Mom Said We Shouldn't Celebrate Our 8th Anniversary Bc It Will Hurt My Sister, Who Divorced Thrice

[@tracygardner6318]

I can’t believe OP sister took it out on a little kid just because she does not have a good relationship with her sister OP sister is truly disgusting

[@AutismTakesOn]

Indeed. Even if OP was solely responsible for ALL of Anya's failures, even if OP did the most DISGUSTING THING IMAGINABLE, that STILL wouldn't justify Anya's actions towards OP's son, because OP and her son are two different people. Nobody should have to pay for the actions of someone else. Not to mention that OP did what her sister asked, and then Anya failed to hold up her end of the deal.

[@runeingebretsen8378]

the sister got her behavior so to speak from the mother,and op got it from the father.

[@meanmsval]

I would’ve gone no contact with the mother after my father passed.

[@dianafrazier2830]

There is something seriously wrong with sister. Blessings to Dad for taking his last breath to change his will and donate blood. Should send a little message to her employer. She is lower than low. 😻😁😻

[@runeingebretsen8378]

i would have told her boss what she did,and what happened to the father because of it,and asked him to fire her.

[@nickwatts13]

He was a great father and great grandfather 😢😢😢😢 despite everything he was going through he made sure his grandson was ok

[@lucillepfundt6757]

Op go ahead and celebrate every anniversary while you still can. I lost my husband 8 years ago and this year it would've been our 30th anniversary. I still celebrate our anniversary even though Larry is not here. Don't let anyone tell you to cancel your celebration just because your sibling can't keep a husband.

[@daishawilliams8301]

Op I'm proud of you and your husband for helping people in need your mother and sister are entitled jerk's who only care about their desires, I'm also glad that your dying father helped save your son's life and karma got the sister by not being in the will.😊

[@tracygardner6318]

I’m sorry your father passed away. He’s the only one who did the right thing in your family. 0P by saving your son.

[@girl1213]

OP's sister: I got my revenge! OP's father: And that's all you're gonna get!

[@robingibson6561]

I cannot believe the sister could be so f'ed up. WTAF!!! To make such a commitment knowing she had no intentions to follow through is beyond evil!!! To risk a child's life just to get her job back and to get back at her sister is insanely cruel. OP should put her behavior on social media, there will be no coming back from that. And their mother is just as guilty and karma will be coming for her as well. OP, just sit and wait.

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Call her employer and let the know you were extorted

[@mpmansell]

And that her actions lead to their father's death

[@KarlaGarcia-ld6mv]

When I was donating my blood for the first time they found out my sister, mom, and I had a very rare blood type. Eventually my mom had to stop donating her blood due to old age and my sister had to stop for a short period because she had my niece. Then I had to stop for 2 years because of I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I had to wait for 5 years so I can donate again. Then two of my other aunts have the same blood as me, my sister and my mom.

[@tracygardner6318]

You can tell who the golden child is.

[@seshasatyakrishna5016]

Atleast the golden child got nothing in the end

[@franhunne8929]

Mom's golden child. Dad is not up for that!

[@kevinphillip4462]

​@@seshasatyakrishna501626:04

[@CareyBilley]

OP go no contact with any family member that can't support your important milestone, perhaps if family didn't coddle your sister so much she might be able to keep a relationship. Never light yourself on fire to keep others warm, especially not family because they will be the first ones to take advantage of you because "family."

[@arnoldnellis6120]

OP needs to go see sisters boss and inform him she was BLACKMAILED into that forgiveness speech and how the sister reneged, and it ended up costing their father his life. see how long siter keeps her job and reputation

[@laurabenevelli6783]

I could see my one SIL doing something like this because she dislikes me so much even though she gets along okay with my adult son. You can’t force someone to help but them saying they’ll do it then ghosting you when they’re absolutely needed in a situation like that is deplorable. Their father gave her to much. He should have given her a penny. You can’t give less than that other than making her pay back money. I would have told her job why I told said I forgave her since I truly didn’t. I would also tell them that what she did was the final “nail in our father’s coffin” and the reason why he passed away when he did. He may have lived longer but by being so infuriated by her and donating his blood to save his grandson it was to much for his fragile health. I would say that if you don’t believe me ask the doctor, hospital, staff and family.

