Block’s Ex-Wife Sets The Record Straight On Kandi Being A Sidechick & Knew He Was Married

[@therealmscee]

Unpopular opinion: Regardless of how you brought your kids in the world, they all deserve the same love,energy and time. It’s not their fault they were born.

[@thatdancertho8739]

This isn’t opinion as, “unpopular” as you think it is. 🙄

[@supernova2897]

Very Popular opinion....we all in agreement here.

[@lakeishadurrett6940]

Period

[@krissy-jw8kj]

Bottom line

[@lashondaclay6335]

Just making money off Kandi

[@victoriamiller7738]

Kandi never said she was wondering why block wasn't there for her. She said she didn't understand why block wasn't take care of his daughter. This woman is saying kandi was the side chick. Whether it's true or not, that doesn't justify him not taking care of his daughter.

[@humblekay5951]

exactly

[@loistenerattler5639]

Victoria Miller Kandi said that she wasn't worried about his money that's why she never pursued the child support. We all know that Kandi Burress is one of Atlantas rich and famous, she don't need his money. She only wanted him to acknowledge Riley and at least call her and act like he care. This ex wife and Block are both trying to make money off of Kandi's name. This woman said herself that she stayed with this man well after Riley was born, and now she have issues. Makes me wonder if the two of them is in on this together because she made him sound like a saint. I never heard Kandi mention this woman's name. Forget about the children, all they see is Kandi as a cash cow. I wonder when will Blocks new girlfriend try to cash in. I really feel bad for the other children being that Riley is already well established through her mom. Those other kids are depending on Kandi's money too if their mom and dad can get any.

[@victoriamiller7738]

Loistene Rattler I remember her saying that he's on child support but doesn't pay, he isn't even on the right amount because he lied about his income, and when he stopped paying she didn't pursue because she wasn't struggling to take care of Riley. I commend her for that because I would have pursued it even if I wasn't struggling just on the strength. You're right though. I honestly didn't even watch the whole thing because this chick sounds super stupid. As a woman, how can you defend a man that you know has a baby he's not taking care of? She admitted in the beginning that she doesn't know why he doesn't take care of Riley, which means she knows and acknowledges that he doesn't.

[@victoriamiller7738]

PRINCESS Davis who are you talking about? I never said anything about anybody being rich and famous though. If you mean kandi, that's something you have to ask her. But Kandi has written, produced as well as sang plenty of hit songs so she's definitely not broke. 🤔🤔

[@victoriamiller7738]

PRINCESS Davis ooo. That makes sense now. lol. Ok.

[@MentorShelly]

I don't care what type of relationship Kandi & Block had...it still doesn't excuse him not being a father to Riley.

[@MentorShelly]

@Protect Her Peace Exactly

[@wfsweinthere234]

Seee they would not want me.in that studio .....I would have said " what about your husband fucccckinggg beyond your backkkk .....forget kandi what about your husband fucking bitches besides kandi before meeting kandiii????" .....second question " if you got pregnant if you cheated on block would have you aborted the baby and not tell him since we talking hypothetical and the shoe on the other foot knowledge?"

[@jodeemapoe9032]

The TRUTH

[@shannonjones1573]

That right there he laid down with her made a baby step up..

[@turbulance2023]

People need to stop (Kandi) ..women know what kind of man they are dealing with... u know a baby daddy VS a real daddy.

[@brendashacks7407]

Block is dead wrong, doesn't matter if Kandi was a "side piece" HE IS THE FATHER!!

[@maggiemoore5800]

Yes indeed. A dead bea

[@mssan2016]

Nope stop having babies with married men. You will make your child a casualty of war. That was Kandi baby atp.

[@IamAngelaHodges]

He didn't want a baby with her, you can't force women to get abortions therefore u can't force men to play daddy for a child he didn't want.

[@PIPpalaceFX]

@@mssan2016 married men stop cheating

[@PIPpalaceFX]

@@IamAngelaHodges therefore kandi should have pressed charges for not pay child support and therefore he can go to jail and nobody should definitely have nothing to say

[@robinclements-massey4713]

Ex-wife is bitter! Block was in a relationship with Block. Riley was not the result of a one night stand! Kandi was not pressed and moved on.

[@dickersonr6172]

Blocked move on too with another wife and more children he take care of

[@sexytrinny52]

Excalty

[@msgoodbrown]

Why wouldn’t she be bitter? How would anyone feel if their husband had a child on them then the side chick used her platform to speak on your family?

[@mssan2016]

@@msgoodbrown Exactly!

[@tamikaherring3008]

@@msgoodbrown Thank you!!

[@floridagirl5207]

She seems more upset with Kandi then the man she took vows with.

[@ThisisKalaTV]

Agree!

[@PennCreatives215]

Amen

[@latonyawoods1575]

I think she was mad with them both and she is entitled to feel that way.

[@PJ-po7fu]

Stephanie Foster exactly what I was thinking..and now she got a book out???? WT actual F?

[@Deb.-on9ep]

You can tell the other women by their comments, LOL!!!

[@danbro490]

"Girl you knew "... LMAO girl you knew your husband wasn't shit.

[@bfly1]

Kandi did know he was married thats while they was fuckin it was never at his house that should be a red flag if you can not go to a mans house that your fuckin

[@SuckerPunch92]

And she’s blaming Kandi for all of it smh

[@shanikajackson481]

@@bfly1 lol they only dated a few months and she did break up with him when she found out about him still dealing with his ex but unfortunately she was already pregnant and chose her child and did an amazing job at raising her

[@Facebook-sb3eo]

All men cheat not just her Ex-husband, Kandi made her bed hard for having an relationship with a married man kids alway suffers from there parents sins .

[@sharenee7428]

@@Facebook-sb3eo that’s this woman’s side of the story. From what Kandi said initially he lied then he admitted he had a woman, she admitted that she still messed with him after finding out because she had feelings for him but that he did lie ( like most cheaters do) in the beginning. Regardless of what Kandi owed this woman NOTHING. It’s Brock who owed her!

[@zillahlindsay1827]

whether she was a side chick it doesn't take away the fact that he should take care of his child.

[@ResilientBeauty22]

I agree! I never read or heard Kandy saying she wanted a relationship with Block. I do remember her saying that she wanted Block to take care of a child that he helped create. Don't check the MISTRESS, ALWAYS CHECK YOUR MAN! He knew he was married and he chose to betray the wedding vowels he took. She is now the EX-WIFE and Riley is 14- years old, Kandy is a millionaire and the ex-wife looks and sounds like she is looking for a check!

[@kimsue9035]

Angel sweet and married men need to stop chasing tail!!!!!

[@kimsue9035]

Angel sweet it takes two too tango and yes women should not get with married men but what if the man lies and says he's single??? Who's fault is it then?????!?!

[@anitaneal1779]

How long are you going to cry and complain over another woman’s husband?

[@anitaneal1779]

@@kimsue9035 What if he doesn’t lie? Whose fault is it then?

[@shantelwest8968]

i dont care who you are but you cant expect a wife with kids to accept and be cool with an outside baby. She's right you must check your facts before you open your legs

[@chinacaldwell7388]

Well did her husband

[@PATS1LAW]

Of course you will be mad at your husband but as a human at the end of the day it's not the baby fault I would hate him worse if he didn't have any concern for the child he had

[@MSCOKIE27]

Agree!!

[@JUSSSSTBREATH]

Totally agree

[@loudandclear3308]

Her husband shouldn't have been fucking other woman.

