MOM Puts ONE CHILD Over Other, What Happens Is Shocking | Dhar Mann

[@DharMann]

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[@Drxzzyyt656]

love

[@kaanger]

hi dhar mann

[@jboss627]

So excited for this!!!

[@Rosieisadorable]

How are you?

[@luvv_raameen]

Hellloo

[@alisonsouter8788]

At least the favourite sister isn’t okay with how her mom is treating her sister, she sticks up for her and is supportive of her dreams. And anyone who tries to correct me with how I say favourite, just to be clear, I’m Canadian and for Canadians there’s a u in favourite

[@zacbanks6735]

Let’s see how many subs I can get from this comment current 1168

[@anluveq9531]

Yeah

[@callmemar1787]

Ikr and is not like ‘bratty’ and always like haha ur so weird mom loves me more or smth like that legit man

[@nyokarobinson9749]

yea

[@imanuellalhruaitluanga8247]

My mother treat me like trash. So i understand how she felt

[@nathankhaldarov6198]

mom: “we are 10,000 dollars in credit card debt” sister: “how about we go out for dinner tonight” mom: “that sounds like a great idea”

[@smashtechofficial]

How did i not noticed that 🤣

[@bentictobanda8269]

but she has 10,000 dollars in credit card

[@jen8696]

@@bentictobanda8269 yeah, credit card *debt*

[@gmfirouzja]

@@bentictobanda8269 almost

[@geezus4418]

@@bentictobanda8269 lol

[@DaBlackTinkerer3.0]

"The people that dont help you in you bad times, dont let them be in you good times" -A wise man

[@Theunicorn2012]

"The perosn that dont help you in you bad times, dont let them be in you good times" -A wise man

[@darkninjamasterop]

@@Theunicorn2012 bro shes the mom u guys are terrible children

[@Gurcharan2029]

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

[@naha_frfr]

3 Weeks ago, Gandhi refused to have alien medicine injected into her body, and she died..3 weeks later, He took the "American" Medicine, Such a inspiring man, lmao.

[@Theunicorn2012]

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” - Mahatma Gandhi

[@kikothebudgie601]

"Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child" - a wise woman

[@tarekdiab3881]

@@volshebnik6995 you're not wrong

[@allroundershaurya8447]

@@volshebnik6995 lol what content? You have no videos.

[@Moon-wr6iw]

Kiko why you steal my comment everyone like mine

[@marvinho6403]

True that

[@kikothebudgie601]

@@Moon-wr6iw i didnt :(

[@savannahsslifestyle5805]

I love how her sister is by her side being supportive to her makes her feel better that's what sisters are for to be their when they need it! Moms need to support their kids and their dreams and to not be unsupportive they should Congratulate them. "We are not just telling stories, We are changing lives!" ❤😁

[@ceegeetee]

Let’s see how many subs I can get from this comment Current subs 15334

[@chilldino]

I disagree with the moral of the story I believe the mother is right

[@rosinaduh4753]

@@chilldino yea but the mom was being a bit rude to her about it

[@rosinaduh4753]

@@chilldino And not all people are the same

[@dontreadtheprofilephoto..5546]

Don't read my name 😶

[@legendnumber6995]

How tf is 99% an A while a 98% is an A+???

[@ItzzAmelia4]

Omg I didn’t realise that !! lol 😂

[@user-ve8ol8qy4t]

Fr

[@Jo-dh5jo]

MY BRAIN IS BOT BRAINING!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[@totalove5475]

Ikr

[@firebombpro2.071]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I didn’t realize that 😂

[@IsabellaThompson-zi6co]

Don’t you just love it how the mom only says she’s proud of the daughter after she finds out she’s rich that’s so funny to me 🙃

[@scailliet]

Exactly. And the daughter is a better person than me. I would have put my mom on blast right then and there, about being an absolute hypocrite and having conditional love for me. And then if mom never changes afterward, I would go no contact after moving out.

[@-Mood]

“One day when you’re older, you will say, mom you were right.” All of us have experienced this 😫

[@Gamer-gv7xn]

Yea and by that she meant that her daughter will never talk to her again.

[@sussydesy3678]

Me about to go to the movies to watch The Last Airbender: PARENTS YOU WERE RIGHT!!

[@sarahcheeseman8591]

Well, that is mostly true. There's an old joke that goes something like this, "When I was a teenager I couldn't believe how stupid my mom was. Now that I'm an adult I am incredibly amazed how much smarter my mother got by the time I was 25". I admit I understood some things about my mother more after I moved out on my own. Now, I find myself sounding so much like my mother that I turn around thinking she's behind me. 😅😅

[@v3nd3tta174]

I haven’t i dont think

[@moon_rosefficial5233]

Tell me about it😒

[@liamholton8937]

It’s nice that the daughter who was being praised by the mom didn’t shun her twin sister and helped her in her difficult times. That’s the power of a relationship with siblings.

