Mom's New BF Shook Daughter So Hard Her Eyes Exploded

[@TheMiseryMachine]

I hope everyone watching from the states was able to have a safe Memorial Day weekend! ❤Drewby + Yergy Discord: discord.gg/kCCzjZM

[@missmissy_90]

Love you two. ❤️ You're dedication is admirable.

[@Possumlover228]

Yes, thank you so much. Thanks to you guys for all of the work you do advocating for all of the beautiful souls taken too soon by the people that were supposed to protect them ❤

[@the_accused]

Thank you for giving these babies a voice.

[@JenX_1973]

Thank you! Hope you both (and your cat babies) had a great Memorial Day weekend, also! 🐈 ❤

[@F00tsie]

[@TashaBryanRENegade]

Does the CPS stand for "can't protect shit." ?

[@blacknbougie8021]

To me it does. I've been writing this in comments for yrs; although it gets deleted sometimes, I'm glad it's catching on.

[@Him_He_Me]

CORRECT

[@lasond2471]

I believe so!

[@user-iy9pd5np8l]

@@blacknbougie8021 I feel like CPS is becoming like a huge criminal organization cause it’s crazy how they lose kids chat locate these kids n so much more while the kids are supposed to be in their custody. I don’t trust CPS at all. They got some good people no doubt but some are terrible n only working for CPS so they can have access to kids. I watched few videos n saw news of how some CPS employees got caught hurting these kids n abusing them n doing absolutely terrible things. CPS can’t be trusted. I believe nobody is perfect and no system is perfect and I don’t expect CPS to be perfect but god how can they be so damn terrible? It’s their jobs to protect these kids n keep them safe n sadly so many of these kids end up in worse situations with CPS then they were before. They need to fire so many ppl n need to do way better job at checking on who they hire n why to work with there n be near kids. They made me lose all trust in them Long time ago. Seeing ppl like u believe in same or similar stuff makes me feel like I’m not goin crazy.

[@sammielouise88]

I think you're right!

[@randibgood]

He moved in after just 3 days? 3 DAYS???? Talk about irresponsible!

[@chiberjuberdourado2487]

It’s unbelievable! Great parenting.

[@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT]

Especially if you're a parent and afraid of being in another DV situation, like HUH?!? That's the the BEST way to get back into a DV situation! Smh

[@LordOfThePancakes]

If it worked out you would be saying how responsible she was & to always trust your gut when it comes to love or something corny like that

[@chiberjuberdourado2487]

@@LordOfThePancakes Nope. I’d still think it was entirely irresponsible. Letting anyone, male or female, move into after a couple of days is insane.

[@WeirdGirl321]

​@chiberjuberdourado2487 like I've been with my boyfriend for close to two years and I'm not close to being comfortable moving in with him, and I don't have any children to worry about. Three days?? Absolutely insane no matter the circumstances.

[@lisahanson527]

The dog was probably the only one that cared about Lola.

[@daft_j]

i think kyle killed jessie (the dog) because the dog would've protected or tried to protect lola

[@janerecluse4344]

​@@daft_jOh, definitely. The average dog, even if it's a coward, will try to protect children and women from abusive men.

[@JuneBarbone]

That really bothered me, poor dog 😭

[@katemate2696]

The poor innocent dog was euthanased.

[@zombinosh]

The only comfort that little girl had and it was taken away.

[@nikki0817]

It’s crazy how the absent parent always appears AFTER the child dies.

[@angelic4112]

Exactly! She also spent time with her maternal grandmother but didn't bother noticing the bruises/cuts on her body? Both sides of the family and friends let Lola down. Poor baby had no one to champion for her. I feel sorry for the other kids as well. May this heal in time.

[@carson5151]

He probably had little to no custody

[@leethall]

@@carson5151or was being an absent parent

[@GingerTurquoise]

fr cause where tf was he?? everyone let her down

[@Ms.Rodriguez-mq3tx]

Many women cut off the fathers for their own personal motives

[@NorCalTC]

Dude it’s crazy that they can’t say things like “domestic violence” or “sexual abuse” but when you turn on the tv, it’s full of cuss words and violence. SMH KZbin

[@GuardiaCompagnia]

its cuz too many lazy breeders think youtube is a babysitter :3 blame them!!

[@autumnthomas3923]

​@@GuardiaCompagniathis is the dumbest comment I have ever read

[@BabyBatPlays]

It's really not tho, it's literally a well known fact that it is one of the main reasons behind KZbin's censorship issue, I have seen so many stupid comments in my life and there's nothing stupid about saying that parents who just sit their children in front of KZbin are a major issue, mostly because KZbin kids will sometimes show children inappropriate videos that aren't supposed to be watchable and it makes it so all creators have to be extremely careful or they risk demonetization and other penalties, like this is common knowledge to creators, if this is the stupidest comment you've ever seen this must be your first day in social media @@autumnthomas3923

[@miap.s.795]

@@GuardiaCompagnia🤣 what ignorance

[@Anthonydoesstuffx]

​@@GuardiaCompagniaI have never seen the truth worded such way and I love it

[@michelleruss9877]

I had a mom that needed a man, at all costs. It made for an AWFUL childhood. I am so sorry for these babies. I know, sweeties. I know.

[@RachelleWillCallous]

Sorry, dear. It's not your fault. ❤️‍🩹

[@PrissyHippie]

My husband's Mom was the same way. She died in 2017 and left her estate to some dude she was shacked up with. They were in their 70's. She had many many men over the years, hopped from one to another. She was like that til the day she died. Her children hate her.

[@pinkpixie6917]

How sad 😢 I really hope life is good now after a terrible childhood you deserve some love & happiness sweetie ❤️

[@elleg3651]

Sounds like my mother.

[@janetlombardi577]

I hope the best for you ❤❤

[@gamerbabyy]

She didn’t even know his DOB before he moved in. Disgusting.

[@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT]

Omg that was my thought too, wtf is wrong with this lady?! Why would you trust this dude 😑😑

[@LordOfThePancakes]

Meh..

[@LordOfThePancakes]

Coulda been worse

[@ox0cherrybomb0xo]

​@@LordOfThePancakesThat you, Kyle?

[@arlaabrell8658]

I agree, I always wonder - WHAT DO these people talk about? They so often know NOTHING about each other but they live together and even make babies. The degree of absolute ignorance and lack of curiosity is simply astounding.