[@MsJoyce-mq9mv]

Again, what does Kandi being a side chick have to do with HIM taking care of his daughter? Please, dont everyone speak at one time 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@turbulance2023]

Why would u think that someone that doesn't give a shyt about their marriage would give a shyt about a side chick/child?

[@lethalong6868]

@@turbulance2023 exactly that's what I want to know cuz my thing is I did not know Candy was a side chick when she started messing with block like for real for real I did not know he had to ask wife at the time but my thing is if he going to step up being a father he going to step up being a father he's not being a man it just crazy because the side chick was candy was going through problems with her baby father but the wife should know that by now because she knew that her ex-husband got a side chick it just don't make no sense to me it is so awkward to me argue over one man come on now man just so weird

[@ericadowell4383]

@@lethalong6868 wtf wrong with y'all. Block KNEW he was married to. There's all types of ways to PREVENT a child. Once you make a baby how dumb is it to say, your a side chick baby but blocks blood is running through her veins. If the wife took him back after Riley was born then they should of excepted that girl as his child. This world is so f##ked up to think a man should get a free ride for being a Hoe

[@asiahenry7798]

Ms. Joyce you know these types of guys only value the children they have with women they like. Then they triangulate women against each other to distract from the fact that they’re degenerates

[@fnr513]

They forgetting about Riley's feelings in this whole situation

[@bosslady2266]

Nikki R AMEN

[@deeliciousgrapes]

They don't care

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

They so Selfish

[@girlpower3733]

Kandy is the selfish one.... She never took anybody into consideration

[@niaedmonds3342]

@@simonegreene50 Uh, she was a side chick and has a sex dungeon. She deserves the blame.

[@brandiva8901]

Everyone is more concerned with proving their point...I wonder if they've considered how this affects Riley.

[@birdielee8175]

I am concerned with the then wife of Block, because she had to have been hurt. She did not ask for this.

[@katherinelockett174]

Brandiva yeah it's definitely sad because Riley didn't ask to be conceived in this manner. I just don't get why a mom would want this shown on national TV. Riley has to face her peers and kids can be brutal. There's no way I would have allowed this type of portrayal of my devious past to be aired.

[@KG0737]

Brandiva that's something ole fat leg, back stabbing, messy boots Kandi should have done

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Brandiva the ones that should have been concerned should of been the adults and how their actions would affect this innocent little girl.

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Katherine Lockett brilliantly stated!!! Isn’t it funny how Kandi’s mother trashed Todd and his mother when he wanted to marry Kandi but she obviously didn’t have a problem with her being involved with a married man with kids!!! It’s sad because you can see Reilly’s uncomfortableness when she appears in scenes. It wasn’t more evident than this season when Kandi is on the phone with Block and he’s telling Kandi he’s a father AGAINNNNN and Kandi tells poor Reilly while they’re filming!!! This child knows they’re filming and only she knows her pain of not having her father around and now he has another baby which must make her feel that now he’s not going to make having a relationship with her as important as being with the new baby!! Look how she broke down crying inside the house!! 💔 Kandi is just as bad as Block!! It’s about them!!! She acts like he wasn’t around and she had to live in the projects and be on public assistance to provide for her daughter! Admit that maybe he gave you bs and you believed him. It’s happened to a lot of women. Then teach her that, thankfully by working hard as a singer she was able to provide and give her a good upbringing. Because she was a strong woman. But don’t embarrass this child and don’t embarrass this little girl to say who her mother is. This little girl it’s obvious that she was raised surrounded by protective family members and staff. Not saying that she wasn’t loved because it’s evident. But I’ve always seen her act as if she is told what she shouldn’t do. It’s like she’s always on pins and needles. So sad!! You can tell she isn’t or doesn’t want to be a part of it. Not like Teresa’s daughter Milania (too funny!) who use to want the attention and now has no filter and checks Teresa when Teresa is trying to make the viewers believe what’s not the real deal and Milania calls her out!! It’s great!! Reilly just wants to be a average child and find herself. That’s all 💗😞💔👩🏾👸🏾💃🏾🧚🏿‍♀️💫🥇💎👑🙏🏼

[@pebbles70forsure98]

I don't care that Kandi was suppose to be the sidekick. The point is that HE IS A FATHER AND HE WAS NOT ACTIVE IS HIS CHILD'S LIFE. PERIOD. POINT. BLANK!!!!!

[@reavleeful]

@Angel sweet amen. A whole black family was torn about due to inappropriate adults and of course children are always affected.

[@wfsweinthere234]

Seee they would not want me.in that studio .....I would have said " what about your husband fucccckinggg beyond your backkkk .....forget kandi what about your husband fucking bitches besides kandi before meeting kandiii????" .....second question " if you got pregnant if you cheated on block would have you aborted the baby and not tell him since we talking hypothetical and the shoe on the other foot knowledge?"

[@lethalong6868]

@Angel sweet that's the reason why they both got divorced because candy become a side chick I did not know about this after all those years but it just so crazy to me like for real for real

[@gwenfennell7133]

I been watching Atlanta housewives from day one and Kandi never said shit about her...she only said how Block never wanted Reilly

[@ASprinkleofAnime]

And Kandi should take responsibility for that. As a mistress she should have known his wife and family would have come first

[@donna7049]

@@ASprinkleofAnime they didn’t come first when he cheated on them

[@abbyem6380]

Sis, Block knew he was married so he shouldn't have been with any women. Your issue should have been with your husband. You had a WHOLE HUSBAND yet..... ok then🙄

[@rosemaryrogers1478]

True that all day long

[@sweetesttaboo3171]

FACTS✅

[@lilliealbert3548]

Take care of your kid. Block knew HE was married when he had sex with Kandi!

[@nikkityler5802]

Lillie Albert Kandi has so much hate in her heart we all know she slept Jermaine Dupri

[@atlantaproinvestors3844]

This lady has every right to be angry at Kandi for dragging her into this situation, after the fact!! If it had been years then why did she feel the need to bring this lady into the picture. She should have kept it (like the lady said) with her Block and Reilly. Instead, she wanted to save face and say that she didn't know Block was married. So that, she would look bad as a public figure. Everyone has skeletons in the closet and the past is the past. She should have told the truth from the beginning and took whatever feedback she was going to get and own up to her mistakes. Instead, she lied. Therefore, this lady has every right to tell her truth as well. Her marriage was ruined because of this.... I'm sure she probably is over it, but at the same time she has the right to set the record straight. Especially, if someone else is going to lie. I feel like Kandi did know! I also feel like it's in the past and now that it's all said and done, go ahead and squash it!! Block needs to take care of his child(ren) and be a better man going forward. #girlyouknew

[@Neneham1966]

Why do women have babies by married men? I've never understood that and now Kandi wants to portray a different story.

[@londalonda9529]

+Nikki Tyler and his dad

[@sabrinarichardson1582]

Neneham1966 why do married men have children by single women???.This will continue to go on till women hold their husbands accountable for their actions

[@newsworthy2082]

Can we say thirsty? Block was cheating before Kandi, and after Kandi. Kandi took responsibility she raised her child she has not taken a dime from him.

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Because she didn’t need it. That’s why she didn’t care about her daughter knowing her father. Because for Kandi her money would make up for his place in her daughter’s life. DISGUSTING

[@aquillajones889]

Kandi didn't raise shit momma Joyce Rais Riley

[@Gorgeousvixen1]

@@aquillajones889 period! But people swear she mother of the year. Like no, mama Joyce did that.

[@traceylennon1204]

@@aquillajones889 She's the same now with Ace and Blaze always on the run instead of being with her children!!

