Mom to 4. This started off in the wrong direction but grace showed up and took over.

Mom to 4. This started off in the wrong direction but grace showed up and took over.

[@nmmboy]

Therapy and sitting the hell down would solve most of these guest’s problems 😮‍💨

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

I feel like therapy is good , I go to therapy currently and I requested a black woman to be my therapist because I just felt like she can relate more to my battles in life as a blk woman , it was a great decision

[@nmmboy]

@@SylisDaGoldenPeach Yeah it really is, and sadly most people in the community avoid it all their lives and seek temporary fixes smh

[@daniella8400]

Sitting down for several years!!

[@foxyboop4164]

Make it plain fam!!! *Sit tf DOWN, LEGS CLOSED* ❌️❌️❌️

[@LOSTGPS]

Yea but who’s going to tell them that? They don’t listen to anyone.

[@jay-t1030]

If she is a full time mom, student, and has a full time job she literally has no time for a relationship.

[@peacefaith560]

she has time for sex ?!!

[@stinkreezy2791]

Or the kids

[@MrsBryant1024]

​@@stinkreezy2791say what

[@truebengalsfan]

She got time to smash

[@Cahluvca]

Bingo

[@purplelove010]

Protect your womb ladies. You don't have to have a baby by every man you date. Let's help keep the family structure stable by using good judgment and making the right decisions. If the guy clearly shows signs that he is no good for you, drop him don't wait for him to change and don't ever assume that a baby will bring y'all closer together.

[@Roccofan]

One correction….Don’t have a baby for ANY man you date. Have a child with your husband and only your husband.

[@purplelove010]

​@@RoccofanI agree👍🏿

[@joeyoung6287]

Protect your womb? Their wombs aren’t in danger or under threat. They’re passing it out like Halloween treats

[@raht2808]

@@Roccofan,💯

[@truebengalsfan]

@@joeyoung6287lets not pretend she made the same mistake multiple times

[@foxyboop4164]

Serious question 🤔: *What is WRONG with taking your time getting to know someone BEFORE creating an entire life with them* ⁉️⁉️ I don't think people are grasping the gravity of their irresponsibility frfr or just don't care. A man is the LAST thing I'd be concerned with if I were in her situation. Grace & Accountability is desperately needed.

[@katerab4916]

In her case, she may be seeking unconditional love - and may find it in bearing children 😢

[@foxyboop4164]

@@katerab4916 This makes sense but when is it enough? At this rate, she'll have a basketball team and still not have the love she's looking for. This is why mentorship programs are so important.

[@katerab4916]

@@foxyboop4164I completely agree. She is clueless of her worth. She may have a dad, but something was missed. We perish for lack of knowledge, hopefully she listened and received. It’s never too late while we have breath in our bodies.

[@timothyfelder437]

@@katerab4916 Not being an asshole but her worth is sorely diminished by now. As a human being she has worth but in the dating market her value is waaaaaay lower than what it used to be.

[@katerab4916]

@@timothyfelder437 sadly, you’re right - but, even if low, she deserves to find it for herself.

[@itsmekiaratee]

Bonnet, 30, 4 kids, 4 different fathers. It’s wisdom that she knows her situation isn’t ideal. A lot of women in her situation would still be audacious enough to ask for the world!

[@bruceleeroy8302]

But what's her zodiac sign?

[@LOSTGPS]

She still asked for a top 10% man.

[@nmmboy]

Ahh yes, Her wisdom made sure to ask for a chocolate 6’3 man 🥴👌🏽

[@lynnlakotich6331]

​@@bruceleeroy8302that's irrelevant 😒

[@itsmekiaratee]

@@LOSTGPS lol, sure but only AFTER saying her situation isn’t ideal. At that point, she knows that she’s 100% wishing upon a star 😂

[@timothyfelder437]

Never ceases to amaze me…. 4 kids with 4 fathers talking about keeping options open and making a good man wait. That audacity is strong in this one.