[@tessaducek5601]

I will never understand the desperation of these so called mothers needing a male in their lives. Put your children FIRST!

[@hannahroyster]

YESSSS EXACTLY PUT YOUR FUCKING CHILDREN FIRST BEFORE ANY MAN WTF IS WRONG WITH THESE MOTHERS😡😡

[@amybowen5800]

I get it but it's a deep wound it starts young usually daddy issues you feel as though u are unworthy and unloved if you are not in a sexual relationship. They need to feel beautiful and that's how they do it. I was that way for the majority of my life now I've got 12 years single.

[@mikimclean3159]

I've been single for 11years and Its great ​@@amybowen5800

[@Brandy-yt9ko]

Daddy issues 😮😢

[@user-xl8kj4lg2r]

The whiplash I got from your comment vs your pfp lmao

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

That "Mother" should have got life too!! She excused and allowed that demon 😈 to hurt her child until she was gone!! No way she only received 6 years!! 😡😡😡 poor, poor baby! She didn't understand WHY she was being hurt constantly and NO ONE came to rescue or comfort her 💔😢🙏🏽❤️🕊🕊🕊 rest in Paradise baby girl, Nobody can hurt you anymore 💔

[@JustYourAvarageChicken]

Aww... Your words are so sweet...❤

[@Npcsarebecomingsfan]

pambeforethestorm9784, your comment was so true

[@SusanPowell-mt2ly]

and she'll be out in 3. disgusting

[@BoredZozo]

I got chills at the ‘my 2yo child has taken a bang to the head has gone limp and snoring.’ That’s not snoring, that’s agonal breathing 💔

[@mdmhosiewfong2054]

Poor little girl😭😭😭

[@Bettersucksaul]

Fucking sickening...

[@Hezabelle77]

That mother purposely kept leaving Lola with him because she WANTED him to hurt her. You will never convince me otherwise. That was premeditated murder.

[@natashka1982]

I agree

[@rileysnanny5166]

I agree

[@midnightmadness5307]

Prime example of a Mother who shouldn't be a Mother. May Lola Rest In Peace.

[@Trehlas]

@@MeganTheeCimmerian I would go so far as to say, she did see it... She just didn't care. It's easy to cry crocodile tears when things end up going not according to plan.

[@juliegrant9006]

For sure, all she cared about was that piece of crap man!

[@suzimonkey345]

He STILL hadn’t made the FREE telephone call, requesting a FREE ambulance, to take her to a FREE hospital, to receive FREE healthcare! WTF?!!? 🤬

[@pinkpixie6917]

Exactly hun what a pair of bastards x no credit on his phone is the worst excuse ever dumb arsed piece of shit 💩

[@aunicorninwv]

WTF indeed. He wanted to get away with it. Period.

[@Lilliz91]

Price is often just an excuse

[@sammiej.5526]

@@Lilliz91 they were not in the states. I believe they said this was in europe where healthcare for the most part doesn’t have a cost

[@sarahwillis4304]

Well then his mother covered for him for that cuz his mum should have known or told him you don't need credit for emergency calls and I would have done it soon as I saw the pictures or messages he would have been caught in the bathroom with the girl or something red handed trying to cover up shit. Surely you know if you have raised someone capable of harm or capable of commonly sense.

[@mgf7_]

Can we acknowledge the fact that the dog was put to sleep for no reason??

[@MacMyaa]

This family was really messed up, rip to the girl and dog ❤

[@M-zq2rs]

Wow, we've come to the point where dogs matter more than a dead child. What has become of society?

[@suroyaanjum1801]

The dog was another victim of the abuser

[@Violexie-wb7op]

That poor dog. She was probably like, THEY SAID I DID WHAT NOW? That murderer lied on an innocent doggie.

[@mgf7_]

@@BunnaySango animals are JUST as helpless as children you psychopath.

[@brose-bg3ks]

15:00 I’m sorry, she allowed this man to “cuddle and have alone time” nightly with her daughter and she didn’t even know his freaking birthday?! This woman is insane.

[@Chiffawndue]

“Buying her stuff she didn’t need.” This is a HUGE red flag to me. Adults will groom young victims to stay quiet by buying them toys….

[@dianadundidit5343]

Wait..So they euthanized an innocent animal at the WORD of a MURDERER with only PROOF OF INJURIES CAUSED BY HER MURDERER?? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!

[@Hiiiiiiiiieeee]

It makes sense, considering how stupid government officials tend to be. The fact that they didn’t immediately know this was abuse and still euthanized the dog shows they just don’t give AF.

[@caretoomuch9967]

Degrees and training does not mean they have common sense

[@Its.mollyd]

EXACTLY ​@@caretoomuch9967

[@cainmathewson1857]

Especially since they were already being held on murder charges against the same victim the dog is allegedly to have (again, only from the word of literally one of the defendants)

[@TheOfficialTarynTots]

I'm sure he abused the dog as well. It's sad the innocent dog was put down but at least it's free from the abuse forever now and is hopefully by Lola's side.

[@Karmitify]

"I'm not the devil" said the devil

[@tiggeez]

The devil always says they’re not the devil

[@space_cadet04]

The greatest trick the devil ever pulled, was convincing the world that he didn't exist. -Charles Baudelaire

[@user-xp9ev5bm4h]

Exactly & how discusting!

[@Refertech101]

@@space_cadet04 and the most gullible swallowed it when god claimed he was good as well, yet the devil had never lied

[@lisas8614]

Humans are way worse than the devil could ever be.

[@VerdictView]

Yea it sounds like the toddler’s “bad behavior” was a result of normal child behavior and a lack of parenting. I have a child the same age and could be called “cheeky,” is strong willed and independent. Those traits can be a good thing, as long as there is a parent who cares enough to correct and guide the child. Animals take better care of their babies. And what would it take to at least throw your trash in the garbage can? The state of that house is a form of child abuse in my opinion. Freaking worthless excuse for a mother. Her child did not have to die.

[@terryKessler42719]

She should have gotten life in prison also. She’s as guilty as he is.

[@normacook8325]

🎯 I raised a very strong willed child. When I was stressed by his behavior, I would remind myself that his personality would never let him be someone who followed the crowd into alcohol and drugs...guidance requires time & attention that so many don't want to invest in their children...😢

[@charliedeegan1598]

​@normacook8325 I'm a strong believer that a lot of parents want BABIES but not to have CHILDREN. How you treat them when they start becoming their own person is the difference.