[@blacksfirst6935]

Facts

[@kella_lovelylife9931]

what her being a side chick have to do with him being a father

[@monaleon7184]

kella_ lovely life thank u I was wondering the same exact thing

[@Misspersepshen]

kella_ lovely life exactly so because he step outside of his marriage and created a child he doesn't need be a father? She needs to get the hell outta here with this tired old ass story. Yea Kandi played a part and Im not saying that she is right in the situation but at the end of the day. Riley is affected everybody in the situation needs to own up!

[@rosedalepark78]

Side babies blame momma

[@ericanicole7106]

I will never understand what type of woman stays with a man that produces children and does not take care of them. The children have nothing to do with his cheating. He turned his back on his blood, he isn’t going to value you. So this dude is a cheater and a deadbeat. I wouldn’t be claiming him 😊

[@Keke-td8gn]

AMEN!

[@aaleyah5380]

I said the same thing in my comment. Kandi may have indeed been the “sidechick”, but he’s also a cheater. But she didn’t talk about that, not to mention. He’s married to someone else now💅🏾🙄😂

[@SuckerPunch92]

Same

[@Facebook-sb3eo]

They divorce because of his cheating Kandi wasn't the first homewrecker but she was the first too have a baby by married man .

[@Facebook-sb3eo]

@@aaleyah5380 He married too someone else now because the first wife left with there 5 kids because of him having an baby 👶 in the marriage Kandi daughter Reilly

[@amthomas1542]

If a man can make time to cheat he can take care of and find time for the kid.

[@tytyfromtexas9066]

Girl bye!!!!! Kandi taking care of her child that's all dat matter

[@toytoy3900]

Hell Kandi was and always has been taken care of Riley and mama Joyce if you really want to know the truth, so she’s always made it up monetarily for mama Joyce

[@toytoy3900]

@Pudding Pie How bout a FULL time- Broke Mom, how bout that, you damn if you do and damn if you don’t. Kandi made up for whatever deficiencies she didn’t provide and believe me Mama Joyce was compensated very well. Kandi provides financially for everyone and bought Mama Joyce a whole damn house, so bottom line is she handled her business best she could, being that she’s in the entertainment industry, ppl talk as if she worked at a factory and just went off with her man and didn’t come home to take care of Riley, when everyone knows that is not the case, Kandi’s net worth is $50 mill, so whatever she was lacking she made up for a 1000 fold.

[@cwdplus]

And doing a good job doing it

[@toytoy3900]

@@cwdplus Exactly 💖

[@lethalong6868]

@@toytoy3900 the reason why that was a n***** was not there for her graduation none of that because he not being a father but her mom actually both take care of Riley after all those years but at the same time you deal with a dead being deal with a deadbeat like for real for real it just so awkward to me because a grown man should never lay down with a grown woman had kids you don't understand if he not take care of responsibility of a father he should have put on the condom he should have wrapped it up s*** it really doesn't matter to me because he's not being fair to any other females female should never deal with that issue because every time they want to argue about one man that has slept with and then they always going back and forth back and forth about he said she said come on now man get a grip they got nothing else better to do but talking trash about each other they need to argue about him because he created that mess but I'm glad to ask Wi-Fi for divorce because she wasted all these years dealing with a poor excuse of a man going around laying down and had another baby in another baby come on now man what the heck is that about

[@reneeg8857]

She added nothing. Him being married has nothing to do with having a child and not supporting.

[@lovejones6457]

Terri Renee Thank you! My point exactly

[@birdielee8175]

yes it does especially if the man didn't really want that type of relationship. Women do Not have to settle for other women's husband. There is nothing right coming out something that you do wrong. That is not logical.

[@reneeg8857]

When you decide to lay up unprotected, you deal with what happens next. He shouldve made sure he was 100% protected. Furthermore, his b*tch ass was married and couldve given his wife a disease with all the women he had. I have no respect for a cheater, especially when married!Kandi couldve taken him to court but didnt. So again, he's an ass for multiple reasons.

[@birdielee8175]

Terri Renee He did not just up one day become an a---hole. She should have been aware of that. Then again, she knew he was married and you get what you get from dealing with another women's husband.

[@Violets_R_Blue]

she did take him to court, that's why they were talking about the back child support a couple of shows ago. also, same way men should be more careful and wear protection SO SHOULD WOMEN!!! otherwise you get this dysfunction!

[@ivory21275]

everybody want their 15 minutes of fame

[@angelc5435]

mesha mesh that's all it is. Why now? Kandi been saying he's a deadbeat for how long? Chile a blind man can see she is trying to capitalize off this. A book and t-shirts? Really?

[@special907]

Is Kandi not capitalizing off it as well. This is Kandi storyline this season. If Kandi did not bring up Brock this lady will not be interviewing or have a platform to tell her side of the story.

[@MariahBraxton1]

mesha mesh *Literally everybody!!*

[@hazelcrawford9237]

MsMeshaboo I agree no story line with out Block.

[@latonyahayes-boyd9133]

Bye Felecia. Girl and yes i said girl...... please

[@netth9168]

Block said one of his daughters lived with Kandi for 2 years, seems like they should thank her for taking care of their child

[@yvonnecummings7591]

Or paid Kandi child support for that daughter!

[@kamariatoure42]

Kandi is a damn fool

[@kenyawalls2255]

@@kamariatoure42 that’s her decision.

[@liquelique20]

How can YOU as a “wife” be okay with YOUR husband stepping out on you and then NOT hold him accountable to taking care of HIS child??? Lets talk about that 😒

[@ZsaZsaRodeo]

YEA SHE SEEMS KINDA SLOW

[@debragoff3232]

she excusing his behavior by calling kandi a sidechick so sad

[@susiebrown6646]

Debra Goff that's exactly what she's doing. Goofy a--

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Debra Goff you’re right, if it wasn’t Kandi it would be someone else. But she was a side chick

[@glamnp5456]

The word on the street was that Kandi knew and just didn't care. If she did, then they are both wrong and more of the blame falls on him BC he was married!

[@Change2be1]

Kandi acts like she is so innocent but she is shady and lowdown.

[@PiNkzThiNkz]

Kandi don't act like anything what are you even talking about The show is about this man building a relationship with his daughter all this extra shit is just not needed

[@xzcmvs]

The show threw Block in the mix. How all of a sudden we hear about this deadbeat dad after several seasons? Riley is not a baby anymore, but a beautiful young lady. So are we talking about 6 year old Riley, or 14 year old Riley? I'm confused by the way she refers to Riley as "the baby". I wouldn't let my child go over nobody's house that refers to her as a second class citizen.

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

Birdie Lee Shes really nasty like nasty. Lol.

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

cherryblossom 625 she was and still is reckless and acts without thought. She always seems so unaware. She is very very slow in certain areas

[@irocemrockett1118]

Meanwhile Mama Joyce over in Phaedra's business 😂😂😂

[@maryelaine8985]

Mommyjoyce always n someone else business..

[@dlfields8429]

Joyce needs to take several seats

[@bateso1000]

🤣🤣

[@Baltimoresfinest-81]

And now Phaedra single single 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@missrenie]

Ex wife says Kandi called her. Kandi said as soon as she found out she reached out…. So the story is the same she didn’t know his lying ass was married and when the “people were telling her” that must have been when she found out and called her. Why she so mad? That energy needs to be directed to her ex husband.