[@gpipeline]

They're twins?

[@thatsimeasecatkiwi1720]

Who said they were twins😂

[@jacarriwilkerson9710]

Agreed

[@thatsimeasecatkiwi1720]

Ikr

[@luvlyLinh]

@@thatsimeasecatkiwi1720 well they look kinda the same

[@gregchapman7438]

Never teach your kids to seek your pride. Teach them to be proud of themselves. You won't be here forever.

[@Redvania]

"Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child" - Willius

[@user-ek6ds2dp1i]

Did u copy another comment that was 1 year ago-?😧(the 1 year ago one is up)

[@OneBaguette]

Copied

[@Animal_grew728]

The mom is fully justified for her actions it is just another case of the protagonist is just a spoiled rat

[@JcbGaming-ij8yx]

That doesn’t make since, then there would still be some kids without parents

[@minecloudd7852]

To all future parents: NEVER compare your kids. Especially with siblings. Doing this doesn’t encourage them, it only hinders their goals and breaks the relationship between both the parents and the person who you’re comparing them with. Doing this never makes your kid feel good enough, eventually it spirals them into depression.

[@PAWaviation15]

My mom always told me to let her know if I think I was suffering depression. But it feels like My parents were the cause of my depression that they themselves are trying to cure from me.

[@rosaryrusia2357]

YESS EXACTLY

[@whoisayesha]

so true

[@kayyy8020]

fr

[@awstynperkins2373]

My mom does that and im kimmy😭

[@bernadettewashington1745]

Favoritism in families are the worst thing ever. It's like another form of abuse in it's own way. One child gets treated with love and makes their parents or parent proud while the other has to work harder and impress them just to get they're love. It doesn't matter how kids look or how they are as a person, they all deserve unconditional love from both parents or parent. I hope people could learn something from this. Like the best quote itself... "every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"

[@shxnoshx8459]

It’s not favoritism, one child isn’t doing good and one is. It is that simple.

[@bernadettewashington1745]

@@shxnoshx8459 It kind of is if one parent appreciate one kid over the other. Like if one child does good in school the parent approves, but if the other doesn't do such a good job the parent tells them that they should do better or ask them why can't they be more like their sibling. Not to say that they need to be perfect or good at everything just saying that they shouldn't have to work hard just to make their parents proud

[@sophia0249]

@@shxnoshx8459 you are so the favorite

[@shxnoshx8459]

@@sophia0249 nah I’m not the favourite I just know how to act, you probably don’t.

[@TheOnlyDannyDoggy]

Can Relate. I'm The Fav, Just Because I'm A Boy... Like Wtf... And They Want What's Best For Me ;-;... (I'm The Youngest Of 4 Sisters.)

[@Aroaceenby]

I like that she helped her mom even though her mom was really unkind to her. It shows what a good person she is. I also like how much her sister cares and that she doesn't have what I've taken to calling the "Golden Child Complex."

[@zoyaabdullatheef1251]

I love how the sister is supportive and kind instead of being mean and bratty

[@Patrickbatemanharvard]

A wise man once said “If someone hadn't been with you in your worst times, they don't deserve to be in your good times” No matter who they are....

[@vibeswithangel1]

Right💯

[@Fish_Food.]

she did it all wrong but she thought they were right that's no excuse. you can distance away from them but shouldn't cut them out

[@SunflowerElk]

Ik

[@An0nym0u3]

@Crumble well, if someone isn't there for you, I believe you should do what's best for you, whether that's cutting them out or ignoring it. Nomatter what type of relationship you have with them.

[@Yanngacha]

Thank you for saying that now I know

[@BROOKLYNROBLOX786]

8:05 I love how her friends believed in her ❤❤

[@Myfivelittlemonsters]

My favorite quote is “if you let people take you down then you’ll never be able to show people how amazing you are remember you are special”-a super wise man

[@Theunicorn2012]

My favorite quote is “if you let people take you down then you’ll never be able to show people how amazing you are remember you are special”-a super wise man

[@Arkensius1157]

​@@Theunicorn2012 Copycat

[@NeonPlays-jy3no]

My favourite Quote is ,,Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down...'' By Rick

[@bobby19873]

My dream is to do a walkover,i cant land it

[@have_no_name]

"If you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid" such an amazing quote Edit: thanks for all the comments and likes! I Appreciate it Edit: can you y'all stop replying? Cause I keep getting notifications. I EVEN GOT ONE AT 3AM

[@evanmcclure67]

Honestly I barely graduate HS, and gtf outta my mom's house

[@evanmcclure67]

@Julia McInnis it does. If you could convince a fish it could climb a tree and it fails to do so, the fish could think there's something wrong with it, even though it's structural build prevents it from climbing the tree

[@gamingwithmeobviously5753]

@Julia McInnis it does.