[@portiearawak32]

Men have way more audacity than women. They were raised that they had a monopoly on it. It's weird for them to see other ppl do the same things they do

[@jetskipapi6193]

These Baby Mamas sure know how to negotiate...lol

[@MarvelousJP]

Goes to show how certain women feel about “good men” that they only decide to entertain them after being used and birthing multiple other “lesser” mens children. They think it’s a good man’s duty to save them when they’re at their worst and to just deal with it when most times they’re not worth the trouble

[@logicalcritik2144]

😂😂😂

[@masculinitymatters9030]

But 2 weeks ago, without a relationship, a man broke her back.

[@LOSTGPS]

Kendra-“Has a 6’3 darkskin man making 60k ever try to date you?” Her-“yes” Me-🧢 Stop confusing a man having sex with you with a man that’s actually taking you seriously.

[@kane99560]

they dont know the difference..its the same with 6fig guys..they all think because one took them out and sex with them they were dating.

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

Super 🧢

[@idubldairu8330]

Common sense right? On some other video, i forget where, some groupie said a flex is sleeping with a nba player. Then I asked, "so renting a Bentley is a bigger flex than owning one?" 'Crickets'

[@sexyclothescentral]

60k is not as hard to get to as it used to be. The younger generation is getting there a lot more quickly. I'm going to look for some statistics to see how long it takes younger generations to get there.

[@LOSTGPS]

@@sexyclothescentral If it wasn’t a hard income to get then it would be an average income. On top of that, why would a man making a overage average settle for a woman with 4 kids and 4 baby daddies?

[@DrElayneBrunson]

Just sent you $25 . Yes I am a mother of 4. People do stuff without requiring stuff back. ❤ and people judge moms everyday you got this!!!

[@kybraidz1161]

4 kids 4 dads and an appearance requirement is insane.

[@jetskipapi6193]

Right...all while she lookin' like nothin'

[@logicalcritik2144]

​@@jetskipapi6193😂😂😂

[@yasmeen7875]

@@jetskipapi6193 Aww don't say that. But you're right though. If you're on the show looking for a man, she should try to dress herself up a bit.

[@bongoikno4994]

​@yasmeen7875 eventually you have to get undressed so may as well be raw ...dressed up people can be very disappointing when you see the real them...both genders this goes for

[@stinkreezy2791]

😂

[@TheWrightBrand]

How was the first two not enough to make a better choice? Stop letting these type of women on the show, our men deserve better.

[@K42023]

Best comment ever!☝️💯

[@MarvelousJP]

Thank you

[@silkence9561]

I completely agree

[@TyroneLangam]

She needs a separate show for pookies and used women only Let the decent human beings be separated

[@RahYisrael99]

Clearly you haven't seen "our" men who appear on this show.

[@laricewright1816]

It's sad woman are scared of love but will sleep with a man in a heart beat. My advice would be is stop giving your body to everyone.

[@sacredserpent9667]

Not scared of love you despise not being able to do whatever you want and you hate having structure and that comes with a good man

[@mrsa6925]

I agree but, a lot of people are slaves to their flesh. I abstained for 10 years before I met and married my now husband. We didn’t have pre-marital sex either. But the way sooo many people tried to clown me for my choice to abstain for so long (and then us for our decision to have no sex before marriage) was INSANE. Glad I ignored them though. NO REGRETS. 😊

[@MzKeiKei68]

Kendra I love how you kept it real and poured into her, that was beautiful!! Continue letting God lead & guide you to be a blessing ..Amen, stop judging and show Grace same way God shows us Grace!❤

[@uwilberforce4628]

Amen!!❤

[@Roccofan]

No. We need a lot more judging.

[@dollhouseq1530]

​@@Roccofan😂😂😂😂

[@intello8953]

@@Roccofana lot of judging and some help 👍🏾

[@Roccofan]

@@intello8953 The help is the worst part. If I KNOW for a fact that if I crank out baby after baby there will always be a check to be cashed for each one, what’s my incentive to stop being irresponsible?