[@jacquelinerivera7956]

She knew about Kandi. But just like most men they don’t say that they are married. Kandi is not thinking about her or block

[@phinebrowngirl5467]

Bless her heart, NEXT!! And why did Block cheat with Kandi and others?? U can tell she is still HURT by this and that's understandable, but your pain was caused by Block, the person who made vows to you, not the side chicks. Kandi is doing just fine!!!

[@darnitahampton3341]

Phinebrowngirl she is not hurt. she over it. Kandi is hurt

[@phinebrowngirl5467]

+darnita hampton- no, u are hurt with that ugly name!!

[@victoriamiller7738]

darnita hampton kandi is hurt by what? If she's hurt by anything, it's the fact that he doesn't take care of his child.

[@darnitahampton3341]

ya mammy gt a ugly name. Lmao.. you big mad ain't ya.

[@darnitahampton3341]

Phinebrowngirl lmao ya mammy name ugly. girl cause that's wat u are.

[@shirleysidney2528]

ladies, Block was the problem. period. you talking to the media and not thinking about the child whom is a teenager now and will either see this or hear about it. BAD MOVE.

[@r.peterson1779]

Shirley Sidney sometimes I miss Atlanta. then I see this mess. why is this on the radio? why is this woman selling t-shirts? this topic should not have been covered in the public. poor kids.

[@missfaithbutterfly4501]

@Shirley: HOES WHO CAN'T GET THEIR OWN RING is the problem too, period

[@staceya.2995]

the irony ....GIRL YOU KNEW TOO LOL!!!

[@awtumwhittaker795]

Factsss💯💯💯😩

[@mashondaknight9132]

Blocks ex wife needs to move on, Candie is married to someone else get a life she is trying to get attention.

[@MAMUSHI_HOTTIE]

mashonda Knight this is kandi storyline

[@anitaneal1779]

She can speak her truth. She’s the injured party!

[@anitaneal1779]

@@faisamohamud9239 That’s your 3rd party home wrecking perspective! Kandi IS free to keep it moving so she can take her kid and go very easily and never look back not even 20 years later! Bye Felicia happy lifelong voyage no hard feelings! Bye bye

[@anitaneal1779]

@@faisamohamud9239 Take all of that negative energy and go! No love loss! Bye!

[@anitaneal1779]

@@faisamohamud9239 The only one hurt is Reilly in this scenario or anyone who is an outside child. They tend to ignore their dubious origins. It’s definitely not the ex wife’s fault for not accepting the bull. Block said good bye to Kandi and wanted his wife and your blaming the wife? As a woman I would not accept her child in my home. If Block had a problem with it then he can go be with them and I’d keep it moving. If he is worth keeping then I’d keep him. That’s her choice. Screw anyone else’s dum opinion.

[@turbulance2023]

You get what u get when you mess with someone elses spouse. Unfortunately children get caught in the actions of their parents actions.

[@ocky88]

I don't think she understands the words she is using. "I didn't think I would be implemented into this situation"? Implemented??? "She discredited my marriage"? How? If anyone discredited her marriage it was her husband. The one who swore vows with her and then made an outside child.

[@ocky88]

And why did her lackey have to step in and direct people to her t-shirts? She doesn't know her own website? She strikes me as very dumb.

[@sashajames197]

And now the ex is trying to make some coins off this situation. Tacky, tacky tacky. And her man stepped outside of his marriage. He lied to Kandi like most men do.. Men who are separated are not divorced but they have no problem sleeping around. Khandi could give 2cents about this woman. She dont want him.. Lawd just looking for an opportunity to get her name out there with Tshirts.zzzzzz lmbo. so sad.

[@brenbeauty]

Toni Morse very true

[@JessicaBeee]

Not taking sides at all but I will NEVER take up for a mistress. Kandi is happily married and this chick has moved on with her life. She has every right to take up for herself. Like she said, you have to be accountable for your actions.

[@sashafierce9340]

Jessica B My point exactly! The side chicks are out in full force on this thread.

[@maryburroughs-gray8468]

yesss i noticed the side chicks are strong on this thread..... At some point the side chicks will HAVE TO REFLECT on what they have done. Your transgressions always come back and sometimes it comes back to you 3-fold. Side chicks live in the moment because some think its fun or its what life is all about...at the end of the day you only hurt yourself when that man doesn't hang out with you or stay overnight.

[@katherinelockett174]

Jessica B thank you! Kandi hasn't spoken on Block and that situation because she knew it was WRONG, WRONG and WRONG! This is storyline material. How she sleeps at night...I don't know. How do you allow this to be aired on national TV? She doesn't get mom of the year. NOPE!

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Mary Burroughs-Gray yup!!! But worst of all when they have a daughter and sadly has to pay for her mother’s disgusting and selfish actions!

[@MsBbabee]

Everybody trying get they're 15 minutes of fame off this man being a dead beat dad!!!! Smdh

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Ms B. babee true but Kandi should of never made it a storyline and embarrass her daughter.

[@byrdie539]

Quote: “she should have checked her facts before she came after my man”

[@wandabellamy6120]

What's gets me is the wife or ex wife is always mad with the girlfriend or side chick..when you should be taken things out on the husband or fiance..when he's the one that owes you the "Loyalty"

[@chinajohnson9805]

Kandi said she stopped messing with him & then found out she was pregnant shortly after she cut ties with him so one would assume she didn't know he was married but when she found out she cut ties with him and then found out she was pregnant I don't think kandi was the only woman he cheated on her with back in them days celebrities acted single for an image so it's possible that kandi didn't know if ya man acting single and nobody other than his people are aware of you then yeah it's possible that he could be living a double life and that's his fault not the woman he was lying too

[@sassygreen5024]

She knew he was married EVERYBODY DID

[@lajuanmc4415]

@@sassygreen5024 Everybody? I didn't know so your statement is not accurate boo boo Do you personally know Kandi to say she knew he was married when she was dealing with him? Did you hear Kandi say she knew?

[@gicee7242]

All of them know one another and know each other’s business, candy was wrong!!!! Unless he raped candy, how did candy know who to call?????

[@sandythompson2973]

@@sassygreen5024 One thing we know for sure is that HE KNEW HE WAS MARRIED!! He's the only one that took an oath!! Kandi was single and could mingle with anyone who wanted to mingle with her! She's not obligated to be CIA. He's obligated to his wife. But I guess she wasn't relevant to him and their kids

[@nickiversusonika8063]

@@sandythompson2973 And, that's the price you pay as a WOMAN being "single and ready to mingle" with any and everyone. Now, because of her piss poor decision making, she is raising a fatherless child. That is completely absurd and disgusting for a woman to be out there "mingling" with whomever just because they are "single". Then, you wonder where the diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and drama comes from. Get some class and investigate who you are dating. Her lack of knowledge and lacking the effort to take her time to get to know him caused her daughter to grow up without the father she needed. Of course, Block knew he was married, and SO DID KANDI! Her being "single" doesn't excuse her from being trifling by sleeping with another woman's husband. No wonder a lot of men have zero respect for women. A lot of women don't respect themselves. Kandi is just at fault as Block.

[@lakishawilson4590]

Regardless of him having a wife or not has nothing to do with him taking care of a child he help make . Come on now.

[@erickar9744]

Lakisha Wilson my thoughts exactly!! All this other mess means nothing.

[@anitaneal1779]

It’s sad that you don’t know right from wrong and understand consequences!

[@anitaneal1779]

@@erickar9744 The side chic means nothing and neither does her child in 90 percent of these situations. Very rare that the married couple will stick around!