[@Partyhatpossum]

@@charliedeegan1598you’re 100% correct. Lots of people can make it past the baby stage without any hiccups, once that little human starts having its own voice and feelings however, they can’t take it. It shows truly how shallow of a human you are if you cannot handle a small child resisting something, to the point where abuse seems like the better alternative.

[@normacook8325]

@charliedeegan1598 great point!

[@Tsubahi]

The children lived in filth with a battered young mother who keeps inviting abusive junkies into the house despite social workers being involved. 😐

[@Lucy-ym8ch]

To be fair, health visitors aren't social workers. Everyone sees a health visitor after having a baby. I don't understand why social services wasn't involved.

[@nostressjustcress-fr1uv]

Ikr. The health visitor was also complicit in this crime. She saw the state of the house. ​@@Lucy-ym8ch

[@wagashi]

Why was he taking pictures of all her injuries?? It almost sounds like he wanted to enjoy looking at them after. What a complete freak

[@brendagroff8478]

She only got 6 years for letting that devil murder her beautiful little daughter.

[@lindaarrington9397]

I guess the dog to they are both awful

[@gailnahorodny3618]

That supposedly called mother should have gotten at lease 25 years for bringing a man into their home just after meeting him for 3 days- And she hears a bang wakes up, he tells her to go back to sleep she just hit her head and she doesn’t check on her, she goes back to bed.. this is sickening to to me- I’m glad they took the other kids away from her. And I also hope she has nightmares every night about what she let the evil man do to her child. And as for him, I hope karma came to him the day those doors locked behind him in prison.. I am probably hurting more for that child than her own mother- I can’t stop crying..just thinking about that child crying out for her mother to help her.. and she never came!! 😢

[@MS-km4xp]

Emmm… imagine, a junkie texts you on FB, and you not just accept a DM request, but start a relationship with him while being a scared victim of DV 🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@zondracarter3022]

And let him move in the next day is crazy 😅

[@terryKessler42719]

And allowing him to move into your home just 4 days after meeting him. She’s as guilty as he is.

[@MS-km4xp]

@@terryKessler42719 this one is not ok even with not a junky 🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@mikimclean3159]

Exactly 😮

[@ayyo_yayyo3822]

And claiming you felt he was going to be your "protector".... Yeah ok 🙄

[@Clovaco]

How did the mom sleep through hours of torture on the poor baby? You can’t not hear that!

[@michellesartori6695]

You put earphones on, turn the music up, perhaps take some form of alcoholic and herbal relaxant and just lay there because you don't hear the screaming!

[@altaisrs2857]

Either she was drugged or she heard and chose to ignore.

[@Kiss_My_Aspergers]

I have slept through fire alarms and _actual fire trucks_ showing up to the apartment complex I lived in at the time. You'd be shocked at what people can sleep through - especially when you add medications & possibly illegal drugs into the situation! In all fairness, I've been on Trazodone for several years now for my insomnia, so it's possible just one fewer prescription and I would wake up more easily. But I'm also on medications that can make me sleepy, so it's possible it wouldn't have made a difference! Who knows... Regardless, she woke up at least once during the torture session, so no matter what happened or didn't happen up to that point, she ran out of excuses *right there.*

[@alexandradaniele]

She didn't give a damn about her kids. She invited someone she didn't know who was obviously abusing her kids. And let it happen.

[@thevalorousdong7675]

She didn't care when he pushed the baby into traffic, so why would she start to care at home? She's just as culpable imo

[@SocialContraire]

A warning for all those absent daddies. You can be a savior and a safe haven to those poor forgotten babies .

[@JuMiKu]

Do you think they care? They care even less than this excuse of a mother.

[@SocialContraire]

@@JuMiKu out of sight out of mind - in sight different story - sad but true

[@mollysmith605]

They don't give a shit. Who tf leaves another man to raise their child? This "warning" lands on deaf ears of the missing.

[@glasperle77]

@@mollysmith605 they have reasons? my dad also left when i was 4 but took me in when i got 18 away from my abusive mother . and he cared more than she ever did. but some time it needs time to realize or to raise living standards. to take custody of a child if you can't afford it or you have to be forced living with someone you start to hate (mother) is no option. So this is a whole generalized BS to say they are not caring at all. But I agree. that's why people should make (no joke) a test if 2 are capable of a child and want to share a bed together. that would prevent them from "producing" kids they dont want.

[@Bettersucksaul]

​@@glasperle77 You think most of them are escaping abusive wives? Lmfao it's because they don't want the child or they don't care enough to

[@ox0cherrybomb0xo]

Able bodied young man that is physically able to work but wants to stay home and take care of your kids = the biggest loudest red flag, no goos can come of it.

[@janerecluse4344]

Yeah, I can imagine a few contexts where he isn't trouble, but they're very particular!

[@rexthelegend3180]

I get what you’re saying and I think I agree, but also I don’t think wanting to be a stay at home dad is a red flag.

[@RedexTwo]

⁠@@rexthelegend3180I would agree. I see it the same as women wanting to be stay at home moms. I personally think it can be a green flag, but of course it could be a red flag too. Just like everything really, it depends on the context and intentions.

[@Meeshilin_Man]

​@@rexthelegend3180 Wanting to stay home with kids you just met for no reason IS a big red flag. This comment's talking about men who aren't the father of their girlfriend's children.

[@emilymartin5806]

He killed her daughter and her dog. Despicable. I know she was probably stuck in a cycle of abuse, but even if you lose your self worth you still have a child that deserves better. Rest peacefully Lola and Jessie, you deserved so much better. Can’t believe the monster is going to get parole.

[@DenaH-nomarkleneeded]

This just kills me. An innocent baby, a blameless pet dog, both lose their lives because an ignorant, neglectful, idiot mother could not see what was right before her eyes? I've experienced DV; as soon as I felt my children were at risk, I found my way out. Not easy, we lacked finances, but my children and pets were safe.

[@maloryj7165]

That's just the thing. I have such empathy for women who struggle to leave abusive relationships but after you have a kid, everything changes. That means the mom has to change too. You get yourself together and get out or you send that child somewhere they can be safe. Those are the acceptable options.