[@kane99560]

this is pure comedy...I love Kendra for asking the right questions tho. I guess she's tired of hearing the non-sense..4 kids 4 dads but the 6'3 dark chocolate guy that every woman wants needs to marry her first...glad she discovered birth control tho😆

[@main1033]

She was 10 years late. I discuss it before interacting with anyone I will possibly have sex with

[@MacMillerJohnson]

Maybe she'll learn in another 10 years

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

We are all tired lol… at this point

[@ElderSlimm]

​@@main1033thank you. This is ridiculous

[@logicalcritik2144]

4 babies too late

[@jamilahsyogaflowshakir1821]

Thank you Kendra for being a good sister and giving her the good word.

[@jaysrandomnesschannel]

I get a small case of anxiety watching Kendra's videos 😂😂😂

[@katerab4916]

Saddens me, she seems like a really sweet, articulate young lady that just encountered trauma. At least she’s attempting to do better now. ❤

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

Yesssss friend ! She seems very sweet I hope she gets the help and stability she seeks

[@njpme]

Not very smart if you have 4 kids at 30 with 4 different dads

[@akilahjones8319]

​@njpme that doesn't mean she isn't smart, just made bad decisions at a young age, she also stated that one of her children is the result of SA. Instead of judging her let's encourage her to do better going forward

[@katerab4916]

@@akilahjones8319Completely agree! It’s never too late.

[@katerab4916]

⁠@@njpmeWe all fall short…it may not be with bearing children, but - none of us are perfect.

[@jyoumans9787]

We love you Nia! You need to take care of you and those precious babies. Thank you Kendra for showing love to that young lady. She needs a hug. Kendra! You are an amazing and awesome woman.

[@r.r911]

We love you? Speak for yourself. I don't love delusional hoes.

[@KNByam]

She's actually a very nice lady.

[@RemIsNice]

I heard someone online say that if marriage was a requirement, most of these women would never become mothers. Interesting point.

[@ButHearMeOutTho]

The only man she needs...Jesus

[@swallace9958]

Chile ain't no way I would sit and have 4 whole kids for nothing in this world. I'm almost 45 and when I see videos like these I just shake my head cause they just don't know the detriment they are doing to themselves. God bless you hunny.

[@lomaxlomax6152]

And she had a baby at 16. So that had to be hard, I would be swallowing birth control pills left and right. Maybe her parents didn’t allow her to see get the full picture.

[@Scam-ish]

she said the dating scene has slim pickens out here... I wonder which side of the pickens she sees herself on

[@breal1266]

🎯

[@jamese5818]

4 different baby daddies is wild. Never been married Who’s wants to deal with this drama .

[@invisiblerevolution]

Some LAME goofball who ain't use to gettin pu$$y will save her!

[@raeforthepeople6081]

She’s assuming a 6’3 dark skinned man will come along and deal with this smh

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

And not embarrassed to say it

[@main1033]

​​@@invisiblerevolutionI am the lame goofball and I am looking for a woman without children who isn't used to getting dick. No ty to the baby momma

[@jroyal4480]

She seems like a sweet and smart lady that makes bad choices when it comes to men. Kendra is right. We all have done dumb things in life. I wish her the best

[@islandbound843]

Do we ever say he seems like a nice guy that makes bad choices in women? Not disagreeing with your point but I think perspective matters.

[@pickmeisha]

Smart and making a bad choice is letting your insurance lapse then having to pay a hefty fine; lesson learned... Having a baby by every man you meet encompasses very little intelligence, thoughtfulness or an oops factor; this is willful negligence and not valuing yourself. Being taken to dinner, to the mall and holding hands while walking (her words) seemed to have been her only requirement to ‘ok I’ll give you a baby.’

[@TruMe2]

​@@pickmeishaExactly!

[@lovette7684]

Sweet lady, yes. Had kids b/c she was naive about how men act, yes.

[@Mrs.TatiW1987]

You date her and take care of her kids then 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia]

She wants a 6'3 for marriage, but let a 5'6 boy hit for free. Nobody need to feel sad for her.

[@Sfpenelopel]

I def do not feel bad for her. She’s hit the wall hard and fast. RIP

[@logicalcritik2144]

I don't! This woman is 30 yrs old!

[@logicalcritik2144]

​@@Sfpenelopel😂😂😂

[@Rob10288]

@@Sfpenelopel 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

[@kaheaisaac1]

Are u 5"6?