[@karinasamaniego8765]

In some places people who are meant to be cut off must be given a dollar to prove that they weren't just forgotten and sue in court. Giving them a dollar demonstrates that it was intentional so they can't win a lawsuit.

[@tracygardner6318]

OP family is either extremely jealous or horrible, eight years of marriage is a thing to celebrate. I’m sorry her sister keeps getting divorced but maybe there’s something wrong with her and instead of letting her sister have her happiness she has to be rude about it. Why do they not like him? He seems like a wonderful man. It has shown several times by actions that he is a great man and loves OP think the family would appreciate that. That and they have a sick son what is entitled family I’m so sorry. 0P even if someone is going through something horrible it does it mean it takes over the whole family drama or upsetting news.

[@stephaniewilson3955]

Sis is a narcissist which is unbearable to live with.

[@aprilkerchner972]

Wow your sister is the devil!! Your dad's the hero and so is your father in law for saving all those people

[@Mrs.Pena-1]

RIP TO OPs DAD...THANK GOD THE KID IS OKAY..IM HAPPY THE FATHER IN LAW IS ABLE TO GET SPONSORED AND HELP FOR LONGER NOW AT HIS HOSPITAL..AND MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON THAT EVIL, JEALOUS, BITTER, 3× DIVORCED, SAD EXCUSE OF A HUMAN BEING OF A LOUSY SISTER.. AND OPs MOM BETTER WAKE UP AND CHANGE HER WAYS BEFORE KARMA DRAGS HER THROUGH THE FLOOR AS WELL!!! KEEP DOING YOU AND KEEPING YOUR FAMILY FIRST OP, TOU WILL BE OKAY ❤

[@lisadelgado228]

I’ve been married & divorced 3xs and I LOVE celebrating others who were lucky in LOVE. You deserve to celebrate YOUR Happiness in LiFE. Just don’t invite them then.

[@theplaintech]

OP should make sure that Anya's company learn all about the double dealings on the blood donorship and make certain that's she so fired she'll never get a job with any company of note ever... because she's pure evil -- and apparently her ex husbands thought so too. She should have been grieving for being such a horrid person. Anya is the sort of person who gets a hangnail and insists that it's more important than 100 people getting care for heart attacks.

[@tinamauldin6444]

The OP can console her sister by promising to attend her next wedding!!!

[@tracygardner6318]

It wasn’t made by you it was made by your sister, who is being unprofessional. She needs to keep her personal issues out of work.

[@robertbuswell7378]

I would make sure her employer who she got her job back knows what she did potentially leaving a child to die she is so cold and Heartless..

[@daishawilliams8301]

Mr reddito you are the king of animation story telling😂.

[@deborahkizer4664]

Congratulations on your anniversary 8 years that's wonderful. 🎉🙏💪✌️👏💛

[@sharonhaun4014]

I would tell everybody what she did promising to give the blood and then not and risking the child's life! Plus the father of mine have lived a little bit longer. If he wouldn't have gave the blood it may have weakened him. God bless him for doing so. I would never speak to her again nor would she be welcome anywhere near my family

[@tracygardner6318]

OP why did you trust your sister?

[@Tammy-mi4pi]

😳 WOW, EVIL TO DO THAT TO A CHILD, PURE EVIL🤨

[@AN-nn7tc]

My apologies. My computer has deleted some words from my comment. OP, you have my condolences. Your father was a brave man to do that for his grandson.

[@stephaniewilson3955]

I would go to Sis's company and tell them that although you forgave her for past mischief, endangering my son would be a step too far. They would sack her by return.

[@torgiebride8558]

It should seriously be a crime to be the KNOWN donor for somebody and then to just take off, KNOWING you are doing it to just be spiteful...

[@kellyknuutila2207]

I know what it is like to have a sibling like OP. I lost my son and my older brother told everyone that it was his son. He got a lot of discounts and free stuff from different places. When people talked to me and said they were sorry for him for loosing his son I had to asked them what they were talking about. He didn't loose a child I did they said he told them his son died. I asked them if he asked them for money of course he had. He was a habitual lier and I have to correct people all the time for it. He got his karma for it to. He died of a drug overdose. I don't feel sorry for him at all. Hopefully the OPs sister will get her karma too. Lol

[@shells500tutubo]

That wasn't karma. He got to go without any pain or awareness.