[@missmissy_90]

When bf grabbed mom's arm she was going to leave him. She didn't yet how did she not know how abusive he was to daughter. SHE KNEW 😢

[@novembershanghai]

​@@missmissy_90 I think so too!! How could she not?! Toddlers are wild, no doubt....but they can fall and bump into things and not get broken or bruised up!!! If a child suddenly has all these obvious injuries it should be crystal clear that it's not just the rambunctious toddler!!!

[@missmissy_90]

@@novembershanghai Absolutely. Over 100 bruises at that.

[@rabbit0877]

Mother is the biggest monster in this case. The psychopath only got away with what SHE allowed and enabled him to.

[@sqrley]

Rabbit: you are absolutely correct

[@natashka1982]

Yup

[@warrioremperor6320]

Mother is a psychopath too no way she isn’t

[@jennyhaslayer1396]

I mean im pretty sure the biggest monster is the man who made a childs eyes explode, but idk. I guess there just isnt any way to say "the mother is a horrible person"

[@kendralinkins9546]

💯 correct!😢

[@robertgamsby51]

The mom has to be on drugs too, that is the only explanation. That girl had more "accidents" under him care in a month than my kids had thier whole lives. That should be such a huge red flag.

[@recklessamantha9827]

Right..and she slept for 12 hours

[@kikitcat5]

Who cares at this point..when she went to jail she was drug tested.What they should have really looked into was if the poor little girl was SA'd. That is an actual important issue.

[@yvonnedeboer7535]

Yes she used meth with him.

[@melindamcclain835]

My mom couldnt be without a man and put her alcoholic husband before me. Both were extremely abusive. She never protected me.

[@patriciaroysdon9540]

I am so sorry that you had to go through that. 😢

[@savitaram3975]

Im a recording alcoholic and on my worst drunk days, my girls were still well taken care of. I hate when people use drugs and alcohol as an excuse.

[@Sheric6762]

Wild wolves would have cared for these children better

[@janerecluse4344]

Mother wolves basically never do this shit, and father wolves are loving and attentive, so yes.

[@greenghoul157]

Wolves are actually really good mothers, they've been known to adopt human children

[@jaimeraworth5316]

They really would have, same with Fostering, almost better to let wolves raise them then some of the Forster parents there are or just parents in genetalb

[@berrymint6384]

especially since are HAMRLESS so horrible comparison but ok

[@elsleepy9396]

I am so horrified. The "snoring" that happened when Lola was beat unconsious, is called agonal breathing. Agonal breathing is basically when the brain fully shuts down and only the brainstem is active, keeping the body alive by breathing. That poor sweet girl did not deserve that one fucking bit. I am so so horrified 😭😭

[@TasneemMitha-ug4px]

how could a mother betray her child in such a deciteful way

[@michelle7377]

Unfortunately she's not a mother. A mother wouldn't betray her children.

[@TasneemMitha-ug4px]

@@michelle7377 facts 😪very heart breaking

[@LindaGrey-wm9uc]

Believe it. I had the mother from hell...there are no words......

[@michelle7377]

@@LindaGrey-wm9uc I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope life is being good to you now.❤️❤️

[@LindaGrey-wm9uc]

@michelle7377 thank you for your comment! Yes, it's been a bit of a haul, but today I am happy, enjoying life, my crafts and wee dogs bring me joy, and I now enjoy meeting people! I appreciate your comment. Hope your day is a beautiful one.

[@SiobhanMaddox]

I’m from Wales and just wanted to add that ‘Flying Start’ is such a helpful resource. Any child (whether their parents work or not) can attend for 2 ½ hours every weekday, following their 2nd birthday and they offer a lot of services; speech & language, behaviour techniques, hygiene, parenting programmes and just general help/support & advice. I chose to enrol my son because he was born severely premature (29 weeks) and he was and still is an only child. It’s sad that Sinead didn’t take the opportunity to use a services that most cannot access 😔

[@SiobhanMaddox]

I just realised that Lola was born 30th September 2017 just 3 days before my son on 3rd October 2017. And Flying Start did cease all sessions during the pandemic. My son is 6 ½ now, and thriving; as should Lola be 🥺 Stories like these are the reason I’ve stayed single for 7 years since my pregnancy; I trust nobody. Meanwhile his ‘dad’ is into his 4th or 5th relationship and couldn’t understand why I was upset that he chose to introduce his new partner to our child after just 3 weeks 🤨 your child’s safety has to be paramount or you’re just a bad parent.

[@Sexsymbolsonparade]

Unfortunately not all kids in Wales can attend flying start. It depends on your post code.

[@NorCalTC]

She had this dude living with her and she didn’t even know his birthday!? Smfh

[@KaileyB616]

The fact that cps just stopped during covid is ridiculous.

[@yvonnedeboer7535]

Everywhere was an increase of child abuse because of that!

[@Refertech101]

the great covid hysteria, it was a test run to how much they could get away with.

[@mleh2512]

The name Lola was derived from the Spanish word Dolores, which means sorrow. It is meant to carry the message that one must encounter pain and suffering in order to truly experience joy in life. How sad that Lola’s final experiences in this earth were the literal translation of her name.

[@ASlightlyTwistedFemale]

💔💔💔

[@MoDavI-sl7iy]

😢😢😢😢

[@JuntosXlaLibertadMileyBuIIrich]

Dolores is plural so it is sorrow but also can be physical pain

[@daft_j]

I feel bad for her. She didn't deserve to endure pain that could've been prevented by the adults around her. Tbh, her grandparents should've gotten custody. Also RIP to her dog Jessie! They deserved better

[@annecoyle5811]

That so called mother should have gotten a full life sentence for allowing this to happen

[@juliegrant9006]

You are so right! 😢

[@marcelalopez9053]

At mininum spayed

[@andreasaylor6831]

AMEN WHY COULDN'T WE BE THE JUDGE???!!!!

[@diane5893]

@@marcelalopez9053exactly. How come such people are always so fertile

[@theonyszidat3983]

Stupid father never checked up on his child, then has all these loving words afterwards! He should also go to jail for child abandonment!!