[@raeforthepeople6081]

If life is hard starting with the first child why keep bringing more men and more children into the situation?

[@sharonm6334]

Kendra thank you for showing love to the weak and being an example of how Jesus wants us to show love. Love overcomes!!!!!

[@cheyhines7986]

That was so nice of you to pour into her! Sometimes that’s what people need. I’m learning from watching you to handle people with grace!

[@Paid_porsche_]

I cried like a baby when Kendra helped her I love Genuine acts of kindness❤

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

Take dating and sex off the table: just focus on you and your kids for a while baby girl. Because this just ain’t it. Just go invest in sone therapy find out how to make sure this cycle can end with you.

[@ultimateenigma6038]

Pregnancy is not inevitable.

[@FollowPickMeekPodcast]

2:55 she is a prime example of why sex should be the last thing you rush into with someone. A lot of y’all be pregnant longer than you knew the man…

[@Yaadgyal09]

Insane

[@diva36182]

Kendra great advice! Focus on you and your kids!

[@Stephani253]

At this point I feel like these men and women come for a free therapy session. Kendra just need to go ahead and get that psychology degree lol

[@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia]

These people will not listen to free service. They need some skin in the game

[@Stephani253]

@@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia most people learn through experience which I get. I’m not perfect and don’t wanna come of as I’m judging but damn! Why are we as people so willing to let anyone you sleep with get you pregnant and vice versa . What happened to abstinence and using protection lol

[@LOSTGPS]

@@sammajor2075 I've def noticed theres more men on this show on the right path than the women

[@Barlowh2o]

​@sammajor2075 last couple og guests have been women 1 has 6 kids with 6 baby daddies, the other has 4 kids with 4 baby daddies

[@LOSTGPS]

@@sammajor2075 im already hip, I read the stats but this show proves it in real time. But people will still blame black men.

[@arosenthal531]

What a beautiful gesture Kendra. It is good that you blessed her God is pleased.

[@nikkirobinson9910]

Aww she really does seem like a sweetheart. Just went in the wrong direction and has had a hard time getting back aligned.

[@comedyexposure3295]

Would you make this statement for a really sweet demeanor guy with 4 kids by 4 different baby mommas

[@lovette7684]

A wrong direction? That was the 1st kid. Where is the accountability for the rest?

[@nikkirobinson9910]

@@lovette7684 Im not excusing anything. I also acknowledged she continues to go in the wrong direction. I just think she is a sweetheart.

[@nikkirobinson9910]

@@comedyexposure3295 naw I don’t like “really sweet demeanor” men. 🙃

[@candorsspot2775]

So she got us on child support instead of the children's fathers? Amazing...

[@khrisstake2210]

To a lot of people, that makes more sense. Somehow

[@jetskipapi6193]

I was thinking the same thing

[@Mynameisnunya37]

Who is us? If she’s working then she’s paying taxes too. It’s so easy to be nasty so I understand why you always seem to carry that energy in these comments. Rooting for you Nea! Everybody has a past, it’s about how you move going forward that’s why the rear view window is smaller than the front.

[@candorsspot2775]

​@@Mynameisnunya37Nasty is 4 kids by 4 men, a man she's messing with AND still looking for more. Please get your mind and spirit right.

[@JacquelynLevy]

@@candorsspot2775a little empathy goes a long way sometimes.

[@jamilahsyogaflowshakir1821]

Sis, take the time to pour into yourself and grow.

[@storydaytrades8114]

There's no way that I as a man would make a life commitment to a woman who makes poor decisions with her womb this way.

[@Teddy-vv9iz]

The amount of confusion with so many black women when it comes to life is extremely 😥, and disturbing. Nia is lost in the sauce of life. She is the face of the black community with baby mommas. I wish her the very best in life, and it's going to be very hard. I hope that she gets some therapy for her issues.

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

This comment is everything

[@DestinysMom]

Stop painting a whole race of women with the same brush.

[@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia]

​@@DestinysMombased on the outcomes you can. The majority of blacks worldwide is at the bottom.