[@joileprincess]

She made an excellent point that people should accept that all actions have consequences and should accept responsibility. Their marriage dissolved in part due to his infidelity and Kandi's daughter missed out on opportunities to build a relationship with her father. It happens when you are ok with being with a man who is with someone else. Its not a fairytale where everyone just gets along even if its in the best interest of the child. It is usually messy and hurtful. Both of them, Block and Kandi, played a role in this and the children pay the price.

[@sexytrinny52]

Girl Bye. Yall always holding the other women to the fire when you should be holding that so called man you a husband. Men lie like the 🐕 that they are. Furthermore, I guarantee you Kandie was the only female he was creeping with while they were married. She's and Block are both 🗑and garbage

[@WickerJustinAlex]

Facts

[@kenyawalls2255]

Well he should still pay. Fine don’t be around, pay for that child

[@Deb.-on9ep]

Key Montana, get your coins girl. I fully understand what you're saying here. I don't understand why it is always on the wife. Like Key said, why didn't you get your facts straight before you opened your legs. Also, Kandi has portrayed that situation as if it was a real relationship, especially when she talked about Porsha coming after her. And I'm glad Sheree brought it up in front of Porsha. Anyway, I hope this woman gets paid because she was minding her own business and they brought her up. Like she said, it's reality TV for Kandi, but real life for her and her family! Been there, had girlfriends go through the same thing, seen women like Kandi try to make it seem like it was more than what it was, done that whole scene and I see the wife's side of the story. Kandi has no standing! The only victims are Riley and that man's family!!! And the side chick always swear they didn't know about the family. This man was well know so I don't see how Kandi can say she didn't know, especially when she called the man's wife!

[@MekoWilliamsTV]

Deborah jjo Exactly

[@victoriamiller7738]

Deborah jjo I know women who have admitted to knowing so naw. The side chick doesn't Always know. and the ex wife even said that she got a call from Kandi asking who she was. So neither of them knew about each other until Kandi was already pregnant. She found the wife's number and called her. Women who know they're the side chick don't usually do that because they're cool with being the side chick.

[@Deb.-on9ep]

You're right. Sometimes we don't know. I believe that's why we need to move slowly and get all the information before we give in to that man. The signs are surely there, but we will miss them if we move too fast.

[@MekoWilliamsTV]

Deborah jjo Exactly

[@nishawilson2333]

I like Kandi but in this situation I personally know what the wife went through.. Sad Riley had to suffer from this but Kandi is at fault too not just block

[@jilltheprivateinvestigator3328]

Hey, I have to give this lady credit. She said, "at first, I wasn't with it." It may not have been the right thing, as she admitted, but it's what happened. I have nothing but utter respect for her honesty. Block does need to take care of his child, regardless. She is being lost in the shuffle.

[@evelindblad1187]

She’s definitely being honest . You have grow when your man effs up. She and/or Riley are just collateral damage. Block and Kandi made them so.

[@mrwill1779]

This is so stupid if Kandi Burruss wasn't famous this wouldn't even be a topic

[@mspinkytee]

This lady is exaggerating what Khandi said. She did not say he was not there for her as in a relationship, She said he was not there for his child. He had the sex and unprotected sex at that. So it is his responsibility to take care of and stay in contact with his child. This woman is putting her life out there on blast for an ex husband. She wants attention.

[@justmyopiniontv9567]

Cant stand women who solely blame other women instead of placing the blame on both party. Kandi didnt have sex by herself plus nobody knows what he told her about any previous entanglements. When it comes to the child it doesnt matter if he was married or not....he has a financial and emotion responsibility to each life he helps to create. This man is selfish, childish and disrespectful. This woman is pathetic!

[@yolandasanders185]

why she gotta be pathetic tho? clearly she said she wasn't putting all the blame on kandi or did you not hear that part? like her shirt say she knew quit lying trying to say she didn't!

[@sashafierce9340]

Yolanda Sanders exactly. I sense a lot of side chicks on this thread. I mean people are seriously bashing this woman. Hell, she can speak on anything she experienced in her MARRIAGE. If she wants to make money off this SO! Hell, Khandi talking about it on the show so it's fair game. We wouldn't even be talking about this if the players didn't put it out there.

[@humblekay5951]

exactly

[@ngzouklove]

justmyopinion TV can you imagine tho

[@ThatgirlPoison]

oh so they all want to make money off of Kandi daughter Riley..how disgusting

[@anitaneal1779]

They are millionaires too.

[@londonsfinest-bx8gv]

Talking about kandi for a handful of loose change while kandi is sitting on 50 million dollars and growing..... she ain't worried about this bitter betty 🙄

[@thachosyn1556]

She don't have 50mil

[@Isabela1trwin]

I really appreciate women like her she is a great example of a wife that had been cheated on the way she kept things short and simple.. I have been there and wished that I had that type of tact…. “Girl you knew”

[@n.b.0212]

This happens everyday, people married and creeping. However, why are they bringing up old shit.

[@djbipolar3641]

The wife make me believe she's been single every since.

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

N B because Kandi is using it as a storyline at her poor daughter’s emotional expense

[@toytoy3900]

Cause she wanna promote her unknown T-Shirt line

[@ASprinkleofAnime]

Because she can

[@ashe4158]

@@ASprinkleofAnime you sound bitter AF in this comment section. I guess you know first hand about cheating husbands who lie to single women and claim that they're single when they're not? Happens ALL THE TIME. It's not Kandi's fault if he lied to her about it...which it seems that he probably did.

[@lynnchaney5912]

now look at all these folks trying to come up with kandi

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

lynn chaney Gotta get it while the gettings good.

[@trendygirl3489]

lynn chaney not classy at all. The shirts and the book...What about the children.? This is embarrassing to them. Her whole handling of this is "ratchet". She did not need to say anything. Everything need not be defended.

[@trendygirl3489]

lynn chaney sometimes it's best to keep people guessing and wondering. Learn to be the quiet storm. It's a much better look the majority of the time.

[@nikkiw3734]

Trendygirl 34 Yes indeed 💯

[@Deb.-on9ep]

I'm buying a t shirt to support the wife. Can't wait to get one!

[@lonzemapugh5473]

this bih trying to promote her book and T-shirts. okay.

[@Alexgrl99]

I commend Kandi for not fighting for child support. I feel like that shows his poor character even more! This woman isn’t even asking you for money (because she probably makes more than you) and you still can’t even make time for you child. Just shameful.

[@savitaram3975]

Didn't he also know that he was married?

[@hsnt1951]

I don't get the impression that she is angry. She hasn't once displayed feelings of anger. She is speaking her truth as she experienced it. There are two sides, sometimes three sides to every story. We shouldn't take Kandi's side as truth because she is the public figure.

[@psupport.hotaach]

That's right black women going around tearing each other down around a black man who is not responsible to his wife or to his children. Sad WAKE UP WOMEN GROW UP. you are not married anymore and when you were she is not the problem YOUR HUSBAND IS. Sad

[@mysticalstylings2456]

She sounds bitter and not over it, I'll bet she made it gard for his kids to see him

[@jfrommer6130]

Did anyone else see right through the money hungry broad ?

[@detricefields8796]

J FROMMER like Candy was the only child...... bring them other hoes to the docket....her story line tired and delayed!🤔

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

J FROMMER which one? The ex wife or Kandi involving her daughter on tv for her agenda? She didn’t have to put her daughter on tv with a personal sensitive issue for her daughter. She behaved like Block, it’s all about attacking the other! Neither cared what it’s doing to their daughter. Kandi acts like her money is what her daughter needs! She doesn’t want money or occasional time with her father. Kandi and him have no clue!!! 💔

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Detrice Fields 🤭🤭🤭🤭 don’t stop there!! I didn’t know about that!! Isn’t her father a minister? Or am I confusing him with Phaedra’s father? Spill the tea please

[@thelavishlairds2895]

I just hate when irrelevant people want to be relevant!