[@gr8hax]

Then, I am stupid…

[@gamingwithmeobviously5753]

@@gr8hax no dip sherlock/jk

[@sdfvsdf_1435]

the mom only got happy cus of the money 💀💀💀💀

[@serenitystar407]

RIGHT 💀😂

[@carlovers723]

no she was happy cause her daughter wasn;t a failure

[@DragonGoddess18]

No duh People like her won't change

[@amiradjiar73]

The mom only got happy cus of the money

[@Meowqueen344]

Ur mom is narcissistic smh

[@raabiayusuf9903]

"If you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree,it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid" Einstein's quote is beautiful Thank you Dhar for making amazing content! 🥰❤ Also at 5:00 it made me cry! 😭

[@AnthonySica-fv9xc]

Anyone in 2024👇

[@adill1737]

Meee

[@markmauceri5206]

Mee

[@heathercurry4451]

Me

[@user-ur7it8re5h]

Me

[@Dresstoimpresslover-l9q]

Me

[@Ev4nnnnn]

*"people dont realize how hard they are to others until they regret what they did"*

[@stoplookingatthisyougleepy]

*Until they get money out of it

[@Ev4nnnnn]

@@stoplookingatthisyougleepy so true

[@stoplookingatthisyougleepy]

@@Ev4nnnnn Yes

[@biackniler3250]

Nah she just being lazy education first art after

[@uduakabalaka6556]

@@biackniler3250 Shut up

[@nejagazdag9776]

the new art teacher is so cute

[@ManhuaHu]

I have to agree with you I think she kind of is beuatiful

[@komalmahamemaan8259]

“Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child” - a wise woman

[@OneBaguette]

Copied

[@litdraco1439]

As an asian, I can totally relate! Our parents always want us to do well in the subjects they found most easiest. But you pick up strength along mistakes, thanks Dhar Mann, your videos are always so relatable and effective towards real life.

[@Lov_chayeong]

You are asian me too

[@ayee2003]

I'm also Asian :D 25% 🇨🇳 and 75% 🇵🇭

[@meysam6221]

Literally, we always get compared with our siblings as if it will help us get better grades

[@LUNIX-STUDIOS]

I am an Asian too and my family actually allows me to follow my dreams but they are a bit verbally abusive towards me and brother... So I suffer from depression and almost PTSD... I just feel bad about my self but I need to get used to it and get through all of this... So yeah... My life is more complicated and harsh than it was...

[@Boredom1235]

@@LUNIX-STUDIOS I have a really bad time with my parents. I’d love to say I’m doing fine but I have ADHD OCD autism anxiety dislexia depression and PTSD

[@_angela_1]

i learned that giving money to ur parents is what makes them proud of you or bring A or A+ on ur tests and exams

[@corgi6802]

I already do both 💀

[@gigglepixel]

You have to look at her perspective…they’re struggling and she was raised in different generation they couldn’t afford to risk and it’s true that art is one of the most underpaid and risky carries this ending is fairytale not everyone can afford to follow their passion in this stupid capitalist society

[@yahllinotfound]

That’s true tho

[@amiradjiar73]

I learned that giving money to ur parents is what makes them proud of you or bring A or A+ on ur tests and exams

[@gamingwithtior9010]

@@amiradjiar73 copy and paste

[@Blue_lotus_good]

I like how Michelle doesn’t compare herself to Kimmy like her mom does. Michelle is a great sister. She is so compassionate to Kimmy❤

[@mannatmania414]

9:35 had me dying on the floor begging for mercy. 😂💀

[@soulbrigade504]

"if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree it will live it's whole life beliving it is stupid" this line touched by heart and i believe it may have touched many students too!! edit: thankyou for 276 likes!!

[@bananamonkeygaming14]

Just because you're stupid doesn't mean you're talented

[@shalinisrivastava8556]

Albert Einstein said that..

[@ayshapatel6207]

@@shalinisrivastava8556 yeah?

[@del3ted_acc]

Even I am kinda stupid not very much only %12 yh everyone (s) stupid they need their parents for support to

[@unknown8129]

@@bananamonkeygaming14 yes 👏 👏👏

[@annixzy1551]

After watching this, I have to thank Dhar Mann for making me realise how lucky I am to have supportive parents, and well, good enough grades. I've been doing commissions for a few months now and I've helped my mother pay off her debts by using the commission money I've received from my art clients. My mom also doesn't have to worry about my grades because they're good enough for me to pass. I really feel bad for this girl but I'm glad it worked out in the end.

[@MrJohn0fficial]

Read my name 👈👈😋

[@nnn7886]

Hey thats great!! I hope to be a good artist one day. Also i thought 50- was a fail, and 50+ is a pass??

[@NikkiScatch84]

That’s amazing!