[@phyllisharris2766]

Not really. She is not the norm...she could use time to grow and do well.

[@shamrockshow8490]

It’s because black women race of men, black men failed them! Black men didn’t build anything like white men did. Black men complain constantly like they’re victims, but y’all still call them “ Kings” 😂. They’re not KINGS!!!!!!

[@Iceberg_Mac]

4 kids by 4 different men is ALOT 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

It is but what is your sins ?

[@njpme]

​@@SylisDaGoldenPeachstop the whataboutism. I can have one child with my wife, and look at this like wtf? We all are sinners, but some levels are different

[@TyroneLangam]

@@SylisDaGoldenPeachMy sins are eating too much ice cream and stealing pencils in middle school

[@MrsRease2011]

@@TyroneLangam😂😂

[@rightron1]

Kendra Kindness!!! Kendra you saw beyond the natural resume and gave her the advice and love ,I'm sure she will never forget! Keep being AMAZING Kendra!

[@Aceboogie83]

Smh. 4 kids,4 baby daddies and coming on here with a head wrap. Black women you need to do better. This is wasteland behavior. Only a man fresh outta jail would take this deal lol

[@K42023]

She just got free advertising to millions of ex cons. Her DMs gonna be full of dudes that know EXACTLY how to treat her. I don’t think this show is God’s work…it’s something else . Kevin S. never gave money/rewards for bad behavior , he gave hard advice to men and women.

[@Aceboogie83]

⁠@@K42023this exactly why I miss Kevin samuels show. Spot on 👌🏾👌🏾

[@cd6741]

Bums, ex-cons and predators. Smh.

[@Ucancallmenobody]

I definitely feel for her. I would say she is one of the most realistic women in her situation. I wish her the best and kudos to her to keeping her held high despite all the obstacles. It sounds like she just didn't have the right people around her so she doesn't know how to make good decisions when it comes to picking men.

[@Originalqueen326]

Kendra G for president..I Absolutely love you chile you have me in tears ..just the way you stand up for and too us makes you great and you can tell your dad and mom raised a truly loving person.. thanks so much for all you do..

[@Iknowjasmine]

Kendra gives the BEST advice!!! I love her ❤❤

[@RobtomiArt]

Thank you so much for that message and demonstration of grace. We do need to be reminded that God's goodness is about HIS goodness...and not our personal track record. Loved this one ❤

[@freedomwife8656]

When Kendra says, here’s the deal, I always start laughing. Kendra now I know why you are so successful. You are truly a kind person.💕

[@rosalynasare5765]

She does seem sweet.. I pray for her...

[@Chewey10]

We are rooting for you Nia ❤

[@FaithandPurpose828]

uh....no.

[@sleepy1760]

She a Mutt

[@Roccofan]

We who? You and the other members of the “Useless Women Need Love Too” coalition?

[@Matthew7.7]

Come help your sister. She’s a full Blown loser.

[@MFlint-un2tq]

No we not

[@Bleedversionofme2]

God bless you all. Praying all works out for everyone ❤Beautiful message Kendra.

[@emailwells9557]

The cool thing about life is we can make a lot of mistakes or bad decisions…. But it is never to late to make a change for the better. I believe she will change for the better and attract someone to love her properly.. Sending prayers, positive energy, love, and best wishes 🙏🏿🙏🏿💪🏿❤️✌🏾

[@mcdianer]

I always cry when Kendra gives a cash app. I love that she is helping someone. I say it is rough out here and sometimes a kind act is worth a lot. But especially a cash app is a big gesture.

[@And1one757]

How do you its helping its a nice gesture but so was welfare especially for black ppl and look how that turned out rewarding bad behavior doesnt usually help

[@breal1266]

@@And1one757 Exactly

[@courtneyrenee5522]

Most times our growth can be stunted by trauma. So a child having a child at 16 might not be able to mature in that area of trauma which for her was love and relationships. She will have to work harder but I believe God will help her. Thanks for following God Kendra in your advice and giving. ❤❤❤

[@letsbeclear2897]

We need to stop allowing the excuse of I was too young.. plenty of young adults didn’t have kids you are not a unicorn

[@courtneyemm8894]

She’s beautiful, seems kind, and vulnerable… I hope she can turn her situation around.