[@TheNumbaOneMiss]

i never understood why women have an attitude with the "side chick" when YOUR HUSBAND is the one who stepped out on you. he was the one sneaking around and lying to you about where he is and what he's doing. obviously he didn't love you or care about his marriage if he cheated on you. whether she knew or not doesn't matter. HE IS THE ONE MARRIED TO YOU. kandi owes you nothing.

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

She doesn't Sounds angry 🤷‼️

[@prhippie9878]

Both the side chick (kandi) and husband (block) were wrong and should both be punished.

[@TheNumbaOneMiss]

@@prhippie9878punished is a strong word...but anyway, the husband is the one wrong. I feel sorry for any woman who is desperate enough to want a man who is married but she is not the one who committed to you, your man did.

[@treeceluv]

Not the tshirt promo that didn't go anywhere lmao 🤣.

[@delorbb2298]

Nothing should keep a man from seeing his child. End of. I don't care if she were a sidechick or wife. He should have been there. The baby is innocent of their parents drama.

[@anitaneal1779]

Why do you think that there are no consequences to at risk behavior. Single motherhood is a consequence of having non marital sex. You can’t be careless and blame everyone else!

[@delorbb2298]

@@anitaneal1779 I don't think you wanted to respond to me here.

[@anitaneal1779]

@@delorbb2298 Yes I did! You’re comment on this subject ignores a lot of common sense reasons why a person could find themselves in this situation. You can’t be naive enough to believe that exercising poor judgement does not yield devastating consequences.

[@delorbb2298]

@@anitaneal1779 Boo you're acting like I posted this yesterday. It's been FOUR years. So calm down. Jesus. Give me a few to rewatch this video.

[@delorbb2298]

@@anitaneal1779 I don't give a crap about the situation they found themselves. Once you become an adult you own up to your mistakes. You don't take a piss just because things don't work out as you liked. THEN you bring a child into the mix, well that child needs her father. If the side-chick doesn't want you around, tough. The child comes first. I'm sick of people bowing out when we all know how important having two parents are. It should be a hell or high water type deal to keep him away.

[@2chisquared]

Kandi should write a book entitled , girl you knew yo husband was a liar and a cheater. 😂

[@ameliahorn1]

Girl........... WHO KNEW?? Is what I'm saying? Seriously I feel bad for Riley though

[@cyoohoos]

Amelia Horn Riley is the ONLY one I feel just awful for

[@Uniquelocs]

Am I missing something? All Of these comments are saying she is excusing the man’s behavior. I didn’t get that from her response. She said he should be taking care of the child and she also mentioned that she tried to have Riley over but Kandi was very controlling. What she did say is that he had 4 other children and wife which took up his time. All the comments about why does her being a side chick matter , it matters in the value that man places on you and any kids he has with you. The ex wife also said when she found out she left him or planned to leave him. The problem is ladies we have to stop giving men who don’t deserve to be fathers children because they were who they were before you spread your legs.

[@deidrafrazier278]

Just a little heads up to the young ladies out here. There is no 'so called' love or 'd' that is worth sharing company with strangers (other or another woman/women). When confronted with a man's inability to be faithful, make a choice for yourself. Conversation over. His problem is not your issue. Will it be tough? Yes. But entertaining foolishness is harder. It boils down to choices. His, hers, and yours. Don't invest in mess. When a beloved abandons that understanding, that's a cue to exit. End of story. Be single and sane with your personal identity in tact. Conversations or triangulations with parties who chose treachery are beneath you. Don't participate. Why and how do women participate in their own strangulation when we give life? If a man can't or doesn't honor that, what is their value? Choose your relationships. If someone tries to take that from you - oust 'em! The children that come as a result? Their worth is beyond the drama, but if you didn't create the child - it's none of your business. Don't let a man take your quality of life experience from you. Archaic slavery and male domination is OVER. Women need to stop giving their time, pink, and energy to an undisciplined man's urge to f*** and move on! They'll trick you into believing their worth is beyond their mind/choices/actions but the truth is, if they can't control their urges - they have no worth to your personal identity or family, other than pain and confusion. We're goddesses out here. They are not gods/creators if they''re not a benevolent or consciously 'present/responsible' being. They're just a problem to be rid of. The pain that these grown ups created for Riley is disgusting. Don't let that be your child.

[@DeterminedButterfly]

I don't ever remember Khandi saying she wanted him to be around for her or even speaking about their marriage. It's possible that Block didn't tell Khandi initially about being married.

[@DeterminedButterfly]

I am so tired of these scorned women holding the wrong person accountable. There would have never been a Rialy or Khandi had Block never opened the door.

[@DeterminedButterfly]

Now this woman going to capitalize on this situation too. Block was the man he was before Khandi came on the scene...meaning this woman was going through some shit with Block before Khandi. Khandi ain't the home wrecker...Block is. Yeah Khandi played a part but only after the door was opened by him.

[@DeterminedButterfly]

Yes, cheating is wrong but people need to wake the fuck up and start taking responsibility for there actions or there lack of....

[@DeterminedButterfly]

meaning the main chick that stays with the man i.e. husband or boyfriend that cheats repeatedly I don't and won't feel sorry for

[@DeterminedButterfly]

because she continues to enable and condone the mans behavior which in turn diminishes her self worth thus creating a woman who becomes bitter, scorned, and for example looks hard in the face like this chick who you can tell clearly hasn't resolved her issues ( she says Khandi is the reason they aren't together) no Block and all his bullshit is the reason they aren't together.

[@deandrashelby2458]

Girl please you know dang well that you are waiting for "that call" to be on any show!!!

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

She might just get there 🤷‼️

[@jerahmiahmcgowan]

REGARDLESS IF SHE WAS A SIDE CHICK OR NOT. HE SHOULD STILL BE ABLE TO DO HIS FATHERLY DUTIES AND TAKE CARE OF HIS RESPONSIBILITIES

[@danahugee2921]

She's still Upset( it's all in her body language)!! You can tell she isn't over the situation.... Put more Blame on your husband rather than Kandi

[@24leahs]

Do you know how many men LIE about being married??!?? Also, whats the point in coming out about this yearsssss later and what does it have to do with having a dead beat father?!? Kandi didn't say anything negative or about the wife.

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

XXxx BBss true but she also didn’t say what the whole backstory was either. Regardless she should of never put it on the show and she should of thought how it would affect her daughter most of all.

[@thelmathomas3437]

Whores that get involved with married men get what they deserve and if they have children by a married man expect for that child to be fatherless or not to have a full time father, dumb hoes

[@ihavetospeakwhatsonmymind792]

@@giovannagiovanna3349 why wouldn’t she put it on the show when it’s part of her life. She can speak on a man she slept with, her loyalty isn’t to this women. This man had a whole family yet still made the conscious decision to nut inside another women….. you women like to get cheated on and blame the other women… I bet she nice Block lol don’t say shit to him lmfao

[@trendygirl3489]

If she was a "side chick", it still does not excuse him from taking responsibility for HIS child. No excuses! He has moral, parental, and legal obligations to Riley.

[@ItsChristalsWorld]

Did you see how fast the girl jumped up to plug the t-shirt.😂😂😂

[@katherineblount1739]

I hate that Riley and her siblings are having to deal with their parents actions. I do applaud the ex Mrs. Block for her truth and now trying to give game about choices we make. Block is the creator of all this and his children are having to deal with him not conducting him self like a real man.