[@Aestheticmusic567]

Hi

[@rice_nn]

well, i have commissions, and they’re pretty good! But my mom always lectured me bc im asian, but, she only does it because she cares

[@ASLTtabletennis]

The mom said she took Kimmy’s phone away but it’s in her pocket at this scene lol 7:05

[@khadija78975]

Did no one notice that when Kimmy was in Art class she had her phone next to her sketchbook even though her mom took her phone away 😮😮😮😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😅

[@PREPPY_GIRLTOOKOVER]

crazy

[@JulioRamirez-7745]

​@@PREPPY_GIRLTOOKOVER Let's call The Mom a dummy because that's what she gets for taking Away Kimmy's Laptop and her Computer when she can't go snooping through her Daughter's Stuff like that

[@thepastavatars7939]

At the end of the day, the most overwhelming key to a child's success is the positive involvement of the parent.

[@sophisticationspeaks]

Agreed

[@Ray-nq9dk]

My parents think that my numbers will make my future

[@thepastavatars7939]

@@Ray-nq9dk what kind of numbers?

[@PAWaviation15]

When I told my mom I reached 2k subscribers and my channel could be monetized, she was just excited and announced it to my dad. But not a single time have I felt their actual support towards my channel or even my future gaming career.

[@fire15aidenspencer72]

Yeah but this video doesn't show that.

[@AbsoluteDark]

As an artist myself and an illustrator in training I would like to say that this video felt relatable, sure It didnt help me, but thats cause I dont need any emotional support. Im sure this video has helped so many people out there, and I apreciate that you would make something that someone like me, and many more, can relate to. Thank you Dhar!

[@kellydowell3050]

Hi there good 👍 ☺ 😊 🙂 😀 😄 👍 ☺ 😊 🙂 😀 😄 👍

[@CarrieStClair-im8jo]

WoW

[@huskerdustforlife31]

16:25 fish can climb trees?

[@queen_edits14344]

THE WORST THING IS THAT STUDENTS ARE NOT AFRAID TO FAIL THEY'RE JUST AFRAID OF THE THING THAT THERE DEVICES ARE GONNA BE TAKEN 😅😅

[@seediscute]

12:31 LMAO NOTICE THE BOARD

[@powerscalingisdumb]

So you hear....

[@UnCursed]

so you see? so you hear? so you *SMELL????*

[@Ryalon]

Whats funny?

[@margaretmcguire3241]

Never judge one child to another, especially siblings because each & every child is gifted differently. We as parents are to raise our children up, not tare them down. *Never be the reason ur vacant from ur child's heart* 💕🕊💕

[@christina-zf4co]

tear*

[@tamerarosely2594]

I love that ❤️

[@CubingPenguin]

I wish my parents thought like that :(

[@e.ashton]

The point is some kids are prodigy and a genius at one subject like math, art, music or any other things. If you notice how your child has a really great gift that has been notice by lots of people even the experts like playing music or drawing, it's best to give them a direction, send them to a different school like art school where children and teens learn art who are prodigies.

[@kristalanderson4207]

Not every parent my mom totally disagrees with this and is very controlling. She compares me with every single born person on this planet. I don't even have a sibling and still living miserable Lol

[@michellebrunache1827]

No one can't live in the past he makes good decision for his daughter she needs a dad who can be there for her fantastic story love it

[@Stitchfan12347]

Why is nobody talking about how the girls come from school at night 😂😂

[@PedramDoesStuff198455]

Kimmy: *fails a test* Kimmy's mom: *takes her phone away and forces her to study all day* Me: *fails a test and goes home sad* My Mom: *comforts me* It's ok honey I'm not mad

[@lemon_gacha7394]

My mom would do the same thing (what your mom is like) 😊

[@PedramDoesStuff198455]

@@lemon_gacha7394 aww your mom is nice

[@fire15aidenspencer72]

Your mom is nice, Jimmy's mom is more reasonable.

[@fire15aidenspencer72]

*Kimmy's

[@PedramDoesStuff198455]

Oh

[@KiwiKeyblade]

This is why school should be more interest based. More electives and freedom to choose, and you can learn a subject with things you are passionate about. For example, you can have a connect the dots assignment for the artists, or maybe for the readers you can do one where each correct answer gives you more of the story, like CommonLit, but more fun and atoned to your interests! :)

[@DharMann]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate it.

[@hanako-kun2039]

@@DharMann hi I'm a huge fan

[@saintdenis3238]

This system works for no one Education is only for indoctrination not for for real knowlege

[@foziaaziz3014]

@@DharMann Pls dont hate me if I have an objection but, Sometimes this type of things dont really work by students failing and passionate about some sports or art. ive seen sometimes they actually do end up failing but most of the time it does work. but they should also listen to their parents.