[@MrHemi4spd]

You discount that the system pushes fathers away from their children. Mothers are always the best stewards of children..🙄

[@carriemcginnis4497]

The father can still be involved in his child's life. Her father chose not to. Where was her grandma or anyone else that claimed to love that little girl? ​@MrHemi4spd

[@MrHemi4spd]

@carriemcginnis4497 Have you been through the meat grinder known as family law.? Grandparents have no rights and have lto piggyback their access through the parent. If that parent is being alienated, then good luck to any of the extending family seeing the child. PA is far more prevalent than people think.

[@doitnowinaminute]

He did - he lived local but once kyle got incolced his contact with lola was stopped - they argued a lot over fb messenger.

[@MrHemi4spd]

@carriemcginnis4497 nobody has parental rights other than the parent. Grandparents have to piggyback their access on the parents access. I assume you've never been through family court?

[@christineballard8444]

Where was her biological father during all this time bc if he was seeing her regularly, surely he would have questioned all the bruising and cuts

[@mar-nyan]

I feel for victims of DV, but I believe there’s a point at which you no longer are just a victim. There’s just no way this woman didn’t notice the red flags. She saw them, and she chose to ignore them. This was her fault, and it’s insane to me that she got such a short sentence for basically allowing this random man to abuse her child.

[@hissforthelizardgirl]

@@gooch151516domestic violence

[@charliedeegan1598]

You can be a victim and a perpetrator. But in the end, that second one is what shows what kind of person you are.

[@Redvelvetkuma]

No, it was BECAUSE she was a victim and not taking responsibility for her trauma that this happened. Doing similar things she did when she was DV to cope with/survive the situation. At some point, you have to exit survival mode and protect and care for yourself in the aftermath, because she didn't do the necessary healing work, she endangered her children.

[@jennyhaslayer1396]

Broad don't look like she got it bad from him at all, where was the evidence to support that? Gross that anyone would say that this made any kind of sense, this lady didn't care bout her kid, she wasnt a scared victim, this doesnt just 'happen' to people who never learned to protect themselves, yall are disgusting for real.

[@jennyhaslayer1396]

​@@Redvelvetkumabecause she is a selfish l0ser, her child is dead. This does not just happen to people bc they never learned to stand up for themselves in domestic situations, you are GROSS for saying that!!!!!

[@BlueFlamer-vq1iv]

The insanity that this punk tried to threaten the help and fight the parents of the childs mom and the stupid woman still stood by him. Disgusting he got such a short sentence

[@hannahroyster]

RIGHT THOUGH LIKE THATS FUCKING DISGUSTING

[@hannahroyster]

Fucking stupid ass woman, I can’t believe there’s a bunch of women out there that are like this piece of shit mother that ALLOWS their kid to get brutally abused by a man they’re in a relationship with, like, HOW IN THE FUCK ARE YOU GONNA LET YOUR POS BOYFRIEND ABUSE YOURRRR KID??? And YOU DIDN’T DO SHIT ABOUT IT?? Makes me infuriated

[@WakeyWakeyEggsandBakey]

28 years is the minimum and it's unlikely he will be released. Whether that be because of prison justice or because he won't be deemed safe to release I don't know but knowing how the prisons here in the UK work (i used to work in a medium security prison where chomos had sudden falls downstairs resulting in paralysis and such) I'm erring towards the former.. I for one live in hope that's to be the case.

[@BlueFlamer-vq1iv]

@@WakeyWakeyEggsandBakey I recall multiple murderer documentaries from the UK I've viewed were the killers have gotten out super early. Look up the Monster of Worcester you'll be disgusted.

[@mungethekpopstan]

It's so heartbreaking seeing all these parents harm their children and CPS failing them

[@user-mx5gl8nz4o]

right & cps so quick to take the kids of a parents that care & give them to a sicko

[@mungethekpopstan]

@@user-mx5gl8nz4o Exactly. It's disturbing

[@mandurahmum123]

Cps tried to help but the mother lied to them. She was offered help but she declined it. This is the mothers fault- she let a man move in that she did not know. She allowed him to babysit and ignored the warnings. She was a lazy parent who failed her children

[@melissakelly9629]

Cps is too busy persecuting good parents who do not Vax etc to be bothered protecting children actually in danger

[@user-mx5gl8nz4o]

@@mandurahmum123 they shoulda been on them like they be on them parents that actually care & try. it seems they always turn a blind eye to the horrible parents

[@lindamishalanie5593]

Shame on mom for dismissing the warnings. I will never understand these desperate woman looking for any man. She's just as guilty

[@vampiricvitya]

what makes this channel stand out to me is that it focuses on making sure that the victims are humanized and respected, and that the families are heard. it's a really good way to tackle heavy topics happening to real people because it doesn't turn the tragedy into a spectacle. a breath of fresh air tbh

[@NotIfWhen]

How are you a loving attentive parent from a distance? Never ever step away from your children. It opens the door for the devils to come in.

[@tonisams6934]

My first thought too. Where was he this whole time? He only gets involved in the end. Weird how he could miss her so much yet wasn’t around at all to know she was being hurt.

[@beautykilled5623]

Makes me so mad. Deadbeat parents should share equal blame as the parent who stands by and let's it happen.

[@anad.6896]

It could be possible that the mother was keeping Lola away from her father. It happens more than you think

[@beautykilled5623]

@anad.6896 yea duh but the court is there for a reason. If it wasn't worth him to fight for his rights then he's a deadbeat. My ex is a deadbeat and claims to girls he likes that I deny his rights but I got court papers proving I asked to discuss visitation and he denied and waived all rights to that. I asked on purpose cuz I knew he was a deadbeat and wanted the proof if needed in the future.

[@wreathofpalmaria]

his ex probably wouldn't let him near the children.

[@terryKessler42719]

All these adults failed this baby. It makes me sick to hear these people talk about how they’ll miss this little girl. Where were they when she was being beaten and shaken to death? This mother should have gotten life in prison because she brought this monster into her house and allowed him to be around her children. All these people are guilty for failing this child.

[@peggypeggy4137]

There were so many red flags here. For one, don't let this loser move in after 3 days. Then she lets him babysit her kids alone. He was a sadist and a psychopath but she ignored every sign. The biological dad should have taken her.

[@beautykilled5623]

​@peggypeggy4137 but instead he chose to be a deadbeat. To me he's just as guilty as the mum.