[@llw53one]

Kandi don’t want nothing to do with this lady. Kandi did not “come for her”, smh

[@tanyaschenckts]

so now she wants to be relevant that been 25 years ago Let It Go you done had your 15 minutes

[@angelicaevans163]

tanya schenck kandi brought her up she's defending herself

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

tanya schenck Reilly is only 16 years old

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Melanin Glaze Kandi should be doing this in private out of respect for the most innocent person involved, her daughter!

[@LinguistAmbie]

I like how calm this lady is. And good for her leaving that cheating husband😎 and she is right... There are always consequences for your actions. Female's should close their legs to married men and married men should stop sleeping around on their wife. geesh.

[@tarah4034]

Ambie Gonzalez TV ....married men should definitely stop sleeping with other women!!!

[@eyeswideshut2800]

Tara H and like she said, hoes need to stay in their lane

[@chantaleulysse4718]

Ambie Gonzalez TV they don’t care and they are trying to the victim

[@jacquettaprice8690]

She knew he was no good, she’s just as much to blame as well

[@hotep2you]

Actually - a single person free will to ...as you say, do what they want- does NOT, and will never absolve them of their choices when they willfully engage in immoral, or otherwise foul behavior such as knowingly, and wilfully engaging in adulterous affairs. Ever stopped for a moment to consider that IF, all the free to do anything they want single folks made the conscious and JUST decision to NOT bed, or be bedded by married folks- married folks tryin' to live foul- would have NO ...or at least fewer options by way of cheating? Cheaters...male and female do so, and have been able to do so with such ease, because there are so many with askewed moral compasses willing and eagerly available to participate in said affairs? Also be thee eversomindful of two things: ONE the Commandments to not covet another's spouse, AND shall not commit adultery are not exclusive to those who are actually married, but also those who engage knowing their sex partner is married. TWO- How can ANYONE who is single and YET, is a willing participant in the tainting of another's marriage EVER expect that the same will not happen to them, should they ever marry? There is a plethora of unmarried penises and vaginas to conqure that ARE NOT attached to married individuals. Folks who get down like that ...single, married, or other- can make excuses all they want. But FACTS are FACTS- with this FACT being, ALL those who partake in adulterous affairs - are dead ass wrong. Believe that! Lol ;)

[@ThatgirlPoison]

please with that bulls..she took responsibility by raising her child and did not worry about you and yours

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

Miriam Standifer-Bejin Are you married? They never recovered because the baby RILEY was conceived. A married woman wouldn't speak the way you do.

[@ThatgirlPoison]

Nik Ndongo as a married woman I definitely have experienced infidelity and have experienced a family situation with a child involved and I would never come on a radio show with a t-shirt promotion. If I felt I needed to defend a lie against me. . I would do it without trying to profit from it. a book promotion. This is what I don't agree with and I as a secure woman I would make sure my husband was there for his child. she admitted that she didn't. it's cool we don't have to agree.

[@ThatgirlPoison]

Nik Ndongo thank you...the difference for me is Kandi has accepted all that comes with being on reality TV and yes she has shared her life and has profited from it but not selfishly she hires her family and long time friends. She does good by the people she loves. They are being selfish and ugly in the delivery and it doesn't appear to have the best interest of the children that are innocent to Block and Kandi's whoreism .. come on T-shirts.

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

Miriam Standifer-Bejin I agree but if you set the bar high ppl will follow suite, set it low ppl will follow suit. We teach ppl how to treat us. Riley and Block should have been OFF LIMITS PERIOD. Once she opened that Pandoras box she cant control what comes out. Look how many shows some women couldnt be on because the man wasnt having it. Shaunie Oneal great example. Shaq tried to shut it down for BBW. She did the show but doesn't exploit her 5 kids. Sorry Kandi started it and cant control how it will end.

[@ThatgirlPoison]

Nik Ndongo I'm confused about the bars but okay. Happy Sunday.

[@HelenAMyers]

#Some of us know. #Some of don't know. Especially when a man denies he's married after being asked..."Go figure."

[@sarahg1583]

*STOP putting your mess on the streets*

[@limzprettythang]

This chick is CLEARLY looking for a come up....all them plugs, for what?

[@aujechu1411]

even then that doesn't make it OK for him to not take care of his child. Riley is 14 and kandi has always gone out of her way to make it a point to include him in rileys life and has tried to have Riley have a relationship with her dad.

[@annbrannon3085]

Auje Chu l

[@losemycool]

She clearly said because Kandi wanted to be a probation officer at their home....so that's why he wasn't in her life.

[@hotsnatchfever]

SHE SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN FUCKING A MARRIED MAN. girl. Don't get mad when that man wants to continue with his family and treats your side chick family just like that. Having a child won't keep a man. And women like this should stop being so mad when that child is left neglected. Its her own fault.

[@CandidlyToni]

Morally no it’s not right, but we aren’t talking morals since Kandi screwed a married man. Now with that being said. You knew the man was married. So why would you allow yourself to get pregnant, if you had to sleep with this married man. If dude didn’t want to be around, why would you willing have this child and be mad this dude doesn’t want to be involved. You cannot force anyone to parent a child. Especially when you have a child under those circumstances. Not only that but your not even thinking about how your actions will affect the child, until the child is here. By then it’s too late.

[@giovannagiovanna3349]

Auje Chu i agree if you have firsthand knowledge of the facts. But if you don’t, then I can’t imagine that kandi wouldn’t know what his deal was. She easily could of hired a PI if she wasn’t sure that he really wasn’t living or especially find out if he was married to someone. Kandi is no fool! She’s not going to be blind to some dude that has a football team of kids all over and is a deadbeat father, because then she would be affected financially and her professional reputation would be tarnished by him. At the end of the day, Kandi, NeNe, Kim, Phaedra, Sheree and the rest of the women in the Housewives franchise should never expose their children or should I say USE their children for their own fame or use their fame to make their kids famous! All these housewives daughters and sons are all “super models “ that’s BS!! Why isn’t Sheree’s son who wanted to model not blowing up? Why because Sheree isn’t Yolanda or Lisa Rinna or Camille and Kelsey Grammer? Teresa has been trying to get her daughter Gia into modeling and anything since the New Jersey housewives started and the same as sheree, NOTHING and their kids are beautiful! These women have to stop either for their own fame or to jumpstart their kids fame using them! Then they wonder why their kids grow up like Kim from Beverly Hills housewives! I’m no expert on the music industry, but Kandi’s daughter doesn’t have her mother’s gift. Just saying 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@sandfay1977]

Damn she wearing that shirt (Girl You knew). Hell she knew too, that he's a cheater. It's good she's no longer with him.

[@kingly1407]

I feel like this was the classic the dude told the other women he was single or that he and his wife are "separated" and Kandi hit the wife up when she found out the truth. It happens all the time.

[@aishachandler4570]

There is no way in this world I could be mad after all these years...I would be mad at my husband more than anybody.

[@thedeliverancehour]

These delusional ppl feed off of playing victim instead of moving on with their lives..

[@2010cmarie]

She should be glad with her?

[@TheBraveIntrovert]

Why do everyone assume she knew dude was married? This lady out here doing interviews and she not even married to him anymore. Which means she is not over it and looking for some attention.

[@Authorlatoyabelfon]

Purple Capricorn and she keep higlihhting her t-shirt..girl u know ...seeker

[@maryburroughs-gray8468]

Men just lie lie lie and we are so starved for attention we excuse the lies. Considering the relationship was short, she prob got it together once she learned she was pregnant.