[@fiorxe3759]

DPSOSODOF

[@lamarbride5130]

Every child deserves a good parent

[@FloooooppaYT]

Guys,if u want a free quote then here it is: “You don’t need to be good at other subjects in order to be successful” !!!ENJOY!!!

[@meowmeow9617]

Her mom: “98%? I’m so proud of you!” My mom: “98%? What did you do wrong this time?”

[@idkthisisjustaplacewhereal8120]

Mom with favourite: optimist Mom without favourite: pessimist

[@ilvilapeiris2033]

same

[@lolipopplays5259]

true lol

[@missupre]

I'm so sorry about that if this isn't a joke.

[@ilvilapeiris2033]

@@missupre It's no joke really.

[@sploopdoop2515]

16:17 Michelle's face is like - I'm not the favorite anymore? And Kimmy's face is like - I'm pretty sure I'm adopted

[@Anonymouslikemydad]

Kimmy is like “is this what love feels like?”

[@Louka655]

Yea

[@JulioRamirez-7745]

​@@Louka655 Let's call The Mom a dummy because that's what she gets for not letting Kimmy tell her she just what

[@tonimelody9251]

Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child- a wise women

[@amandaramos4322]

As the 26th president of the United States once said, “Conparison is the thief of joy.” Why do parents have to compare their kids to each other when they all have strengths and weaknesses

[@hdaesthetix_xoxo]

I love how the art teacher is really nice and supportive, she seems really nice 7:07

[@Galaxy1629]

​@@ulississandoval1314now why did you just copy the same comment?

[@Theunicorn2012]

I love how the art teacher is really nice and supportive, she seems really nice 7:07

[@hotcocoacola]

"Why can't you be like your sister?" stabbed through the heart...

[@cirosflyingpizzahernandez8137]

Poor Kimmy ya know I feel so bad all the mother dies I don’t know harassing her or bossing her around like she’s her school student

[@cirosflyingpizzahernandez8137]

I meant does not dies lol

[@SpikeYeetsPopcorns]

Getting compared to other kids is just the same hurting As getting backstabbed by ur bestie

[@purple_kiwis_1]

My mom and dad say that I should be like my brother. He doesn't even get good grades, HE'S JUST THE FAVORITE.

[@lukaafxaidze2725]

@@SpikeYeetsPopcorns getting backstabbed by a bestie is worse for me

[@Shark30006]

Michelle is a very straight A student who always works hard for her grades

[@user-ly6qh8us6e]

I love how her sister stands up for her ❤️💕

[@cocorenee3777]

As a teen who does struggle with school, I do believe her mom has some points. Though it was not okay whatsoever to call her own daughter a "screw up" but taking away her phone and some things she does enjoy, is a very common consequence. I also believe it is correct, but parents also need to try to see the child's point of view. Some things to mother could have done, maybe getting her a tutor, helping her herself. As most parents do help their children with work and as they should. But if taking her phone every time she fails, and she continues to fail. The mother should be able to realize taking her phone is not the solution and she should resort to other consequences and solutions.

[@evanmcclure67]

I'm dyslexic so, I kinda gotta pass on some things. But yeah, I still tried my best in school. I didn't pass every test but my dad knew I worked hard and I tried, so I didn't get punished too harshly

[@jacobthereceiver3975]

@@evanmcclure67 real talk

[@ArtIsDrawing]

you just need to get a C...

[@100kChallengeWith0Video3]

Parents need to understand that by comparing their kids, they discourage them instead of motivating them to do better. And every kid has their unique talent, they can’t all be the same

[@jeremyho6221]

that is not true. by comparing the two kids, instead of discouraging the bad kid, the parent is expressing belief in them. She believes that the bad kid can be just as good as the other kid, and that the kid is strong enough to understand that.

[@laughinghyena4115]

having a sisiter who gets an A+ and not taking her as a help is something foolish.. this stories are just made for kids to make excuses and fail on things making them follow stupid stuff which ends up in failing as well

[@eeeec3900]

It happened to me and its literally emotional damage, i moved out by 18 and i don't keep in contact with them like that no more, love them from a distance now.

[@real.snatch]

@@laughinghyena4115 Exactly

[@catdude1398]

This is just like Claudia from the baby sitters club

[@user-tk6tx5fd1d]

Yessss

[@Avdline]

It’s so sad knowing that some parents just won’t love their kids until they’re pleased by their actions

[@psyct497]

"When you get older you'll say, Mom, you were right" that hits home as a Indian kid.

[@sampajana1501]

and that's what makes you the most insecure about your path, even though you're actually the right one and in future you might be saying "oh, im so grateful that i listened to myself"

[@riii.z8585]

also hits home for a chinese kid 😣

[@c001Ba30nDuD]

@@sampajana1501 how would you know that you'll be able to succeed. I hate it when people aren't realistic. Do good in school first. Get a proper job that can leave you financially stable then start turning hobbies into jobs. Unless you're already very popular and making bank, get good grades and get a good job before anything.