[@D64nz]

Investor - so how good is the hospital? OP - I came in as a patient and left as a wife. 😊

[@YRAT-mr8jq]

It would be smarter to make a contract that the op would drop the lawsuit in exchange for her sister to donate the blood how stupid can it be.

[@tugglemiles2991]

Sister is the ignorant one. You are awesome.

[@robinjameson4261]

what sister did was blackmail when she said now you won't get anything that was admission of blackmail in front of lots of witnesses. call the police. let them know about the blackmail. Make sure it's nice in public. the foundation will most likely come to you on their knees begging for a chance to make up for your sister. it'll all be legal and above board and will remove her from causing.more harm

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Op can catch the next wedding or maybe the one after that.

[@dianafleck7857]

Was a little confused at first because you said wedding not anniversary lol

[@YRAT-mr8jq]

Fake story

[@shells500tutubo]

@@YRAT-mr8jqAll of his stories are ridiculously fake, with glaring plot holes and inconsistencies, but they are usually entertaining.

[@YRAT-mr8jq]

@@shells500tutubo I can agree on the entertainment part. Usually put a airpod and listen while I'm doing stuff.

[@melissajill6174]

@@YRAT-mr8jq Yeah, I have a hard time believing that a child needs the donation from an aunt and that *neither* parent is a suitable donor.

[@lisadelgado228]

My condolences for your dad

[@cheekysaver]

So, she was willing to end a 3 year old and ended her own father instead... and got disinherited.

[@Melissa-tr8el]

I love your stories

[@NancyNanavati]

Op tell her employer everything.

[@Suelorie]

So your sister cannot seem to marry a good match and keep the marriage together. NO you are not wrong, you are entitled to celebrate your life achievements, and your happiness. Nobody owes anyone, family or not, to withhold from experiencing and celebrating life milestones because some other family lost/failed at whatever.

[@rebeccajohnson8579]

OP, these are some sorry selfish arrogant relatives who wants you to CLAM DOWN your celebration because your sister has gone thru 3 MARRIAGES, are they kidding us? Obviously, she is selecting the wrong men, or she has issues! Tell them to have your sister interact with a therapy specialist to learn what her issues are in that she has blown thru 3 marriages! Not your fault, NOT YOUR ISSUE, they should be HAPPY and CELEBRATING WITH YOU! heck, your sister she get with you to LEARN HOW you are celebrating your 8th year! Perhaps she can LEARN SOMETHING, UNLESS SHE IS SELECTING SOME SORRY MEN!

[@sheilaclemett4353]

Sister has more issues than The New York Times.

[@ninaross211]

HER FAMILY ARE ALL EXTREMELY HAPPY THAT THEIR SON &. THEIR MARRIAGE DESERVES 2. BE CELEBRATING ! ESPECIALLY BY FAMILY THAT ALL WITNESSED STRUGGLE &. HEART BREAK 💔. YOU ARE STRONG LOVING BEAUTIFUL FAMILY WENT THROUGH ! ALL THOSE PAINFUL YEARS ! WITHOUT HER FAMILY SUPPORT &. FAMILIES LOVE 💕 !

[@metalmouth0413]

It's not her fault that her sister had three failed marriages. The failed marriages are the failures of her sister and the men she was once married to. Also, the sister was wrong for mixing her nonsense with professional matters by taking things personally by attempting to screw over OP'S father in law with her personal nonsense. Where OP'S sister was in the most wrong was for saying she would help her nephew but didn't. She would've been better off backing out before more things unraveled. OP'S late father was/is the hero because he made the sacrifice to help his grandson. I do wonder how bad OP'S sister feels since their father ended up passing away all because the sister pulled her crap? Then again, The Will and Last Testament speaks for itself in awarding inheritance. Sounds like the sister has the personality of a narcissist full of selfish motives.

[@MoniqueMasseyJefferson]

None of them have to come 😆. The reality of the situation is Op and Her Husband are celebrating Their Love.