[@Chris-hz3bt]

Kendra's face when she described her type!!!!😂😂😂😂

[@kaheaisaac1]

Ikr!

[@emmaafa]

Bless you Kendra for blessing others, your compassion is equivalent with your life and relationship advice...I'm a fan just by how you treat others, especially young women in need, who don't know they need what you correctly identify that they need...arohanui from Aotearoa xo

[@shruglord9070]

birth control must be in short supply out here smh

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

Here’s the thing … since 2009 it’s BEEN FREE!! Ugh there’s no reason for this. women just out here doing anything.

[@lizamimi]

no such thing as unwanted pregnancy 🤰🏽….too many birth control choices…..a shot every 3 months really does the trick for those who forget to take the pill 💅🏽

[@MrsRease2011]

@@lizamimi👏🏾

[@lizamimi]

@@MrsRease2011 😊

[@jucyjay8398]

​@@lizamimior get your tubes tide

[@Mimi-eb3sq]

Kendra facial expression omg 😂

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

She fed ip

[@kaheaisaac1]

I love it!

[@leahb99]

The fact that these girls are ok with bringing all these kids in the world without an active father is ridiculous!! All these girls need to start going to therapy and girls that are about to enter middle school need to go to therapy to break these cycles. I’m so blessed that I got through all my years up to now with no children out of wedlock. And I have zero kids because I did not want to be a single mom. Y’all parents need to do better and stop making these girls think motherhood is all that. Teach some goals and waiting to have children when you are married. At least a divorced single mom is more understandable than all these babies out of wedlock with all these different men!!

[@K42023]

Until it’s illegal it ain’t gonna stop

[@Yaadgyal09]

👏👏

[@yasmeen7875]

"Stop teaching girls that motherhood is all that"? Umm motherhood is all that. I enjoy motherhood so much that I adopted 5 kids in addition to my 2 bio kids. Just like anything, you can abuse the motherhood position by not waiting for the right man, not taking the time to get the know a man before you have children, Get married before you have children. Motherhood is rewarding for many, not all, but many women. But it's best to do it the right way, in the right order.

[@Barlowh2o]

Kendra last 2 female guests had a total of 10 kids with a total of 10 baby daddies, you can't make this up

[@Yaadgyal09]

😮

[@TheeMrsChampion]

Sheesh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@MrsRease2011]

Wow!

[@cb4gusto744]

🫠🫠🫠🫠

[@ddaniels6845]

This is so heartbreaking. She said she takes care of her kids by herself. Which means she doesn't have a mother,father or grandfather to assist. She has been on her own since 16 years old. Sadly she is broken and looking for love in all the wrong places. She has no time to date. Nobody should take this on. It's a horrible deal.😢

[@A-Thomas]

All based on her own choices and the government has been helping her otherwise she wouldn’t be in this situation. But off the free money / benefits and watch the babies stop dropping.

[@monicam-yp6dk]

Why have women not grasped the concept that they do not have to have a baby by every single man they date or have sex with? It is possible to have sex without getting pregnant!!!!!

[@candorsspot2775]

Possible but not probable. Might be time to give up the idea that sex and procreation can be separated.

[@Bladillac]

This is not a dating show. It's a SAVE ME show because 97% of the women are single mothers or baby mamas looking for help.

[@mrsa6925]

It’s quite sad…Children are beautiful blessings, no question. I just wish we didn’t have so many broken homes.

[@rvandoom]

99% !!!!!

[@amilllion1]

Where are these numbers coming from?

[@Bladillac]

@@amilllion1 I've watched about 20 women on the Kendra show a week for about 2 months so far. Of the 20 , eighteen of them were single mothers. So I averaged it out. Sometimes all the women I would see during the week are single mothers.

[@Squeeky-Da-Don]

Now everybody gonna come on w/ a sob story for a cashapp 😂

[@lashaun333]

First thing I thought after she said she wasn't looking for a relationship!! I knew it was coming.