[@wt_reverseflash6010]

As Indonesian too

[@riii.z8585]

@@c001Ba30nDuD everyone can live their life how they want, chill. grades aren't everything and definitely won't define anything. it's not the grades that are important. it's the things learned that are important. not everyone is good at doing tests but they'll always find their talent in something.

[@mattennator7690]

I love how the sister is supportive instead of being mean and saying that she's better. Thanks Dhar Mann!

[@goofyspottzzz]

A message to future parents: Dont compare your kid to his her siblings (if u have one) it discourages them from improving 2: They should not be forced to be studying and not sleeping. This isnt effective as when they are tired ,they cant focus. Hope this helps! -Bruh 60101, 2023

[@marcusbaker830]

This video demonizes Asian parents

[@evannamanku]

Mom is also bein realistic.. artists sometimes go broke. But she needs to understand her mom's situation too

[@99.Caffeine]

Dhar mann, this video makes me incredibly happy. My mother tells me the same thing, as in I am not going to make it as an artist. And even though the majority don’t make it, “nobody ever accomplished anything great by playing it safe.” So, thank you. This is the motivation I needed.

[@DharMann]

Glad this video makes you happy! Stay motivated and inspired! Thanks for watching.

[@PH_Value]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm why do i feel like this is a lie, also why are all these dhar mann comments so long

[@thisisjustaname5553]

It’s true though, it’s extremely risky if you want to be an artist, wish you the best of luck :)

[@PH_Value]

@@thisisjustaname5553 nah waste of time id rather invest in stock build up a company and own the entire world

[@Ayko1x]

@@PH_Value do what u want to do maybe u will fail

[@suryaramprakash5455]

AS ALBERT EINSTEIN SAID "IF YOU JUDGE UR FISH BY ITS ABILITY TO CLIMB A TREE, IT'LL LIVE ITS WHOLE LIFE BELIEVING IT IS STUPID" Thanks Dhar Mann for this wonderful video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DharMann]

You're welcome, Surya. I appreciate you watching this video.

[@shaun1270]

FoodisburhUser your a hater

[@I-S-C]

@@imsubbingtoanyonewhosubbst4784 says the one with a cringe pfp

[@Julian-Russel]

@@DharMann are u a fish btw

[@imanebday705]

@@Julian-Russel yes he is

[@90smostfinest]

This exactly how my mom feels about me 😢I’m crying rn

[@pamelaharnage]

This is my life story. I found out at the age of 13 I have depression and anxiety because of my mother. Who's never said a kind word to me in my life. And still doesn't

[@Avahk7x]

5:27 I like that part

[@Hearts4gojo01]

It’s so sweet that at the end her mom was proud of her! And it’s great that her sister was supporting her the whole time, even when she didn’t make a lot of money!!

[@wum8880]

Though I didn’t like the mom just supported her when she made money and paid off her debts, what enraged me even more was that she kept the money for the phone and laptop.

[@Hearts4gojo01]

@@wum8880 yes I feel a little bad because of that

[@Arya-yw8wf]

I really appreciate how they meant it's not bad to only have one good thing in yourself. I'm really bad at school (even though I try sooo hard) but I love to sing and I THINK others like it too. I hate myself for being “dumb” even if I can sing. This video is so motivating I really love how they help and motivate others from self hatred.

[@DharMann]

I'm glad you find this video motivating, Nana. I hope it will help you to have a more positive mindset. Thanks for watching. I wish you all the best.

[@ashleytorngren1773]

She treating the older sister Bette rtyan the younger sister and cause Michelle is her favorite

[@fiorxe3759]

Ssd

[@oscaroAde]

my iq scored 120iq but i get d- line

[@Shreeya1485]

@@imsubbingtoanyonewhosubbst4784 nobody asked you :)

[@samirkabbo229]

At least the sister is really very supportive

[@rxn_aniblox5473]

Normal Asian Parents Be Like

[@danieltatum4262]

Not really the Asians I know are thick like bread

[@stokarev2007]

Most Asians yes

[@user-cp4yi2jn4h]

😂

[@coasterhockygamingboy9549]

9:42 What do you expect, everyone is screenshotting it like an intelligent human being

[@cinn8678]

that doesn't look like a happy ending, the mom just loves the daughter who gets good money or grades.

[@Whydidthishappentomee]

Nah I dont think that’s what happened

[@soyaasfan9424]

Fr

[@catsandmuffins482]

@@Whydidthishappentomee same tbh

[@Pancaykz]

It very sad seeing parents compare children. It doesn’t have the effect they expect. Like, parents think that the child that they are comparing to another one will do better or try to be better, but instead, they will just feel hopeless and think they can’t be good enough.