[@edyinthesky]

Jeez, one wedding party wasn't enough, they need it yearly now?

[@CareyBilley]

OP's sister is definitely sour on love.

[@vetaroberts3333]

You didn’t wrong her you stood up for yourself.

[@lg7197]

If anything, the sister in this story killed her own father in an attempt to kill her nephew.

[@AutismTakesOn]

How selfish can you be? It's not OP's fault Anya had 3 divorces. It's not OP's fault Anya lost her image. And just because Anya had a bad life, doesn't mean she has to make OP feel the same way she does. The world doesn't stop just because you're having a bad day. That's not how life works. If OP wanted her anniversary on that day, that's her decision. Anya didn't have to come, and OP never made fun of Anya's failings. OP just wanted to enjoy her life and never intended to hurt Anya's feelings. The anniversary was never a slap to the face. Anya and her mom were childish for trying to ruin OP and her son's life just because they didn't get what they wanted. They need to learn that the world doesn't revolve around them, and that nobody should have to suffer just because someone else is. An "I'm not happy, so why should everyone else be happy?" mentality is a mindset that nobody should have. Anya got what was coming to her, and hopefully she learns the value of respect and staying out of other people's lives.

[@NessaEllenesse]

There is something I don't understand. How is it they couldn't use 0 negative blood? O negative is the universal donner Edit AB negative can recieve blood transplants from A negative B negative and O negative AB positive can take blood transfusions from anyone

[@anndennis7163]

I'm O- and am available for any family member that asks, even though we are basically estranged. Sister should be charged with endangering a child.

[@tinajoerossignol]

Not just the sister is a monster, but her mother as well. We all know she knew what was happening and where her daughter was hiding, she was just as happy to be hurting her grandson as her daughter was. All because the least favorite child had the nerve to have a happy marriage and a beautiful son. Sick people.

[@jackiehenry3372]

What's wrong with your family? Your sister needs mental health. Go ahead and think of moving away. They offer no support and are at the root of all of your problems. Wishing you blessings.

[@lisadelgado228]

NEVER let them make u cry & take your happiness. You needed to escort them away from u and ur party. Security should have been there to force them out.

[@melissalutz9003]

The parents and families in these stories always baffle me. The way my mother and entire family would have told that sister to man tf up and get over it.

[@fyrekrystaal27]

I want to hear about what happened at the will reading

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Why should op not celebrate bc their sister is a failure at relationships. Maybe she should be taking some notes on how to behave and act.

[@vanessacallahan3515]

Not your fault, quit blaming yourself. It’s all on your sister. That’s super selfish. She’s better off without her sister.

[@battiekoda]

Ok, so this is my thought before any updates: Sis doesn't need to go to the party if it hurts her that much. Does she have nothing else she can do that evening? No friends to hang out with? I mean, for me, someone else's anniversary party is barely a blip on the radar. Sis is too invested in this.

[@IzzyPR2010]

Some people feel that if they can't be happy, no one else should be allowed to be happy.

[@battiekoda]

@@IzzyPR2010 Too true! It's sad, really.

[@JB-bb1bh]

Wow, Grandfather....what a gigachad. - builds successful dynasty - gets outta rough country with family to the states -still helped and loved grad daughters - chose to give up last months of life for his grandson - Cuts out dishonorable for the streets lying granddaughter out of will. -leaves mortal coil in self sacrifice and to expose bad grand daughter that she is for the streets.

[@ajackson3864]

I do think OP should’ve waited for the anniversary notice or at least told her in person before she put out the notice. I mean OP doesn’t explain why her sister’s marriages didn’t work but I felt that was a little insensitive, she just announced her divorce a few days ago. It might’ve saved OP a lot of hardship. I know a lot of people will disagree but it could’ve saved her a lot of hardship.

[@Yvonnepn17]

I would've uninvited them sorry family members. In these stories. It's always some kind of mental and emotional abuse going on!