[@angelic4112]

Totally agree! She never visited them and they never noticed she had bruises and cuts on her. I've gotten into arguments for my niece because she needed new shoes as her old ones were too tight on her, and yet these monsters weren't aware of the bruises this little girl had? What about the visits with the father and grandparents? No one bathed her and saw that she had marks on her body? Very selfish people who really didn't care and now want to act as if they were actually concerned when they didn't really care at all 😞

[@MishaThePolly_Therian]

This case is sicker than most in my opinion. With the fact that he took pics while he was beating her has me think he wasn't even angry when he did this. It seems like he did it for fun! The fact that he kept her up with him at late at night makes me think SA may have happened as well. This guy was 1 sick MF!

[@KaileyB616]

I think he SA'd her too, unfortunately

[@beautykilled5623]

Definitely yet that isn't covered? Odd

[@KahootaShoota]

I kinda assumed molestation might have been involved because honestly..it doesn't seem past him. Sinead and Kyle can go f themselves. Also where the hell was the dad?

[@jwithington9347]

That crossed my mind too, should have been investigated further so our joke of a justice system could at least add some more onto his sentence​@beautykilled5623

[@kikitcat5]

I completely agree. They must have checked it out on the autopsy....however HE BATHED HER before waking the egg donor up....

[@Piicturepurrfect]

“She messaged him repeatedly” FOR 13 minutes. But didn’t think once to call 911 herself?

[@leahcompton2522]

What pisses me off are these fathers. So many of them have ZERO relationship with their child, they scream how awful it is when a new bf kills their beloved child. Yes, it is awful! But where were you? Where were your visits? Your weekends? Your "turn" with your child, when you could have saved her?

[@pjrando3213]

Good point, Leah.

[@user-vq5cw4ve3n]

Yeah people want to put all the blame on the terrible mother but where’s the accountability from the father?

[@RachelleWillCallous]

Who would hand the mother a piece of her child's tongue!?!??

[@susanh1292]

She wasn't a Mother!

[@kentuckywildcatgobigblue7190]

A psychopath

[@kentuckywildcatgobigblue7190]

​@@susanh1292I agree

[@pandabandit5458]

A narcissist who just wants a reaction. What a sick monster

[@Tsubahi]

That is horrifying! 😨

[@DKF_oli]

Why was he so obsessed with taking photos and videos, making evidence of what he’d done??

[@jayce1850]

Right? He had some kind of weird thing about that I’m sure, its obvious what that behavior implies.

[@ziigiiziig]

That's what I'm wondering. Sounds like a fetish and he was enjoying it.

[@ZFern9390]

He probably enjoys watching it over and over. Sadomasochist. Why else would he take that risk of having that evidence. He is getting a huge payoff by watching it repeatedly. Sick F @#$@#!

[@Trehlas]

That's just the stupidity of current-day. People see an accident, they pull out their phones... to record... not to call help.

[@jennyhaslayer1396]

​@@Trehlas wow 😂 youre slow as hell if you Believe that that applies here 😂 take extra care with who you allow with your fam, youre gullible as hell!

[@SummerSummerL]

Both her eyes were swollen completely shut when paramedics arrived 💔 Also the fact that his first thought was to send a video of her to his mum… she knew way more that she let on

[@cainmathewson1857]

Ive never heard of the cops keeping people in jail due to community outrage. People must have been pissssssssssssed off at these two

[@badilishasmart5071]

that woman is insanely slow! because there’s no way!! she only complained when he would hit her but wouldn’t say anything when he’d do it to her daughter 🤯🤯

[@shirleythompson8251]

Disgusting monster's. There's no way it didn't cross her mind that he was intentionally hurting her child. She preferred to have a viciously cruel boyfriend than none at all, so turned a blind eye to the abuse. Selfish mother 🤬🤬🤬 As for her boyfriend's mother she needs to look deep into her own soul and accept a large amount of blame too 🤨

[@ThePinsay]

Absolute scumbags doesn't cover it!!

[@sarahleask2478]

He has a father as well. Why blame just the mother?

[@ShionAkasuki]

​@@sarahleask2478they're not she's mentioned both

[@user-vq5cw4ve3n]

I know the mothers did wrong but why do i feel like you’re blaming them more than holding the man accountable for killing a child…

[@user-vq5cw4ve3n]

@@sarahleask2478it’s misogyny. Anything a man does, people will find a way to put the blame on women because grown men cant be held accountable for their actions 🤷‍♀️ (the mother was wrong in this case but people seem more focused on her rather than the man who killed the baby)

[@britzene]

That poor baby. and the dog. Idk why they put the dog down. Dangerous dogs bite, they don't push children down the stairs like that, and if they do, its an accident. Who ever made the choice clearly wasn't thinking.

[@michellesartori6695]

They were thinking but they didn't GAF!

[@jivalucia3916]

Another senseless death of 2 innocent beings. I didn't know you could put a dog down for being jumpy and rambunctious (even if that story was even actually true but it wasn't)...Maybe Re-home the dog or even a shelter, but why kill the dog? RIP Lola and Jessie.

[@altaisrs2857]

They could've easily waited until the autopsy results were ready. But to put the poor dog into a shelter for the time being was too much of an inconvenience to them, I guess.

[@juneburris5550]

He played her to get to her daughter and so many signs of abuse 😭 Poor Lola 😞😭

[@SlimmBeauty89]

Why didn’t the mom call the police? That whole family is weird and should not have children with them at all.

[@candacesmith6058]

HE shoved her baby into a busy roadway and she decided to stay with him and LET HIM STILL WATCH THEM???? They are equally responsible for what happened to the kid.

[@Jow4396]

I cannot bear to hear the ending of these stories, mentioning how upset the family members are.... Where were YOU???!!!!! YOU failed her too 😠

[@despacito377]

Exactly!!!! Where was the dad ????

[@discardedroses]

That's what I wondered too. Also, the woman that saw the baby had a black eye, why didn't she report that?

[@DriedVix]

I literally went to JAIL for my kid as soon as I even SUSPECTED possible abuse from her FATHER. It was only briefly and my dauhgter and I are happily together and away from him completely with sister. The fact some women can allow it to go as far as this.....a penis is never worth it. You always have the chance to protect.

[@shirleywong9428]

Protection over penis . Everytime

[@kikitcat5]

They put you in jail for protecting your daughter?? Seems on brand for them! Let me guess...US?