[@SadrightnauHaha]

At first the mother was right until she started scolding her daughter for getting 71% when she used to get way lower. What she said is true, most artists go broke and homeless. I'm happy the daughter was giftly talented though

[@keira-the-elk]

The mom is right in a way, your grades matter in life, but taking stuff away just because of doodles isn't fair. OMG THANK YOU!! 💗

[@dakshta5097]

Yes exactly the mom isn't a monster she wants what's best but her methods are very very bad

[@enjohnaeoffray8188]

I feel like it’s not even her taking it away for doodles it’s just more so when you have bad grades and you’re failing all your classes you need to get rid of the distractions until your grades are back up

[@funnyinternetdude3981]

she had 0 notes bruh she wasnt trying at all she deserves it

[@landon3567]

Yeah but sleep is also important to because you need sleep to stay awake and other things

[@dano6145]

yeah and she dosent like the idea of NFTs good mom

[@HarCoolReviews]

This is just terrible, but one good thing is that the “favourite” child isn’t spoiled and actually understands the emotions that her sister is going through. RESPECT!

[@danissemerielelambayo3072]

Absolutely yes

[@catherinenation6482]

So true 🤣😂

[@ceegeetee]

Let’s see how many subs I can get from this comment Current subs 15335

[@user-oe3be9cq3l]

To the person reading this comment You are awesome & hope you are having a great day My dream is to hit 20k I hope you can help me accomplish my dreams,.

[@oy2667]

They be telling us not to compare ourselves to other people, but they're the ones comparing us to our siblings.

[@kailahjacobs4954]

Remember parents, you should never compare a child with another, all children are born with something special, and they can do whatever they put their mind to, if you want them to be successful you have to believe in them and never compare them to someone else, love your children the same and never choose a favorite.

[@darrenpeti1708]

Another inspiring quote I cant get out of my head is by Simon Sinek, "If you do something that you love, that is what you call 'Passion', but if you do something that you dont love, that is what you call 'Stress'." Such an inspiring quote. ♥️💙🤗💝

[@markperez7084]

Sh*t Shannon cheeks

[@koreankafe]

Sometimes people’s “bad behaviour” is because of their surroundings and not cuz of anything else. I’m happy her sister cared about her dreams and wishes atleast.

[@MrJohn0fficial]

Read my name 😋✏️🤪

[@AdoraGames]

Mom: we almost have 10,000 in debt Also mom: lets go out for food!

[@user-pt3ez6zl1l]

15:44 is so cute I am so happy for her ❤

[@felicityhe9511]

I’m so so thankful I have a mum that supports my passion for theatre. I know loads of kids aren’t as privileged as me and this video was such a good representation of that. Thanks Dhar for creating yet another wonderful video

[@giselleeeee8079]

She’s just being lazy she can do art after education comes first

[@felicityhe9511]

@@giselleeeee8079 I’m not solely relying on art. Of course I have an education and I need one to get into a good uni. I’m just saying it’s my dream and my mum supports it. Some people really just want to ruin someone’s day

[@Nabi5488]

Definitely like me

[@Nabi5488]

@@giselleeeee8079 it's not like that 😕

[@felicityhe9511]

@@Nabi5488 that’s great to hear!!

[@nigelseulal285]

This is a quote of my own that I love to share with people : Do not judge someone if they can' t calculate a Maths problem because everyone has their own flower in them that would someday blossom(ability) . Hope this inspires someone . Peace !

[@mariacalpulalpan8977]

I have this friend who can relate to this. Her mom expects more of her, she expects for her to have good grades like her sister. I told her to stand up for herself. We are both 12, so we are very young. But eventually, on the last test, her mom said that why did she get a low grade if her sister got a perfect 100, she finally said what she felt”IM NOT MY SISTER”

[@sokohighkora2479]

Moral(s) of the story: Never judge a book by its cover Do not judge someones ability Be supportive not harsh Don't expect everything to blow up out of nowhere without promotion and time. My favorite Dhar Mann episode! I'm gonna show this to my mom.

[@PedramDoesStuff198455]

And don’t put one child over the other one

[@ihatecheese.]

you forgot one always support the number 69

[@Ray-nq9dk]

And u forgot one that is “So many people failed,it doesn’t mean u will fail too” -Joker

[@idioticbagel2833]

Don’t think there isn’t family problems just cause one kid is thriving

[@ScienceMan314]

Don’t sell NFT’s.

[@MisterFyreNeo]

Plot Twist: The mother is only being harsh on her because she knows that NFTs harm the environment, and doesn't want her to make them.

[@MrBrindleStyle]

nice one! And there's some dodgey money laundering stuff happening too.

[@aquaticanimations9789]

I mean I would too

[@DidiTheCoolio]

and she is 10k in debt so she is like really worried

[@furcorn9804]

Yeah

[@CatzillaArt]

YES

[@nigelseulal6325]

This is a quote of my own that I always tell others - Never judge someone if they can ‘t calculate a Math problem because everyone has a different flower in them that would someday blossom ( ability) .