[@scrabt8592]

The moment she skipped out of town, an email with screenshots of conversation would've been sent to her company showing how she'd used bribery to save her job 😉

[@ciriotecpa1805]

Major Pain said it best "If you want sympathy from me, you can look between shit and syphilis. "

[@tegz692]

So OP isn't aloud to celebrate her 8th wedding anniversary when her sister has a failing 3rf marriage ridiculous its not OPs fault her sister sucks at being a wife, and the sponsors will help with the right push if not name and Shane them And catch sister on video and release it on public forum, she has already been through 2 divorces surly she has worked it out by the 3rd one

[@lisadelgado228]

I would have NOt listened to them and walked out

[@dragonforce2724]

Nice story shame its fake and no creddits ever found for the original post

[@lisadelgado228]

I actually wouldn’t respond to my mom or my sister. If that was me. I would throw an awesome anniversary, over the top party and enjoy it Without them. I stopped talking to all my toxic family and I’m headed to marriage #4

[@bonniebloom4953]

I want to see the reading of the will.

[@MrsSerene]

Is OP stupid? She didn't immediately check if anyone had videos from the anniversary? She believed her sister after how she acted, would donate for her son

[@reginafetty6374]

I know right. I believe I would have gone back to her work and told them that I forgave her because she was going to give her rare blood to save my child during surgery but she ran off and didn't doing it after promising she would, knowing it would save her nephew's life. She probably wouldn't have a job when she came back.

[@danniellewinkle1024]

Sister is heartless and cold

[@NPRYRS]

Anniversaries are only one day so how can you cancel or postpone ❓🤯😱 seriously 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽 your sister has been ran through and you can't help her 🙎‍♀️🙎🏽

[@harleyquinn5774]

That is such ridiculous logic. My parents stopped celebrating their anniversary on the exact day and chose to celebrate the day after for a very legitimate reason. My paternal grandmother’s date of death is also the date of my parents’s 20th wedding anniversary. My family suffered a mass grandparent die-off from August 96’ to Feb. 97’. Shortly after both of my paternal grandparents passed away my father (who was close to both of his parents), as a result of the grief and stress, came down with a life threatening case of pneumonia, got hospitalized and almost died himself. *That* is a legitimate example to not celebrate one’s wedding anniversary on the exact date.

[@melissajill6174]

It also sounds like the choice of celebrating the anniversary on another date was up to your parents (the ones actually having the anniversary), and not other people pushing for "celebrate on some other date".

[@allieniner675]

Im sorry, but if the blood type was so rare and they needed someone there on standby for blood- they wouldn’t have started the surgery until OP’s sister was there. And, if they had started the surgery before OP’s sister arrived, they would have left themselves open to a huge malpractice lawsuit, if god forbid, something had happened to the child during surgery.

[@RobertBoring]

Oh I would have got the blood if I had to do myself.

[@karinaashmon]

I'd do a public notice of what she did at your anniversary and what she said and how she is willing to see people die because she can't keep a man

[@lisadelgado228]

My sister only went to my 1st wedding. I didn’t care.

[@runeingebretsen8378]

i would have said,ok i will help you get your job,back but first you have to donate blood at the hospital,so they can have it regardless if you are there or not.

[@SoulConstruct]

The reason Anya had three divorces prior to the story and updates is very clear. 🤡🤡🤡

[@lord_vader87]

Opie made one huge mistake and that is she didn't record every conversation after her anniversary debacle and personally I think she should have figured out a way to get her to reiterate what she told her at her anniversary party that day while being recorded other than that she's not a photo for anything it was all her sister being an idiot and that's downgrading to all the idiots out there

[@susiemalphurs5212]

What a horrible sister!

[@Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets]

Contact employer, explain why you rescinded your statements on sister, then explain what she did afterward. She'll look way worse than before and lose her job again, plus she'll get nothing from inheritance

[@RexieG]

Later for the haters. Do you

[@TraceyBoyland]

Moneeeeey

[@keciakecia2794]

I beginning to not like the Ops I can't stand doormats!!!

[@EricaSmith-hh3pz]

First to watch first to comment

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

Good fun Erica! 🤗 I love all of Redditos channels too! I even accept all faults and mistakes…lols 😅✌️

[@blacknorteno]

Your story are no good no more

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Sis hates ops husband because he’s a good husband and she covers what she has.

[@pagee7452]

Just because the rest of your family is jealous that you are still married after 8 years what you should do is just celebrate the anniversary abroad just you and your hubby since the rest of your family can't be happy for u