[@MrsRease2011]

😂 The instant tears is what gets me!

[@valpooh7532]

Majority of these BW are so trifling. She’s doing a lot of laughing and giggling while Kendra trying to instill qualities in grown women that don’t want those qualities. She’s so lost and the only person that can find her is herself. She’s already ruined the bulk of her future and still out messing with men. At some point you’d come to realize that it’s wrong and you’d work hard at changing so you can have better. You can’t teach people nothing new. They have to go after it for themselves.

[@TheLgavin1026]

She seems so sweet!

[@Nosey_Rosie_Posie_]

She deserves so much more but she has to believe it first…

[@aguy7407]

Ahhhh the refreshing honesty at 15:20 “I’m just keeping my options open because I’m scared…….I don’t know what to do with these dudes out here…I don’t have a lot of options…”

[@ninab9169]

Protect you’re womb ladies 🥺. Wow that’s a lot .

[@abiodunotu2591]

I hope she listens, too many stupid mistakes and nonchalant about sleeping with different guys. I hope she does better.

[@NubianP6]

Kendra, you said that you *“felt it earlier on in the conversation”,* and I actually felt when you felt it…if that makes any sense. 😊 My father always told me to give whenever I feel the spirit telling me to do so, and what the person may or may not choose to do with the money is between them and God, but whether or not I give is between ME and God.

[@joeyoung6287]

But how is giving her money going to help her make better decisions?? Kendra gave her something invaluable: good advice

[@E.R225]

​@@joeyoung6287 She feels sorry for the chick with 4 kids by 4 different baby daddies but I promise she would 💩 on a man in the same situation lol

[@KendraGMedia]

@@E.R225I literally have give single dads money. 😂 stop crying in my comment section. And you can bless a single dad if you like. You don’t have to wait until I do it.

[@robinsonataizue4051]

Paysammie

[@AuthenticJoShow]

Thank you for showing grace @kendra. I pray for her brighter future!

[@nonikaallen2030]

This is so sad. She has to want more for herself, no one else can want that for her.❤ Praying for her to enter her healing journey.

[@kingstrong5351]

90% of Black Women who come on this show are single mothers with multiple baby daddies. These women say "its hard to find a good black man." Well, obviously it's harder to find a good black woman lol.

[@Akaiza_Zerzay]

...sometimes kendra....u are the brightest light on earth....God bless u.😊..an it's not so much that u give or what u give but how it comes from such a genuine space. It really shows that u relate to regular ppl.

[@nneenaa6343]

How do people come on a dating show with bonnets on 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sunnysunshine6271]

It's not a bonnet, it's a head wrap.

[@unaisodora1149]

And a nice head scarf too!! If she came on with a bonnet weave, cobwebs ridiculous nails it'll be a problem.

[@1985battle]

Man I’m not gonna lie, these women out here are done

[@relaxedn10city]

I’m rooting for her too…💜

[@London2ATL]

Send her details to your male family members. Maybe your brother if you have one.

[@erehistruth2356]

​@@London2ATLRight lol

[@gregoryw3311]

5:18 "he just wanted to take advantage. He just wanted to sleep with me." After four kid by four different men what else is he supposed to do.

[@RahYisrael99]

He could just not talk to her instead of being a sexual deviant.

[@Fabrizio7171]

@@RahYisrael99lmaooo welcome to the shark pit. Alot of women pick this life thinking that finding a step daddy is easy.

[@BlodachiaSeba]

Giving hope to the hopeless

[@DeaconGoss]

These young ladies with serious situations feel way too comfortable coming on Kendra's show. 4 kids 4 different men. Claims she's changing for the better. Then Kendra asks "When's the last time you were intimate with someone?" and then boom 🤦‍♂🤦‍♂🤦‍♂ SMH

[@NurseMomHopelessromantic]

THIS SHOW IS WILD. I’m 42 divorced - a mom, Christian, happy, educated, friendly and STILL after 6y like ..can I get out there now?!???? Naw Lord you’re in control 😩🤣

[@katinadjmom8842]

God Bless you Kendra ❤

[@dandeezieg1848]

lol Kendra’s face when she is explaining the type of guy she wants 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 chilleeeeee go have a seat

[@Shaqreacts]

Women need to be honest with each other tbh

[@erehistruth2356]

Amen. I keep hearing she is a sweet girl etc. Hold her accountable.