[@Eggosooo]

5:34 the iconic lamp i see everywhere

[@ShootingStarStudio]

Mom’s whole thing about “staying up late” is kinda sad because a lot of teens don’t consciously choose to stay up late. Our biology is different than an adult’s because of the hormones waging war with our bodies. Telling us to “go to bed earlier” doesn’t do anything-we just toss and turn until we naturally feel tired. Asking a teen to go to bed at 9 pm is the equivalent of asking an adult to go to bed at 6 pm, and asking a teen to wake up at 7 am is the equivalent of asking an adult to wake up at 4 am. Sure, teenagers do dumb things (because the last part of the brain to fully develop is the prefrontal cortex, which handles decision making) but that doesn’t mean we don’t deserve a little more respect and understanding. Every adult was a teenager once.

[@spirit5554]

Wow. Smert

[@minh1b]

Wow. Dumb. Theres something called following a sleep schedule. Also the 90 minute sleep rule applies too.

[@chrono9503]

Wow. Smort

[@ridahmuwanga9365]

The this has taught mi alot

[@caleyversacci2702]

Agreed but they seem to forget that part and it seems like they think they went from baby to toddler to child to adult without the whole teenager stage being a thing

[@anikasharma7963]

A parent should treat their children equally Really excited dhar to you watch this video and learn an important lesson❤️ Hats off to you for making this video 😊

[@MrJohn0fficial]

Read my name 😁😁😁

[@dontreadtheprofilephoto..5546]

Don't read my name 😶

[@user-yd5ow4bk1g]

A parent should love a child the same way

[@karanjotkaur4990]

The mom just wants the best thats why shes hard because the real worlds hard

[@JaxGamingYT]

"if someone pushes you onto the ground dont get sad get back up and run for your goal" - a wise man

[@Theunicorn2012]

"if someone pushes you onto the ground dont get sad get back up and run for your goal" - a wise man

[@spitpwuppy5168]

It honestly even hurt ME when the mom said, “u should be more like Michelle”, comparing people really hurts and I feel like other people can agree..

[@Hi-hc3nq]

fr

[@gr8hax]

It is a trap we all fall as parents (or at least for most), especially in chinese families. I can relate to both sisters sides. One is pressured to keep getting good marks to honor parents. One gets pressured for why not getting good marks. And why not be like from the positive role model who gets good marks .?

[@doges652]

super relatable like fr

[@father.of._6160]

Yeah:(

[@kima.88]

Every child is special in their own way, and parents should encourage them to make good use for their talent. As a kid that loves drawing I'm happy to have supportive parents, i may not be as smart as others I'm happy that my parents support me with the art i make. This video is so inspiring and relatable for me especially in the part where artists gets discourage because i felt that too and the fact that our names are quite similar. Great vid!

[@ArtIsDrawing]

Well she needs a side B too. Also, at least get a C for her grades.

[@jacobthedino9249]

1+1=2

[@gooop]

@@ArtIsDrawing grades don't matter😍

[@rainclouds2438]

Asian parents: I'm gonna stop you right there

[@JesusChrist-ep8gp]

Definitely

[@user-km4pb7pm1f]

15:40 that's my favourite part😢 I almost cried

[@Lucastheblueprince]

Every parent deserves a child but not every child deserves a parent - a wise person = me

[@subscribingtoeveryonewhosu122]

My childhood was exactly like this, thanks for spreading the message Dhar mann

[@dontreadtheprofilephoto..5546]

Don't read my name 😶

[@kiranrajput4167]

@@dontreadtheprofilephoto..5546 ok

[@zephrynnn]

I'm sorry this happened :(

[@dontreadtheprofilephoto..5546]

@@kiranrajput4167 perfect.. Just don't do it

[@_BMJ_]

This is relatable with me.. When i was younger like 10-12 yrs old my mom always angry and unsupportive me like she always saying that art not bring anything in life but then i made really big suprise and make my mom regrets it that till im highschool 13 my grade improve cuz thx to my art and supportive teacher and dad.. Now my mom become supportive cuz im telling hwr what my teacher tell me that i have vision creative superpower means that my passion bout drawing that can help me improve my grades and release stressed and depressed.. My teacher told me and my dad told me that art have meanings of life too

[@SoundFK]

I seriously love the way that, not only do these videos “entertain us”, it gives all of us a true meaning of current problems throughout the world, from family to family. I can’t wait to watch this ❤️

[@levful9046]

bot?

[@SoundFK]

@@levful9046 no lmao I just took my time to put like 7 comments to see which would he will like

[@levful9046]

@@SoundFK damn kk

[@levful9046]

@Macawru kk ik

[@SoundFK]

@@levful9046 lolz I copy and paste it