[@janerecluse4344]

I really wanna buy you a drink. Well done!

[@deborahfay102]

Who took care of your child when you were in jail?

[@breeholland7836]

That's a weird question to ask I'm sure this person has a family​@@deborahfay102

[@aftermidnight4867]

It sounds like this little girl and her mom had a caseworker that cared, but the ding dong mom lied! Lied!?! The mom sure should have gotten more time! She was an accomplice in my opinion. Turned her back on this poor child, her other children, just so she could shack up and get fiddled. She’s worse than the perpetrator. So glad she lost her other kids!

[@BossLady-nb1pi]

The lady should've believed her eyes.not dirty but filthy sign

[@jalifritz8033]

@@BossLady-nb1pithat was during the pandemic sadly case workers weren’t allowed to visit families to stop the spread of the virus.

[@user-li3rx3sm7b]

Just this morning is was watching my 18 and 13 year old sleeping! We just never know how blessed we are!!! Thank you for your love of children and giving them a voice

[@gracie4200]

He said that he's not the devil 🤔 NO, you're his child.

[@chrismartin5450]

I shudder to think what else that poor baby went through 😢. And the mother knew and allowed it!

[@pjrando3213]

Yes after hearing to the end, how could the mother not see the horrendous injuries.

[@rikkimuller7322]

Annnnd this is why I’m scared to date and bring my kid around anyone as everyone can hide behind a mask and they are a monster under that mask. I don’t understand how boyfriends can do this to their gfs kids. I really hope the gf had no clue.

[@DegoJen]

It is SO comforting reading your comment bc I'm exactly the same. My son's dad passed 4 years ago, I allowed 1 man into our life for a couple years and that breakup was just as difficult on my boy as his dad dying would have been, had he been old enough to understand that loss. I'm all good being single and raising him alone since it guarantees situations like this cannot exist.

[@Brittanyisbrutal]

Me to

[@Hatbox948]

It can be biological dad's too. My daughter's father SA abused her after our divorce.

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

​@Hatbox948 omg I'm so sorry . I agree with you 💯 on that. I don't trust my husband's parents. They are weird . Thankfully they live an hour away. I noticed alot of people who have power get away with abuse more

[@mandurahmum123]

The mother knew but did not care.

[@jacobyshaddix32]

Monsters I tell you. Both of them are. Rest in peace sweet baby and Jessie.

[@hystericalpeanut2844]

Is this What Happens when your Parents Scum to the Dark Side?

[@sarahmurphy8030]

I feel physically sick poor Lola didn't stand a chance in that home..Rest in peace Lola no more pain 😢💔

[@mamab5737]

Are we just going to pretend that the deadbeat father who cried about his sorrow couldn't have possibly prevented this if he'd been active in his childs life? He just gets a pass??? The story i just heard involves THREE sick and neglectful parents.

[@Lyeah73]

Wow the carriage ride really hit my heart. I can’t imagine how much she would have loved that in life 💔 what a beautiful gesture for a little princess. RIP baby girl.

[@spod414]

My mom was single from the day my dad left (I was 5) until she passed away (when I was 20) .. I'd always known her to say she wouldn't want to go out with anyone until I (the youngest) was old enough to know what's what. She protected us at the 'cost' of her own 'happiness' although she would always tell us she was happy just having her children around her 🥰

[@rabbitsonjupiter6824]

What a wonderful, caring Mum you had! This is what being a parent means. These men who actively seek out desperate single mothers are despicable.

[@spod414]

@@rabbitsonjupiter6824 Thank you for taking the time to say so, that's very much appreciated 😊 ... Yes,.. She truly was Amazing! .. the epitome of the word "Mother".. she reminded me of a mother hen with her wings open, ready to wrap around to us to snuggle in for safety, comfort and warmth. It's heartbreaking for me that sadly my children never got to have the experience of having her in their lives .. I hope that I can fill a part of the void she left behind to give them an idea of how/who she was. If I could be just half of the lady/mother she was; I'd be content 🙂

[@rabbitsonjupiter6824]

@@spod414 I'm so sorry that your children never got to meet your Mum, I'm sure she would be very proud of her grandchildren. You sound like a great Mum too, giving your children so much love and nurturing. When we are young we don't realise how lucky we are to be born to loving and caring parents; it's just the way it is and we don't know any different. It's only when we get older that we start to understand that not everyone is so fortunate ♥️

[@hereweare2031]

She's smart

[@spod414]

@@rabbitsonjupiter6824 Thank you, I appreciate you taking your time to respond with your very kind comments. You're absolutely right, when we are small, we kinda do take things for granted. I know I did. I never gave a thought to losing my Mother.. it just wasn't in my thoughts. I guess I took it for granted that she would be around longer than she was. It certainly gives me food for thought when I'm spending time with my family,.. I don't verbalize it because I don't want to be morbid but I want to be sure to make memories so they have some things to look back on when I'm no longer around. 💕

[@lizevans5559]

Can't believe that a mother would allow anyone to treat her children like this. Shocking!

[@JustAnAngelx]

I don't understand how someone who clearly has PTSD from DV can trust someone so quickly, and ignore every warning sign possible. And then GO BACK TO HIM after he showed who he really was.

[@gointothedogs4634]

When will mothers of young children, and fathers too, realize that your primary responsibility is to your children, no matter how much you long for a partner? This happens far too much to not know the dangers of bringing a stranger into your home with your kids. It even happened to a friend of mine who caught her new husband taking photos of her Seven-yr. old in the shower. Please WISE UP.

[@hollylewis8884]

How many times did Lola cry out for her mother I wonder? How many times did her mother hear or see something and just ignore it? mothers and fathers who allow a relationship to come in between the safety of your child you no longer deserve to be called a parent. You’re not a parent you’re not a mom you’re not a dad you are a matter fact I think you’re worse because you’re allowing it that is unacceptable, I have a two year-old grandson who is on 124 seven he gets into more than my other grandson. He breaks more he smashes more he spills more. He throws more he more but he doesn’t get punished anymore than the other. He doesn’t get spankings and beatings and starved and cold showers, he doesn’t lose his bed. He doesn’t have to sleep in a closet on the floor. He doesn’t get tied up. He doesn’t get beat with objects. He isn’t starved. I just don’t know what to say about these cases. I just don’t know what to say.

