisaac1 majority of people don’t change, they just get better at their BS . Lil mama..

[@thebenevolentpatriarch424]

we outchea preserving fossils now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Gotinks]

4:50 ambition-less-ness is not a word.. I get it you are trying to be deep but just say. A person who lacks ambition. smh

[@freudianslip2192]

Additionally, why would a man with ambition want to saddle himself with a single mother of 3?

[@jnm-eh6qt]

I'll be the first to hold people accountable for their decisions, HOWEVER she likely latched on to the 30 year old guy as a means of survival.

[@j.daniels1548]

Having sex with men your children’s age is not about survival wtf 😂

[@shanasteele6894]

That was my perception and I don’t blame her for that. I could imagine I’d do the same if I were in her shoes.

[@Onlyfansera]

Word what a terrible man should have left her in the gutter where she belong

[@joehint]

So it's ok to use a man because of your bad circumstances. It's not, but at least you ladies admit it.

[@jnm-eh6qt]

@@joehint I didn't say it's ok. Just saying that's likely what happened.

[@siddaye]

For God sake take out your septum ring its awful and distracting

[@mongoslade6170]

Looks stupid.

[@iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT]

It looks great on cattle though.

[@simeonhibbert7462]

BW are crazy 🤣BW : I want the World BM : What do I get BW : You get to take of Me 🤣😂🤔

[@multitaskchef]

Red flag 1: the man adopted her oldest but did NOT marry?!? 🤔🤔🤔

[@johnnyBrwn]

Delusional woman: i preserved myself for him Kendra: how? You had 3 kids. Me: 😂😂😂😂

[@peterlewis2881]

These women will say anything that sounds good to themselves.

[@jonydory622]

That’s their new trick to force simps men into marriage. While pookie got that 🐱 for free😂

[@firefull8499]

You would think family was important to her since she didn't have one growing up. I preserved myself for the man who wants a woman with other men's kids. Delusional woman.

[@tjleland2670]

A wife don't have kids before marriage😂😂

[@RayRay-lv2gx]

At a certain age you gotta take the peircings out...

[@Rosemary46840]

Hell no she looks great with it she would look way too basic to without it

[@darnellrhodes6174]

Its not wise for traditional marriage minded men to marry non virgin/non traditional women!!

[@d.supreme8592]

It’s crazy how women develop requirements after they’ve pushed out 2 and 3 kids.

[@prid6427]

BlkWmn Logic!!🤷🏿‍♂️

[@learsterling]

Her calculations below. Buying my wife flowers because she saved from this circus🤣🤣 not married black at least 5' 9" tall not obese earning at least $50,000 per year According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 29 to 45 meets your standards is 0.55% that is 4.6% of all black men in that age range Stay with your baby daddy. You may not agree with his "values" but at least he values you and your children. The ratio of men who are going to stay for fun and not a long time is not in your favor.

[@GreyMann2]

Beautiful woman with a seemingly beautiful personality... even a beautiful voice. However, her reality might not line up with her expectations. Sidenote: How are single parents able and willing to just uproot and move for love, taking the children from their OTHER parent?

[@nolabae]

Glad someone brought this up because I too was wondering how that would work if the parent is involved. Usually it's a process and you have to pretty much "get permission" from the other parent.

[@GreyMann2]

@@nolabae I went through that. It's not healthy when a person can just take a kid from the other.

[@SweetEssie]

And even if the other parent is not in the child's life, why are they so willing to uproot the child for a man they've just met? Seems like they are acting like single childless women. I can imagine that this is not healthy for the child

[@GreyMann2]

@SweetEssie Imagine telling your kids, "You have to find new teammates, friends, classmates, etc. because I found a new love interest in a different state!"

[@PrettyPreciousG]

And Kendra should've asked her to elaborate on these values 4:19

[@RahYisrael99]

I agree. It couldn't be too much of a difference in values if she procreated with him and allowed him to adopt her first child. She also allows him to be in her home every day to be with the children. Seems like they should work it out.

[@HughCross1]

😂😂😂😂, I really think something is in the water these women drinking… What a preservation this is😂😂😂😂😂

[@JAYWIL01]

I’m a year younger than her with no kids. If she’s preserving, IDK what I’m doing 😂😂.

[@cedricdawon5332]

These Heaux be tripping on this show.

[@efrainrodriguez1324]

[1:18] A Taurus with a nose ring...like a bull 😅

[@jay-t1030]

Gentlemen pay attention to the septum ring….

[@mongoslade6170]

You cant miss it. Delusional as usual.

[@RahYisrael99]

You do know those come out right? It's just an adornment. She will probably remove it if her mate doesn't like it.

[@NightRidah777]

@@RahYisrael99 Wearing it in the first place is a bigger red flag

[@lisarainey80]

Why the dude that adopted the kid didn't marry you?? That's a huge responsibility more than marriage 🤔🤔🤔 I hope he is in all of their life. Most black women make excuses for marriage. I think we're so weird 😅

[@kingLeoJr]

THE ONLY MAN THAT GOING TO MARRIED HER IS A BABY DADDY.

[@WrightwayFT]

Second bady daddy got robbed 😂😂😂😂

[@JAYWIL01]

12 years older than her and still got played 😂😂

[@Dr.Elaine1]

Another woman choosing a man to be her children’s father but not her husband. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@aldinkalender9636]

That’s right Kendra lol preserve what

[@Epsilon514]

Girl I feel you...I have been preserving myself and been abstinence for 6 months...I am waiting for my forever person/lover/husband/best friend and partner to find me and my 7 kids and make us a family.

[@TyroneLangam]

You go girl! Get you a white man these black men don't be buying our lacefronts or pay for BBLs which is basic like 🤨 it's giving broke

[@FelixTheCourierGuy]

Give her some realistic feedback!!! She got 7 kids? Who wants to deal with that😅

[@TyroneLangam]

​@@FelixTheCourierGuyNah you don't get it we black men don't deserve her (shut up bro I'm tryna help you!!!) 😊

[@lloydwilson2653]

😅

[@mrakw7364]

​@TyroneLangam it will be only a simp of any race

[@lediamond]

If the qualifications of being a wife are self proclaimed; this sister will forever have a valid point.

[@CashHouse3342]

The person looking for a wife judges who's a wife, not the person who wants to be a wife

[@bruceleroy838]

Was raised in foster care so ask yourself how is she marriage material? She is a basket case

[@bruceleroy838]

Somebody should tell that to BW

[@bruceleroy838]

Remember this is the same group that calls themselves queens 😂😂