[@Shaqreacts]

@@erehistruth2356 yeah if the table was turn woman would call the man a loser

[@TheDiaryofDestaney]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@expresshon1]

"If someone would come in and take half my problems, i would love it." WHAAAAT! You can't make this stuff up.

[@Nebo600]

Nia is a sweetheart, she really is. What’s so damn sad is that she thinks that sleeping with these men equals a connection of any kind. Physical, emotional, and/or spiritual connection. You can not find yourself by using other people, you have to find yourself first. Nobody, except possibly family, is going care about you more than yourself.

[@chillycharles910]

She sounds like she loves sex. Which is why her height requirement is pretty irrational based on her situation. She's likely had sex with way way more than the 4 baby daddies. And she's not gonna stop until she finds the one magical D that beats them all.

[@malbcrazy3697]

Yo Kendra, much respect to you, my sister. As I've mentioned before, you are a much needed voice in our community

[@candorsspot2775]

What's tragic is that the way she speaks you can tell her parents put some effort into getting her out of the worst hoods and this is how she repaid them and their legacy. Very sad.

[@yasmeen7875]

My best friends daughters both were raised in a nice suburb. They were raised well, in a loving 2 parent household.. One went to college and makes great money and the other has 3 baby daddies and get ebt. Some women are just born for the streets.

[@candorsspot2775]

@@yasmeen7875 Is the college grad married?

[@yasmeen7875]

@@candorsspot2775 Yes she is married. She met her husband in college. They have no children yet.

[@candorsspot2775]

@@yasmeen7875 That's very good. I'm not convinced anyone is born promiscuous. Kids do have different personalities and some maybe do need more discipline than others. A shame that one child ended up swallowed up by the greater bl culture.

[@jaemae5977]

Poor girl was rapped and had a baby😢! Sometimes it takes folk a minute to figure out their worth, I really feel sorry for her she's putting up a happy front

[@alexf2641]

She’s a full time student, she has a full time job and she’s a full time mother of 4. She definitely doesn’t have time for a relationship.

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Kendra, you are a good woman! My heart went out for this young lady and the situations she put herself in. She needs therapy and a life coach.

[@Roccofan]

20:45 Did Kendra just ask her, “What does your father say about this?” Oh boy, the KS transformation is slow, as we knew it would be, but it is definitely happening. Before the end of next year, Kendra will be giving out ratings for relationship fitness. There is no way she can keep hearing these trash stories from trash people week end and week out and not push back harder and harder.

[@concretejungle6938]

Love these Train Wrecks K.G...Keep em coming Please!

[@slinkiegirl2001]

ever since my girl started doing this fantastic show most of the black women coming on here looking for a simp'helper/sucker they all have several kids never married dads kids long gone all by different baby fathers, this is so shameful in our community, the kids are being set up for failure from the get go

[@timothyfelder437]

I wouldn’t expect anything less from the women of our community. Using a lil money to sweep poor decisions and life choices under the rug. $500 won’t change a thing with this woman. Why not bless a young woman with NO kids, that’s articulate and has made plenty of wise decisions. Why not give them $500?

[@charlesbrown8879]

🤔

[@Cyr530]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@tpoppy9303]

This is a perfect example of being a nice girl. Men will use you. Pump you full of babies and then diss you for being a single mom. Smh. Black women PLEASE protect your fertility and understand MOST black men are not commitment minded.

[@DJ-vj4vi]

Chile, I am so sick of these single black mothers not focusing on co-parenting and getting back with their baby daddy.

[@njpme]

Or just raise their damn kids and leave dating until they are grown. Who wants to sign up for that shit?

[@terrillt426]

Awwwwww this made a teardrop form at the edge of my eye socket. These allergies sometimes..The grace compassion and empty 👌🏾 She is sweet but still couldn't do a relationship with her. 4 different poppa bears? # hall and Oates I can't go for that. No can do.