[@EilishAdeline]

She didn't know his dob? That's like one of the first things I ask. This woman had to have been on substances too, clearly.

[@elainashelley1636]

How didn't she know the person you're with dob. I haven't dated in a long time because I'm married, but I know everyone's birthday and last name that are around my family.

[@zondracarter3022]

​@@elainashelley1636okay same here

[@EilishAdeline]

She obviously knew nothing about him except his drugs of choice and thought he would be a great role model for 3 toddler girls.

[@elainashelley1636]

@rebeccabyrne3236 she was getting high and didn't care. She is even more guilty than him. If I found out someone was dangerous, I would not allow that person by my family. I don't care if I "loved" that person because blood is thicker than water.

[@EilishAdeline]

@elainashelley1636 I was cringing every time it sd she went back. Like that baby was SO close to being alive today. I was a single mom of 4, anyone I was with wasn't even allowed to tell them to do a chore.

[@LizS.0526]

He looks like such a creep!! My heart breaks for these children who go thru this

[@Stereophonicsobsessed]

He does 🤮

[@Jayyy048]

Woah, this story is just insane. Who puts their dog to sleep based on someone else’s accusations???? Who lets someone stay in their home that is obviously hurting their child???? Really???? Just crazy…

[@breannahogeland-sg3kp]

That’s not “ snoring “ it’s called the death rattle it happens right before death 💀

[@emilyharris6029]

This happened just a short distance from me, the whole community came together for this precious little one. It has tore Pembrokeshire apart. Great attempt at our Welsh names guys xxxx

[@rhondanewman3849]

I am not sure why these young moms think that it is ok to meet a man, move in with them and allow them to be alone with a child unable to express themselves, all wishing a week or two. I was divorced and became a single mom right before I gave birth to my third child and there is no way I would allow anyone, male or female, that I had just met in the last month near my children. My heart aches for these children.

[@janerecluse4344]

It's utter madness. I have to assume they don't love their kids, and/or are utterly brainwashed.

[@LokiMartin]

It's because our society places too much emphasis on being in a relationship and treats you like a pariah if you're single. I cannot tell you how many times my own mother has said derogatory things about me and two of my cousins (one male and one female) because we are still single and not with anyone. She once asked me to my face if there was something wrong with my male cousin because he hasn't had a girlfriend and hasn't had sex. We as a society need to do better and erase the stigma that there's something wrong with you if you're single and you *need* to be in a relationship.

[@rhondanewman3849]

@@LokiMartin you are so right. It is the same if you have a relationship, have a child, then get out of that relationship for some reason. I think, even in this new age, that people think you have to be in a relationship if there is a child, regardless of how you feel. I am so sorry that you have felt the hard push to be in a relationship. This should be something that you can relax about.

[@LokiMartin]

@@rhondanewman3849 You're right as well. When I was very young, my parents separated and so many people pressured my mom to get a divorce and start dating again. She eventually started dating again and met a "nice" man. Things were okay for a little while, until one night when we were eating dinner. I refused to eat my peas. The guy got up, forced my mouth open and started trying to shovel the peas into my mouth. My mom got up out of her chair, tore me away from him and left the house. She later went back with my Uncle to get our belongings. I'm so grateful to this day that she didn't just decide to stay with the man because who knows what could have happened.

[@NicoleMarie.]

The guys mother never thought to call the police after the first round of photos? All this evidence and they believed him and killed the dog. Horrible

[@nsmccoy2345]

This didn’t happen overnight. Many are to blame for this child’s death!!!!!

[@sammiej.5526]

The mom starting a new relationship within a few hours is crazy. What’s more crazy is her letting him move in a few days after.

[@Khi420]

Anybody else kept saying to themselves how can someone be this gullible until they seen what she looked like

[@KaileyB616]

Honestly, yes

[@susanh1292]

It seems like she was letting Kyle raise Lola. It seems like he was with her more than the Mother. Why did he spend so much time with her? SMDH

[@mamatried925]

yeah my same thoughts

[@staceyraymond7526]

I think the mom knew he was abusing her and the mom made him watch her all the time because she wanted Lola gone. I think he was doing other things to the kids as well. (S.A)

[@vudujellybean]

I really don't understand how her biological father could be "so distraught" that his biological daughter is dead, but seemingly couldn't give two shits about her when she was actually alive?

[@KrystalAri]

Money, donations

[@badilishasmart5071]

18:05 he’s clearly enjoying the abuse that’s why he’s recording & taking pictures, so he can watch them later on and look back on the damage he’s done.

[@mdmhosiewfong2054]

This is clearly a psychopath😠😠😠

[@Sweet_Tooth_Art]

Why did she need to do a background check? He literally got physical with her let alone the children!

[@shannonricketts4628]

Absolutely Revolting...The so called mother was every bit as bad knowing what he was doing to all of her children...Both of these monsters deserved to be locked away forever🤬RIP little Angel🙏

[@jackiehoward7300]

These stories are so heartbreaking. They make me extremely angry as well. As a child abuse and neglect survivor, I remember how disheartening it was to not be believed or heard. I wish CPS and other child welfare agencies would get their act together.

[@ZFern9390]

CPS ~ Can't Protect Shit!

[@angelic4112]

Wishing you healing and hoping you have a strong support system to help you.

[@jillianchristian145]

Everyone failed that baby

[@ronaldalarsen8925]

So , Where was Daddy Daniel ,during the months of Mothers’ “ care “?

[@TheMiseryMachine]

Probably at the pub.

[@prayingwarrioressaminah9798]

Rest Eternally in Heaven, Princess Lola 😩🥺😭💔... Wow smh...

[@bellatorres3969]

This is so fucking upsetting. Like how freaking dense can one fucking be. Since he came into her life her daughter kept popping up with bruises smfh. She definitely allowed the shit to happen.

[@Ella7194]

The mother was complicit with the C A. She was well aware of what was going on. I think she allowed it so she could keep her man. She traded the kid for love/sex/attention from the kid's killer. Mom needed 15yrs no parole, no contact and loss of parental rights.

[@johaysom1496]

I still can’t believe these women leave their precious babies with these sort of monsters 🤬

[@jenniferbromley7868]

They put the poor dog down on HIS word?! They didn’t HAVE to do anything. Bad enough an innocent child was killed by that POS-but authorities just perpetuated the horror by murdering an innocent dog….