[@MsZenia1]

I was like even if Kandi brought her up she didn't have to say nothing and kept on with her life period. She could've just stayed out and away from whatever (Kandi and Block) are doing on the show....they are divorced and he's cheated with others....come on she's making me tired........

[@mspinkytee]

She should address the several counts of domestic violence she had against her so perfect ex husband. She is doing this for attention to make money. Why talk up for a violent ex husband, with charges of domestic violence and child cruelty.

[@keekp]

mspinkytee so true

[@kimdockery3419]

mspinkytee I don't believe she came off like her husband was perfect. She admitted that both of them could've done better in regards to Riley.

[@mspinkytee]

She is a mom who takes care of her children. He is a deadbeat. It is his choice to take care of his children.

[@sonyab2u974]

💯

[@ihavetospeakwhatsonmymind792]

Not when you’re married….. she knew he wasn’t taking care of his child and didn’t care . She’s just as much as a deadbeat as he is…

[@dominiquejohnson6322]

My whole thing is this: as women it’s easy for us to be like , “ he should’ve took care of his kid” etc etc but in reality come on y’all, when you build a life with a man and he steps out on you and have a kid it’s hard to accept & it’s not her fckn fault he didn’t do what he was supposed to by Riley. & her response is what every woman would’ve said ! Be logical, she believes he should take care of Riley. And he paid his child support so what’s the problem. & you can tell by her talking about it . It hurt her !! & let’s be clear Kandi called her because she knew and didn’t want her daughter to be left out ! But let’s have some compassion for her. They hurt her ! Not the other way around

[@teawitthadiva]

Phuck her. And ANYONE who thinks it’s okay to punish a kid. Leave tht no good azz man. Get “mad” enuff to say PHUCK him. Bt under no circumstances am I gonna say she right in how she feels, she knew wht type of relationship she was in. Cuz I never heard him say Kandi raped him. I don’t agree w/u. U sound like one of these bitter chics who wud b too weak to leave so u’ll place blame on an innocent child. FOH

[@danielleshanell1243]

He took years to pay the child support and didn't nobody hurt his wife but him🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️

[@dominiquejohnson6322]

@@danielleshanell1243 why is the wife being blamed for two grown as people issues, it don’t matter when he paid it. The real issue is Kandi wants leverage in a situation that was foul as fck and then y’all got the nerve to blame the WIFE that was at home with his kids ! Make it make sense !

[@danielleshanell1243]

@@dominiquejohnson6322 I didn't blame her where did you read that 💆🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🎊

[@dominiquejohnson6322]

@@danielleshanell1243 what was your point on even saying Kandi didn’t hurt the wife they’re grown ass fck and like she said on the show she thought it was sketchy went into his phone and called that woman.

[@OffCode]

I love the justifications many females are using to side step that Kandi as a woman who wouldn't want HER OWN HUSBAND to have a sidechick on her CHOICE to put another woman through it like flip her.#KandiKnewAndDidntCare #GirlYouKnew

[@ChrissyBeTalking]

Kandis husband wouldn’t dip without her knowing! Duh.

[@drsoopakingking7670]

Thank you! I've been looking for this comment! Somebody with some sense!

[@cimeinyourdreams3533]

Blame your husband not Kandi, Blame your husband not Kandi, Blame your husband not Kandi. She ain't even mention you gul!

[@mrhollandsopus418]

Who cares about what this poor azz girl is talking about. Kandi is doing her thing. She's not worried about these have nothings.

[@TheBattle476]

Don't nobody want no shirt that say girl you knew chile bye😩

[@xokree]

lol thats what i said

[@TheBattle476]

Kreeoshia Burks-Moore Right this girl knew her man was a cheater and had a baby with kandi . Girrrrl you knew all those years ago now you wanna make a shirt? Have several seats!😕...lol

[@trulyblessable]

Ctfu

[@xokree]

shante B she trying to make a come up, HA

[@babyn3mo]

shante B hahahahaha!!! Y'all are some jerks!!!! 😂😂😂 damn.

[@neecyrobinson188]

Okay Khandi was a side chick 16 years ago...get at your ex about that. What does that have to do with him not taking care of his child???

[@mooncountry9328]

girl bye......Harpo who dis woman....I just forgot her name....

[@katherinemack5407]

moon country 😂😂😂😂

[@MERTIE123]

Women kill me how they have an attitude with the side chick but they stay with the guy. Dummies, I tell ya

[@MsStormyluv]

what is wrong with you people talking about this woman and discrediting her marriage to this man. Kandi is no fool and new Block was married. It seems like every man Kandi was ever with was married and had children. Kandi made herself a victim. No one asked her to bring Riley's father in the picture. She could have kept this man out of the picture for forever. No one would have asked any questions. So stop insulting ex-wife. This woman was married to this man. And she has every reason not to be brought into this nonsense. Let's see what happens when Kandi husband Todds start fooling around on her

[@carlashears-jones4294]

Thank you. I'm confusec as to why everyone is so hard on the wife? Kandi knew all along he was married everyone in the industry knew. Let's be honest that's not the first time amd it won't be the last Kandi was messy. She has quite the reputation in the industry.

[@TASconfidential]

blan brad the marriage has no credit, hence the cheating. My problem is that Block isn't held accountable at all. Women calling each other and point the finger as to "who is the side piece"... The fact is that once you're in the cycle of cheating, you both are pawns in the game that the cheater is playing... Neither of you are more important than the other.....

[@sashafierce9340]

blan brad Exactly!! I see there are a lot of ignorant heartless side chicks on this thread. I wonder how they would feel if they were married and their husband cheated and on top of that got the mistress pregnant. Khandi did not make this woman relevant. The nerve of these fools. I don't care if a person is a millionaire, wrong is wrong. But him cheating is just pure lowdown plus not taking care of the child is just evil! Anyway, this woman's marriage was wrecked.

[@MsStormyluv]

marriage has no credit? Are you kidding me? Regardless of what's happening in this threesome, marriage is sacred no matter how we might feel or how much money the person has. Two people go before God or the courts and join together as one there's a lot of credit. no one knows what takes place behind closed doors. A man when he wants to have other relationships always discredit his wife. Although she is raising his four children and taking care of his household. there is just no morals on social media when we start to discredit the sanctity of marriages because of money

[@byrdie539]

If he paid back support would it all go to Riley’s account? Seems like Kandi doesn’t have a trust account set up for Riley yet. I wish them well .

[@careuhmeltv2093]

she didn't understand why he wasn't around cause they had a baby. Doesn't mean she wanted to be with him. just means he should take care of his responsibility.

[@aaleyah5380]

Ok what does that have to do with him acknowledge & taking care of his child🙄?And the fact that her justification is bc she was a sidechick, says what type of chick she is. Furthermore, there’s a child involved, that could possibly see this. And he’s not even with her anymore. Kandi may have been a sidechick & your husband is a cheater. 💅🏾

[@tammyhampton5917]

I am so sick of these women blaming the women for sleeping with YOUR husband. Your husband is the one who took vows with you. Your husband is the one who brought Kandi into your marriage. So again, why are you mad at her and not him? Maybe when she met him, he didn't present himself as married! Regardless, their child cant help how and with whom she was conceived so he still should have been a dad to her!

[@2010cmarie]

You must be one of those chicks that slept with Married men…they both wrong dummy

[@tanyasgibson5930]

This woman is very cool with her mess, A real woman knows that you check your man